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What Men REALLY Want in a Woman 

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@SwitchTVKenya
@SwitchTVKenya 4 года назад
Do not forget to subscribe to our RU-vid channel.. Click here to subscribe -- ru-vid.com
@thapisu
@thapisu 4 года назад
This is still a very valid discussion now as it was earlier in the year. Thank you Joyce
@sthembileprecious7045
@sthembileprecious7045 4 года назад
I think I need help,my man says I have mood swing how to deal with them.
@barbz-maz9628
@barbz-maz9628 4 года назад
Please can we have subtitles when you speak in your language. I enjoy your shows bt get lost when you switch to your language. Im Zimbabwean.
@finashilongo2922
@finashilongo2922 4 года назад
please speak english throughout or at least put subtitles
@thefashionmechanic
@thefashionmechanic 3 года назад
Please can you speak English please? Or please you can add a subtitle please. This is your Nigerian fan Benjamin Zulu
@TimBiketi
@TimBiketi 4 года назад
My answer is date with a purpose. Your relationship with God will define which partner you have.
@estherphiri764
@estherphiri764 4 года назад
100%true so true
@sallykimaru953
@sallykimaru953 4 года назад
I agree.
@carowanjiku3126
@carowanjiku3126 4 года назад
Well said
@vanessaubuntu248
@vanessaubuntu248 4 года назад
So true
@jerushaigombo
@jerushaigombo 4 года назад
Spot on!
@lailaempressoftheeast9171
@lailaempressoftheeast9171 4 года назад
He's right ladies .... Do not tell a man what you want in a man.
@mariamajiboye1011
@mariamajiboye1011 3 года назад
Wow
@anne-mariekosh5010
@anne-mariekosh5010 4 года назад
This man is so hilarious yet so wise. I could listen to him all day.
@nyaxx38
@nyaxx38 4 года назад
Insecurities when a man tracks you and where you are going. And when they judge how you are looking. Woooza
@Busi_Mbasa
@Busi_Mbasa 4 года назад
I disovered this channel recently and have been binge watching. I am loving Benjamin's teachings.
@dumisilen4890
@dumisilen4890 4 года назад
Me too
@nabwiregloria
@nabwiregloria 3 года назад
Me too😭😹
@happinessnyanchokaonunda7576
Me as well
@TheLilly
@TheLilly 4 года назад
After having watched a couple of videos of him here, I can confidently say that this guy is LEGIT!! His advice is very relevant and applicable to both men and women equally. I also like how he goes straight to the point with whatever he has to say🎯. I'm gonna keep listening.
@bernardmuthemba7034
@bernardmuthemba7034 4 года назад
Just started let me hear what he got to say
@pamojaness2007
@pamojaness2007 4 года назад
"True love is jealous but not possessive" good one indeed 👍👌
@Alehsam
@Alehsam 3 года назад
Good girls are not flattered by your achievements.😊 we look for character and integrity.
@amosleonard1652
@amosleonard1652 3 года назад
2021 ..you said it.. 😍😍😍😍
@joycekiarie417
@joycekiarie417 3 года назад
Well no that's wrong achievement is what makes men attractive because high status means He will be able to provide for the family
@fatmaabdalla1
@fatmaabdalla1 3 года назад
True
@a.muchemi4360
@a.muchemi4360 3 года назад
Yes money we make it ourselves, for more than two decade I HV done it
@Dymessweetbakes
@Dymessweetbakes 3 года назад
Unfortunately character and integrity alone don’t pay the bills
@ronnyc3886
@ronnyc3886 3 года назад
As a man, I am motivated to be the best version of myself for myself and for my queens.
@bethiekitui1920
@bethiekitui1920 3 года назад
Wooow "true love is jealous but not possessive" I love it
@sallykimaru953
@sallykimaru953 4 года назад
Don't give exclusivity to a man who hasn't earned it.Well taken in. Really inspired to start my own RU-vid Channel:)
@ekrahmatu2799
@ekrahmatu2799 4 года назад
Christian hypergamy
@orapronobisbet6909
@orapronobisbet6909 4 года назад
Good advise i like it
@SoAnesu
@SoAnesu 3 года назад
Hope you do!
@soledadwangui2921
@soledadwangui2921 4 года назад
Ati we have learned fools😂😂 this man has wisdom
@jkedmond
@jkedmond 4 года назад
Ugandan here too Benjamin is just too obsessive Cant stop watching, he is someone really inspiring and awareness awakening.
@KenyanAtHeart
@KenyanAtHeart 4 года назад
Obsessive or Addictive?
@jkedmond
@jkedmond 4 года назад
@@KenyanAtHeart I think its obsessive Addiction not exactly Tsup Peris
@ifeanyimaduegbuna4455
@ifeanyimaduegbuna4455 4 года назад
Could you please carry on the conversation in English. Non Swahili speakers are missing out on vital information. Much love.
@normanmoriasi49
@normanmoriasi49 4 года назад
Non English too might be missing😀😁
@winnyakoth6194
@winnyakoth6194 4 года назад
happy
@winnyakoth6194
@winnyakoth6194 4 года назад
happy
@winnyakoth6194
@winnyakoth6194 4 года назад
happy
@harrietacquah2545
@harrietacquah2545 4 года назад
You just voiced my thoughts
@baryl3969
@baryl3969 2 года назад
So true. “Be blank but polite so that you can study him.” I do this all the time, give men space to be himself and I just observe and the answers are always there.
@ShiaGirl18
@ShiaGirl18 4 года назад
I went on a date with a young man. He knew I have a vehicle the first time we met. We met at the restaurant, but for the rest of the date I parked my car and rode with him in his car to the next location.
@MaiWarie05
@MaiWarie05 4 года назад
I am from Zimbabwe, I looooove this show. But I feel I loose a lot of important information when you switch from English 😭😭😭
@zhakatamelody9323
@zhakatamelody9323 3 года назад
Taura hako
@namubirushirat6472
@namubirushirat6472 Год назад
Me too we need translation really
@MsKanyi
@MsKanyi 4 года назад
Here representing the "self contained" women 🙋🏻‍♀️ with no apologies. Men should be confident enough to accommodate accomplished women who are go getters but also be ambitious in their own selves. Not trying to downgrade the woman a.k.a #enemiesofprogress 😒
@dikeledijane8186
@dikeledijane8186 3 года назад
Maybe this man will be an answer to African countries, cause the mindset of most African men are so limited and they are so self-centered, power eager, stereotypes, selfish autocratic etc.
@petma5551
@petma5551 3 года назад
Wah, Kali Ms Kanyi, am raising my daughter to be a bit self contained. This life you never know.
@TheTabbym
@TheTabbym 3 года назад
been this unapologetic self contained women. i got married to a man who tried to change who i am n downgrade me, i had to drop his sorry ass
@elishafry476
@elishafry476 Год назад
I guess according to you women are perfect and changing needs to happen to men only and you call us selfish nkt!! Education needs to happen to both
@crochetwithcharity
@crochetwithcharity 4 года назад
A driven man looks for a driven woman.. Full of energy in this discussion
@loicembogo9793
@loicembogo9793 4 года назад
I have been listening to advise about relationship from foreigners I am glad finally we have sharp mind in Kenya. I thank God for you sir, keep going.
@albertbwana6332
@albertbwana6332 4 года назад
Hi loice
@divinegirl5670
@divinegirl5670 4 года назад
Same
@catherinewambui5266
@catherinewambui5266 4 года назад
Same,
@a.muchemi4360
@a.muchemi4360 3 года назад
We have all, only we need to be confident with our talents and he is ...
@isadorascarlett1028
@isadorascarlett1028 3 года назад
Hope it's not Kevin Samuel
@rebsjoy6892
@rebsjoy6892 3 года назад
Im so happy listening to this topic, cause my husband left me when i started making money and we went for counselling but his response was he want a divorce cause everything is done by my wife , the councillor from Zambia asked him did your wife ever say bad things about you he replied he just feel that way. Remember most women have higher positions then men now in Africa ! Please men of Africa accept us.
@nancyndichu8088
@nancyndichu8088 4 года назад
I have become regular here. Learning each day. Now i know mistakes i have made before. Narcissistic people suffocate you within the 1st week of dating..
@monicamwaush5119
@monicamwaush5119 3 года назад
@Sabina Moraa sorry my dia
@harrietacquah2545
@harrietacquah2545 4 года назад
When a guy asks me what I'm looking for in a man my answer is "he should be who he is"
@soleilantillean30
@soleilantillean30 4 года назад
Great answer👍🏽
@Rhenadhis
@Rhenadhis 4 года назад
Short and sweet
@MegaLadylove2012
@MegaLadylove2012 4 года назад
Mines I will know when I see it
@maureenishabor8036
@maureenishabor8036 4 года назад
Next time tell him you will know him when you find him.period
@sallyrahabnyawira1856
@sallyrahabnyawira1856 4 года назад
luv u
@ahuriladaniel9849
@ahuriladaniel9849 3 года назад
Everything he speaks i feel boom i have done every mistake 😂😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 not too bad i am just 21years
@wildangel4452
@wildangel4452 2 года назад
Ain’t you lucky!
@Aritul
@Aritul 3 года назад
12:24-12:25 When you want to know what a man wants, don't describe what you want yourself. Sound advice! Steve Harvey said something similar on his talk show. You have to observe the man to see what his true character is.
@anyangophelister9702
@anyangophelister9702 2 года назад
This is true ,it has always been my weakness
@mariangorety3280
@mariangorety3280 4 года назад
Your sense of humour kills me Benjamin. Anyway may God bless you for your teachings. Joyce,, I just love how calm you are always. Baraka
@fatmanasir6691
@fatmanasir6691 3 года назад
Here for the first time and I love Benjamin's advice, tips.. and Joyce's discussions. You are talking to the 40s too. Learning never ends
@isaacwangai254
@isaacwangai254 4 года назад
Shine as the Noonday Sun Sir!! You are brilliant! May thy rising be evident to all and sundry!!
@DandyKenny
@DandyKenny 4 года назад
Zulu mentored me when was in form four and since then have liked the guy..Zulu we emea vau
@lucynjuguna9653
@lucynjuguna9653 3 года назад
U r very lucky
@stellamaries744
@stellamaries744 3 года назад
Ur lucky
@carolinenzau994
@carolinenzau994 3 года назад
Vau vau
@trishtrish2349
@trishtrish2349 4 года назад
AND THAT IS WHY WOMEN ARE ADVISED NOT TO SLEEP WITH MEN UNTIL THEY GET MARRIED.
@missliz_
@missliz_ 4 года назад
💯💯
@sallykimaru953
@sallykimaru953 4 года назад
I agree
@Austin_ka
@Austin_ka 4 года назад
This is a terrible idea
@trishtrish2349
@trishtrish2349 4 года назад
@@Austin_ka why do you say it is a terrible idea?
@Austin_ka
@Austin_ka 4 года назад
@@trishtrish2349 How can you tell if you are sexually compatible to your partner? Sometimes its either you are compatible or not.
@oluwaseunodunsi8142
@oluwaseunodunsi8142 3 года назад
I used to feel bad when I turned down short guys. I'm relatively tall as a lady so I've always wanted someone taller than me so thank you Zulu for not making me feel bad about this.
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
@durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 года назад
My dear dont ever feel bad cos men dont feel bad about whatever they prefer in women, whether it is a particular complexion, breast size, bum size etc 😂😂 1,65 meter which is not short and also not so tall but I want to be able to wear heels and still not look down on a man.
@oluwaseunodunsi8142
@oluwaseunodunsi8142 3 года назад
@@durbansaladyinaccra2173 yes o thank you ma. This so so true and I can totally relate.
@shodapad07
@shodapad07 2 года назад
Me I like tall girl ladies o. Where are you based in fine tall lady?
@sharonbenson8120
@sharonbenson8120 Год назад
​@@shodapad07 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@b.m709
@b.m709 4 года назад
I really enjoy what I learn from these conversations! I even love it when you switch to Swahili, it reminds me of the power of being African, our languages are so beautiful. I personally don’t understand Swahili but I feel like I understand 🤣 when you talk, I make up my understanding as I go along!
@Terryn_Wangui
@Terryn_Wangui 4 года назад
Swahili is so beautiful
@DevotionsWithSiwe
@DevotionsWithSiwe 3 года назад
Me too 🤣🤣🤣 I'm even willing to learn Swahili through RU-vid tutorials
@princessmk6552
@princessmk6552 4 года назад
Wisdom in this interview is priceless.
@hgffhhbty3053
@hgffhhbty3053 3 года назад
Wao wao..am lucky am not married but already 30 ..but i look young my body is small...i can now make the right decesions..bless joyce & zulu.
@bulelwamthembu8839
@bulelwamthembu8839 4 года назад
much love Benjamin from South Africa🇿🇦
@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 года назад
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you........
@joyceoyedele3705
@joyceoyedele3705 3 года назад
Love the hair Joyce! Yasssss!!! On the topic though, be very aware of narcissists and sociopaths! Insecurity hubs. Loving the conversation... more English please for your audience in England 🙏🏾
@wendydiana9347
@wendydiana9347 4 года назад
I am so in love with Benjamin Zulu,I am glad I found you just when am preparing for this journey may God bless you and continue giving you wisdom.
@AtabongMillie
@AtabongMillie 4 года назад
I like this guy. Kenyan men describe a wife as a house help.
@dikeledijane8186
@dikeledijane8186 3 года назад
They are running mad,is there any parents that can raise a daughter to become a nanny,those men they need psychologists
@nakamijunic5844
@nakamijunic5844 3 года назад
All African men not only Kenyans
@nabulyasumayya5502
@nabulyasumayya5502 3 года назад
@@nakamijunic5844 not only Africans most men in saudi they have just allowed them to drive a car
@dikeledijane8186
@dikeledijane8186 3 года назад
Ag xem!!! That's more African men's small mind set.that's women abuse.
@mbrilliB
@mbrilliB 3 года назад
💯
@marywambua8795
@marywambua8795 4 года назад
I used to dislike Benjamin but my opinion changed after a heartbreak and I realized what he was saying was right. I was just blinded ...
@harrietacquah2545
@harrietacquah2545 4 года назад
I can listen to this man all day
@dianeat_the_beach3741
@dianeat_the_beach3741 4 года назад
I love what you are saying, brimming with wisdom and sound advice, THANK YOU!!!
@amosleonard1652
@amosleonard1652 3 года назад
😍
@Africangyal
@Africangyal 4 года назад
Wow. I am immensely impressed by Benjamin. He is life smart and manages to deliver serious psychological truths with a sense of humour. I need to binge watch his other interviews.
@hellengitahi8979
@hellengitahi8979 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “even on earth 🌍 you can’t tell who is for real , who is fake” Benjamin Zulu is here to keep it real. This been a fun show👍👍👍
@starpressprinters6393
@starpressprinters6393 3 года назад
Them: what do you love doing while free, Me: i Listen and repeat all Benjamin zulu's Convos period. This man is wise
@jovybaky6848
@jovybaky6848 Год назад
I can say that all people who have come a cross your teachings are so so blessed.....am blessed too 👍👍👍👍
@howoriginal1986
@howoriginal1986 4 года назад
I've watched 3 interviews of Benjamin in a row. This man is very wise
@Terryn_Wangui
@Terryn_Wangui 4 года назад
Am literally watching every video I see his right now
@estherannemacharia8282
@estherannemacharia8282 4 года назад
Am so getting inspired, am glad I came across this, Benjamin you're so right, thank you for this!
@gracemohaulegwale1351
@gracemohaulegwale1351 4 года назад
Im first listening here, I'm learning a lot thank you, please translate down with English when you speak your language so we can understand everything please thanx, Benjamin Zulu and everyone thank You
@PhiloLutta
@PhiloLutta 3 года назад
My goodness listening to Benjamin is like therapy for me..thanks sooo much for this program and your expertise in relationships.
@tosinoyegunsen
@tosinoyegunsen 4 года назад
I love how they switch from English and Swahili even though I dont understand a word from the later.
@FM-bk4mg
@FM-bk4mg 4 года назад
I konw , we are in the same boat .
@perpetualkanzie6156
@perpetualkanzie6156 3 года назад
Me too
@nurugizani3075
@nurugizani3075 3 года назад
I can teach you
@sandrakasina5214
@sandrakasina5214 3 года назад
M nw obsessed about watching yo interviews....Mr Benjamin....great advicer....love frm Zimbabwe🇿🇼
@mosepro.1423
@mosepro.1423 4 года назад
Wow Benjamin Zulu, good job. i will never forget the first day i met you and the time you took me to a mission in kitui. Good job bro. KUDOS
@rahabnyambura2459
@rahabnyambura2459 3 года назад
I love this guy for free, he is so real.
@patsyaspinall-urrows3836
@patsyaspinall-urrows3836 4 года назад
I love listening to Benjamin Zulu. A valuable message to all, humorous too!
@tinnahflower3720
@tinnahflower3720 4 года назад
Benjamin is everything I swear🤣🤣🤣🤣 thanks Joyce en Zulu for ths educative topic
@richild3967
@richild3967 4 года назад
I love this man 😂 he’s so right I’ve been single so long I don’t know if I can need a man. I want one though.
@TheRelaxationZone1
@TheRelaxationZone1 4 года назад
Sister girl I'm joining your table 😂😂😂 This man spilled truth
@Kipronoh_With_The_h
@Kipronoh_With_The_h 4 года назад
Give it a chance.
@keziahnyambura3852
@keziahnyambura3852 4 года назад
Wondering where how n when will get one whom we understand each other
@juzminidaniella2950
@juzminidaniella2950 4 года назад
@@TheRelaxationZone1 me too am joining 😆😆😆
@orapronobisbet6909
@orapronobisbet6909 4 года назад
Me too
@paulinekamau7618
@paulinekamau7618 4 года назад
Eti 70% is the Best you can get in this WORLD. Very TRUE 🤣😂
@weruntogether8363
@weruntogether8363 3 года назад
😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
@Faithkerry752
@Faithkerry752 3 года назад
Hahaa...I can't stop laughing...
@gideonalechebichy4732
@gideonalechebichy4732 3 года назад
When did relationship discussions become this interesting and fun. Lol Benjamin Zulu.
@bobbygi4929
@bobbygi4929 4 года назад
Wow!! This guy is really enlightened he talks with a lot of Zeal and he totally makes sense.
@annnjambi6811
@annnjambi6811 3 года назад
New sub ..I can’t get enough of Benjamin
@KenyanAtHeart
@KenyanAtHeart 4 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣very educational and funny!! I can hear Mr Zulu for hours and hours....👍👍
@auneabed6982
@auneabed6982 4 года назад
I like this kid of talk, this is gorgeous, thanks for being not selfish🤗be blessed guys🇳🇦 from Namibia.
@mwametallic7668
@mwametallic7668 4 года назад
I like this man already...
@annalisekathomi2336
@annalisekathomi2336 3 года назад
This man says it as it is! I love it
@Meaw687
@Meaw687 3 года назад
Ladys don't switch off your dignity!
@speciozaayieko59
@speciozaayieko59 3 года назад
Everytime I come to RU-vid I must watch benjamin speak...pure wisdom.
@ruthmimi2364
@ruthmimi2364 4 года назад
I should HV learnt to listen to you like immediately I was a teen.nevertheless its never too late!
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 4 года назад
I just love this show. Thank u Benjamin...so much truth here!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾
@lucieserero7475
@lucieserero7475 4 года назад
Gatta love this talk.. Wow.. Wish I knew this 20 years ago🤔It is well. Thank you Benjamin 🙏
@shawnrandallbutler33
@shawnrandallbutler33 4 года назад
He's is so refreshing!
@richild3967
@richild3967 4 года назад
I need this guy as my mentor 😩❤️😂
@jodymarket9112
@jodymarket9112 3 года назад
I like this man, very informative video. But I could not understand half of the interview. I wish he had stayed with English and made another video in his language. He has a lot of important information to share but make it easy to understand. Thanks again fir your video keep up the good work
@susanjoseph173
@susanjoseph173 3 года назад
This guy comes on kwitu usa so funny ... singles like me lets listen...This guy is so hilarious napenda wewe bure 😂
@marionchebet3770
@marionchebet3770 4 года назад
This is dooope meeeen!How was i so blind that i couldn't see this channel long ago.Anyways, it isn't late at all,infact the right time to learn.Thank you for this lessons.
@imaradeng954
@imaradeng954 4 года назад
Swahili is National, Regional and the largest native single use Language in Africa. Emphasizing in swahili really drills it in. Good job Mrs Wahiga and Mr Zulu.
@sedemejersonvlogs
@sedemejersonvlogs 4 года назад
But some of us dont understand the language.
@petma5551
@petma5551 3 года назад
@@sedemejersonvlogs I think they think to understand that this show is international
@ekomsimeon7736
@ekomsimeon7736 3 года назад
I stumbled on this page and I love Dr. Benjamin and Joyce you guys are amazing. i am totally hooked. Please I am Nigerian, can you guys interpret your language in English so that I can flow very well. thank you so much.
@nizigiyimana7714
@nizigiyimana7714 3 года назад
Submission does not mean weak 👌👌👌
@lissajeruu8301
@lissajeruu8301 3 года назад
Waaa nilikua wapi mwanzoni..it's just today..by it's realities.. thanks brother Benjamin na wasikilizaji
@fionagrace1318
@fionagrace1318 4 года назад
Wah,I just discovered this guy😂😂😂. Hee! He is so practical and (funny as hell) yet has great insights.
@jaelachieng6338
@jaelachieng6338 4 года назад
@Benjamin.... honestly......I need your prophesional services.....@Achiengjael72@gmail.co.ke!.... Please reach out!
@wairimu9113
@wairimu9113 4 года назад
You should watch man kush as well.. He's just as hilarious yet wise
@deneesedarkwa1577
@deneesedarkwa1577 4 года назад
I love this program and this gentleman is very wise, can you speak more English since I am a fun from Ghana. I do not understand the local language and I miss a few things when you switch to your dialect.
@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 года назад
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you........
@a.muchemi4360
@a.muchemi4360 3 года назад
@@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 Nigerians na waoohhhh hahaha
@masebabatsoinnocentia176
@masebabatsoinnocentia176 4 года назад
"date a person who fulfills your appetite" Wow
@luciamhango1804
@luciamhango1804 3 года назад
Hello guys...I am Lucia Mhango from Malawi since I started watching this channel my mind set change
@EmilyChanga
@EmilyChanga 3 года назад
I have just discovered these videos and am loving this ...this man is speaking truths ...please add interpretation to the Swahili bits x
@jeffmacharia735
@jeffmacharia735 3 года назад
there things you can't say in English and even when translated they lose their meaning sorry for that
@emillykyokusiima9531
@emillykyokusiima9531 Год назад
I wish I watched this like two years back. Thanks Benjamin .
@joskyshams4758
@joskyshams4758 4 года назад
My goodness thanks for this show.
@lovelykambua4548
@lovelykambua4548 3 года назад
Where were u when I was 21 Zulu.....? I wish I saw this a bit earlier.. But it's not too late... am still learning... am 24 now...
@kihiuwanjira6921
@kihiuwanjira6921 4 года назад
This is so DEEEEP!!! Wow! Wisdom at its best, more blessings Zulu.
@irenemaina7197
@irenemaina7197 4 года назад
Joyce, how are you not rolling on the floor laughing....😂😂
@vivianmurania9459
@vivianmurania9459 4 года назад
I wonder ,the way this man is funny and wise😄😄😄😄😄
@elizabethmuoki4455
@elizabethmuoki4455 4 года назад
Great wisdom..I really love it
@thedisciplinedtrader2024
@thedisciplinedtrader2024 4 года назад
Men i love this man. He needs his own channel
@thefashionmechanic
@thefashionmechanic 3 года назад
He sure does
@beforeido6265
@beforeido6265 4 года назад
Thank you for blessing us with such wisdom
@Dymessweetbakes
@Dymessweetbakes 3 года назад
I love this show but can we please have subtitles for those of us not understanding the native language. Thanks in advance, much love from the Uk🤍✨
@janekanyiha5480
@janekanyiha5480 4 года назад
minute 26 ....Once i bought a seat for my house and this guy i was with had the guts to ask where i got the mney from....I was like dude, first of all im a banker...i got a job why would you think i cant afford a seat,,,,that was the end of us man,,,,i felt so controlled so insulted.
@lifeofraphi_c1099
@lifeofraphi_c1099 3 года назад
He was projecting his brokenness by your financial progression
@ivylillace
@ivylillace 3 года назад
You did well
@annmathews1312
@annmathews1312 3 года назад
A very wise man there. He is spitting fire. I just stumbled on this channel and I am hooked already. Kindly reduce the code switching
@oluwaseunodunsi8142
@oluwaseunodunsi8142 3 года назад
Zulu is just making me feel like I'm still human "introverts chat better than having physical conversations". I used to think I have a problem.
@rizzymay450
@rizzymay450 3 года назад
Me too 😉😉
@blessingmatabaro218
@blessingmatabaro218 4 года назад
This man's saying is very effective.
@josephinekimaro761
@josephinekimaro761 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂uuuh! This man though! My ribs are not safe right now
@sanyuable
@sanyuable 4 года назад
say it again , there r a lot of narcissist looking for women they can control . its very frightening.
@marywambui9132
@marywambui9132 4 года назад
Congratulations Mr Benjamin for good teaching I cant get enough for your teaching may God continue giving more wisdom
@bevss9222
@bevss9222 3 года назад
This is an eye-opener! I hope they did this video 4 years ago, the time before I entered a relationship.
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