What Nobody Tells You About Divorce | Kingsley Okonkwo 

Thank you so much sir for this clarification, there are lots of confusing and misleading messages on Divorce which has led to people suffering / dieing in silence. So much shame is also associated with Divorce especially amongst Christians, nobody wants to be tagged as ungodly. I am glad you talked about this, God bless you sir.

I admire the wisdom you and your wife have. You don't just say things out of emotions. One can always sence the wisdom and discernment in your teachings. More grace sir🙏 🙌

Renew your mind not remove your mind.I love that.🙂

God bless you sir. This is indeed a word in season!!!

Very enlightening. Thank you Pastor Kingsley

Thank you Pastor for this video, very insightful.

God has called us to peace... so whether in or out of marriage find peace with urself God and humanity as much as is sanely possible

Thank you Pastor K for this video! Truly a blessing.

Such a BLESSING, thank you.

Thank you Pastor K for this confirmatory message.

Powerful and well explained teaching. God bless you Sir

Thanks so much sir for this teaching

Thanks Pastor k for this eye opener,God bless you

Thank you sir for this eye 👁 opening God bless you more

Thanks for the clarification. God bless all you do to save families.

Thank you very much for your councelling

I was really blessed listening to this.God bless you sir.

So much wisdom Pastor Kingsley! God bless you sir.

Bless you Prophet. My conscience is clear

God bless you Sir Was actually expecting this message for long.... You just cleared my doubts Thank you Sir once more

So much wisdom in this video. I'm happy watching it. God bless you 🙏

My soul is so relieved with this message God bless you Sir for being truthful with the word of God 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Thank you so much pastor K. I have been worried about this all these years but now I will change my prayer points. My marriage will be the best and it will last for a lifetime in Jesus name 🙏.

Thank you very much for this teaching sir, God bless you

I will continue to eat your messages daily to guard me regarding marriage life I’m so glad i found you on RU-vid God bless you Sir 🙌🙌🙌🙌.

Thank you much Sir for this explanation. May God bless you and continue to give you more to make greater impact.

Amazing much enlightened u either be happily in marriage or stay single and be happy don't die in marriage be free in both cases

Thanks for sharing pastor K

Thank you Pastor Kingsley for clarifying this topic. The people who are quoting God hates divorce are not also quoting God hates fornication, adultery and abortion. Let's emphasis everything God hates and not focus on one so that our eyes will open to how reconciliations of these acts after they happen. At least we can stop demonising divorced people instead of ourselves.

I have been enlightened. God bless you sir

I pray this bless someone out there

Pastor Kingsley, it is God that will continue to bless you.

Wow what a Wisdom, I always knew God will not put His ppl in boundage the way ppl explained remarried thing

God bless you for this clarification.

This so powerful…thank you sir

Very powerful . I learnt a lot .God bless your ministry

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You are correct in all the interpretations. These are my own take on the verses in the Bible on divorce. I studied divorce in the Bible thoroughly years back.

Hey Kingsley , God send you to me with this teaching ❗️I have been wrestling in prayer about what the Lord said about divorce but you really educated me sir. May the Lord increase you more and more ❗️ I was very torn about what Pastor Paul Enenche said about divorce and surprised that other general's are not bringing him to order .

Chai Thank you for this superior knowledge

Great one PK. always learning from you. Please can you do a video on how to live and move on after a divorce/separation/heartbreak. God bless you sir.

I feel much more enlightened in my views on divorce and remarrying. PK God bless you for sharing.

Good day Pastor Kingsley. I enjoy your Teachings. they have blessed me. I also enjoy the fact that your research goes beyond the English Bible. I was listening and when you Quoted "thou shall not kill" and you explained the context for that command, In the NKJV it says "thou shall not Murder" - Murder is premeditated (out of cruelty or some mischievous reason) Killing can be an act of self-defense. My point, Does it say Murder or kill in the Greek? Thank you.

The Lord bless and honour you sir

Two things stand out for me in Malachi 2:16. God says "I hate divorce" and "Don't cheat". This means that God knows that cheating leads to divorce. This is corroborated by Jesus Christ in the New Testament. So, please people should stop quoting Almighty God out of context just to keep partners in unhappy marriages or justify themselves. Thank you.

Very clear Biblical principles on Separation and Divorce. Thank you and God bless u Ps Kingley

Wow! Quite enlightening

Thank you so much Pastor for that eye opener showing why God Hates Divorce which is primarily because of the impact. it has. Thanks again

Thank you sir

Wow!!. So much wisdom. Thanks so much for breaking this subject down to my understanding. I have been struggling with this for the past 15yrs since I was separated from my husband. I was just stuck with the words "God hates divorce", so I felt guilty about getting a divorce. But now that's its broken down, I know what to do. God bless you richly sir.

All I can say is... may God continue to bless you Sir. I've never heard it more detailed, elaborate and it's so clear. Thank you so much. Please Sir what are the useless reasons for divorce?

Pastor K thank you so much for adding more meaning to this very important institution in the body of Christ. May God truly bless you even more and give you even more Wisdom and insight to teach his children. I have this one question Is traditional marriage considered as a full marriage or the Bible is talking just only of the legal and church wedding ? In that note what about separation at the level of traditional marriage? Does that reflect all what the Lord mentioned in the Bible concerning separation and divorce or where Can this actually be placed I mean under the prospective of marriage?

Points to consider: 1. Marriage is untill death (Roman's 7:2-3). Therefore, remarriage while your "first" spouse is still alive, constitutes adultery. The "exception clause" in Matthew 19:9 seems to more support the Bridal View when a careful look at the original Greek words for "fornication" and "adultery" are taken into consideration. In a previous passage, Joseph was going to "divorce" Mary, even though they were not married - they were engaged and Joseph assumed she had been unfaithful (committed fornication NOT adultery - since they were at that stage not yet married). Thoughts to the contrary may (and perhaps more likely) constitute assumptions. I hope it is okay to share my understanding on this topic from what I think is a truer convergence to biblical guidance on this topic, especially in light of Jesus' statement in Luke 16:18. 2. On the grounds of Abuse based on Exodus 21:9-11... are we under the Mosaic Law? Galatians makes it clear that we are not. 3. On the grounds of Abandonment based on 1 Corinthians 7:15... the Greek word for "bound" or "enslaved" is not the same as the Greek word for the "marriage bond" (see Romans 7:2-3). It seems that only death dissolves the marriage bond.

I like that you said, God says renew your mind not remove your mind

Pastor Kingsley thank God for you. You're just the best. And I'll always always not overlook Pastor Mildred when I thank God for you, cos if she was anyhow, your clarity in these teachings wouldn't be soooooo crystal, and your method of passing the knowledge to us would be so simplified. Pastor Mildred...you're a "good thing" indeed. God bless you both some more, keep you and keep replenishing you. Amen.

Thank you so much for this powerful teaching... God bless you, pastor K...

This is so profound.Thank you Pastor K

Enlightening ❤️❤️❤️

I learnt a lot.... More wisdom sir

God bless you sir

Thank you so very much, God bless you God bless you, we have been separated for over 15years and he refused to give divorce I got stuck, and he is with another woman yet he refuses to sign my divorce paper. May God come Through for me oo. God bless you ooo

Nice teaching

We really need to understand contexts before accepting certain conclusions and resolutions

Thank you very much Pastor K for the clarification, God bless you

Thanks

Thank you Sir for this explanation. Please Sir, could you kindly do a teaching on rapture and second coming of Jesus. Thank you Sir.

Thanks Pastor K. Really learned a lot. Pastor K this your hair di sweet me ooo. hahahaha

God bless you pastor. Here I am, almost 5 years later, 30 years old thinking I am going to be alone forever because I was told I can never remarry.

Good experience

Listening

Sir you have shattered table for me ohhhhhh

I just listened to this talk and I was so enlightened.Am going through some issues and will need guidance.How can one reach you

Thanks #dralieaotor for everything, my partner is back and we are living happily like never before❤️💯

This is Good thank you PK

What can one do if the church one attends and servers doesn't believe in remarriage after proper divorce? Thankyou.

What about when the other refused tor accept divorce or sign the divorce papers

Thank you this has made things so clear for me when I was so concerned about the meaning of God's word concerning Divorce.

Heyyy!!!!!! Hmmmm!!! Pastor! You just brought me clarity. But please There's this thing I don't understand about marriage, divorce and re-marrying. Especially going to the "altar of God" to remarry. Pls school me. Is it normal?

Hope this goes too for men if they commit adultery

That makes a lot of sense! But fear will not allow me tell my mum because she attends a church that twists the words in the Bible in order to control the members and I'm not ready for any argument 😩

Unfortunately we will be surprised on the day of judgement for setting our own starndard.

I can I schedule for counseling ?

Good morning sir,thank you for this message sir, I have a question for you sir, What do you as a wife If your husband is not talking to you, No communication what so ever Never Admire you Never praise you ,, take use out ,,support you in every areas of your life Maltreated your child from another Man, your first love who is late now Never take you on holiday Makes you feel so lonely You supported him in the house financially But never say thank you nor any sign of appreciation, Never celebrate you, on Mother’s Day Birthday Christmas Valentine’s Day, no gift for me on all of this celebration period, I do got him an expensive gift but never say thank you or appreciate it Never spent time with me Even having sex, he doesn’t appreciate still etc

My understanding of the word Fornication in this text ,The Jews only used to marry virgins, so on the wedding day if the man finds out the woman has committed fornication he has the right to divorce. Because married people can't fall into fornication but they can fall into adultery. Please help Pastor ?

This is balanced view of the subject. When you talk of abuse it seems you assumed that only the woman is the victim. What happens when the man is the victim of the abuse? In Africa where spiritism is rampart, what happens when one of them is into witchcraft and there is evidence of use of witchcraft to manipulate the other. Witchcraft manipulation can be fatal. What do you advice where witchcraft is evidently involved?

@ Pastor K, you did not say anything about what Matthew 5 vs 32 means.

Let's practice scriptures with sense ✨💦🙏

Please sir how can one contact you privately?

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Sir, the Greek word used for the “putting away” and “divorcement” are one and the same. Doesn’t that mean there’s no difference between putting away and divorce? Pls explain. Thank you Sir

I have a question

I’m not married

Pastor how can a married person fall into fornication,is in it that a married person can only fall into adultery?

how do I do investigation to see if a divorced man flogged his first wife

What if your husband doesn't want to get marriage counseling & you wait for over 2 yrs???

Good afternoon pastor Kingsley. This your message is not audible. Thanks

Just read my Bible again. Matthew 19:9 it clearly said divorce not separation.

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Thou shall not kill does not include mosquitoes.