How I Bounced Back From A Bad Marriage | Part 3 | Kingsley Okonkwo & Dr. Olumide Emmanuel 

This pastor is so real... The pain of divorce is the reason God hates it. He doesn't us to have to go through it

I hope his first daughter and son watch this! And we pray for reconciliation and healing

No matter how bad a spouse was to you, never deprive them of seeing their kids!!

😢pko knows so much about marriage but throughout this series, he's been more on the listening side. That alone speaks to his wisdom❤

I have been sobbing listening to this man of God. He went through all these and he is still standing. God will restore you. Your children will reconnect with you very soon I pray IJN

There's no problem we can not solve except the problem we can not discuss 👌

I'm in tears now, people go through a lot in the name of marriage,Lord please help me not to make mistakes in marriage 🙏😭

How to move on: 1. Be healed and it takes a while 2. Find out what went wrong. What mistake did you do? What lessons did you learn? 3. When you meet someone, be open, transparent, full disclosure with them. Investigate each other, ask the right/relevant questions. Help each other heal from past hurts 4. Don't compare your past with your present. Know each other together because everyone you marry came with their own baggage. So enter by faith. 5. Commit to make it work 6. Pray to marry the right person Marrying a divorcee: 1. See things from their own lens 2. Recognize they have a baggage. Are you ready for all the stigma and all? 3. Have mature mentors 4. Use the wisdom of God to strengthen others How can we reduce level of divorce: 1. Premarital counseling. Churches should have in house facilities. Help your parishioners to prepare for marriage. You can't manufacture the weapons of war on the battle field. Have post marriage training for couples (Marriage Enrichment program) 2. Ensure genuine salvation, discipleship st church level because many in church are not transformed

Pst Kingsley is Igbo,Pst Olumide is Yoruba but they all sat down together in unity and in love because of one purpose,vision and agenda to foster unity love,empathy to humanity and mankind.For the purpose of their coming together no one said your Igbo your Yoruba and 'im sure at that point in time none of them even remembered where they came from,what they had in mind was the sense of urgency to relate with themselves and with others..Bible says how wonderful it is for brethren to dwell amongst one another.Nigeria is great and has great people.Each and every tribe is beautiful and our unity in diversity is Power but until we can come to the point of understanding that we may not become a formidable force as we ought to.Everyone on this platform is Great,remember that.I'm from the North and i love both of them so much they have been a great blessing to me.Great video.Thank you very much.

I am once a member of CBC,so i witness some of this things and i was in dat meeting when he announced d divorce,and i can say that pastor olumide is real,may God continue to uphold and bring back his children

Pastor K displayed a vital skill in this recording, The Art of Listening. He knows so much yet he listens with such focus. It's not cosmetic, it's real. Gid bless you P.K,

Pastor K is such a good listener and conversationalist, no wonder PM likes him

One of the hardest thing to do for most people who are in the business of talking; is interviewing - the urge to ask & sit back is tough, Pastor Kingsley does a fine job of that 👏🏿

Man of God your children are coming back to you especially your son

A divorce is like an amputation, you survive but there's less of you - Margaret Atwood

There is no problem we can’t solve, except the problem we cannot discuss 🔑🔑🔑

I pray Pastor Olumide’s children reconnect back to him, he really needs them , I’ve learnt a lot from this conversation

Please share this video. Let it go viral. People who know the children hear this message

Praying for reconciliation with the kids 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I often say even if your husband is a bad husband to you; he deserves every right to be a good father to your kids. Don’t punish your children by denying them access to their father. It is a seed that will come back to haunt you!

I'm on the verge of divorcing as at today, but this episode really made me understands more on the dangers aftermath. I really hope my spouse's heart is turned to flesh.

This man is an incurable fun abi comedian. Still cracking jokes despite all he's been thru. E pele man of God, it is well with you

The pastor is a strong man, God will reward you for your faithfulness.

Healing is when you touch a wounded part and it no longer hurt. Healing from a failed marriage or relationship is when you remember them but laugh in response to the thoughts and memories

Pastor K’s facial expression is like “God have mercy….divorce shall not be my portion”

I wish Pastor K could bring this subject of adult having IVF for children without father. It is a trend now. A lot of woman waited waited and waited no husband. So there are creating their own family.

Most people in church are not born àgain! You're right sir.

Please Pastors, also do something on widows and widowers. The difficulties they face in having partners for marriage, how they manage sexual ouches etc

Pastor K is amazing, he allowed the man to talk and listened all through

1. Full Disclosure. 2. Do your due diligence (do not allow emotions to overrule your sense of discussion), 3. Never compare your past with your present 4. Face the reality that your spouse comes with a baggage (every spouse has a past, present, and future) 5. Learn and be committed to make it work.

Pastor Olumide is anointed!

These are healing messages. They have blessed me because I have been divorced and would not wish it on anyone. Thanks so much for the work you do. ❤

Great session. Dr Olumide don beat Pastor Kingsley tire as he dey gist. 😂😂😂😂

"People are not really transformed"...if we were, no body will tell us to do certain things..I couldn't agree more

I would love to hear this woman’s version. I give it to Dr Olamide, at the point where he talked about pregnancy, he mentioned perspective…. That from her perspective, his insistence on her going to church while pregnant could have been seen as abuse. That’s a stretch, but could there be other issues he didn’t handle well.That moment made me trust him more. Ppl demonize past partners, many times not intentionally, we protect ourselves naturally. When ppl talk about past relationships, u can almost see horns on the heads of their partners. Marry a kind person. God forbid, if things go bad, a kind ex would be considerate, no matter what.

O my GOD 😢😢. Father let Pastor reunite with his children again

The pain of Divorce is bigger than divorce.

Thank you so much sir for being vulnerable enough to show us your scars🙏🏾 May the good Lord restore you on EVERY SIDE🙏🏾

Those ignorant people who say,they don't have anything to learn from people divorced, this video is for you...

I pray that elohim will arrest your children wherever they are with this series, to reach out for you Bishop olumide in Jesus mighty name AMEN 🙏. Thank you Pk and Bishop for this series.

This is real wisdom for all, I personally remember when an amazing man was asking for my hand in marriage , all was well until he opened up about his previous marriage, I told my mum about it since my dad was late and she was ok with it but said all these things, that if I went ahead to marry him that I have to be prepared for the baggage, I thought about it and finally ended the relationship peacefully 😊

Infact the world need to hear this Man of God😢

Thank you for sharing your marriage journey. After listening to this. I have few points to share. Churches need to have a marriage counselling unit for the married ones. Problems should be discussed in marriage not swept under the carpet. Prayers sessions are good but emotional damage needs to be dealt with continuous counselling sessions until healing takes place. Most Christians marriages are going through tough times and couples are enduring the marriage instead of enjoying it. They are only patching things because of what people will say. Divorce is a very tough decision in marriage and one will live with the scares for life. We need to feed our marriages with the correct ingredients in order to get the expected meal served to us. I pray God gives us the wisdom, knowledge and kindness to feed into our marriages.

My waiting is over waiting😂😂😂😂 this pastor is shaking very strong tables. Topics that people avoid in the church..make we get sense oooo

O LORD of all power and might, we agree as the body of Christ that Your servant’s children will get in touch with him and rekindle their relationship in the name of Jesus.

I saw this happen to so many people around me when i was single and my only prayer for marriage became "GOD HAVE MERCY" .....thank You LORD for your MERCY and the PEACE i have in my marriage. If you jam Mad Man or Woman ehnnnnn‼️‼️‼️‼️ hmmmmm

God has seen that I will go through this and made you go through it so that I can be strengthen. This is the first time I am listening to marriage seminars since my separation. I didn’t even want to hear anything about marriage. I thank God for this program

No matter what happened between the husband and wife no one should keep the children away from the other. Keep your issues aside and let the children see their other parent.

Amen to the prayers I use my parents as a point of contact. They must reconcile and love themselves again like never before. I don't know how God will do it but I strongly believe it.

"Wealth is not sexually transmitted " ...wow! Pst Olumide well done!

Dr Olumide is such a courageous man. Pastor K is a good listener very mature

I have learnt a lot from this pastor's Emmanuel story,may God bring back his children to him

Divorce is one of the most painful experiences in this life. It should be avoided as much as possible!

This is so powerful.. thank you Pastor Olamide for being vulnerable to share your dark days with us. May the good lord perfect all that concerns you, and continues to strengthen you in Jesus name.

When you have a message the devil tries to make a mess of your life. Go through it knowing It’s still part of the message. The story will inspire a lot of persons, stop others from making such mistakes and cause healing in the lives of others. God bless you Sir for still standing

God may take you round but he will always lead you right! Word!

This is is really interesting. One big lesson here is that remarriage after divorce is no joke.

The wisdom of the man of God 🔥🔥🔥

Pastor Olumide is really intelligent!!!! His training strategies are a genius idea!!!

I am speechless...more Grace Man of God for sharing these deep life lessons.

Thank you Esteemed PK and Dr. Olumide. So inspiring!

Papa please try and reunite with your kids... Try reaching out to your ex relatives

As part of reading books , I recommend men to also read about menopause, it can saves us from some misunderstanding in our relationships

Thank you so much Pastor Olumide for not hiding these information from the public, sir, you are a real mentor ❤

If this man's children are in America,they have really suffered identity crises.I live in America and in sschools kids who don't know their father suffer a lot and most of them are the trouble makers in schools.There is a kind of culture in America that even if a child has a step dad, they stiill don't fit in and they keep saying I don't see my da.Even university students sadly express that emptiness.I wish this video can get to them so that they reconnect with their dad!

I’ve thoroughly enjoyed this 3-part series! Learnt soooo much!

Thank you so much Pst Olumide for your vulnerability. I am putting to action every single point you gave to help me bounce back. May God continue to supply his wisdom and knowledge to you and PK.

Truly a loaded conversation and filled with wisdom.

I felt set free by this messages

I was in a meeting in Lagos where Olumide was to be invited , one stood against it because she said he pushed away the wife. I am glad he is sharing this .

I can't really remember when I started loving and listening to Dr Olumide, he's so real and pragmatic with good emotional stability. Always cool listening to you ❤

These guys are beautiful and very enlightened ….!!…always learn loads

Thank you so much men of God.....this has surely come in handy.may God richly bless you 🙏🏾

I wish this could go on. Have listened to each part three times already. Sharing with friends asap

Pastor Olumide is my pastor-CBC and I never knew this part of his story! I indeed pray that the good Lord will connect him and his children even before he clocks 60 years. God is ever faithful and He will prove Himself!!!

Full wisdom and experience that will help us outsiders. Thank you Dr olumide

This is very revealing. I know both well and I thank God for this knowledge! Eye opening!

This three part series was beyond helpful. Thank you PK and Doc❤❤❤

This videos are so so educative, eye opening.. thank you so much PK and Bishop

This is very encouraging and insightful. Apeaks directly to my fears. Thank you Pastors

Wow the openness is amazing.. thank you sirs

When a man who the world is ready to criticized decides to take the bullet against all odds, it means God is sending a powerful message to someone. We should not just listen, but listen kindly. We should seek for help when possible

Very honest and true narrative, owning up to his mistakes.

This is powerful. Thank you very much sirs for this great knowledge given to us.

I respect this man of God. He is a pacesetter on numerous fronts.

I really like these conversations and Pst Olumide is amazing!!! So much wisdom oozing out.

Doctor you're so full of wisdom Thank you pastor Kingsley for bringing him back

Thank you Pastor Olumide and Pastor Kingsley. God bless tou both

This is awesome. So insightful and informative. God bless you sirs.

Wow ❤. This was a very real conversation. All I can say is God is faithful, what a story.

Pastor Olumide mannnn 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Post 1 year counselling - I’m sooo in support of this!

Post marriage counseling is an awesome idea!!!

Thank you pastor Kingsley and Dr olumide.. it's really an eye opening messages

I still evidently feel the grace of God on Dr Olumide.

This is a blessing to the entire world especially the body of Christ.! Full of reality and transparency!

Amen. This is more than helpful for me. Thank you Pastor.

This is so good! I have been extremely blessed. Spoke with wisdom and understanding

You cannot manufacture the weapons of war in the battle field! I am enjoying these nuggets. Thanks.

There is no problem we cannot solve except the problem we cannot discuss-Olumide

Pastor Olumide,the Lord is with you sir, i will join you to pray for those Children to return and love you...

Thank great nobles.i really appreciate. Baba you really cut across everything.respect to the wisdom of God upon you.