What's the tipping point that makes men walk away from dating? 

Mi Ke It’s really weird how acting indifferent and treating women like shit has them nipping at your heels.

I got asked this question by all the married women at work. I just said I don't see it happening. They just left it at that respectfully.

Don't ask women why they don't have kids. Don't ask a man why he isn't married. Simple.

scary thing: that is one of the most brilliant statements I ever heard, and I never thought of it that way before; perhaps it explains a lot more about those I was always envious of....

The time I realised I’m not food for some manipulative sponger, who leverages access to her body, to make me work for 30 years, whilst she is out cheating.🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️🙄🤣🤣🤣♥️

Right on, man! When they try to shame you, shame them back.

I had dinner with my father and several of his friends recently. I had never met them. So, they ask..."You married?" No. "Divorced?" No. "Kids?" No. A few seconds of silence. "How old are you? 45. Raised eyebrows. Glances exchanged. One reached for his glass and the others followed suit. Held them up and and he says, "Smaaaaaart motherfucker. Cheers, man."

and lonely

Lauren .. Nice try with the shaming tactic. No loneliness over here. No one said they didn’t deal with women at all.

E.L. Norton ... I love that, brother! Cheers! 🍻

omg--was it that bad?

@Leslie Starck 23 years of marriage was an eternity to him. He will likely enjoy Hell more

I think it’s pronounced “De loit.” It’s an accounting firm.

Nope.

Its hell...so nope. 😈

Join the club. Being a handyman and source of income is All women think of men.

Live the dream hell yah 😁

I am so happy for you ❤😊

FREEDOM IS EVERYTHING!

My income was enough to provide but not get her all the things she wants. When she tried to tell me that "all" women spend X amount on themselves a month and she doesn't and therefore I should be saving all that imaginary money, I calmly told her thats not how saving money works and no "all" women don't have this budget for non essential items. This enraged her, she completely lost it and started yelling and said she lost all respect for me, she accused me of being financially abusive and of not wanting her to have a nice life.

The people watching this BS are "bachelors" or "fuckboys." They aren't here to build a genuine relationship, they just want casual sex.

Exactly, they dodged a bullet.

Yeah, a woman that fancies a drug dealer would be a woman i would exclude from the get go.

@@leotard2536 if a "relationship" means wasting thousands of dollars "dating" different women who just want free meals and drinks, no, fuck that, I have not done that for years The women use men for free meals, and then they fuck Chad for free after that. No thanks!

@@leotard2536 nope. Just being on the bitter side of the coin too often. Not there yet. Not giving up.

Yes just get into the NFL and you'll be swimming in bitches

@@sergiorocha76 what

@@sergiorocha76 Emphasis on "bitches"

Something that, coincidentally, increases a guy's attractiveness. Counts as ignoring them and being a bad boi but with good social status/a good pay I guess.

"Woman should be a compliment to your life, not the focus" - Entrepreneurs in cars.

Even if they stayed, you would still be better off single than in a relationship.

Wonderful, good sir.

After that I'll take my brand new Porsche Cayenne for a ride and drive right by her with the windows down smiling. Lol

brianmcg321 the red dress, by Rollo, this is a clear example, bravo!

@@sirwizalot7164 You do that in the metoo generation and your personal wealth is bound to go down.

I love hearing happy endings.

And how is your relationship with your children now? Were they unscathed or are you paying for their uni bills and therapy now?

​@@LSSYLondon lol what how was this his fault you imbecile

The best revenge you can get, is living well. Good to know a man can win in court while dealing with the vedma, or witch he was duped into marrying.

Well done (other than the 25 years).

Women in their 40's & 50's... Please, please, PLEASE ask me out!

@@Nerodz Actually, I'd say its: Women in their 40's and 50's: "Please PLEASE somebody support me and my 3 kids!"

@@ArcaneWorkshop Yes, the bulls-eye.

They’ll turn into Karen’s once they realise it’s too late and all the good men have gone their own way.

Women in their 40's: If he's breathing?!?! He's a good man!!! To bad it's too late by then

Lol there’s no way you can find a women that can add to your life. Women in 30s and 40s do not offer anything period. End of story.

@Wayne Adams: Yes . . . 40s is way, way too late. The (small percentage of) good Women are all snapped up by early 20s. It's lottery odds after that . . .

I don't find all of that attractive. Humility, simplicity are the attractive to me. I'm 55 and don't look it. I stay in shape. Funny thing is, the same complaints I hear from men here I hear from successful women. I make high 6 figures but I'm frugal, and also a geek. I can fix almost anything that breaks in my home. If it's beyond me I call three places to get the best deal The stereo types that are floating around here show that dating apps aren't the way to go. I like meeting and getting to know someone in person. Endless texting is also a turnoff. Too many preconceived notions here.. I'll pass.

@@DaughterofOurLady How many years did you spend chasing chads in your youth though? You're 55. Of course you find humility and simplicity 'attractive'. But I bet you never took one glance at a humble, simply, 'nice' guy when you were in your 20s and your priorities were on finding a hot, exciting man who can take you on an emotional rollercoaster.

@@QED_ I'm 40 in 3 months. Unless I can find a non-crazy girl under 30 (I know, I know, stop laughing...) then I'm pretty screwed. It hurts as I really wanted to be a dad.

You nailed it!

Amen to that brother.

Well there's enough porn around to keep you interested.

Precisely!

Many of us out there. Nothing wrong with it.

lol I bet her girlfriends tell her that she deserves better. Time to invest in boxed wine and cat food ;)

get better at lying amigo! women expect/want that these days..

Maybe she is extremely beautiful thats why you were interested as well

I am sorry but this story just seems like pur bs. Sorry man if she gave you that excuse she just did it to blow you off it was something else that turned her off.

@@15xgg80 she's a gold digger. Not sure if you've encountered them before but she's caught in a pattern and is too old to keep the same system and have it work for her. She's still out there though as I've seen her on the same ol websites. You can ask her out if you'd like and see what it's all about. Bear in mind, she expects a chauffer to and from the venue - not by you of course. You get to pay for it. She'll order the most expensive items on the menu, of course. She'll wear one of her Ukrainian outfits which aren't flattering but that isn't the point. As for it being an excuse instead of it being something else, go out with any Soviet block girls and you'll see they don't mix words or are passive aggressive, they just say their blunt truth.

Medic311 You nailed that 'spot on' - She is not sorry for you - she is sorry that she is unhappy in her current situation and expects you to bail her out - only to repeat what she did earlier. She is not 'Platinum' - She is 'Plutonium'

lol my ex did something similar. She left me for another guy who was twice our age and married. He pretended to be wealthy. Turns out he wasnt wealthy but was maxing out his credit to impress her. When she figured it out she tried to get back with me. I acted casual and indifferent about it because i didnt want to boost her ego but truthfully, afterwards i felt really sad and humiliated by the whole thing. Like she was blatantly telling me im not good enough but good enough for now until something better comes. Its really insultimg.

I think that's the scariest thing of all - knowing how incredibly deceitful and unstable women are. In every experience I've had, it went from her being obsessed and in love to not even caring less if I even existed. And no, I didn't change or do anything wrong. It even happened with a long time friend like you said. For me, women have proven themselves time and time again to be far too untrustworthy so I've just decided it's not worth the risk and will likely live the rest of my life alone. I mean, it's crazy because you can't even predict it - she may be the most kind and Godly woman and swear she'd never leave but when it comes down to it, she will still betray you in time.

She’s for the streets

Bruh my tipping point is similar, after that I gave up on even trying to date or even go out to the bar scene even looking to get involved with females.

Let us meditate together, brother.

That's me right there

It was me a long time ago then I got married and feel ok. Though I totally think this thing with women is primarily western women or women from 1st world countries that put too much value in the next Gucci bag bullshit or other designer crap that can easily be counterfeited.

@@mikuios i woud love to but my mind cant be silenced thougts just never stop on and on and on I have tried so many times the only times i could keep my thoughts in line ia whit loud music musing that makes any sane person ask how can you think in this Thats the point i cant but i love it Adhd is horible

I gave girls up 10 years ago... First it was because I'm not really desirable to them so it wasn't worth it, but now I truly don't care, I'm over it!

Boom

alot of simps don't want to hear this. leave all these apps and social media to the chicks.

True. If you are a bloke not in the top 20%, you are going to find Tinder a soul-destroying experience.

Tinder’s awful

If you can't see it, touch it, or feel it, it's NOT REAL! :)

Yeah and there's really no in between. Guys are either deluded simps who value women because they haven't learned the truth yet, or they know better and just look at women and sigh at how useless they are

why even date? what a waste of time

Yeas but what does chasing money accomplish? 🤔 It won't be worth anything once the apocalypse starts.

@@doomsdayking4843 If you want to prepare yourself for the apocalipse, money will give you plenty of tools to do that before that happens. From a brazillian here, where the reality here is brutal and maaaany crisis: If you have money and want to get ready, get your shit right and get ready, if you want to get ready but you are broke, you are fucked. Money give you tools, what you are going to do with that is up to you, to help other, do good, help yourself, whatever, it is up to you.

@@marciobranco6192 Invest in assets not liabilities.👍

@@ross_ulbright7779 Hell yeah !

Amen. I never have been on one and obviously never will at this point

I feel like missing out though.

@@Zaluskowsky Your not missing anything.

All the weirdos are on dating apps

Amen. I find better stuff left outside the goodwill.

same

Finished building my new house (paid for). Only 3 payments left before my truck is paid off. Own my boat outright and have for 15 years. Not dating. Paradise!

Absolutely, My money is for ME, not the whims of pleasing someone else. Life is very good.

That is why you have money. Good job!

Seems like you got no 'time' for time wasted hehe

I find virtue and morality attractive.....

@@JinxD247 sure you do, just not as attractive as the bad boys huh?

@@sunkillsmoon it's a quality that I find rare. Bad boys... Whatcha gonna do? 🤣 Faithfulness and honesty are high up on my list😘

If men find virtue and morality attractive why are they throwing money at strippers and only fans models and s3x workers literally every day? 🤔

@@effyutubeagain1099 desperation

Man I hate my fucking girl..she doesnt care lying on my face swearing shes telling the truth. Bitches are just bitches

It’s your life. But your inherently negative perspective on dating and women means you’re probably not properly oriented. You have trauma or issues you need to work on.

Rossoblupersempre A lot to untangle here. But if you hate her then why are you with her? Why not go to couples therapy if you value the relationship?

@@BadMannerKorea im hating her because of her behaviour and not because of the actions.. examp. If I catch u doing something wrong u dont apologize but u keep lying..i cant respect that.

@@Elbomberdelvernal get rid of her bro. Time is a non-renewable resource. If she doesn't add to your life she subtracts and you should move on.

False. 100% of women only want the top 10% of wallets.

Top 1%

And those 10% of guys are always subjecting themselves to possible false accusations or threats of them if they don't comply with what a woman wants. Sex is used as bait to set the hook and reel them in. The devouring comes later.

99.999% of women these days only want the top 1% of guys. There. I corrected it for you.

They want to make as much money as men but only want to hook up with men who make more money than they do. Nothing contradictory about any of this, right?

Because they're a great guy and they just want to see their FRIEND find the right girl.

@@MrCoincash Yup, they want him to be just how he is so they can have someone provide for them after she ran through 100 Chads.

@@jimjohnson394 it’s a way of brainwashing men to make things easier. If the simp decides to “just be himself” women will avoid him. An attractive man who is well off just being himself? Attracts women like flies to honey.

I'm not exactly boring, but I *am* Autistic; most gals prefer the *boring* ;)

Women never say what they mean, they speak in parables where the true meaning is between the lines.

Took me way to long to see it that way!

Women are gonna have to approach men and they don't like it. Not 95% of mens' problem anymore.

Lol you let her do her thing, she thinks you’re too soft. “His weak”. You decide to lead and set her straight while maintaining boundaries... she thinks you’re controlling. You say F it, I’m done with dating. Got no time for this nonsense. They think you’re gay. Moral of the story is Just do you. People will always have their own opinion of you. Focus on yourself

@Focused on the Future I met Male narcissists and they are horrible persons. But yes, it seems narcissism is a rather female defect.

...self hatred?

Looking for Chad and Tyrone. The rest of us are ATMs

@@justinacase2623 the Chad is an LOL but cringe at the tyrone... sent my wife of 10yrs (and our daughter) to Fla. for a vaca, shes a high 8or 9 in looks and figure etc..she sent pics and called daily, she sent one GROUP pic of her w/(trip) friends etc. AND staff from the tiki bar in the resort they'd been to for a few yrs. now & next to her in a group of 10ish was- you guessed it>>> a tyrone standing a bit too close!!! i was beside myself livid. I immidiatly called her screaming...informed her to not come home if she valued life, and that i was burning her stuff,(almost).. reason being is she would text me (I'm FB free) the pics that she also posted on social media!! she's a rather G rated woman of integrity, i do trust her, and shes actually a sheltered prued by comparison but her FB is viewed by hundreds including my family and friends... made her pull that pic...not gonna be that guy that other dudes assume about. makes me sick to this day

@@daleaustin1969 I hear ya! Never understood that messed up thinking, whoamans!

@@justinacase2623 say it an't so. I have heard and read such shenanigans. There is so much competition and not enough to go around. I've recently been on the prowl and never thought of the chase, that way. You may have a point to consider.

@@daleaustin1969 bro, you gotta go with her next time. If she is a high 8 or 9, you gotta protect her like a Picasso. You may trust her, but one too many margaritas and....

it becomes a super-power. Wahmen are less likely to seduce and manipulate...

Seriously

Its been my aim for years & glad to say it's finally working :)

@COOL NAME BRO! anything can be a word for incel. Husbands in r/deadbedrooms are all incels. Hell husbands in a relationships where she portions sex to once a month a basically incels. And how many guys can straight up go and get laid without paying for an escort on a daily basis? The term is practically meaningless.

Imagine spending all that money, all that time, all those efforts... on yourself!

But she chose him anyway xD

I was just about to say. Maybe he IS her ex because he got busted dealing pills and is now serving a couple of years in the county lockup........ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

But he drove a GTR you see.

Operator X Not everybody drives. GTR. He must be a catch🤷🏾‍♂️

Would likely stand up, walk over to pay the check - and walk out of the door without another word.

Mid 90s when they could say "he hit me" and send you to jail. Watched it happen to a few friends and after one tried to pull that game on me I just stepped back and started ghosting them. I've dated since then but it's always the same crap that they're bored or want to spend more money. I don't even talk to them if I can help it. My hobbies is watching them hit the wall and gripe that there's no good men around. Always single moms with three kids by different dad's, it's so clique but stunningly accurate.

I noticed that, I thought it was just me.

So your gay now?

@@Steve-yu6pq we respect your decision but please stop pushing it on us we just aren't into you that way

Amen Brother

I'm so pleased men get rejected a lot. It satisfies me. 😂

Most these days are useless anyway due to modern propaganda and bad breeding.

It really is a weight off your shoulders. Be free.

​@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 I was going to leave a long response to your comment but you're not worth the time or effort.

@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 Good. We're all pleased that miserable women who get off on men's suffering will get eaten by their 28 cats in the end. Good riddance.

I'm 28, I have a good job, just by my job title alone there's all the hotties I knew back in high school that keep contacting me for you know what. Like clockwork. Of course I cut the conversation short immediately.

once had a classmate say to me "I'm not interested in a relationship right now, but there's this one guy I'm kinda looking into". I'm dead serious.

@@KingRandor82 I can well believe it, Your Majesty. Might I assume this classmate was of the female persuasion?

@@richardlbowles that she was! Interestingly enough, we still kinda became buddies to a degree after...but I also notice she's a bit on the weak-willed side anyway. I feel like I dodged a bullet there.

That just about sums up women now, they just want a meal ticket.

Fellow southern ontario resident here .

Any woman that considers the height of a partner being a requirement isn’t worth dating anyway.

I'm 5'8, so ive been turned down for that as well. Went on a date with a girl that was 5'7 and she told me to my face that she was disappointed that i was only an inch taller. Sorry about your luck, i hope it gets better.

@@darkhymnsfromthecoldnorth I'm 5ft8 as well but I don't give a rats Ricky about my height cause there is nothing I can do about it but my physique that I can do something about ..

@@TheHiker24 You are right. I dont care about my height either.

You simply can not trust them. EVER.

@@ConstantChinner That's the sad reality of it all

@Perverted Alchemist haha truth !! Approach a girl and one of the first things shes asking "are you single " , meanwhile shes already thinking about her next hit of attention from chad after you leave

Russian Bot kinda makes you envious though doesn't it? Not so hard to understand them. I'd love my own harem as well.

Guess the pendulum did swing. Idk how it will look like when it swings back again though... kinda curious now.

Burn! I like it. I never went to a reunion because I figured it would be boring.

Lmao well you did. Burn.

I looked up my old school guy friends this past week. Funny thing is that they didn't have any interest in dating me. Now that I'm considered a real head turner, wealthy and educated with no debts and a successful marriage and no kids I wouldn't consider them dateable. They are all balding, with beer bellies and baby mamas and working bad hours and low wages and look a decade older than me at least. The 30's are a great time to be a woman like me!

Savage 😂

​@@LSSYLondon lol 😂 give us a break youre probably 5/10.

Same here

@@JBS2018 Amen! When I was married I had no fear of death. After ten years of freedom, it terrifies me!

dont you miss having sex with women?

Loooong lasting peace if we're smart.

🍻

Haven’t found much better outside of that trash can. So... 🤷🏻‍♂️

@@Outlaw8908 give up

You never heard "one man's trash is another man's treasure"

@@crimsonghost2449 😆😆 lol!! I'm not sure if that philosophy is valid in the dating world but you make a good point!

You tell them Oma.

That was great! I needed a laugh!

Wow, I have a crapload of those then

I got 3 up and 3 down, with a medal v for valor

Even if you are dateable, most dates are just going to be a waste of time

That line was the best

I saw this in the first minute of the video and I was just dying to know the context of it 😆👍

My buddy had his wife help him out up a lift in his garage one Valentine's Day. I asked her about it and she said she enjoyed doing it. She was sincere. There are good women out there.

Destructively brutal line :- ))))))))))

BlackManOps yes but it’s getting more and more rare.

True

In my teenage, I really found it cool, how it would be to have a cloaking device...

LOL, isn't that the truth.

Lol

do the opposite, it will be more fun than you think

Hahaha,... made me laugh

Lmao

@@lloydkeith3061 Same.

That was so unexpected =)

@@dulabu3304 Yep. That is why it was so funny in my opinion.

When I look back at my life, those times when I was sad and depressed led to times of being happy and content.

I realized that it wasn't actually that, it was a mix of going outside, excercise, noise and stress reduction and not living paycheck to paycheck. Having 1 friend who's well connected helps too. I talk (actual talk in person, not just hello) to a fam member or friend once a week, that's more than enough. Anything beyond that is a hassle and requires a reward. Texting is a different story.

Even if they look really good at this point if the texts aren't new or interesting they are gone.

It's really like 10% of guys getting action. I get high marks with my photos on photofeeler, and I get matches but when I ask them out *silence*

@@jimraynor7788 I have gone a few dates and used photofeeler myself. It's all a big game. Gotta take photos that look interesting, good angles and poses or sometimes that look "natural". Then get them rated. Pic the best ones (whether it's from photofeeler or female friends). Then get the matches. Then be interesting or unique. Then take them to a good venue or offer an interesting experience. Rarely but sometimes you can get them to come straight over or go to their place. Every once and a while need new photos. It's a ton of effort for little roi. If it works out it's usually just a one night stand. All while women can take a selfie, and make no effort and get mad when men use selfies lol. It's getting harder and harder to get matches. Barely get any now that work out. Like maybe one a month that works out to an actually date. I am being a little joking with the women taking just selfies as most now clearly have makeup and or filters and are trying to be "models"

Dating apps and websites are literally made for the top 1% Chads, you're insanely blue-pilled or masochistic if you go on there as an average guy. Real life isn't much better.

My lies are not even good enough for these broads on tinder anymore lol.

Bloody hell thats rough sorry to hear that.

Sorry to hear. Peace.

My first thought when Joker showed the screenshot in which this "girl" attacks him, was: "Damn, that would have hurt me so much, I would immediately quit this f***ing app.

Grow up

@@pinkgal206 What?

I bet she hasn't dated them all

Exactly. I would have followed up with that. "400 matches and you're still on here? Maybe you're the problem"

Worst part is 400 matches proves nothing. Most girls have that many or more cause supply and demand.

She’s been pumped and dumped 400 times. What a “prize” lol

They act like their puss is a national treasure 😅

No worries, you'll be divorced and single in no time : )

Thats only if you actually succeed. Think about it again if you get divorced, and loose everything.

good on you!

you arent missing much. its not worth it anymore. just live life for you man. better to remain single

It's overrated. Just like most other things in society

Just back fron Tijuana, sex cost only $20/15min .

@@Bekssss it is not real sex experience though. Bareback sex is real sex. The rest is just cheap masturbation wearing a condom inside a human hole experience. Sorry for breaking it up to you.

@@joshua50101 😂😂😂

Same here. I'm 35 and have realized that in this past year. It's a better mindset for sure. I feel less neurotic when I view myself as a prize vs worrying about what women think

this comment is underrated

how about I hope I like her AND she likes me too.

@@ScottH7651 let her worry about that.

@@treepocolypse what’s funny is, you don’t realize She worries about exactly the same, till She gives up on Men and stops dating.

That is 90% true👍

Thanks Cumdumpster

Good and best acknowledment

I dont know, donuts make me pretty darn happy 😀

@@danielsnyder2288 That's true. I love a nice Boston Cream donut, but it doesn't last. That's my point. Everything you can take in to your body is only good for a short term feeling.

Im happy for you. there are less and less men and women who want to work on the relationship.

too much selfishness and broken society today

No kidding man, probably the top 2 in my top 5 reasons why I dont date, the absolute madness that comes after engaging with a women. My brain cells start to die, and any hard on I had for the women slowly recedes into the abyss of my body. Having to constantly talk and talk, just to keep things going while, she sits there on her phone clearly wanting to be somewhere else. And you ask them so what you do, oh not much, nothing, I like to travel, I like to eat..🤦‍♂️

@@keanowhitmore8009 Of all the women I've dated, no matter how fun they were, they were never nearly as much fun as hanging out with my real homies.

Definitely! if a girl says I'm bored that's a huge red flag 🚩 Opening on dating app im bored swipe the fuck away from that

@@keanowhitmore8009 yeah, it's always shit like that with them. I like traveling, shopping, eating out. NONE of these are hobbies or interests. They all revolve around spending money, usually men's money. There is no skill or creativity involved with anything they are interested in.

@Andrew Battersby "because they have no imagination" someone should study why women lack imagination

same for women. Snake pit all the way....

Is compassion located in the back of her throat? Not sure thats why people go on tindrr

@@fallacy4348 i think you need to pay for compassion nowadays

... and being expected to pay for the privilege. The dating apps are a money pit for guys who want to communicate and are designed that way.

@@britishbulldogsvsthehartfo5677 yea, it's called paying for therapy. Sometimes it's payment to a therapist or psychologist, sometimes it's payment to an escort, but it all ends up costing.

Exactly

This is crude - but I have my morning wank and then blissfully don't think about women the rest of the day. I'm that done with women. It sounds loser talk to admit what I just said, but I've had opportunities to 'date' but I just can't bring myself to do it anymore; it's a truly horrible, awful, time-wasting exercise.

@@MattExzy yes I know what you mean, iv had opportunities to date but after a while there's just so many times you can play the same shitty game with these females, that's rigged against you ( and this coming from someone who has had some success in sleeping with them). I'm to a point where my biology craves them but I don't, it's a messed up clash within me

@@MattExzy and yes for me 7 times out of ten it's a truly awful horrible time and money wasting experience, dating and courting them. Now, if I see they either won't put out or start playing their toxic little games with me, I'm out.

100% agree

Well said.

I work in the bar industry. The girls I work with post pics of themselves on social media looking incredibly sexy. Always a party.. real life is a different story.. working with these chicks made me realize how miserable they are with relationships/ life in general. It's all a lie.

@stevo6891 An average man am I, of no eccentric whim, Who likes to live his life, free of strife, doing whatever he thinks is best, for him, Well... just an ordinary man... BUT, Let a woman in your life and your serenity is through, she'll redecorate your home, from the cellar to the dome, and then go on to the enthralling fun of overhauling you...

Wow, sounds like quite the change. Perhaps she had some hormonal issues, maybe? Sucks. But if you're in a better head space now, that's the best thing. Life's too short for fighting all the time.

@@chriscampbell9191 hormonal issues ? do i get to use this excuse too when i'm acting like a pile of shit ?

@@endlessthoughtspartitionma1349 When women 'snap' like the OP describes, it's possible there are hormonal issues involved. Then again, it may be that she was merely hiding her control freak nature until she moved in -- hiding your negatives is easy to do if it's a long distance relationship. As for it being an excuse, no -- it is not an excuse for shitty, control-freak behavior. There are no excuses for treating someone else like shit.

Women are "strong and independent " now. So just ignore them. No attention. Don't help them or give them any money.

@Tim Sheryl Legend!!

Funny thing is something similar actually happened. Woman had a flat tire,man pulled over and spent almost 2hrs helping her. Days later she accused him of sexual assault, he was arrested,lost his job and his family because they didn’t believe . His lawyers(police didn’t even try) went out and found cctv footage to prove he didn’t do anything and was innocent and she never got punished. Believe women they said

As Tim Sheryl commented, I would stop to say YOU GOT THIS GIRL and give them a thumbsup, and speed off LOL Best idea ever for this situation.

@@aobakwegokatweng1564 problem is there are still a lot of SIMP type men who will help. I guess they need to learn the hard way. Better to never help any woman with anything. I don't even help female relatives or even my sister anymore. They never appreciate anything you do for them.

Your name is so nearly Ted!

Preach

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Ouch, me too.

Hope ur doing better but that def gave me a laugh. Cheers

Jesus that is so freaken despicable behaviour.

I bear a resemblance to this remark. Less severely disabled (TS/ADD) but that being said, if you're noticeably different, it throws a monkey wrench into something that's already complicated. This throws the need to pick and choose your battles into sharper relief. I finished a BA debt free and I've always worked. I haven't set the world on fire, but I've done ok.

@@gitfiddlio when most women my age see i walk with a cane it really just kills all chances I would have had. At this point I just make sure my life is fulfilling and I am content. Im lucky that I have fun hobbies that I can still enjoy even if they are painful sometimes. Since breaking my spine in a few spots its pretty much constant pain. It could be worse, I'm grateful for what I have. Could be a lot worse...

@@joshp2542 really sorry to hear about your situation. I hope that within the next 10 years, medical technology will become so advanced that you will be able to walk like you did before the injury. Stay strong, man. Hang in there.

Yeah I am 6'6 but mentally ill since about age 8. I think I will just buy a love doll later in my life for companionship that resembles a woman. I could take meds but they have too severe side effects.

You've had it easy, trust me. I 30M have dated and it's just not pleasant. It's incredibly hard to find someone not obese even if you're tall and working out. Also, we haven't been divorce-graped.

@@alexvig2369It’s hard to find someone not obese and someone who doesn’t have children. LOTS of single mom’s out there.

@@timothyswauger3984 not in my country (not yet, at least). Maybe in America. I'm looking for a virgin anyway, so even if she doesn't have children that's not enough for me - which disqualifies 98% of women already even in my somewhat conservative country.

​@@timothyswauger3984that's what killed it for me In my 20s I was always willing and ready but always found hogs and single moms "I was saving this cookie for you" gtfo!

@@alexvig2369its almost funny at this point. I'm conventionally attractive or at least so I'm told. 6ft, physically fit and approaching beach lean 31M and while I can typically do alright in the casual sex department, anything that resembles something longer than a fling is just a pipe dream. Women are awful people in my experience. I've been used, cheated on, treated poorly. I recently (this week) deleted all the apps, unfollowed about 200 Instagram accounts and decided I was opting out. It's a shame, my parents had an amazing strong perfect marriage of 30 years. But I don't think that reflects reality these days. Young women are too immature to date seriously, older women are either ahead of me financially so it would never work, or I don't find them attractive. Or they cant bear children, so what's the point?

Sooo boring not killing people in traffic lol.

He dodged a bullet

if she needs the excitement of breaking the speed limit and dealing drugs then she probably doesn't have a lot going on in her life.

@@firehandszarb He is driving a Mazda not a Ferrari. That is her problem

@@leesullivan8532 The guy she liked was going fast but going nowhere. If that guy was so great why is she no longer with him?

You got it. They are ALWAYS looking for the better, bigger deal. NO MAN is safe.

@@ConstantChinner If Steph Curry and Will Smith aren't safe, no mere average man is.

@@rippedreaper7279 You got it my ripped friend! And same with Channing Tatum, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp etc

@@zestrokeshehe You are sad at the fact that I figured out how women operate 😂

@Mr. Green it's okay to be jealous.

@Matt Pizzano Haha foreal. I passed by this chick one time, a little older, but very attractive, and I can tell she was feeling me, so I stopped and approached her, and we go to talking things went smooth little bit of flirting then I ask he out she goes well your very sweet and attractive but you remind me of my son..ugh my dick shriveled into my stomach

@rose I cant tell if your being genuine or sarcastic..

Keano Whitmore that last sentence got me 😂

She: You're such a great guy, why aren't you married? Me: Well? She: Well not with me! Then she disappeared into the crowd. True story.

@Rick O'Shay I can't remember exactly. Outside at a fair or such.

@VINCENT C it would if someone was rich enough to do that without affecting their finances much

That is absolutely true. I am financially well off, pay for all dinners, all vacations, all drinks, etc.; the women I dated never paid for a thing. But I was constantly criticized for not buying an expensive car (I like practical cars that I can throw my training gear and mountain bike in; cars that can take fire roads and dirt roads where all the fun things are....) or buying a bigger house for myself (It is just me....one person.... I don't need a 4,000 square foot home that has unused furniture and echos when I get home at night after work.) If I were to get married and we needed more space, I would buy a bigger place, but to just do so for the sake of spending money is insane.

@@BurtonSKnowles Yea, I think it boils down to biological instincts and if a man comes across as cheap, it means he is less likely to be willing to share/spend resources on her. You can sort of get away with it by telling them that I save where I can so I can spend where I want. I may take you out to dinner with coupons but that is so I can go on my 5 cruises I have booked next year.

Basically what that kind of women wants is some sucker to fund their expensive lifestyle without any of the goodies in the bedroom. That is all it boils down to.

Yup, lol. I actually enjoy cooking (many women "apparently" find a man that cooks is hot- not sure if that is a reliable vector, though.)

Every woman looking for emotion in relationship other than gold diggers

Depends on what you mean by excitement? Believe it or not, there are women out there who don't ask for much. A simple date night planned or a surprise night out together every once in awhile will do for some. Or simply show interest in taking her out and showing her off is nice. Don't expect women to get all "excited" for you when all you do is play video games all day and spend your money on pot every week. Talk about a romance killer. Keeping the romance alive is important in a relationship. Especially, long term relationships. And you wonder why she went off and cheated.. Boohoo.

@@MB-wx2jp romance is not love

@nick biller. Love and romance are both feelings that can be experienced in the same setting.

@@MB-wx2jp romance is an ideal, love is an emotion

It makes me absolutely sick

Yeah, it is, and it's just women for the most part. But what's really sad is that so many men act similar, as if they're owed something by life or the world in general. It's not just women who act like this, but even the majority of men who try desperately to make things work, and then act shocked that nature doesn't work out the way they expect it. Avoid women and don't have expectations from anyone--easier to not be disappointed.

@@rikk319 You got that right Bro. The world is full of whiny, loser "Nice Guys" who wanna believe that bein a "Good Guy" should entitle them to a GF, and a ticket into a Girl's panties

arbitrary PasTime id tell her straight to her face, b****, if you gon pick on the details it's cuz u don't want it, go see sumwhere else. Do it and see how she clings to you after that -sigh-

They break the rules for chads aka guys that are above 8/10 in looks lol

The joke is about women climbing the stairs of a building because at each floor, it says there are better men upstairs. They end up on the roof where a sign informs them that, of course, no men are there. The door opens only from the inside, it starts raining, they're cold, and they have to climb down the emergency stairs, soaked.

They have a lot of options and they know it, the behaviour is just a result of that.

I notice how in each of these stories the guy had to do all the work and was found lacking/not good enough etc. All I heard was a whiny entitled B crying about 'oh he's not exciting/good enough for me' etc. Not once did the B ever say what SHE brought to the table (which is probably nothing but a used up vag and a laundry list of expectations). Dating in today's world basically seems to me to be: a woman provides a mammoth list of demands (while contributing very little) and the guy has to do everything he possibly can to be considered 'worthy' of her. And even if he manages that, she still has one eye open for a 'better option' at all times. F that

Traditionally yes but allot of these guys are showing more need for companionship than the woman and for some reason that’s a turn off

It's natural for us but for them each nano-second is years of torture. Oh well.

Better to get a dog as a companion than a wife or gf. 😊😊

Some farmable land off the grid is a more tempting prospect than the average American woman

I spent last 22 years in one room with only other humans being my parents and doctors/social workers. I haven't seen my siblings in 9 years. Fuck the stay strong thing.

The irony is she'll still have 100s of thirsty dudes hitting her up on social media.

But for now she is having loads of fun. That is all that matters.

@@RoopaDudleyPaintings Oh, she's having loads, alright...

@@neilpeartspurplenose8739 That is right. Deal with it.

@@RoopaDudleyPaintings Deal with what? Std's? That's alright honey, I'll pass. Nasty ass skanks, yeesh.

@Stevo same here! The juice isn't worth the squeeze.....

@Stevo that they do. I thought the same thing too..... now i can't see entering a contract that the other party is incentivized to break. Time for men to go their own way

​@stevo6891welcome to my world and then they have the audacity along with brass neck to cry, beg, plead, and complain as to why they can't find a good guy or better yet no guy GTFOH she fails you bought it upon yourselves and us guy's blessing is watching their reality come crashing down upon their heads as a punishment/consequence!! 😂😂👴👴🦁🦁

Yes! Adopt a dog! It's a great thing to share love and care for a canine!

AND you can teach them the "Peanut Butter" trick......😂

Why are people saying this? I've been advised by a lot of women to never get married... Is love really dead? I've been waiting for true love my whole life. I don't care if it sounds silly, it's the truth. So why is this failing... and how to avoid it? It's so... well... heartbreaking.

@@catstrawford don't give up. A lot of the people here are a collection of hurting people in wrong relationships. This is not a place to look for hope, but just for those who need to vent their bad experiences with dating and marrying bad people. I feel bad for the men who were wrong by idiot women, and the reverse is true too. But at some point you need to stop blaming others and be accountable for your own behavior and move on with forgiveness. That way you don't carry a burden that you put on another person. I was single my whole life until I met my husband at 29, and so was he at 31. Maybe because we don't have emotional baggage and a laundry list of people we slept with and dated it made for a healthy marriage.

@@lisamendis5886 i appreciate where your coming from. but for the vast majority of men your situation is unattainable. you and your husband got lucky remember that.

When I first heard of tinder, it was said to basically be a "hookup" site. I was shocked to hear that anyone was actually trying to use it in hopes of finding "the one". A friend of mine tried using it that way a couple years ago. He met a gal, thought she was wonderful, married her... and then divorced 3 months later. I could call him a fool... but, I'm just happy for him that his eyes were opened that quickly.

I under no circumstances go on dating sites... I honestly don't go after them, if she really wants me, she can come after me... haven't been in a relationship since 1998. That one in itself was illicit, putting it mildly. As far as these tinder girls and their hot boobs/backside, whatever. Women built like this are all over. A woman who is someone who really wants to be with you and doesn't think that having a great whatever on the outside, makes you unobtainable. Don't care how you look, that will change... Question is what kind of person is she/he going to become?🤔😏

once your walking on eggshells you know its over. The woman has to respect you or it's not going to work.

You start to make it sound like I'm married to my mom - I get the same experience with her xD

Sounds familiar. Walked on shells for 20 years. Wish I'd remained a despised incel. Human relationships are trash.

Hey did you marry my ex girlfriend ha ha sounds the same. Once she cheated I was so happy cuz I kicked her to the curb you can fuck me she says sorry it's not special if you let everyone have a turn you doorknob. An I was just happy she left everything was always all my fault and the constant nagging. You never listen to me why so you can claim everyone abuses you and your actually the abuser. No thanks never again agreed.

Sounds like a former girlfriend who was diagnosed as Bipolar and refused to take her meds.

That made me laugh

david your soo fucking right

All of them ? lol yeah keep telling yourself that lol

Pretty much it, isn't it ? I've had a whole number of discussions and fights with many of my girlfriends. Some get it, some don't. Their number One enemy is their own inflated ego, unrealistic idea about themselves and the world around them. They live, breathe and preach the feminist narrative. Reality shows them otherwise, but they keep going. Until it's too late.

@TheyCallMe Doug It's called let them think they're in charge and be fake until you reverse the situation. Keeping women in check, what a disturbing way to describe a holy unit between two people that should be based on love and respect.

Correct mate! I wonder why Stella didn't get her ex to take her to Crinitis? Oh.....that's right! Her ex had already P & D'd her! Poor girl must've been hungry & needed someone to pay for her dinner because Chad never did!

Or "tell me that again in 10 years"...

just a narcissist who needs to crap on people to feel good about herself

Deloitte is not just in the Asia/Pacific region. They are global. It's a solid, respectable company. A woman should be thrilled to have a guy who works for them.

Proper response 2: I'm sorry, I thought this was a site for people with a soul. My bad. When you hit the wall, good luck attracting good guys with your ham sandwich.

Shit, brother. Hope things got better for you.

relatable brother, had my career almost destroyed by them.

Had a guy from my ship get accused of r--- it took the 6 of us saying that he was ashore at the bar with us, a credit card receipt of his for that night and security camera footage from the bar and testimony from the bar staff to get him out of the brig. Then she started complaining that all of us avoided dealing with her afterwards. When she transferred, no one said good bye to her.

@@eds946 horror story. Horrible. Pence rule.

It did not help that the company commander was a female too, I swear she believed that broad, she said it was because she was pregnant, it was the reason she accused me, At the time I was having a conversation with a Staff Sargent sitting on the edge of the desk, at the very moment and yes their was cameras too! To this day I keep cameras running around me, in my car, in and around my home, and at work too!

Yeah, modern day 'dating' depends so much on the superficial, with looks being 90% of it probably.

so... you get into one serious relationship, get yourself burned a bit. then, you act as if you've lived trough, half a lifetime of relationships and hardships? listen here man. you will get hurt every now and then, but you need to get out there and go get some more... do you really wanna sit around as a old stud and wonder? what it could have been like to get some love and affection ?

@@wayofthewicked Yeah I tried many times, and all of them ultimately failed but for different reasons, however I was never guilty.

Yeah, Tom Brady wasn’t handsome enough or Brad Pitt? Nope, women leave when their narcissistic neurotic needs aren’t met.

Hell yeah, are you listening to them on vinyl?

Awesome man!

Let it be

Working on divorce, child custody right now. I have physical for the time being. She walked off 4 years ago. Had to lower work hours to keep up with raising kids. Had more resources after she left even with the hit in work schedule. Court coming up soon for child support from her, but how to get that from a jobless parent.

Me too but play my drums...

women wonder why they can't find anyone

I moved to a small town . Met a few women, all of them flirty, yet in a relationship or married, and all have school aged kids. No thanks. Looks my golf game is going to really start to improve.

Wait...what were the ages of these women 🤨

As someone a bit more than half your age, I have to agree. For the asking cold bit, while the answer lies in a balance of "strike while the iron is still hot" along with learn to flirt, thing is if you don't have something she obviously wants* when you flirt, then it doesn't matter how soon or late you initiate because you will be rebuffed every time. *(money and providership in overwhelming majority of cases, indicating she needs a sucker to pick up the tab OR social status because she's a social climber and you look like a solid stepping stone) For the getting told no without saying no, I've often heard rationalizing that basically "but I'll get beat and murdered if I say it directly". IMO this speaks more to shamelessly lying and never admitting they're really after something else. The mind games are the worst part of it. For initial asking-out often times even if you think you've done it right and they say yes initially, they will come back later and say no, having changed their mind. Usually followed up with either some version of "I still care for him blahblahblah" or trying to flip it around to blame it on you for "coming on too strong" and they were "caught off guard" or "taken aback". Whatever the story, the point is "this is why NOT you". I can at least respect someone who kicks you to the curb and wants nothing further to do with you. Unfortunately the majority will still try to stick to you and see if they can get something else out of it. When they want to be friends I just say "I'll think about it" and walk away giving an easy-out to end it. If she pursues it (which some stupidly do), I'll just tell 'em "Nah, I don't want to be friends with somebody I have nothing in common with who makes everything my fault". (because that's exactly what it is and that's exactly what she did) Most the time they let well enough alone.

#2 is the worst, especially when you first meet them. It's easy to talk to a girl and get her number. But texting and communication is absolute trash. 9 out of 10 times you pick a time and place and they say they're busy or can't make it. But they never respond with a better time or day. I give a girl 2 chances. A few days or a week goes by and I'll invite her out 1 more time and if she again can't make it? over, blocked, number deleted I'll never understand why they have to waste so much time. They shouldn't talk to the guy and take his number if they're not interested. Guess it really does come down to that attention they crave. You're just 1 of 20 guys she's talking to and when she's short with you let's you know that you're not in the top 5

Women know within 30 seconds if they would sleep with you. She didn't want to waste your time or hers--she was crass to explain it that way though. It's nobodies fault there was no chemistry.

What if you want kids

I recall a friend's wife trying to set me up with multiple single friends of hers (all rejects), including a newly divorced friend of hers (she was mid thirties, I was late 30s). She said this friend was looking to settle down (again). I told her I just down to bang. She left me alone after that.

@Lola Montez Your comments are well taken and might be true for many men. But not in my case. My point is, I'm responding to the video, this was the proverbial last straw, when I decided dating wasn't worth the effort. That was my tipping point, and that's what Joker is asking us. And I am happier for it.

@Lola Montez Man, what a laugh - only a woman could never consider the possibility that a man's happier on his own. 50 failed blind dates is 50 planned evenings wasted on some hapless individual too caught up in their own bullshit to give you the time of day. If there's only a *slight* chance any of them work and the prize is the companionship of someone who in all likelihood is probably awful, why would any self-respecting dude waste that much time when the prize isn't worth it? Love is a joke. Ditch the fairy-tale.

Yes. International women are better. I am married to an Indian.

that's a great story. glad to see an actual happy marriage. those seem rare. (maybe people are terrible at choosing partners on qualities that matter)

@@lurklingX most men don't choose. It's not as though they have options lining up the street. For most they just get committed to any girl that shows any interest in them and think It's love. The one who can afford to choose are the physically attractive guys.

@@rosihantu1 100%. Worse still, some of us never even get the scraps.

My lady is from Okinawa, Japan and granted 10 years my senior but she makes me happy and we spend time together and takes care of me while I win the bread for us.

yeah, Ive seen those vids...tall white older men with young dark, tiny women walking down the street, you will be one of those guys. Might be fun.

Yeah I met a lot of guys like that while i was in Asia, they are definitely happier than they would be in america.

Boss Level moves

From what I've heard of PI you'll live like a king there!

SE Asia and Latin America still offer value and are worth spending time with. Too bad American women lost that decades ago. I think every man should experience those regions of the world at least once.

as if men don't care about looks. Just listen to the video - guy is commenting on the financial situation of the woman. Ah, the double standards..

@@electricityofmind6300 Where in my comment did I mention men not caring about looks? Did you notice the complete disconnect in your own comment? You complain about men caring about looks and use the guy in the video( who comments on the financial) as an example. It's not a double standard what haunts you, it's illiteracy and poor reading/listening comprehension. Same goes for the poor soul who liked your comment.

yep

@@EnLaMatrix1 @ Matrix: Sometimes I see slim, tall Millennial men hooked up with thunder - thighs, land whale women. It is a confusing and scary sight.

Women: "Be real" false eyelashes, boob job, collagen lips, makeup, spanx, dyed hair, high heels.....

MrBisketTV Tell them to try without makeup lmao. Most of them are fucking troglodytes without tons of fakeness on their faces.

@@nihilism6226 fake up, push up bras, "body contouring"( fat compression) garments, fake nails, dyed hair, filtered selfies... But they want a "real man" ... Counterfeit female demands an authentic male...

Yet they get plastic surgery, wear fake up, butt or breast implants/injections, ugly eye lashes and stupidly long nails. All this to hopefully increase her attractiveness levels. if that cant help them out, shall we bring up ... Catfish lol. All manipulative tactics when you think about it

@Officer Murphy 😂😂😂😂😂😂

They're called 49ers. A 4 who thinks she's a 9. America is littered with them.

Women are like teenagers with credit cards. They don’t know how to stop spending

@Blaster Master Kind of. My Dad was present, made sure we had Food but he was not really involved in the parenting. He just wanted to be alone all the time. Was kinda weird.

@Blaster Master Yeah...you could say that. To some degree at least.

I was raised the same way and went thru a similar exerience.

It seems to be a trend...

@@GamerMNE Sadly, yes

My videos & etc. so you quit working and gym rat it up to get in top fitness?

@@paulnoecker1202 Nope, i keep my job and keep workig out as usual, just not playing the game, way more rewarding.

That just about sums up my previous marriage.

The ancient Hebrews were kinda based...

10 verses later: “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.” Proverbs 21:19

And they're all brawling women.

Amen

they cant help it. Its instinctive.. Its fun for them.

that’s my ex wife. still playing games 6 months later.

That's just the definition of modern females.

Thats also called....toxic

She's like my CHEATING ex wife

@@NerdlySquared made me laugh. The extroverted muffin stuff i mean. I'm gonna steal that... :)

if you go for the introvert, you'll never notice her. she'll hardly talk to you or do stuff with you. she'll want you to keep her entertaining while not expressing any emotions. after a while you'll realise the paint on the wall has more expressions and is more interesting than her.

I'm a homebody and I'm with someone who is also a homebody. Opposites attract only in the short term. It's nice to have some differences, but only in ways that compliment each other.

Got divorced in 1994 (mid 40's). So... I had the career without the home or money (and it took 10 YEARS to recover financially - hear that young men???). Went to a couple of 'single dances' in the beginning. Asked this one woman to dance, and afterwards sat down to talk. As soon as she found out I was divorced, she wasn't interested. She said she was single, never married, and was looking for the same in a man. No excuses, that was it. I told her I wouldn't be interested in her either, and of course she was instantly put off and pissed off. I couldn't be... but SHE could. I told her good luck finding and keeping a man because, at 38 years old... she's never had to settle, she's never had to compromise, she's never had to even think about what someone else might want or need. As far as I was concerned, she had as much or more 'baggage' as the ones that were divorced with a kid or two looking for a live-in sugar daddy and replacement father. Even back then 25+ years ago, women had more 'standards' and expectations than they could cash. Would love to have someone to travel with (34' motorhome with solar so I can 'rough' it in comfort out west and a Jimmy 4x4 TOAD behind it to go out on the trails) but I'm at the point now where that woman was back then. I'm not going to settle or compromise or risk losing what I have to live with a self centered bit... to have female 'companionship'.

I’m 18 and dude the shit I’ve been through with women is insane. They’re so fucking heartless it’s ridiculous. I lucked out with my current girlfriend but fuckin hell, the bullshit I’ve gotten just from me being 5’1 alone is pathetic.

Cheers to that brother. The world is your oyster.

Bravo I'm 50 and I've never look back cheers mate

Solitude is not loneliness. Peace brother.

A dog will love you more than a woman ever can and their shit tests are relatively easy to pass.

I'm 25 and considering that approach. I haven't had a complete lack of luck with women - have had a number of really nice experiences. But one really bad breakup that took me years to recover from, and watching my Dad's life fall apart after his divorce (which he wasn't guilt-free in - but still) has left me pretty iffy about relationships in general. For years I've wanted to meet somebody genuine but it's just a waste of time. I'm not perfect at all, and I'm definitely not the best looking guy of the bunch - but I'm not the worst either. I play 4 instruments, work in engineering, have a math degree, and generally consider myself a decently fun person to be around. But trying to meet women in their 20s is just an absolute waste of time. Especially nowadays. I really want to state clearly that I'm really glad that female empowerment has become a thing and some of the misogynistic norms in our society has been reversed - but much of it now is people blowing smoke up each other's asses and acting like everything done in the name of empowerment is a good thing by default. I'm pretty close with my sister and she's legitimately a fantastic person. Generous, intelligent, funny, etc. But it took listening to her complaining about her 'dating problems' (i.e. her being unable to choose which one of the multiple guys into her at the time she should go with) to make me realise that women just don't get it - and not of spite. They literally just think dating is exactly the same for women as it is for men. As I saw it put in another comment: 'dating for women is like shopping - dating for men is like job hunting'. Except that in a job interview you can use your experience, portfolio etc. to be in with a shot. In the dating world, it's good looks, psychological and social hacking skills, and $$$$$ (which is hard to come by early in life) that count. I dunno man I'm just tired of this shit, all I want is somebody to work together with in life. Literally a life partner, it's not like I'm looking for a ye olde style housewife or sex doll or something. Tired.

Thank you for sharing your experience! If you still think that having a child is good, because raising someone is great I'd say (don't have experience) you can consider adopt a child. Good day to you

@@IgorPachmelnikZakuskov Adopt one yourself!

You sound like you have a similar story to me. Prior vet as well. Trying to figure out why it’s difficult to be with women. Stack your coins, buy a house, stay fit and it’ll come. You’ll eventually have choice of women.

Purity is the value.? No I'm a woman and my wisdom and confidence is the gift I give myself . I'll share my space with those who respect that. Honesty and loyalty is fair trade .

@@heidiclayton8706 Nothing wrong with honesty and loyalty, thats sought after by both sexes. However, the purity of a woman is what men value over all characteristics. A woman may see a man whos experienced as sexy but a man sees an experienced woman as a slut. Not trying to be mean, that's just how it is to us men. Adultery was punishable by death in the majority of human history, it applies to both men and women, but because you couldn't/can't tell who the father is when it comes to birth, men value purity above everything else in a woman. This was not me trying to come off as rude, this is just the perspective of a man, and obviously, alot of people agree with me on this.

@Cody Levinson I'm betting you will never forget the look on her face as long as you live.

I wish i had a Mazda too...specifically the CX-5, it handles, drives and lasts like a car that costs way more.

@Cody Levinson Great Job Bro! You did very well with this one. I'm sure she was exploding on the inside.

@@keithstewart934 I'm driving a 6 year old VW Golf 7 with the smallest Motor i could get. I only need to drive 15 minutes to work, so i dont need anything bigger. Some of my Coworkers ask me on a regular Basis why i dont get a better Car, cause "we can afford it". But one older coworker i had, who is retired now, always told me "I dont need a Car for the Neighbours to look at, i just need one that fits my needs" and right he was. The Golf was pretty cheap, is reliable and dont uses much Gas. That's all i need. I can safe my Money for an early retirement instead of spending on some shit i don't want or need.

Zoom Zoom - chiming in for rag top Miata lust. fun car.

Amen

Self included. Honestly still want a long term relationship, but recognize that it's like reaching into a nest of vipers and hoping to grab a garter snake.

Spot on! I played the field a bit and I've been realizing these last couple of years how MUCH harder it is to get into a relationship (but not that difficult to get ONS or FWB), mostly because 98% aren't a good fit... and let me tell you that the bar is quite low for me: should pass the boner test, should be responsible and have her head square on her shoulders (that one is actually rare), no mental issue and be curious about the world (and I'm not talking superficially as in "I like traveling"). The whole package is incredibly rare, sadly.

Oneitis is the cause of a great deal of pain. There's really no reason to get into a LTR these days.

The ones that settle down the ones they settle down with r bitches

Wow so true

Salute!

I have often said that when a woman starts dating a man, she is looking for more of a project than a partner. She might like or that about the guy but ultimately she wants to try to reshape who he is and flip his entire life upside down. Then when that is done, she just walks out to find her next project.

@@Lesrevesdhiver done had one tell me the reason she sticks with the one guy who beats on her is that she dont have the time to "try and train" another guy to be what she wants. sadly, 99% of women have that mentality of the guy being her "training" project.

You want her to act like an adult?

Very well said.