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The answer might seem simple, but in the hands of Lesley Hazleton, the question takes us on a surprisingly humorous and thought-provoking journey into what it would actually mean to live forever. And whether we’d truly want to. A frequent TED.com speaker and 'Accidental Theologist,' Hazleton uses wit and wisdom to challenge our ideas not only about death, but about what it is to live well.
Lesley Hazleton has traced the roots of conflict in several books, including compelling 'flesh-and-blood' biographies of Muhammad and Mary, and casts "an agnostic eye on politics, religion, and existence" on her blog, AccidentalTheologist.com. Her newest book, Agnostic: A Spirited Manifesto, celebrates the agnostic stance as "rising above the flat two-dimensional line of belief/unbelief, creating new possibilities for how we think about being in the world." In it, she explores what we mean by the search for meaning, invokes the humbling perspective of infinity and reconsiders what we talk about when we talk about soul.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@itsthatsem
@itsthatsem 3 года назад
This lady is pure gold. Its so easy to be mesmerized by her and love her in just 11 mins and 40 secs. ❤️
@ginastyler320
@ginastyler320 2 года назад
“ It’s not how long I lived that matters, it’s how I lived and I intend to do it well till the end”
@coryr7183
@coryr7183 Год назад
amen and i like this lady but shes forgetting the various ways people die that age has nothign to do with t, pet peeve
@tidepoolclipper8657
@tidepoolclipper8657 5 лет назад
The worst thing is losing your memories; and being forgotten over time.
@rebeccagutierrez1401
@rebeccagutierrez1401 5 лет назад
My husband spoke and even preached for many years about how dying was not a big deal until his moment came. He died 2 weeks ago, oh but how he battled because he did not want to die yet. He was 70 years old
@formerfundienowfree4235
@formerfundienowfree4235 3 месяца назад
That's why we have to do the work of realizing who and what we truly are.
@arik9112
@arik9112 4 года назад
An expert speaker delivering her speech in profound,humorous and graceful manner .Such speakers are rare.
@yingjie1932
@yingjie1932 7 лет назад
Her voice ist really calming and fascinating.
@Underhills
@Underhills 6 лет назад
I second that. That's what smoking 40 South State without filter a day does to you. Live life as it was no tomorrow:)
@yuenos3418
@yuenos3418 6 лет назад
This woman changed my perspective of life and death. Thank you so much!
6 лет назад
She is the type of person I would like to meet at a cocktail party!
@deborahjeans7990
@deborahjeans7990 5 лет назад
Me, too
@cherylisley3845
@cherylisley3845 5 лет назад
Luis Mario Lopéz Parada jjjnn
@randykarnell9980
@randykarnell9980 5 лет назад
Yeah I'd definitely want her to come home with me. I'd tell her an Immortality Freak was visiting me at my home - "Come over and talk some sense into him." Then I get her back to my place - PLY her with Rolaids-laced (powdered) Fiber !! .
@nicholashildenbrand8632
@nicholashildenbrand8632 5 лет назад
This may be one of the most important speeches I've ever heard in my life.
@grassylamp6899
@grassylamp6899 5 лет назад
I'm only on my my late teens and I know there's alot of people similar to my age that fear death and I was that kind of person. For weeks I have lost alot of sleep due to constant fear of death and it really affected on my studies. I remember waking up frantically screaming,shaking and Crying with fear of the thought about it . By this I've also was scared to going to sleep due to me having thoughts of death. I felt alone and by my self and I dint rlly wanna talk about just in case I also brought fear about death to other people. Until I started to do some research of how to cope with death and morality by doing this became understanding why I feared death. I've reach to a conclusion that I'm still young and haven't done much in my life this is my I feared death due to lack of accomplishment on my life,along side with just being afraid of not experiencing or existing. Another thing that help me reduce my fear of death is creating a bucket list and planning to do them. In addition to that I've also read some people's experience and how to deal with death anxiety. This then lead me to talk about it more openly to other people that I know and we sometimes we have a good heart to heart conversation. It'll be a lie if I said I'm no longer afraid of death, I still am but much less about it because it's not under my control it's beyond me. So by having increase advances of life expectancy it'll probably will come to the point that only you get to choose when to end it which for me is far more worst.
@azeemqurbanali3281
@azeemqurbanali3281 4 года назад
Read Quran and think about life
@michellenguyen3244
@michellenguyen3244 4 года назад
I know this was one year ago but this perfectly describes how i am currently feeling so accurately
@altinezmtz5222
@altinezmtz5222 4 года назад
Oh my god this has been exactly me for more than a week and I'm 16 turning 17 thank you so much it just feels good to know that I'm not alone.
@altinezmtz5222
@altinezmtz5222 4 года назад
@@michellenguyen3244 you're not alone read the most recent reply
@sergioherrera1441
@sergioherrera1441 4 года назад
I feel the same way but every time I go to sleep I try to think that since my body was made by such great power the same power that moves planets 🪐 and the same energy that grows the grass the trees then I think my heart beat functions with such a great energy too !!!🙌🏼🙌🏼
@raynarks
@raynarks 7 лет назад
The idea of living forever makes me feel very tired.
@crystalwiser5980
@crystalwiser5980 5 лет назад
Forever is forever of amazing tired is weakness leaving your mental state.
@randykarnell9980
@randykarnell9980 5 лет назад
The idea of living until next Thursday - makes ME feel very tired. .
@Xarkom89
@Xarkom89 5 лет назад
Hit the gym. :P
@freeunderratedmusic4273
@freeunderratedmusic4273 4 года назад
The idea of taking a break from life sometimes sounds really relieving. I believe there will be a possibility to live life that in the future, as many don't want to live continuously, and some want to be gone forever.
@marka112
@marka112 4 года назад
raynarks the idea of living past 20 makes me tired
@amandagill577
@amandagill577 7 лет назад
This is so true. I find that when I try and discuss dying with my friends and family, the exception being my sister, people will always attempt to change the subject. Why is everyone so afraid, I would hate to think of living forever!
@mahadlife
@mahadlife 4 года назад
“This place is a dream . Only a sleeper considers it real . Then death comes like dawn , and you wake up laughing at what you thought was your grief “ . Rumi
@bwill8311
@bwill8311 10 месяцев назад
People are afraid to talk about death, therefore as a society, we lack the understanding. As if we wont experience death in one way or another. People will lose their parents, children, spouse and a majority of people are not ready. They will sit in grief and in awe of how the world just keeps on keeping on, while yours comes crashing down,
@waterbender19
@waterbender19 7 лет назад
The reason death is so scary is because your brain can't wrap itself around you ceasing to exist. How can things happen without us seeing and perceiving them? Our subconscious asks. On the other hand, in Tuck Everlasting, the driving quote was: "death is not scary. What's scary is living forever." I haven't watched that movie since I was a very young child, but the quote has stuck with me
@maximkazhenkov11
@maximkazhenkov11 7 лет назад
That's a logical fallacy. Living forever implies having infinite memory space in your brain/afterlife-soul, otherwise you would be able to remember an infinitely long life, and you're effectively just deleting and re-writing your memory. If you do assume infinite memory space, your complexity scales accordingly and you wouldn't necessarily "get bored" ever.
@joycemiller1935
@joycemiller1935 6 лет назад
Going to sleep is a mini death every night - basically, you cease to exist for however long you are asleep
@nunyabiz2854
@nunyabiz2854 7 лет назад
Her voice is so soothing
@joeytheallen
@joeytheallen 7 лет назад
Right? I could listen to her talk all day.
@EHanslo
@EHanslo 7 лет назад
Yes, her voice is verrrrry soothing, sounded the same before she understood the truth... oh how we find fault in someone when the truth is spoken...
@gallen2101
@gallen2101 6 лет назад
I could listen to her for hours!!
@gallen2101
@gallen2101 6 лет назад
I know!
@Alexander_Kale
@Alexander_Kale 5 лет назад
Agreed. Real "Grandma Voice". If only her message wasn't so horrifying...
@ginastyler320
@ginastyler320 2 года назад
Nice one! “It’s not how long I live that matters, it’s how I lived, and I intend to do it well”
@sukkeri
@sukkeri 7 лет назад
Dying is not that bad. Aging is.
@Mekratrig
@Mekratrig 5 лет назад
Dying slowly is the horror. Because it sneaks up on you as you continue to get acclimated to progressive lost capabilities. If I had been asked 10 years ago if I would be willing to continue living under the current circumstances I am experiencing, I would have scoffed and said “Of course not. I’ll off myself long before I reach such a state.” And yet here I am, still alive. One of my greatest fears is I’ll continue accepting the downhill slide until I’m bed-bound and incapable of terminating my existence.
@onemercilessming1342
@onemercilessming1342 5 лет назад
pentti k--Absolutely. Aging sucks. It's a slow, slalom and somewhat painful run to the bedfast ward of the long-term nursing facility. Pehaps DEATH is God's/nature's way of saying, "Tired of all this? Well, here's your ticket out."
@CountryRefuge
@CountryRefuge 5 лет назад
@@Mekratrig You so well express my sentiments. Thanks!
@minde28383
@minde28383 5 лет назад
@@Mekratrig i'm sure lots of people agree with such view. Especially when one is in its prime and says oh i would never accept living that way in that condition... but when things goes downhill you see that life is the only thing which is tangible, and beyond is unknown, so let us stay here for little a bit longer. What's coming will come anyways so why to rush.
@venusdanridge9599
@venusdanridge9599 5 лет назад
pentti k Gospel playlist my gospel play list
@danseabreeze1404
@danseabreeze1404 7 лет назад
Leaving your body permanently (physical death) might not be that bad. The BAD part is not knowing HOW you will die and how long you will be in pain and/or discomfort. Some people die in their sleep while for others it takes years of debilitating diseases including pain, discomfort, surgeries and loss of independence before they die. Huge difference!
@skyking228
@skyking228 7 лет назад
I just hope and pray that I won't be a burden to others. I've seen to many family Caregivers destroy their lives while taking care of loved ones that refuse to take responsibility for their final years.
@suzishealthyhome8678
@suzishealthyhome8678 5 лет назад
So make sure you take responsibility and prepare for yours. My Mum tried to give all us kids money and I refused. I'm glad I did as she needed it for a care home - I visited every day until she passed, but there's no way I could have cared for her. Way past my abilities
@2012evolution
@2012evolution 9 месяцев назад
One of my favorite tedtalks
@azaramoon4027
@azaramoon4027 7 лет назад
These TED talks keep me sane while im dying!
@qo2825
@qo2825 3 года назад
She has the speech of a Professor that we all need and deserve in University.
@ammarmalhas-gmail8226
@ammarmalhas-gmail8226 5 лет назад
I love this lady. I love her calmness, her wisdom and the simple radiating hidden soothing energy she emits! She has talked real sense in this video and said it all with what defines our humanity is our ability to die. However, I refuse to accept that such sophisticated beings as us, spring out of nothing for no reason and then disappear back into nothing!! As EINSTEIN put it matter does not end, it transforms into energy and energy into matter and so on! I do not believe that my soul, that thing inside my body looking out at you and writing you these words which is not just some neurons firing into a piece of meat/cholesterol, I do not believe it will one day vanish into oblivion! My body will rot away and transform back into dirt or fertilizer or whatever, but not my soul, which no one was ever able to define. My soul will not vanish and will move into something else somewhere in some time or space which our minds do not comprehend yet ... I choose to believe this ... If anyone can prove me wrong, please ...... don't!
@slangster233
@slangster233 5 лет назад
even a fly struggles not to die fights for her freedom she's glad to be alive even as a fly
@ginotentori9493
@ginotentori9493 5 лет назад
Once you realize you are an immortal being, experimenting a human life experience, everything becomes easier, and your life purpose comes into focus.
@yosrfetah923
@yosrfetah923 7 лет назад
I totally agree, people always make you feel like it's cursing to talk about death!!
@wildmarks5266
@wildmarks5266 7 лет назад
Yosr Fetah you are still in young age....be save and happy
@ECA2
@ECA2 7 лет назад
Life is risky; You're not going to get out of it alive.
@randykarnell9980
@randykarnell9980 5 лет назад
3 of my friends found a small crack in the Universe - escaped. Literally. GOT OUT ALIVE .
@sullconstruct
@sullconstruct 4 года назад
How did your 3 friends do this randy?
@sednafloating7027
@sednafloating7027 7 лет назад
what an enchanting voice.
@Newday1187
@Newday1187 7 лет назад
If immortality within reach, humans will reach new frontiers beyond our current imagination. think of individuals being able to acquire hundred of years of experience and multidisciplinary knowledge. speaking of how tedious and boring immirtal life will be is an act of narrow minded people. the beauty, excitement and amusement in the ever changing scientific challenges are endless.
@Anonymous_Man
@Anonymous_Man 7 лет назад
I agree with you. And it's not just science. Art and culture as well as society in general will benefit. Not just the individual. The arguments against living indefinitely are always narrow sighted and opponents of indefinite lifespans like to focus on people's fears - rich people, overpopulation, etc. I've never understood why they even need an argument against living indefinitely. If you don't want to live beyond a certain age you are free to terminate your existence. No one is going to force this lady to live any longer than she wants to. In contrast her opposition to longer or indeed indefinite lives could hurt the people who do want to live longer.
@Newday1187
@Newday1187 7 лет назад
Anonymous Man Yes, she is sending a wrong message about life extension enthusiasts with her "man on supplements example!" ignoring the real work on tolmeres, senescent cells, genetics and free radicals "just to name a few". it's a disgrace to find such video on TED it ought to be nothing but comic hogwash.
@coldmow
@coldmow 6 лет назад
And it will never be worth it... Experience is just an illusion fated to be undone by understanding...
@DrStark-pe8pt
@DrStark-pe8pt 6 лет назад
Can you understanding all of this infinite universe some day?
@sandrapierce4718
@sandrapierce4718 3 года назад
Even if humanity reached immortality on Earth the Universe is doomed to die itself so either way unless we find another universe or artificially save the sun from dying out we will also perish.
@RubyNeumann
@RubyNeumann 3 года назад
Thank you!!!! This means the world to me to hear what Lesley shared. I needed this today... on Easter Sunday of all days... Thank you!!!
@humilityisaformofdeception8523
Death is the door to the truth .
@karstdeviz3858
@karstdeviz3858 4 года назад
We couldn't know if it is though. If we're forever unconscious after dying, how can we realize what happens to us.
@afifnasseredine4334
@afifnasseredine4334 4 года назад
@@karstdeviz3858 this is what terrifies me
@manava13skplayer50
@manava13skplayer50 4 года назад
a little too late tho
@parttime_kpopstan8061
@parttime_kpopstan8061 3 года назад
@@karstdeviz3858 I kind of can't imagine there just being nothing, something that exist can't graps the idea of not existing...but humans, like all living things are alive because of energy, right? Where does that energy go? Does it just disappear into thin air??
@lilithlevaykjeldahl5257
@lilithlevaykjeldahl5257 5 лет назад
What a wonderful lecture. We do not hear such truths often, as many people are so uncomfortable with the notion of death. I truly believe that if we were encouraged to talk about death from an early age, we would come to the realisations and understandings so beautifully expressed in this video. Thank you, Lesley Hazleton.
@thechad7803
@thechad7803 7 лет назад
Love this lady. Bunch of scared cowards we are. Being afraid of death is akin to fearing the sun rising because my friends that shit is coming for us all. Take it like a man you whimpering simpletons
@MaartenvanRossemLezingen
@MaartenvanRossemLezingen 6 лет назад
Being scared of death is completely normal, it's just as natural as the sun rising, or death itself . Fearing death is the strongest instinct in all animals, even people with severe alzheimer's disease fear death. To mold your mind so that you stop fearing death, that is just as unnatural as ending aging, or going into space, or sleeping in a bed, or using the Internet, or wearing clothes, etc.
@JoeD60
@JoeD60 5 лет назад
This just now lifted sadness of the loss of a favorite celebrity I didn't know I was carrying.
@deniseoneil2887
@deniseoneil2887 5 лет назад
For most of us life is mostly a hamsters wheel . . On and on and on with intermittent moments of happiness.
@persephones_favorite
@persephones_favorite 2 года назад
Is there truly something wrong with that? What is the best way to live in your opinion?
@UsenameTakenWasTaken
@UsenameTakenWasTaken 5 лет назад
Ends are nothing but new beginnings, and I am not who I was yesterday. Who I was yesterday is now who I was ten years ago. If you can't find or make something to interest you in that vast expanse of experience, then you're doing something wrong. Chronic depression is not an argument against a potential eternal life, but an argument that some people don't want to live.
@MM-me8xh
@MM-me8xh 3 года назад
This soothes me of the death of my mom. Indeed the years she lived made my life different and us to remember her so long as we live.
@AlbertCloete
@AlbertCloete 7 лет назад
Look, if you want to die that's fine. If you think people who don't want to die are silly, that's fine too. But if you even hint at trying to force those beliefs onto others, there will be big problems. Also, "One must imagine Sisyphus happy." -- Albert Camus
@tonideveraux8484
@tonideveraux8484 7 лет назад
Albert Cloete how so? What problems? She is saying we all die, accept and live your life.
@OptimisticCynic715
@OptimisticCynic715 6 лет назад
Toni Deveraux - As long as technology continues to advance, death and disease will become rare and possibly 100% optional at some point. That's probably the mindset of the guy taking the supplements. There will always be new challenges for those with the will to face them. But you can lay down and accept failure any time you choose.
@bxnewyork5074
@bxnewyork5074 7 лет назад
The fear of death is nature but not rational. Death is nothing to me. Because when I am here death is not and when death is here I am gone.
@connorp2402
@connorp2402 7 лет назад
But when you are here you can enjoy being here but when you are gone you can no long enjoy anything at all forever
@poknari
@poknari 6 лет назад
No he is just re-quoting mark twain, if im not mistaken.
@HarDiMonPetit
@HarDiMonPetit 5 лет назад
We rightfully crave for eternity rather than immortality. And we have it - if we just take the time to feel it. Like Spinoza said: "We feel that we are eternal."
@kellyalonzi2917
@kellyalonzi2917 Год назад
Wow. Her voice is so calming. I could listen to her for hours.
@mohammedfazalurrahman9975
@mohammedfazalurrahman9975 7 лет назад
she is just awesome . May God bless her .
@Ka9radio_Mobile9
@Ka9radio_Mobile9 5 лет назад
She does not believe in god.
@Noorkauthar22
@Noorkauthar22 5 лет назад
@@Ka9radio_Mobile9 but God believe in her
@Dionyzos
@Dionyzos 7 лет назад
I wouldn't want to live forever, but I would love to try more things that I normally wouldn't because I'm getting too old for them.
@wildmarks5266
@wildmarks5266 7 лет назад
Dionyzos there are so many songs in me that won't be song...the time has come for me to pay for yesterday ...when I was young
@MaartenvanRossemLezingen
@MaartenvanRossemLezingen 6 лет назад
I wouldn't want to live forever, but I would like to stay young and healthy for as long as I'd like, probably a couple of hundred years.
@suzishealthyhome8678
@suzishealthyhome8678 5 лет назад
Do them!!!! No regrets.
@gislainelee3181
@gislainelee3181 2 года назад
She just delivered an astonishing point about human existence. And i am astonished if all you can gather is her soothing voice
@SajidAli-je1sd
@SajidAli-je1sd 7 лет назад
so we should try to collect all the happiness and love cause life is a journey!!! - its sounds amazing man
@mahmudasheikh8664
@mahmudasheikh8664 4 года назад
such a mesmerizing voice Heard her for the first time and already heard four of her speeches awesome oration and beautiful content !
@leonbotes3225
@leonbotes3225 5 лет назад
Wonderful!! Thank you so much.
@mininglife07
@mininglife07 6 лет назад
Excellent Me Lady! I would like to watch your smile and speech ten times before I happily die! Thank You
@dearman1954
@dearman1954 6 лет назад
The only thing I am afraid of is living a pointless life. The lady speaker is asking the right question. What's wrong with dying? I think a person's life is their own. And if someone wants to end theirs then that is their business.
@Tazzypoo821
@Tazzypoo821 Год назад
wow thats deep. She said we NEED an ending. Great speech overall. yes HOW you live
@cigarcompulsion1763
@cigarcompulsion1763 3 года назад
What an amazing talk! It’s not how long, but how well!
@magicisreal111
@magicisreal111 7 лет назад
Beautiful! Standing ovation!
@bobmarshall3700
@bobmarshall3700 5 лет назад
Spot on Lesley! Well done for the excellent lateral thinking and inquiring mind!
@roseannerainwatersmith12
@roseannerainwatersmith12 5 лет назад
Wow! Great talk. Thank you ever so much.
@yaibanoutsukushii
@yaibanoutsukushii 3 года назад
Great speech! I’m working on accepting my mortality and this helps so much!
@mobk9774
@mobk9774 6 лет назад
Bravo! So eloquently put. You are a marvel and legend.
@KuraiDansa
@KuraiDansa 5 лет назад
this is probably the most calming thing i have ever watched
@dondressel452
@dondressel452 3 года назад
I could listen to her for eternity
@annoyedworm5664
@annoyedworm5664 5 лет назад
Her voice is so so soothing! Epic speech!
@delbertwalsh9146
@delbertwalsh9146 6 лет назад
Stupendous, one of the most healthy view points on the subject I have ever heard.
@domais68
@domais68 6 лет назад
Excellent talk. Thank you!
@TVPDX
@TVPDX 7 лет назад
Best talk of the entire conference!
@gardenbun
@gardenbun 4 года назад
What a brilliant, eloquent, and imaginative woman!
@waheedahmad4710
@waheedahmad4710 7 лет назад
This lady is amazing, her voice is fabulous.
@davidsweeney111
@davidsweeney111 7 лет назад
Nothing wrong with it, perfectly natural, bring it on!
@user-xv5hk3vn7l
@user-xv5hk3vn7l 6 лет назад
you see death alone can make you a believer in God's existence let alone everything else in the world.
@susan137
@susan137 5 лет назад
If you want to die it's not hard to obtain. So why haven't you just grabbed for your desire?
@PopTap
@PopTap 3 года назад
Many have died before us. Historically speaking, it’s natural and everyone faces it. We repopulate, or not, and everything goes on until there is nothing left. Death is part of life, you can live forever until your not, your loved ones would be gone, or maybe the planet, universe, etc. Can it still be called being “alive” then..?
@lyndagauthier1670
@lyndagauthier1670 Год назад
So wonderful, omg I love you 💕😘 thank you
@loveverse-xx5vu
@loveverse-xx5vu 4 года назад
I am not scared to die I am ready anytime to die I feel better if I left this world
@MaartenvanRossemLezingen
@MaartenvanRossemLezingen 6 лет назад
The real cowards are those that are so afraid of death that they've accepted it, accepting death is another way of refusing to think about it. They refuse to see a different option to dying of old age because they're afraid of missing out. Rather than fighting death, they give up and stick to the safety of what used to be, while also dragging others into death so they're not alone.
@NicholasEngerer
@NicholasEngerer 6 лет назад
Interesting to see the watershed before us - those who choose rejuvenation, and those who reject it. What a schism this will be in society!
@lazygamerz
@lazygamerz 7 лет назад
People kinda romanticize "the golden years", but the truth is, retirement is disease and frailty, boredom and bodily fluids. I can't do anything of what I want to do, if I'm old and frail. Its all too dangerous for a frail elderly body and brain.
@jonpadrejuan5357
@jonpadrejuan5357 5 лет назад
I love love this lady!!!
@jennifer86010
@jennifer86010 5 лет назад
Her point is relative and different for everyone. For young children who are dying of cancer, they would view Lesley Hazleton's life as living almost forever. For people approaching 100 years of age, they would look at Lesley as a youngster. For people in third world countries, just as in ancient times, they are dying before age 30. As recent as the 1900's many people died around age 50. So to be able to live an average of today's 74 years back in olden days, would be viewed almost as a type of eternal life. I'm sure in the future, the average lifespan will increase to over 100, unless wars, disease, and natural disasters step in to cull the world populations down to a more reasonable size. We are at 7 Billion humans now. 50 years ago the world had less than 2 1/2 billion. The world can only accommodate so many until circumstances and nature reduce populations. Natural law.
@kathycoleman4648
@kathycoleman4648 5 лет назад
As one of the characters in my Hades and Persephone retelling told her immortal love interest, who was trying to rush her into living forever: "Forever is a long, long time."
@AshSchultzArt
@AshSchultzArt 7 лет назад
I wish I had her level of acceptance. I suffer from anxiety and after a dream involving the rather dramatic spectacle of death-by-nuke of myself and my family, followed by an odd waking moment from the dream where my eyes were still closed, i felt i was conscious, but in some black void, until I opened my eyes, and needless to say that experience fucked me up... I'm now terrified of dying and I feel like I have so little time left now and I'm only 33. My quality of life is turning to shit because of it. I just can't bring myself to accept it, or ignore it's inevitability. Hats off to this lady.
@nobodiesband
@nobodiesband Год назад
How u doin
@AshSchultzArt
@AshSchultzArt Год назад
@@nobodiesband I’m recovered from anxiety and doing great. Thankfully there’s a way to recover from it and not something you’re permanently stuck with
@nobodiesband
@nobodiesband Год назад
@Ash Schultz Art excellent to hear brother ☄️
@ScaeanGate
@ScaeanGate 5 лет назад
What a lovely lady, such calm wisdom
@nicholasjames1101
@nicholasjames1101 5 лет назад
Glorious, wonderful outlook too life. Enjoyable, funny and worry free.
@QueenZsWorld
@QueenZsWorld 5 лет назад
that's one way to look at it... but it's not like life on earth is a repeat of the same things. you meet new people, you learn new things, you always have something else to achieve, someone else to help, some other person's life to pour into and nurture. if you're living for yourself it might get boring. but if you're living to inspire and better the lives of those around you, you may get tired but I doubt you'd actively wish for it to end. I don't think death is a bad thing but I also don't see life as entirely meaningless either.
@Ronakalin70
@Ronakalin70 5 лет назад
Just GREAT as always :)
@ToneyCrimson
@ToneyCrimson 5 лет назад
Everything..everything is wrong with dying. If nothing was wrong with it we would not try so hard to survive.
@waleed8405
@waleed8405 5 лет назад
Wise, clever and witty she seems always are!
@kpzcbttp
@kpzcbttp 5 лет назад
What a lovely lady with a fabulous voice.
@amitpinchas3077
@amitpinchas3077 6 лет назад
Amazing, I have a death anxity and you helped me fear less
@prlfr
@prlfr 7 лет назад
If the advancements in technology would enable a healthy and potentially infinite life, it just means that when it ends is an individual choice.
@muffinn1337
@muffinn1337 7 лет назад
But it would be pritty hard to choose death
@romanempire8705
@romanempire8705 7 лет назад
muffinn reminds me to the movie "In Time"
@muffinn1337
@muffinn1337 7 лет назад
Kevin D. Najera havent seen it
@romanempire8705
@romanempire8705 7 лет назад
muffinn it's a cool movie to watch at least once, it's a about time being the new currency of the future, the rich living forever basically while the poor die in great numbers.
@yeah9071
@yeah9071 7 лет назад
people would choose death only if they wanted to die at which point it would be the opposite of hard to make the choice. Your comment is illogical.
@phoenixtoash2396
@phoenixtoash2396 2 года назад
Nothing more fearful than living through terrible times, or living so long that you think that daylight might burn alittle.
@JossieMimo
@JossieMimo 7 лет назад
Can we take a moment to appreciate that starting quote?
@windy6020
@windy6020 6 дней назад
RIP 💖
@reiverdaemon
@reiverdaemon 7 лет назад
Beautiful.
@egodust11
@egodust11 5 лет назад
If you study life carefully enough, you'll realize the cyclical nature of things and events...everything that vibrates, especially if it's endowed with any semblance of awareness, operates within a breathing process. Breath itself, the heartbeat, waking/sleeping, day/night, work/play, pleasure/pain, life/death. *Life/death is a cycle* ... which means it will repeat itself, like any other cyclical dynamic. Moreover, science now supports the continuum of the animus (soul). Sciences such as remote viewing, hypnotherapy, and to some reliably repeatable and therefore verifiable extent, psychism itself.
@humabutt5414
@humabutt5414 3 года назад
I am a Muslim.. and heard you first time.. and liked your perception about life ... in other videos about islam and Muhammad and amazed ..you are Muslim or not but I can sense that Allah is some where with you because He has blessed with you with an open heart .. May Allah bless you with His reward THE LIFE HERE AFTER which is more imp in islam..
@edwardrussell7168
@edwardrussell7168 3 года назад
She does not want life of the hereafter... you have missed the whole crux of her talk... dont make her what she is not...
@somebody401
@somebody401 7 лет назад
You're absolutely right, no matter how long we live but what is matters is how do we live.... So if I don't live as I want to live as I planed once to live, yes I'll be living, but in hill while I'm thinking that I'm still alive.
@acohen3951
@acohen3951 5 лет назад
Great lecture. Brings everything into focus as life is finite. No question about that, and it is natural to die. We may not know when that will occur, and for that reason at least to me, I enjoy each day, the best that I can, knowing I may not see another sunrise or sunset, so that I stop and enjoy it !
@volkerschmitz6623
@volkerschmitz6623 5 лет назад
thats the ONLY right answer , aging is a disease and we should stop it , so ppl can decide weither they want to spend more time with their loved ones or not .
@helge666
@helge666 7 лет назад
Everything is wrong with dying, but Ms. Hazleton makes it seem like it's a big bag of fun for the whole family.
@wildmarks5266
@wildmarks5266 7 лет назад
Helge Kautz if you losed someone you love I'm sorry for that
@abbasmoosvi9508
@abbasmoosvi9508 7 лет назад
What a beautiful talk.
@arabspring5103
@arabspring5103 7 лет назад
What is wrong with medicine/technology that would allow us to live as long or as briefly as we desire?
@davenelson7236
@davenelson7236 6 лет назад
DUH?
@gibbygibson6680
@gibbygibson6680 5 лет назад
The fact that the world will become overpopulated. We will die one way or another. We would run out of food if we all lived forever and kept repopulating. It’s a nice idea, but eternal life has so many flaws.
@shanenelson3863
@shanenelson3863 4 года назад
@@gibbygibson6680 not if we get so technologically advanced that we can upload our brain to an Android body.
@yassingbreel7854
@yassingbreel7854 4 года назад
Arab Spring soul it's belongs to God and no one Else...
@0xszander0
@0xszander0 3 года назад
Old comment but I had to respond. You are answering your own question. It is NEVER one and the other. People do not get to choose euthanasia right now. What makes you think this would be different in a world where we live forever?
@sauce_ur_patty
@sauce_ur_patty 6 лет назад
She may not be religious but she's definitely along the lines of those spirituals. Why would life lose meaning by prolonging it? Saying that life can only appreciated by dying is just like saying happiness can only be achieved by suffering. Also, getting bored because of 'immortality' is for people lacking imagination. You now have this wonderful universe to explore all of your life, what could possibly make you bored? You can't even watch all these RU-vid vids even if you have 2000 yeafs of lifetime.
@jamesgregory2197
@jamesgregory2197 6 лет назад
Thank you
@gimpynogo2726
@gimpynogo2726 5 лет назад
I don’t have to get up i the morning and I love it.
@theunderdawg.
@theunderdawg. 4 года назад
As someone who is religious I do disagree, but I do understand where she's coming from. It does seem like life loses its intrinsic value if its only a precursor to another, however, as written in several scriptures, life is still a fleeting and mysterious thing and an afterlife does not take away from the preciousness of life in my eyes, but adds to it.
@Tao33316
@Tao33316 6 лет назад
Lesley, you're captivatingly articulate and charmingly funny!
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