Step 1: making a playlist of his videos Step 2 : putting headphones Step 3 : cleaning the house while listening to pure knowledge Step 4 : smilling Step 5 : don't forget step 4
I like to hear that my man and besides I've been trying to stay on my purpose to this day and I'm trying to grind I'm not there yet but I'm still trying my hardest to do it I'll get there and with my attitude and I'm thinking like that will get me somewhere love to comment man
Am I the only woman here who loves this guy’s mind?! dude your channel is so underrated. I just stumbled upon your channel few minutes ago and I’m already hooked with your videos! I love love your analogies. You made me realize a lot of personal stuff that I’m not aware that I’ve been feeling or thinking until now. Dude, I can’t thank you enough in putting up all these videos. Respect to your hardwork and work ethic, man.
I think what makes this channel so good is that you feel REAL. When I watch these videos, I don't feel like I'm watching a YT video, I feel as if I'm listening to a good friend giving me genuine advice and wisdom, and you do a fantastic job of conveying that tone. Keep up the good work brother :DDD
Some real talk but the beta thing can help you out, especially during this corona. For those guys who want a certain girl or have been rejected by a girl but didn’t get her because he wasn’t (insert whatever here). Imagine you start during this corona, no fap, you start reading, meditation, yada yada yada but when you come back, imagine the changed man you can become, the disciplined man. They won’t even recognize you and think it was a mistake to reject you. Soon they’ll be chasing you and you’ll either think, she wasn’t that worth it and reject her or two you’ll give her a chance but at least this time you’ll have the drive to better yourself as well. Do it my guys.
SelfMadeSocial Mainly lack of discipline, I think it happened because I burned myself out. I was working full time 45+hours a week plus was going to school full time. Was trying to incorporate the gym in as well and was also volunteering and had zero support lol Not that I couldn’t do it but sometimes without friends or family around it starts to get to you. Like everyone else I have more problems, but that was the biggest one. I learned from the book, “Cupid’s poisoned arrow” that it probably started because I watched porn. Porn along with doing so much drained me of all my energy. How about yourself?
@@Macam2macam I agree, don't do it for girls. That's why I said to do it to become a more disciplined man and to become a man who has the drive to better himself. As I tell my buddy, always up never down lol
The very best thing you can do is to become the best version of yourself and then stay true to that. You'll attract the right woman and people/situations for that matter. You won't have to front because you're being yourself and the right girl will stick around. If she leaves then good riddance. View it as a blessing because there is now space for the right person to come.
Self confidence, self love, self respect. Work on those and you're pretty much sorted, because if you get all those in line you're gunna chase your dreams, take good care of yourself, talk with confidence etc all NATURALLY. If you just focus on the surface stuff, your internal beliefs and self relationship not being great will ALWAYS hold you back.
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I love how you always talk about relationships and mindset without the misogynistic and manipulative way that I see in other channels, that just looks so negative. Keep up bro, love from Spain.
I appreciate the fact that you are so real and say everything off the top of your head. I noticed this from how you take things back. You make us realize that we not perfect and that's okay. Much love.
Thank you I needed to hear this. Im back to playing guitar and I feel amazing! I didn't even open her message, didn't feel the need to. Happier doing my passions, but will reply.... tomorow 😎
I had a girl show interest in me once in a club and when she asked if I felt the same. I don’t know if this was the right thing to say but I literally told her “tbh I am focused on myself and my goals at the moment and a girl isn’t what I need right now” and she become so attracted to me and told me multiple times that she does and at one point (when drunk) even said “I’ll wait”. Things didn’t pursue as i am admitting right now that I was to afraid to. I had the mentality that I’m not good enough etc.
I've watched about 20 of your videos now and WOW! This is one of the best. I could feel the passion and the honesty in this video. I love how you also admit in the past you have struggled as well, it makes you a lot more relatable. Keep it up!!!
Brooo agreed with everything you said 100000 percent. that’s why most guys have insecurities, it’s cause they’re missing drive and are not obsessed about their goals
I'm not the most handsome dude, but I still was able to get a girlfriend. I had the confidence to ask the girl out and turned out she liked me back. If she didn't like me it would have been fine, worst thing that can happen is they say no.
Your channel and Developed Attraction channel make sense to me - focus on your goals and let people including women come to you. I don’t really like this negative red pill chat (whilst I don’t disagree with it) people get so negative and it’s like so what you’re going to be alone for the rest of your life because someone on RU-vid says this is the new way? It just means you should recognise red flags and put yourself first. I feel positive and encouraged watching your videos 😊 back on the NOFAP and focusing on my shit again 💪
David, I just wanna say thanks man, thank you for making these videos. By following the advice in your videos along with elliot hulse and Corey Wayne, I was able to win and keep the girl of my dreams, and now we're engaged to be married this fall! From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU for the realness and keeping my eyes on growing as a man.
@@David_Hammondman I know it's Been 3 years I am 15 I've Beenhakker workimg out real hard for last 4 months like no day when I don't count calories I am running at 6 am. And you know what I made it I made a girl Fall in love with me so I needed ur honest advice not like some shifty commercial youtubers do... thank you man
Would love a video on "How to know if she's right for you", so many guys are chasing girls that aren't right for them or won't support their goals and will only demotivate them
Yo Man! you speak those words right outta my soul! see - i fucked up! there was a time i had my shit together but then i had to move to another town, new job, knew no one... and because i was used to always having my shit together i was like " yeah this will work out no matter what"... a few days later i met that wonderful woman - been with her for 2 years and then we had to break up...why?! because there have been problems that started days before i met her and i never really took care of! looking back it sounds stupid but just weeks after the breakup i had everything together ´cause i was focusing on myself instead of putting my energy into making her feel like i am the alpha who got everything under control... Guys..no matter what - you come first! have your shit together before you start something serious or it might take you two f***ing years before you recognize the real problem! thanks for the video! stay clean! peace!
i realize not realize i feel like u have a drive to speak man, like i could literally feel ur charisma just proves how powerful this no fap shit is good content man.Proud to be supporting u from the beginning
epic bombz yeah man! And don’t get it twisted I loved self-development far before I found nofap. It’s been a long journey of over 7 years. But yes man nofap can Defs help. Cheers brother! 💯🙏
What did all the men did back in the day, 30,40,50 years ago? They had no RU-vid, no one to guide them most of the time actually, but still managed to marry a good girl and have a stable relationships. Strange times indeed.
When a relationship is about to break up, how do you know when to keep trying to save it without coming off desperate? At what point do you try to save it, and at what point do you just walk away?
@@David_Hammond It's literally almost impossible to walk away when everything is going perfectly and you don't wanna lose that. So its about risking it even if it was going good? Is it ever a good idea to just throw a "hey" out there after some time has passed? Long or short time
I've got a problem which is kind of opposite to this. I am driven to achieve the things I aim for right now and maybe I am too much dedicated to it. After getting the girl I don't give them that much attention as I'm more concerned about my goals. They sense the energy and want to stay but it is I who doesn't want it anymore. I know I might be the asshole who baits girls and then treats them like shit and that is the reason I stopped all this now and I focus completely on myself till I am ready for a partner.
Anuraag Chetty there’s no such thing as being too dedicated to your goals. The most revolutionary people do this. Women always come second to a man. Keep going bro!
just a quick comment letting you know there are some of us out there that respect you a whole lot more for being so open and filter free with your audience. Arrogance might be the key to mistery but being genuine is definetely the key to trust
Dawg... This is golden. You’re great at what you do, keep going man. You deserve a ton of traction, and you’ll get it. KEEP GOING (prolly don’t need to hear this but)
I know this does not mean a ton, but i just want you to know that i really enjoy watching your videos and they are very helpful and meaningful, keep up the awesome work bro!
Men listen up..lol...you have such good advice for men and woman...I'm a woman and can say I agree with every word you say...those men who are in a zone where the sweat is dripping and his energy is so focused on his work....thats what WOMAN look for....also if a Man is funny and has some clever comebacks ....he also gets the girls right...because humour is a sign of drive and entertainment
Yep you're absolutely right I was divorced for two years started dating fortunately I got myself into a situation lost everything I met this woman she was there for me I didn't have my s*** straight but she was still there for me come to find out later he was still in love with her ex from the past try to work things out I tried too hard because I wasn't on my own path on purpose but you're right you got to have your s*** together I got caught up and I've been through plenty of relationships before I was married I should have known better but I wasn't focusing on my purpose but yes you're absolutely right if you have your s*** together everything comes into place better
Well she definitely came into my life when I was losing everything so it was definitely easy for me to attach onto her and bed because I never had any woman take care of me like that and like I said I've been through a lot of relationships I'm older should have known better I definitely would have taken it slower and dated her taking my time but soon as she came into my life she constantly want to be around me come and see me all the time she even came around my kids which I really regret they really got too close to her too so yeah I definitely would have just taking my time got to know her better first but she was just so pushy and I had nothing else so I let her come in too easy but yeah I would have just dated her more from outside I probably would have caught things earlier but my mind wasn't in the right place
@@selfmadesocial7280 thank you I appreciate that I think the hardest part now is that trying to heal my heart forward she's been pushing and pushing but finally at least you slow down hopefully from here on out I can move forward without her trying to contact me because straight up she's not trying to change anything she's never going to leave her ex that's basically her first baby daddy her first love the stupid thing is supposed to be like I was never there for her and he's not even around just don't get women LOL
@@selfmadesocial7280 thank you I will do that I already told her I forgive her just so she can have some peace of mind and move on with their own life I don't want anymore drama I'm too old for that I definitely think there's someone out there better someone asking to play games and go cold and hot on you and everything else I don't have time for that thanks again bro
@@joeo8070 thanks for your story because in the future it will help us and if u try again u will get it man i am sure be responsible for your kids and future
If you chase excellence you shall achieve the excellence you want. Along the way you will attract women and if you like one take her along, as long as she does not hold you back along your journey to being your best self and accomplishing your goals. If she is a good women she will help strength & encourage you to be your most excellent self. By being your own man, as you do not need a woman to complete you, and chasing and attaining your own personal excellence you will continually attract the women you want.
He’s right though, now and days many guys put their whole attention on a girl. NO! Focus on your purpose not your girl, make her your 3rd priority. She just joins along the ride. Always put yourself first 💯
Great content man. It make sense yea. its true if you wanna settle down with one chic, marry her, then kids. But bro, you got all the time in the world sipping those beverages in all the videos man. Are you trying to establish your distinctive characteristic in this platform? Yea pretty creative. I wish your channel growing each day. But The issues on my part is sometimes you just dont know where to start to get that shit together. Especially when you face failures multiple times man. When that shit hit you bro. It breaks me mentally. Its not easy to heal from that crap man. Especially now the age of covid19 on-ward. You can listen to motivation videos on this app or read quotes to lift you up. Read books to be inspire again. Go seminars join workshops. But, at the end of the day it's between me vs my own brain.
David Hammond no offense dawg but I've been listening to you for a bit and all the info is just repeated back and forth so I'm gonna stop watching RU-vid because I feel like I know what to do and just thrive out in the real world. Thanks for raising me and I shall make y'all proud!
Great information David. I was wondering what books do you read to keep you so knowledgeable with such a wide vocabulary. Definitely learned a lot these past few months from you. Thank you man.
Bro I agree with u.. Im on my hustle everyday, just working on me and going after my dreams, I have friends like I get to know girls and yeah I become good friends with them and ... So does that mean I'm in friend zone? And great videos bro... Whenever I need a little push I consume ur content 🤜
I completely agree that drive is very important. Im a good looking guy, but ive gained a lot of weight, im only about 5'4 and im 24. My ex was very hot. Super hot. green eyes, short, beautiful body. And guys, i didnt lose her because of the looks. Looks have nothing to do with it. I lost her because i was becoming lazy, i wasnt being a man. I was still being a kid. We lasted 4 years. So nothing is impossible if you have the drive.
That’s why there should always things going on you life first. So that you keep on moving and improving in life and there’s no worry if women leaves you anytime.
hey man you always motivate my soul and mind.. I hope you do a video about passion.. how to find it if we don't know what are our cosmic gifts! pleassssssssssss maaan
Thank you for what are u doing David :). 13day NF. Today i started keto, planning to stay in it forever . Feeling better than ever! Although I'm tired , waiting for my ketosis :D.
Hey David 🙋 First time here and I just broke up with my fiance if almost 2 years and I'm on the NC journey.ughhh🤦 this sucks but he's been calling and texting , even came by my home bc he said he was worried about me bc we've never been through this NC issue b4 but he's wanting me back and he said he respects my wishes but he loves me and want me to be his wife one-day.. I'm stuck so reaching out for answers at this time. It's only been a month in the NC zone. Please help🙏🙌
I agree with everything that you just said in this whole video it totally sounds like you know what you're saying in the words that you are saying are true everything in this video is true that you're saying
Thanks for this video man. I think this is different from alot of the other videos people put out. I feel like alot of the pickup stuff is just trying to be manipulative while this is being who you are and you masculine frame right off the bat. Brothers please don't take this lesson with a grain of salt like seriously.
Guys I remembered a porn video, and went back to watch it, not as something to satisfy me, but I was doing it for like a reunion. I only watched like a minute, than turned it off. I got to excited and had precum. But I never touched down their. I’m afraid I might of relapsed. But another part of me thinks it’s crazy that I think that’s a relapse
You should have come in my life a little earlier.. won't lie... But believe me i have started understanding your vision..and i know this will help me in my next chapter (current one is already doomed i guess).. Thanks man.. you are the champ🔁🔁
