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What to Do When You're Not Okay (Part 1) - Debra Fileta 

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@SimplySage854
@SimplySage854 3 года назад
I noticed that I was over doing things because I noticed it in friends and family before I noticed it in myself . I don’t have to prove myself all the time. I have value and I don’t have to do a whole bunch of things to prove that
@julietreagus7043
@julietreagus7043 3 года назад
Yes, very true, I've been like this also.... We r In Christ Jesus and because of this we are made whole. Halleluyah
@KimberlyOfTheRoyalPriesthood
@KimberlyOfTheRoyalPriesthood 3 года назад
That’s the truth
@amis6614
@amis6614 3 года назад
@@julietreagus7043 88888⁸íiiiii
@libertyjo6238
@libertyjo6238 3 года назад
@@amis6614 🤷🏻 hmm?
@CocoaBeat
@CocoaBeat 3 года назад
Thank you, Debra and Focus on the Family. I paused the video and looked up 1 Peter 5:7. I was also reminded of Matthew 11:28. I prayed along these lines although I wasn't sure how it would help. Then I came back watched the rest of this video as well as Part 2. A few videos later I noticed the spirit of heaviness I felt earlier had lifted and I felt free to sit up (I'd been in bed all day.) I now feel freedom. I believe the heavy burdens on my mind and heart were lifted by Christ. I believe the same grace and mercy will be available to me tomorrow too in Jesus Christ.
@aderibigbeadebimpe3354
@aderibigbeadebimpe3354 3 года назад
I thought I was the one that paused to pray and then continued till I got to part 2
@rohtati1020
@rohtati1020 3 года назад
It was the same for me 🌹🌹🌹
@carolynlemtur6654
@carolynlemtur6654 3 года назад
I just happened to come across this as I was scrolling down RU-vid and I'm so grateful. This is so timely.
@marialarra5125
@marialarra5125 3 года назад
Just found this by accident..no accident but by Devine appointment ..I have learned not to react to every emotion because emotions pass ..when my father died i had panic attacks only during the night once I learned and understood why I was having them they stopped ..but it's an on going to get to that heathly mind and emotional state ..wow glad I found this channel
@victoriamyers7273
@victoriamyers7273 3 года назад
I went through a decade, or more, of anxiety and panic attacks. I was not a believer. I wish I would have known Jesus at that time in my life. My children suffered as a result. Thanks for this discussion.
@connieashley1590
@connieashley1590 3 года назад
Yes, I had the same situation, I wish I had Jesus in my life back then as well.
@LL-lr8zb
@LL-lr8zb 3 года назад
I'm struggling. God's got me and that's what's keeping me going, but.
@dcat2004
@dcat2004 3 года назад
Read Psalms 25…..over and over and over…..🙏 L L♥️
@focusonthefamily
@focusonthefamily 3 года назад
God does have you, L L! We're also here to pray with you and we'd be happy to set up a counselor callback if you think it'd be helpful. Please call us at 800-232-6459. Blessings, friend.
@gailpopehn9221
@gailpopehn9221 3 года назад
Agree But I feel a bit neglected
@margrose5
@margrose5 3 года назад
I’m with you. Barely hanging on.
@michelleyoung9834
@michelleyoung9834 3 года назад
@@margrose5 before you let go ask Jesus to carry you. Trust Him and let go. What have you got to lose. He promises never to leave you nor forsake you. Trust Jesus. BRIXKIDZ & MICHELLE YOUNG MINDFUL MINUTES
@raelenekong6919
@raelenekong6919 3 года назад
Useful timestamps for my own reference: 17:26 Spiritual Wellbeing - What it's not and what it is
@munchkinelf
@munchkinelf 3 года назад
Yes Lord have your way encourage the hearers of this word and know that we need to listen to your voice and RECEIVE what help that is available in JESUS name AMEN.
@KimberlyOfTheRoyalPriesthood
@KimberlyOfTheRoyalPriesthood 3 года назад
Amen 🙏
@armindogenero
@armindogenero 3 года назад
What an important video! Thank you, dear brethren, for this wonderful experience.
@esterdingal3793
@esterdingal3793 3 года назад
I am so released today in having this videos about my struggles. It really shown me the truth I had been through. THANK YOU LORD 😭😭 I thought I was crazy and would not release from this panic attacks and anxieties.
@MelB868
@MelB868 3 года назад
I thought I had anxiety it ended up being a heart condition
@soniacasanova384
@soniacasanova384 7 месяцев назад
Loved this…as a a therapist who is a Christian, she is right on point
@angelicashobby
@angelicashobby 3 года назад
They all have such beautiful voices. Such a timely and effective conversation.
@ameerordimly1449
@ameerordimly1449 3 года назад
Yeah real mrsmerizing voices..just like satan
@sylviachacon4152
@sylviachacon4152 3 года назад
I needed to hear this.
@terribarney8183
@terribarney8183 3 года назад
I have been struggling with health issues for over 10 yrs which includes autoimmune disorders that keep me fatigued and pain. I no longer have a social life which includes the Christian "friends " I thought I had. I feel like there is nothing left no joy I am hopeless. Ready for Jesus to take me home
@focusonthefamily
@focusonthefamily 3 года назад
Hi Terry. We are sorry to hear about the health issues you are struggling through and the loneliness. That is very hard. Please know we are here for you. We have some amazing counselors on staff if you would like to speak with one of them, or call and speak with one of our Family Help Specialists so we can pray with and for you. You can reach us at 1-800-A-Family. God bless you!
@patriciaking7892
@patriciaking7892 2 года назад
Terri, you're not alone😢😢.
@advocacyrl8017
@advocacyrl8017 Год назад
The timing of me finding this series is rather uncanny and perfect! It's fantastic to hear a fellow Christian give stock in both faith and factual science. Mrs. Fileta is awesome!
@leekflower1
@leekflower1 3 года назад
As a mom of four myself, my main thing is my family not my job
@savedbygrace777
@savedbygrace777 3 года назад
I am sure they have lots of paid help!
@marianmoore4382
@marianmoore4382 3 года назад
Don’t judge!
@dawnzimmerman6818
@dawnzimmerman6818 3 года назад
Her husband is an MD so they likely have help at home….
@leekflower1
@leekflower1 3 года назад
My point was that Jim said counseling was her 'main thing'
@davidharrison1502
@davidharrison1502 3 года назад
Thanks, Jim Daly and John Fuller for a podcast that enables us to connect your radio voice to a face. :-)
@Selah41st
@Selah41st 3 года назад
Love her. So real and powerful
@dailylifeliving5391
@dailylifeliving5391 3 года назад
Love this! Was so helpful!
@livingforfree2
@livingforfree2 3 года назад
Panic attacks can be caused by being exposed to chemicals. Im chemically sensitive to insecticides , pesticides, lotions, candles, diesel, & strong smells.
@laurellorenz3456
@laurellorenz3456 3 года назад
Wish someone would ask me and actually care enough to listen.
@djkk464
@djkk464 3 года назад
Amen!♡
@focusonthefamily
@focusonthefamily 3 года назад
Hello, Laurel. If you ever need a listening ear, please don’t hesitate to call us at (800) 232-6459. May God bless you with His grace and peace.
@jamiewilcox.506
@jamiewilcox.506 3 года назад
I think many times people see, but don't know HOW to help.
@patriciaking7892
@patriciaking7892 2 года назад
A lot of people see but don't care less.
@shellianne5767
@shellianne5767 2 года назад
I was attacked about 20 years ago by a group of men. I lived. About 8 yo 10 years ago panic attacks became a way of life. I can no longer go on a plane. They come at anytime, anywhere. I go from being normal to absolute fear in a second. I feel ashamed but continue to pray.
@rechelefields3224
@rechelefields3224 3 года назад
Thank you for this show. So enlightening...
@TraumaChaplain
@TraumaChaplain 3 года назад
Jesus made himself of no reputation and so I've been thinking about that and think about that in context of putting my ego down so I can live in a healthy way and have a healthy mind at Spirit in spite of my pride not wanting to ask for help
@xuancarloshdz
@xuancarloshdz 3 года назад
Thank you!
@MelB868
@MelB868 3 года назад
My friend complains about things that doesn’t really matter. I told her stop complaining to me about everything. My mom’s aunt is in the hospital and I have a heart condition. And she was complaining about her petty problems.
@focusonthefamily
@focusonthefamily 3 года назад
Know that we'll keep you, your mom's aunt and your friend in our prayers, Mel. May God bless and watch over you.
@aso1139
@aso1139 3 года назад
What I mean is demonic deliverance. Deliverance from those spirits, spirit of fear, spirit of anxiety, spirit of heaviness,, ect.
@djkk464
@djkk464 3 года назад
Amen♡
@MelB868
@MelB868 3 года назад
What does a spirit of heaviness mean
@nmc9929
@nmc9929 3 года назад
@@MelB868 i think maybe depression
@3generations393
@3generations393 3 года назад
Thank you Debra. 🙏🙏
@MelB868
@MelB868 3 года назад
I finally see a cardiologist tomorrow I was diagnosed june 22 of this year with a heart condition and tomorrow was the earliest appointment I could get
@stefc1289
@stefc1289 2 года назад
How are you doing now?
@sjkgirl
@sjkgirl 3 года назад
Needed this so bad! Thanks for sharing
@gokeogunremi7575
@gokeogunremi7575 3 года назад
Insight brings light and clears the seeming blurred lines of the spiritual and the physical. Thanks Debra for light on these issues, and to FOTF for the platform.
@christineh4782
@christineh4782 Год назад
Thank you Debra and Focus on the Family for these helpful videos.
@bettysinatra
@bettysinatra 3 года назад
This is too timely woow I have really enjoyed
@nickoy4105
@nickoy4105 3 года назад
You teach me a lot 🙏🏽💖
@jonellmagicbroompitts2926
@jonellmagicbroompitts2926 2 года назад
Could be relative to how much heart strength mind soul.. one has. Yes.
@marwarashed4951
@marwarashed4951 3 года назад
Very beneficial episode
@dianethompsonbusch6005
@dianethompsonbusch6005 3 года назад
Eye opening, thank you!
@mccardieclan1755
@mccardieclan1755 3 года назад
imho: We can NOT neglect our obedience to the WORD as part of this process. if we are not obedient He does not even listen to our prayer.
@danieldaniel-vb8rh
@danieldaniel-vb8rh 3 года назад
Uffff! Excellent program
@kelliromine4188
@kelliromine4188 3 года назад
Please add close caption to your amazing videos here on RU-vid.
@jwillisbarrie
@jwillisbarrie 3 года назад
yes, I agree. Captions need to be added.
@keilana6
@keilana6 3 года назад
And where is the help if you do not have financial resources to have professional counseling.? Very frustrating to live a half life & how it affects relationships.
@bygraceonly182
@bygraceonly182 3 года назад
Check out churches in your area. Some might have biblical counseling available for free or low cost. My church has a counselor for $25/hr and that is the highest bracket they charge for. There are also counselors who will work on a sliding scale or even for free sometimes. 🙏 hope you find something that works for you
@bellyfulochelly4222
@bellyfulochelly4222 3 года назад
This is the issue. There are not enough churches providing this kind of help.
@user-lv4ok9vo5o
@user-lv4ok9vo5o 3 года назад
There actually is a biological component that can give rise to a panic attack.
@KJ-lb4tj
@KJ-lb4tj 3 года назад
A panic attack is a physical biological reaction in the sympathetic nervous system that was built to react in a dangerous situation and that by kicking in the parasympathetic nervous system you can get over panic and anxiety symptoms, like racing heartbeat, sweating, shortness of breath etc. Is that what your are thinking about or are you thinking about something else that causes a panic attack?
@user-lv4ok9vo5o
@user-lv4ok9vo5o 3 года назад
@@adriannasmith8033 I agree, except I don’t understand your last sentence.
@user-lv4ok9vo5o
@user-lv4ok9vo5o 3 года назад
@@adriannasmith8033 What is dangerous about the COVID-19 test? Do you mean blood test for antibodies?
@MelB868
@MelB868 3 года назад
Taking a covid test is important I had covid and covid pneumonia and was sock for 25 days I would of died with out medicine you don’t know what your saying I had to use an inhaler too. Are you saying I should let my self died no thank you there’s nothing wrong with the vaccine and especially the test it was a very awful sickness. I can’t stand people like you.
@MelB868
@MelB868 3 года назад
Millions have got covid oh my gosh my friends family had it and my whole family had it but I had it worse
@theanxiousbench
@theanxiousbench 2 года назад
Great interview!
@aln4383
@aln4383 3 года назад
Appreciate this.
@catherineanderson7460
@catherineanderson7460 3 года назад
I love that “our passport is not for this earth”.
@djkk464
@djkk464 3 года назад
Amen. Please pray 4 me. Unspoken request.
@amybennett8901
@amybennett8901 3 года назад
@@djkk464 prayers for you ❤🙏❤
@djkk464
@djkk464 3 года назад
@@amybennett8901 Thank you♡
@roddy4759
@roddy4759 3 года назад
I heard this on the radio yesterday
@mirandarogers1558
@mirandarogers1558 3 года назад
1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:
@hopecreed5502
@hopecreed5502 3 года назад
Why would no one like this
@danieldaniel-vb8rh
@danieldaniel-vb8rh 3 года назад
So true
@deanarjones9114
@deanarjones9114 3 года назад
Matthew 22:37 if anyone needs it
@roselynratnam5270
@roselynratnam5270 3 года назад
Luv to have a copy of this book. Kochi-Kerala-india
@gkarenstratton
@gkarenstratton 2 года назад
Chemical imbalance (hormones) happens but is not The Cause...the psychiatry field is realizing this now. Emotional upsets set off the "chemical" (epinephrine, norepinephrine) actions and reactions. I was never halped by secular psychiatry (except the.pieary relief from antidepressants(, but even those I had to self-wean from them bcz after awhile I was NOT FEELING EMOTIONS I SHOULD BE...SUCH AS EMPATHY! Not until I became saved and received Jesus Christ as MY Savior did the emotional and spiritual issues begin to heal. She is absolutely right with all the emotional health statements...and how we need the support and love of others.
@TraumaChaplain
@TraumaChaplain 3 года назад
Life is the process of sanctification.
@bellyfulochelly4222
@bellyfulochelly4222 3 года назад
A believer's life is the process of sanctification.
@TraumaChaplain
@TraumaChaplain 3 года назад
@@bellyfulochelly4222 agreed. I was just typing the quote after hearing it online.
@ionamcmelo
@ionamcmelo 3 года назад
Struggling.
@anns1921
@anns1921 3 года назад
same here.
@phillipbear5983
@phillipbear5983 3 года назад
Me too!:-) there's three of us so we're two or more gather together there he will be also. Prayer works!
@LilLynda
@LilLynda 3 года назад
Me too, I’m praying for all of our spiritual healing!🙏🏾 ❤️‍🩹
@phillipbear5983
@phillipbear5983 3 года назад
Great!!! .thank you.🤗
@amybennett8901
@amybennett8901 3 года назад
@@LilLynda thank you
@mitchellwintercat
@mitchellwintercat 3 года назад
Why is a sin issue never included?
@margrose5
@margrose5 3 года назад
I’m not ok.
@chrisahearn1735
@chrisahearn1735 2 года назад
What do you do about feelings of disattachment
@MelB868
@MelB868 3 года назад
Well no I am not okay I have a heart condition I go Friday to a cardiologist to find out more
@zamarisriveraelias9670
@zamarisriveraelias9670 3 года назад
@reacting_to_stuff_
@reacting_to_stuff_ 3 года назад
Not by design, it’s bc we are fallen
@SueBHoney-cq8co
@SueBHoney-cq8co 3 года назад
Not so well
@carmencastillo9101
@carmencastillo9101 3 года назад
...so true; feels like I'm going to die 😭
@focusonthefamily
@focusonthefamily 3 года назад
We're so sorry to hear you're feeling this way, Carmen. Please call us at 855-771-HELP (4357) any weekday between 6 A.M. and 8 P.M. (MT) to talk with one of our counselors (at no cost to you.) In the meantime, please know you're in our prayers.
@jwillisbarrie
@jwillisbarrie 3 года назад
Please add captions for the Deaf
@aso1139
@aso1139 3 года назад
Would deliverance cure this? Spiritual side to this
@bellyfulochelly4222
@bellyfulochelly4222 3 года назад
Yes, in some cases, for sure. I think that's what he alludes to in the beginning. So there are different causes for the issues: chemical, hormonal, spiritual. Treatment depends on what's causing the problem.
@charlenecrowe8333
@charlenecrowe8333 3 года назад
My conclusion as a previous sufferer myself was that it all spread from fear. No wonder Gods word is clear about NOT to give in to a spirit of fear and to get delivered from tht filthy spirit that wants to keep us bound in Jesus name.
@charlenecrowe8333
@charlenecrowe8333 3 года назад
So you are absolutely spot on, deliverance is indeed the answer.
@michelelovechrist9148
@michelelovechrist9148 3 месяца назад
Depression is an disease allot of people don’t know that🌺
@luzalemana9406
@luzalemana9406 2 года назад
Ha! Our passports are in heaven! I think we got our passports already, even our visa to our wonderful place we are going to and stay forever and ever--- all that was issued to us by Jesus, our saviour! We can even travel there now --only have to come back again and again here to earth until out final departure! - Let's try to get as many passports for others, too!
@MAJAWAR
@MAJAWAR 3 года назад
How can someone be emotionally unhealthy but spiritually healthy? You must be emotionally healthy in order to be spiritualy healthy.
@charlenecrowe8333
@charlenecrowe8333 3 года назад
Very WISE indeed.
@stefc1289
@stefc1289 2 года назад
I think it's possible when someone is a newer Christian especially. The healthy practices of learning and growing in faith may be present and active, but the long-term emotional habits that lead to being emotionally unhealthy are still there. It takes time to learn and apply biblical principles, which will then lead to greater emotional strength and health. But I do also understand what you mean in your comment. Hopefully with spiritual health, emotional health will follow, like described in Philippians 4.
@ronaldfreitas3566
@ronaldfreitas3566 3 года назад
Jesus was asked by the Pharisees to test him what is the greatest commandment in the law. We are not under the Ten Commandments. We are dead to the law. Christ fulfilled the law. Jesus told Christians the greatest commandment to us is love one another as I have loved you. That is the greatest Commandment to Christians. Flirting with Moses is being unfaithful to Jesus.
@KJ-lb4tj
@KJ-lb4tj 3 года назад
Life eternal with Christ in heaven is not necessarily our Christian destination. Jesus is coming back here to re make this world, to join His Kingdom here on earth as it is in heaven... It's already started here on earth, just in a flawed way.
@jesusislord6530
@jesusislord6530 3 года назад
So you are saying God’s Kingdom has already started here on earth, just in a flawed way? God’s Kingdom is not at all flawed, ever. The world is flawed, this is evidence that God’s Kingdom is not here on earth yet. You’re wording sounds like the false prosperity gospel I hear from false preachers. Be careful who you listen to. I’m saying this in love, not to criticize. ❤️🙏
@KJ-lb4tj
@KJ-lb4tj 3 года назад
@@jesusislord6530 nope ... His kingdom on earth as it is in heaven. If course we're already in his Kingdom. That's what happens when we are in Christ and he is in us. It's the whole point of the gospel, of living like Jesus... And of course we don't do it perfectly... Yet. But we are a living example of how light in this world and his church is his kingdom.
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