’m in TN and my brother died two years ago without a will. No wife, no children, my two sisters and I were designated the heirs. The three of us decided to give POA for our youngest sister to be assigned as Administrator. Big mistake. She is the busiest one of us all, is an artist with no business sense. I am the business major. Through texts, the three of us made decisions and talked things over. Her and my bipolar older sisters who has always resented me, turned down what I thought, and friends who heard too, some sound business things that could have brought us more money. They both pretty much stopped talking to me last year and I was not involved in any decisions after a point, I still don’t even know what happened to two of his vehicles I made offers on. Probate hearing coming up in September. Will I have a chance to speak? Like if I made an offer on three vehicles, and they were sold elsewhere, why, for the benefit of the estate, was I not given an opportunity to counter the other bid. Shouldn’t this be the objective of the Administrator, to make the most lucrative decisions about the estate? For the benefit of all three of us? After I made my offer on the vehicles, the next time I went to my brothers house, they had relocated them all, and I’ve yet to hear what they were sold for and to whom. Someone said since we waived to inventory the estate, we may have waived the right to see the details of the final accounting of where money came and went. I don’t want to act like a resentful sister in court, if I am allowed to speak, but I feel numerous decisions were made to spite me, possibly making the same money, but not giving me an opportunity to offer more, or to pay the same so I could flip some items and make a profit, which was done in two cases, I wasn’t given a chance to counter so I could fix and flip. I first asked to do this for the benefit of us all, but when rejected by both sisters, I made my own offers so I could make a profit. Will I get a chance to speak and what do you suggest my demeanor be? Thank you for any guidance
