What Types Are Socially Compatible With ENTJs? | ENTJ Relationships | CS Joseph 

''I am worried that I am stupid!'' ''- ENTJ '' I am worried that you are stupid too!'' INTP LOL

Can't believe no one's done this: INTP - 3:40 ENTP - 14:27 ISFJ - 19:53 ESFJ - 23:31 ISFP - 24:08 ESFP - 25:02 INTJ - 26:18 ENTJ - 26:59 That being said, I have a completely opposite experience. My longest relationship was with an INTJ, and INTJs are people that I easily get along with, also absolutely love ENTJs and working with them. It's refreshing being with someone who approaches things and problems just like you. If both of you value each other's opinion, there is no conflict, just constant improvement.

I am INTP and have ate maple bacon icecream, can confirm its dope

ENTJs don’t give a damn about how ESFPs feel AND they think they’re stupid! 🤣 Blunt. To the point. And true! Perfect! (said ENTJ).

Why is this episode so funny? I just imagine a relationship between an intp and an entj and what their conversation is going to be like and I just can't. The intp will kill the self esteem of an entj. And at the end of the day both of them will walk home together with their straight faces since they are thinkers. But in all seriousness, i truly want them to end up together always. Because they are some of the best people on Earth. I have an intp brother but he is married to an esfp. Just wish there was more awareness about mbti so that people could know what options they have and won't end up compromising with their life partner. -an INFP who likes NT's.

ENTJ with an ISFP mother. She makes me absolutely inSANE.

My sister is an INTP and her fiancé is an INFJ :). His dad is an ENTJ. We were siting (all four of us) at dinner and the ENTJ was discussing how much he appreciated that we weren't idiots. He pointed to me (ISFP) and commented about how much he respected me. I had never been more flattered 😂. He's a great guy, we get along pretty well.

I'm ENTJ, and most of my close friends are INFP, ISFJ, INFJ, INTP

I am an ENTJ woman with a INTP boyfriend and it's great how much your video really does help explain us. My bf is Taiwanese, and his culture involves lots of food and snacks, so your example of the maple bacon ice cream really hit home and made me laugh a lot. I really enjoy my INTP because he challenges me, sometimes I think I've already mastered something.. but he casually comes along and breaks it down to bits with his logic... This normally will frustrate me, and if it were anyone else I would be ready to defend myself, but I have come to understand that he does it out of love and have learnt to respect and value that about him. Not always does it feel that he does this out of love since he might add words like "dumb" and "stupid", but I've come to see past that and realize he otherwise has a great point! (He is learning not to use words like that with me, it hurts, he knows, after watching your video about ENTJs, he now gets it lol THANK YOU). After the fact I am challenged with new direction to be better and think smarter - I love him very much for taking the time to really focus on me that way :)

Fun combo: dad: ENTJ mom: ESFJ son: ENTJ stuck in shadow INTP.

As an ENTJ, I have three INTJ close friends ( one of them is my best friend ). I was starting to think I was an INTJ magnet. On first conversation me and my current best friend had, we both said that we give up on people asap if they don't seem efficient and interesting enough, and happily announced that we'd probably give up on each other too. Here we are after years of friendship being the best pals possible. I have to say, we are both super cautios when giving opinions and whenever one of us is mad we just leave each other alone for a while. We respect and value one another and our TIME so much that different problem solving styles don't bother us much, we're even starting business together. And setting aside our pride, we find it beautiful that we can cover for some of the other one's weaknesses.

ENTJ married to an INTP with 2 of 4 of our children INTP...

What I like about your content is you give examples, for instance the whole maple bacon ice cream scenario haha, please keep doing this as it helps to understand a lot.

im an intj and i see how ENTJ can be annoying sometimes but i love them to death.

ENTJ here with an INTJ gf of 8 years soon to be married. She's definitely an INTJ. It's strange that it's constantly said we're not compatible on paper but reality we're a healthy power couple. We argue, understand each other boundaries, and are determined to conquer the world lol

Yesss! I’ve been waiting for this, as an ENTJ woman, if you weren’t taken, I’d marry you 😂 Seriously, very informative. Thank you for being in depth with the functions! I’m a firm believer that, really any type COULD work with one another depending on the maturity and development of the functions. My best friend is an INTP (👇🏼 commented below 🙌🏼) I’m anxious for the romantic relationship series! Good work 👍🏼

It doesn’t always work. I know an ENTJ who snubs every idea from INTPs and this promotes a resentment and distance between them. Of course there’s healthy and unhealthy types and this could be an example. A tongue-in-cheek comment I’ve made before is get a room full of ENTJs and you have the setup for Hunger Games.

As an ENTJ, I am a fan and I love ESFJ's. I think they complement me, especially if we have the same level of maturity. The first thing that came to my mind when talking about what ENTJ's want and what the ESFJ's can provide is comprehension, I have felt misunderstood all my life, it’s like the ESFJ's can read your mind and understand you perfectly. It feels great. Thank you for existing ESFJ's.

+C.S. Joseph You're one of the best ENTPs =D

It's actually pretty accurate as and ENTJ female. My last long term relationship was actually with an ISFJ and I didn't realize it until I watched your description of such type, and we work out because of how secure I felt in terms of loyalty.

I'm an ENTJ male with a ENFJ girlfriend. Our first year together was *hell* , but we've been together for 3 years now and we have an incredible relationship!

One way that entj+entj relationships work is by giving criticism in either a friendly or sexual rivalry way. The build up of tension and complete trust/honesty creates a very energy intensive atmosphere that may overwhelm everyone around the two of you. The energy intensiveness isn't an issue though, but they both need spaces to retreat for 6 hrs a day or a 6hr cuddle

I'm an ISFJ married to an ENTJ

I’m 32yo male INTP with 30 yo wife ENTJ (daughter ENFP I’ve typed at age 10) it’s intense and rewarding around here. Knowing why my wife gets so intense is helpful. I started acknowledging the experience she cares so much about around social hosting and even dinner time. I don’t care about these things I just want peace at the lowest dollar spent and now I see how it’s not helpful saying that to her. It’s not validating at all. I totally see her do the POLLS now too on decision making and hate when I don’t respect credentialed people. I’ve adapted lots of my traits to participate socially. I’ve experienced more of the world because of my wife. I’ve learned to be a little more decisive than before so she’s helped me lots. I feel home with her. 😄👌 many guys don’t understand our relationship but I cherish all the friction that comes with it! Daughter ENFP I get impressed and simultaneously pissed at her choices but now I’m started to get it. She’s very witty & passive for her age so I try to guide her. Learning is so helpful! Keep the content going Joseph, I’ve never followed anyone this much! I have an ENFP friend who says I’m obsessing but of course he’d say that. I’m being introduced to whole new world of LIFE Tools!

You are feisty today! You had me laughing out loud numerous times. I LOVED the bit about intps...my entj best friend is the most amazing relationship I’ve ever had. 🙌🏻

I’m an ENTJ woman married to an ENTP man and have been together for 9 years. It’s an awesome relationship! Highly recommend. Our 6 year old son seems to be an ENTJ as well and our 12 year old is an ISFP. Raising them has been interesting to navigate because they need such different parenting.

Also, I(ENTJ) that is married to an ISFJ and have an ISFP sister-in-law... Ive said many times to my mother-in-law that I ended up with the "right daughter" because I would have murdered the other one. We go together like oil and water.

I found this very informative. I'm an ENTJ and my son is an INTP. I related to the examples you gave during the comparison between the two.

It seems people with same judging functions feel often more comfortable with each other, depends also where it is in the function stack, e.g. Fi dominant will feel better with someone with Fi, because values are so important for them and want others to have it, IXTPs are getting disappointed when others are stupid, and IXFPs when people have no morals. but then extroverted judging functions completing introverted ones and vice versa give more opportunity to grow and learn from each other, this is how I see it

I know this is supposed to be a baseline for compatibility. However, I do have some skepticism. In this lecture, you had indicated that ISFJ was among one of the four highest compatibilities with ENTJ. If that was the case, then that would mean that ESFJ would be among the four highest compatiblities for INTJ (according to your system). However, irl, I have typically had some of the worst relationships with ESFJs. This could be due to gender or even power dynamics (work/family) -- and I know I am not the only one. While there may be some mistyping or effects from being "unhealthy" or not well developed (for both types), clearly there has to be some assumptions in regards to compatibility.

It's funny you say NPs are most compatible.. lately I've been asking my top few people I choose to interact with on a regular basis.. to tell me their mbti.. and nearly all were either ENFP/INFP which.. is pretty accurate. I'm talking about.. the first 6 people I asked.. and then 2 we're ENFJ's and 1 an ESFJ.

I am a ENTJ lady and all of my closest friends are NFs, can confirm.

Really cool. I love these break downs. I’m looking forward to the INTJ.

my little brother is INTP and i'm ENTJ. we understand each other almost telepathically and share a unique sense of humor. we used to be each other's best friends but now he's not talking to me because i snapped at his now-ex for being abusive towards him and our step-sister and... just basically being a rotten human being that i never wanted to see again. i tore her a new one while also being highly encouraging, complimentary and supportive towards him. they finally broke up (7-8 year relationship) a few months after that argument. when we see each other he's friendly and warm but then he doesn't keep in touch... really wish we could go back to our relationship from before he met this abusive b*. i'll comprise more info so i can ask you the right questions and i'll get one of your private video sessions because i really think your approach to relationships is spot on and a life saver! your youtube channel kinda saved my romantic relationship with my INFJ... but that's another story :) sending you infinite thanks and love and hope you achieve great success because - fucking hell man - the world needs this. you're amazing!

My love is an ENTJ and I would go to the ends of the earth for that man. He is the only person I look forward to spending time with...but as an INFJ, whew boy, it took YEARS of work by both of us but love and loyalty makes you choose your battles.

I am an ENTJ. My best friend is an ENTJ. We`ve been best friends for aprox. 6 years or even more. We connected from the start and none of the friends I ever had even came close to the type of friendship we have. We never see each other in a competition but rather we have the "we are in the same boat" kind of friendship. We are in competition with everyone else, the kind of disappointed types of ENTJ`s you`ve described previously. Each of us knows when the other one is down and what we need and when we need it. We listen to each other`s advice. We have that altruism side only for each other. You hit it like 100 % with the description video about ENTJ`s, but I`m sorry you`re very wrong about this one when it comes to ENTJ - ENTJ compatibility. It`s because ENTJ`s are rare and weird in their way, it would seem only normal to appreciate more each other for being the same.

My best friend my ride or die and my damn soulmate is a INFJ I’m sad to see his type lower 😭😭 and I have a friend who is a ISFJ and INFP and I buttheads with them a lot more so the INFP because of their emotional dependency of never feeling included and that emotional want that they require was easy to try and diffuse and prove to them that they do matter but over time as an ENTJ you get tired of dealing with the emotional need that an INFP demands.

I couldn't help but recall when a few days ago I was playing an xbox game with my INTP bf and he basically took over this little in-game task for me bc I wasn't proving any competence in the span of ten seconds and it was my first time with that in-game task, although his argument was that it wasn't my first time playing a game itself, and so in-game I removed myself from him and he kindly pleaded I come back and when I said no, he sadly asked why not. I said because he didn't let me practice my best some more and then he asked if I wanted to keep trying my best some more! I happily complied in the way a shy child hides behind their guardian's leg and then he very supportively let me do my best again and I felt a surge in power and playfulness shoot up again 😈

I’m curious why ENFPs are ranked so high up because wouldn’t ENTJs hold a similar attitude towards ENFPs as they do ESFPs? As in, thinking they’re stupid and not caring about their feelings. But ENTJ Se child wants to give ENFP Si inferior a good experience nonetheless? lol I’m kinda confused about this dynamic

how would an ENTJ-INFP relationship be? what about the ENTJ will the INFP not like and what about it would they want? Also, your videos are THE most educational when it comes to types, keep going!

This was enlightening. As an ENTJ female, I'm curious as to why my friends are usually NF types! 😢😂

ENTJ with INTJ dad and ESFP mom. It’s rough....

Makes sense why my esfp brother and I didn't get along at all as kids.. Now I realize that as a kid I always had to put on an act to get along to avoid arguments/fights because there was no amount of reason that could win against Se.. Now as an adult I get to be myself finally and I'm cordial to my family but I don't like their company and I avoid them as much as possible. Funny my brother got enfp in an online test.. lmao And I always liked sfj's, my mom being an estp I thought she was very selfish, I always wanted a caring loving mother like sfj's are perceived to be. (sorry for my English, it's my 2nd language)

2 compatibility points you make that i can attest is true. ENTJs thinking ESFPs are stupid. Or id actually say not necessarily stupid , we just have a hard time validating their silly self esteem sensitivities. And us being semi blunt. We would crush their child. Its not a pretty picture. Side note my daughter is an ESFP i just realized, and lord help me im having to seriously re wire my interactions with her. 😞 and as far as INTJs not being compatible. True. we cant respect each other. Doing too much and focused on the wrong things are spot on sentiments. Semi distant friends is the best they could hope for. Constantly trying to obligate the other isn't a good game. King of the mountain anyone? 🙄

Only one thing I don't agree... "ENTJ+INTJ" works really well. ;-)

😂😂😂I'm an ENTJ And i think the only thing that is uncomfortable with ENTP‌, is that they need so much charm in a person to be loyal to them at first.. In the beginning they might not be so much loyal that we need, but once they realize who are the ENTJs they never leave you And i think entjs should consider this to doesn't lose an ENTP at first.. This took me time to know One more thing ENTPs please listen when an ENTJ is busy with their work and doesn't have SO MUCH CHARM ‌، the ENTP will get tired as well and the odds of betrayal will get high (maybe the definition of betrayal is different to us and them 😂) .. Otherwise they're literally great and funny i LOVE them😍😂

I'm a ENTJ and my bf is an ENTP and honestly when you said deapool I was like omg someone agrees with me. my bf always challenges me but is most sensitive about it which allows me to develop healthy communication between us. also my bf is so fucking funny lol ENTP at heart, only man who can win a debate against me

Not sure about SFJs being so high up there. My bf is ENTJ and I'm an INFP, he really dislikes them. Also have met other ENTJs who don't have very good relationships with them.

As an ENTJ I generally loathe SJ types. I can tolerate them if they’re balanced with Feeling and Introversion, but otherwise I can’t stand the conventional thinking and self righteousness of SJ

This is sooooo much shorter than the INFP's lol

My friend (ENTJ) and I (INTJ) are starting a business together. Glad I watched this. Now when she feels I’m focusing on one thing to much, I can stop myself and listen to the things she thinks is important and then direct her ass to start working on those things her self. Haha! She’s going to hate me. 😂😂 It’s all love.

i am an ENTJ...married to an ISFJ 😅

Forget women o just fell in love with this board and the tedious amounts of work that went into it… if your not using that whiteboard later,,, can I take it out for coffee

i wanna describe entj& isfj more , isfj are helpful people and are ready to get a bullet for you that's thing i like about them also i have isfj friend who cant talk to people much cuz people around us (classmate) are shallow people and i dont think isfj consider as cool and funny to most of people , when i met her mother one day she told me how her daughter speaks about me alot and likes how i read books and thinks and i felt good but pressured if I'm really good for that isfj friend besides that Fe parent can be annoying and makes me upset and that's helpful but not in the way i like because sometimes i just want to speak and she criticize me for that, for the entp relationship i think they are pretty smart and they like to check her thoughts with me and i do want to listen to the logic she gives but in emotion situations they can get weird and i do get weird too but i find that's cute and annoying at the same time also they cant be serious and are playful most of the time but after we have grown up i can see how calm and serious they can become but it needs time, and entp likes the jokes i make that makes me feel great too

Dating an isfj for the guaranteed loyalty

But as an ENTJ all my friends are INTJs... And most of my best friends are INTJs... Also April Ludgate from Parks and Rec is an INTP and after watching all the seasons, I dislike her ALOT and think her personality is terrible.

I feel like you need to revisit and reevaluate the points in this video. I find INTPs crude and unappealing. And I’m an ENTJ. The majority of my friends are two types and two types only: INFP and INFJ. And the one that isn’t is my best friend. And he’s INTJ.

ENFP here, I like ENTJ bold and take charge…I’m not buying this top 4 compatible types. Sounds like it’s just rational b.s. lol !

ENTJ and I am married to ESFJ. Oh he we challenge each other 😂 but she’s an amazing parent and partner. I just realize I am pushed to use NT a lot more and it’s helped me become a lot more mature.

ENTJ women here. Here is my experience with an ENTP. I've been in a relationship with an ENTP for three and a half years. First year was great, then, like you, he talks too much, I'm not saying that everything he said was BS, but, that interaction style, when he just starts to mimicking someone, in a petty way...half of the time I didn't even listen to him. Yes, you are funny, but aslo petty, aside flirting and cheating and that, we didn't have any other problems.

now i know why mates dont like the Girlfriend of each other

What you think about an ENTJ-ENFP relationship?

For male ENTJ types you (CSJ) said that they typically marry SFJ women. I believe it is important with the balance of both pragmatic and affiliative types in an relationship. The pragmatics relieve tension created by the affiliative and the affiliative relieve tension created by the pragmatic. Of course this is not always the case since many well working relationships have a double pair of each, but the dynamic of relieving the tension would be quite calming and provide a sense of security for the ENTJ male with Fi inferior. Fi is about feeling of attachement to others and it has a more responding long-term attitude compared to Fe. Fi inferior means that the attachement have a somewhat insecurity to it and probably only a affiliative high Fe user can provide that conformity that the ENTJ needs for a long term relationship. SFJs have the two most affiliative functions in their ego and those are Si and Fe. In a recent lecture you (CSJ) said that male relationship is based on affiliation and female relationship is based on pragmatism and this may explain that female ENTJ can endure pragmatic males but not the other way around.

When are you gonna do romantic compatibility?

As an ENTJ, here is my take on ISFJs: - ISFJs like to dwell on their strong and emotional impressions that they've had throughout their life (Si/Fe). As an ENTJ, I tend to translate this into being shortsighted (lack of Ni) and traditional for the sake of comfort (dominate Si). Everything they do relates back to their rather subjective impressions of the world over the span of their life, and they have a hard time understanding much of anything beyond those impressions (inferior Ne). - As an ENTJ, I tend to have a negative association with introverted sensing, as I would personally describe it as being "stuck in a time that I don't concern myself with". I tend to live life according to what I'd like to achieve (dominant Te and auxiliary Ni) and the new experiences I could be having (tertiary Se), however ISFJs have a really hard time with changing and they can often be rather irrational about considering long-term and abstract perspectives of life-they simply don't trust introverted intuition, as it seems to make leaps into the unknown that makes them uncomfortable, as they are blind to it. They also find the Te approach to be rather cruel and lacking in "kind consideration of others". - They like to spend a lot of time talking about the practicalities of their day (chores and their duties) and people problems, which means that they constantly want me to be involved with the feeling attitudes of not only them, but everyone around them they either care about or dislike (forcing me to constantly engage in Fe, even though I have a hard time accessing inferior Fi as it is). Some people might find this aspect of ISFJs to be "endearing" and to help ENTJs grow in their values, but I see it as a waste of my time because if I'm going to engage in my feelings, then I'd prefer it be less shallow than what an ISFJ can offer me. - ISFJs are like little timid deers running through the forest, as they tend to overly worry and concern themselves with theoretical and negative possibilities that are based entirely on their skewed use of inferior intuition. This not only makes for terrible conversations, but it also breeds clingy behavior that can begin to feel restricting over time. - While ISFJs can be quite organized and dutiful, they're not very good at managing systems because they navigate the world through their impressions and how these impressions make them feel (Si/Fe), which means that they do a lot of impractical shit that just makes no sense to me. Like buying see-through curtains because they like the way it makes a room feel, however constantly complaining that people on the front porch can see through the windows. Then stop buying see-through curtains, idiot! - ISFJs tend to focus more on peoples behaviors and the tone of voice more than actions and intent. They're prone to completely missing the point of what you're trying to explain simply because they're being overly sensitive "to the tone of voice that you've used", which ends an intellectual conversation because it becomes more of a therapy session for the ISFJs hurt feelings over something as silly as a tone of voice that had no intention in the first place. I often feel like I have to speak to ISFJs like babies and walk around egg-shells to get anywhere with them in terms of a conversation that goes into more intellectual interests. To summarize this, I have no admiration or interest in Si, and there is not enough cognitive understanding between one another to bridge gaps between these types. I can respect them as people from a distance, but they're not people I'd be close friends with or even consider a relationship with. For the sake of an oversimplification on why ENTJs might end up with xSFJs on average, it might have something to do with these types being common in women. I actually get along a lot better with ESFJs than I do ISFJs, however a lot of the complaints that I have about ISFJs could be explained with ESFJs as well. I tend to stay away from xSFJs, and most of my deeper bonds have been with INFPs (on an emotional level) and your occasional ISFP if they actually fucking talk, the mute bastards. But to be honest, I talk a lot (as you can tell from my writing), so it might not be all that bad. Lolol As for INTPs, I only know one and we get along pretty well. Since INTPs are residing mainly in the darkest part of their house, I don't have an opportunity to meet them in the wild.

Ah, too bad as an INTJ I am attracted to ENTJs. If I had the chance I would be very much be in a relationship with an ENTJ.

It would be so good and beneficial if you did a video on ENTJs and INFPs compatibility. I know it's a rather exclusive thing to make a whole video about, but I feel like it's actually a very common pairing for some reason with lots of potential for growth but also a LOT of potential for conflict and triggering each others'"bad" side. Considering our dominant and inferior functions are inversed. Yet they are high on the list of compatibility? I know you've moved on from that topic and you're probably onto new stuff, but anyway, just a potential topic to consider.

I am an ENTJ. The guys attracted me are INFP, ISFJ mostly…UPDATE: you are not lying Joseph! I have met a few guys I am interested in recently and surprisingly they are all ISFJs! I feel that ENTJ just naturally likes ISFJ my gosh

Enfp and ENTJ please; they keep finding me . I’m not sure if this is good or bad idea

Entj here with a best friend intj. it is a lot of effort but I love him a lot.

It’s harder for us ENTJs to find other intellectuals because it’s rare, less of the population than guardians. Is that why ENTJ to ISFJ marriage might be more common too?

I'm an ENTJ/ENFJ (or ENFJ-T, one of the two) my husband is an INTP. We are both set on improvement and morality. I don't think I would be as compatible and able to improve with anyone else. He says I've made him more compassionate and he's made me more confident. He's more stability focused and I'm more career focused. In some way we think, aspire to achieve and live a lifestyle outside of what's common. I enjoy his logic and patience and that he's not afraid to point things out or not conform to unnecessary social ways. He will conform sometimes because it's the thing to do to save unnecessary conflict but for example he'd question the logic to anyone in needing to wear certain polished shoes for a restaurant, the point in singing happy birthday, giving presents on dedicated days like Christmas because then it's not very genuine and he questions the general fake social smiles and attitudes and will blatantly ask others "but what do you actually think or want?". It always amazes me. Our conflicts are usually about our social approaches, the way we explain perspectives and I get grumpy at things not being organised properly. But non of us are closed off to listening and changing if it makes enough sense so conflicts are short lived.

Jeez. I carpool with my ESFP manager and your remark on Te dom trying to latch on to Ti trickster is absolutely hysterical and on point that I couldn't help but laugh out loud. He is much older than me though (he's 36 and I'm 22) so I guess maturity plays a role in where we can sort of make the commute work. One time, he tried to give me advice by saying I should spend my younger years living life to the fullest, don't worry about getting into debt and just rack it up. In my head, I was just like, wait what????

Damn, and i really like INTJs too... I feel ENTPs can be friends but i haven't seen a lot of ENTJ and ENTP relationships to get into it with thise types. Lol great video tho 👌

Maple bacon ice cream all the wayyy

Your attitude is addictive, keep it up. Great video, once again!

Thank you CS Joseph!! ENTJ ENTP relationship is hilariously true. my brother is an ENTP and we have all the things you mentioned! 🙃

I would have watched if he had invested fifty cents in a microphone.

Am a entj, unlikely to get along with ESFJ,ENFJ,INFJ,ESFP,ISFP or ISTJ. Sometimes ESTP.

Can you do marriage compatibility for an entj please

I have taken the personality test three times and each time i got different results Well i am a “NT” for sure . Entp ,intp and entj in that order am i evolving lol or what does that mean also my results were almost no preference to either side it

Nice

This is hilarious to me because I can see these being broken down in my life. 1. I’m ENTJ and while I get along with some other ENTJs and am even inspired by a few, there are some that I cannot stand being around for even a minute. 2. I have many INTJ friends but you’re right, I haven’t talked to them in years and we used to be close but after time I’ve kind of lost some respect for them. Where’s the drive for success? They have so much potential and yet they squander it. So sad. 3. My three best friends at work: two are ENTPs and one is an ENFP.

An infj in love with an entj...it breaks my heart to see infj in the bottoms 💔

Find an INTP friend, but date an ENTP👍🏼

I am INTP and I feel like my ENTJ housemate is too bossy for me to handle and always dragging me out of my comfort zone (I know it is a good thing but hey I need my space to... you know do my thing) anyway she is scary when she start to practice those chinese weapons in our room as her new hobby.

If only men walked around with their personality type visible for ENTJ women to see...

Could you please comment on how an ENTJ male and ISTP female relationship would work? (ISTP here asking.....so be as detailed as possible?) :) Thanks!

I want the competition so I would be less lazy about finishing things. Competition means caring. I don't like doing things for or against apathetic people. It is just a waste of time.

What you do while explaining us staff is an outstanding performance. Your videos are so entertaining 🥰 I truly appreciate your content, thank you

I'm watching this because my boss is a ENTJ, you know, I can actually see the get-the-hell-out-of-my-way vibe.

Intjs run from me because my sensing cognitions are too much. They told me they fuckin love it but ultimately it drains them and kinda pushes their Ni into overdrive. I miss them. But I'm sure they're thriving. In fear.

8:00 FI inf afraid it's a bad person / Fe inf afraid it's not caring enough, makes Fi inf feel less of a bad person so both don't feel bad 8:30 "I had an idea but I'm worried I might be wrong" 9:00 Ne critic : people may not be loyal because Si trickster isn't loyal. 10:30 ENTJs don't care if other's are good or not. 11:20 sometimes there is competition between Xe and Xi, when Xe has more data so thinks it knows more than Xi. 13:30 Deadpool = ENTP / his girlfriend = ENTJ 14:34 ENTP-ENTJ : "built in humility" 15:00 Ti parent wants Te hero to be accurate, if not Fe child is scared it can hurt other people. Or Ti parent taking care of Se child : "your inaccuracy is giving people a bad experience like myself" 16:30 Ni parent : your Ne hero is too out of touch with reality, it's making my child freak out. I don't want what you're doing. 16:55 Se child envelops Si inf, Fe child envelops Fi inf with hugs. 18:00 underdeveloped Ni nem makes ENTPs disloyal, Ne critic knows that and makes sure the ENTP stays sincere. 18:25 Te critic keeps ENTJs sincere & altruistic. 18:40 golden pair is more like "a punch in the face", "more accountability" -> can be more conflictual. 20:00 ISFJ x ENTJ most common marriage bc of other people being disloyal. 9/10 ENTJs he's met. 21:20 Si hero helps Si trickster develop. 21:30 Fe parent can make the Fi inf feel bad. Also keeps them from observing social rules. Ne inf is afraid of what the ENTJ's about to do bc know how impulsive Ni parent can get, it makes Si hero uncomfortable. 22:50 ENTJs and INTPs are in local politics and philosophy groups. 23:40 ESFJ x ENTJ : good to develop the inferior, risk of bitterness & high conflict if one is more mature than the other. 25:30 ESFP = amusing = without thought. ENTJs see SFPs as really stupid. 27:30 camaraderie : "keep at arms length"

Sometimes I can’t tell the difference whether you’re being sarcastic or genuine 😂

Hi Joseph! Maybe American socionics is different from Russian but ENTJ and ISFP is a conflict relationship not a duality... a duality is ENTJ and ISFJ

seems like there are a few ways to interpret compatibility. i find different websites saying different things regarding ENTJ and compatibility.

I just wanna know where all the ENTJ women at? Why are you super rare!!! Too hard for me to find a compatible woman.

I realllyyyy love ISFJ , and ENTP men -entj

Does anyone know if there are names or terms to refer to these different relations? I've seen that there are relationship terms thrown around with Socionics (like "Duality" and "Quasi-identical"). I tried to salvage these terms in an attempt to covert them to Jungian Depth Psychology, but it was incredibly confusing. It would be very helpful if I could know these terms or other terms in Depth Psychology. --- I was just typing this comment when I heard what he said at 24:28 with the Duality and Socionics, and want to make this clear. Like C.S. Joseph, I don't condone listening to anything Socionics has to say about intertype relationships. I'm just saying that it would be incredibly helpful if I could find out the terms, for better understanding these relationships. I don't know about any of my fellow INTJs, but I am able to understand Depth Psychology a lot better when there are different word, terms, and phrases for it's big variety of concepts. (I actually suspect this might be my Te parent function...). Oh yeah, another thing: If you are reading this C.S. Joseph despite you posting this vid 18 months ago, I love you're videos, and I think teaching the world Carl Jung's (and colleague's) concepts is a really generous thing to do.

And an ENTJ I think the list is kinda funny because ... 1. My best friend is an intp which makes sense. 2. Most of my other friends are intjs and I get well with them really well. 3. I have some of the other types, but I think that I get well (medium wise) with xxfjs, but I don’t get as well with xsfx types (with them I usually spend a lot of energy getting along with them while most xntx types I get well with together. 4. I would say that I am the worst with the ENTP, just because it can get heated. That’s just my opinion and I hope you found this helpful