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What women really want and how to give it to them according to women who are honest about masculinity, jerks, being too nice and what they find attractive in men.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who shared three Elite Daily articles written by women on what really turns them on and attracts them to assholes and bad boys even though most women claim they really want a nice guy. What I loved about these articles is that these women really understand attraction and how it works. They also explain from a woman’s perspective why the nice guy turns them off even though on paper, the nice guy is everything a woman is supposed to want, but they still reject them. These three articles backup everything I say as to what women really want from a woman’s perspective. Three different women who confirm in their honest and straightforward articles everything I teach in my book, “How To Be A 3% Man.”
“Most guys who do not know any better, think that being extra nice, accommodating and attentive to women will cause women to fall for them. This is fine when she is your girlfriend, but not when you just started dating. Men who over-pursue and incessantly call or text women they just met or just started dating, give off the same vibe as a potential serial killer or stalker. This obviously scares women and causes them to run away and lose interest. This is why women will choose the indifferent jerk or asshole over the nice guy. Scarcity creates value. Less really is more when it comes to creating attraction in women towards you. No matter how much you like a woman, unless you allow her to come to you at her own pace, it won’t be her idea. If you don’t give a woman the space and time to mutually choose you and wonder about you, she will choose someone else. What women say they want and what they really respond to in a man are not the same.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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@LG-bx3wl 7 лет назад

Never explain yourself, never be too available, never try to prove yourself or win her over and NEVER say anything negative about yourself.

@reylerparra2208 7 лет назад

Anisha Jones amen 🙏🏽

@LG-bx3wl 7 лет назад

Timothy Gibney If you don't care it likely comes across that way so I doubt you're doing any of those things.

@LG-bx3wl 7 лет назад

Jew Tube Yes for the love of God don't double text lol

@LG-bx3wl 7 лет назад

Cardel Turner I agree. The 'bad boys' also have an idgaf attitude, come across as indifferent, like they don't need a woman which is a challenge to a lot of women. They aren't boring or predictable and keep you wondering about them.

@m1ghty_angel530 7 лет назад

Anisha Jones what if this girl at my school is always passing by me, it's like she want's my attention. should i talk to her. P.S i know her already she used to be in one of my classes.

@irving2006drummer 3 года назад

Being a guy with no father, I can't thank you enough for your teachings Corey. Thanks mate 👏🏾

@stevenkamala7238 Год назад

same to me bro. i thank JEHOVAH for this guy and his teachings

@jraa4560 7 месяцев назад

Same

@13sprintuser 3 месяца назад

Same! I’m on my 10th read in 10 weeks. He’s the father I never had.

@ColeMontag 7 лет назад

If someone doesn't appreciate your presence, give them a chance to appreciate your absense.

@Babyfacedblackjesus 5 лет назад

How about move on

@saritaxd7738 4 года назад

Great video content! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you heard about - Lammywalness His Happiness Guide (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is a great one off product for understanding what men really want minus the normal expense. Ive heard some super things about it and my m8 at very last got great success with it.

@mr.j822 3 года назад

Paradox

@closethatdoor5555 2 года назад

💪🏻💪🏻

@jeromejohnson1526 7 лет назад

After two years of watching your videos and cherry picking, I've finally bought the book and I've come across so many stupid mistakes that I used to make. To everyone reading this and saying you don't need the book, trust me it's a worthy investment!!

@jeromejohnson1526 7 лет назад

Indeed, however I was naive. I will try to get the audio book and listen while I am driving or at work etc.

@caveman357 7 лет назад

Jerome Johnson I totally agree. that book is gold!

@wardeckenstein4665 6 лет назад

Jerome Johnson

@daver1161 6 лет назад

"Cherry Pickin' Johnson" is what I'll call you. Glad you woke up and smelled the coffee. I hope you're smashing more than just the snooze button these days boss.

@griff4899 4 года назад

I second this. Read the coaching Manuel or suffer the results of not being prepared

@mav1877 7 лет назад

A very important video. So many guys miss the boat on this one. At least the female writer was finally honest about this one. I also think being a so called "asshole" is actually just a guy who has a life outside of hers and respects himself. Sadly, we live in a world were men are becoming less and less masculine and more pleasing.

@davidarbelaez4395 7 лет назад

I believe the problem lies in the fact that there's a tendency to call those men who have a backbone and can set boundaries, assholes. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nice. Niceness with an agenda is the problem. Men who give gifts, shower women with compliments and expect that if they are "nice" that a woman will just bow down to them, get friend zoned and left for a man who can set a woman in her place.

@adonisphysique4943 7 лет назад

Anytime I watch these videos, I always have a "face-palm" moment. Good thing I know better now!

@bottlewaddle6677 6 лет назад

me too brother, really do haha

@L0rdofn0thing 5 лет назад

Lol I had 3 of those

@mariahconklin4150 3 года назад

Hey I’m a woman and I make mistakes to.

@CybersecurityMatt 7 лет назад

I had a huge problem over pursuing, after reading the book I re-trained myself by turning it into a simple game. I would set a small prize each week (candy bar, ice cream... ect). If she contacted me first I would win the prize... if I contacted her first I would loose the prize. Guys are all about achieving goals, but this goal you can only get though inaction... removing the "illusion of action". So far it's worked great for me... it's all about tuning out that little devil on our shoulder... he gets so damn loud after 3 or 4 days of no contact.

@CybersecurityMatt 7 лет назад

Nice!. Iv'e found the average call-back to be 4 to 10 days. The more successful she is the longer she'll make you wait.

@CybersecurityMatt 7 лет назад

Spot on. The one alpha I am dating is exactly that way because of her business, modeling ect. When we are busy we don't realize how time flies... happens to me too. Running a company myself I perfer it that way :-).

@chocolatecharley99 6 лет назад

Matt Flavell As a woman, I don't think that's healthy for either gender. Just get productive hobbies. Find a drive to live life in an honest and fulfilling way. Join groups, be social. If you don't like your job, take classes and find a new one. This way, youll meet new friends. And maybe one of those friends will grow to be your significant other

@HandsOfSweed 5 лет назад

@@JonKonik11 neither. Both are irrelevant and have no impact on me and my journey through life. I'm gonna be happy and successful either way.

@SharMurt1995 4 года назад

Your last sentence is spot on. This devil screams after a week of NC. After 8 days, she contacted...

@atlas3732 5 лет назад

Anytime i feel like I'm getting lost in my relationship or forget what I'm doing, pull up a Corey Wayne video and it centers me.

@dylanpanneton4351 4 года назад

^^^

@mariahconklin4150 3 года назад

Haha.

@HAPPYPANDA53 5 лет назад

This is gold. I haven't been the first to initiate contact in 2 weeks now. After 10 days, she's messaging me how are things with me.

@selloi1869 3 года назад

She became your girlfriend??

@inventingtacoguy 7 лет назад

I had gotten rejected by a Cute girl recently in asking her to prom. There was a bit of shakiness that I didn't listen to. Afterwards I told myself I'd find another pretty and fun girl to go with. I hadn't met up with her in a while so I simply messaged her on Snapchat. She was hesitant at first but I told her , "no sweat , if you change your mind let me know :) " a day or two later she messaged me , completely open to going to have fun with me at prom !

@johnmartin650 2 года назад

Her other option probably didn't work out - but you still get credit for keeping yourself a viable backup.

@haylorhigh7504 7 лет назад

As a woman, I can vouch for this. Very true, guys just seem too desperate. Love your vids Corey!

@hortn123 7 лет назад

What do women want? *"EVERYTHING"*-Chris Rock

@xmangel6052 5 лет назад

I did Not like this video. Well... I Liked it, but I didn't like it. Because "the Truth hurts". Hearing: Girls prefer the "Bad Boys"... and they rather fuck the Bad Boys over Nice guys... is pretty fucking disturbing. Because I was a Nice guy for years... I was Not super Nice. I don't think I was THAT Nice... but if there was only 2 categories: Bad Boys or Nice Guys... and girls had to put me in one or the other... I would probably be put in the "Nice Guy" category... and hearing "oh... we rather fuck the Bad Boys"... that sh--- pisses me off inside... but I have to hear the Truth... The truth hurts, but the Truth will set you free.

@byronaustin8179 4 года назад

Angel Mata now you can go in the bad boy category...

@rondj3495 4 года назад

Roger Sterling : "WHO CARES"

@Kaiaintcappin 4 года назад

Facts 🤣

@ShieldandBucklerMusic 6 лет назад

My Non Pursuing Game Is Too Strong lol. So Strong that they end up forgetting about me LOL

@davidkim9898 6 лет назад

Hahahaha

@il2rock 6 лет назад

Honestly, if you can get a girl to somehow know you like her and you send her signals that makes her attention go towards you, you can actually get her emotionally attached if you don't ask her out. She'll keep wondering whether you'll ever ask her out but you can't let the flame go out. Keep subtly complimenting her without being too specific and slowly/ progressively tell her how you feel about her. Women don't forget when they get angry lol the 2 steps forward 1 step back applies to every aspect of the relationship

@Robsparks413 5 лет назад

🤣🤣😂

@ThienTamjournal 5 лет назад

I agree. I can’t invest my feelings into a guy who doesn’t pursue me. Not sure how this works on other women but it never works on me. From my experience, I only fell in love with guys who were kind and pursued me. And when they stopped pursuing me and got complacent, I fell out of love.

@johnkennedy8795 4 года назад

Brilliant hahaha

@savageinjun7958 7 лет назад

Nothing better than getting to understand the opposite sex's perspective

@savageinjun7958 7 лет назад

Cardel Turner Make history and prove the nay sayers wrong

@threexladi 7 лет назад

The Dave I wish everyone would read EVERYTHING YOU EVER WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT SEX.. (dr. david rubin.) Women are saturated in sex from puberty. Are not desperate for same. We want intelligent convo, good relationships.

@savageinjun7958 7 лет назад

+Ruby Parchment Okay? It's all great in that department What's another book we all should read?

@threexladi 7 лет назад

The Dave Isaac Bashevis Singer's short story trilogy. The man understood life, and womankind. Anita Brookner's LOOK AT ME, UNDUE INFLUENCE brilliant on bright single women who can't find anybody.

@threexladi 7 лет назад

The Dave ps, it's not great for us when men bring up sexual topics before you even know one another. I was saying how that famous book explains how women are inundated by 'offers,' but want compatibility, relationships instead.

@samsonitedfgdb 7 лет назад

Amazing video Coach and it really is pretty simple and it's the best way because space is needed. So when you do come together, there is more to talk about and you just appreciate each other more as well when you're not trying to force things. This lets the man be who he is, and also gives the woman, well both the man and woman the freedom they both need. It really is just as you say. I'm dating a woman right now and genuinely I am fascinated by her. In the background, I had buddies say oh bring flowers on 1st date and 2nd, do this and that, all these bribes/gifts..but I don't(even though she has told me she wants a guy who pursues her and buys flowers, but i do none of those things and she's all over me) because it's too early still. Like you said, the women are the ones who do the choosing at the end of the day. If guys just learn to have the emotional strength to resist doing too much too soon and wait for the woman to let you know shes ready for more. It really is effortless and beautiful.

@nickdipaolofan5948 7 лет назад

The real secret is that most women don't know what they want. They all say they want a funny, nice, and attentive guy but the majority of women are with "bad boys" who are selfish, rude, and aloof. I am one of thousands of men who was attractive and in great shape but tried to be the "nice guy" that women kept saying they wanted. After giving up and simply not caring about what women want, I began doing and saying what I wanted around hot women without giving two Fks if I offended them (I was also not trying to offend) Guess what, all of a sudden I was getting hit on left and right. This is even MORE important once in a relationship. A woman will not respect you if you are a pushover. Women want a man who will take charge and not allow her to walk all over him. Every woman I have ever met has tried to test me to see how I would react when they treat me like shit. After we have an argument because I wasn't going to take her shit, every time I would get a call back with more and more attention from them after I put them in their place. It is really annoying actually because I (like most men) just want peace at home but women can't be happy without a little drama so they test their man to piss him off and either walk all over him until she gets bored with him or he puts her in check so she gets the drama she wants. This cycle happens over and over again. I am convinced that most women are simply incapable of rationality.

@nickdipaolofan5948 7 лет назад

That is correct. This is why a lot of older men wind up divorcing after 30 plus years, because once the need for sex is out of the equation many men would rather just be left alone. They put up with women because of the biological need for sex but are liberated with a lowered labedo when they get older.

@threexladi 7 лет назад

The women who are truly 'hot' are fat, with hairy legs and a messy house. Bet you didn't know that.

@threexladi 7 лет назад

p.s. Please tell me that you didn't announce that you were a 'nice guy.' Or say things you didn't mean because you thought it was what they wanted to hear....

@nickdipaolofan5948 7 лет назад

Ruby, so you think a good woman eats like crap, doesn't shave her legs and is too lazy to clean once a week?

@threexladi 7 лет назад

Bill BurrFan I didn't say a 'good' one. Read it again.

@morphix2k9 7 лет назад

Hi Corey. I've been watching your videos for about a week now and can't believe the affect you've had on my psyche. You are simply crushing it. I'm actually from Orlando and couldn't believe that's your town. My situation benefits from your lessons and I have to say, your teachings work in Chicago and Toronto. So, borders don't make a difference people. This stuff works! Keep Crushing it out there!

@stevec3526 3 года назад

One of my uncles remarried and his new wife demanded that he get rid of his Alaskan Malamute. He dumped her instead.

@rain__man 7 лет назад

I love it when a coach Corey video pops up exactly when and exactly on what I needed :) Thanks, coach!

@timtimtimmay4654 3 года назад

Any relationship that requires you to give up what makes you happy (aside from destructively obsessive habits) is a relationship where your counterpart has overplayed her hand. No partner who genuinely cares about you will try to take something away from you, especially something that is a part of you at your core.

@LG-bx3wl 7 лет назад

Great video. Very factual. Us women like to watch lifetime movies we don't want to be in one lol. I have a neighbor that creeps me out and scares me by constantly trying. My next step is to report him.

@LG-bx3wl 7 лет назад

Maxime Laflamme lol I didn't eat them. I brought them to work and left them on the lunch table for my coworkers to enjoy. Hopefully now you can understand why he is about to catch a case. I am afraid and creeped out at this point.

@nickdipaolofan5948 7 лет назад

Anisha Jones the best thing you can do for you AND him is to cut to the chase and say, "listen man, I'm not interested in you and don't want any more "gestures"" and when he tries to save face and say he thought he was just being a good neighbor or friend just stand your ground and say, "just stick to waving hi as we drive past each other because you are giving unwanted signals" This will hopefully get him off your back and he can focus his beta male energy on some other woman too passive to tell him she is not interested.

@LG-bx3wl 7 лет назад

Timothy Gibney Deep down I don't feel he's dangerous. At least I hope so but he has scared me and creeped me out.

@LG-bx3wl 7 лет назад

Bill BurrFan Thank you. I try to let men down easy because I've been verbally attacked in the past for declining an offer. In this case I have told him I have a bf, I have rudely turned away from him while he's talking hoping he'd get my body language as a sign of no interest and I've tried waving with no expression and moving right along. What I haven't done is just flat out said F off I'm not interested! which may be what it takes so I'll try it next time

@langfordjeremy100 7 лет назад

Anisha Jones Ahh the old "I have a boyfriend" technique. Brings back memories.. Anyway I would just be honest and clear telling him I'm not interested and I'm sorry.

@cameronclark2181 7 лет назад

thankyou so much for this video. i really needed to understand why being nice was always seen in such a creepy way and you definetely helped me see that.

@aboutface102 7 лет назад

Quick accidental success story for anyone who cares to read: Asked a girl on a date who I met briefly because I thought she was pretty. During the date my attraction level dropped because of some of the things she said and did, and I didn't try very hard. This caused her to pursue me and ask me on another date, after which she asked me back to her house and we hooked up, she was fantastic in bed btw. Anyways, long story short, I got lucky because I wasn't too attracted at first causing her to rise to probably a level 9 for me. She is now my gf, we are very in love and very happy, and I am learning and applying Corey's work to maintain the relationship by continuously courting and surprising her and generally making life fun and exiting. You rock coach! And to the guys struggling out there, don't give up, just be patient, read the book, and apply the techniques using your judgement of the situation.

@eastlake93 6 лет назад

Corey, I'm on the 7th read of your book. My incredibly beautiful Ugandan girlfriend has declared to me and everyone else that I'm her boyfriend..and much more! She has claimed me as her man. Just like you said! Thanks.

@juanvillegas8455 7 лет назад

Hey coach!! I just bought your book last weekend and should be getting here this Thursday! I'm so excited to read your book! Your videos have taught me so much about relationships/women!

@craigtitusfitness2249 7 лет назад

Will wearing a Riddler shirt help me attract women?

@lilongeniunoovene2254 7 лет назад

Mr Corey I'm in Namibia and your right man. Women and men both respond emotionally to what they respond to!!

@arherrington 7 лет назад

Who is down-voting this free, amazing advice?

@jonathannanez3550 6 лет назад

Tony H lesbian feminist

@mrsalviboy94 4 года назад

Ever since I learned to read women's actions not words I'm able to control the interaction and seduction process, feels so good knowing you got the power to see what most can't, thanks corey for the work, you rock sir!

@bokie51 6 лет назад

Coach, this is actually working too well, I got rid of my beta male self , but now I have woman actually fighting over me...I don't know if I really wanted this; but it does work...maybe toooooo damn good.

@danieltene2048 5 лет назад

Detail the changes made

@garethparker1974 2 года назад

Corey wayne. You have charged my perspective of women right around now. I was chasing but now I am studying and not even bothered now. I will do something when I'm in the mood now. I can't even be bothered to let women rule me anymore. I will boss this game of cat vs dog soon. I will win soon. I believe I've got some good understanding of it all now. Obviously much more work to be done but no more Mr nice guy here!

@Yamas74 7 лет назад

Videos like this is when Corey's at his best!

@timur6359 7 лет назад

"If you life is complete, all will come in place" Yeah, so basically we need to start working on OUR life 1st, then the girl will see how nice and how much joy we get from pursuing our ideals and all will fall in place, this makes sense.

@NapoleonicWarrior 7 лет назад

Have read your book about 7 times now and it works wonders been sharing this information to my great friends. Keep it up your a life saver!

@MightyCrazy 7 лет назад

I just want to say thank you Coach! I've been applying your method and its been working. Cant thank you enough.

@shooter7a 3 года назад

Being a jerk communicates something counterintuitive - I am so socially desirable that how I behave does not matter. This literally makes you be perceived as socially desirable.

@akshaykalta08 7 лет назад

i love you Corey. You changed my life.

@SpyderRae 7 лет назад

I think this video should be part of the Essential Fundamentals Playlist, maybe even the first video.

@shatteredsoldier81 7 лет назад

I had to share this on my FB page and tag a few of my buddies.

@andrebaxter4023 4 года назад

Can't say how much I love this content and the 3% man book.

@vanessapetrea2490 7 лет назад

I can't SUPER LOVE ❤️ this enough! And it is Purr-fect!!!!!! Thank you! You Rawk!!!! 🎉💃🏻😊

@alcudiababe1 7 лет назад

i like what Corey was saying about the cake in the oven. It just reminded me back to my school days and this lad actually baked a cake (yes im ralking about actual cake baking here) and he kept opening the door to check on it and then i said in front of him to not open the door so much or his cake wouldn't rise.) The teacher heard this and was most impressed 😆

@mrsemifixit 7 лет назад

The simple problem is: you can do all those "nice guy" things but ONLY if the woman has made up her mind that she wants to be with you. This little bit is what most guys don't understand. It's no different than if someone you don't like does "nice" things for you. It's a turn off. This is also why asking women for advice in most cases doesn't work, she's giving you advice on what she wishes the GUY SHE'S INTO would do for her. Not what women respond to initially to start creating that interest

@nickdipaolofan5948 7 лет назад

Bingo!! Too many zit-faced losers who think that they could do the same actions as a hunk and then women will fall for them. They need to understand that a Brad Pitt type can literally fart on a girls lap and she will laugh it off and still be interested in sex with him if he asked for it. If you are rich, famous, or off the charts good looking, you really have to fuck it up with a woman before she loses interest. But if you are a loser, there is almost nothing you can do to convince a woman to get with you. You have to convince her that you are not a loser, and the best way to do that is to eventually do something with your life that gets you out of the loser category.

@jacobsporleder8362 6 лет назад

You can be nice just not too nice don't be a pleaser

@VoiceOfThe 2 года назад

I’ve been caught off guard. Brief premise. Met a young woman at Christmas. Had two dates, second one she invited me before I got chance to invite her. Flies back home (an hour away). Three months + 1 week later she flies out again and ends up staying with me for a month. End of the month, asks me to be her boyfriend. Flies back home. Spends next three weeks initiating texts and we speak a couple of times. She’s sending me selfies, morning texts and telling me what’s she’s getting up to. Suddenly don’t hear from her for a day and genuinely didn’t realise what I was doing and sent her a ‘Letting you know you’re on my mind text..’ She reads it, but only likes it almost a day later. Just over two days later I send her a ‘Good morning, how are you?’ text. Ten hours later she replies ‘Hello, good’. Now been almost 6 days of silence. I thought I could relax a little as we’ve had ‘the chat’.

@alimo3011 Год назад

@@VoiceOfThe Similar thing happened to me. Any update??

@VoiceOfThe Год назад

@@alimo3011 Waaay too much to go into on a RU-vid comment. I wrote this beginning of June 2022. Ended up having a 1 year relationship after this. She’s reached out a few times since she ended it, but, they’ve been breadcrumbs, so I’ve given her the gift of missing me and will only validate her when she says something significant. To stand any chance of getting me back she’s going to have to go some and demonstrate by way of her actions she’s serious about fixing what she broke. In the meantime, I have a date with a girl 17 years younger this evening.

@LovesofJBNeet 7 лет назад

So accurate of course until marriage then it changes a bit. tfs great knowledge and wisdom

@pablojimenez5433 4 года назад

...a million thanks...for the...excellent video coach...!!

@ironknee9513 Год назад

Best video yet, man. I will watch this once a week.

@journalofseduction4959 6 лет назад

Seduction is a game of attention, but there is place and time for inattention and distance when the need arises. The problem is that we live in an anti-seductive world where no one has time for anything truly enchanting or romantic, except for some holiday abroad for a couple of weeks. All that has true meaning is packaged and sold as a commodity, thus losing any real value beyond the mundane world we live in. Most of the information in this video is based on being anti-seductive as an act of defence against getting hurt emotionally. People are too afraid to open up their hearts and show attention to the ones they want, for fear of getting rejected and feeling like a fool in the process. I know, I've been there many times. But you cannot seduce another without showing the value of your attention first (sometimes you receive that attention), then taking it away at the right moments. Estate agents and salesmen use this same tactic. It increases the sense of urgency and it is a universal psychological principle that applies across all genders. To say that "women" are looking for a "man's man" is society's way of looking at it. Society's perfectly packaged seduction. Instead, why don't you treat her as an individual and not as a generic gender? Because you don't have the time to get to know her and figure out what she might want from you instead of what you want from her. Constantly, I see guy's comments about what she is failing to do for him. You need to think first what you have to offer her, before you receive back. If she fails to see the value of what you're providing for her, then take it away. We take for granted what we have, until we're about to lose it.

@snk88s 7 лет назад

picked up your book about a month ago and so far it has been great and i found the one girl for me and i love your videos they are awesome . thank you so much Corey Wayne..

@threexladi 7 лет назад

These things make me cringe: a man telling me he's a 'nice guy.' (Is too whiny.) Telling me he likes older gals, fat women (subtext: 'You're desperate.') And especially the man in my age group (61) who finds it necessary to point out that he is still potent, can satisfy...'That's what you think I'm wondering about!?'

@geneisxincuenta9447 7 лет назад

Great content coach Love It!!!

@TheRay1227 7 лет назад

Watching this video really opened my eye! Thanks Corey Wayne for putting this video up. Will definitely look into buying your book soon.

@roughroadrunner88 7 месяцев назад

A lot of gems here. Thank you Sir

@roberthart5686 4 года назад

Laughter when I saw the topic headline and saw it was only about 24 mins long. I would have expected the clip to last into infinity....

@reylerparra2208 7 лет назад

In others Words.... be a fucking Man and stand out for yourself !!!

@juliancarlson1992 7 лет назад

Tennis metaphor was good, well done Coach Corey you are doing some great work with a professional presentation.

@tanyajohnson2315 Год назад

I am a strait woman and Corey is so right about how we feel .

@alleyterisISback 7 лет назад

coach , could you do a video by using parts from popular movies , that show scenes of what us men must and what we must NOT follow?ts would be very practical , to do this once in a while

@rondj3495 4 года назад

what women want? Roger Sterling: "who cares"

@jeffreyrainey1015 3 года назад

Two words Corey: Thank you.

@liveyourlife0508 Год назад

Just want to share my story and how Coach Corey Wayne helped me to understand women and the effects of his teaching. Went on a night out, before I get to the club a random woman start chatting with me, I was centered,charming and gentleman. I asked many quality questions and she opened up so much. I went in the club later and just had fun without looking for her or getting my attention to her. Week later she bumped into me and she jumped out of excitement that she saw me... I saw that attraction in her eyes... Another case not long after, there was very attractive woman in the club and guys was chasing and pursuing her, I just had fun,dancing and having great time. She came closer to get my attention but I just gave her a smile and stayed in my centre.... She went around and came back after 20 min..." leave her alone " and try get my attention again, I just enjoyed my time... She couldn't resist anymore and start dancing and wiping her ass on my lap... I thought, I'll test her and just stay centered and be in my masculine... she couldn't resist, she dance on my lap and start scratching my leg with her nails... I bet she was horny as fuck at that point... It just wasn't my type to ask for number or to do anything with the her.... All that is from Corey teaching... Thank you, I learned so much from those 2 situations My confidence as well is booming!!! Keep doing the great work Coach !!!

@macraeolinger 3 года назад

11.35 That's WHY your stuff is so powerful! Most women become FASCINATED by a man that has his shit together and doesn't fall all over them. It actually cause them to chase you because your not a Beta Male Simp!

@shelbysamuels5850 2 года назад

Any guy who had acted uninterested in me has truly been uninterested in me. So if someone acts like they don’t care I will also lose interest. Not sure I agree with this

@KickingIt-In-the-Kitchen 7 лет назад

Coach Corey you the man! Keep up the good work.

@LulaRoberts 3 года назад

A great vedio. Need to be watch over and over.

@rich4813 7 лет назад

The worm that turned lol!! two Ronnies predicted the future years ago!!

@TrippyOGsmoke 7 лет назад

I'm 19 my ex is 18 now we have been dating for 5 years off and on. Recently we broke up after being with each other for 2 years everyday. Over time I didn't treat her the same as I did when she came back to me so about 3 weeks ago she told me she needed space and she wanted to feel free. She started contacting me about a week or so ago and I reached out to make a date she said it was too soon. She contacted me about a week later wanting to hangout, we didn't end up meeting up and hanging out so the next day she goes to my friends house with some of her friends... which I thought was really weird. She was drunk at my friends house and when I got there it seemed like she was trying to be close or talk close to one of my friends. After watching this I got really anxious and I asked in front of everyone if they were hooking up she got angry and said no.. the guy said it wasn't like that. She left and texted me as soon as she left that I was a piece of shit and I was stupid for thinking that. I never replied.. a few days later she sends me a picture of this girl she is friends with and in the picture she is licking her face.. she sent me this picture at 1 am.. since then we havnt talked and that was about 3 days ago. I don't know what to do or what to say, she is the girl I want to be with I don't have any desire for anyone else. I want to apologize for how I acted during the relationship but i feel like it would make me look like a bitch I love her and have been in love with this girl for 5 years now.. sorry this comment has been so long I am just in a shitty position and I really need some help right now. Thank you

@lukeArmstrong524 2 года назад

Ok. Dont contact her, ignore her, call her 1 time for every 3 times she calls you or texts, date other women. Create attraction.

@nikogriffin3038 7 лет назад

dude you really helped me seriously you made me feel better thank you

@Klng5hlt 4 года назад

why is this not common knowledge, how am i just hearing this in my early 40s

@JK-vy8vh 2 года назад

At least you made it to 40 lots don’t.

@donavin51 7 лет назад

Really cool video!! I will check out those links!

@gsgsgsgs3650 7 лет назад

Oh man, you finally answered all my questions. I've always been the total provider. Never understood why I was always left feeling like a punk. I'm 43. Watched my parents in a constant loving relationship and always in a stupid argument. I hate arguing so I decided to do the ass kissing thing (most of the time) to try and make them happy. Now I get it. However, I'm also super analitical and 1+1 always = 2. With women 1+1= 11. I think I'm done with women. I'm actually cool with being single. Raising my daughter by myself and working my ass off. I've got tons of hobbies (which always bores your average ice princes). I'm done using my paycheck to pay for some dummies existence. I actually feel happy now. If I feel the urge to hook up then condoms have always worked despite the fact they suck. I got my shit fixed years ago and basically wanted a girl friend to spoil and not have to use condoms. I've been fucking up and now (thanks to you) am done doing so. Thank god I watched this video. I almost did not. You should do a video (maybe you have you are smart) about the guy that doesn't benefit from a girl friend and doesn't need one. Again thanks

@generatie 4 года назад

Do you think he's ever baked a cake? Great analogy regardless!

@luisville9050 7 лет назад

Something else women secretly all want: Men who arent pornhub addicts.

@Exotic_St4rxxx 6 лет назад

Yes men like you

@michellehendrix7135 4 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂

@jlmadd 2 года назад

Men who are not whores and can supply more than a dick. Support, vision for future, someone to talk to. Unfortunately you can’t find that so stop trying

@Rvu72 7 лет назад

so in a nutshell,a man cannot make a woman interested in them?but a man can only throw a bait and see which women are interested?

@Rvu72 7 лет назад

DreamBeatsBakery so it's like numbers game?

@butskiiueepp1625 7 лет назад

Pretty much. Like coach Corey says, if she's interested, she'll make it easy for you.

@MightyCrazy 7 лет назад

Saves time and money in the long run

@nygeriunprence 3 года назад

Correct. You can't make a girl interested. She either is or isn't.

@lovewithcharlotte Год назад

Yes makes a lot of sense. However people get over the bad boy obsession because they still lack some of the qualities Coach Corey talks about in his book.

@caucasianafrican1435 7 лет назад

I got the book, brother. It was totally worth it.

@1385sandy 7 лет назад

Can you do the same for woman? Love your videos and personality.

@threexladi 7 лет назад

GS S Well I'm here, and I ain't leavin.' What ru gonna do about it?

@nishisaxena4831 7 лет назад

even us girls should have standards ... i'm not going to keep texting the guy; instead i expect him to chase me... with this advice that coach is giving, neither man nor woman will chase... there isn't going to be any relationship!!!!

@nishisaxena4831 7 лет назад

Sandrine Lanot listen to Matthew Hussey... he is an excellent (did i say HOT) coach for women

@princesspoppy6983 4 года назад

@@nishisaxena4831 exactly, as I soon as I see a guy is trying to get me to chase to him, I next his ass. I don't have time power play games.

@NoDramaAllowed Год назад

2023 and this video is still entertaining and valuable

@StrettonRutherford 7 лет назад

Great video Bro!

@halfdone12 6 лет назад

Amazing! Thanks for sharing!

@brrrinalaska6411 5 лет назад

Glad you drew a line between initial dating, attraction phase vs being in a sustained relationship. The majority of your videos are too focused on how to get laid. Hey deal with it, but it;'s the truth. For some of us guys, we really seek a compatible lifetime partner.

@GalacticWoman 6 лет назад

I soo agree Corey, a man I can respect is the sexiest man ever :)

@mooseSFLA 7 лет назад

"nice guys finish last, now im winning every race that i enter"

@bloodwashedsaint 9 месяцев назад

Bro your videos/Work are amazing

@butskiiueepp1625 7 лет назад

Ok look, I get what you're saying, but how come there is countless "nice guys" in relationships. I love your information & it's definitely improved my dating life, but still, maybe women truly aren't as analytical of every little thing we do as we men think. Hence why I said what I said above. Anybody have a good answer for this? I'd love to hear!

@CoachCoreyWayne 7 лет назад

the point is to not act like a supplicating pussy.

@threexladi 7 лет назад

Kobe #24 THE GOAT Oh, may I? Looking @ the housewives in my neighborhood, I sense that they married for SECURITY. That the guy they really loved was someone else. But he didn't want marriage, no way. They then latched onto some dull, unstylish drone (the 'nice guy') so that they'd have the picket fence, the kids, and escape the ghastly dating scene.

@JCASTELLINO007 7 лет назад

Hi Coach, I'm a big fan from Australia, I've got a date later this week & will definitely read up!

@dom2eureka 3 года назад

Love this one back to the book again for the fifth time

@journalofseduction4959 6 лет назад

A survey is not science. Science is when there is a theory and an experiment to prove or disprove the theory. But okay, I see your point, and it is true. Intrigue and mystery creates interest in a woman. But it does also in men, too.

@nameunlisted002 4 года назад

I’m the nice guy..and I had to learn that the hard way with a girl that we had so many much in common with, she says the way I act is really suspicious because...well after to she blocked me on Discord I......may have followed her Reddit..and Twitter..and then, I sending a message on Reddit to her dms..and now she says “...must leave me alone, now.” please can someone help me..

@lamontcranston8181 4 года назад

Loui Rivera stop stalking her on every digital platform. Try engaging in real life. You sound pretty desperate and that’s not going to get you anything but another date with your pillow.

@RobGordon35 7 лет назад

Thanks for the new video coach, love your work man. ~Peace.

@seasonings2taste115 7 лет назад

Having listens to his book 3.5/10-15 times, I'm going to guess before watching this vid. A leader, provider, protector. I.e. A man who can make decisions and take the incentive, a man who has his shit together and can contribute in a positive manner to her life. Someone who makes her feel safe. women open up when they feel safe with a man. And knowing her man will protect her is a huge turn on. Looks do help. But so does an education, a mortgage and. 401k.

@hkknnektndeck1449 7 лет назад

Seasonings2taste and then they take your house and 401k. Who cares what they want. Once sje gets it, she's gone.

@cait3holtzback788 5 лет назад

My dad was a Colonel, so I'm kind of a leader. I like equals. I am extremely good at some things, not so good at others. I don't yield leadership ability. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Everyone has different gifts. It is not wise to over-simplify, is it? To say men have to be the leader, the leader of what? If you have to be the leader of everything, then you're insecure and trying to use domination to compensate for your own bad feelings about yourself.

@dtd1986 5 лет назад

It's more having the presence and character of leadership that he's referring to, not that the guy makes every decision about everything. It ties in with women being attracted to a man's strength.

@Jooohan1412 2 года назад

Really interesting stuff. I’m reading the book. But… what I’m really wondering: where is the vulnerable side of it. I thought it is really important to show your vulnerability, to be real. It’s simple impossible to be centered and strong over een period of years. I think it’s not good either. You are a human! What do you think??!