I used to come to these videos because I screwed up. Now, I'm coming back to validate all of the things I'm doing right. "The harder I work, The Luckier I get"
Grant Espanet thats an Ingemar Stenmark qoute🙌🏾 he pulled that one on a live interview while the reporter was telling him that he got lucky he won!😂 epic
This guy here is probably one of the best dating coaches I've ever listened to. I've done lots and lots of research and talked to many different so called "Dating professionals" and many of them don't come close to Corey. What he says is 100% true, every word. Once you start dating regularly, two to three a week, you won't even care if some don't want to talk to you or see you again. I've had so many women contact me to hang out, but I'm lazy haha. So, I keep my time to the girls I'm actually interested in. It's really not hard guys! you can do it!
I agree 100% but if there was one thing I had to disagree with and that’s the text thing . I think running away from texting to get to know a girl in this day and age is not a good move . If you have good text game you can text the knickers off every time
It depends on the girl. Especially Gemini women who love to be constantly stimulated and will text a lot. I created a Daddy Dom / sub dynamic with a woman over text. Haven't even met her yet. Maybe it falls through and it's short lived but super fun. Still apply the rules and pull away when things are good though.
I just made it thru the book for the second time. Tonight i had my first date after finding Coach C. I met her off tinder. And I almost laughed out loud when she said these words..."I thought you were so interesting when we didn't talk. It made me feel that you weren't needy and that was cool and I was excited all week to finally meet you" After which I sealed the date with a kiss. Oh and the same thing when she said, "I talk too much...tell me more about you...no wait, you have told me...wow I do talk to much, you just ask all the questions" lol this stuff WORKS!!! I'm reading the book again...13 more times to go
I friend zone the girls first when I sense them pulling away. Master Game taught by my father. Father: you have to sift through a lot of dirt to find the gold. If a girl needs to be treated like dirt to gain attraction then she is probably dirt. If they demand to be treated like gold then they probably are.
Corey you've changed my life, reading the book 10 to 15 times isn't enough. I read it every time I go into a relationship and I get what I want. I love you man.
Corey, thank you for your audio book. I've read your book I don't know how many times now and listened to the audio book at least 50, yes, 50-times. I even play it when I go to bed at night. This shit is now 2nd nature to me and I'm happier now in my life than I've ever been. Thank you...really, I mean it from the bottom of my heart brother: thank you.
10:14 Everything happens for a reason in life. Even the challenges and the worst shit that happens to us - it happens for a reason. There's a gift in that. It helps make us who we are. When we make mistakes, that's how we learn from it. 10:48 When you meet somebody who's positive, happy, and optimistic - even though their whole lives maybe falling apart - you feel good about being around people like that, because they lift you up. They make you feel better about yourself just by being in their presence. They make you feel more confident in yourself, because they're more confident within themselves (Noah Kagan, Tim Ferriss).
He is right! Pursue us more when you are in a relationship with us then we don't get insecure. But at the dating stage...let us be the gooey ones. I tried the whole letting men pursue me thing and I kept attracting wet blankets. Sure, I got pursued but it just put me off them.
Thanks coach. I've only read your book once so far but will be reading it at least 10 to 15 times. I recently walked away from a woman I am head or heels in love with because she has been disrespectful. She's bullheaded BUT she eventually contacted me and we're getting together soon I also started dating a couple other women and I am following the only contact them once a week and they're starting to pursue me. Feels good. I am have not been able to get too many women to approach me but I'm getting better at that too. I recently started talking to a cute girl at Starbucks (she works there) I've made her giggle a lot and today when I went in I didn't buy anything and didn't say hello, she knows my drink and made it for me for free!
so being a mystery is to not spill out youre feelings, dont talk to them everyday,haveing short conversation or am i missing the point of being a mystery.
The idea is to make her work for it. You don't puke all your feelings, wants and expectations on her. She has to ask, she has to dig for it. So in practice, only talk about this stuff in person and don't ramble, ask questions, listen more than you talk.
The weirdest thing happened a month ago. I started to become a 3% man. I bought Coreys book 3 months ago and read it 15 times. I put women on a pedestal and was part of the 97%. The past month something happened and I can’t turn back. I stopped looking at my phone, hoping I missed a text or a phone call. It’s a very confusing feeling because it feels like I don’t care. It scared me when my ex came back cause I thought I didn’t have strong feelings for her! I was wrong!!!! Every time we hangout I can tell I want to be with her but when I’m not with her it’s a feeling of take it or leave it. Meh. Thank you Corey!
Being a mystery INITIALLY is attractive. Continuing that mystery into a serious relationship becomes "sketchy" and alarming to the woman you're dating.. Living proof! Lol
+mrsemifixit It's much more attractive when you let women discover everything about you slowly over time by letting them inquire about you instead of trying to tell them everything about you on your first date. It's like telling someone the ending to a movie they have not seen yet.
+Coach Corey Wayne Indeed. I'm naturally private so it comes off as a mystery since I'm not about revealing things for no reason. But the girl I've been dating told me that my mysterious quality became alarming as the relationship progressed. Guess I was being "too" mysterious without knowing it ha
+mrsemifixit It's nice to always have something new to learn about someone. Obviously there's a point where you've gotta open up , otherwise the relationship will lack emotional intimacy, but we don't need your full life story on the first date.
That’s what we’re told by the institutions that profit from marriage. I hate to burst your bubble but we’re not a monogamous species and marriage is a modern invention. Everyone is free to decide what their version of success is. Congrats on your many years together… I noticed you don’t mention happiness or fulfillment tho.
I liked his analogy about getting your foot in the door but if you don’t know what you are doing the door will slam and cut your foot off. That’s the first time I’ve heard this and I’ve listened to tons of his videos. Even though I’m a woman follower I get a lot of insight to my own dating life and behaviors. I can immediately spot now the differences in men I meet and the “Come on man” moments. Like impatience and over pursuing.
Just read the frickin book 10-15 times or more. I’ve made it part my almost daily routine to go over the parts I highlighted after reading it over 15 times.
Corey you were so right, listening to the book is half as efficient as reading it. I've listened it over 15 times and i still dont know it backward and forward. However, listening to it while driving my truck i think actually saves me time.
I got friend zoned for like a year/ months. This Friday I am not going on a date with the woman I am interested in and that friend zoned me. Months went by and things changed. Buy the book and read it over and over again. !
When I see a hot girl I go up to her say hi then I walk away and never look back... dunno why but they never come back...your method doesn't work Corey! Lol in all seriousness this dude is awesome.
"Having good looks will get your foot in the door, but if you don't know what you're fucking doing that door will fucking slam and cut your fucking foot of. " Coach Corey
Haha. I had one come back after 25 Years! Amazing was prepared to cheat on her partner with me, I said "no thank you I dont do that kind of thing". She then married the poor guy. Stay strong.
Hi Corey, Thank you for all of your coaching!! Just on a side note... An audio version of your book will help all of your dyslexic fans!💕. Not sure if you already decided to release one or if it is already available. So happy I found your material it has really helped me!!best to yiu! 🤗Lilli
You preach an awesome set of skills man, I found your videos by accident and they are all absolutely awesome! I bet you probably get plenty of female replies that either validate or challenge your video posts. These are critical pickup skills, can't be telling all the ladies our tricks.. Some chics are smart enough to think they are already one step ahead of us. I'm saying this in a very sarcastic tone, preach on man!
He's right about the "one to two sentences" creating an epiphany. When I read the ebook I kept having those moments and would take a screenshot with the sentence highlighted. I had about twenty jpegs by the time I was done, and I'd look through them every couple of days and when I felt like I finally internalized the message I deleted them.
I’ve been a follower for 4-5 years now. Glad I watched this video today. I’m a 25 year old millennial that hates reading to the extreme. I’ve listened to your audio about 10 times now. I do listen while I’m driving etc. I’m at the point now where I can almost read the book out loud now while your speaking. The audio works well.
I will say this coach when I first saw your videos I wasn’t so sure about you and what you were saying, but it was the opposite of what I had been doing wich was getting zero fucking respect and doing everything for women and putting them on a pedi stool. So I needed to do somthing drastic. Iv only put things into practice for about 4 days now with women including going up and talking to some af the gym and I gotta say… so far… this shit is getting me fantastic results I’m blown away. As I saw things start to trend in a better direction I immediately ordered your paper back book. I plan to read it atleast 10-15 times. I have followed what you said and it works and if you say I need to do that I will read it that many times. I’m still new to all this at 33yo but if things keep trending like they are, your services are invaluable, I really want you to know that. I fully plan to turn my life around with this book and new way of relating to women. Thank you so much
Coach Corey I am so happy that you made an audiobook I've had it for 4 days and I've listened to it 2 1/2 times. I have started using your coaching.I liked it so well but my best friend has a problem with insecurities with his girlfriend I bought it for him he's promised to listen to it 15 to 20 times I'm hoping to get his relationship stronger cuz he is really nice person.
I had one of those surreal "love at first sight" experience in college. The attraction was strong like pepper sweet like sugar. It's a once of a lifetime experience!
Dude you totally should do an audio book out of it. I am so used to listening to your voice and hearing you say fucking stop doing that shit and I think it's one of the greatest things you say consistently!
Universal alignment, she's an absolutely beautiful thing! Your 100 percent right when you make love to someone who is truly in love with you and your both spirituality aligned. Nothing compares! Level 100 shit! Thanks for everything Corey. Means the world to me that you share this gift with us. Stay safe and all the best 👍
I’ve made reading this book part of my daily routine. I’m currently on my second time through. I already noticed a difference in my approach and the results I’m getting after reading it once,, I can only imagine after fifteen times...
Haha I know! I started reading it last week and finished it once now. In the meantime, I got three women hitting on me in the gym and got laid twice with older women in that same week. I now do have a busy schedule!
Corey, I work 10 hours at my job. I believe that is a great opportunity to listen to audio books. yes of course you have to read your book. but it will facilitate absorbing your knowledge.
You brilliant man, just ordered your book....I am strong mentally and have lots of women but i guess need to be polished. Watched 100's of your videos...You are the best out there. thank you
You are the f'n man bro!! I just bought your book and have been watching a lot of your videos. I have been applying some of this already and just in the initial stages I am already seeing results. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. AND I haven't even read the book yet! So pumped to start reading it.
Listen to Coach and go over the play book... don’t be that player during the game when a situation arises that doesn’t know/remember the play we ran during “practice”... fuck it up and lose the game... We get W’s out here
When men play games (emotional and psychological manipulation) I loose respect and feel very disappointed to the point where I walk away. I being a very authentic, transparent, vulnerable part of myself into relationships and when this dynamic ensues it’s like feeling I’m at the Tower of Babel!! One minute we where speaking each other’s language and the next I don’t understand anything anymore AND there’s so many different interpreters that I don’t know which one to believe anymore!! Uhhhhhg. When life was more simple. No it’s a disaster!
this is good advice but the thing is, if a girl says they're no chemistry or any of the examples Corey gives, I have zero interest left by the time she changes her mind, it's already disrespectful to make a guy wait that long
I love coach Cory, iv been watching him for years and bought and read his book one time but now have a girl, made a lot of mistakes so I’m gonna read another 14 times lol. But seriously love coach he’s a gem and can be hilarious x
The girl I’m talking to now brings up all the time to me and all of her friends that I don’t like texting. And she’s never had a guy who doesn’t like texting.
Your book truly works. I’m starting to attract and get dates with near hotties and overall nice girls 👍😄. Ive read the book once and audio version twice and of course applying it in real life.
Yeah I'm on my 8th read of this book and I not gonna put it down. Corey women are coming out of the woodwork. I am overwhelmed poor me right lol. I have had women that are dating me get upset when I am dating someone else. But hey if they are not mature enough to handle it too bad. I want the highest quality one. Having fun!
+Major Coleman. I know right. I'm on my maybe 25th read and I didn't go back to my ex or the girl I was chasing. Something clicked. I seriously asked myself after Corey said in a video. Do I want to reheat leftovers? No. I am dating people now that I could never pick up before. Some OK some crazy. Book teaches you quality vs crap. Right now I'm just hooking up and having fun and enjoying myself though these techniques in the book. Yep read the book 10 to 15 times for mind repetition. Works man.
+The Ow's Bros Also something I noticed about the book. It teach you to weed out all the crap. Man their is a freaking ocean of women out here with shitty terms. It's unbelievable! Definitely made me stop settling and being a shitastic beta male. Thanks Corey
Major Coleman Seriously ask yourself. Do I want to reheat left overs. I mean if that's what you want is the ex back. That is all you. Or on to explore.
The Ow's Bros nah i let her ass go now it's time to drop the other ex. i mean i deleted all our messages and deleted this chick off of facebook and instagram.
You are awesome bro! I just started watching these videos. I am going to get the book soon and read it 15 times brother! Wish I found this link 20 years ago damn.
Hi Corey, you now have an audiobook. I am assuming it is equal to listen to your book 10-15 times versus reading it? Or to read your book 3 times and listen to it 12 times? Let me know what you recommend for greatest success
I've read the book a few times. I really feel sometimes these principals are harder to apply for ppl who have been in long term relationships. You've already told them everything. How can you become a mystery to someone who knows it all? Lol
I can tell from your comment that you're looking at my book from the perspective of someone who is looking for the easy way out in order to be manipulative to get a desired result. You're worried your games of manipulation will be easily recognized by your woman (they will) and it will blow up in your face. You're looking for shortcuts and trying to cherry-pick info instead of really trying to learn to understand the principles, why women do what they do and how to properly adopt them as part of who you are. My book was created to help you learn how to act like a masculine man is supposed to act so you attract your woman naturally by being a real man. Not to be a robot who is looking to use techniques, tricks or magic words to get his woman to do what he wants on command like a dog. If you are not willing to do the work on yourself to become a better man, give the book to someone else who is.
Coach Corey Wayne i'm puzzled as to how you drew so many assumptions by a genuine question. I'm just a guy trying to figure this out like the next man. And if I was trying to be manipulative I wouldn't have purchased and read through your book twice. And still be here watching your videos. I'm just curious how do you remain a mystery to someone you've been with for a long time. Nothing more than that dude
@@diazhuguemungus8397 you can't but perhaps at that point you don't have to my friend , but don't take my word i couldn't attract a piece of metal if i had a magnet with me 🤣
@@diazhuguemungus8397 hes basically just saying read the book and you'll learn everything you need. He thinks you only want to know one piece of info when you should be learning everything
So I guess you changed your mind about the audiobook? Not such a dumb idea huh , downloaded it and that's how I learn best . I've spent five years listening to Buddhist teaching to find my inner core and listening in that case was essential. I'd say same here . Attracting woman has never been an issue for me it's getting the ones I really like . That's where I need you coach . Gotta beat those woman at there own game . Put them in there place , respectfully of course ! :p
That relationship he is describing at the end is exactly what I had for 9 months and lost because I acted like a pussy for barely a month because I lost family due to covid 19 it hurts that I found him after I tried to chase her for weeks already but I'll live and I have learned from this
When you find the right woman you'll forget about her man. I did it too to my first love interest and was devestated at the time. Today, i realized she had bad daddy issues and belonged to the streets. Told her to never talk to me again not long ago which I could never fathom saying years ago
Bro Im listening to the Audiobook for the 5th time as I happen upon this video, I thought I was doing pretty good, but then you said we wanna be fucking efficient, and I just laughed. I cant help but agree
