I did things wrong in the past things i did trying to help was totally wrong i had to be talked about to listen and see where i went wrong I wasn't told that but i had to learn it. As a Pastor told me u don't see nobody else doing it. Its ok to help ur partner just don't do it all he said. I learned a lot and im glad i did im thankful for the lesson.
I had consistency but he did not like to communicate any critique. Plus I felt unsafe at times with him.. It took me a minute now I see the mistreatment now.. He didn’t have no back bone when it came to family..