He can introduce you to everyone important but that doesn't mean he takes you seriously. Sometimes it's a strategy to make you feel like he's serious about you when in fact the family is in on the scam. this information is incorrect. It is a business for the whole family and sometimes when he's introducing you to the family his wife is there among them pretending to be the sister or the cousin WTF. Having said that not everyone is like that but this is usually the strategy that catches a lot of Innocent women out and it is not nice.
So far he’s doing all these things. He already has his green card. I’m Black American and he’s Nigerian. My 1st time dating an African man. I hope he’s the real deal and not a player.
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Thanks for sharing this knowledge. I’m sharing your videos as much as I can! Great honest content. My fiancée named me Ebunoluwa and his family calls me “Ebun”.. I’m still learning to respond to it because they don’t call me my American name 😂 I have had Zoom meetings with the entire family and His pastor and business mentor. He sends me thoughtful gifts by surprised. He was the first guy to make me realize I’m horrible at selfcare. He had a very stern talk with me one day. It was hard to see myself but he was right. I’m improving.
I always cook him food or banana cake and take it to his house with me and sometimes he buys me flowers and one time a new designer handbag. But we have been together 6months and don’t really go on dates anymore. Hopefully this is ok / it’s the same as him providing for me and not me doing too much?
1💚 2💚 3💚 4💚 Do their moms call you the wife even before you marry? My Nigerian guy never asks me for anything. He doesn't have a lot of money though. Does his family expect me to pat my own way there and back? Is this unusual?