Words of Wisdom- don’t treat a good hearted woman badly or a a woman of God . The woman you choose will present your karma yo. Whether she from Nigeria or US or any other place when God present you with a good woman and you offend her and her ancestors. Karma is what you will eat .
What are you saying? You said he took care of you all the time. Does this mean you already divorced. You used the word took which is a simple past tense. Did he die?
Absolutely! They act superior and the woman to walk behind them. The nerve of them to think that a woman should be this or that when it all goes both ways. Never could marry a Nigerian man.
These videos are so interesting, I'm married and never dated/never would date an African man, but I think your channel was recommended to me because I watch a lot of 90 Day Fiancé, lol. I've had a few West African friends and even roommates when I was in college, and saw very quickly that they can make great friends for me but the culture/lifestyle is incompatible for dating. However more Americans and Westerners need to understand the complexities of cultures in West Africa because there are a lot more "rules" and more rigid structure than what many of us are used to. The West African roommates I had when I was younger dated some Americans for a while but all eventually married within their ethnic groups. That seems to be what almost always happens, and I don't blame them, when your culture is so strong people tend to act within what's expected more often than not
I enjoyed the video; very informative, concise & straight to the point. I look forward to my Nigeria trip it has been on my bucket list for a while. I like to understand diverse traditions & cultures. 💚🤍💚 ✌🏽
this is most men around the world!😂😂😂 respect is above all with men in general! most men everywhere want a woman that can cook and keep house. most men want a cooperative partner! where they differ is the entire family is part of your relationship nd yes their Nigerian family are their priority! ABOVE ANY OUTSIDE FAMILY !! yes if u are not Nigerian YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE OUTSIDER AND NEVER BE NUMBER ONE!! he doesn’t word it that way but u are expected to step down behind his Nigerian friends and family always . he sugar coated a lot but he definitely spoke the truth so know what u are getting into. STUDY LONG!!! if he doesn’t hv citizenship STUDY LONGER!!! it’s harder to see the real him with out it! GOOD LUCK EVERYONE I TRULY WISH U THE BEST WITH UR NIGERIAN MAN!
Yes you want to be individual, socialised western feminism. Its about family, so if you put yourself into competition with the family, you would be dropped.
I am mexican American and I am moving to nigeria ro get married. And the best way I can describe my future husband is love. He loves me so much he takes his role as a provider seriously. They remind me of mexican men
Hello sir, You have given the true definition of a Nigerian man. All you have said is very real, though I'm not from Nigeria but if God gives me a Nigerian man I will take your advice and make a happy marriage home. But I notice something about some Nigerian women, they don't take these advice, they disrespect their husband and control their husband in the home especially when they have money, doing a good job. I think they should be examples for other women who want to be Nigerians by marriage. I love Nigerians and I will like to be married to Nigerians, If God approves it. I really learned so many things from you thank you sir.
Just curious how often is there more than one wife? Is this just the right of a Nigerian man or do his first wife have to agree with it? (Assuming she is not Nigerian) why would a Nigerian man marry a lady knowing she can’t produce kids but he wants kids?
Oh yeah, I had that topic as discussion in my previous relationship.I also feel like they dont believe in marriage because they have Outside Sourcing😂 even If there is horny wife at home.Well, too difficult to handle.I missed my German Nightmare after a Nigerian man. Their love is like a Makoko tent.
@@allesklarism on the contrary, we believe in marriage and if you look at statistics our divorce rate is very low. However, sometimes western women are unlucky with finding real Nigerian men
If you describe someone, especially a woman, as homely, you mean that they have a warm, comforting manner and look like someone who would enjoy being at home and having a family. [British] . I think you 'Homely" you have in mind is more of a slang. @@SweetEssie
