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When an introvert only knows one person at a party 

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@FrankJames
@FrankJames 3 года назад
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@roshneed123
@roshneed123 3 года назад
First
@meowhahaha
@meowhahaha 3 года назад
So, FJ wants your phone numbers ladies 😁
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 года назад
@@meowhahaha 💚 I am pretty sure if he ask, he will get some.
@meowhahaha
@meowhahaha 3 года назад
@@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes off course!! But I guess it will be so many numbers and he’s kinda picky (you know INFJ, High Standard 😉) & busy…so he doesn’t have enough time to choose which numbers he’s gonna call 😆😂😁 n maybe that’s why he won’t ask irl💁🏻‍♀️
@mysterygirl30011
@mysterygirl30011 3 года назад
Glitch in the Matrix: went to watch Frank's video and get an ad by him for his app. Thought this skit is really high quality but it was an actual ad
@ShortHax
@ShortHax 3 года назад
Step 1: Don't go
@marymarryy
@marymarryy 3 года назад
simple
@dottores_husband
@dottores_husband 3 года назад
Yes, simple
@welcometothericefield6605
@welcometothericefield6605 3 года назад
Step 2: watch danganronpa instead.
@dottores_husband
@dottores_husband 3 года назад
@@welcometothericefield6605 step 3: and eat chips on my bed alone
@constanceackerman7763
@constanceackerman7763 3 года назад
Why are you everywhere
@madamecurious
@madamecurious 3 года назад
It’s a miracle that us introverts have not become extinct a long time ago …. Lol 😆
@kaydee1721
@kaydee1721 3 года назад
The fact that this is true is proof that introversion is not a genetic trait 🤣
@arcaniaxs2408
@arcaniaxs2408 3 года назад
As long as extroverts exist, they can create more introverts
@firespawnie537
@firespawnie537 3 года назад
Aren't you way more than extroverts?
@ryu7408
@ryu7408 3 года назад
Introverts are powerful in my opinion. I don't wonder we're still around.
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 года назад
@@firespawnie537 Introverts are more balanced than extroverts. Extroverts : extroverts outside, introverts inside. Introverts : extrovers inside, introverts outside.
@kensears5099
@kensears5099 3 года назад
An experienced introvert NEVER just stands there talking to nobody. That is a surefire pity-magnet, guaranteed to attract mother-hen-type extroverts with a compulsive need to compel everybody into cookie-cutter, lockstep hilarity. The clever introvert keeps moving, always looking like he's on the way from one sparkling conversation to another. It's the party equivalent of looking busy at work, walking seriously down the hall with a sheaf of papers and a frown: "Sorry, can't stop. I'm on a mission...." Oh yes, extroverts have their way of "working the room." The introvert's dirty little secret is: he does, too.
@kensears5099
@kensears5099 3 года назад
Indeed, superficially you might find it difficult to distinguish the extroverts and introverts from each other, as they both flit around the room like social butterflies. It takes closer observation to note which ones are gladhanding and chatting up everybody they can and which ones aren't stopping to talk to anybody at all.
@shuyen8429
@shuyen8429 3 года назад
words of wisdom. I’ll keep this in mind. -inexperienced, young introvert
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
Don't forget that awkward nod and stupid smile after asking a rando what's up and walking away.
@AK-jt7kh
@AK-jt7kh 3 года назад
I think that advice works best for you guy introverts. Chances are good that if you’re a woman your movements are being tracked. Lol. The best I can do is to not make eye contact with anyone and hover around the snacks or alcohol, sometimes talking to the bartender because someone paid them to stand there and pretend I’m interesting so they’re trapped, and forced to be superficially kind about it.
@kensears5099
@kensears5099 3 года назад
@@AK-jt7kh Ah yes, I see. That's enlightening. My sympathies!
@1Bobobo
@1Bobobo 3 года назад
When I'm at a party the only thing I bond with is the trees outside or the dog/cat
@DiogoChris
@DiogoChris 3 года назад
Or myself 😅
@ravens_corner5334
@ravens_corner5334 3 года назад
When I’m at a party I sit in the corner and stare at a wall
@Peonies925
@Peonies925 3 года назад
I too have found comfort at a party…. befriending the beloved pet.
@chrissymarie323
@chrissymarie323 3 года назад
Yes! The only thing that can possibly save me is an animal!!!
@idktbh001
@idktbh001 3 года назад
When I'm at a party I go in the car and watch anime the whole time
@helenwood8482
@helenwood8482 3 года назад
This is why introverts should never go to parties. Your "friend" will always abandon you.
@BitMega
@BitMega 3 года назад
Noted
@mr_indie_fan
@mr_indie_fan 2 года назад
Bring your best introvert friend with you
@nikatotibadze4518
@nikatotibadze4518 Год назад
true
@affinity266
@affinity266 3 года назад
We need "If Brian was honest with his friend" version. 😂
@ellenh278
@ellenh278 3 года назад
Been that extrovert. This is real. Solution: find another super introvert ."Sally meet Paula. Paula REALLY likes knitting too! Isn't that fascinating? AND she likes art history. You guys have so much in common. Excuse me I need to go grab a drink. Tickle in my throat." as you fade away into the crowd. Watch from afar to make sure your introverts are actually talking and not watching you. Bam. Win win.
@bodine219
@bodine219 3 года назад
Actually this is a kind solution. For whatever reason, introverts tend to click with each other.
@Neo-Tokyo_
@Neo-Tokyo_ 3 года назад
@@bodine219 so true 😂 we just understand one another
@DiogoChris
@DiogoChris 3 года назад
@@Neo-Tokyo_ Not all the time... I've been in a situation where it got so awkward after the polite nice-to-meet-you, that I just wanted to leave, but I ju couldn't because I didn't want to hurt her feelings by making it feel as though she's not good enough to hang out with 😩 Trust me, nothing pleasant about this
@-randomuser-4897
@-randomuser-4897 3 года назад
Yeah, but having a kind of extraverted person can greatly help :']
@HenriZwols
@HenriZwols 3 года назад
You are kinder than I am. I can't stand clingy people. I get really blunt: "I'm going to talk to someone else now", and not even wait for a response.
@annabaldwin1563
@annabaldwin1563 3 года назад
That's why it's better for us introverts to bring another introvert to the party just for safety lol
@eatyourcereal4747
@eatyourcereal4747 3 года назад
If im going down im not gonna drag someone else with me
@rachelk4805
@rachelk4805 3 года назад
No, better off with two extroverts. You can go from one to the other, and both will introduce you to other people you might otherwise not talk to. I don't mean to sound condescending, but I find the introverts in my life only need a little hand holding in the beginning, before they find a way to meaningfully engage in something interesting to them.
@CrazyErzy
@CrazyErzy 3 года назад
I only go to social gatherings because of my ESTP husband... and the food. Plus, he always says "we can leave whenever you want" and I kinda believe him everytime 😭 even when I know we'll spend hours there and I won't feel free to leave because I don't want to spoil his fun... LOL. But, to be fair with him, If I tell him I wanna leave, we leave, it's just that when I see him happy, I just can't. -INFP.
@bodine219
@bodine219 3 года назад
aww that's so cute. He means it because he loves you and you don't ask because you love him. -another INFP
@faithb8343
@faithb8343 3 года назад
100% agree. INFP here. As long as we know we can be out in a moment’s notice we’re good. It’s good to have a partner who is willing to ghost w/you.
@faithdarst9015
@faithdarst9015 3 года назад
awww goalsss - another INFP
@ficialintelligence1869
@ficialintelligence1869 3 года назад
You married an ESTP? And it actually _works?_ Maybe there's hope out there for me (INFP) to meet an ISTP.
@siaanand2189
@siaanand2189 3 года назад
whats your type?
@marieindia8116
@marieindia8116 3 года назад
"you really need to work on your social skills" Jerkiest introvert ever! So dependent and manipulative!
@aiwamaryjoseph1496
@aiwamaryjoseph1496 3 года назад
dude that's a joke..
@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984
@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984 3 года назад
probably something like intj or istj
@dragonkingxl3310
@dragonkingxl3310 3 года назад
@@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984 could also be an intp lmao
@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984
@godabandonedmesoibecameaba8984 3 года назад
@@dragonkingxl3310 no a little relatable but not same
@deltamico
@deltamico 3 года назад
See, that's so harsh, you really need to work on them.
@laurafigueroa3821
@laurafigueroa3821 3 года назад
omg that part of "you can barely talk to me even though you know me" i felt that
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
It's relieving when you do get to know someone you can actually talk to. Especially if you both enjoy it. Edit: I said "especially" twice.
@tikent-snulfwoer
@tikent-snulfwoer 3 года назад
"But you NEED to come with me!" Lol I have that problem too.
@rachelk4805
@rachelk4805 3 года назад
I am an ENFP and my response, almost always, is ok. Oh, you need to go run boring errands? Ok. I am not actively doing something else, so might as well go with the flow. I wouldn't tone down the flirting though... You wanna come, keep pace.
@sadafsayyada2058
@sadafsayyada2058 3 года назад
Ya i too relate 😂
@micaelag487
@micaelag487 3 года назад
Poor Brian. He just wants love. 🥺
@joanarc3369
@joanarc3369 3 года назад
Intj here. A friend that im not quite close to invited me to his party with other people who i rarely talk to. I invited my infp and enfp friend to go with me, but enfp couldnt go. So on that day of the party, infp and i got ready to go. As we passed by his house, we saw that the party is outside (we were hoping the party was inside cause we wanted AC), so we left somewhere and decided to come back until the sun goes down. Hours later, we never bothered to go to the party cause we both dont know the people very well and we just simply didnt feel like going 😆
@SamirCCat
@SamirCCat 3 года назад
My life became SO MUCH BETTER when I stopped pushing myself to be "normal" and stopped going to parties or gatherings with unknown people. My life with social anxiety AND introversion is a lot better now!
@marlo2919
@marlo2919 3 года назад
Same. I stopped forcing myself and I don't miss crappy party's that have a ton of people I don't know.
@louisejoel
@louisejoel 3 года назад
I don't mind costume parties, must be an INTP thing
@nomadicgamer9466
@nomadicgamer9466 3 года назад
That sounds like torture. I'm so glad you stopped doing that.
@SamirCCat
@SamirCCat 3 года назад
@@nomadicgamer9466 Me too!! Now people say I'm too isolated, but I rather have only 2 friends that I see once a month and a few close family members, than really ever meeting people I don't know. I have a lot of other mental illness too, so I cannot relate at all to "normal" people. I have my little bubble of people where I'm happy. It doesn't drain me and is WORTH putting my limited energy on it. I got NOTHING out of parties or meeting unknown people, so I don't do that any more. So freeing to listen to yourself and not what society tells you!
@SamirCCat
@SamirCCat 3 года назад
@@louisejoel Maybe because you can hide behind the costume? You may not feel as vulnerable then?
@lonedragon7061
@lonedragon7061 3 года назад
An introvert at a party is like a yeti. A legend says, someone once saw it.
@VinnesRC
@VinnesRC 3 года назад
Legend says, the school made it mandatory. Now that is something I would hate to actually happen in the real world. Oh wait, that's exactly what they did!
@ApplePi._.
@ApplePi._. 3 года назад
@@VinnesRC visible anger
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
@@VinnesRC School: You know what? Now it's mandatory. Yup! Mandatory for having fun at karaoke night. You don't come, and you're suspended, SO DEAL WITH IT!
@Ace_Maus
@Ace_Maus 3 года назад
Always: Try to confirm beforehand whether the house you're going to has entertainment for introverts (videogames that are not FIFA, books/magazines, pets, etc.) or is introvert-friendly (I know the places where I can go and take over a desk to draw or something and no one will bother me). You can also opt to drown your nerves with finger foods; there has to be some, otherwise it's not a good party at all.
@wish9495
@wish9495 3 года назад
If I knew that only one person I knew was going to be at a party I wouldn’t even attend 😂
@grassfedmilkmomma
@grassfedmilkmomma 3 года назад
Same!
@bigowen6789
@bigowen6789 3 года назад
I would just go there for the food
@bigowen6789
@bigowen6789 3 года назад
if nobody was there that is
@bodine219
@bodine219 3 года назад
I might if they really wanted to go and were nervous. Introvert mom mode is real -- sudden social powers.
@panlis6243
@panlis6243 3 года назад
"I gotta go to the bathroom" "No, don't leave me. You're the only one keeping me alive"
@khunagueroagnis2558
@khunagueroagnis2558 3 года назад
So true, but an even truer introvert would never go to a party in the first place
@sansnitizer
@sansnitizer 3 года назад
I guess more like at school gatherings for example.
@1jediwitch
@1jediwitch 3 года назад
Yep.
@StaceyAudreyStaMaria
@StaceyAudreyStaMaria 3 года назад
or would even get invited to a party
@armypedia7
@armypedia7 3 года назад
May be its his or her own birthday party ...lol..
@mafumafuisakitty3498
@mafumafuisakitty3498 3 года назад
Yeah parties and people are nightmares 💔👁👄👁
@lauriemartin490
@lauriemartin490 3 года назад
That is so me, but I would never stop my friend from talking to the girl. I would pretend to be fine, while slowly dying inside. And then, wishing I had the courage to talk to someone, I would take a stroll outside for "fresh air" hoping someone else would magically decide to do the same thing and take a walk with me. But they wouldn't because they would be busy talking to people. So I would just go home and determine to never go to a party again. But, honestly . . . this has never happened to me. I'm totally making it up.
@FG011
@FG011 3 года назад
Lol, this thought process itself is way more relatable for me than the video itself.
@ashley1872
@ashley1872 3 года назад
Are you me? Because what you just said has literally happened to me before so many times
@ceilinh6004
@ceilinh6004 3 года назад
Weird. I'm an introvert, but for some reason, in this situation, most of my sympathy is for Brian. Poor Brian.
@nurainiarsad7395
@nurainiarsad7395 3 года назад
This is why I actually prefer more old fashioned dinner parties or events in cultures where there is an expectation that the host/person who invites has duties. In that context it’s on the host to host a successful party and that includes knowing everyone who was invited at least enough to introduce people to each other so that they’d have a good conversation, recognising the awkwardness of intruding into the space of someone you have not been introduced to. It’s not the guest’s fault if they don’t have a good time, and people who are good at hosting become known as that. It’s a legit skill set. It’s also normal in this context, if you are invited and you bring someone else, to first introduce them to the host, and then the host would briefly learn something about them and decide where in the party to match them into, otherwise you as the person who brought them in the first place should take them around.
@danferrusquia2819
@danferrusquia2819 3 года назад
Is that not how contemporary American parties are supposed to work? At least, that’s how I would host one. I thought that was just basic social etiquette
@vanessamelanson4111
@vanessamelanson4111 3 года назад
I used to know someone who was absolutely wonderful at this! He would host parties for Japanese visitors to mingle with canadian locals, and would match you with people, do introductions, and start the conversation off for you. He was so good at it, and it helped IMMENSELY!
@jhsil224
@jhsil224 3 года назад
The most friend guy ever, he never gonna give Brian up
@missrobinhoodie
@missrobinhoodie 3 года назад
But tbh he could’ve given Brian a break and go to the bathroom for a while…
@sonoffrey777
@sonoffrey777 3 года назад
And he never gonna let Brian down either
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
@@sonoffrey777 He's never gonna run around and desert Brian. Even when Brian wants to do that to him.
@rainstreet78
@rainstreet78 3 года назад
Hands down my worst nightmare is walking into a party by myself and seeing no one I know. It's pretty much a "fight-or-flight" moment and "flight" usually wins.
@mariotheundying
@mariotheundying 3 года назад
Usually? You mean sometimes fight wins and you start punching people for no reason?
@markwright3161
@markwright3161 3 года назад
I'm imagining how 'fight' would work in that situation, perhaps if approached when really not expecting it and with no escape route at all it would be an attempt to karate-chop the air molecules coming out of their mouth in an attempt to not hear their small talk :)
@melisaarteaga3110
@melisaarteaga3110 Год назад
Lmaooo, I'm an extrovert and sometimes I feel the same. Gotta "flight"! 🤣
@danerysstormborn7719
@danerysstormborn7719 3 года назад
Feels so good that I get to watch these awkward introvert sketches. One place where I don't have to explain why my behavior is different, thank you Frank James
@sid9882
@sid9882 3 года назад
I've been so sad and depressed for quite a while now but your videos have helped me out a lot man. Thanks a lot for all the videos.
@Sree9805
@Sree9805 3 года назад
I hope you get over your sadness and depression soon.😊
@noemirodriguez9137
@noemirodriguez9137 2 года назад
Hey. I just prayed for you. I hope you're doing better now. But know that God is real and that He cares for you ❤️🙏
@thatguyreiji1045
@thatguyreiji1045 3 года назад
Brian seemed more like the introvert in this setting😂😂
@kupa121
@kupa121 3 года назад
Wait, I thought Brian *is* the introvert
@-randomuser-4897
@-randomuser-4897 3 года назад
@@kupa121 Nah, he's an extravert/ambivert. Or at least more extraverted then the guy ; i think de mixed them up because the guy speaks his mind (and also being toxic :/)
@kupa121
@kupa121 3 года назад
@@-randomuser-4897 yeah, maybe you're right. I thought Brian is an introvert, who is trying to escape from the other guy.
@grassfedmilkmomma
@grassfedmilkmomma 3 года назад
Im the person that jumps on a task, usually one that requires a lot of work and running around so i can just stay busy. It keeps the chitchat down to the essentials like: "whens the food done?"
@esthergaby4913
@esthergaby4913 3 года назад
Frank you totally get me😂😂.......it's exactly how i feel in such situations and usually that friend wants to talk to other people and you just feel like you could literally glue yourself to them, not to feel left out
@descai10
@descai10 3 года назад
There are two types of introverts: Introvert type 1 - Not very interested in other people in general. Dislikes small talk and generally only wants to talk about interesting or deep things, especially things they are personally interested in. Introvert type 2 - Low social confidence. Might be interested in other people, but they are to nervous to interact with them. This type often becomes an extrovert once they get enough experience in social interaction. It's possible and actually common to be both at the same time, though. Essentially, an extrovert is someone who is interested in other people and is confident enough to actively seek out interactions.
@pooja350
@pooja350 3 года назад
I'm definitely the 2nd
@MetalLP
@MetalLP 3 года назад
My extroverted friend: walks up to a group of girls* Me: standing on the side lines, but yet decides to join* He: "Dude, why did you go with me? I could have handled that on my own." Me: "Wtf"
@danisob3633
@danisob3633 3 года назад
how is that your friend
@Sam-es2gf
@Sam-es2gf 3 года назад
Not your friend.
@rachelk4805
@rachelk4805 3 года назад
"Handled that," what, the orgy that is happening only in his imagination? One on one, I could understand wanting a private conversation, but when there is a group of girls? Idk, it sounds like a c*ckblock to me.
@MetalLP
@MetalLP 3 года назад
@@rachelk4805 well, he’s ENFP, so he’s doing particularly well in those situations. But don't take it all too seriously. He's not toxic, as you might think.
@martinusv7433
@martinusv7433 3 года назад
@@rachelk4805 Those "private conversations" are super annoying 🙄 I never really get engaged in those myself, and I generally get quite irritated when I see others being busy with such conversations, lol 😓🤔
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
As an introvert, I actually regret not attending many events or hanging out much in my teen years. I just made assumptions and focused too much on my work so I wouldn't get in trouble, I was too comfortable doing my own thing, or I felt discouraged because of my parents' beliefs and lack of freedom. Please do yourself a favor and try experimenting with your inner extrovert. You may not like every event, but you may find something very special. And save every contact you enjoyed talking to so you can cultivate friendships online.
@sadafsayyada2058
@sadafsayyada2058 3 года назад
Being an introvert I totally relate with this😂☠️
@markoman5267
@markoman5267 3 года назад
The only thing scarier than being in room with a bunch of total strangers, is being in a room with people I sort of know.
@Gintoki881
@Gintoki881 3 года назад
Introvert: why are you friends with other people?! Now you’re spending time with them and not me! Friend: come with me so you’re also gonna be friends with them and we’re gonna spend time all together Introvert: No way!
@zeemonrollin8340
@zeemonrollin8340 3 года назад
Their all off in the midst of talking to their other friends. I'm not gonna hop in during their convo. The one or two people to the side might be there just eating or drinking not really thinking about chatting.
@AK-jt7kh
@AK-jt7kh 3 года назад
I went to a social gathering a few months ago. The memories still haunt me. Not that anything went wrong - I was absolutely normal….the memories still haunt me.
@spn_girl73
@spn_girl73 3 года назад
When you get a "Ur My Type" advertisement before watching a Frank James video. What a Frank James thing to do.
@charlienotwen1528
@charlienotwen1528 3 года назад
As an extrovert, that's so accurate. I have this introvert friend and she is glued to me like I'm a lifebelt and she's about to drown. We don't have anything to say but I can't leave or include someone else in the conversation haha
@maxlolbits2182
@maxlolbits2182 3 года назад
As an INTJ....this feels awkwardly true. Even when there are people I know at some party, they always go off to other groups or their group is already busy doing something, so I'm pretty much just left alone. The entire thing consists of me standing around at the food area grabbing random snacks, and just sitting there.
@kylesavage4525
@kylesavage4525 3 года назад
Video Request: ''Worst or opposite types having an argument'' or ''Hardest combination of types to communicate with each other''. Or something along these lines.
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
ExTJs would win an argument just by existing.
@marierodriguez6829
@marierodriguez6829 3 года назад
1:03 "WHAT am I supposed to do? Just stand here like a total dipstick!?" 😆😅😂 I haven't heard that word in such a long time!! 😄
@StaceyAudreyStaMaria
@StaceyAudreyStaMaria 3 года назад
Oh wow. An introvert actually saying "you really need to work on your social skills" 😂😂
@meltingpointcreations1457
@meltingpointcreations1457 3 года назад
Me, an ENFP, at a party with my introvert friend: I’m going over there to talk to people. And maybe I’m going to drag you with me, and maybe I’ll duck out of the conversation when you’re not looking, and we’ll probably duck out of the party randomly and go have ice cream somewhere quiet.
@rachelk4805
@rachelk4805 3 года назад
100%
@EnabiSeira
@EnabiSeira 3 года назад
You are a treasure
@meltingpointcreations1457
@meltingpointcreations1457 3 года назад
@@EnabiSeira 😆 thank you for saying so. I figure it’s good to get out of our comfort zones, but not for too long. Most of my closest people are introverts, so I’m good to go out with. I like to sneak off and be done after awhile, but I’m fun too.
@EnabiSeira
@EnabiSeira 3 года назад
@@meltingpointcreations1457 yes, it is good from time to time to get out of our comfort zones, especially with a trusting hand as yours that know when to call the day. I have an ENFP friend that makes taxing experiences even enjoyable, followed by a calm and restorative moment
@aliisy9194
@aliisy9194 3 года назад
I don’t mind though if the ones that I usually talk to goes to another person, of course I’ll be sitting on a couch, or eating snacks in the corner, or playing games on my phone, or pretend to sleep (on the couch), or reading some books from the shelves, or maybe just leave, what the hell🤷🏼
@MrsRubby94
@MrsRubby94 3 года назад
That feeling of a huge backpack falling off your shoulders as soon as you leave the party and breathe some fresh air 😌😌🙏
@ApplePi._.
@ApplePi._. 3 года назад
that backpack is the guy who is more introverted than you and latched on with a medical excuse
@MrsRubby94
@MrsRubby94 3 года назад
That backpack is my own low battery after being alone between extroverts dude 🤦‍♀️
@bluesteel8376
@bluesteel8376 3 года назад
This is why you go with a group of friends to a party.
@mafumafuisakitty3498
@mafumafuisakitty3498 3 года назад
I went to 2 parties in my whole life , ( I didn't want to go but i had to ) because my mother wanted me to go no matter what, and that is so accurate + I go hide anywhere for extra energy and a comfortable introverted dream life 👁👄👁👌🏻 it's been a year since I stepped a foot out of my house I'm happy like this soooo....yeah
@-randomuser-4897
@-randomuser-4897 3 года назад
As an introvert, when you'll decide to go out for something vital you'll have a hard time acting normal, so i recommend practicing going outside a bit to improve your social skills, so when there's an emergency you know how to act/behave. And at this point, this isn't "introvertion", it's social anxiety. Please, get some help.
@mafumafuisakitty3498
@mafumafuisakitty3498 3 года назад
@@-randomuser-4897 I'm actually sure i don't have social anxiety, I stay home because I actually hate going out so much ,it's so boring and noisy, and I don't have to go out since my family do the shopping and everything ( it's mostly because of covid and I love it 👁👄👁)I'm happy at home, but thanks anyway
@bodine219
@bodine219 3 года назад
Careful. It's easy for being a homebody to turn into an inability to go out. A preference is fine, just go grab a coffee or something once in a blue moon -- or even a solo walk. Also I pulled something similar during the first few months of covid (a nightmare for me actually. I'm an introvert, but not to quite that degree) and wound up with a significant vitamin D deficiency. I was shocked.
@mafumafuisakitty3498
@mafumafuisakitty3498 3 года назад
@@bodine219 thanks you for sharing, I went to get vaccinations today so it's all good 👁👄👁👌🏻
@wgv929
@wgv929 3 года назад
Frank, I look forward to seeing you and hearing you everyday. You make me feel normal. If you haven’t already done this, you might consider acting as an introvert at his/her high school reunion. I never went to any of mine and you know why.
@shenequakimbro5146
@shenequakimbro5146 2 года назад
I feel the same way. I just subscribed abt a week ago. That would be great to do a reunion. I want him to do an introvert working from home if he haven't already
@aiavani5887
@aiavani5887 3 года назад
And when that lone friend actually starts having good time with others..you start feeling betrayed 👽 But only untill he/she returns back to you.and you start to feel you owe him/her a lot.😬
@hipposapien5434
@hipposapien5434 3 года назад
Step 1: Find your introvert a friend. If you are the typical extravert, you will likely know at least a few other people at the party. Find your introvert another introvert and establish a connection between them ("wow, you both play Hollow Knight, you two have so much in common!"). Step 2: Free yourself from the introvert. Now that your introvert has another introvert to talk to, they won't need to lean on you quite as much. You can now safely and smoothly attempt to extricate yourself from the situation. This may take more than 1 attempt, and if it doesn't work, try to bring up another possible connection between your introvert and the one you found. Step 3: Enjoy the party. You have now safely detached your introvert and can interact with other people 1 on 1. Float around, but be sure to check on your introvert once in a while to ensure they are doing well.
@strivingfornewhorizons9281
@strivingfornewhorizons9281 3 года назад
Did that multiple times at social events😂😂 Seems to work quite well since most of the people I introduced to each other became friends😂
@weshaan0.114
@weshaan0.114 3 года назад
I give you one better: why on earth would he go to a party
@cosmo4288
@cosmo4288 3 года назад
he probably needed to feel more humane
@brooklyndavis9449
@brooklyndavis9449 3 года назад
Unpopular opinion: People standing alone at parties are always the coolest/funniest people.
@Astralzsq
@Astralzsq 3 года назад
True
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
One time, I attended a Christmas party from my mom's job and noticed that some of the introverts would hang out in the patio. I found two more people with whom I've had energizing conversations.
@alial6658
@alial6658 3 года назад
You described the party experience so well. Unfortunately as an introvert, I got backstabbed by my only extrovert friend that I had and I learned to be more reliable on myself but I also got morr closed in myself
@priyankaaditya3941
@priyankaaditya3941 3 года назад
This same situation is going to happen with me next week. My offline classes start, and I just know one person (face).
@aadamtx
@aadamtx 3 года назад
Visiting a friend in Amsterdam, he took me to an afternoon baby shower (or something along those lines) so he could chat with a couple for a short time before we headed somewhere else. I don't speak a word of Dutch - hardly anyone else at the gathering spoke a word of English, other than "Hello!" Nothing like being an international introvert ;-)
@amasterofone
@amasterofone 3 года назад
"the monumental task of pretending like I give a sh*t" I almost spit my coffee back into the mug.
@fortune_roses
@fortune_roses 3 года назад
INTJ ● probably defying some stereotypes, but I like to throw a bunch of people together (who don't know each other) and *watch them interact* :D anyone?
@ananyaj8065
@ananyaj8065 3 года назад
As an INFJ YESH I do that too
@NoOne-qy2yf
@NoOne-qy2yf 3 года назад
Absolutely! - Intj
@aetherealarqusol1837
@aetherealarqusol1837 3 года назад
You are the utter definition of a Devil's Advocate to me 😐
@mcokayiguess3879
@mcokayiguess3879 3 года назад
Intp, and yes I want to too, in the same of Science!! 👆🏼👆🏼 It would be even more interesting to see how the 16 personalities behave. Who will gang up? Who will adopt whom?!!
@Beardless-Soul
@Beardless-Soul 3 года назад
INTJ- I mean... I usually just watch other people talk when I am in a group... I almost never actually instigate a group conversation.
@cjwillz
@cjwillz 3 года назад
Ha! I thought the title was "when an introvert only knows one person." Only knowing one person at a party implies that I know other people in general. Although my bar for knowing a person is quite high. Frankly I would have never even gone to the party thats just way too awkward and I would have been bored out of my mind. And I would NEVER, EVER go to a party with an extrovert (I have learned my lesson). If i want to go out I will just go to a quiet restaurant or a nice hotel bar by myself (yes by myself and i'm fine with that).
@ctzippifuchs9161
@ctzippifuchs9161 3 года назад
Me too. I also misread the title- thinking it was "when an an introvert only knows one person" ( I assumed the rest said they were making a party for 1) wouldn't go to a party even if I know 5 people. Hehe
@ginny3599
@ginny3599 3 года назад
Would you try to talk with someone on these occasions that you prefer?
@Risktaker_
@Risktaker_ 3 года назад
One of the reasons why I always stay in my room except for school where I'm not talking to anyone else 100% of the time and pretend I'm not there lol
@lizziepinnock5060
@lizziepinnock5060 3 года назад
This is one of your best videos yet. True comedy cold and scarily relatable.
@valerielinares2068
@valerielinares2068 3 года назад
I can sooo relate. If I'm at a party where I know multiple people, I'd feel more comfortable. But if I'm at a party where I know only 1 person, I'd cling to that person the whole night, or not go to the party at all.
@roberthagedorn290
@roberthagedorn290 3 года назад
I'm weak in the knees after this one. Yikes. So much stuff is buried in some of us that wants to come out at social events. This vid brings it all out.
@turbofanlover
@turbofanlover Год назад
This was pure gold. FJ is a very talented man.
@bamb8s436
@bamb8s436 3 года назад
There ve been times that I acted like an extrovert to talk to a girl I like. It s super hard but it s eventually worth it
@melisaangela
@melisaangela 3 года назад
What's your type?
@bamb8s436
@bamb8s436 3 года назад
@@melisaangela Ig INTJ but I ve changed a lot since when I took the test. So I rly am unsure
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
@@bamb8s436 Have you considered learning about common INTJ mistypes or which are your two highest cognitive functions?
@bamb8s436
@bamb8s436 3 года назад
@@greatwavefan397 If u mean read stuff on the 16 personalities site I did a lot when I took the test. If u mean somethin else lemme know
@shellyballard8316
@shellyballard8316 3 года назад
The only thing worse is a “party” full of us introverts. Yes, it happens. Think of theater people and stand up comics. (Most performers are introverts.)
@wesnohathas1993
@wesnohathas1993 3 года назад
The worst kind of middle ground. Too introverted to handle themself at a party, but not introverted enough to avoid it altogether.
@rafaribeiro3310
@rafaribeiro3310 3 года назад
Sad but precisely accurate
@dianalindeman1644
@dianalindeman1644 3 года назад
When I had church or school parties to attend, I stood around in miserable silence most of the time. I felt I shouldn't have been there but I had to attend.
@carissaluttonmovietalk
@carissaluttonmovietalk 3 года назад
I had this situation happen at church not long ago and started playing on my phone, then some super extroverted guy comes over and says really loudly "why are you never talking to anybody" yeh that makes me feel less insecure ,thanks buddy haha.
@bodine219
@bodine219 3 года назад
Believe it or not, he was probably trying to be nice and drag you into the conversation. Extroverts don't get that that's the worst way.
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
I had a friend who's an introvert pretending to be an extrovert. One day after talking to plenty of people at a camp, she turned, breathed, and droped her shoulders. My mom said, "I see you." "What?" "I see you." My friend further explained that she had to look happy so no one thought there was something wrong with her. "Who told you that?" Mom asked with genuine concern? My friend said nothing. Funny. Years ago, her sister said she was quiet or sad before she was prayed over at our church (I'm not a believer btw.) Conclusion: Church is not for introverts.
@coyotech55
@coyotech55 Год назад
Many times I've skipped out on a social event or appeared and left soon. Sometimes I do go sit with the person who's sitting by themselves - unless they seem annoyed about that. But -- there is one thing that will get me talking, and that is if I hear or see people talking about something I'm really interested in. I'll go up to strangers and talk to them if I see them doing something that I think is really interesting. Like they're discussing a new affordable table saw, or how they secure their network, or about animals or whatever I can't resist.
@ayush302
@ayush302 3 года назад
As an infj there are two best friends in my life till date- my own self and RU-vid!
@FranGuitarable
@FranGuitarable 3 года назад
La sacó del estadio con esa frase final " you need to work on your social skills"
@flygoes_
@flygoes_ 3 года назад
This is so accurate lol, I never was at a party and I can imagine doing that, I am so sorry to anyone I will do this to in the future.
@exdamariis
@exdamariis 3 года назад
And this is WHYY I LOVE THE KITCHEN!! Haha, if there are snacks or dishes being prepared I will bee-line my way there to help out. I can ease into small pleasant chitchat with those I’m working with or providing food to. But I don’t even have to make eye contact, I can be busy and jump away at any moment if need be, and hey it’s nice to help out.
@Princessmiacara
@Princessmiacara 3 года назад
This is why I hate parties
@soundocean3765
@soundocean3765 3 года назад
"When an introvert only knows one person at a party"...they just won't appear at all
@snarkyandsane
@snarkyandsane 3 года назад
Truer words have never been spoken…
@ДіанаЦимбрикевич-з6е
Maaaaan, why is it SO relatable ?!!!!!! To the point that it hurts ...
@slugabug1
@slugabug1 3 года назад
"OK! Let's go!" Hahahahaha!!! It's so me. 🤣
@CT-sf8wd
@CT-sf8wd 3 года назад
I avoid parties on principle
@idontknoe9367
@idontknoe9367 3 года назад
I usually make awkward eye contact with them while they're talking to someone skl
@BrokenSoulConfession
@BrokenSoulConfession 3 года назад
If I'm in this scenario, as soon as Brian decides to walk away, I would vanish from the party altogether. Head home to read books and watch movies solo.
@marlo2919
@marlo2919 3 года назад
Same. I have left a party because that did happen.
@charles2241
@charles2241 3 года назад
No, I think the ideal behavior, is since you KNOW what he's up to, he will consider he's left you in the lurch, and therefore won't be more than 5-10 minutes smoozing with the girl, and then get right back to you. I think most guys in that situation, would just spend maybe 3-5 minutes with you, tell you they're going to the restroom, just to give him a cover to leave you the rest of the night.
@karynwallace8556
@karynwallace8556 3 года назад
Yeah I wouldn’t even put myself in that situation unless I had a true friend come with me ! I get very anxious 😥 in any new situation. I’m better to have a party at my place then i won’t be putting myself in such a vulnerable position as I get to chose who I invite and they can possibly bring a friend along .
@lilacsoul4736
@lilacsoul4736 3 года назад
Bryan: 👀😳🤔😒 the whole time!? also Bryan did not have to roast him like that (by telling the truth) 😂😂😂
@mariaf9547
@mariaf9547 3 года назад
I'm secretly thankful for covid 19 because whenever I get invited to a party, I say I don't feel so well and enjoy some me time at home 😉
@marvinmartinez3818
@marvinmartinez3818 3 года назад
This
@knownstranger2570
@knownstranger2570 3 года назад
I feel bad for that introvert, now he's gonna lose his only friend BRIAN!
@Isira7
@Isira7 3 года назад
BRAIN!
@annaash2304
@annaash2304 3 года назад
Bold of you assume I would go to a party
@sidhedanu
@sidhedanu 3 года назад
I like to throw a soltice party twice a year, cook a bunch of food, then sit next to the bonfire my husband built with some tea & watch everyone else interact. Social interaction for me is usually passing the bowl or talking too much about my hair when someone makes a comment about how long &/or thick it is.
@datuangela
@datuangela 3 года назад
Omg I would love a Solstice party
@IDK-ih2oh
@IDK-ih2oh 3 года назад
And that person is talking to someone else Me: well it's time to go home, I'm so exhausted anyway
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
"aight imma head out"
@mayankanand1153
@mayankanand1153 2 года назад
Best frnds are the lifeline of any introverts.
@veganlyncat
@veganlyncat 3 года назад
I went to a party w a guy I just met (party at his house), he kinda was too busy for me being the host and there was only ONE other person there I knew, (at least thought I knew), my date pawned me off on her and she pulled him aside to let him know we didn’t know each other. It was probably one of the most embarrassing moments ever! We DID know each other in fact for years running around the same circles. I guess I wasn’t cool enough. Haha
@ikindoflikemangoes4951
@ikindoflikemangoes4951 3 года назад
Maybe she forgot you 🥲 I’ve been there
@veganlyncat
@veganlyncat 3 года назад
@@ikindoflikemangoes4951 nah, I wish it were something like that. She lied. Even though we hung out many times at the same house everyone in our circle crashed at, she and I only spoke a handful of times. One of which she spoke at length about an experience she had, that she said, she never told anyone before. The thought crossed my mind to throw that in her face, but, decided she wasn’t worth it. Door-slam.
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 года назад
@@ikindoflikemangoes4951 she forgor
@ls_waifu2789
@ls_waifu2789 3 года назад
The end tho... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sunshineandrain869
@sunshineandrain869 3 года назад
If I go to a party, it’s usually a family event and nobody is surprised if I disappear soon. If it’s at a friend’s house, I never know what to do with myself, even if I know everyone. So I find their dog or cat and make friends with them until someone starts talking to me. It’s so awkward sometimes.
@bodine219
@bodine219 3 года назад
At all day family events I always find an opportunity to go get a gatorade or a coffee or something -- usually buddied up with my Dad because we are so similar.
@iampidgeon6923
@iampidgeon6923 3 года назад
When I got the actual ad with frank on it I was so confused I just like stared at my screen for half the ad wondering what was happening
@coolbeans6895
@coolbeans6895 3 года назад
“You can barely keep up a conversation with me, and you know me.” Felt that
@chaparralchic4028
@chaparralchic4028 3 года назад
The literal reason ENFJs exist… 🤣🤣 this hurts 😆❤️
@alexwright6212
@alexwright6212 3 года назад
Trying is the first step towards failure.
@kandushullinger4257
@kandushullinger4257 3 года назад
“And I’ll take on the monumental task of pretending like I GIVE A SHIT!” I relate😆
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