When Dave Coulier Heard the “You Oughta Know” Hook | SiriusXM 

Do you really think that most ppl lack empathy? Why wouldn’t he be empathetic toward their break up? They were in a relationship, most ppl break up with another and they feel badly.

Where was that "empathy" when he was dating her?

@@allnamesaretakenful I don’t know the nature of their relationship. I know that Alanis Morrisette wrote a song about a previous relationship she had with a man in the 90s and we all assume that every lyric from that song is fact. It’s a song, not a deposition. Unless you were a witness to his lack of empathy during their relationship. Do you know Dave Coulier or Alanis? If you do then I apologize.

@@SteaksauceandRob where does it say in their comment that they think most people lack empathy?

@@Toadspring the last sentence is “he at least has empathy” and I’m saying that most ppl have that. That it isn’t uncommon and you shouldn’t be surprised that he has empathy toward someone he had a relationship with.

It's a good song, but let's not get carried away.

One of the best ever songs ever!

@@dtagshustle5660I understand personal opinion but objectively the song is on many lists of the greatest songs of the 90’s so to classify it as such isn’t ridiculous by any stretch

One of the best songs? No but that's subjective. One of the most influential song/ album of the 90s , and maybe all time? Unquestionably

@@bink9797 That's fair. I guess I read the original comment as more of a top 5-10 song of the 90s. It seems to be more in the 25-50 range on those lists, which seems about right. Not my personal cup of tea, but I get why it's there.

Same!

If anything if he inspired that song, he helped make her who she was.

@@Bonzi_Buddy you can say pretty much the same, apparently, about every person Taylor Swift has ever dated. Won't be long before she makes a song about Travis Kelce.

Why? He still doesn't get or really care why or how he hurt her......of course he's not bitter, he didn't care lol but yeah, I guess that's better than being salty.

Yeah this a pretty amazing response to having THAT song written about you. Classy dude.

@@GrantKanigan If it was about him specifically, that was never confirmed--right?

She even pointed out that she was never really angsty. She just wrote that song because she was mad at the time but never meant to have a lifetime of animosity, etc. Interestingly, I think "Your House" was also written about Dave. (The "shake is like a fish" was about a record executive although she might have got the imagery from her time with Dave.)

Well, time does heal in most cases. It makes sense that neither of them have a bad thing to say now, but I’d love to see an interview where they’re asked about it right after the song came out… 😜

I would love to hear the Alanis interview if you remember where it’s at.

She denied that it was about him

I don't know if it's common, especially today. But, there's certainly a point with many people who look back on their first true HURT, and are able with the big assist of time to see that much of it was NOT malicious, no matter how much so it felt many years ago. Maybe we were young and there was some "games" involved. But, I no longer feel they wished me to hurt the way I did. For me, it was a simple matter of it was the wrong TIME. And I hadn't had the chance to become what I needed to be for that to work. And 20 years? Totally worth the wait. Sometimes it takes time to show how REAL something truly is.

You don't listen to much music, do you?

@@cd3949 I mean, half the album tracks were number 1 smash hits. It won five Grammys, including Album of the Year, and sold 33 million copies worldwide. What's your criteria look like?

💯

@@modelcitizen1977Boom Roasted! Way to bury a hater with facts.

I was hooked on it back in the 90s, I had a beefy audio setup and used to play Jagged little pill quite loud. Production quality of that album is also very high.

Yeah, he doesn’t look like he’s in his 60’s at ALL

All those underage women he sleeps with keep him young

Seriously! ❤

​@@sunnykobe3210your green profile dot just brightened up my day!

Hey but unlike Pee-wee Herman he didn’t get caught in the movie theater until she said something….😂

Who is he? No one knows outside the US

She successful “let him know.” ☺️👊🏼👊🏼

It would be only fair.... Better to do penance on earth than spend eternity in hell.

I know I’m a year late but Paul Reubens was not caught in the theater. He was in the lobby, obviously not doing what people claim he was doing.

Cut! It! Out!

He was never Uncle Joey. Just Joey.

@@Cuuuuuuurtis true actually thats a great point, that he is rarely referred to as "uncle" but is understood to still fulfill that role. That he was just "joey" to the kids, all of that. What i loved about this show? was showing how you make your family what it is, that he was danny's best friend who came to help him in literally the worst moment in his life, stuck around after realizing the reality of the situation, and then multiple seasons later, that love can transcend all when those you care about need help regardless of who they are or if you're actually related or not.

Weird comment bruh

​@@stormcorrosion176 oh, did you have an uncle Joey that wouldn't cut it out?

Ive heard him tell the story about his sister before which back then he told it as an example of how he was on good terms with Alanis. Which at the time I thought, "her relationship with your sister is not about you". Him asking her how she would like him to respond, shows why he was usually quick to change the subject. I love that album and its follow-up. I have been in both sides of their relationship in my personal life and even though I previously was the hurt one who cared too much, I still found myself not seeing when i was dating someone that did for me and caused them more hurt than i ever intended, I also like how he didn't indulge the movie theater story. I agree that I wish more artists would be this open like this. I now want to know where else on the album, he heard aspects of their relationship discussed. I appreciate an artists want to not give away all the details in fear it may make a song less meaningful to others, although when the art comes from real stories, I love hearing what those are.

​@@brettmastema7056 this is a very balanced perspective, and I really respect that. I too have been on both sides of the coin here, and I love that they have talked this out later down the line.

He cheated on her and left her for the bitch he cheated on her with, I think he knew how much she (Not liked) loved him, and she was torn apart

How does someone give tea in an interview?

​@@Hoesmad42047'the bitch he cheated on her with' It's fun to hate women, isn't it. Especially when the woman hasn't done anything wrong. #GoooooooooMisogyny

Amazing song...and he validated its necessity.

Always wanted to hear his perspective??? It’s all he talks about😅

If you can't get over him after three decades then maybe that's why he chose the other girl. 🚩

This song came out when I was a sophomore or junior in high school - the perfect angst teenage break-up song. I’m curious though - is he still married to her?

@@katiejon17 I was 23. 3 years later they finalized their divorced. He eventually remarried, and had 2 sons. He died, a decade ago, of pancreatic cancer. I didn't find out about the divorce and second wife until he was dead. The first night I finally let my friends drag me out to try to have fun was about a year after he ended it. Happened to run into 2 of his friends, who lived on the other side of the country, so I was shocked to see them. Hugs all around. It was good to see them. Until I asked why they were home and they had to tell me they had just come from his wedding. That was a bad, bad night. I never spoke to him again, and shortly thereafter moved 10 states away just to get away from everything. Cut all ties with my entire friend group to avoid having to hear about him. We had been the anchor couple. All of his friends and all of my friends started hanging out together, several of them started dating. When he ended it, it was like a bomb went off for the whole group. One of my friends said, "If you two couldn't make it, what hope do the rest of us have?" One of his friends confronted him and told him he was making the biggest mistake of his life. This whole damn album just reminds me of him. This song because of it's message, and the hidden track, particularly, because she knows she's been replaced and she's grieving. None of it matters anymore to anyone but me.

@@EikottXD Maybe. Or maybe I was bad at communicating, and didn't trust myself (or him) enough, when he asked me what I was feeling, and what I wanted for our future. Maybe i was messed up from a prior relationship, where speaking my mind, and saying something that ex didn't like, was met with anger, hostility, threats and disgust. Maybe that teenage love, when I was in high school, and he was 9 years older than me, was unhealthy. Maybe that man cheated on me with one of my best friends, and no one told me for a year. Maybe I was broken before I ever met the man who "chose the other girl."

Sounds like a personal problem to me

Frt 😂

Umm no. Thank Alanis for being such a great artist to be able to channel feelings into something so strong and powerful. Situations like theirs happen all the time so Dave is really not part of the album other than being involved in those experiences. Every artist writes about something, so who cares if the subject is Dave or a fire hydrant. The "thanks" is solely to Alanis for her talent.

@@amb7440 Woooosh

It’s never been confirmed that that song was about him. It’s just rumors that that song was about him… Alanis Morissette has specifically said in an interview that she’ll never reveal who that song is actually about

@@nsasupporter7557 Well, Coulier knows it's about him. And he's talked to Alanis since then. She can be coy, but trust me, it's about Dave.

@@pwk22 really? Interesting

@@nsasupporter7557this interview kind of confirms it, don’t you think? If it weren’t about him, I’m pretty sure that’s the first thing Dave would have said here. But he clearly knows.

@@VideoAmericanStyle yeah, pretty much

taylor hawkins for the drum

Wow! Thank you both for sharing that. Great musicians!

I knew Flea had to be the source of that killer bass line.

@@musicmanfelipe Flea is insanely talented

@@OfficialRobbieMasonThe music was basically done by Red Hot Chili Peppers at the time only with Alannis swapped with Anthony Kiedis

I never liked Saget

Yeah, if he had been a plumber, there never would have been a song... I think she got burned more by dating a person at the height of their fame than by Dave

@@bluehorseshoe444 she got famous because of that song.. not before

@@Imac7065 he was already famous when they were dating

@@bluehorseshoe444 she was a singer with mid level success before jagged little pill

@Imac7065 she was also 18 years old to his 33.. she was a kid dating a successful adult.. maybe that's why she felt so much rage when he left her. Whatever, it's a killer song on a killer album which launched her career so good for her

I think that song's about Warren Beatty.

Only when the author has authentic talent!!!🏆

Selling 33 million copies of an album, and taking home seven Grammys, is literally the opposite of underrated.

Alanis is far from underrated!

Even cheaters can realize they hurt someone I guess

Yes he could deny the obvious - but that would make him look twice as stupid...and mean.

That is the sweetest thing that a guy could do is to admit that he hurt her 😆

I am pretty sure at the point that she became more famous than him (with that album), he had no choice but to concede.

Blowjobs don't last forever

Dave: “Why do you assume that that song she did is about me?!?” Narrator (who happens to be Bob Saggat) : “Well, you ought to know” in a dead pan manner Classic lol gold

I’ve never tried the popcorn trick, that’s super gross

Yeah, and he cheated on her

@@Hoesmad42047 Why? Also, I stand by what I said that she was probably a good catch.

​@@Steveman27 I don't think most people in Hollywood go by monogamy, they seem to hit each other up and pass each other around. It's safe to say she just didn't want that.

@@sirderp4925 Polygamy, or whatever anyone might want to call it, where they experience and enjoy sexual activity and sex with more than one member of the opposite sex, can be a good thing, and is generally something that everyone should do in their life where they do it with at least two of them, while of course being careful and responsible where they practice safe sex. If someone's an older virgin, like at the age of 30 for example, it would be especially justified for them to do it and enjoy it, given how terribly long they've missed out on it compared to someone in their late teens, and not to mention someone whose 30 would be more likely to know the importance of safe sex than someone whose only 19.

@@Steveman27 you didn’t say anything about her being a “good catch” in your original post.

Which songs were about Ryan Reynolds

@@Mistydawn1 Almost all the songs on "So-Called Chaos." Out Is Through (them arguing and her realizing they have to face the problems head on), Doth I Protest Too Much (her pretending she doesn't get jealous when he admires other women), Knees of my Bees (an homage to him), Not All Me (her fighting with him but pointing out he's to blame for a lot of their problems), Spineless (about how she doesn't want to lose her independence 'cause she's in a relationship with a guy she really likes), Everything (about how they fight but how he also realizes she's great).

@@johnsmi213 I do remember the media coverage when Ryan cheated on her and they broke up. I’m gonna listen to those songs, thanks!

I think that any man who dates Alanis Morrisette is very brave knowing that she might write songs about him if it doesn’t work out! Ditto for any man who dates Taylor Swift!

That album sacks dack

@@stormcorrosion176 lol agree to disagree, it's definitely not Metallica, but it was good for 95

@@tru3sk1ll Not saying much. 95 was a horrible year for music.

was Hands Clean about him as well? That's the one people really need to be talking about.

It probably isn't, that one is supposedly about someone who was involved in her musical career