Analogy of flower. If you like the flower, normally you will cut it and put it in your vase. But if you love the flower you will get the whole flower with its roots and transfer it in the pot where the flower grows. Ganun din sa love, if mahal mo yung tao di mo kayang makita sya na nasisira instead you will help him/her grow and vice versa. Wala talagang masisirang relasyun kung makakahanap ka ng taong same mong mag isip na ganyan.
In relationships, love is not just about loving the other person. First, you need to love yourself first before you could give your love to others. It becomes destructive if you forget to love yourself in the middle of your relationship. Yes, love is unconditional. But that same goes to you. YOU must also love yourself without questions, without conditions!
A destructive Love simply does not exist.Go read your bible and see what is written there. Jealousy is a fear of loss that stems from low self esteem and insecurity and extreme anxiety. LOVE AND LUST Are obviously two different things.
