Yes ! I pulled all the plugs 2 years ago already had another man as that narc was cheating . Life is soo beautiful as this one is a multi millionaire , fun Nd kind ❤❤❤
Go No Contact and make sure they get no feedback. Silence is a deadly weapon against a narcissist. They can't stand being cut off. It injures their HUMONGOUS ego...
@@gemini188 You gave his inflated ego a huge smackdown when you didn't chase after him! I guarantee you he talks out loud to himself in front of the mirror about it.. 🤣😂🤣
@@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd yassss lol that makes me feel good ! I had to do it. He made me feel like 💩 so many times. I’m cracking up at the mirror part 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah,my ex-narc caught me off guard just the other day. He called me from another number because I have him blocked. He asked me if I would please give him another chance since he’s in therapy and that he really loves me, misses me and I’m a GREAT WOMAN. I told him NOPE! I’m healing and I’m done done and hung up the phone. He’s trying to ruin my peace. The devil 😈 is a lie. Thank you Ms T. I love all your videos. I’m learning so much.❤️🩹
I am so proud of you, now that he knows n he heard it directly from your mouth, he’s going to really come after you, so next time be ready to not even reply, let him keep your last words, do not add to it ok. Bcuz he will never be gone until he’s in jail or six feet under. God bless you Sis, stay strong 💪🏼
Once I got rid of him my health within 4 weeks improved drastically I literally had to rip him away from me . I was in survival mode …. He was sucking the life out of me; distorted my self esteem; I felt like I had a leach attached to me. After I went NO contact & I really could begin to see how toxic everything with him was. I allowed 12 years of this because I did not love myself first I already feel like myself and a brand new person but it takes time and you have to work on yourself 😊 Listen get away or get rid of him. Some women literally pass away or have all kinds of health problems and never realized it was because of that mate, that husband I hope this help someone
They drain you spiritually and emotionally. We were never taught this by out parents. This stuff can kill you literally and you never know what happened to you.
My mom stayed with my dad for 60 years until he passed a few years ago. Now she is a wreck, suffers from Alzheimer's and she has had to spend time in a psych ward. She is a shell of the woman that she used to be, narcs will destroy your life.
I thank you so much Miss Telsha, when I was going through it all with the “N” your videos help me to understand what I was dealing with and when I did it was “GAME” over. We thank God for you ability to help heal others. I am truly grateful. I pray that you continue to be that vessel to help others. In the name of Jesus!!
The narcissist has hit rock bottom multiple times. Now, she’s working on a food truck, for straight cash. In a very hot environment and feeling miserable. And trying to hoover the kids now, because I left and pulled the transmission out and ghosted that narc and left silent air.
I can’t get the ex wife bill collectors to stop calling me looking for her. It’s been a little over a year since the divorce. I was told I wasn’t doing enough. I guess the new supply ain’t either.
This exact month last year, I put him out of my house. My divorce was final Nov, 2023. After a whole year he's calling and knocking on my fam door...But I'm healed and I'm gone!!!
A secondary supply. That's so gross. I'm a man an I been with one woman in 20 years an that was the narcissist. I wanna be with a woman but I just don't know where she's been. I think the narcissist made me to paranoid. I don't mind being alone and I'm not just jumping in bed with strangers. We was doing that in high-school. I'd like to think I'm alot more advanced. I the God has to tell me personally ", this is the one". I do all the same things I used to do, except I do it alone.
As soon as you go no contact you deprive them. They will try to keep you as friends, leave them in the past. Just like that discard to cheat with that new supply. The ones at the end of the addictionship that go cold with them are the real victims fighting back. Mirror their devaluing when it happens & find your exit plan.
Omg Telsha I needed this message today. Thank you I have been in my feelings. 2 yrs divorced after 21yrs married and I am sad, mad and missing the narc. I think I'm so hurt because he moved the ex girlfriend, new supply into our townhome that we shared together. They intentionally stayed in the neighborhood as me. I left , prayed my way out and still hurting. I want to be free from this pain.
Hi Jackie, I feel your pain. I'm going through the same thing: I have been separated for 2 years, married 20 years. I found myself missing the narc too. I now fill my days with work and activities like zumba, water aerobic, etc. All the energy you're feeling for him give it back to yourself. Before you know it, the narc is going to be a distant memory.
She said “everyone says we don’t look happy in pictures together”, left me, blocked me/deleted me on everything, including Spotify. She unblocked me on Spotify (which I only noticed bc we made a playlist together and I still had it) shawty was mean mugging in her prof pic when I clicked to block her. Guess the grass wasn’t greener and now it’s more expensive. Good luck, sweetheart.
I am highly empathic, but also very high spiritual protection! So I pray over my son Psalm91 and psalm23! And ask the Most High send Archangel Michael to protect my son spiritually physically and mentally !
no contact for 1,5 year! I enjoyed the peace for a while… but Yesterday one of them reached out to me on Facebook. I havent responded, or in some way i have. I blocked the person. But i cannot get my head around, Why someone would waste so much energy after so Long
You were so spot on.🎉 Please say a prayer . That all the women that made a comment be blessed with a real partner that truly loves them and that wouldn't dare put them through any of this mess❤
This is true. Ex narc’s replacement supply was the supply previously replaced by me. 2.5 years I spent with the narc. New supply was basically in the same spot when I reverse discarded the narc 3 weeks ago. Somebody make it make sense
Great information, Ms. Telsha. Thank you for bringing this to the surface for us. Now I need to see those likes go up, y'all. Get up, dust ya self off, head up, and go be great. Shalom!
I had her blocked almost a year now, I received a message with the name being her first name, but the last name was my aunts😮 in that message I was called a narcissist, she than said wowwww, you really blocked me ??.. also received other messages and burner number calls, I think she got the picture now, she can't reach me and nobody I know talks to her anymore, pray she stays where she is, I also blocked the fake pages and numbers😂😂🙏💯🤙
I see you were in a same sex situation. As I read your message, the flipping the narcissist label back is typical female stuff. Good luck. Mine has been 8 months. It's amazing how they cannot perceive reality. Hang in there.
Happy Sunday Ms. Telsha. You look lovely! Glad to see you today😊 I can always relate to the messages. Thank you for sharing your perspective today! 🙏💎💯🌹👑
Thankyou for sharing this video lovely you are hilarious on how these backward walking giraffes work they are certainly senseless and dum. My ex has been blocked for 12mnths but yes still reaches out every 2-3 months they are lost souls. IV looked once on his f/b page & his still got photos of us too together like what!!! His been blocked on 2 but he had a 3rd ACC that his blocked me on but I cannot see anything which is a good thing for me but whatever he does now couldn't care less. My mind is thinking abit clearer now that I look back on our relationship & think wow I'm so glad that I left this evil toxic individual.
Telsha I blocked the narc, and everyone who knows the narc. If his sister neighbor’s kitten had an ig, I’d block that account too. I want no parts of that narc. I thank Jesus for the strength and wisdom that He gave me to wake up and move forward. I’m praying for my sisters and brothers dealing with narcs.
found out I was pregnant on a Tuesday actually last Tuesday. My husband immediately started being controlling to the point we got into an argument and he left while I was at school. I miscarried yesterday and found out I have a large mass on my right ovary I bleed out our chip at home alone. We both have kids from previous relationships but we prayed for one together I can't stop crying and can barely walk. Feel so alone this was our child our blessing from God. He has left me 12 times in one year .so leaving me moving into his moms house is normal what hurt the most is she died last month. I was by his side I would have never done him this way. My heart fills like he is now with someone else. How did I live my child and marriage all at once. He is so cold he tells me he don't know if he wants me and how this is all my fault even with tears in my eyes knowing I was in the process of miscarriage and a mass on my over I am so heartbroken . He gets to run into the sunset and be happy and I feel like I'm dieing inside
Thank you for the content, you are saving lives ! No contact for 2 years and ever now and then I receive text messages from that clown 🤡 ! Please keep your silences
That clown 🤡 acted a fool and said some hurtful stuff out the door when he was dumping me over the phone. Took him 3 weeks to come back and he did it on non other than Mother’s Day. We have no kids together. Sent me a text that morning with all these loving emoji’s behind it 😂😂😂😂😂…you think I responded?! Ain’t heard from that 🤡 since!
EVERYTHING that you said in this video is nothing but the truth. I’ve been through all of this with that bird. I am a living witness and testimony to this video.
My ex suggested keeping the two of us and that I was his favorite....F***n disgusting and told him I do not share. 20 yrs with me and he thought I would be ok with this after I had told him numerous time how I felt about cheatn (anyone including him).
I have been no contact for about a year before I started being stalked. She told a family member of mine that she is getting married. She told my family member she loved me. I saw her riding through my neighborhood....
Some of these girls do agree to just get together cuz they both want him. But he's going to put you to hell. Because you learn to settle with that crap with him😢
Yes, he started finding reasons to sneak off and groom the old/new supply. He was missing in action twice and then I kept telling him let me call you right back. Then blocked and deleted that clown. 🤡 A year later he calls from my blocked box saying he’s reaching out trying to be the bigger person and he has a question. Then wished me a blessed day! Now he’s religious!? Boy Bye! Go be with less.. 🎊 😊 👋 😂
Short sighted and Slooooow 😂 Well, that’s what I would expect from a backwards walking giraffe 🦒 ‼️😂🤷🏽♀️ I shoal did take care of their family and mine!!!! 🤨
He profusely called and text when he was grooming the new supply. But when I saw them in public and what my spirt already knew became reality that day he has not done any of the text and calling since 5/12/2024. And I’m ok with that. I deleted his number out of my phone because I’ve dialed it twice on accident and I hate that it happened because in no way form or fashion did I want to call a DEMON out of HELL. So to GOD be the Glory she is keeping him busy for the next victim
My narc ex called twice yesterday to re-confirm something we agreed upon on my way out the door, and I’m honestly afraid to delete it out of fear my phone will call by mistake. I think I’m going to put it on airplane mode first 😂😂😂
What about reverse silent treatment lol “I know she showing off for somebody. We have a kid together and she told me one time “I want to have her number” 😂😂😂 I’m like it’s court ordered I have your number I got to have it even though I don’t want it 😭😭😭😭😭
When are you going to cover a spiritual narcissist because that is what I walked away from and I am just trying to get some more insight as to how do I recover
Just as narcissists believe that they are better than everyone else, spiritual narcissists believe that their spiritual wisdom and development is superior to others. 🩷✌️🙏
Just as narcissists believe that they are better than everyone else, spiritual narcissists believe that their spiritual wisdom and development is superior to others’.
@@Terri302 SMH! True narcissist are demonic nothing spiritual bout them . If they claim to be , it’s all an ACT like everything else they pretend to be
No contact is good for my healing. But it hasn't affected him at all bc he's submerged in limerance with his new gf. They will always have supply to avoid feeling shame and lonliness.
I was w him for 3 yrs. Known him for 5. It’s been 3 months. I only received one call 3 weeks later after I discarded him. 3 months later and I haven’t heard from him. He hasn’t tried to call me from a different number or anything so I just figured it never was an investment or serious for him to fight for it. He knows where I live also.
Yes we had 12 years an kid an he betrayed our family I just left him an he been crazy gaslighting even ask do I believe in poly I am now no contact at all period an now he sending friend request an more but I got nothing for him
