She said many things but one kind of stands out... "Who do you think you are that my son should not discipline and beat you? Babangida's daughter?" Babangida was the late president. Another masterpiece, ma'am!👏👏
"You shouldn't wear that shirt, it makes your stomach look big."; " I think your sweet potato pie is good after all."; " What is wrong with your face? Oh, you just don't have on any makeup." Jesus is so good. I could have been in jail!!!
This hairstyle tells it all! 😩 She goes to Donna every Saturday morning to get her curls tightened up, takes a picture as soon as she leaves and posts it to Facebook with the caption “I look good because God has been good. 💄👑👑👑.” She drives a Pontiac G6 or a Nissan Altima, and claims to “not do drama,” but proceeds to do drama. 🙄
That’s cause they ain’t worried bout getting hit in the mouth. There is no incentive for them to just shut up! Bet she won’t do that to her co-workers!
@@bpavilion8994 True. They have a failed relationship or a hard time dating so they try to turn their sons into their significant other/little boy at the same time. Smh.
I'm not married but I have a son. His grandmother and I get along really well. But trust and believe that if I had married her son, it would be totally different. She doesn't like ANY of her daughters-in-law.
@@blackcatlady2172 You probably give "I truly don't even need your opinion, ima thrive nomatter what"... whereas the daughters-in-law all probably be tripping over themselves to please her. They make themselves easy targets. But you keep your independence and your boundaries. Well done. Keep up the good work! G'wan and stay free, girl!
Well EJ, From this day on, we shall christen this wig style....the mother in law wig. I holler every time you do the 'touch up on the top hair spikes....very accurate.....PORCUPINE COMING THRU! 😆🤣😂
The mom can be disrespectful all she wants but it is the son that gonna have to put an end to the foolishness if he really loves the girl. Its his responsibility to step up to protect his lady from his friends an family.
After I took her shopping for a party, she didn't invite me to and drove home in my car; his mother said I was not a very happy person. I said, "you know what? You are right, but it's only because im dating your son, and that is changing as soon as you get out of my car."
@@Cynthlowe as long as I live, I will never forget that moment. It was like the clouds opened as I was driving, and I heard, why are you dealing with her? And you don't even like her son.
@@jasminem1499 she was silent the rest of the way and got out with a simple thank you. I called him, he didn't answer, so I left a quick message saying the relationship had run its course. I blocked him and moved on.
"I saw some women's deodorant in the bathroom cabinet... Are y'all shacking up? We don't do that in our family" .... said (insert his momma name here) 🤣🤣
@@dr.simoneobryanphd7721 I could totally hear EJ saying this. I had to comment. Makes you wonder like, what were you looking for in the bathroom cabinet?? She was being nosy!
Been with my husband since I was young, (over 35 years) his mother has never cared for me, and the feeling is mutual. She gets what she gives, and I could care less.LOL
Haha I'd just kick her out lol 😐 ...And possibly her child for not defending me from his family and making ME fight for my right to be comfortable in the place I'm staying at.
See I'm petty. So I will stay with the son for yrs for the sole reason of chosing which rat-infested nursing home to lock her a$$ up in, then I'll leave her son for not defending me.. see I need therapy and Jesus.
I've been told that when you get with a partner, LOOK at their family. Cause that's what you have to deal with when you stay. Life is too short and the mind is too precious for this kind of stress. Edit: Well dang. Thanks peeps. This is the first time I got over 100 likes in an hour. Apparently, a lot of you felt this in your spirit.
@@blackcatlady2172 I am hooked to Reddit stories like my grandmother is hooked to soap operas. Too many horror stories of people getting with a significant other or spouse who has extra emotional baggage in their siblings, cousins, kids, grandparents, and/or parents. If the hubbie, wifey, bf, or gf is unwilling to keep the toxicity away, just RUN the other direction.
Lmao! That's for them young chicks because no self-respecting full grown ass women would allow that in their home, and that's on period!!! (as these kids say)😂😂😂
Honest God truth when my MIL begin these tactics with me she had this same exact hairstyle working as a admin assistant driving a gold nissan Altima 2003 era. Can't make this mess up😭
Someone is insecure Af, and wants to make gf insecure as well. I will never get into a relationship where it's 3 of us, no boo you stay with your momma. My self worth is way too high to put up with such rudeness. Bbye
My late mother in law was just like this until she was on her death bed and she apologized and admitted she was jealous because she felt like I was taking him from her.
@@magicallyme96 the only guaranteed thing in life is death. It’s really unfortunate how you bypassed that this women deliberately waited until she was dying to confess. That wrong and strong mentality does nothing…ABSOLUTELY nothing for our community. Her loss anyway, she missed out on having a daughter in law. It’s unfortunate that too many women see their sons as someone being taken away instead of being happy that they’re gaining a daughter law… Instead of competing with other women. We need to learn how to compete with ourselves and focus on progressing as opposed to just moving…
I was engaged to a guy his mother loved me, but his grandmother hated me. He lived with her. She loved my cousin who was dating his brother. I mean his sisters, dog, snake and brother loved me,but every chance she got she would hit me with one of those lines. Got mad cause I wouldn't take her chewing tobacco and eat her fish she got from a river I wasn't eating from.
Dayyyum she is an outright villain! When my Mom met my Dad's parents (after they got married), his Mom would only talk about how wonderful his first wife had been. She literally sat my Mom down, then went to get the wedding album of his first marriage to show to my Mom and sat there going over every picture. My Mom never talked to her again.
****TRIGGERED***** EJ this was so good. My MIL was a nut and half (I’m being polite) then had the nerve to come live with us for a stent. I dreamt we got into it and sure enough we did. BABAY I let it all out that night and was expecting to be served divorce papers in the morning, but she actually came and apologized to me. 😵😵. It’s too long of a story to tell y’all here lol. But all I know is she liked and respected me when she left 😆
I've got 4 sons & a daughter. Hardest thing I ever did was accept & "Love" that one girl I don't care for. I told my son how I felt once & it hurt him so bad :( I knew right then it was on me to do the right thing. I do all I can to welcome her & treat her with warmth & kindness so she feels loved the way the rest of them do. It's my son's choice & my love of him extends to his SO. That's just how it goes .. and how it *should* go.
Yes. My only child is still young (10 soon) but I know I’ll have to be nice to girls I may not want to,but hopefully that doesn’t happen. As long as they have no intention of hurting him I’ll do all I can to make them happy,& be happy for them.
But, isn't the only reason you don't care for her is because you don't think she's good for your son? If so why do you have any obligation to be anything other than polite? Or is it that you don't 'like' her but don't know why, so you are obliged to 'love' her for your son's sake?
Reminds me of my ex’s mother. She treated me like crap because I “tried to take her baby away from her” due to getting pregnant and engaged to him, and us moving in together. 😒 After we broke off our engagement and he dated someone new, she saw how good she would have had it with me as her daughter in law opposed to the next girl. While we were together I was called ghetto (something I’ve NEVER been called by anyone other than her), and apparently I didn’t have any goals after I decided to put off starting grad school after finding out I was pregnant since with my due date, it would have occurred right around finals for that first semester and I knew I’d be taking maternity leave as well. Me just graduating from an HBCU, having a good job, my own apartment, and even helping her son graduate from his HBCU almost a year early (because they were loosing their accreditation) was not good enough for her and their family (her words). Now, when he ended up with a girl that was REALLY on the hood side that lived in the projects (although living in the projects is not necessarily a bad thing and doesn’t define one’s character), with no job, not interested in attending college, and at the time was a single mother of three all with different fathers, I didn’t seem so bad to her at that point. Honestly, I don’t think she really cared of who would be a good fit for her son. She was more so concerned of keeping up the reputation and public appearances of her family. Her husband was a former mayor where they were from, and of course they had a reputation to uphold! The thing was I didn’t care about what they had because I felt their money belonged to them, not their son or me. I was with him because I loved him. The problem was he was (and still is) a Mama’s Boy, and would never protect me or speak up for me whenever his mom (or dad) would verbally put me down, but would lay down the law if he felt I was disrespectful towards them. That’s one of the reasons I knew it would never work out between us (amongst other reasons, but I won’t even attempt to go there at this moment). About five years ago I told him he’ll never find real happiness if he continues lives the life his mother and father have set out for him. Our son is now 17, and although he’s half my heart, I would never want this same type of life or relationship with him. I want him to be happy and I do give my opinion on certain situations (even the girls he date), but I understand that he’s not necessarily going to break up with a girl just because I don’t like her. He may listen to my reasons why, but that decision is ultimately up to him. Also, even if I don’t care for one of his girlfriends, I’d NEVER purposefully try to hurt or embarrass her. If they aren’t meant to be, she’ll eventually be gone anyway. No one will ever say I’m the mother in law from hell. Actually, all of my son’s and daughter’s friends and gf/bf love me (even the ones I don’t really care for). It’s all about being respectful, understand and giving them a safe space to be open with me so that they hopefully feel they don’t have to lie to or be sneaky when dealing with me.
This was such a thoughtful well stated response-u r clearly warm hearted and intelligent-his mama was trippin....I wonder if father's act like that with black daughters
EJ, you need find an acting agent, ASAP! I'm serious! You have to start getting lined up with some auditions! The facial expressions, the pauses and pacing, the body language! Totally in character! Girl, what are you waiting for?!!
You do understand it is a "character" that EJ created, and that in reality, these types of Mother-in-laws do exist. My MIL was the sweetest ever (may she rest in peace), but this video was hilarious - not created to piss you off. Life is WAY too short...lighten up and enjoy your day.
@@christinemcgruder5734 you do understand sarcasm don't you... And... Can I have my reaction to things? Being pissed off by comedy is an allowable reaction. Plus... I did enjoy my day... Please don't make assumptions about me and my reactions.
Yeah and when it happens all of sudden you are painted as the one being disrespectful. Like how much can one take before going off Im human. Lol see how this mess has triggered me😂 Funny as this video is it open wounds I thought I healed from.
When i would post pics of our meals on social media my mother in law would comment that she doesn't like that kind of food and it looked weird. Her other family members would always comment under her that it looked really good. She would literally just say mean things to me cause she figured she could. I told my husband i wasn't dealing with her lip anymore.
When I first got with my husband, his mom would call him everyday just to ask what I cooked for dinner until I said something. Then she was like well his ex girlfriend would tell me all their business. I said well I guess that's why it didn't work out. She didn't speak to us for almost a year lol
This is a true how some people are treated by the spouses family,as for me I don't allow anyone to come in my home and do stuff like this, don't care who you are there is the door!
my grandma loves all her daughter and son in laws even tho they've hurt her children she still loves, respects them and offer them something to eat. sometimes it irks me. lol
Nobody needs this toxic energy in their lives. If she got you so tight that just thinking about her hurts your back, then please start setting your boundaries... or move away or something. If he won't let you set boundaries, then you might want to seriously consider secretly planning your exit strategy! Just a thought. Life is too short to let some mean toxic old witch keep causing you so much undue pain and anxiety.
Mother would've have gotten it.....respectfully!!!! And my "man" would've needed to put her in her place before we even meet if she's like this. I shall not and I will not take the disrespect.
I gave my mother-in-law her 1st & only granddaughter. I'm forever in her good graces. Plus she comes to our house every Thanksgiving, not a single complaint lol
Reminds me of my ex's mama. Couldn't stand her. she said i didn't make enough and that her son paid all the bills. She learned the truth when i sent his behind packing after he cheated. She went to the leasing office to have me removed only to find out the apartment was in my name and i was paying the rent. That was the day she realized her son was the sorry one because he not only didn't pay rent, but got a girl pregnant, and got fired from his job. Oh to see her face when she found out.
My shade and disrespect is on 1000% and I don't pretend to be nice. "You don't know how to make hot water cornbread?" "No ma'am. That's why I don't look like hot water cornbread. I'll leave that to you." *Fake sweet smile*
