I was diagnosed with depression mid-last year. Growing up kasi wala akong mapag sabihan ng mga nararadaman ko yung mga hanas ko sa buhay. Mas ginusto kong maging listener kesa ako yun mag kwento kasi I know how it feels na walang makikinig sayo. My family thinks that I'm that jolly and happy go lucky na type of person. Yung kahit they say something hurtful na about me I'll just laugh at it. I remember my own dad just laugh at me nun 8yrs old pa lang ako nag open up ako sinabing mas favorite ni mama yung younger bro ko kesa sa akin.(my pinangagalingan naman yun) hehe tas sinabihan ako ng papa ko nag iinarte ako. Kya tumatak yun sa puso at isipan ko(the 8yrs old me) hanggang sa I grew up I became afraid of opening up thinking na baka ma invalidate lang uli. Kya siguro mid-last year sumabog ako. Naubos ako. Hanggang sa I found out I have depression and anxiety. I stop my meds dahil super expensive at pati CBT session ko. Sadly, I can't afford it but here I am fighting, 😊. Binabalikan ko yung mga previous takeaways ko sa mga CBT sessions ko. My greatest takeaway was whatever I am feeling it's valid and I have the right to feel that way kasi I'm also a human. Though at times yun anxiety ko umaatake but I'm proud of myself kasi I can manage it na. Just reminding myself that it's normal and doing chikka with GOD. Godbless you always, siszst! Silent fun here. 🥰
Thank u for this one Roanne... Indeed you need to let go of the things beyond your control... Slmt lods me srli kng lban pero ptuloy kng tumutlong s iba..simpleng vlog lng pro dmi Kong npulot. Keep goin...take time to heal..praying for u and Tina
Ang strong mo roanne bow ako sayo.. pero strat ko na makita ung vlog nyo halos inaabangan ko na ung susunod.. I feel the kilig kasi habang nanunuod ako , sarap nyong panuorin. May aral ka namakukuha. Love ko kung ano kayo.. I feel na Ang sarap nyong kasama. I'm from bicol.. LGBTQ fam too. I have ldr relationship for 18 months now.kapit lang po ha.. magiging ok din lahat.. magtiwala lang. God bless po.
May nakikita po ako sa comments na dapat magkasama agad agad sila Ate Roanne at Ate Tina as a couple and it needs to stop. Kakagaling lang po nila sa break up at wag nyo po silang pwersahin/madaliin na magkabalikan ulet dahil sobrang nasakatan si Ate Roanne sa ginawang mistake ni Ate Tina and both of them ay nasa stage ng processing, healing, forgiving, and trying to forget what happened. Sana po unawain nyo rin yung nararamdaman at situations nila at wag pilit ng pilit ng gusto nyo. Kung gusto nyo po silang magkabalikan kailangan nyo pong mag-intay kahit gaano pa iyan katagal. I'm not trying to be rude po pero kailangan talaga na sabihin ito. At para kay ate Roanne po continue inspiring others, loving yourself and magpakatatag po kayo hindi po kayo nag-iisa dahil nandito po kame para sainyo minamahal at sinusoportahan ka. 😊😍 P.S : My personal opinion lang po. 😊👌🏻
It's okay not to be okay. Ang hindi okay is 'yung wala kang ginagawa for yourself to be okay, to be better. Kase kahit gaano pa kalakas 'yung support system mo, kung di ka talaga gumagalaw para sa sarili mo, wala parin. Naalala ko sabi ng friend ko dati nung lugmok ako. "Gustuhin man namin na kami mismo ang umahon at lumaban para sa'yo sa battle mo, di namin magagawa kase may mga battle na ikaw at ikaw lang talaga ang makakapanalo." It hits different kasi totoo naman. I'm not trying to invalidate everyone. It's okay not to be okay kasi normal naman pag ganun di ba? As long as di ka nagpapakalunod sa sitwasyong 'yun. Seek for some help if you think need mo. Seek for some help but help yourself at the same time.
Roanne be strong...laban lng at magpakatatag daming nag mmhl sa inyo at sumosoprta s inyo darating din ang tamang oras n magging oky na ang lahat magging masaya kau ulit godbless u po sa inyo ni tina.....
May mga times na akala mo hindi mo na kakayanin at gusto mo na lang tumakbo sa lahat ng mga bagay na nakakasakit sayo. Pero laging may way ang Lord to tell us na subukan mong mabuhay ng isang araw pa at makikita mong worth it pang lumaban. Tapos makikita mo na lang yung sarili mo after a week na naka survive, tapos one month na, then one year na. I think it's okay to not be okay when you feel like you're not okay. Kahit pa araw araw. Pero kailangan din araw araw kang magdecide na gustuhin mong maging okay. Sa lahat ng hindi okay ngayon, mahigpit na yakap para sa ating lahat. Darating ang panahon na magmi-make sense din ang lahat. Let's live until then. Love lots 💕 PS. Roan, you're so strong. Your strength reaches me and strengthens me too. Please continue pressing on. Love yah 🥀
Always Present. Hindi ako nag skip ng ads para sa mga babies nyo.. next vlog sana magkasama n kayo ni Tina congratulations more more blessing to come. Stay strong rotin we love you both 💖
eyes can't lie talaga. I know that it really hurts. I struggle with my school works and sometimes I'm being pressured kasi yung parents ko gusto nila na lagi akong nasa top. I don't want to disappoint them but sometimes I just feel like that what matters to them is my grade. to the point na sometimes aatakihin ka nalang ng anxiety mo. but thanks to this youtube acc and to this content creator. kahit papano pag nanonood ako sainyo napapagaan nyo loob ko.
I was once in Roanne's situation. The betrayal almost murdered my spirit and dismantled my life. It's been a while, but i know i'm still hurting and i still cannot forgive the people responsible for my pain. I just pray na sana, kahit pautay-utay, maka-move on na si Roanne and start believing in people again. I'm rooting for you Roanne.
We all are humans and humans are full of emotions. We are not numb that we are unable to feel anything. When we wake up, it’s either we feel good or bad but it does not stay until the end of the day. If we’re happy now, we’re not sure if we will still be happy later. There are days that we feel good about ourselves, and sometimes we feel like we are at our worst. So it’s okay not to be okay. Sometimes that’s just how it is. I love you and mami Tina. Hugs to you both🤗🤗
Mami roanne really fits on counseling she really elaborate the topic kaya super maiintindihan mo talaga lahat ng lessons and things na di mo namamalayang related na pala sayo I appriciate this vlog mamsh thankyou for this❤️ keepsafe and godbless sa inyo ni mami tita😚
Mahirap masabi kung kailan at hanggang kailan pwede maging okay at hindi maging okay! Pero lahat ng nafefeel naten sobrang valid. Yun yung pinafeel mo samen lahat ate. Ang daming kong na learned sa lahat ng sinabi mo ate roanne and i hope you'll be fully okay soon😊🥰. Isa kayo sa naging way para maging okay ako sa lahat pinadaanan ko. Sobrang thankful ako kasi nakilala ko kayo through vlogs.pati po sana sa personal. I hope makita ko na po kayo soon. I love you atee fighting lang kaya naten lahat itoooo!!!🥺🥰
Thank you mamshi for this! I’ve never thought na these someone experiences the way I was feeling right now. I’ve been very busy with all of my responsibilities, I’ve never had the time to have a peace of mind. I always set aside my feelings, and always choose to keep on going. I’ve said to myself na I badly need some self reflection, and here I am doing it now. Thank you for inspiring and this really calmed me in a way that I can help myself and can fight again🤍
Kailangan mo talaga maging ok kahit di ka ok'dahil maraming mga taong nakapaligid sayo na wala namang hinangad kundi maging masya ka at maging ok ka'...hanga ako sa pagiging matapang at pagiging positive in own way kaya i m so very proud of you'i hope someday maging masaya ka na walang tinatagong sakit at paghihirap'....figh2x lang marami syo nag mamahl'go with the flow in your own way'♥️Godblesss po!
Habang pinapanuod ko to naiiyak ako lagi kung babalikan ang vlog na to everytime na ooverwhelmed ako sa mga triggers ko lalo na this past week yung bigat na nararamdaman ko dahil toxic sa workplace ko minsan hindi ko na kaya ihandle pero sinisikap ko pa ding magmukang okay at matapang😭
Being broken needs time to heal each crack di minamadali yan or else mababasag lang din uli both of you needs to heal both of you needs to think. Not because nanahimik tayo or kahit we look ok ay ibigsabhin ok na tayo no sa totoo lang nagpapaka strong lang tayo because we are in the verge of breaking down i love the both of you take your time on healing
Napaka brave mupo sobra tagal kuna kilala ang rotin este now is roanne and tina pero hindi ako naka subscribe dahil sa poblema sa selpon ko and now nakapasok na sa vlog nyu rOan marami kami andito hindi toxic na nkaa suporta sainyo lalo kana rOan kasi nasa situation ka na dinamin madamayan basta basta mahaba na lab ka namin rOan stay humble Fabolous 😂 en strong heart rOan ngatz ka ah 🤗
Thank you Po ate roann for this vlog..lakingg tulong Po sa mental health.. especially this pandemic..sana maraming topic pa regarding this situation..❤️❤️🙏🙏valid ang feelings natin..
When the toughest times come, it is always the weak that is being comforted. And it is always the strongest that is being disregarded. Yung tipong parang wala na tayong right para magpakalunod, magpakawala ng espirito ng kalungkutan 😅 😪 perks ng pagiging open sa tao 😪💔 Yep. It will always be okay NOT TO BE OKAY. Believe nalang tayo that everything, every little thing, really happens for a reason 🤧💔 We are at our strongest points when we admit that we are weak at the very least. Pakatatag Roanne 😊❤️ Iyak kung kailangan pero laban lang ❤️😊
Thank You po idol Roanne kahit papano may natutunan po ako sa vlogs nyo na eto po ☺️ na paano maging okay kahit gusto mo maging okay pero hindi mo kaya maging okay 🤦🥺 na miss ko lang po yung panahon na okay pa ako at walang sakit na nararamdaman 🥺🥺😔 Anyway first time ko mag comment dahil sobrang relate po ako nito idol Roanne.. Thank You So Much 😘 Laban lang po tayo sa mga hindi okay jan soon magiging okay po tayo not now but soon ☺️💪😘😘❤️❤️❤️
Magging okay kadin lods. Magiging okay din ang lahat! Magiging maayos at Magkakabalikan din kayo. Isa ako sa mga magiging masaya pag nangyare un. Mahal ko kayong dalawa Roanne and Tina❤❤
STAY STRONG LANG PO KAYO ROTINE KASI NAKARASAN DIN KAMI NG JOWA KO DIN PO NG GANYANG SITWASYON AT SA KABILA NG LAHAT PO AY KINAYA NAMIN PARA SA MGA PANGAKO NAMIN SA ISA'T ISA AT PALAGING LUMALABAN PARA SA MGA PARANGARAP NAMIN SA ISA'T ISA.SANA PO MAGING OK NA KAYO NI LODI TINA...KASI RELATE DIN AKO SA INYO KASI PART DIN AKO NG "LGBTQ" PO,I FEEL YOUR PAIN BUT NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENED OR CHALLENGES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP JUST FOCUS ON YOUR DREAMS IN LIFE AND ALSO DON'T FORGET TO PRAY IN GOD🙏✨🏳️🌈
It takes time naman e, pagdadaanan nyo lahat ng process pero after that masasabi mo na worth it lahat ng pinagdaanan mong sakit dahil makikita mo yung sarili mo na matatag pero minsan talaga dumadating tayo sa point ng buhay natin na mas okay ng hindi okay lalo na sa toxic situation tapos yung mga taong nakapaligid pa sayo e hindi ka maintindihan but all in all We have God okay? We have him don't forget that ibigay at isuko molang sakanya lahat at sya na ang bahala😊❤️❤️❤️ Goodbless all lalo kana ate Roanne keep smiling You must be valued because you are valuable ❤️❤️❤️
Cheer up lods,totoo nga yung kasabihan nila pag kagaling sa break up mas lalo ka pong gumaganda,pero magnda ka nmn na tlga lods😘andito lang po kami mga supporter po
Minsan may oras talaga sa buhay natin na kahit nasasaktan na tayo we still proved to be brave we still act brave even though you're hurt. Okay lang kung light lang ang sitwasyon. Hindi naman palagi kelangan natin i tolerate yung mga bagay na dapat ay hindi talaga tayo maging okay. Baka kasi pinipilit mo lang maging okay kasi ayaw mong mag let go o hindi mo talaga matanggap. Sa ganoong sitwasyon pepwede pa nating masabing hindi talaga okay satin ang nagyayari. Show your true feelings.
thank you po for your insights ate roanne!!! i have been feeling burned out and overwhelmed sa ginagawa ko sa online school, pero this video gave me a new perspective on how i should approach life when i'm not okay, lalo na po sa sinabi niyo about compartmentalization :))) sana you stay healthy physically, emotionally and mentally tsaka stay safe! :*
yup that's exactly what it means in "when is it ok not to be okay?" when things getting beyond your control, but you have to be ok & calm coz wala ka nang choice eh.....
Pero parang walang pinagdadaan Ganda nmn E Basta alam nyo at nararamdaman P nyo n Mahal P natin ang isang Tao wag tyong bibitiw dto lng po kmi naghihintay n maging ok kyo lab U guys pary lng 🙏🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
actually ang hirap talaga..maging okay sa sitwasyon na di ka okay… na fe feel ko ang sakit na nararamdaman mo kasi pareho tayo in pain… and moving forward sa past na nangyari… hope someday we will be okay… everything will be okay… we will just be strong
its okay not to be okay specially when times of trouble..not to be okay sometimes lead us to be more matured..jan mo madidiferentiate ang good and bad.. take rest take vocation magwalwal to the max
🥺 missing your vlogs tina and roanne paulit ulit kuna lang pinapanood mga old videos nyo 🥺 kailan ulit namin kayo makikita na magkasama na sobrang sweet 🥺
Nalungkot ako about what happened to them pero pag meant to be sila kahit ilang heartbreaks pa pagdadaanan nila si tadhana na talaga ang gagawa ng paraan para silay muling magkaayos at mahilom ang mga sugat sa puso nila. D pwdng ipilit ang mga bagay na sa tingin natin ay d pa handa. Kaya it's ok na d pa kayo ok kasi everything will be fine in God's perfect time. Iloveyou #rotin
Ok kung maaayos ang lahat.....time lang ang màkakapagsabi..nsa knila yan.....kung ano makakapagpasaya s knila....gawin nyo n lang guys...kung cla cla....wait nnlang tyo
Grabe, im on the stage na tinutulungan ko rin ang sarili koo and nung napanuod ko po itooo😭 it's worth it!! And thank youu😭. Sobrang laki ng tulong nito for mee and for my situation 🤍
Im clinically diagnosed with depression and anxiety back then 2018. Ngayon sabi ng psych ko baka 2022, graduate nako. Andami kong pinagdaanan, and pinaka malala yung ngayon. Patapos nalang yung year dumating papo ito. I lost my job and my best friends. Halos hindi ko alam pano ako magiging okay. Hindi ko kung okay lang ba ko? Kaya ko ba toh? Deserve ko ba to? Ngayon, almost 2 months na, alam mo yung na “ bigyan mo lang talaga yung sarili mo ng time na maging okay at hindi maging okay. Wag mong bilisan yung process. Nasa sayo yan. Let yourself be healed physically, mentally. Solitude is different with loneliness. Give yourself a time. Wag mo invalidate yung nararamdaman mo. Okay kaman o hindi. Its part of the process. Im sure pag nalampasan mo toh, you will be the brave and the strongest person ever. Waiting din ako sa sarili ko. Sa best version of myself. I hope 2022, graduate nako. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 okay lang maging hindi okay, pag alam mo ng iprocess yung lahat.
Kung ramdam mo na na di na okay,di na talaga kaya at nakakapagod na talaga,then that's the time na it's okay not to be okay..Just let it go and take a rest kung di na talaga kaya
Ok lng n minsan d tau okay, ksma s buhay yan, wag mu lng tambayan ung panhong hindi k ok, u hav to help urself up, cge lumugmok k, humandusay ka, huminga k, umiyak ka, mag breakdown ka, mapagod ka, pero cguraduhin mu lng s sarili mu unti unti gagapang ka, tatayo k ulet, babangon k ulet at lalakas ulet, gang ung dting d k ok, maging ok n ulet,. Ganyn lng ung buhay, sakyan mu lng.
Hindi lahat ng okay sa iba is okay din sayo..kasi iba't iba tayo ng perspective paano tanggapin un..kaya hello sa mga nagdidikta sa dapat at hindi dapat maramdaman..lahat tayo may iba't ibang pagkatao kaya sana respect nlang kung sya hndi ok ngayon or sya naman ung okay..ang hirap magpretend na ok ka kht sa loob durog na durog kna..
sobrang out of the topic, but can I just say Roanne sobrang ganda mo ano ba!!! Honestly I had to rewatch dahil hindi ko ma gasp mga sinasabi mo during the premier kasi naka focus lang ako sa mukha mo, sobrang blooming tas ang cute mo at the same time kainis! Pano yan?? 😍🥵
Sobrang hirap, mag let go kong alam mong saknya k lng nagiging totoo,,na kau lng ang may alam n kau, kaya nung bigla nyang tinapos na hindi mo alam n ikaw lng pla nagseryoso,, hindi mo alam kong knino k kukuha ng support,d nila alam kong gaano kasakit ngumiti s harap ng iba n alam mong durog k inside..nakikita mo nkakatwa xa freely while ikaw barely breathing,,
