When Kobo tells his real Brother who has Autism and cries [Hololive English Sub] 

i understand this thought, but ... what's the fun in being normal? what IS considered normal? if it's being an accepted part of society, yeah... that's a tough one for us sometimes. however, we really are just as normal as anyone else. our brains just work a little different. :)

@@snowysnowwishbecause it’s stressful for him as well, being different will cause conflict, I hope he is doing alright.

@@ArcanistShion As a person with autism you couldn't be more correct.

Maybe you shouldn’t think like that on “normal”, a lot of problems *we* face have to do with how modern society is set up, a lot of autistic traits used to be beneficial at another period in time, that’s why they’re recessive neruological traits. What you might be offering as help and support might come off as overbearing, as I can attest to in my own experience. Because I have a fear I won’t become independent if I learn helplessness. When he suggests he can manage things on his own, remove those “training wheels”.

*she- ??? lol

​@@sutomuarashi brother so 'he' is correct

ooh i thought we were talking abt kobo herself lmaoo @@the_pineapple245

@@the_pineapple245 the brother is a girl now/j

There is no such thing as “several degrees”. Autism is a spectrum

@@Sinc3r3ly Or "injured loved ones". Autistic people are just people. They are not broken.

@@Sinc3r3ly exactly! Anyone wants some info on "lower functioning" autistics, take a look at r/spicyautism. It's a funny name, but very informative.

@@TageM_Official from someone with high-functioing autism, they look pretty broken to me.

@@dinosaurusrex1482 High- and low-functioning are just terms for autistic people with or without comorbidities. The conditions that make people high or low aren't even part of autism, therefore using these terms doesn't really make sense. It's like if someone was in a wheelchair and you'd blaim that on their lisp.

See the brightside, you can always make a gas leak and get the insurance or anything they left for you. That was a joke just in case.

i got an autistic sibling, his mom really forced him to become normal:((

i disliked her from this clip but watched more of her videos, I think this clip misunderstands her words a lot! she is also autistic so it doesn't rlly matter IMO and she is a blunt person and just says things

It's really dehumanizing for people to wish that you are not the person you are right now and it shouldn't be in their control to deem you as broken. That's why people just need to accept things like that and move on. It's better for autistic people anyway if you treat them like a normal human being and accept them for who they are, rather than change them.

@TageM well yeah, it's dehumanizing but it does happen. In a perfect world we'd all just accept one another but that's not how it really works. Kids especially are pretty selfish by nature and with their simpler view of the world, they tend to think in that way of "I wish they were normal" because they just don't know that being autistic is normal. It's the same with adults that have autistic children where, if they've never had exposure to autism, they could fall into the same camp. My point is that it's very human to feel that way, especially if you see the disorder causing a loved one distress or if providing care youre unfamiliar with isnt something youre ready to take on, but it's important that if you do, you grow and learn not to think that way about those who function differently than you. Everyone is human and everyone is different, and one day I hope the world can be more informed about these disorders. In the meantime though, I don't think that this is simply a malicious thing or should be seen as "this person is just being insensitive". A lot of the response is from misinformation, wanting to relate to someone as a kid, or seeing people struggle and wishing that the struggle could simply stop. It's not the correct response though, and people should definitely learn to accept them for who they are. I agree.

@@nateroo1486 If people don't do that, it can very easily get out of hand. I mean just look at autismspeaks. They pretty much deal with these emotions alone and use them to further their agenda. For them it's not about making the world better for autistic people or giving them the tools to do it themselves, no they want to make the world better for everyone else. And every autistic person who speaks out against them gets treated as a child who doesn't know what they're talking about. It's really disgusting. I think they're still thinking about that whole cure stuff. Which isn't possible. The only cure that will work is acceptance, because in a world where we are just accepted like we are and our difficulties get tackled, we can function the best, if not sometimes even better. I for one have my own office and can do my work in my pace, rather than being surrounded by a bunch of people triggering my sensory issues. The fact that I have to use the train everyday is still difficult for me. Too many people and too much noise. But I can function mostly. It could be even better though.

i don't think kobo stated it as good as she could've had, but i understand where she's coming from. unfortunately a LOT of what she said was horribly stated. we are struggling more than anyone in our family ever could. if they think they're struggling, they should definitely re-think everything. i get it, but also... no.

@@TageM_Official Is it dehumanizing for someone to wish you'd not have a disability? What does accepting and moving on means? You're saying that like it's not an everyday challenge. I don't think anyone is treating them inhumanly and definitely no one can change them. One thing is treating everyone like humans, another is thinking that being disabled is not a problem or even that is a positive thing. I'm starting to think you didn't know what a deeply autistic person is.

People get offended towards anything nowadays.

Trying to sugarcoat it wont help. Family members being at peace with his condition doesnt mean that it will magically be easier. I applaud Kobo's honesty here.

They are just stupid, and probably they dont have the same problem that kobo have so they dont know how kobo or anyone feel to taking care autism or disabilty people. Is not that kobo hate it, but deep down for every people always wanting a perfect family member that just a human nature

She has, because she said in her stream when she open comifuro merchandise, the one who buy the merchandise she want is her friends that go to comifuro Also, i dont think the chat assuming she insulting autism because what i see is the chat just sad because kobo is crying and want to calm her down and spamming patting kobo head emoji, it mean they just want to say "dont worry we understand", crying emoji when other is crying usually mean we cry with u/ i am sad too, i dont know how u can translate the chat emoji and word like that

@@annacme-fs5gs I mean the comments under this video

​@@MDG-mykys i am wondering about that too, why the comment have a lot of negative comment, it normal for other to tell their difficulties with a friend and the chat in her stream has no problem hearing about her difficulty but it just chatting not like she dislike her brother😅

@@annacme-fs5gs well is internet. there are assho** in every media that wants to annoy other people

is it disability?

@@andibachtiar8788 neither

@@dareobell4297 what is it then?

​@@andibachtiar8788 more like a disorder I suppose, it is a developmental disability tho

High functioning Autist here, you are right it's pretty much a developmental disability. I think I've learned how to "act" normal after all these years. ;)

No? Trying to sugarcoat it is just evading the problem. Please be openminded and not coddle this unfortunate situation.

Its her Big bro..

@@AjehZaelani oh, sorry. I didn't got enough sleep because of the power outage that occurred in the middle of the night so my head isn't working properly

@@DamslettesSIMP no it's ok, just info👌

In fact everything she said was terrible

@@aigenerated6786 It is but I can understand where her frustration coming from. Rarely you see the caretakers or the related venting about it but it would be a lie to say it never crossed their minds. Taking care of dementia-afflicted person would be more so.

@@kazuharailfan.2909 If I was her brother I would be destroyed by her words, also the autistic people in her chat, she is just acting like autistic people are failures and saying how glad she is that she can hang out with "normal" people

@@kazuharailfan.2909 I understand her point of view, but just the way she phrased it kinda hurt.

@@ryugaknight she said she was choosing the words wrong & it's hard to explain what her feel in english, so she understands others might misunderstood it bcs of the language barrier

But kobo says in different stream. That She very love her brother and happy

@@meogie good for her brother, sad for me because my sister hate me

@@indosuprem2296 Later in life, she’ll come around to it lol

As a sister, they probably don't hate you. They themselves probably have autism too. I hated people to hug/touch me, and my brother would try everything to make me hug him, I would get mad at him, of course. But I love him, I wouldn't be able to live without my little brother.

@@hoothoo2443 ok i am not that autistic i don't want to touch and hug my sister