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This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect....you can stop the hurting

Amen.

easy to talk on a platform!

I knw she is

True, but she had to stay to get to this place. Plenty of people could save their marriages if they endured.

There is more than enough porn talk. It's everywhere. My church talks about it and affairs like it's going out of style. You know what they NEVER talk about? Withholding sex from a spouse. That's what needs to be talked about more. I read a quote that said....Satan likes sex without marriage as much as he likes a marriage without sex. Why does the church only address one of these?

Snook On the fly I wish my church talked about either of these subjects but no. My church doesn’t even talk about divorce or male or female roles within marriage/family structure. We need to talk about these things.

April Murray Yes they do. Most churches these days only talk about the mushy Kushy feel good stuff. It brings in more people that way. I personally like the nitty gritty make you feel uncomfortable stuff. It keeps you in check.

This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect!

You can have lust without any porn

True

Ill pray 🙏🏻

Stacey.....I'm going through the same thing right now. How did you get through?

Release him to God , process forgiveness for him , pray for him is all you can do

I pray you ain’t giving up am 23 and sum time me and my wife go thru it but because of god and her trying with me we are better god can heal all and anything I know you had a time where you thought it was impossible and he show you different I love you and pray he heal your marriage in the name of Jesus amen

Same here

May you both experience all the joy your hearts can hold. God bless your union abundantly!🙏

How did it go?

May the Lord Jesus Christ destroy the work of the devil in your home. Father may the stronghold of offense be broken from their spirits in the name of Jesus. Let every accusation of the wicked one be quenched by the blood of Jesus Christ. Father, may your Holy Spirit be the mediator and advocate of these ones to each other in Jesus name, Amen!

Same for me. 18 years marriage and she left me 10 months ago. Please 🙏 that God will intervene and restore our family. I love her unconditionally and forgive her for leaving. I just want to be the man and husband God wants me to be. 🥹

Krissy Schoppert why are you still with this man????

Lisa bug I'm not. I filed for divorce last week and he discarded me over a year ago. I have been no contact for 6 months. Have no fear, I'm done with abusive partners. Thanks for the response.

Krissy Schoppert praying that things have worked out for you and that you are living a much happier life now. Best wishes ❤️

You can’t fix narcissism.... Very selfish! His words... 💔🚩💔🚩💔🚩

Sorry to hear

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718jef - I'm on the same boat bro. Keep fighting!

What happened a year later?

I am in the same place, the only difference is that my wife has moved out, so I am getting closer to God and trusting that he will ressurect my marriage. In Jesus name.

jef178 same exact story in my house. Praying for you and for a miracle for me.

Anna Suzanna praying for you , my spouse chose alcohol over our 39 yr marriage we have been separated 5 yrs , I had to process forgiveness for him and myself and I pray for his salvation , I suggest reach out and get help for you your worth it

Lesly Nixon, you look stunning 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🥀🌹 🌹🌺 🌺🌹🥀🥀 🥀

and I might add that loving your wife sexually is one of the most deepest ways to love her. don't make the mistake of neglecting that area.

There's a flip side to this statement. Wife, your husband will be what you treat him as. My wife, right after marriage told me flirting is only for new couples. Started having sex only once every 2 or 3 months only because she was tired of hearing me bring up sex. Told me flat out that she made the mistake of putting her ex boyfriend before her parents and will never put a man before them again. Makes decisions for our kids with her parents behind my back and tells me to get over it. Opened and maxed out a credit card after we discussed we will not be getting into the credit card routine. 15 years later, I've lost hope in us being what God intended us to be when we became one in marriage and the because of the years of this I now treat her like a bad roommate. Now I keep hearing from everyone what you said. They always seem to forget what drove me there.

AestheticEmotionGHL I did and still do pray daily. I have changed one aspect in what I do in this matter. I started letting God show me that my focus was to be on him and his promises and not what other people were doing wrong. Because of that shift in focus, the splinters in my eye haven't grown into a log and are being removed by god through his word. I can't change how people treat me, but with God's guidance I can change how I react. It's a hard pill God has asked me to swallow, but it has helped draw me closer to his love and guidance. I'm sorry you are going through this too. I pray that god opens our spouses eyes and comforts us in his perfect love while we wait on his timing.

AestheticEmotionGHL thank you. I pray for healing in your marriage.

Tina Woodward I'm praying for my marriage. My husband stopped loving me. 😔

He left for another woman a few years later.. read about it above........ My story from a narcissistic abusive husband, now ex. They don’t change. It’s completely evil... Jesus never left me!

Lol. My wife just had me watch this video and I realized that it's so true. Gl with ur marriage God bless

Send it 2 him. I sent it

Amen

Your friend has some maturing to do if he still thinks like that. As for the girls that's their business. That just means you had less mistakes to choose from in my opinion. Because if they can't see what's good for them they don't have much in them to begin with. You focus on yourself not other. It's your desire to be married. Prepare yourself for it, work on improving yourself and it will happen.

No where in Scripture does it say God wants us to be happy no matter what. And you said you don't have fun together, you're just husband and wife???? Seriously?

@@tstephens8530 she is talking about how she feels. Feelings are not right or wrong. I don't think she was making that statement to prove anyting to someone. I certainly do not know her and therefore believe what she says on face value. Plenty of couples live in the same house without touching each other. Sometimes for financial reasons, sometimes because of the kids. But whatever the reason, it does happen.

he's probably addicted to porn and that causes erectile dis-function...pray and God will show you

Mikhi Ferreira I understand. My husband needs testosterone therapy. God please help us.

HE NEEDS BETTER EATING HABITS AND EXERCISE...HE NEEDS FRUIT AND GREEN VEGETABLES 6 DAYS OUT THE WEEK

If you haven't divorced her yet, follow God's guidance. Avoid dating, show your wife you have changed for the better and pray every day

I'm sorry

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Togami Zen did he cheat or abuse you? If so divorce him!!!!!

Where on the bible says divorce is acceptable for adultery or abuse, God divorces you because you commit adultery putting other things first and not God, Jesus says unless for porneia, read hosea, thank you

How have you been doing , did god help you ?

God is able to rekindle your love for him (all things is possible with God) but I would first wait until he demonstrate a change in his attitude and behavior towards you( test the spirit to see if it is genuine- 1st John) before even thinking about going back. I certainly would pray about going back before doing anything connected with him (sometimes two people weren't meant to be together in the first place) and if God say yes, then He will give you that renewed love and a change of heart towards him( Psalms 23rd-He restores my soul). Trust this help and encourages you how to proceed. God bless and make your life beautiful.

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Krissy Schoppert , ONLY GOD can heal a narcissistic person

God can heal anything!!!!

Don't kid yourself. You are asking for a once in a lifetime miracle. Yes, it can happen but only after you have suffered tremendously. It's not worth it. Walk away now before it ruins not only you, but your children too. That hope you have is not worth the damage he does in the interim. Really, it won't be. If he changes later, then maybe you can take him back. But don't let him continue to damage you and and your children. You will regret it, and your children will resent you for staying. Good luck.

No. Notice that even the Pharisees, Yahusha (Jesus) Himself did not run after them, try to get them to repent or preach & beg them to repent to them. He rebuked them in front of everyone and walked away. Look at 2 Timothy 3:1-9 and Titus 3 where it says, “Rebuke someone once, then a second time, then have NOTHING to do with them.” Notice it says nothing else....not run after them, beg them to change, nothing like that. And if God Himself says, “have nothing else to do with them” that’s exactly what He means. I was married to a Narcissist/ Sociopath for 17 years. Loving them more and more got me nothing but more and more abuse. These people will use you and abuse you until the day you decide you’ve had enough. Don’t walk...run from these type of people and don’t look back. And don’t wait 17 years to do it. These people don’t change and God Himself knew there were people like that & instructed us to stay away from them.

That is so sad and seemingly selfish on her part. I said seemingly because I don't know her side of the problem. We should find out what it is like to be single before we get married not after but, it doesn't always happen that way. Was she attracted to you earlier on in the marriage? I would suggest you get Christian Counseling ASAP. Our priorities as Christians should be God first and our spouse next. Sadly sometimes we have to realize that the problem is not our attractiveness or whether or not we are perfect but, it can be the other person is checked out or not willing to work on the marriage. These are things a good Christian Counselor can help you with. I feel for you. I have experienced similar situation for years. I pray that all works out for you.

I am so sad for you after reading this. Sometimes people don’t realize what they have until it’s gone. I pray that things are better for you. How are things going now 5 months later? Can you please give us an update?

@ Daniel Claggett Cucks always end up rejected. You are not in control and you wonder why everything is going down the drain ? You are not the head of your wife , she is ruling over you .

LEAVE

She does not love you and you can not force people to love you. Just leave her alone until she finds out what she wants . Just be patient

Why don't you begin by prayerfully asking yourself why did your love leave in the first place.

I know that your post is from a year ago, so if I had to make a guess, I would guess that you and your boyfriend are no longer together, in less perhaps the two of you went through some type of unplanned radical change of life experience (such as pregnancy, or something of the like). But please update , as I would love to know what you finally decided to do, about the lack of feelings you had for your boyfriend, a year ago. Please read up on the science behind the phrase, “love is blind” and the science behind “love. It will explain infatuation and how long it lasts, before stage 2 of the process of love begins (and when the blinders come off), and will also explain why those “blinders,” come off in a period of 18months to 2.5 years after you first began dating.

Kristal Joyner we broke up last Monday and were about to be 4 years we agreed that I just need a break

Tina Woodward I'm heartsick from hearing your pain. I have figured out that my husband is a narcissist, mostly because of severe emotional abuse along with pathological lies. Affairs are abuse! Mine left me for a younger woman too, and you deserve better! God bless you and you are not alone.

That was so beautiful:)!!! What ended up happening ?

I pray that thins have worked out for you. I pray that God has brought you through this pain and that you have now found happiness. Can you update us please? Would love to know how you are doing?

Tink Boyce ; Misha Petrovich ; Judith Davis My ex ( a narcissists and she is too, I think) is still with that neighbor he left me for. She paid for the divorce, bought him a huge beautiful home in Alaska. Left me homeless for 3 weeks up there. But PRAISE GOD for Change Point Church and the wonderful people that are lead by the Holy Spirit. I moved back down in the same place as 2 of my boys and families.. my grandchildren are my world. But this has hit my family so hard. My sister who had mental illness committed suicide this last January 23, 2019.. Emotionally I’m a wreck. But this church in town Victory Life Church has a wonderful Lady who helps with women who have been through traumas. I know God is setting things up. My health is not good and emotionally all I can do is cry, financially broke. Narcissistic abuse is of the devil... anyone in a relationship like that. Get out ASAP. I fought for my marriage and know is off playing house with his new supply and her money. But I’m sure she has felt that sting from the wrath of evil he carries. She is not a Christian and has mocked God. Jesus saved me and is helping on healing me. I’m so grateful for the people who have entered my life and helped me walk through some of these trails. Jimmy Evans and Robert Morris the “Free Indeed “ series was so helpful with walking me through the most difficult experiences. We do not fight against flesh and blood, but principalities and spirits of this world. Just know HOW BIG OUR FATHER GOD IS AND JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY TO GET TO HIM.... I know my sweet little sister (she was 51) is with Jesus. She loved him so much. But mental illness is horrible (schizophrenic is even worse).. Jesus has mercy on those who are hurting, broken-hearted and the ill. I’m so grateful for Jesus love for us... I see myself married to Jesus. If I ever marry again, it will be Jesus who sets it up. . Jesus’s is my whole world. He saved me from living in that world of chaos. I am working on building my future and waiting for the Lords direction. I do know that my grown children have lost respect for their father and don’t like his new supply. They are heartbroken to have watched everything take place. All they had ever known was a loving family growing up... so this came as a complete shock to them as well. The worst part started after the kids moved out. So they did not see the verbal abuse along with everything that happened. He became a different man. Alcoholism was and is a big factor for that. I’m asking God to break those generational curses that has happened to us and his grandparents on his mother’s side of the family. Almost exactly... Satan has no new tricks, same old ones. He comes to kill steal and destroy. I pray the Lord hears my prayers and breaks these curses for my children and grandchildren and great grandchildren and so on.... No more, stops here. Never let go of Jesus 🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼 know matter what.. He’s not letting go of you. 💜

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Your wrong , when you are married god wants you to be committed to that person no matter what. There is no other option no matter what to God. And I tell you this if you ask god to love her like Christ loved the church you will feel even more love for her then the other person.

Lisa bug Yes I was...and I was an immature kid and not a Christian, who was on the rebound and was missing that other person who I did love and was desperate to stop the hurt and to feel that love again. And ironically, 40 years later, I still love that woman, who didn't feel the same about me. When I love someone, it is forever! Also she kept calling for weeks. I finally answered the phone thinking I was free and it was her on the line. if only they had had caller ID back then.

Misha Petrovich I agree with you that when you freely marry someone, that you need to be committed. But I didn't marry freely and never gave a free vow, nor made any true commitment. Decades has also shown what a dishonest, evil woman she truly was and is today.

Marriage has nothing to do with emotions or feelings. Its about covenant with God and fullfilling role God assigned. Did you have a shot gun wedding? If you are not selfish enough, you coud have prevented the marriage if you are not sure if you can commit. Now you blame the situation for not loving your wife. Grow up and be a man. Work your relationship with God first because once you have Jezebel spirit, it will be hard to let go of the selfishness.

I have watched, and been to, many of these seminars and you are exactly correct. Interestingly they never address Ephesians 5:22-33. Men are supposed to lead and men should be the first to initiate the repair of a marriage, but women seem to be allowed to wrap their concept of love into their emotions, therefore they are allowed to withhold love until they "feel" love for the other person.

Keep your eyes on Jesus. I’ll pray for you 🙏🏼

Have faith in God, and pray, pray everyday and read books, sermons and focus on your self and with God, God doesn't want divorce but he wants us to pray to him everyday. Good luck I'll be praying for you.

My husband is a cheater, I stood up with this man for all my life and now this man at 63 yrs old divorces me behind my back we have been married for 34 yrs and I know it's the devil but help me pray that God will bind Satan in the marriage that he may be planning, please,please.

U say what he is..but what are you? Cause it ain't 100 percent his fault, your not perfect either..God is..that's the only perfect thing in this world. Go to God and fix yourself also instead of focusing on the bad.

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Why?

Unless you can turn toward Jesus for your satisfaction and comfort, living in a loveless situation is impossible. If you read Ephesians 5:22-33 you will understand the responsibility God places on husbands shoulders. Add to that 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 and you will be able to identify your own inadequacies, that is how it effects me. God has given men the strength to fight through these situations, but only if we disconnect from our own self interests and focus on God's Spirit. Praying for you.