When the avoidant CHEATS 

Never gonna happen.

yeap, fears always seem to win over love

@@spiritwanderer777 dddaaaaammmmnnn

@@spiritwanderer777 that's not avoidant. That's narcissism

@@freesandy i so hope you are wrong because that would mean that after being with a narcissist for 3 years and then studying about narcissism for 2 more after breakup I got into another narcissistic relationship. scary. but bottom line is I couldn't tell a difference in the end.

When people love, they suffer

@@Cabbage_mathwhat do you mean by that?

Because avoidants is a new sugarcoating word instead for narcissism. They don't want you loose you as supply , the benefits they got out of you , " friendship card " is just to keep you around on the bench with the "others " eat the cake and keep the cake , thats why. Just run , I know the hurt and pain is awful but if you stay around they will totaly destroy your heart and soul even more , and your mind .

@@olzzonthank you! You know when he admitted to cheating twice in one week on me , I started to cry. He said stop I don't give a fcuk about your feelings? I will do it again and again ?!!!!!

@@CarolineBlack-x3q I'm sorry to hear that you have been through similar experiences too , but remember those words he said to you and how unormal , cold hearted it is , just to give yourself even more anxiety and probably gashlighted you too during your relationship. Listen , I know you are gutted and not only heart broken but down to the core and soul , it took me 3 years to work on the aftermath what my Narc did and put me through , but better you found out about it now than wasting years and years on an person like that like I did , years that you'll never will have back and the ptsd symptoms, and depressions , anxiety for years that follows . So try to think that you Dodge a bullet and got away in time , saving you even more years ,time in the fog of their games . Take you time to heal , give yourself some self love and that nothing was on you in this , let time do its course to heal and read a lot about the subject like i did to get knowledge and understanding how these people " work " and preventing yourself for Hoovers and for seeing the red flags early in the future, when you heart and soul maybe ready to open up for dating again. Take one day at a time and focus on your wellbeing after all of this that you gone through , you didnt not deserve that kind of treatment and you have to keep yourself reminding yourself of it if he tries to come back later on . Stay strong and focus on the path of healing , take good care.

Eh...I think most of them deff cheat

These people not only blur, they remove the lines between "friendship" and relationship when they discard you. Things we would never allow or do in a 'friendship' with the opposite sex. But putting a label on it freaks them out. Make it make sense😅

Why do they say let's stay friends????? How can you when they're fucking lots of other women?????????

Why don't they feel any guilt for cheating? And why is there no compassion when they see how hurt you are? Why do they say be happy for them seriously???

​​@@CarolineBlack-x3q because they are selfish. You should be too, just walk away and live your best life. You diserve it! ❤

@@CarolineBlack-x3q it was weird it happened to me. After I was treated terrible and discarded then he calls me up and tells me about his problems with his new girlfriend, so I hung up on him and blocked him. Unbelievable!