There was a girl just like this in our high school. She was nice to everyone but definitely was “one of the guys.” She unfortunately died in a car accident a year after we graduated. Loved how sweet she was and her personality
My favorite thing was when my guy friends started including me in the "I'm only gay for the homies" jokes. It secured my place in the group and made me so much more comfortable knowing that the guys were so not into me that they mad jokes about me being a guy and being into me for being a guy (the types of jokes made it very clear that they weren't just sneakily flirting)
@notgonnalah If you’re secure in knowing that your friendship with someone is purely a friendship and not romantic or sexual, then you can confidently say, “I love my friend” without having to qualify it. Adding “…like a brother!” shows that you’re worried people will think you mean “love” in a romantic way, which is an insecurity. Of course, sometimes insecurities stem from real reasons-for example, if people in the past have given you a hard time for using the word “love” platonically-but, other times, the insecurity can be there because you actually **are** attracted to your friend and are afraid people will catch on.
literally me having only male friends its so annoying, of course they are my friends because i genuinely care about them and they about me. but being a girl that can only connect deeply with boys its more like a curse than a blessing, I WANT GIRLY SLEEPOVERS AND TALK ABOUT GIRL STUFF BUT IM TRAPPED WITH THESE MONKEYS.
this is so refreshing because I have guy friends and I’m always called a “pick me” for existing. I’m glad people are starting to realise girls can be friends with guys without being attracted to them. It’s like a breath of fresh air.
I know the feeling. In high school, ALL my friends were guys and all the other girls were asking me who I was dating (at the time I wasn’t even interested in guy’s romantically). All of my friends are still guys and I’m in my 30s now. People outside the friend group look at me weird being the only female but I know exactly where I stand with all of the male friends
It gets easier with age. I used to dream about having guy friends as a teenager but was too afraid to try and find them for fear of being teased. When I went to uni, I joined a small group of guys and they are the best. We don't get teased at all. Sometimes we get stares from old people .... 😂
People literally know you can be friends with the opposite gender.. they just don't care that you prefer guys because you think girls are crazy or whatever. As a former huge pick me... I denied it to but when you look back you see it.
I have a lot of guy friends that I knew back in middle school (I moved before 7th grade) and the way we stayed in touch was through Xbox and games. Anytime a guy who isn't apart of the group joking the chat they always ask who I'm with. Sorry but I would be one of the first to murder them for something 😂 It's funny because most of them have girlfriends and I have a boyfriend, and when people hear that they're like "but yall have dated before, right?"
I have made a tier list: S- kind “pick me girl”, person who gives you gum without question, the person who let’s you copy their homework Sorry I’m too lazy to extend this tier list.
@@priv16 okkk A- the mother of the friend group, the quiet kid, the people at the back of the class who has a whole ass fridge, the kid who’s late to class and doesn’t give a shit B- the smart kid who doesn’t boast about how smart they are, the kid who has time to get Starbucks and Takis but is till late to class. C- the girl that has the best notes (but brags about it 🙄), the artist but she says she really bAd aT iT D-the kid who reminds the teacher the homework, the white kid who’s rich and decides that their basically God and can treat everyone how they like, the tiktok maniac who does nothing but scroll through and still gets A’s. The girls who go “smsocojslaxjodnans” whenever they hear drama Idk I got a bit sleepy, so do this doesn’t make sense just reply to me... byeeeeee😪
@@sweettea735 Lmfao "the girl who goes "smcojsclicsefb" everytime she hears drama" idk why but im laughing so hard at that rn 😭 also plss continue the listtt
it’s good cus she didn’t say “girls are too dramatic”. instead she invited another into the group. being accepting of everyone is what makes you a good person.
exactly. I hate it when people see my friend group and they’re like “good for you, girls are too dramatic anyway” like bruv. look at me. i’m a girl. u offending girls in front of a girl. I find that guys and girls are different in some aspects, but none is better than the other (in general).
Whenever there’s a new kid in my grade, I’ll always accept them into my friend group. Like I have a friend group of basically me and my bestie and whenever there’s a new kid then it’ll be the three of us and they always either end up hanging out with a different person and then becoming what you would call a “bad kid” or they end up moving. And when they move, it actually sucks. I’m always in tears and that’s how depression began for me- but this one time a new best friend moved away and I was sad. And the same year but when we came back from covid people started saying I was the reason they moved. Then they would also say that I hogged the new kids. Which they can be friends with them and hang out with them whenever they wanted. So every night I would break down in tears. It sucks. Because now I’m having bad thoughts about dying, and it’s all because of fake faces / fake friends.
I relate to this, I’m a computer engineering student and I was the only girl in class during the first semester, they added another during the second and I simply adopted her. She’s quiet and really nice. I love her a lot.
she was the captain of the sports team that motivated everyone, uplifted the team when they flopped or made a mistake and encouraged them to have good sportsmanship if they lose.
I love these kinds of people I don’t consider them “pick me girls” just because they’re always open to invite new girls to the group, while as full on “pick me girls” need to be the only girl in the friend group
I'm a bruh girl . And that is kinda true I'm the only bruh girl at school . People think I'm lesbian but I'm bi and no-one knows . I barely have girl friends I'm rough and tumble and I'm a psycho and I will litterally tackle the flip out ofyou if you take my phone and I never wear dresses lol wanna be my friend tho
@@nezukokamado7258 1: have you been diagnosed with psychopathy ? No ? So don't say that pls 2: "I never wear dresses I'm so weird lol" ...40-45% of girls don't wear dresses miss.
@notgonnalah Speaking for myself, but I would assume she's trying to get dirt on me to share with others behind my back, or would assume she's going to set me up for something humiliating.
I don't mean to be cocky or braggy so I hope you don't take it that way but I feel like I'm that kinda girl because I don't have many girl friends and I have a ton of guy friends but I feel like I'm that way with the other girls. like I happily welcome them to the group lol
Ah yes, the “not-mother-hen” of the squad. She’s just a bro, but low-key annoying like a mother. “Oh she’s pretty! You should talk to her. Fine, I’ll talk to her for you. Don’t do the weird thing with your hair tho”
The only girl in my group back then was also the concerned mom of the group. I was dehydrated from running and my friend threw a water bottle at me. She said: "Toma agua, pendejo." ("Drink water, dumbass".)
Bro people call me a fucking “pick me boy” because most of my friends are female… I’m gay, and they like my input on guys they wanna date. It’s really just that and the fact that I match their chaotic energy.
@@j.o.7521 💀😂 Bro I’m serious we’re all theatre kids that scream random quotes at random times. Why tf does that make me a pick me boy? Having a similar personality to friends is being “pick me” now? 💀💀💀
One of my best friends is a guy in a friend group that appears to be all girls. A guy that had some weird vibes in our grade basically asked him on which one of us he was crushing on, as girls and guys can't be friends. Yeeahhhh, the whole friendgroup was shocked
Once my friend liked a girl and i kept encouraging him to go talk with her because she seemed nice. They started to talk and a little before she was hanging out with us, she was the sweetest person with me, and I was so happy because I finally had a girl friend in the class that I could talk the things I couldn't with the boys. But she literally started to ignore me after my friend told her he just wanted her as a friend. And the worst thing is that when I started to hang out with a boy and the class discovered we had kissed sometimes, she started saying that I was desesperate for attention. That little bitch had the nerve
Being whined to by two guys your age with “mommmmm but why can’t we-“ on a public New York City subway station really does get heads turning, but I’m glad they see me that way 😂
I honestly would have been so overwhelmed by all that energy but so happy at the same time haha would have loved to have had a friend like that regardless
That's nothing, me and my high school friends used to race down highways in supermarket carts. Fun times, fun times. Definitively not doing it again anymore, too old for it.
Finally there's one that doesn't stereotype the " pick me girl " thing!! Like I swear, I hate those trends. Like there are actually people that are different than the other people around them and it doesn't mean that they are trying to be a " pick me ". Like, I am a girl and I am a lot much more different than people around me. Just because I'm saying this doesn't mean that I am a " pick me ".
I’m pretty much a tomboy but when I see all the tomboys being labeled as pick me girls in a bad way I feel insecure abt myself. So thanks for this. Good to know I can be tomboyish but not pick me lol
OH THANKS GOD SOMEONE ELSE FEELS THIS WAY!!!!! God it annoys the absolute HELL out of me when I say I’m a tomboy and people reply “iM nOt LiKe ThE oThEr GiRlS” like BRUH.
Then it would end up being the girl she is asking having a crush on her instead of the friend that likes her and it would create one of the best movie plots
I wouldn’t automatically call it the “best plot” simply because it would be a gay relationship but I can see it being a good plot being so well written. The two girls become such good friends and while the one girl is trying to help the other get with her male friends they end up falling for each other instead. Makes for a good twist too
yeah same here i just hate all terms like “being friends with the boys” idk it makes me feel like a pick-me-girl lol why can’t i just say that they’re my friends?
i have like no guy friends but I'm glad too, like pick me girls bring other girls down to make themselves look better. having more guy friends doesn't mean ur like that. I dunno there's far too many videos abt that too so this was refreshing.
I don't but it'd be cool if I did Edit: actually now that I think about it, I'm kinda like this but also not really. 😅 What I mean is, I'm super introverted so I'm not gonna approach people really, but I have three brothers so I tend to be more boyish. And if anyone is talking to my brothers, I'll probably talk to them as well.
this exact situation happened to me, i was so happy to have another girl in the group and she dating one of the boys now and i couldn’t b happier for them !!
The whole point of the “pick me” girl is that they put down other women to look better. There are girls who are pick mes who are feminine and look down on tomboys and such.
@@anayeet7821 yeS CANCEL THE TOMBOY AND PICK ME GIRL WTFFFF let girls be masculine or less femine without label PLEASE sometimes we do like to wear dress or skirts even if doesn't seem like it...
@@anayeet7821 Exactly. Tomboy and girly girl makes it seem like you’re either always looking like you’re walking the red carpet or you’re so masculine you’re mistaken as a guy. It perpetuates the idea that a girl can’t be both. 🙄
A girl just genuinely being nice: Me: **gay panic** Edit: I discovered that I'm actually omni, but for the sake of everyone who has replyed to this comment I'm gonna keep it saying gay lmao
I love when they’re like this but also not hating on girls for no reason they end up being the best friends because they can get along with all genders
People like this just make you feel SO welcomed and so comfortable. Like they see you and make you feel wanted. It’s just the best feeling in the world.
I had joined my school during the middle of the year, and I was just starting to come out to others as nonbinary, I met one of these girls and to say that it was a relief to know she had my back is an understatement.
I don’t exactly think I’m a pick me girl but THIS IS LITERALLY ME CAUSE IM IN A GROUPE OF GUYS AND I LOVE WHEN THERES ANOTHER GIRL LIKE FINALLY ANOTHER WOMAN👩🦯💨
This full on reminded me of one of my besties and I love it. She's a total sweetheart as well and we often call her "the vibe" cuz she always sings and dances to any and all songs so she just brings the good vibes in the group. It's funny cuz our friendgroup isn't even fully guys, it's split exactly in the middle with 3 girlies and 3 guys XD
One of my friends is like this...it can sometimes piss me off (the whole ‘hang with the guys’) but she’s really nice and calls me pretty all the time...
yeah this has always been me cause i LOVE having friends that are girls but it’s usually easier for me to make friends w guys so they’re my friends more but when i meet nice girls i get super excited and hang out w them too so yeah
