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I bought stability and purpose to his life- he took my kindness for weakness- but when you finally leave for good- it destroys them to the core. Why? First they thought you’ll never leave . Second, they know you are irreplaceable… I’m a living witness.

I know y'all notice that when they are gone how everything just flows for you so smoothly. No heavy feeling, no anxiety, it just disappears. It's crazy. That alone is keeping me on top and going higher. T you look so fly in those hats by the way!

When you hear or see they not doing good, DO NOT TRY TO SAVE THEM, you are witnessing KARMA.. This what kept me stuck in that cycle.. DO NOT contact them still. The thanks I got was the same betrayal and disrespect. They won’t appreciate you until you leave .. don’t go back..

Baybeee!! I was the wife primary supply best he ever had- when I left never looked back, that demolished that bum.. he even told me “ I need you more than you need me”. Family no your worth .. don’t ever go back! Your closure is their bad treatment!❤️❤️

WHEN THE NARSSICIST I DIVORCED REALIZED I WAS NOT COMING BACK, HE SUFFERED A FULL ON NARCISSISTIC COLLAPSE AND PASSED AWAY NOVEMBER 9TH OF 2022. HE TRIED TO HOOVER ME CONSTANTLY AND WHEN I DIDNT RESPOND, HE HAD A STROKE , FOLLOWED BY MULTIPLE ORGAN FAILURE, AND ULTIMATELY CARDIAC ARREST. HE CALLED MY SON EVERYDAY TRYING TO CONVINCE HIM TO GET ME TO CALL HIM. I NEVER LOOKED BACK ONCE I WENT NO CONTACT!!!

As Einstein once said, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result". SO TRUE!

Never go back to those demons THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE THEY GET WORST!! Darker more evil 👿

Being an empath, the fact that 'he needed me' was the very hook that brought me back to that dangerous place. Never again.

They end up dead and then people watching the news are like...... HE/she was doing so good, why did he/she go back???? F no omg man why God? Don't blame God, God gives warnings, people choose not to listen.

The narc I got away from barely with my life needs to be pressure washed with holy water.

I was created to stand in my power and I am not meant to be owned, controlled or manipulated by anyone! I am a free thinker and I can think independently. No one will choose or decide for me because they didn't create me and I deserve love and respect just for being alive!

I was put on anti- depressants . As soon as I cut off contact I was able to get off the Zoloft afte r 3 weeks. Never had anxiety or depression until I met him. Also I suggest fasting and going to church for deliverance. I got ordained as a prophetess this past Sunday after being kicked out of nursing school due the stress but God revealed him . He was trying to break me down so I wouldn’t know my calling . Total weight lifted of my shoulders. Thank you so much for the work you do may God continue to bless you ma’am.❤

Hoovering time is here. Valentine's Day... Do NOT be fooled. Please Keep strong NO CONTACT 4 EVER!

I haven't seen her....I don't go on their Facebook Page....don't know what's going on with her, and I WAS BLESSED that my Heavenly Father pulled me out of that with minimal damage. I was NAIVE....never dealt with a narcissists....didn't really believe that she was one (refused to believe that she was one). When I started researching and watching videos...I could recognize the game plan and the personality traits. Her being demonically influenced took this to a different place with me. I haven't seen her since November of last year, and it will stay that way.....

Amen Ms. Telsha it will be 2 years no contact in about 11 days, she Hooverd twice this week, parking in the church parking lot behind my house. Warfare prayers no doubt. Armor on.🛡️💯🙏🏿

Never go back, it gets worse everytime... That is a fact‼️ I know they're on some other 💩. Inviting me to funerals👀 WHAT? Family reunions all of a sudden 🤣👀WHAT? NAAAAAAH I'm good. They've set me up and talked about me too many times. DESTRUCTION COME BEFORE WARNING🔥

Narcissus view your love as week but they can't hate you, they don't see as important enough to hate you. it's more like they have a deep contempt for you because they ..NEED YOU !! 🙏

Girl I had to throw one out of my house with the clothes on his back cause if he just stayed another minute I would’ve been in jail for life

When the #narcissist REALIZES that THEY NEED YOU but YOU ARE NEVER COMING BACK!! Not GOOD!! 🚫⚠️🚫⚠️🚫Alhamdulilah rubilal amin!! Praise the Lord

Narc came back after the ship sailed for a temp check. I ignored him big time but he was already with someone else, back burner. He hoovered on his bday after he had gotten married, I was like, you need Jesus and that thing went off like a snake with his tail cut off 🤣 😂. I blocked him big time. He and new wife been blocked on every sm platform. He supposedly was a minister..straight up liar. Keeping my eyes and ears open and in prayer. Praying for all.

Yassss!!! Omg so on point! You know it's serious when the family wants nothing to do with them and that's when they come back with the love bombing and it's just plain pathetic! The desperation is so ridiculous! They pull out the religion card at that point. It's so sad....just sad. Karma.

So true! The narcissists tried apologizing to me through my voice-mail, although she was blocked, she used different numbers to get through . One voice-mail she said " I don't know what I did ". Another voice-mail she said " i know I've done somethings wrong but not for you to be mad at me like this ". The next was more threatening " you need to call me so we can resolve this ". The text messages came later " I'm gonna put a restraining order on you leve me alone". I simply went complete no contact and she seemed to have a mental collapse. I guess she realized she needed me, and I wasn't coming back.

Different isn't the word, they use the word better. They stay stagnant and we get better!

I will always be the one who got away and he knows it! 🕊️ Blocked 🚫 with the blood of Jesus 🙏🏼 Stay safe everyone 🤗 Thank you so much Queen Telsha for all you do for us. God bless you and yours, always 🙏🏼👑

If they would humble themselves and repent, The Most High will deliver and heal them.

The danger is real. I know up close and personal what it feels like to have people try to flip your life switch. The hatred I felt coming off her was worse than being in combat. I knew the combat would end, I never knew what would come next with her. #Walkingoneggshells

She called me, after almost a year later saying you never miss what you had till it gone, And am the best she ever had..TRICK NO GOOD, THIS TIME, THANKS TO YOUR CHANNEL QUEEN.

He started looking crazy before the brake up.

Truth. Discernment and vigilance is life saving with these demons set on destruction.

You better give us an Aaliyah word this morning lol….but so so true. I told myself once you block him, you can never go back. I’ve left several times but never blocked him. I know that if I were to go back that I would have to pay a different price this time.

Oh how this was me and the NARC and still dealing with him. WOW!!! And I'm going to have to keep dealing with him somewhat because of my legal matters and insurance matters because he really did literally still my entire world. Material things, financially oh my God in heaven, how much he took, he really took everything and didn't spend a dime and left me in a hole where I can't even pay my utilities when I was very financially secure when I met this person. For y'all to believe in prayers I'm asking for them.

“almost in a manic phase” (during that horrible time of discard)… SO TRUE!!!! I remember watching him acting out in such HATE. And trying to tell him this would absolutely be it, but he was a manic combo of hate/fury/excitement to leave me in the dust, confused & broken! Only someone who has experienced it can truly understand. Thank you!!!!! ❤

Well I'm on LM TF ALONE FOREVER.I never thought I could lack love for someone and that 💩 for me is scary because Jesus said to forgive and don't have an hardened heart, and I've forgiven so many times and each time my heart got harder, more hurt and I don't trust anyone. So after reading my Father/God word, I realized that I can no longer deal with them, not even a phone call or a funeral. I am more important than them, my life is more important than theirs and I chose God, my Father/ God is more important than all of them. I will be with my real family in heaven one day. These wicked people on earth are for a little while and not children of God. We will be separated one day, my only goal is to educate those who truly love him, the gift of knowing God.✝️

Yes! An empathic’s love is one in a million. ❤

I knew it. I knew it. I recognized the behavior patterns. From, what you have said in this video I have been saying for the longest. I have been watching everyone's video on this topic, but no one has mentioned what you've said. The narcissist behavior can lead to murder, because they can't control you. I have been saying how reprobate a person I know is. I have been warning people about that person. Everyone is like well they were abusive in the past not now, or whatever excuse t People have given for that person. The thing is when God is with you, He warns you about people. I knew this person had ill intentions, and I didn't trust to be around that person for anything. No. 1 I keep my distance. No. 2 I don't talk to that person. NO.3 I said I am going to let God handle them, and walked away. I wonder why no one has ever talked about how the abusive nature of the narcissist could turn to be so violent? Thank you for your honesty. Thank you for saying it as it is.

yup....the grass wasnt greener, and the hoovers started lol bridge burned !!

You know you gifted on this topic!!😅😅😅 “ Backwards Barking Giraffe”, gurl bought a house w/the Narc “after” divorce please do not go back!!! She’s telling the truth!!

Right they treat you so ugly and think your the problem, when they finally get rid of you, they think taking that same behavior into a new relationship will some how get a better relationship 😉

This is amazingly on time! This is my life right now! I been on NC for awhile now! I took it a step further and went NC with everybody surrounding her even the flying monkeys of hers in my family! She popped up at one of my family events recently I was so unbothered and nonchalant I saw her face and never looked at her again! I was told she lost a tremendous amount off weight borderline crackhead status ! The rage through text messages is insane God help her cause I never will again not at gunpoint 💪🏽💯

My narc and I haven't spoken since June. Bump into him randomly, last month and he was staring at me in the eyes. Sent me a dm, saying he miss me and sorry. Nope, sorry for ya. I'm not being a fool again

Right it is entities inside of them ( Satan himself) talk with them everything you mention is absolutely correct 100% , I was dealing with my ex and he continue to try to contact me and it will get worse

Telsha, You always look so nice, and neat, and well put together! Especially, on Sunday's. I just love the red beret with that blue turtleneck. It's POPPING Ms. Tea! AND, You are speaking the absolute truth about these Narcs. Narcissists, remind me of real life human crash test dummies. They are always testing out anything, and everything. And, we are nothing more than objects to them. They deliberately set booby traps for us, only to end up being the ones trapped in them. It just never fails with the numbskulls. And, they just never learn. Their brains must be permanently stained. Watching them, is like watching the demolition derby at the County Fair. They are just like all of those beat up station wagons flying full speed backwards, and ramming into everything. They're running around wide open, and nonstop. And, they've always got it floorboarded and stuck in reverse. Always crashing into everything that's in their paths. It's absolutely total destruction! They are completely out of their minds. They eventually end up looking like those old demolished station wagons when they crash and burn from all of their own self destruction. It's pitiful. The new supply can have that old dented up wagon for keeps. I'm glad he's out of my hair now. I don't miss the nutcase. Thank God he is gone. Yippee!!!

You ain’t neva lied. Thank you for giving me the strength to never go back and not only that, never go to one with a diff name. Forever grateful!

The part that hurts is while he was discarding me he taught my young daughter to do the same. 😢😢😢

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Definition of insanity for sure

The best feeling in the world is when you are done and you will never see them the way you did in the beginning it's game over especially if you were buying them things. I am free good bye demon.

I told him I wasn't doing it anymore. He found another after 24 years of marriage

My got up in court and said he love his wife and this divorce should not be happening. And then got up and said I need help. Because he don't know that girl and don't have a picture.

In 2 months, I read and saw over a 100 hrs. of info. on the topic. Mind opening ( recent hoovering). Your presentation is the only one which said: " A special kind of stoopid!" Nailed it and I love it! 👍

Yes. I've had the burner toss in trash phone #s I block them all. He will leave a yeah, yeah message. No Way. Not going down that road again. He Chose his Path, put me through too much Bull I can't do it again. I Don't feel Bad. I didn't Do this. He Did it!;! 🤣

My narc wanted to hang onto me and some woman he was seeing and I said - no thank you to that!

This is some wisdom right here!!! Thank you Lady T🌺

🥰THANK YOU PRETTY GODLY LADY FOR THIS WONDERFUL LESSON ON THESE DEMON NARC..... 💜GOD BLESS YOU AND MAY HE CONTINUE TO KEEP THE EYES OF YOUR UNDERSTANDING OPEN, BECAUSE WHEN HE DOES, I AM BLESSED !!!!!🙏🙏🙏

You look splendid in red, Sistar. Your message is🎯💎💯.

My EX narc, has his own place, a nice car and a good job, so he didn't need me financially at all. This was one of the absolute WORST relationships I've ever been in. He hasn't tried to reach out to me since the last discard. He discarded me 3 days before my birthday and I haven't heard from him since then. I don't ever reach out to him when he discards me, it's always him reaching out and I go back. He never stays away for more than a week and he stays in contact with my daughter (she's not his daughter). It's been a week now and I'm going to keep him BLOCKED!!! He's been dragging me through hell for 2yr's 😢

I promise they miss abusing you… miss the supply 💯 NOPE NOPE NOPE

Ms. Tea ur telling the truth...I did alot 4 the ex narc but he no longer will have what I gave him...I WILL NEVER GO BACK!!!!

Thank You Queen for this wonderful Birthday Message that I received 🎉🎉🎉🎉 It was my gift and my blessing. You always help me so much. I love the prophetic words that you bring forth to spread, encourage and inspire.

You got the hammer directly on the nail. Thank you! Validated the no contact too.

HEY MRS. TELSHA 💖❤️... THIS WONDERFUL MESSAGE WAS RIGHT ON THIS ME THESE DUCKS DO GET CRAZY AND TRY TO GET REVENGE ON YOU ONCE YOU NO LONGER WANT THEM OR ARE IN THERE LIFE 💯 WE GOTTA STAY AWAY ONCE WE LEAVE THESE APES ON ICE.. ITS A SICK WORLD.... THEY DON'T REALIZE ANYTHING IS WRONG BUT WE DID SO WE GOT UP OUTTA THERE LOVE YOU QUEEN ❤️ ❤️ THANK YOU FOR BRINGING THIS MESSAGE TO LIGHT ❤️❤️🙏

Thank you for this message. I survived the narcissist after 12 years of being a great provider. I would never take her back..I will stay in no contact because it feels so good.

I remember being told from my auntie.. becareful who you help, you just might be blocking their Karma. The Ex Narc is finally getting his & let me tell you … the flood gates are now open…!!! The list of things not going well at all for that duck wearing heels skating around looking crazy😂

This i💯 Correct Because this is happening to me as we Speak with My family Member She is Begging Now🗣️ to get back in My Life after no contact for Over a Year sorry no can do!!!🙏I Needed to hear this!!Thank You!!❣️🙏

Thank you for your wisdom laid out so clearly! ❤️🙏🏼 Shalom

He tried to pull me back in for a minute until I got a protection from abuse order and not a peep from anyone. His family disregarded me so i’m not surprised.

I Was Lead To Listen To This Video Again Because The Narcasisst Reached Out To Me To Have A Talk Face To Face With Him And It's Been 6 Months Since I Seen Him I Feel So Unsettled To Be In His Company Please Keep Me In Your Thoughts And Prayers

I was a great aid supply for one reason. My position in life and she magnified my family business. Oh it hurts so bad

Cant deny what u r saying so absolute truth. They r surrounded by such a legion of evil spirits that they dont give up on you.❤

It happen to me was only used because my ex went to jail and I held her down and I just felt that she was gone change when she got out and she did just what I had thought and crazy cause I seen a glare in her eyes the last night that I seen her and crazy cause I wore my company shirt to her family function and once all eyes locked on me it was so quiet I could've heard a pen drop . They knew that I was gone start my business and they didn't like how I was growing and still is without her.

Oh the clown told me his going to church now lol lol. I said that's wonderful, continue doing good and serving God. Bye bye narc. Not interested!!!! I'm sooooooo happy without the bird

Facts😎❤️💫. Also your always looking on point. I can tell the most high is definitely with you. God bless thx for your word.

It's so real! To God be the glory for making it out! It's amazing how all of our stories sound so similar. These entities have no mercy. My narc definitely pulled that "Imma just kill myself" card. I instantly knew it was manipulation at it's finest. They are very skilled at using self pity to win over a heart of gold. That's why it's vital to love God first. My narc didn't wanna do the work. And every time I would mention praying together and the need for spiritual grounding it was like I was talking to hear myself speak... It was a painful experience. But it taught me how the enemy will use your desire for a companion to destroy you slowly. All the hospital visits and failure in health was not worth it. Even the aftermath of purging them from our system is a dark place to dwell in. Praise God for discernment because since I began to love me how God loves me I can call a bluff from a mile away. The standard has been raised. What's left of our lives we must devote fully to our healing and our divine assignments! GOD IS GOOD!!!!!!

Thanks Sissy for another powerful video, I know I don’t comment much, but I’m subscribed, and I do watch, like, and share too.👑🌹💪🏾💞👍🏾

Yep! He was about to lie about being sick.

Mine tried to poison me 😂😂😂😂 he is a true nut job

Great power filled words from a very beautiful woman...God bless you.

Your charm and kindness Is just wow

I highly doubt he will seek me out again. I ignored all the calls, texts, and emails after he painfully devalued and discarded me. Hes told me before that he will not beg me considering there are 4 billion women out there he can chose from than to waste his time trying to convince me. Breaks my heart, but God did not create me to keep enduring abuse at the hand of a man who thinks abuse is acceptable. He told his coworkers and everyone he can that i left him to be with another man, I told him to twll then all the abuse he has put me through and see if they would see him the same. He knows what hes done and so does God. Praise Him for doing the revenege and disciplining.

You are lovely Ms. Telsha. Yes, it is a cycle of nothingness.

All of this is on point! I went through this with my brother!! The up and down emotional roller coaster and walking on eggshells and dimming my light is all over!! It took me years to realize that but I’m done!! I still love my brother but I keep my distance and keep healthy boundaries!! He reached out the beginning of this year saying that he wants us to be closer but his actions since then don’t match his words so I’m not buying it!!

Mine married the backburner supply 10 months later. And made it his business to let know that he was doing it. And sent a. Message via social and said it will be on my bday . I still didn't respond even though I wanted to but I knew I had to stick with no contact and it's been a year and 2 months for me so far.

He knew that from day one. The realist 💯. I'm happy asf where I am. Crazy I didn't listen to the red flags. He talked about how all his exs goes back to him. Smh, it won't be me. I had a crush on him because he love bomb me but I needed him or want him to myself. He needed me when he got locked up so I was going to be a friend but that love bomb trick me into being a gf so he could control me and have me help and support his ass. I became so depressed and crying all the time. The best feeling was breaking and handing him my work clothes and keys. I felt so damn free!!! Like I broke out of hell prison. I'm not looking back nor want to go that didn't. It's been a year. I'm listening to this to keep me healing and being stronger. ❤

I discarded my ex a month ago. I went completely no contact blocked everything including family members. He called me from the woman phone whom he was cheating with. I blocked her number also. I got quite a few random numbers. I fixed my phone where I can't receive private or unknown calls. Things are quite for now.

The games they play some of them to old to be playing games but hey put that crown 👑 on and walk away with ur head up high some ppls ant even worth ur breathe at all

You are a goddess from Heaven!!! You enlighten US ALL!!! The pain is real Ma’am!!!!

I've been loved bomb that 💩 I will never in my mf life fall for ever tf again🤣🤣🤣 that was a good one.

THANK YOU MS TEALSHA!! THIS WAS A WORD GOD BLESS YOU!!💖💖🙏🙏

I see him falling apart.

Stopped bathing working out started drinking drugs went back for a talk and a🔫 fell out of his pocket

Straight Truth! My love was one on a million! They also age badly!!!😳

Jesus, today 14 February 2023 i got another hoover after 8 months apart but last hoover about 2 months ago. Happy valentines day!! And did you have the police raid my home? Lol.... I no longer have the energy, capacity and thought for madness in my life. I just want peace. These birds are entities with nothingness

I did it about a month ago I unblocked the narc I could only text I couldn't stand to hear another lie I don't know why I did it but I told him I knew who he was and that I would never deal with him again He replied with giving me the finger I just laughed because he needed me I blocked him back it made me feel better I had went years not knowing what was going on on

I love that red hat. Red is your color. All bright, rich colors look great on you. We’re both winters. I look good in those colors too.

If you rocks wit yo girl ❤we rocking wit you 🙌🏽🙌🏽

OMG SO RIGHT. YOU ARE SO HELPING ME HEAL. THANK YOU

Amen and amen. Went no contact for a month. I don't know how he got through my blocks. He came through my phone blocks when I was sitting in a gas station parking lot crying and scared, on my way to the hospital because my husband had just had a heart attack. To say I was vulnerable is an understatement. His first message was, "Wow. Finally. I needed you." When I told him what was going on and I was scared he offered some fake sympathy, trying to pull me back in. Later in the week, as I drove back and forth to the city to be with my husband this cretin tried to convince me to stay with him so I wouldn't have to drive so far! I told him I'd kill myself before cheating on my husband while he was in the hospital with a heart attack. The narc became apoplectic, calling me names and insulting me worse than ever before, telling me that even though we'd never met in person I was already a slut, so what I actually did wouldn't matter. When that didn't work on me he became so foul that I blocked him again and sent him a message, pretending it was from my husband, telling him to watch his back because he would find him. Hoping that ends it.

Backward walking Giraffe is correct. I love you and that red hat!!

So true this beautiful earth angel she's always being a blessing the narcissist/devil will never changed empaths so please stop trying to change them and stop believing all their lies and deceptions for change remember a bad tree cannot produce good fruits empaths please continue listening to this beautiful gorgeous earth angel 😇

OMG!!!! He sure dogged me ro go back to the old supply jezebel which he did the same thing to...she took him back now he don't want her anymore either. Using and abusing her and she likes it because nobody else wants her because she have messed with alot of men. She is very lustful spirit

Omg, The Holy Ghost wanted me to see this tonight! Honey, ALL this happened to me Today, discarded, after abuse, and abuse,....now he's saying He is acknowledging he did discard me,😂...so sick, such childish boys tat are not whole people!