She took the kids yesterday morning..I'm completely beside myself with grief and depression and anxiety as I dont know where my kids are.. she is being silent but it doesnt anger me as i know she is angry, it just makes me cry that I can do nothing. Broken.
I know the feeling bro. My wife left a few years ago, and now she is with her new husband in Guam. Haven’t seen my daughter in a year. Know that you’re not alone. Be strong because I promise it will get better.
my wife left me 3 months ago havent seen the kids ever since i know 2 of my kids miss me cause i heard they cried months for me. but the little one may forget me soon. im so sad. but it is what it is. after hardship comes ease. i believe that
This happened to me a few days ago. He's right, keep your cool. Go into monk mode and contain yourself no matter how that is. Be patient. Take your time, make yourself better, remarry and build a new home with a great person. Then when the kids come live with you in a few years, you have the exact same family that was robbed from you, just this time with a better wife.
Brother stay strong 💪 in your mind. I know this hurts. I walk with you. Try everything you can with peace in your heart stioc movement and head high 🫂🙌 your the greatest father and man I believe in you brother you will survive this is temporary
I am so sorry you guys are going through this. After my break up, we had to go to family court. After 3 years, I won primary custody, as the dad. I don't like the idea when people talk about dad's getting to see their kids. We are not visitors and we are not designed to be non custodial parents. We have equal rights to be a primary or 5050 parent. Dads are essential in their children's lives, too.
@@lifeafterdeath1 Thanks for the reply. I am reading the other comments on the video and it kills me inside to see dad's going through this, missing their kids. These are the guys that I am making my docu-series for, on my RU-vid channel. I am sharing all the tools and strategies I used to survive the nightmare of family court. If you want to recommend my channel to your viewers, please do. It's there to help them. I have counseled guys 1 on 1, but I'm now doing it on a bigger scale. We need to change the world of family court, where they make it normal for dads to be minimized. Raising my son full-time is the best thing I have ever done. I want that for other dads, too.
Hi thanks for your video. I am going through and I am keeping it cool no matter the pain of not seeing your children is ! No matter that my daughter is calling me crying saying I wanna see you daddy 😢! She took our only car , the problem is how she’s going out there lying to everyone and saying whatever makes her the good side in this, believe me she is not ! I do not know how to fight back these lies
Thank you for watching and commenting. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Everything they say and do will hurt. Focus your energy on strengthening your love and life for yourself and your future. Your beautiful daughter is coming back to you. Get up and get ready every day.
My wife left today and took my son while I was at work, no note, no message, nothing. After hours of messaging she finally answered that she needs space. No clue where she is and whats going on. Im in a state of panic and theres no one. No one of our "friends" wants to help Or tell me whats going on
Oh my gosh I'm sorry. I apologize for reading your message late. And on that day it happened... wow. You are not alone. I wish that you have contact with your child and hopefully things are peaceful now. Please do keep in touch. This topic i will revisit on my next video because it happens to so many of us.
Went through the same nightmare just recently. Found out shes cheating me and taking our 3 kids with her.. Also finding out thats shes already renting a house with her new mf.. paying with my money.. The life just turned upside down at me.
I've been going thru all this past 6 months.. wife asked 4 divorce and took my little girl..she lives in another country i can only see her in video calls.. i left my old job, move back to my old country.. everything changed so quickly i couldn't even adapt back to this single life, alone with depression knockin on my door i took some days this past Christmas, only to spend some time w/ my little queen... Today is the last day w/her, this separation is killing me slowly 💔
Sorry I am responding late. Grateful 🙏 you are able to see your beautiful queen. You are a great dad. No matter the odds keep trying. But always love you and take care of you. Don't allow the pain to consume you. Yes it is a slow death if you allow it to influence your thoughts and actions. I love you brother. You are not alone. Stand and never give up 🫂🙌💪
Men need to support each other. Don't expect women to love you back no matter how many sacrifices you made for her. I have had my share of experience where the woman I loved never care about how I supported her when she had nothing. 8 years later she changed into someone I didn't know. That's why I believe that there is no right one. People change with time and you will be left broken hearted. I know it is emotionally draining as a lot of men tend to love their women emotionally but they don't get the respect for that. Take care of yourself and meditate if you can.
Thank you for your videos they have helped me tremendously. I have been so lost and depressed but now I am fighting back and rebuilding my respect and confidence. Again thank you for your very helpful and emotional videos.
Thank you so much for commenting and watching. Sadly we need to speak up and out about this unlawful tragedy. Sray strong and never give up on first yourself.🫂💪🙌
8 month pregnant wife with 3 kids. Left with kids out of the blue with zero communication. Just a going to the parents to get gifts for the kids and then 'legal separation.' May God have mercy on these children.. Before she left she deleted most of our text messages too. And most of them for last few months were only the name of a child and do the diaper.
This video gave me some relief that I am not alone . I understand but we are loosing out the golden moments of kids living with us. This time will never come back in our lifetime. when kids are about to be teenage or teenage things will not be the same as and when they were child. Why dont women across globe understand this when they too contribute for the split for all disagreements in the family. Why father in most cases have to go through this horrible times. Why can't GOD help us atleast to be reunited or have a living with our own children.
Devils are using women's not all but I see husband's get emotionally attached to kids and they them as property. I am fight to save my marriage and 15 false allegations done by her. She ran with all the stuff and my dear son. This women's end up in he'll. But any how judgment belongs to God. I think we need to be strong in God. We are all growing.. it all started all this when Eve ate apple. Now Jesus wants u to his apple. Understand this live rest of life God. Cry or do whatever pray to God.
I'm so sorry. The first thing is to keep your peace and know that this is a difficult time but you will survive and get through it. Secondly contact your military counselor or legal counsel and request to speak to a lawyer. Military men have rights to see their children. Also seek therapy or counseling. You will need it because the pain from missing your kids will cloud your clear thinking and time is of the essence in making the right decisions in order to spend time with your children. Lastly continue to live daily with positive thoughts and live a healthy lifestyle. There will be tuff times but the days get better and you will be in a better situation. Keep in touch brother 🙏 I'm here for you my email is in the description leave your contact info and my door is always open to you.
@@lifeafterdeath1 Thank you brother. My mind is running wild. Ups and downs, and I don’t know why it happened. There was no indication that she didn’t love me anymore, but I will take your advice and email you as well. I need the help and hopefully there is hope.
No one cares about mens problems. But be hopeful. Kids don't stay kids forever. Think. Take time to think and never let anyone or anything extinguish the fire of life within you. 🔥
Thank you for commenting and watching. It means so much that others understand. Sadly we all gather and share simular pain. You are absolutely right. Children do not stay Children forever. Love that statement and I believe that they all eventually come around.
I can understand but we are loosing out the golden moments of kids living with us. This time will never come. when kids are about to be teenage or teenage things start are not the same when they are child. Why dont women across globe understand this when they too contribute for the split for all disagreements in the family. why can't GOD help us atleast to be reunited or have a livung with our own children.
@@anishmathew6443 that is exactly what I think my girls are under 10. I won't get to cherish these years I really loved my kids company when I got home 4 girls they were loud. Now it's so quite I can hear the ants outside . This lonelyness and quiet ness is driving me crazy. I love the advice though
That's correct I am facing the same situation. I have taken to court, and lawer got involved. You are correct to understand that to consider as a process.
If you guys need help fighting for custody in family court, I am making a docu-series on my RU-vid channel to help dads enforce our equal rights in court. Otherwise, we got steamrolled. I hope this can help you. I have been in the position you are in.
Thank you so much for your video I’m in this exact situation my wife took the kids and disappeared and has spread rumors that I threaten to harm her I’mJust feeling like my world is collapsing down on me and I don’t know why.
I'm sorry you're going through this Mike. Keep hope my friend. Have you tried to reach out to them? Have you seek legal help? Is there any way to see your children? I'm so sorry. It gets better over time. You will have your children back in your life. Be strong brother 💪 🙏. Wishing you peace
Same exact thing to me.. and shes also cheating me and already renting a house with another man for 2 weeks now... Paying with my checks , behind my back...
I have a misdemeanor assault charge on me right now for my wife she lied on me and said she was in fear for her life and took my son. Will I ever see my son again? Can I not go to court for visitation rights eventually at least?
Watching & searching for answers everywhere with bruises on my eyes.. I dont care about male pride or anything.. i just cant let go my son.. that's all
💪🙌 stay strong Maddoxx keep your head up. These are fresh wounds and you can easily slip back into depression. Fight your pain brother 🫂 we are in this together.
The things you show to care the most are going to be used as leverage against you. Also, the softer the target you become, the harder they will try to hit you. It's counterintuitive, but when you show not having access to the kids is no big deal for you, she will figure out leaving the kids yith you has advantages (she'll need some time off soon and realize it's convenient for her that you have them sometimes). Meanwhile you have all this time to invest in yourself, so you'll be in a better position the next time you see them.
So sorry for the delay on responding to your comment. You are 100% spot on. I agree. We typically are clouded with painful thoughts and do not see this as a way to win the psychological game on how to find more time with the children. So wise thank you for sharing. Wishing you all the best.
Sauce GN 🙏 I'm so very sorry. This is a painful time for you. I will never understand why women use children to weaponize their power for their toxic feelings. I'm so sorry brother. 🫂 stay positive stay hopeful. Keep your mental strength.
James I'm sorry you experienced that. That upsets me the most about the system is a woman can claim anything and you have no defense to the allegations. Stay strong keep a positive mindset. Continue to rebuild a better you. You will see your kids again.
Oh my gosh J. I'm so sorry. Why don't you have access to the money? How could she? I pray you can see your kids. Stay strong. Have you spoke to a lawyer? Please keep in touch. 🫂🙌
@@lifeafterdeath1 she paid the bills so I just let her have it in her name. 30 days still not letting me see them. My lawyer made arrangements and went to pick them up and she refused also, the cop I called to assist treated me like a criminal.
Stay strong brother 💪 🙏 I walk with you on this journey. Time to build that mental muscle of power positive belief of the purest love and vision of a better version of yourself. I'm praying for you 🙏
Thank you for commenting and watching. I'm very sorry this happened to you. It's extremely hard. Same with me she's very wealthy and I lost all my savings from lawyers. Get back my friend. Don't give up on pushing to rebuild yourself bigger better. I am wishing you strength and peace 💪🙏
“You’re abusive” anytime I express my feelings. “You don’t know how to communicate” “Horrible father. Horrible husband” Not divorced yet, but she threatened it again this morning. I’m sick of it.
My wife jus up n left the state with my kids. She would never clean. Stay at home mom. She did not bathe kids, nothing, takes multiple antidepressant pills. I get upset in that position. She’s gone now as of 3 days ago. I dunno what to do.
If she’s neglecting towards the kids build up a case and use it in court to get full time custody,shouldn’t be too hard. My wife left 10 days ago with my 2 boys,13 & 11,cleared my house out while I was away for work for the week. It’s Father’s Day today and I feel like I’d rather die than Suffer anymore. Use the neglect thing against her pal,I’d kill to be in your position with the neglect thing 👍🏽
Sending you love and strength, my brother. You are not alone. We walk through this journey together. Keep your head and spirits high. Prepare your life for greatness. Your beautiful children will come to you and show them the greatest version of you. Strong, confident, happy. I believe in you. You will survive this.
What she doesn't want a divorce and just wants to control him? Takes off with his children and don't come back. What is that called? No beating, no cheating, no anything...she ups and leaves saying she was coming back after visiting.
Spouse asked for divorce 6 weeks ago. She never filed. I did her the favor and filed. We were all here living civilly but she decided to leave with kids without telling me where. It’s been 3 weeks
I'm sorry you are going through that. I can only imagine how much you miss them. She seems to be evil. Unfortunately. Don't give up on trying to reach out to them. Wishing you all the best.
So my wife held me as I held her on Sunday night. The next morning I go to work she's stays home with the kids. Text me at 9am we love you. 1 pm I get served no trespass. I finish my day at work go home to talk. She's not home took the kids the dogs half the house. No communication nothing. I love my boys and I'm a powderkeg of emotions. Claims physical abuse. I have never put my hands on her or my kids. Im just a mess. Any advice.
I'm very sorry Adam you are going through this. The mixed emotions can lead us to say, think or do something wrong we may regret. Stay focused and document your efforts in trying to communicate with your children. This will help you in the long run.
I am going thru this right now, first day today when she told that she doesn't come back, took my 4 year old daugther with her. She was supposed to go for 4-5 days to her mom, instead of coming back she just went to a single mother house and told them lies about me to get a governmental shelter (i live in germany but im polish btw and here, in the eyes of state mothers can't lie). We were going thru very rough times lately because the whole corona crisis left us in a very bad financial state where we had often choose between paying bills/rent and having food. That led to many fights as you can imagine so i am without a doubt guilty as well for raising my voice too often, but i also feel like she especially was choosing words and things to say that she knew will trigger me. Anyways, she left me alone, i don't know where my kid is as she said that she is bound not to tell me, i dont have anyone close nearby, with a colossal financial debt that i can't even afford to pay off right now or in the near future, ( and i mean is that the monthly rates of everything greatly exceeds what im able to get from my job). And i probably won't see my daughter until they receive a flat to live in from the state which can take a couple of weeks or even months. And i am forced to try and sell everything i own just to be able to move out from our current flat that i also cannot afford alone, and look for the cheapest thing i can find because i will forced to pay her for the child soon as well. I feel sad, angry, lost and alone. I rarelly comment anything on YT but i just couldn't help it. Think im just going to prepare myself for the most special christmas and new years eve of my life, as i'll be spending them completely alone. Cheers to you, i will still try to keep my cool, but i just don't know if im strong enough after what she did to me and at what times.
She took my 4 kids and left. She is accusing me of abusing her and the children and she took me to court to stop me seeing or even talking to my children
I had an eviction I couldn't support everything she took my two step children after 10 years I just wanted a home for my family now it's just me and my son and I'm trying to stay in this world for him I moved to a wonderful place but I still feel like nothing's good enough without them I didn't get to say goodbye and it's destroying me I just wanted to see them finish growing up I wanted to buy my daughter her first car I wanted her to love me as much as I love them they were a part of every major decision Iade in life now all I have to do is take care of myself but myself is broken
My wife told me she’s done being married to me. She wants to move back to our home country n it’s 6,000 miles away. I don’t want to have to be apart from my so n his only 2.8 years old. She’s being selfish from acting like this.ive been down and depressed. I can’t think. 😢
She's definitely being selfish. Sadly women are being groomed by outside influence to replace any and all things from shoes to husband's and toxicly supported by family friends and outside influence to replace if their heart feels hurt. Rather than healing through difficult times and finding a common ground with your partner to continue the process of love and family and togetherness.
Ok, this is not similar to our situation. I told him that I was leaving and we needed to separate. The abuse was getting out of control especially since we had two littles. Our son would see him punch walls and see me getting abuse, not physical but mentally and emotionally. He also would yell in front our son how this was not a family and threw his phone breaking it outside where our son was playing because I told him I was okay with getting a divorce after he asked for it. I let him know in advance that I was leaving. He grabbed our son and yelled "You're not taking MY SON!" Which I was shocked since he told us that he would be better off if he didn't have us around. He cheated and didn't tell me until 2 years afterwards. And was upset that I wasn't over it after a few months of the news. Went to therapy and that made it worse, he would try to manipulate and control the therapist. While I was pregnant, he told me that he wanted me to get an abortion. He also emotionally discarded our daughter and would say how surprised he was she came out beautiful. To this day he says I don't let him see our kids, when he has had them 3 times for 4 days since we have been separated. He also had to go under a investigation after calling the police on himself because I mentioned to him that I noticed when we plays with our son, he tickles his private parts or how he gets aroused when our son sits on his lap or how he allows our son to grab his penis. So, a separation was more than needed. Now here I am feeling obligated to go back because I mentioned to my mom I was being mentally, physically, verbally, and sexually abused and she says, couples go through this all of the time, you can work it out with him. Long story but this had been the life I endured before I left after 10 years of a marriage.
Thank you so much for commenting Lovely. It means so much to me and many men to know good women are there to open the door to fathers. Thank you sister 🫂🙌
I'm so sorry you're experiencing this. I'm praying for you. Stay strong in mind and body. Continues powerful thoughts of a beautiful life for yourself will produce immaculate results. Project love inward and outward despite the pain. You will survive. Keep in touch. I'm praying for you. 🫂🙏
The thing that sucks is that after getting advice from so many family lawyers it seems like no matter it’s gonna be a very expensive legal battle that most of us simply can’t afford especially when they are no where to be found or they wanna fight back
100% TRUE. It's a huge system that just wants to suck the financial life out of us. Thank you for watching and thank you for commenting. Wishing you all the best 🙌🙏
Sounds like my ex... Did the whole r. O. Kicked me out of my home and put my kids on a r. O. She lied and said she was afraid and got an ex parte court order. She ruined our lives and she spent all her money on attorneys and now she's broke and crying.... Women never learn.... They ruin kids and ruin families because of their selfishness....she brought the attorney in and I'm disabled and had to find an attorney and we went to court for almost 2 years. Women think attorneys are their white knight saviors. Unless you have more than 2 million in assets dont hire any attorneys.
