My Wife Left Me for Her Lover 

You dodged a bullet.

The same ❤

Bro, you need to buy a motorcycle, go on a road trip, drink fine spirits, learn to dance, up your game, become the best version of yourself, bang strippers, and have the time of your life! You do that and women will follow.

Sorry bro. Stay strong.

Good. It takes time, but it gets easier.

Whole facts!

lol

Amen!

But it’s hard letting go at times

Love this comment.

Facts. She thinks it’s greener on the other side, she will find out the hard way and she will be the one crying 😭

Yes, she probably had good reason to want to escape him especially since she disconnected her phone. We have no idea what her side of this story is, so I'm glad the caller didn't track her down and harass her from her front porch like Jon encouraged him to do. How despicable. .

@SarahG16925 You're saying then it's ok to track someone down and harass them? Yikes.

She’s going get back for the Alimony or pension

I heard a Pastor say the other day "Take a look at your life and be grateful because it could ALWAYS be worse." So when I feel myself going to a low place I think on that thought.👍🏽

Same!

Lmao. The kind of weak cU ck who would call in to hear John Deloney’ s..imp advice, is the exact kind of guy who women are going to leave. Don’t these guys get it?

same here...

For real! 😂

Yup most likely. Might be a year later maybe more or less, gotta protect yourself and not get sucked back in

He is a simp. He will take her back. Mostly losers that are on the call.

Why would you think that? Trucking is a hard life.

@@mouzziewouzzie2305 on the contrary, this guy seems like he has character. He'll do better once he's over the trash that took itself out.

Closure is something you create for yourself

It all boils down to whose bed she decides to sleep in. If she’s gonna pick someone else… Then I’m gonna pick someone else too 😂❤

that's next to impossible.

​@@roboneil408 not impossible, just a lot of hard work and time

Closure is a bs story made up of trickle truths so you can feel better with the break up or betrayal. Basically useless.

You should at least see if they want to repent.

@@SpeedfreakUKthats for Christ not her.

"Girls trip" equals trouble.

You really told your entire life story huh....

That was a long time ago. Dont you make mistakes ? She sure did Maybe she repented and changed and wants a new page

a Liberty at its best.

probably why he didn’t mention her age😎

I'm sorry, but you're totally wrong. What she did was wrong. This guy worked and worked and worked for his wife. She is wrong.

​@@williamdacosta9026you have basic reading comprehension issues. Sort it out.

@@williamdacosta9026mate are you so obsessed with correcting people that you hallucinate peoples opinions?

​@@wideningcarrot6 Or there was a deleted comment he was replying to 😂

He didn't know about the other guy when he said that.

It happens, he loves her, it is what it is

​@@mblake0420no he's stupid lol. She gonna do it again esp knowing he will be gone long hours and days. All by herself?? Ofc she gonna cheat.

That's what's knownin the Hispanic community as a benajooo, cabronnnnn, pendejooo or coje cuernooo... that's what's your son is now.😂😂😂😂

@Tom10288 I'm a truck driver, my wife has done the same, she straightened up 15 years now. Just depends

​@@mblake0420Until she does not. It may worked well for you but according to statistics cheaters are likely to cheat again. Go look it up.

So true

I worked two jobs and travelled six hours everyday just to provide for my family with this POS woman. And what she do? Cheats and sleeps around with other men and eventually leaves me for one of her ex lovers. Blaming me the entire way and time.

And she expects him to bring in all the money that’s the reality for most men who work long hours I’ve seen it happen to several people even though they are in the 1% they have to work to get the money can’t be in the house all the time

my now husband the man of my wildest dream went through this with his first wife. not sure why she could leave him . he is an open heart loving man . i never understood that. i thank God everyday for that man ❤

@@klopcodez…but men want their women to stay home and rely on them for life’s needs. Of course how much a man makes monetarily matters to a woman who is expected to be the “woman” and reliant upon the “man”.

@@bluetickbeagles116 Not all men want there woman to stay at home…expect to a woman because of what a guy makes is a laughable statement what exactly makes you more or less?..what has changed about you?..it’s 2024 not every guy wants that even if he makes lots of money

Absolutely. He doesn't know the guy at all and the guy probably thinks all sorts of bad things about him due to his wife. So it doesn't do the caller any good to focus on him at all. The wife is the one who owed him her loyalty and she failed in that

Yup if anything the side dude should be cautious because he might be the next victim after the honeymoon phase is over

The only person I'd send to her front porch is someone from a law firm with a notice of divorce.

He is a Beta Simp. Please honey can you stop giving him a BJ and come back? Awful.

To be fair he didn’t hear that she was cheating yet

John is a simp.

I went through this 26 years ago. The wife left me with out two young children and a new mortgage. She was having an affair with the building supervisor of our new home. Fortunately, our new home was based on my income alone. I soon realized that I had been alone in the marriage for years. She refused to help me with our kids and the daily/weekly chores. Intimacy was rare between us and most of the time I got yelled at for trying. She tried in her own manipulative way to come back after two months. There was no remorse or an apology. I said No. I got the divorce done in 5 months. Good luck to you.

@@racebannon96 hope the kids turned out fine. And any idea what happened between your ex and her affair.. These people are so broken.

@@kiddytube3915 The ex married her boyfriend. He was on dialysis for years. He got a kidney transplant but he still drinks alcohol. I saw them a few years ago at a graduation event. I almost did not recognize her. She looked awful. She had a scarf on her neck to hide her turkey neck. Her husband looked like a stick. I am still surprised he is alive. Weird stuff.

I hope he sees this comment

Sweetie, women never leave out of the blue. I hear this excuse from men all the time. She probably spent years telling you what was wrong and how to fix it, and you did nothing. She probably did the vast majority of cleaning, cooking, raising children and a thousand other tasks, whilst you did nothing but sit on your fat ass and fart all day.

Yup

All men deserve better

​@danerichards7280 all women deserve better too. So where does that leave us.

Wow. Guys can be asses, too, for sure. But most guys I know wouldn’t do this. Many would sleep with her no doubt. But most aren’t interested in gloating or tormenting you. They just want to have sex with her and move along.

Huh?

@@Stanley_954, ditto.

Your dad seems to be a cool guy

🤣🤣🤣

Nope

I'm pretty sure she was telling him she was unhappy and he failed to listen, which would be very hard being home only 2-3 days at a time. He was absent from the marriage, let's be honest!

@@bettysmith4527tf are you talking about she cheated. Lol men can never win

@@bettysmith4527 Yeah let's be honest. She is an adulture trash can. Karma will get to the lying cheatin trash

Disgusting comment zee

Good for you. Best wishes.😊

Sorry, fiancé of four years means zero commitment.

@@carylhalfwassen8555 We were college students wanted to finish our degrees before getting married.

Only for a woman.

All the more reason to never trust or put a woman at the forefront of your life.

@@futurefunk88eddins96 unless it’s your wife.

Never trust your wife. Ever. @@rebeccaoprea9917

What. Actually especially your wife. Kings its your kingdom. She is invited into your world. @@rebeccaoprea9917

If a person is happier with someone else, then it wasn't love.

Just happened to me Saturday. This exact same thing. It’s scary accurate.

Me three.

Nahh... it's a tale as old as time. Hundreds of blues songs have been written about this exact kind of situation.

@@Fishsticks187open your eyes man. No one said it never happened before….

@@JbkwoohooyeehaI think you’re the one missing the revelation (book in the Bible about the end of time) reference

That closure thing is never good

If you were able to have kids with someone like her, then it's highly likely you were ignoring her red flags and have many of your own. Child support payments are meant for the well-being of the child. If you can't put their well-being above your relationship drama and ego hassles, you shouldn't be having kids.

Child support is to support the children.

@@SarahConnor562 I don't know in this particular case, but most women earn these days and do more than their share of household chores. I doubt she'll be gaining much unless he is wealthy. Custody is not decided based on the hurt feelings of the spouse that was cheated on, it is based on who can be a consistent caregiver. To think that he is perfect would be naive, he chose her for a reason. Stupidity or red flags of his own, either way looks bad. Also, most men can't stand to be single, and would gladly throw their kids under the bus and find a younger woman to build a new family with. Not good for the kids. There's a reason why there are more single moms than dads out there.

@@SarahConnor562you are illogical. How will this trucker raise the kids? You do realise that money is only a small part of parenting right? It is idiotic to expect a person who never did the care taking the kids until then to have custody. That is like pushing a donkey off a cliff and expecting it to fly. Facts don’t care about feelings. Regardless of how anyone feels, she has been the primary caretaker. No point thinking emotionally about this.

This is why even men need to choose better.

The grass is greener where it is watered. Sounds like he wasn't watering it at all. He was working 24/7 instead.

Yup

Wow I did not know that a woman needs to be "special" to expect loyalty and fidelity from her..........

@@BarnzTT a woman in this arrangement has to set aside her own needs frequently and day after day handle most things herself. Some women can do it, yes. Some.

They have no problem spending the money tho... Sounds like women are overgrown children

Stop defending a cheater

I've heard and seen stories about infidelity with Truckers. Either the wife/girlfriend feels lonely and cheats or the guy, having affairs with different women on the road. I think the lifestyle isn't for people who are wanting a family because if they have children, those kids will feel like their dad is always absent.

@@neneyounge Agreed. I would want my husband home with me and active with the kids every night. Being a married single mother does not sound fun. Do that while you're single. There are plenty of other trades/careers to choose from.

My ex husband was a truck driver but HE was the one with the triple lives while I was at home with the kids.

I should have cheated had I known he would betray me.

@@SarahConnor562 Of course, I don't want abject poverty but I don't seek luxury either. Not every woman wants that. I want my family together, healthy, and content. That is priority. I want my kids to actually know their dad, not just his money. If my future husband ends up getting a job that requires travel, then it would need to be something that allows us to travel together where he could still be home every night and I could home school the kids if necessary. For example, my bf spoke of possible missionary work, which we agree that the whole family would go. That is the only way I would agree to that. My bf and I both grew up in 2 parent homes, where our dads were technically home but weren't present. And if they had something to say or more likely yell, it was mostly negative. Bf grew up poor. I grew up middle class. We are shooting for middle class, but if the Lord blesses us with more, then great. But our vision is a God-led marriage, a comfortable living, and a house filled with love in action and word, and appreciation for even the little things. We're both frugal. He saves tons because he is very handy and can handle a lot of house and car maintenance himself. I'm a pro at saving, budgeting, meal prepping, etc. You'd be surprised what people spend excessively on (e.g. Starbucks every day, eating out multiple days a week, doordashing and instacarting everything, excessive or expensive shopping, etc). It's usually different for everyone. Without self control, it would be easy for me to eat out several days a week, and it would be easy for him to buy tons of expensive clothes. Solution: Set a reasonable budget for each category where we can still do those things, just on a budget that enforces a limit. So even on a bad year, I'm confident we'll still be able to afford road trips for hiking and camping trips. If we can afford one modest vacation a year that requires a flight, then we'll take it. If we can afford more, even better. Fyi: We both appreciate SAHMs. His mom was one and my sister became one after working the first several years of their marriage. My parents have always both worked. I'd say my mom overworked to afford more expensive things. So we have first hand knowledge of what all sides look like. We're taking lessons learned from the good and the bad and creating the future we want. But we also recognize that income and life circumstances do change and often unexpectedly. You have to truly be in it for richer, for poorer. And keep communicating and respecting each other through the changes. Being a SAHM isn't my dream, but if we come to a point where that's just what makes the most sense at the time, then I am fully capable and ready to give it my best.

Did you file?

💯

Crazzzyyy😭

Cheaters do not need an excuse to cheat. I know plenty of overseas workers whose marriages are just fine.

​@@SarahConnor562Wow. Kudos on you for having these beliefs. Very rare these days.

Then when he's at home all the time you'll whine about that too... Women are full of 💩

He said he only worked as a trucker for 1.5 years. I'm not sure how long he was married. She had to be cheating.

​@@BarnzTT How can you possibly know that there isn't any infidelity in those marriages? Are you monitoring those spouses 24/7?

Question, would you cheat on someone you love? Of course not, they never loved you, that’s the hardest part

Now I know what this means because this exact thing just happened to me. Like exactly this.

She went down for sure lmao😂

Females are masters at manipulation and lying. Don't blame the poor guy tosser.

No, men always choose better no matter. It’s only the women who need accountability for their crappy choices in partners. Dude’s choice is fantastic. 😂😂😅

I’m know plenty of men that have chosen low quality women. Both genders are capable of making poor choices.

@@Emptytopflooryes acc to these men, their decision making doesn’t matter at all. No matter what they are all right 😂