When You Can't Wipe Your Own Butt (Freedom Wand) (Self-Care Aid) 

I am severely disabled, I have stenosis in my lumbar spine and cervical spine, plus I have rotator cuff tears and snapped tendons in my shoulders. I have severe problems cleaning myself after using the toilet. I have tried many of these types of cleaning wands and I find them all too big and clumsy. They may be ok for the less disabled person. My solution is a toothbrush with the longest handle you can find, wrap toilet paper around the bristles then use it to clean yourself. It works great. It is easy to clean and it can be kept in a small jar near the toilet.

You are two brave men :-) You have recognized a serious need. When you get old the bathroom rules can change and suddenly you need this kind of help.

Thanks for broaching a taboo topic. Having spinal fusion surgery soon and thought of this potential issue!

Thank you I've been to many Drs because of range if motion compromise and not one of them ever talked about this.God Bless You

Thanks for this very informative and tasteful video Bob and Brad!

A toilet seat bidet attachment from Lowes or Home Depot. About $35.00 - Best bucks I ever spent!

Wow thank you for this information. I am about to have hip surgery and I had not thought about this but I'm so glad to have this information. Thank you

Have one and LOVE IT! You two are awesome! May God bless you both!

what good is showing a product without demonstrating even on a dummy model of how it is supposed to work!

Thank you for the review, but I see problems with it. Snap together never works well. They always break down. Concerned about the claw trapping debris as well as other segmented pieces. How long will the claw hold up over time? Looks nice, just having trust issues.

No, this is not a subject we don't want to talk about, it's a subject we NEED to know. We need to talk like adults and not giggling kids about bodily functions

Very informative I googled it. And I'm a subscriber to you all. I'm 62 and disabled can hardly clean myself. I'm getting nervous.

It's so nice that technology has created the ability to have forms to address real life problems. Keep it up.

how does one reach with the stick though? Egyptian toilets are good, the ones which have a water pipe to wash the bottom with.

OT here :) Always love watching your channel! You guys are great!

So....i appreciate that Physical Therapists are showing an interest in this Activity of Daily Living Skill customarily addressed by Occupational Therapists. Here's a tip - purchase the Scrubbing Bubbles Magic wand (DON'T Use the clorox cleaning bar on your body - i know, but legally I have to say it). Just use the wand with a wad of Toilet paper. It cost about $7 at Walmart vs your $50 Freedom wand.

I had a multilevel fusion done. I bought a long handle silicone tipped set of tongs. It worked for me . Never easy to deal with some of these issues so thanks. They did not have this on the market after my surgery. I also used a bottle with water that had a lid that you could squirt water where it was needed. Must say that worked and then used the tongs with toilet paper dry my now clean bottom.

Patients should be told prior to surgery and encouraged to buy a device . It's not fun finding out after surgery ! !!!!!!

I came here to see demos on how to use these devices and found BnB! So, knowing their videos are of good quality, I watched their video first. I’ve seen similar devices on Amazon, but this one seems superior. 1. It’s made in the USA. 2. It has variable lengths, which can be necessary for various needs and users. 3. It can be easily transported, as it breaks down. 4. The end seems narrow enough to get the job done properly. 5. This one has the hand strap, which others don’t. For some, the strap may be quite helpful. The only thing this video didn’t show was how to use it. But, other diagrams and videos show that, so it’s not completely necessary. I think the features mentioned above, may justify the higher cost.

I'm having issues after a back injury( middle too. lumbar area stiff). What exercise can I do to improve mobility

Did not find this product on your Amazon page....

paper falls off and dry paper dont really clean.best is the dishwashing sponge with built in soap liquid dispenser and 2 inch sponge can be changed.

Bidet!!! Amazon sells the toilet set kind both heated or not (tap water doesn't feel that cold, generally) or a sprayer that hooks onto the wall or over the tank. Installs in five minutes flat.

nice aid it is helpful for ADLs thanks for sharing website address

Brilliant guys! I am looking for ways to handle this situation for after shoulder surgery and you show using two hands to apply the TP! Ain't going to help!

I have severe rheumatoid arthritis in every joint.... My elbows and shoulders are the worst right now.... My daughter doesn't really like me bothering her at work to come home and wipe my butt.... I'm definitely going to try this. I tried a different one but it didn't have the curve at the end so it didn't work well... Thank you for this video.... I'll let ya know if it works for me❤

I have a back injury and have struggled with this.. I first purchased a wand ( not this one) but one from Walgreens. But it was too large and cumbersome and the pincher broke within no time. So I came up with my own solution. I bought a toothbrush specifically for this purpose. Then I take a long piece of toilet paper and fold it in half two or three times then place the toothbrush half way onto the folded paper then fold the top half back over the toothbrush then fold the sides over eachother and twist everything around the handle till its tightly covered then wipe and then pull off and dispose. I keep a toothbrush in my purse in a baggy as well for times I am out in public restrooms. Very discreet😊

I stopped wiping altogether. Just change my shorts every couple weeks and it's all good.

I'm envisioning that gripper thing making direct accidental contact with my nethers. Not good.

I was worried because I am going to have surgery humerus surgery and I want to fill clean. Thank you for sharing this video.

So are you standing up or sitting to use this best?

They said they had another link for another video, but I don't see it under show more nor on their playlists. There isn't a playlist for toilet issues.

I just had total shoulder replacement three days ago. Off topic a bit, I've been hearing air leak I'm assuming coming from the surgical sight...not 100% sure maybe it's all in my head. There is no pain, infact I've noticed so much of the stiffness has gone away. My shoulder still feels weak. I'm hoping things are healing correctly.

Do you guys really recommend this product above the others that are on the market?

How are you supposed to do the folding and wrapping with one arm?

Thanks for advertising from vertigo keeps bothering me my hand seems short so how can I get one to buy

Enjoy your videos.. however, did you forget your wireless micophone ?

Lmao. I can just imagine trying to clean this thing in a public bathroom sink when there’s a lot of people in line

I get my wife to do it, its cheap & she does an outstanding job !

it is also very important for every one who works out like crazy, once you have so much muscle accommodated you cant reach back there you are disabled.

Good video and helpful

I know many people with disabilities and this would be a god send for them. Thanks for posting this

I unfortunately was blessed with a very long torso and short arms. This makes bathroom trips embarassingly hard. I’m glad that I’m not the only person who can’t reach.

I didn't even have to go two this morning, and yet there is a skid mark in my underwe ar. How could that have happened? I even remember rinsing behind in the shower. Should I wipe every chair I sit down on? I have OCD. I can't always tell proper sanitation from absurd compulsions.

Double up on magnesium because the medication slows the digestive system so when you do have to go you won’t be compacted.

Amazon carries 12" to 18" teachers to grasp a wipe or tp. Works great, especially if you have sciatica or can't bend.

I am curious if this would work with my father that has Neuopathy in his hands its kind of hard for him to open an close hands, an wonder if he would have the strength to pinch the toilet paper to place into the feeder.

I seriously didn't knew there was something like this

How durable is this tool? I'm a big and short person, 260 lbs & 5'4", and I'm having an issue wiping in a public restroom or an airplane bathroom; thus, I think I will soon need something like this, for I will be taking a trip to Spain from NC, and I don't think I'll be able to unless I have this tool or a similar one. I appreciate anyone helps here. Thank you for your videos. 🤔 P.S. I couldn't find the tool shown in this video in amazon!!!

I'm in that weird part of RU-vid again.

where can i buy this?

I had a wrist fusion. No one warned me about not being able to wipe. Doctors should warn patients!

I'm looking for something like this and for the most part, it looks like it would be very helpful but in my case, I need something with much more of a curve. Presently I use a cane. I just wrap the toilet paper around the end and then use twist ties to keep it in place. It works but I have to believe that there is a product out that would be more user friendly.

I find that wrapping the wand with TP, once you’ve knotted and placed it in the gripper, helps keep the wand from getting soiled. They’re are demonstrating how to attach the paper based on a video from the designer. But, I’ve found wrapping the wand and tucking the end into the hole on the wand, works best. Be sure to wrap the TP over the gripper so you don’t soil that part, as well. This is a great tool when you’re not at home, but getting a bidet seat is much better.

I've had a frozen shoulder on both sides. That was fun!

Has anyone had a Orthofix Bone Growth Therapy device to help in recovery?

Thanks, RU-vid, I said I needed some help putting bras on, not... not this! I'm facing neck surgery, though, and I wonder... but in the meantime, I know that something really is wrong thanks to a physical therapist (and neurologist, and spine surgeon, of course), despite being told differently by my gaslighting butt of a former doctor, so thank you, physical therapists!!!

I need this for my patients

The switch at which you grab & release with is to high up on the wand in my opinion. I don't want to take the entire wand out before I release it to get rid of the rag!

For men, stuck with one of those smaller round toilet seats instead of the oblong style better suited for men, these rods are hard to use. Bidets don't necessarily clean you enough. And I've used a Japanese toilet with all the extras...the warm stream, etc. You still need paper. Then the warm stream. Low back disc problems can cause sheer agony if they move when wiping. You might not be able to stand up. Like me today. On that damn small round seat...

Are the gripper parts hard plastic or what. Don’t think very safe to use if you must wipe with much pressure. Especially someone with hemorrhoids. And much more paper needed to get clean. If it only holds tiny amount at a time it would be an hr getting wiped, refilling over and over.

"I WOULDN'T USE IT FOR SHAVING." LOVE IT, THANKS !

Recovering from shoulder replacement, esp reverse total shoulder.

When you guys were talking about difficulties of wiping, I was looking at the skeleton, thinking, “If they could just cut his arm off at the elbow and design a way for the fingers to make an operable fist.” 🤣

Just want to say “thanks for this idea”. Post op double fusion, no one to really help me with this issue and then I remembered your video.

You guys are awesome ❤

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When I threw my back completely out, I was bed ridden for about 3 days. I could reach with a painful struggle to wipe when I urinated, but no way I was going to reach the back. So I literally did not allow myself to defecate. Just said nope. I didn't really eat either bc I was afraid that I would have to. It's a very scary thought that you wouldn't be able to wipe yourself!

No one is going to wash that in a public restroom!

Pretty neat but still requires a significant amount of gymnastics for someone with a back injury and limited ability to bend and reach. I think a toilet seat bidet attachment would be easier, and in some cases cheaper, and everybody in the house could use it. 😉

Dude that glasses trick was sick I was not expecting that

How does it work?

Lol I was expecting exercises for helping range and reach...I was very confused.

Lucky for me I can reach. That little bit of tissue would not work. In fact I use a damp washcloth. Because my bowel movements are a bit messy.

PTs doing OT work

I thought you were going to teach us a stretch to do to help.

I just had right shoulder (dominant hand) rotator cuff surgery...

Why not just use a plastic bottle filled with water that has a nozzle on top? After I had my children, I was given this plastic type bottle because I had stitches after childbirth.

Have either of you tried this contraption? Please do and tell us how it went.😂 They do have different types but please try this one.

I use the three seashell method.

QVC. Demonstrate it. Inquiring minds want to see it in action. Would sell like hot cakes for Christmas.

I don't know about putting the wand on the counter after using it in a public restroom. Other people use that counter. I like the grippy part, but couldn't tell if you had to keep the button in a certain position. This wouldn't work with spastic hands.

thank you.

this may work for public toilets, but at home, install a butt washer either built into the seat or on a hand unit that can easily clean without having to touch your butt. Much more sanitary and very common in Asia.

Glad you are addressing this. Very expensive!

what about a bidet?

I got a loved one diagnosed with Guillian Barre Syndrome paralysis and can't turn to wipe the ass

At times my back pain is so bad I can't even wipe or sit up and is forced to the floor. Sometimes taking a few hrs for it to ease up. Thankfully the shower is closer.

i remember going on a diet as soon as i thought about buying one.

I bought one similar. Hah! Would have been better off using corn cobs.

Grateful!

Is there a stretching exercise that will give you more flexibility to help your reach back there and clean yourself. Not a tool.

If you only have one for instance use youe good hand and use baby wipes!

Aren't there any exercises to increase flexibility and range if you can't reach your derriere, instead of using an aid.

A bidet that has a dryer works wonders. Saves on toilet paper too!

Good to know.

Much cheaper and better ones on Amazon. Work so much better.

So much has changed in 8 years.

The struggle is real!!

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