@@AduAndMummaVlogs Malvika is a kind of girl who everyone wants in thier life. Even if we don't know we can assume things from vlogs and all. His husband himself told that he didn't wanted to commit and want to explore other flowers (women) but he felt pressurized so he married malvika. Also Malvika is a strong girl as she didn't did abortion and even after deciding for divorce. She bought the baby and raising herself 💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Such a hypocrisiy from Akhil's side,he is asking people to dm him if someone is low,alone and confused,whereas he cant understand the pain his wife is going through during pregnancy and he will counsel others..pls.I cant understand him.And malvika is trying to move on..which is natural..it takes time..he has moved on or what that he has open up counselling
I've been following Malvika for a couple of years, but this news has broken me soooo much! For some reason, it just felt so personal! As if I'm facing these issues in my own life! I just tossed and turned the whole night last night, thinking about how life must be for her! Pregnancy is SO tough, it changes a woman like no tomorrow. You lose your identity, you grow in size, you don't feel beautiful anymore. And to imagine the shit she's going through in this phase of her life just breaks my heart - while putting up these seemingly happy and everything's fine videos online! It takes so much courage to put on a smile when you're actually shattered to pieces inside! Sending all the prayers and all the strength your way! You are enough
I agree with all the things you said EXCEPT that in pregnancy you lose your identity ❓❓You grow in size---Obiviously and You don't feel beautiful --who told you all these things about pregnancy or being pregnant.All these is absolutely not true .I would suggest meet few pregnant ladies n talk to them about their experiences.🥴🥴🥴🙏
When I first saw the pregnancy announcement video, the first thought that came to my mind was “but she said she never wanted to have babies” and the fact that you addressed it and said “you are allowed to change you mind whenever you want” just came across as so powerful to me and I’m sorry for having judged you. You’re so strong as a person and I always take something uplifting from your videos. Sending you lots of love, Mals ❤️
She was going through so much, and we had no idea. Mals you are an inspiration, this too shall pass, hang in there , the best is yet to come. We all love you ❤️
It's the first time i saw a parent going for therapy so that the child has not to go. I wish my parents had😢 I have struggled so much bcoz of my parents, so much trauma which no child deserves ...sending you virtual hugs and a lots of healing ❤️ I'm so proud of you that you are sharing your honest journey, no sugarcoated stuff, it's the truth guys Life is not sugarcoated so accept it. Show some respect to this women who dares to be honest and vulnerable, maybe we'll have to face this situation and i know many people are, Atleast this way they got somebody to relate to. So proud of you Mals😊 Love from Sehar❤
Hey i feel you here i know so many of us have seen shitty childhood and feel the effects of it all our life. Most of our strengths and weaknesses come from our childhood and it's fine. I also use to think that my parents are the reason for all my limiting beliefs and yes maybe partly they are but one thing is for sure I can't keep blaming them because THEY DIDN'T KNOW ANY BETTER and once one accepts that hard truth to the core healing comes naturally. I know for sure that parents do the best they can and they are not perfect either they are humans just like us but if someone can find the strength to forgive them I can assure that one also forgives themselves easily, it's like we are all connected somehow. I hope everyone here finds a possibility to see their parents as themselves, and choose to heal.
@@MansiSharma-vp8mm don't give advice if u don't knw abt bad has lighting parents End of the day u r supporting and generalising that parents are good what's the point you are trying to make here?
@@charmtantra hey there I have had issues with my parents all my life and trust me I know how toxic those situations can get, i have experienced it first hand that's why I said I can relate. I am going to just say one thing by not forgiving our parents no one is winning and if someone is losing it is us, we are the ones who will always have issues if we don't let go it's like being locked up behind bars with the key just lying there for one to open. Its a process and takes time and i am also midway there but i know if i want to change something in life i cnt keep playing the blame game, there is no point.
Akhil will regret big time may be not today but 5 years down the or 10 years down the line. What a beautiful family he could have had. Ruined it. I am a girl but if I was in Akhils place, i would have been so grateful to have someone like Malvika who loved you so much.
so fake itne vacation le liye is sal or bolri h ek b min is sal apne sth spend nh krey 🤣 shut up yr khud se nzre kese milati ho ye sb bakwas kr k tum actor
BABE EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT? DO YOU HEAR ME? WE LOVE YOU MALS.. YOU ARE MY FAMILY..ITS BECAUSE OF YOU THAT I AM WHAT I AM TODAY..YOH HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THINGS YOU HAVE DONE..YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE BABY..STAY STRONG..I AM JUST 16 BUT I AM SO STONG AND SECURE BECAUSE OF YOU..JUST HOLD ON BABY
Now she’s blaming people as always…well did ‘people’ paint a picture perfect life of yours!!?? Well people even didn’t know you, you painted your own life in front of people picture perfect or whatever it is Don’t always blame others in the name of self love and self care and being kind to others, to prove your own point you re actually not being kind to others I never comment on Instagram RU-vid but Malvika has been doing this for a while in the name of self love or preaching
I cant understand why the hell akhil,he was his best friend to hurt her during pregnancy,pls i wish its not true..she needs him the most at this time...this shows his immaturity
Being a psychology student, I am so glad we have people like you in this world, whatever you said is absolutely true. Any issue will be solved through therapy! In fact, my professor had mentioned once that every counsellor needs a counsellor. And you are truly strong and I am very happy that you are so aware of your feelings and emotions and in the second video of your pregnancy playlist, I recognised that you really needed some professional help and I am so so so glad that you did...your child is going to have a greatttt mom! Coming to social media, you've been extremely thick-skinned and it is absolutely okay to feel the way you are feeling. Also I have cursed(not kidding) people who comment hate under videos, especially yours (like really, who could even dislike you?) Sending lots and lots of love, support, happiness. Love you Gals, I KNOW YOU ARE STRONG!❤
Hey revati.. I read your comment nd really appreciated the way u recode this . Can u pls do my help too. I feel so I'm also in mental dilemma but have no one with whom I do share nd they also feel and gice me any advice or else which is helpful for me . Can't tell to parents coz dont wana bother them. most of d time i shared it with my bf but he also fed up. Mostly things revolve in my head. I also start losing interest in traveling in myself nd even dont find motive in life. Jo krna h woh kr ni pai abhi b nd papa want me to do jo ni krna. Even I dont feel happiness it feels it I'm acting to myself. Ki khush hu pr actually m I'm not. Pls help
Same. I still can't believe it. They had dated 10 years before they got married. Mals was a teen and now she is in her 30s they grew up together. It must have been really difficult for her that too in pregnancy🥺🥺
Exactly mine too but i feel like she should share a lil about what actually happened my assumption is its coz of her pregnancy bcoz there was no Akhil’s reaction video on that announcement and after that we never saw akhil taking care of her during pregnancy Might b he wasn’t ready for this but this is tooo wrong if this was the reason
In these vlog series how Mals haven't taken Akhi's name for once in terms of her support system, she would mention her mum and girlfriends numerous times, makes you wonder 💭??? Or maybe its just me?? Well i wish everything turns out amazing❤
Shadi k baad real chz samne aate h especially jb inlaws relatives involved hojate h... Apne lie b time ni rehta balance krna pdta h it's tough being a womn
Been following malvika for 7 years now! Never felt that she was going through so much! I used to watch her self love videos in my low phase for hours. She always radiates so much positivity and still continues to inspire me.. Proud of you malvika!!! You have come a long way!!
I could not sleep hearing this sad news. Akhil is such a coward he will regret big time. U got this girl. We all love you and wish u the best. Keep the good work and lots of love and luck for the baby
I could not sleep hearing this sad news. Akhil is such a coward he will regret big time. U got this girl. We all love you and wish u the best. Keep the good work and lots of love and luck for the baby
These emotions are very common. It's ok. Did you ever wanted a baby. Coz it doesn't seems like from your past vlogs and insta stories. Was it even a plan baby aur god gift and then you refused to have an abortion
Divorce is a big step. The problems brew from sometime before you take such a huge decision. So maybe they were in the bad situation before this itself. Also, I feel their trip was kinda like the last attempt to reconcile. But unfortunately didn’t work.
@@Life-O-Holic I agree!! But it's just soo surprising... they've been together for 14 years now and after so much time they've spent together...things turn out the other way!
My 2 cents • Malvika - you are doing a GREAT job. Your baby will be proud of you for taking a stand. • I wish everyone learns to see into a guy- beyond just crush, looks, money. See if he is a family man. Does he superseed your needs over his. Relationships are madeup of small or big compromises. • 10 year or 1 year- if someone puts themselves above you- no matter how long you have been togather, one day you get done. • GIRLS - please know TRUE LOVE is all in stories. Real love is - small gestures, geneuine care, making time.
I haven't been active for 2 years so i didn't know what was going on with her... But today i was thinking i haven't watch malvika for so long ....but i didn't knew she was pregnant had a beautiful baby and her husband left her😭 god i feel so bad....Now iam happy that she is so strong now❤
I think you felt off during your early pregnancy because your sixth sense was active about what’s going to happen later on. Sometimes we do feel in our gut that something’s wrong despite everything around seems fine and then we get these sudden dark thoughts and sense of loneliness. And after sometime what our senses were telling us becomes reality but that don’t hit hard because for quite sometime we were feeling something was off. It’s not a judgment but my own experience.
I had no idea of who’s judging you for speaking up about the difficulties of pregnancy. I feel so surprised because I am so glad that you’re letting people know what no one told you. Many women feel alone in their suffering when pregnant because the dominant media portrayal is all happy and goofy. I have heard of so many of my friends feeling as if it is only them. It their problem that they can’t deal with the changes but if only they knew that they were not alone … and thanks to you many of us will know that this is something that may come up and if we do have a difficult time mentally then we know we are not alien - not alone. Thanks for doing this. It takes courage.
I can’t imagine what ur going through and hope no body ever has to go through what u r going. Now we understand all the crying isn’t just pregnancy hormones. Feeling that ur going to be 1000% stronger than what u started this journey as. All the best to u and ur baby 🦄❤️
I was pregnant a year ago and I felt exactly same, exactly shocked by the fact why I’m not happy despite this beautiful blessing and so depressed and anxious most of the time, my husband lost his mom , she died literally 2 weeks after I got to know I’m pregnant. I couldn’t lean on him much either. Thank you so much for sharing your experience but I wish someone had shared it when I was pregnant. No one at all i knew had gone through this and I had minimal support. My husband was the only support I had despite his mom’s death, he tried his best to love him, however I felt so unloved and hurt despite him being really nice to me. So finally I came out as a winner , I still feel some postpartum blues but I’ve I come out as a winner. I’m blessed to have breastfed my daughter and it really helped my I believe, it naturally produces oxytocin hormone and helps you recover and heal. Going through it again still feels scary but I’m so glad I was blessed with my daughter . Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it literally resonates my pregnancy story emotionally and mentally
I love you so very very very very very very much! You’re super strong! You’re sooooo genuine and what you see is what you get! That’s just how you are! This must be incredibly tough! But if there’s something I learned - you can’t move on from this.. you can move along with this! You’re so damn strong! You’re too precious! The best is yet to come Mals! I wish the world for you
It's actually so so much breaking my heart knowing about her just yesterday I got to know she has got separated from her husband whom she loved madly and shared all her moments with him and the way he said I am a butterfly she literally cried but controlled her emotions ooh la la
Not even once she addressed akhil ..just my mum..girlfriends that's it?!? I really hope everything's good at your end !! Sending you loads of healing energies ❤💫
It really needs a lot of guts & courage to take such a big life changing decision. No amount of years guarantee a life time of relationship, people & situations do change with time. you are a very strong gal for being able to choose your happiness over others and kudos to you for being so honest and vocal about your experiences, sharing it all out there so openly. More power to you Mals.
Its truly heart breaking and i m shattered by this news how could it be possible u guys were having such a beautiful life and then u both planned ur lives with ur coming baby so why he decided to move ahead by leaving both u nd the baby behind..its truly not be acceptable nd justified.. But i want to cheer up u how strong nd confident u r instead of having this much pain nd depression lying down inside u💔 we r with u hope u will get rid of it soon and will be the happiest one ever with ur child
Hii Mallzz i just wanna give you a hug and say everything is gonna be ok. You are beautiful inside out. I really mean it 🥺❤️ Somehow this pain doesn't suit you...i have always looked up to you as someone who's so bubbly, graceful , cheerful and smiling. I want you to be the same. Don't get bothered to change yourself for anything or anyone literally. Always there for you here when you wanna vent out something ❤️
Going through the same journey of being separated from someone who was a part of my world,my mum. She was a single parent so basically my only family as I have no siblings. Though as you said we have people who care but trust me guys it is not as easy as it sounds. More power to you mals, this feels so personal to see you go through so much at the same time but as we say " this too shall pass". Love you girl❤
Hi bhoomika Feels like you are going through the same as me My mum was my whole world and I lost her No siblings no one So I can empathize with you Lots of blessings to you
This is heartbreaking mals, 💔 i always thought that u have perfect life, loving bf, lavish life, foreign trips, i used to thought that wow she has perfect life.but nw puri thinking hi badal gai dude.
So all this time she was talking about her life and motivating herself by talking with us. I felt so sorry for her. I actually take her words and it also helped me in my marriage. I hope she will heal soon 🤍
This video was spot on! Like I don't know how but this was all I wanted to hear and I'm thankful that it was you Mals! I was actually looking for a word for the coming year and you directed me to it, "heal". Love you!
I just can’t process the fact that it happened..but nonetheless Mals!!!You have been and are… awesome😭❤️We have always loved you for what you are and all this doesn’t change the factttt that you will be an awesome mother❤️and for the work you do🥺….you’ve been the best…and you always deserve the best . Coming out and speaking about it when you are going through the worst is an epitome of strength woman!!!! You inspire so many of us🥺so always always always…be proud of yourself 🧏🏻♀️cause we are💗i hope this helps🥹love ya❤️❤️Stay strong❤️
Hi Malz, I started following you during covid when I found a makeup recommendation of your video on RU-vid. I love the way you connect with us, everyday life lessons, lifestyle and make us laugh with your funny accent. I have looked upto you for how sorted and grounded you are. I love how you resemble me and every other girl out there. But today, I am broken seeing your news. I don't know how you are handling this and if you are doing well. But again, I am so proud of you. I am so so proud. I can't imagine the strength, courage and grace that you are carrying along. Keep this up Malz. Keep being someone whom we can look upto. Thank you. Love ♾️
I can't even imagine the pain the pain you went through. But nobody deserves disrespect or anything that you know you don't deserve. You will get so much better things in life. I wish you peace, happiness and abundance. You will make the best mum ever.
Will be coming back to this video in some months or maybe years, when I'd need to hear Mal's advice. So to my future self - Dont let a man ruin your life, pick yourself up, be your own cheerleader because your're enough!
Mals! Just saw your post yesterday. Please stay strong and don’t let it affect your baby❤ All are with you 💯 Sending lots of Love, Positivity and Strength ♥️
Malvika, I've seen your journey since INTM. You've always been my favourite person. Just know that whatever is happening, is happening for the best of you. The best version is yet to come. Please hold on to life. This harsh phase will end soon. You will overcome this very soon. Just hold on. I promise you, you will heal. Things will get better. SOON 💓
Where is Akhil? We haven't seen him in your videos. Also you don't talk about him. What happened? Is he okay? Is you guys are doing great? Just asking for concern 😟Mals.Love you ❤️can't see you crying 😢
I criedddd🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️!!!! I love you malzzz......u r the bestttt....I look upto u....u r so positive....PLZ DONT CRYY.....❤️❤️❤️ ..u spoke what is in my heart ❤️...alwayssss there for uuuu❤️
Earlier when I used to search for your channel, Your engagement vdo would always come first. But now for the past few days it doesn't. I hope and I wish everything is fine. Take care..
How I wish I could come there and give you a big hug. So proud of how you’re addressing these emotions and how people should work on themselves and HEAL. It’s so important to accept what you’re going through because pushing your emotions away will never help, it all comes back so yes HEAL YOURSELVES, do the work. Sending you so much love and strength Mals!❤
Everybody who knows you know how empathetic you are and how hard you love your people! You are one of the most mature influencers out there, we know you have taken the right decision for your self and for your angel baby..I’m pretty sure everyone of us have shed a tear for you! We love you so so much, may this year be filled with healing and love and happiness for you❤
Mals...please please take care of yourself .. this all seems just so shocking to me.. you both were a perfect story for me... And reading all about the separation breaks my heart.. May God bless you and the little soul ❤️❤️❣️🫰
At the age of 26, i got depressed with life and tbh! I took me alot to overcome it,that’s why i can relate to you very much malvikaa. We got thisss, we still need to heal but we definitely got this.
You make me cry today ! I am your fan from Bhutan . Since 2017 I have been following you , both Instagram and RU-vid ! Hope you know me …….. i always look up to you ! Why kindest people are being betrayed or get hurt! … I love you mal mam …
In this video it seemed you were suffering from all those mental trauma from your pregnancy which is not true!! You were suffering from a seperation and made the pregnancy journey look like a terrible one!! Highly misleading......
Dear gurl definitely its ur life definitely u r a human being and definitely u r allowed to change ur mind but wat u don’t realize is at that point of time wen u were describing all negative aspect of having a baby in this world u do influence ur thoughts on people hearing you. U never spoke about changes in ur thoughts & being maternal etc. suddenly getting to know u are 🤰 definitely puts everything in question. I wuld not want to take ur any recommendations or life lessons or advices seriously any further which i used to take.
How far she has come... Watched her story time about her relationship when they have already parted ways. That chirpy malz has grown up to a whole new tangent
Even though i stopped following her on ig but watching this video makes me so sad. She is such a kind hearted woman and strong woman. You never know what's going on behind the camera. Stay strong Mals❤🥺
I have been watching you from like 2019 . I may not know everything about you , I always saw you as an influencer and a make up artist but today watching you cry made me cry , like how something bad that happened in your past or even is happening to you right now , wrong choices , bad friends , bad relationships every shit just leaves a mark over our personality and we cover it up like we our dark spots with concealer , we never think of how big that pile is becoming and how is it affecting us . Been there man I totally understand what dark place you are talking about . I hope you feel better after sharing this . I hope I could hug you and tell you how amazing you are and how brave you are for sharing this online for showing such real emotions so that everyone could see this side of pregnancy that no one knows about or talks about . I hope the best for you mals . You are like a bug sister to me ❤️. Lots of love to you 🫂. You are the best babe . Everything will be alright . And I think I am gonna buy a journal for me and my best friend and start this process of being with myself for some time in the day . Like a new year resolutions thing 😂😘❤️ . Lots of love yr hope you feel better 🫂
Thank you for being so awesome ❤❤❤❤ yes, the best gift you can give yourself this year is to work on your inner child ❤❤❤ it’s so important to heal and do the work
I am literally crying watching you like this, oh god I don't know how much u r going through, hope you pass through this 😘 lots of love to u and ur baby
I am not even pregnant but this is so relatable. I went through this the entire year and I have no idea what went wrong and still don't. But I hope things get better soon. It feels good to know I am not alone❤️❤️😊
Same. This year was heavy . I went through the same phase. Really didn't understand what is going wrong? Good to know there are so many people like us . I wish everyone heals fast , 2023 be awesome
@@aditimodi8013 Definitely something about this year. But I guess we needed this to dive deeper and emerge as the best version of ourselves. If traumas are not healed they will pop up at some point.
Oh man 😮💨😮💨😣 I swear. This year was a lot. Let’s begin the new year with a new perspective, shall we? Let’s let go of the past so we can focus on the present and be here. Sending love ❤
It’s still difficult to believe your most recent post! But you are a putting up such brave face. All strength to you and your baby. I don’t know what has happened but I had always adored you and your partner together but I am pretty damn sure you will shine brighter with or without anyone along. ♥️
Hey, don't get me wrong but I feel I the reason why people constantly say things about how you are suddenly pregnant is maybe because of how strongly you used talk about not having babies at all. I will not lie and honestly I was also taken aback but at the same time was very happy about your pregnancy. Also, I think the transition could have been more smooth had you decided to kind of throw hints on your audience. This is something that I just feel! Baki, I really hope you have the amazing journey ahead and have a very healthy baby and family life. All the best for your future! 💝
Lots and lots of healings, love ,warm wishes and what not ! And yeah can't wait to a glimpse of the baby, a new phase ,mothehood and ofcourse your community is always there. ❤️
You are gonna heal so beautifully malz ✨ 5 yrs from now.. life with your cute baby is so happening and growing andddd loveing... I'll still be seeing you n smiling 😘 we love you okay 😘 you glooooowww 😘
