Juliana Cheriza for the most part it’s true. My Nonna had 8 kids, and only 1 of them (my mother) takes care of her. But ask her who she loves the most and she will always say her firstborn son.
I'm the only child and I'm not the favorite. :) Yes, I agree with Loni because it makes you stronger when you're not the favorite. I'm very independent, know how to take care of myself at all times and I think for myself....no interruptions and I don't care if someone likes me or not. My favorite parent is God. When I have a problem, I go to him. Peace for me.
I tell both my kids that neither of them are my favorite. Dolly, our retriever, is my favorite 😂 She’s well behaved and loves me. Plus she doesn’t open the door while I’m in the bathroom.
K - I completely agree. I have 3 siblings and I knew my younger brother was my moms favorite. We are now in our 20s and 30s and he is still shown favoritism which is bull but whatever 🤷🏼♀️
@@pama3863 Not in our household. I also know many households that let daughters be a lot more spoiled than their sons. They may not get away with more, but the boys are expected to do more.
Jay J it’s not sexist it’s just like how fathers go above and beyond for their “princess” it’s just my perception, I just feel like moms have a soft spot for their sons and fathers their daughters... might not be favouritism but there’s defiantly a difference in treatment there
MY momma would say me. lmaooo BUT that's because I listened and was obedient. Sometimes favorites are the child who causes less stress or heartache. I was also born the same day that my Grandmother passed away years before. So she links me with her most favorite person ever.
@@zaynakanu9691 That's not always the case at all. I've definitely met more mommy's princess than I have girls who were Daddy's princess. A lot of girls I know don't have a very good relationship with their father or they're scared of them.
I've asked my mom this in multiple languages and I always get the same answer: "I have no favorite. There are qualities each of you (three of us altogether) have that I admire separately, but you all stress me out."
Kindah Learn how to read, she said moms not “parents” and nowhere on earth are mothers harder on boys and softer on girls lmaooooooo its the reverse sweetie
I think parents love them equally but I mean just like everyone else there are just some personalities that mesh was while together. That includes your kids sometimes you just get along better with one. My mom's favorite is her first born son lol I'm the youngest and only girl
I have a favorite child. It doesn’t mean I don’t love the other the same, but right now my youngest is my favorite. She’s still needs her mommy and I love that.
In high school a teacher actually told us in many family dynamics the oldest son tends to be the mother’s favourite and the youngest daughter tends to be the father’s favourite. Not sure where she found that information but it always stuck with me and proves to be true almost every single time.
I think the idea or feeling of “favorites” stems from different experiences and circumstances with each child (maybe you almost lost that child, or grew to love the same hobby) as well as everyone has a personality (adults and kids) and different personalities mesh differently.
Yes, my elder brother is my mum's favorite, she never hide it and very quick to tell everyone including us children. She loves us so much, so to my baby brother and I we are not bothered because of the amount of love we receive from her. When I was about 9, we were just chatting as mum and daughter and she explained some of her reasons for that special love for my brother, one of the reasons was that she is an only child, waited almost 40 to have him and both almost didn't make it, when she was telling me at one point she was sobbing, she said he is her life. She really didn't want to try again with me but when she had me she was happy that at least my brother will not be lonely as she was growing up. She had a miracle baby out of nowhere, my brother! She insisted my brother he is her Sunshine's and paved the way for us. I couldn't begrudge her for that.
i have 7 and I can honestly say my favorites change over time as your children change but you do have one that particularly get along better with at that time but it's been all of mine by now at one time or another
You hit it on the head.How you get along with them.Its easier when they are younger to say you love them all the same.But,As they become adults it comes down to personality.And sometimes as your children get older they deal with you differently.So,It can become kinda deep.Im a Mom of five.
Our 2nd born sister is our mother's favorite. The whole "mid child is forgotten" thing definitely doesn't exist with our mom. The rest of us could do everything for our mom and she'll only recognize Rhya (That's my sister's name). But yet they all know I'm the smartest lol.
Girrrrrrlll the smartest is hardly ever the favourite!!because u not soo needy so Mommy doesnt feel like she has a role to play in your life.im the smartest and most independent in my family.
@@mgeijho lol I can't tell you how much your comment cheered me up! What you're saying makes sense. And I'm proud of you regardless if they are or not💖👏
Tamera know dang well her favorite is Aiden, “Aiden is my lovebug, I like to cuddle with him” while Ariah is, “cool, I like to hang out with her” and “it’s actually the opposite” exactly Aiden favorites Tamera so Tamera favorites Aiden, who knows maybe Ariah saw how close Tamera and Aiden were and knew she couldn’t compete with such closeness, so Ariah chose Adam so she isn’t left out from a parental bond (that actually could have happened, kids are smarter than you think and notice these kinds of things)
I always thought it was stupid to have a favorite but now that I have two daughters I understand Lol I love them equally, no doubt, but the little one is more cuddly (and my last one) so I tend to give her more squeeze hugs and kisses while my older one just wants to play like a "big girl." The babies tend to get more spoiled, I guess. 🤷♀️
Kathy Keaton it isn’t thinking too deep, kids are smart and notice these little things. Most parents loves their kids equally but you might just like one more so it’ll be different
Ariah was Tamera’s fav the first time try spoke about this topic, and the kids were younger. She said their personalities got on better. So it clearly switches over time.
I have 2 kids and one on the way and i couldn't even imagine picking a favorite honest to God. I love both my babies the same. They're both my favorite lol
- I’ve always thought that if a parent can’t or won’t love and treat their children equally they should’ve only had one. No child should EVER feel like their sibling is more important than they are. #ProudMotherOfOne and he’s my heart! 💙💙
When Tamera said she was going to get in trouble. That took me out lol! I believe Aden is currently her favorite because I remember maybe a season or two before he was not at all.
@@taiyonatiare7918 I’m the youngest and the survivor out of my other three siblings that passed away and there’s 5 of us all together, so my mom calls me her miracle child.
Honestly. I grow up in a dysfunctional and abused household. I was beyond happy that I was not the "favorite" and guess what? I never wanted to be the favourite. I don't care if anyone liked me or not. I looked after myself 100%. My favorite person is Jesus.
@@elizabethtimothy4776 Sorry but you are wrong. Everyone does not think or live the same. See when you grow up feeling like you are treated unfairly sometimes you vow to never treat your kids that way. Again, sorry but you are wrong. To even think of making a difference with my kids disgusts me.
M. Alexa i don’t think you have to demonstrate different parenting or love to your kids. But there is one that you feel a different connection with, it happens with everything, (friends, parents, pets, coworkers, significant others). So it would only make sense to feel it with children too and that doesn’t necessarily make you a bad parent. It just means you have different bonds with each child and one may be stronger.
No parents should have a favorite. That is just my seeing and believing. It can damage the one that is not the favorite especially if you look up to your parents and realize you are not the or a favorite child. Just mess with you mind and thinking.
It’s funny when ‘outsiders’ can just tell who the favorites are lol. I tell my husband all the time who his favorite sister is, who his parents favorite kid is, etc.
Moms tend to favour their son just like Dads tend to favour their daughter. But with Tam its so obv to us that Aiden is her favorite she makes it worse pretending like she doesnt have one 😂
I think Adrienne’s the favorite and she knows it but she doesn’t want to say it cos it would hurt her sisters feelings! She gave it away when she said “ I appear to be the favorite because I live in the other side of the country “ Good Scorpio energy!
I heard someone explain that particular disciple wrote his own chapters and referred to himself as 'the beloved' because that's how he chose to be seen, as truly loved. Most of us don't want to see ourselves as fully loved. It was powerful for me to hear that. 🙂
Aiden is her favorite cuz he’s whiter. I’ve noticed it from her IG pics for years. Lighter skin kids are always the fav. Aiden is th dads fav too. Arya gon be an angry girl one day.
I think this answer varies by person... no two people are the same, therefore, no two parents are the same... I've never been the type to pick favorites, period. I don't have a favorite child (out of 6) nor do I have a favorite sibling (out of 8). Some people do and some people don't... everyone's different IMO
It's not a big deal to you bc you were also favored by someone, and bc the other sibling is also a sister. If it was a brother or both your parents favored your sister...then it would be a big deal.
