WHITEFOX BOUTIQUE CLOTHING HAUL & TRY ON | Buying Non Binary Episode 1 (2023) 

ik, you see so many creators doing hauls upon hauls of clothes it seems so wasteful, i really love the idea of bringing your friends in! and you get to see so many different styles this way it’s great

A man that calls himself nonbinary is still a man. A woman that call herself nonbinary is still a woman. There is nothing you can do about it. Your hatred for your sex will not change anything.

I’m also non binary and it means so much how much I see other people commenting things like this, it makes this community feel even safer than it did already

Probably because they're not wearing lav mics. I'm guessing the only mic picking up sound is in the camera.

If it's not hyper feminine or s*xualized, then it must be non- woman. 🙄

Literally clothes have no gender, it’s more so feminine, masculine and androgynous but the industry doesn’t understand that. By saying it’s just “women’s clothes” that adds another perspective to genderqueer people like myself that it is now too boyish and girlish so then we feel more uncomfortable and dysphoric in it ( obvi only speaking from experience but this is a common issue and experience)

Stop calling ppl by labels they haven’t accepted for themselves! It’s rude! Alex may be okay being called cis but I am not and a lot of ppl aren’t comfortable having to label themselves because other ppl want to paste labels on themselves

@@Berryations cis is literally the scientific word for non trans/gender queer people..? Do your research before getting angry about something like a term thats quite literally just the correct term. Its like how trans women are women, you could refer to her as a woman, adding trans or cis infront of it is just saying the person either does or doesnt align with your gender assigned by birth.

I'm non binary too and it's so wonderful to see content like this (even though I dress almost exclusively femme these days).

@@Berryations literally no one called YOU cis, get over yourself

@@frog2132 Gender is not assigned at birth. Neither is sex. There is nothing scientific about "cis" in the manner you're using it.

whaaaat

How can you tell?

@@oatcakes1161 totally! My comments keep deleting on here. 🤔

I thought it was only Sam and Michelle? Are you sure about the others?

@@ncorp2668 you can check through their profiles or hers. I’m positive

i just stalked their insta and i didnt realize how bad they've gotten! hope alex sees this

*sigh* everyone knows this is fake my dudes. Give up your nonsense and get real jobs.

“Nonbinary” is not a third gender, but an umbrella term for anything that’s not strictly “man” or “woman.” Therefore being nonbinary isn’t ONLY presented through androgyny/gender neutrality, it can be anything you make it because it’s a miscellaneous category. There are nonbinary people who identify as demigirl for example, which means the person feels somewhat like a girl/woman but also somewhat not. Demigirls might choose to present exclusively feminine because that’s what they feel most comfortable with, but that doesn’t erase the partial disconnection they feel with the identity of “woman” and any feelings that make them feel they do not entirely match that binary label. I hope that explains it. Personally I am biologically female but have felt disconnected to being a girl/woman my whole life, to varying degrees at different times. I am a very self-expressive person and feel uncomfortable being viewed as strictly a woman, strictly a man, or strictly in between, and my femininity/masculinity varies a lot. So I identify as genderfluid. However I am really into fashion and makeup, and honestly men’s fashion sucks so feminine fashion + being physically female, I end up just looking like a woman 80% of the time. And I’m usually fine with that, but still prefer gender neutral terminology towards me because again I feel disconnected from simply being a “woman.”

Also note that when I talk about a disconnect to a binary label, I’m talking about feelings of gender dysphoria, discomfort, and/or apathy towards that label being put on you and often an inability to relate to cis people’s relationships with their genders. Your gender identity isn’t only based on how you present, it’s your entire relationship with your gender and how you personally view yourself. It’s hard to explain because it’s both general yet specific, and cis people usually don’t have a strong sense of gender like trans people because they don’t feel the discomfort or strangeness that comes with chronically being misgendered. For example when I was a kid I was frequently labeled a “tom girl” and I absolutely HATED it. I realized later in life the reason it made me so uncomfortable to the point of anger was that I felt that my elements/displays of masculinity were invalidated as just being a somewhat masculine girl, instead of simply a person who could be feminine or masculine. It was that I was presenting masculinely and STILL being forced the label “girl” when I didn’t feel that was accurate to how I saw myself. I felt all that yet I still grew up loving elegant dresses, traditionally feminine roles, and other traits that would normally strongly align me with being a girl. A lot of nonbinary people experience contradictions like that, which is why they aren’t strictly one side

As an agender nonbinary individual, here are my two cents regarding your questions! "What does non binary mean if you still wear obvious feminine clothing?" Clothing itself doesn't really have "gender" - anything can be feminine if worn a certain way. Same goes for masculine. It all depends on the(/your current) trends, culture, even religion. "How can you exist in the middle of two genders?" As easily as there can be fractions between two numbers. A lot of people are lead to (falsely) believe that there are ONLY two genders. Although it's most COMMON in English speaking countries to be on one end or the other (say, "male" or "female"), there are a lot of people that can never reach (or don't WANT to reach) one of those "ends" - be it because society shuns them for being "not manly/womanly enough", they don't feel like they WANT to be what others want them to be or many other reasons (that can include the previous ones). Even if your gender matches with the sex you were born as (since those are two different things, despite what any adults might've told you while growing up), it doesn't mean that you fit the "mold" that society has for you. Which is why nonbinary is an umbrella term for anyone that isn't strictly a "man" or a "woman" - which includes people that are both, neither, as WELL as between. "What’s in your head if you are?" My brain, what about yours? :) Jokes aside, I doubt there's all that much different between people, unless they are, like. Incredibly hateful towards others. Those people have a hornets nest in their head, I imagine. "Is it a separate gender in your head?" That is an interesting question and everyone will most likely have a different variation of an answer. But from personal experience - not really! I am me, it's just the rest of the world doesn't always get it. But it's okay, because I can be patient, explain, educate and entertain. It can be much better to ask these things (or at least do research), than to just assume something and never confirm/deny it.

Pro-gender role and s*xist comments incoming in 3...2...1...

@@ncorp2668 oh no I promise not. Just genuinely have questions.

@@lifeofjeannebromley2606 it is

@@lifeofjeannebromley2606 it is you just won't notice if you already follow her

H with what band size? Generally binders don't work great for anyone over a DD, but it depends a bit on if you have a large chest on a large torso or small torso

@@orionstargaze 34 band size

because it's about narcissism. You should read the origins of postmodernism, these things are all interconnected, and yes, they have very sexist ideas about humanity, ironically.

​@snapplegu6100 it's about what makes them feel masc or fem. You guys are just transphobic. It's not narcissistic to feel masculine or feminine in certain clothes

You're so sick of it yet you read the title of this video and chose to watch it. It sounds like you just wanted to be hateful for attention.

@Regina.6692 not tranphobic, could care less what you do to yourself but dont think i have to acknowledgeit like you did some brave thing. Just be a good person and do your thing without feeling like the world owes you some sort of pat on the back. Just don't understand why so much emphasis is being put on male and female deemed things. Relationships, clothes, colors, etc.

It's not that serious

Careful! Not everyone in this video is a lady. But I agree! Expressing your vibe is important and it's great when one feels comfortable enough to share it.

Oof, please edit your comment and remove your misgendering

The other isnt a “lady”

Girls boys and non-binary hoes

@@CatKugler She is a woman. “Non binary” is a made up identity with no basis in material reality. Rejecting femininity in her style/personality is normal and in no way affects the reality of her or anyone’s womanhood.