Going to the army isn’t worth living with mental issues. A lot of ppl I know who went to the army, always come home with some type of mental issue, to where they need prescribed medication. That illness really ruins relationships with friends, siblings, family, and children 😣
It's different for everyone. Mental issues are not limited to service members. How many people that have mental issues have never served a second in their life. As for "I know a lot of people" your social media friends don't count. I'm sure your social circle is limited to a few dozen at most, most of which didn't serve.
@@rdj0981 Thank you for addressing this issue analytically. I was thinking many Americans have mental illnesses that aren't addressed. For most of America's history, mental illness was stigmatized. Many times you see several family members who are mentally ill. Currently, we are seeing people admit their symptoms and diagnosis. It's far healthier. Hopefully, as healthcare disparities are addressed the VA will do a better job of health care for their patients.
@@kayshawnsimmons5585that's a lie alot actually do take care of or even stayed married to a woman that had a child with another man that's how they get called simps.
It’s is very important, when you get married to never let a friend and or some family members move it. Three is a crowded. It destroys a marriage quickly. Leave the middle man out.
If you're gonna serve in any military branch, always serve first ,get it out of your system then when you done, that's when you settle down, saves a lot of problems!🤗🤗
@@MeaganThorpeactually yes it does especially if a man wants a divorce and the woman doesn't if she cheated they must attend marriage classes and than he wants to still pursue a divorce than their grant.
Getting married while in the military is the absolute worst thing anyone can do. You are never home and the horror stories of wives cheating on their husbands is insane.
@@3menlittlelady116 dad did 23 years in the military so nothing you can really tell me there. It’s still a male dominated force and these women are at home all alone and have way more of an opportunity to cheat.
Mathis needs educated on domestic abuse. Him saying that It's unreasonable for her not to tell him she was pregnant through fear is completely incorrect. Men, when they are abusive, will use a child as a weapon against the mother. They know they can hold the child over the mothers head, that they can control the mother more because there's another child involved. Some woman choose not to tell their partners their pregnant because they don't want their partner to have that hold over them. They want a clean break or they don't want the emotional abuse that comes with it - the constant threats of "I'll get your kids taken off you and given to me" or "you'll be a horrible mother" there's more to abusive relationships that just physical abuse.
Abusive men will definitely use the children as pawns against the mom. There is a sweet lady in North Alabama that had her ex kill her 10 year old and himself because of divorce/custody. He was also ex military
The same goes for women who use the kids against their fathers who truly want to help and raise their children but the mother is bitter because the relationship didn’t work out.
How in the world would he manage that when she had two restraining orders on him already she could just call the police your assessment on this case is incorrect she had all the leverage
i’m sorry but there’s no way judge mathis just told her being scared of that man isn’t reasonable- she alr said he was physically abusive and was taking meds?
👀 judge Mathis was wrong for that he was clearly abusive and she deserves an apology from him 💁🏽♀️ now if I was being abused and the man already thinks I’m cheating and he’s on drugs why would I tell him and potentially cause harm to the baby?? Makes no sense
Cheating causes the most severe mental depression and the only reason people can't sue is because the men making the laws want to cover their own behinds.
I’m thinking maybe she didn’t tell him right away about being pregnant because she was considering an abortion. My cousin discovered she was pregnant a few months after a break up with her ex. She knew it was his because of how far along she was and she had not been with anyone else since him. Most people aren’t going to be happy about having a baby with an ex. As I recall Tom Baby Daddy Brady has a similar situation. Break up then find out a kid is on the way.
Shame on Judge Gregory Mathis for downplaying her abuse allegation AND prescription abuse! At the end I felt that when she said I just want to be done with him 😐
My mama would try to keep us away, my dad never accepted it Hell or high water he was coming wherever with the police until she surrendered and I am glad for that 🤞🤞... He May not have been a good husband but he was an amazing father 😊..
Why in the world do these people come on JM,and begin to speak the most extreme and poor behavior of one another, do they know how immature this looks on both people, or is it they just don’t give a care. Only on JM, the other Judges, don’t go or allow such idle testimonies to be given.🤷🏼♀️
She was cheating just so happened the baby is his. We salute ppl in the service while there spouse swear there love but cheat daily this is very common both ways.
Yeah I have heard about that. I also know some military people who paid people to marry them so they could live offbase. In one case if was supposed to be just a business relationship and then when the woman wanted more he divorced her. 😂
if you’re in the military this scenario makes a lot of sense… married at 19, dependent cheating while you TDY &/or deploy, mental illness, him shooting himself 😭 i’ve heard people joke about it but never heard of a service member actually doing it
I fully agree, we have 40% of our ex soldiers living on the streets, no back up, many turning to hard drugs and alcohol just to get by I carry the shame of this beautiful country every day in MANY way's...
White women are absolutely excellent in the beginning of the relationship but I say anywhere between 3 to 6 months in for my experience it always goes to hell... For one they can be extremely secretive and manipulative... Most have severe depression that comes and goes and when that depression kick in you can forget about all that freaky sex y'all been having... And usually she's somewhere doing it with someone else...
@@CeaSeMusic1 nowadays I aim to date non American women... I'm open to any women but it's all about how they was raised and their value... I'm not doing ghetto ratchet at all... For me to date a black American chick she got to be kind of nerdy she got to have no clue what Love and hip Hop is she got to have went to a white college... But my favorite is Asian and Hispanic woman.. they usually have traditional values
Hopefully men take care of yourselves. Don't allow women to control your life regardless of if you have a child/children with them or not. You're more important than that. Tired of men taking the fall out here. Wish I could change it all.
