What Jose said is true. Every guy and be more confident, wealthier, better looking, etc. The main reason why most men stop early on that path of improvement is women. Always women. Most guys will judge their road of improvement or validation based on the woman’s attention. The reality is, if you focus on yourself and improve yourself to be the best version, the women, the most beautiful, kind and loving woman, will natural come to you. Keep up the good work fellas.
find what youre naturally good at. You may not be the Kobe of what you want to do, but you can damn well count on being successful if you put in the work and truly want something and are consistent.