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Why Are Foreigners (Expats) Fleeing The Philippines? 

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@vocke748
@vocke748 2 месяца назад
Stop meeting people online and in bars. Its that simple. Try a bunch of hobbies and meet people organically doing things you both are interested in.
@macmackenzie8896
@macmackenzie8896 3 месяца назад
Just stay single and don't commit to just one lady. Keep your finances for yourself.
@Johnnythemonkey1256
@Johnnythemonkey1256 3 месяца назад
Good advice.As we get older the big head must rule the small head.
@mateor7302
@mateor7302 3 месяца назад
Refreshing to see another man thinking clearly rather than like a love struck lonely teenager
@RaymondWalinski
@RaymondWalinski 3 месяца назад
Greetings from new jersey
@jammyb90
@jammyb90 3 месяца назад
👍
@Koza480
@Koza480 3 месяца назад
Exactly!
@wildbill562
@wildbill562 2 месяца назад
Just reinforces the many reasons I already have for NOT moving there. I was married to a Filipina for 12 years and it was a nightmare. I know all about tampo and the in-laws constantly demanding money from me. Never again. Not to mention the heat, humidity, pollution, noise, crime, dirt, ignorance and poverty. I would not move to a ghetto in the US. Why do it overseas? And then have to constantly renew your visa for the "privilege?"
@markmcfarland2579
@markmcfarland2579 2 месяца назад
Dated a Filipino and moved into her house. The worst decision I ever made in my adult life honestly. Truly an evil group of women . No all but over 50% IMHO
@macmackenzie8896
@macmackenzie8896 2 месяца назад
@@wildbill562 Exactly. I learned all this in the Navy. There is a reason why western men marry asian women and bring them to live in their own country. It's because then you don't have to live in a third world slum. Also no inlaws to deal with. Visiting is fine but why live like that?
@poorman2457
@poorman2457 2 месяца назад
😂 Don't live in the shanty towns or a kubo up in the mountains brah. There are plenty of nice areas in every part of the Philippines. You're downright exaggerating.
@lilibethbreault5511
@lilibethbreault5511 2 месяца назад
Good for you now marry a white lady lol so you can keep your wealth
@vidong1704
@vidong1704 2 месяца назад
People are much friendlier and the ladies are much prettier in a Philippine ghetto
@wesgraham2262
@wesgraham2262 3 месяца назад
I will NEVER return to the Philippines for all of the reasons mentioned here. I lived there in Cebu city for nearly 3 years and loved it… until I didn’t. Just one inconvenience and ridiculous thing after another, finally wore me down.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your experience.
@jamesrecknor6752
@jamesrecknor6752 3 месяца назад
I have noticed that it's the USA, not the Philippines, that has millions of people coming in from other countries for a better life.
@simbiotik8480
@simbiotik8480 2 месяца назад
Don't forget the terrible food.
@wesgraham2262
@wesgraham2262 2 месяца назад
@@simbiotik8480 - Worst in southeast Asia… at least when comparing it to the food in Malaysia, Thailand and Cambodia where I’ve also been.
@rogerwilco4736
@rogerwilco4736 2 месяца назад
I've been here many years but its the complacency of the Filipinos the pollution and rubbish everywhere which turns what could be a great country a nightmare
@thebigmann81
@thebigmann81 28 дней назад
The biggest thing for be is the long long wait time for medical sometimes all day even with appointments it can be long. Appointment time doesn't mean you get seen at appointment time.
@remo1wodmnetwork9605
@remo1wodmnetwork9605 3 месяца назад
You have to be right for that life. I grew up in Indiana, lived for a few years in the Keys and everything was great for me. Now it's too expensive for an option but the Philippines will be like stepping back to that time. And with well planned funds & smart budgeting, passive income I'm sure it will work;. I don't plan to be alone but I'm not desperate for everything that comes my way either.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Good luck 👍 Thank you for watching ☺️
@curlydingle
@curlydingle 3 месяца назад
@@everymanhasastory Have you experienced the Philippines and after 15yrs of drama good and bad and the ungly, until you set foot you have no idea. Good Luck Mate.
@mikehernandez570
@mikehernandez570 2 месяца назад
This video is great. I'm currently doing loads of research on the pros and cons of retiring in the Philippines.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 2 месяца назад
Glad you enjoyed it 😊 The Philippines isn't perfect but with a little money and a good attitude you can build a nice life here
@derekdemarco28
@derekdemarco28 2 месяца назад
My Wife is Indonesian and I met her in Las Vegas. I've been with her since 2003 and we currently live in Indonesia. Women here are great; but, you have to take your time with them.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 2 месяца назад
I agree with you 💯 Thank you for watching ☺️
@ThankyouIgotit
@ThankyouIgotit 2 месяца назад
Yes❤
@moontides7220
@moontides7220 3 месяца назад
Bought land for my wife 7 years after marriage and 4 kids. Play your cards smart guys!
@nadiaalbert4336
@nadiaalbert4336 2 месяца назад
It’s nice to hear the other side bc all that glitter is not gold thank you for giving the other side of the P. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@TheGeoDaddy
@TheGeoDaddy 18 дней назад
My dad warned me “Georgie, before you ever think of getting married, first buy a total stranger a HOUSE!” Yeah, my dad! Great advice! MGTOW all my life and financially and emotionally secure in my 60s 😏 Oh, yes, visited the Philippines several times, along with Indonesia and Eastern Europe… ALL much higher quality girls/ladys but, when all is said and done… still female.
@Eventual-Visitor
@Eventual-Visitor 2 часа назад
WTF are you talking about? Your dad told you to buy a stranger a house? I hope you're being sarcastic otherwise i can understand why you have such a sour atitude towards women.
@Koza480
@Koza480 3 месяца назад
Good video. You explain things just like they are.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Glad you liked it 😊
@Koza480
@Koza480 3 месяца назад
I married a Filipina 36 years ago in Dumaguete. Brought her to the U.S. still live here, still married. She is a super great person. We went to Dumaguete in January and stayed there one month. It’s a completely different city than when we got married there.
@rogerparis
@rogerparis 3 месяца назад
Well said.
@KKMDStyle
@KKMDStyle 3 месяца назад
Some vloggers videos claim that many westerners are going to the Philippines and others say westerners are leaving…mi guess it’s a balance :-)
@AlexMAGA2024
@AlexMAGA2024 3 месяца назад
I've been in Philippines for 2 years and I'm home sick going home soon for elections
@JMgmkh
@JMgmkh 3 месяца назад
good question
@jetd9716
@jetd9716 3 месяца назад
There are those who sold everything from where they came from and committed to living in the Philippines long term. Then there are those coming here to test the waters to see if the like it.
@lakecityransom
@lakecityransom Месяц назад
A fool and his money are soon parted. The old adage is so true.
@GuyVogel-p5f
@GuyVogel-p5f Месяц назад
Your volume fluctuates along the way if you listen through. Senior but not hard of hearing. Otherwise..., Great video! Explains the other side of the coin. It goes back to verify, verify and re-verify with everything you do, everywhere you go and everyone you meet. Unfortunately so in the states and it sounds like it's the same over there too. Mostly what you hear from those who blog and with their videos of living there are good experiences and why you should move here. With all that you said you seem to be doing sort of okay from what I read and hear in your voice. It sounds like you're one of the guys who didn't leave. How come? We would like to know. With the peace and tranquility that you could find there and not in the states today it sounds like it could be a win-win. Most Filipinos who I speak with seem happy even with their current economic strife and status. Thanks so much.
@waynesaller
@waynesaller Месяц назад
Dorothy said it best. "There is no place like home".
@stupadass6989
@stupadass6989 3 месяца назад
Just got a 6 month in Manila ESERVICES online June 27 . Try to do ESERVICES before going to BI so not to sit there all day . Also they take Visa and Mastercard online now ! Always rent , maybe a condo in your own name but not jointly may work . Try to find a living situation , apt or condo facing away from the Sun and not facing the busy front street noise . Buy Converge prepay plan internet 700p per month good internet no contract !
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Great advice! Thank you so much for sharing this information 😀
@Neal_only1
@Neal_only1 Месяц назад
I would say probably cause a few have ruined it for themselves. Others because they just are not open minded enough to survive anywhere other then where they grew up.😮
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory Месяц назад
I agree with you 💯 Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 3 месяца назад
there is no perfect relationship anywhere, no perfect partners out there either
@semi5alpha
@semi5alpha 3 месяца назад
100x better than the west. Many 60s oldies taking teen ager girlslike dumbos and crying in the internet. Take a Woman close to your age and you're good.
@tomyum6163
@tomyum6163 3 месяца назад
The truth.
@knight936
@knight936 3 месяца назад
Men lead, women follow!
@lancefogle1433
@lancefogle1433 3 месяца назад
NOTHING IS PERFECT SO TAKE YOUR TIME AND DON'T BUY A HOUSE FOR ANYONE! RENT ONLY!
@PinoyHolyGrail
@PinoyHolyGrail 2 месяца назад
keep it in focus that relationships are transactional, meaning you have resources and a woman wants it You want beauty and a mate its that simple to believe anything else is going to leave you either out of pocket, or broken hearted. even both y0u chose
@ed5308
@ed5308 3 месяца назад
You covered the ups and downs pretty well. I want to leave California badly but I have a house and Medicare and all my doctors and medicines lined up. I could not take the hassles about visa's, power, rent, roosters, and family issues. I will take the devil I know before I flee to the devil I do not know. Thanks Mark
@Carolina480
@Carolina480 3 месяца назад
Yes mark irs best to stay were yuo know and what all the medical and everything yuo are used to and yuo need like medical I’m in California too yes hard here but I would not go to a place to be in a worse situation
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
You're making the right decision
@garyzies3486
@garyzies3486 3 месяца назад
If you are not familiar with the Philippines and if you have any medical issues, then it's better to stay where you are.
@MrBatteryChanger1
@MrBatteryChanger1 3 месяца назад
@@garyzies3486 exactly if you have medical issues, the Philippines is the last place you want to come to. The humidity, the heat and the air pollution is bad for the respiratory system. If your ashmatic forget about it. You'll get pneumonia or at worst Tuberculosis.
@Koza480
@Koza480 3 месяца назад
You have it figured exactly right. Better to stay where you are instead of chasing rainbows.
@DuncanMacCockiner
@DuncanMacCockiner Месяц назад
Friends, don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
@tobywebb6452
@tobywebb6452 3 месяца назад
Nailed it, PH has many positives, primarily cost of living, but it's no paradise
@jameskelly9243
@jameskelly9243 2 месяца назад
Lol it's a third world country.cash is king so then you are use the power but be polite.
@davewright9313
@davewright9313 2 месяца назад
I found the Philippines expensive when it came to food
@rspcoach619
@rspcoach619 2 месяца назад
There's no paradise anywhere on the planet.
@PattayaBBGF
@PattayaBBGF 2 месяца назад
@@davewright9313 Veggies & Fruits is expensive, Meat is cheap, especially Pork and Chicken
@raypatson8775
@raypatson8775 Месяц назад
​@davewright9313 Thailand is better value for what you get.
@Rory235
@Rory235 3 месяца назад
I like the Philippines and was married to a filipina for 20 plus years, but Thailand has so much better medical, rental housing,food, cleaner cities, etc. But even Thailand has a nightmare visa system.
@Southern_gentleman.
@Southern_gentleman. Месяц назад
My uncle says the same thing. He lived in Philippines for 8 yrs but moved to Thailand and been there almost 20 yrs and has never looked back
@satysunk
@satysunk Месяц назад
@@Rory235 what happened after 20 years. Did you divorce, because divorce is not permitted in the Philippines.
@Rory235
@Rory235 Месяц назад
@@satysunk Yes my wife divorced me in the U.S. after many years living in the U.S. This is the bad thing about getting married in the Philippines. We are still married in the Philippines but divorce in the states only, and we were married to long to get a anallment. That means if I go back to the Philippines and get into a relationship another lady I could be in big trouble. Same thing with my ex-wife. My ex-wife got the house in the Philippines because Americans can not own land in the Philippines.
@mymaria888
@mymaria888 Месяц назад
​@@Rory235-- you are misunderstanding the law. As an American, your martial status in the US is recognized in the Philippines. The only caveat is if you're married to someone of your own sex. They do not recognize same sex marriage. As far a your property goes, that's gone.
@Rory235
@Rory235 Месяц назад
@@mymaria888 I have been divorced 10 years and unless they have changed the law recently. I was told 10 years ago by my a legal adviser that in the Philippines would not recognize my divorce and warned me not to go back to the Philippines because of that!
@kanointhephilippines8082
@kanointhephilippines8082 2 месяца назад
Eight years ago when I first arrived in the Philippines I met another expat on the ferry from Cebu to Negros. We spoke at length as he was preparing to depart the Philippines for good. He listed many of the same reasons discussed here. I remember him saying 8 years is the number when most leave, he had seen it time and time again. It's 8 years for me and yes the honeymoon is long over, I fully grasp the culture and the difficulties of living here. Yes, I've thought about leaving but the good here still far outweighs the bad as long as you keep your expectations in check. But realize this country is not for everyone. You need to be very patient and adaptable to make it here. You must be able to find solutions for every obstacle and always have plan A, B and C ready to execute. I will close that like everywhere, location is the big key to your peace of mind here. Never stop looking until you find the place that ticks the boxes you desire. Don't settle because in the long run it won't work. Good luck and safe travels.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊 I agree with you 💯
@PattayaBBGF
@PattayaBBGF 2 месяца назад
Wise words! 👍👍
@eurasia1963
@eurasia1963 17 дней назад
Very very good response
@subrNshukr
@subrNshukr 3 месяца назад
How many guys learned the language. How many guys read migration narratives, how many guy understand the process of honeymoon, culture shock, recovery and adaptation.
@PinoyHolyGrail
@PinoyHolyGrail 2 месяца назад
NAW! that's a lot of work LOL
@cammontreuil7509
@cammontreuil7509 2 месяца назад
Not many. If you don't like camping, don't go to the Philippines.
@RetirePhilippines
@RetirePhilippines 3 месяца назад
You shouldn’t even think about buying a house for a girl until you’ve been together in person for five years.
@wernerschneider4460
@wernerschneider4460 3 месяца назад
My wife and I married in late 1996. And we never had the need to buy a house, because she inherited the house of her mother when she died. We only renovated it, because it was really in bad condition. Her oldest sister and the younger of her two older brothers have houses on the same compound, and another older sister has her big house just five yards from ours with a (not high one) wall in between. My wife was not a "girl" either when we married. She was 34, I was 33.
@MarsOcto
@MarsOcto 3 месяца назад
I bought my wife a house after 5 years… 3 months later shes divorcing me… NEVER AGAIN… American women.
@ITech2005
@ITech2005 3 месяца назад
Lol Why tf are yall buying houses FOR a woman in the first place? Its like some men are just programmed to be suckers. Demand that she buys YOU a house and watch how ridiculous she thinks it sounds. Enough said. 😂😂😂😂
@brianmac3768
@brianmac3768 3 месяца назад
Ok, I was moving to the PI but now you’ve talked me out of it! 😂
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
I agree with you 💯
@jimmyhvy2277
@jimmyhvy2277 3 месяца назад
I have seen Plenty of falung's in Thailand living on the streets , Penniless , and there Ex Thai Wife , is living in the Mansion he Built for her !
@PinoyHolyGrail
@PinoyHolyGrail 2 месяца назад
some dudes never learn, or just see pussy and nothing else welcome to women and hypergamy
@nesq4104
@nesq4104 2 месяца назад
If you build a house in a foreign country know you built it for someone else to live in
@the_velvet_void
@the_velvet_void Месяц назад
Drunks
@dannibarber5793
@dannibarber5793 Месяц назад
In Ecuador you can own your own land deeded.
@dannibarber5793
@dannibarber5793 Месяц назад
Free medical for tourists and 90 day visa free and can extend not 29 days like Philippines
@douglaslaturner9685
@douglaslaturner9685 3 месяца назад
You didn't mention, the Philippines can be a very noisy place. I Have lived in 4 different parts of this country from Dumagete to Cebu to Panglao, Bohol, all very noisy. Dogs, construction, loud people, music late hours, motorbikes, barangay Hall, generators, roosters. Even in the middle of Cebu. Have to wear ear plugs. So if you don't mind that it's OK... sometimes.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
You're right. I have experienced that too. Not too bad here in Bacong but dogs and loud music late at night mostly on weekends
@michaelg4232
@michaelg4232 3 месяца назад
The dogs will drive you insane. Its retarded. I stayed In a barangay where neighbors had 5 dogs that sit at the front gate and bark at every single person that walks by as well as cats or whatever at night. Literally no logic. When confronted they said it's for safety and It's a gated community!
@PinoyHolyGrail
@PinoyHolyGrail 2 месяца назад
why come to PH if you cant adapt the environment other than coastal beaches and provincial scenes?
@cammontreuil7509
@cammontreuil7509 2 месяца назад
Make your own noise.
@spirithawk2418
@spirithawk2418 2 месяца назад
Sounds like Dubrovnik, Athens and Naples all 3 beautiful cities but very noisy I can atest also for Sophia , Bulgaria also.
@TropicalTodd
@TropicalTodd 3 месяца назад
Imagine "dating" a young girl for a year online, sending money, and paying for a house and then flying over there to find out that the girl of your dreams is not Maria but Mario.
@DaveBogovich
@DaveBogovich 3 месяца назад
😂😂😂
@ballyhoo48
@ballyhoo48 3 месяца назад
Hahaha
@cammontreuil7509
@cammontreuil7509 2 месяца назад
Dating online ? Are people that much of an id!ot ?
@JohnSmith-cx7zt
@JohnSmith-cx7zt 2 месяца назад
A ladyboy
@skyblues7223
@skyblues7223 2 месяца назад
😂😂😂😂
@truss6282
@truss6282 2 месяца назад
I just got back to Texas after spending a month in Pampanga. Been going there for well over a decade (always a month at a time) to see my wife's family. I'm done with that country and have abandoned all ideas of retiring there. I'll keep my family and my money here where it's beautiful, clean and livable. These old dudes going there for a young beautiful bride live in fantasy land that the lady actually loves them. I married my wife from there many years ago and brought her here. I don't regret my choices and we have a beautiful life here in Texas and my Fil-Am relationship is great but i think many things have changed. The PI is a mess, things are difficult and the thought process of people is enough to drive any westerner completely mad. There's a HUGE reason those people want OUT of their own country. Food for thought for any guy thinking about going over there to retire.
@Zeldasmojo
@Zeldasmojo Месяц назад
I’m interested in the apiculture in the Philippines. There are 5 species of bees there that produce honey. They even have a stingless variety. I’d like to visit and study the bees there when I retire.
@mymaria888
@mymaria888 Месяц назад
People in the Philippines want to move to other countries for financial reasons. The same reason why most foreigners move to the Philippines. The Filipinos want to work to help support their family and themselves. The vast majority would gladly stay home and live near their family and friends in the country they they know and love. Many end up going back home to retire and speak their native tongue. I'm sure most foreigners would also choose to retire in their home country if they could afford to live there comfortably. Sadly, even after 40 years of working, that's no longer achievable. 😢😢😢
@mymaria888
@mymaria888 Месяц назад
​@@Zeldasmojo-- from what I understand there aren't many bees in the Philippines. They need more people who can help bring back the bees population. Maybe you can be the one to do it.
@TacticalGhost007
@TacticalGhost007 24 дня назад
@@Zeldasmojo I am a beekeeper. Conditions for beekeeping here are difficult to put it mildly.
@Zeldasmojo
@Zeldasmojo 24 дня назад
@@TacticalGhost007what are your challenges there for beekeeping? Pests? Weather? Regulations? It seems like there’s a lot of flora there for them to acquire nectar. This is very interesting to me. Thanks for commenting.
@billsmith2915
@billsmith2915 3 месяца назад
I am married to a Filipina, and live 8 months out of the year in the US. You don't need some big American style house in the Philippines. I built a very small, block house in the PHP in the province with a big porch and back deck all covered with concrete under feet and a small a/c unit for less than $10,000 USD. Stop thinking like an American where you are going to show your wealth in impress people in the PHP. No one cares here, and in fact they will look at you as a sucker and try to get something from you. My wife and I live a great life, but we don't live above our means, and don't have a big house. Stop trying to buy your way into a Filipina's heart, be stingy with your money, don't give it away, if a girl likes you great, if she doesn't, there's 50 million single Filipina's, so you will find one that lives your life, and your rules.
@ElmerSolis-wn7js
@ElmerSolis-wn7js Месяц назад
American always think tommmorow problem you can't live in philipine if your that kind of person
@edwardkearle7196
@edwardkearle7196 22 дня назад
​@@ElmerSolis-wn7js U cant live like that successfully anywhere, u should be guarded, and prepared..but not worried.
@ElmerSolis-wn7js
@ElmerSolis-wn7js 22 дня назад
@@edwardkearle7196 ha ve a work don't think what you gain for tommoroW enjoy everyday of your life don't tired your brain thinking tommoroW just work and enjoy life that's christian life in the philipines bro
@beachcomber4785
@beachcomber4785 16 дней назад
Can't you use the term scammed, rather than 'relationship didnt work out', what does that mean? In Thailand a guy accepted the 'relationship didn't work out', hired a buldozer for 5am, and levelled the house, with mother-in-law jumping up and down screaming at cops who told her 'Your land, his bricks' (roof, kichen, bathrooms, included of course). He 'cut' his losses.
@SlackHoffman
@SlackHoffman 2 месяца назад
Look after yourself!! anyone else is a passenger and they’ll ride for free if it’s on a plate 🍽️ Don’t Be A Fool 😮
@craigmorgan1612
@craigmorgan1612 Месяц назад
Philippines a great place for holidays Love them and leave them Don’t feel bad Pilipinas land of love triangles that can get you killed
@geneboynton9356
@geneboynton9356 3 месяца назад
Texas expat living in Thailand when Covid started I was obese called doctor friend in states asked him what to do he told me to get healthy and lose weight a lot of the older obese people were dying went to RU-vid first started Keto and now carnivore last year 70 lbs down now o statins or BP meds needed or wanted big Pharmaceutical companies and the highly processed food companies lost me as a customer oh I am pureblooded no issues here in Thailand
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Congratulations! Stay healthy
@tsif7828
@tsif7828 3 месяца назад
Well done 👍
@AwakenedEntrepreneurship
@AwakenedEntrepreneurship 3 месяца назад
Good man! So awesome to hear that!
@CoachDarren
@CoachDarren 3 месяца назад
Yes number one thing is health. Gotta take care of yourself to many guys don't give a damn about their personal health but focus on a woman.
@ChrisLloyd-g5q
@ChrisLloyd-g5q 2 месяца назад
i am 59 and backpacking Asia and currently in Malaysia. I too started carnivore sept 1st 2023 & iam over 72lbs down 5 clothing sizes etc. Basically i wouldnt backpacking if i were 72 lbs plus heavier. Carnivore has been LIFE CHANGING!!! challenging travelling - iam not perfect just doing my best!!
@dansakura530
@dansakura530 2 месяца назад
I moved to the Philippines long before you got there. I've seen the transitions
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 2 месяца назад
Would you like to be a guest on my show? markfthornton@yahoo.com
@oliviagriffin2385
@oliviagriffin2385 3 месяца назад
There are golddiggers in any country; the only difference is Filipino girls help their family: sisters, brothers, parents etc at the man's expense but women in other countries, women use the money for themselves! Don't marry a Filipino woman because of the family dynamics that can't be changed. On the other hand, they are the best partners if you found an honest and caring person. I would suggest not to marry anyone who already have children unless they are adults and independent; otherwise, you would be their ATM machine! Just my opinion from another Filipino woman leaving in the USA. Thank you!
@TravelLoverForLife
@TravelLoverForLife 3 месяца назад
As a younger guy living in the Philippines simply isn't viable due to the ridiculously low salaries. As much as I really dislike how expensive everything is getting here in the US the wages in the Philippines are so horrendous even for the very highly educated that the lower prices don't adequately compensate for it.
@jamesrecknor6752
@jamesrecknor6752 3 месяца назад
There is a reason why millions of people are coming to the US for a better life, not the Philippines. I have a blue-collar business; I install water heaters. On a typical day my earnings are as much as a doctor in the Philippines earn in a month.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Work online. Lots of opportunities
@TravelLoverForLife
@TravelLoverForLife 2 месяца назад
@@everymanhasastory Not really. Most of the online work jobs are low paid, require a lot of upfront capital, and/or are graveyard shift. US companies have aggressively cracked down on working remotely abroad or using a VPN. The online work option was somewhat decent 5-10 years ago. Not anymore.
@mikegray8776
@mikegray8776 2 месяца назад
You seem like a really balanced guy - and well in tune with your location and your life. I am a retired Englishman, living in Thailand for the last 8 years - and appreciating every single day!! But every downside you mentioned about the Philippines could equally apply to Thailand. If you come expecting ALL the trimmings of your home country, but with one-third the cost of living and much better weather, you will NEVER adjust. People need to take SE Asia as it is - tradition is a huge thing here, and will not change for you or anybody else. Once they’ve weighed up the pro’s and con’s of that - and truly accepted it - life will be great!! BUT THEY NEED TO COME WITH THEIR EYES WIDE OPEN !
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 2 месяца назад
Good for you. Thank you for watching Mike
@stevenweiss2148
@stevenweiss2148 Месяц назад
I am still trying to find where Valpo Indiana is on the map!
@richardpatterson2554
@richardpatterson2554 3 месяца назад
So well said Mark, thanks. Ps how about when we go to a restaurant and find something on the the menu only to be told the famous words "NOT AVAILABLE" then they stand there waiting while you continue to ponder the menu only to tell you again "NOT AVAILABLE over annd over.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Been there many times.
@rfbos
@rfbos 3 месяца назад
I think the majority of people leaving here are 2 basic main factors. 1- They listened to idiots on youtube who said they could live here like a king on $1000 and woke up to reality. 2- They did not really research all of the things they will need to compromise on, thinking they could somehow go against reality and be smater than the Filipinas here. How many actually came here for a few months to have actual experience living here with the culture, weather, utilities, foods, transportation and how to get your money here from your country. How many big ego ones come here just to have a 20 year old hanging off their arm and then somehow surprised when she leaves for another more handsome with more money? Trying to live a western lifestyle here will cost you highly and youll still have to compromise on many things you cant buy. You cant control the weather, you cant control the utility companies, you cant control the laws, and most certainly, you can't change anything here except your attitude. The only thing you can control is how you want to live and accept the things you can't control.
@michaelg4232
@michaelg4232 3 месяца назад
The Best is 6 months there and 6 months back home for spring/summer. That's my plan because once end of march hits in PH it's too hot. Like November to March and then I'm out. Can always travel to other places. Japan or maybe Portugal is a good option for cooler weather...
@derykhawkins2199
@derykhawkins2199 2 месяца назад
I am from the UK and my filipina wife and I plan to do exactly the same. The easiest way for us is to get her a 10 year tourist visa that gives her up to 6 months every year.
@satysunk
@satysunk 2 месяца назад
But November to March it rains, just as bad
@michaelg4232
@michaelg4232 14 дней назад
@@satysunk it's June to November the rainy season
@jasonbourne1596
@jasonbourne1596 3 месяца назад
Yeah don't build a house for a Pinay you hardly really know and haven't been with for years.
@ColonelHoganStalag13
@ColonelHoganStalag13 2 месяца назад
That's the same kind of guy who would marry a Western woman he hardly knew and she would divorce him and take the house. Same kind of foolishness, just different country.
@markstanich64
@markstanich64 Месяц назад
JUST ENJOY THE FRUIT DONT MARRY IT OR DISCLOSE YOUR INCOMES OR BUY OR BUILD A HOUSE YOU WILL GET CLEANED OUT
@TheSugmad
@TheSugmad 3 месяца назад
Wherever you go there you are. Visit, go slow with relationships, limit financial outlay, then decide if the place is for you or not. Whatever you do, do not place your savings on a relationship bet.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Excellent advice! Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
@kevinbrown6070
@kevinbrown6070 2 месяца назад
Well said.. Short and sweet
@brucejohnston3521
@brucejohnston3521 Месяц назад
after 13 yrs the country is crap now especially after lockdowns finally left 2 months ago best move ever
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory Месяц назад
I'm sorry it didn't work out for you 😔
@ParisianThinker
@ParisianThinker 3 месяца назад
What about women moving to the Philippines? I am not looking for a relationship. Just peace and happiness and no taxes.
@PRESIDENTTrumpisright
@PRESIDENTTrumpisright 3 месяца назад
Parisian.....U can sell your Parisian booty if times get tough.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Come to the Philippines! Women are starting to move here too.
@truss6282
@truss6282 2 месяца назад
Go try it out, don't commit until you do. It's a hard place to live for a westerner, I'll pay my taxes and enjoy my USA. I've been traveling to the PI for well over a decade, just got back in from being there a month which is usual for me. I'm done with the PI, they don't have their shit together over there at all and it's not getting any better. I'm abandoning all plans of retirement there at this point. I'm way too free over here in the States and it's clean and people can actually think above a 3rd grade level. They can feed their fighting cocks but not their children, it's an absolute chit show.
@spiffingbooks2903
@spiffingbooks2903 2 месяца назад
Very few foreign women come to live here as the main advantage is the possibility of a relationship. It's not a place if peace and quiet is high on your agenda to be honest. Maybe Thailand or Vietnam would be better?
@SideYardCat
@SideYardCat Месяц назад
No taxes... Guessing your MAGA who complains about schools and potholes.
@brianbucher1313
@brianbucher1313 26 дней назад
Online dating is pathetic. Put yourself first. Maintain your frame. Relationships should never be why you live or don't live somewhere
@Cool_Breeze_Rockies
@Cool_Breeze_Rockies 3 месяца назад
A must see video for every guy thinking about coming to the PH. Great Job!
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Thank you 😊
@QuicknStraight
@QuicknStraight 3 месяца назад
Ah, right, because there are not many more guys who move here and live very happily.
@Cool_Breeze_Rockies
@Cool_Breeze_Rockies 2 месяца назад
@@QuicknStraight Ah, right, no where in the vid does it say you can't live happily in PH. 99% of Mark's vids are positive on the Philippines. He does one showing the other side and the crybabies come out.
@QuicknStraight
@QuicknStraight 2 месяца назад
@@Cool_Breeze_Rockies Well done for completely missing the point, which is surprising considering how basic the English I used was.
@satysunk
@satysunk 2 месяца назад
​@QuicknStra no, even I had difficulty understanding what you meant. That's not basic English; that's broken English.
@AnthonyShaw-ty9pi
@AnthonyShaw-ty9pi 3 месяца назад
Humm🤔 Fantastic information!!👍👍 I'm having second thoughts about moving to the phillipines. Yes, the women are pretty, but there's alot more to consider, that's for sure.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Don't over think it. You can always go home
@MrBatteryChanger1
@MrBatteryChanger1 3 месяца назад
When i arrived in the Philippines 30 years ago, I was in a group with 43 foreigners in it, after 20 years me and another guy were the only two left in the country, all the others went back to their countries. Joined another group with 18 foreigners and after 10 years there was only 3 left. Its not easy at all here, you have to graft.
@neilyounan3241
@neilyounan3241 3 месяца назад
It’s the same in all Southeast Asian countries as much as there are positives the negatives out number the positives, for every positive of living in Southeast Asia there is 3 or more negatives this is my personal assessment after 1 year in SEA
@garyzies3486
@garyzies3486 3 месяца назад
This has been my experience as well. Most expats I've known have left the country with their tail between their legs.
@TheSugmad
@TheSugmad 3 месяца назад
Wherever you go there you are.
@PRESIDENTTrumpisright
@PRESIDENTTrumpisright 3 месяца назад
MrBatt....who the bleep uses the word graft in that context?
@frequentiis
@frequentiis 3 месяца назад
@@neilyounan3241 true, but i expereinced indonesia is better than philippines, but philippines is better than bigoted malaysia, and the promised land is vietnam, you are right that all 3 indonesia, malaysia, philippines all suck terribly, with indonesia being the best of 3, but im excited to try vietnam soon also, this is 2024, im sure philippines was "paradise" in 1970s 1980s tho, i wish i was GenX, im jealous
@lopat4826
@lopat4826 3 месяца назад
The Philippines crap.
@firstnamelastname6717
@firstnamelastname6717 27 дней назад
It’s probably best to just make a couple of real close ( trusted ) Philippine friends that can and will guide you to all the do’s and don’t’s over there. , that way you will be more aware of what’s going on ( before ) you do something that you may regret later. So that’s the real key to survive and thrive and enjoy the best of everything and not lose out.
@kennethblack7376
@kennethblack7376 Месяц назад
I lived with my filipina in Dumaguete last year. I was going to retire in the Philippines. I was there 9 months total but it only took me 3 months or so to realize I didn't want to retire there. Reasons are noise, chickens, sick dogs in the streets, substandard and expensive food, people who don't care about making their lives better, slow moving apathetic people living in terrible conditions, horrible ridiculous traffic and insane drivers. I went back to my beautiful quiet home in Texas and my filipina will be joining me soon.
@michael_Jon7
@michael_Jon7 Месяц назад
I’ve only been in the Philippines for over four months now and I love every minute of it. I do not miss Florida US at all. But I will keep one of my cars and my home in Florida just rent it out and I will travel back-and-forth, but I live primarily in the Philippines 🇵🇭 The white sand beaches with turquoise water, mountains, waterfalls, caves, cliff diving, surfing. Kind, warm, welcoming people, the abundant local fruits, beautiful weather and a lower cost of living. The Phillipines is awesome 🇵🇭
@kbschulze
@kbschulze 17 дней назад
Well it has only been four months, you need more time. You are still in the honeymoon stage. I love all the things you mentioned also. I have been here 14 years but at least 3/4 of the time I am working in some other country like Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Dubai, etc. Now here full time 2 years and as much as i love the Filipino culture I am sick of the crappy infrastructure, filthy streets, undrinkable water, corruption everywhere and poor quality medical. We will soon move to the USA, where there are modern convenience’s we can count on. US may have their own problems but those problems are 95% related to the big cities. The majority do not live in houses piled together. There is plenty of areas where you can live in peace with all modern amenities and conveniences. Okay that sounds pretty negative but it is truthful. There are a lot of positives here in the Philippines also. People being the best part and there are many beautiful locations to see. But you will eventually have to deal with all the above and it does wear on you. For me I prefer not to deal with it much longer and my wife would also like to move to the states. Eventually get her citizenship there. So some positives there also.
@americanfrench5
@americanfrench5 2 месяца назад
Just back from 2 months all over the 3 regions. It is way too hot to grow old there. 20 years of coming there and never seen it so hot and all the prices are up. One accident on the bike and its very hard to come back from. Better think hard. You cannot use aircon 24 hrs a day even if you can afford it. 60 days and out.
@222jojo
@222jojo 3 месяца назад
every two month tourist visa's are a moneymaker for the government here. It's OK for short term, but long term have a plan for either a 13A or SRRV visa
@222jojo
@222jojo 3 месяца назад
@@eddieBoxer If someone's going to PAY why not just get the SRRV and don't have to get married here...which is a several month hassle
@Wakeupandsniffthecoffee
@Wakeupandsniffthecoffee 2 месяца назад
You also need to have very low aspirations to live there. I grew up and spent the majority of my life on Maui, Hawaii and island life can really hard. It can lead to drugs and alcohol as a normal way of life. The cost if going anywhere is too much to do very often. Personally I can go without a beach the rest of my life. My early years on Maui we could fish and camp, but now everything is owned and parks shut down at night because of druggies and homeless. So the things I enjoyed disappeared. Living in Virginia and enjoying it.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your experience 😊
@WoodysPhilippines
@WoodysPhilippines 3 месяца назад
Grim realities. Good stuff Mark!
@abc-mf4jn
@abc-mf4jn 2 месяца назад
The hay days of visiting the Phil. were the Eighties of the prev. Century. Cheap, good life, very friendly welcoming girls and great eighties music(and we were younger). Even under Marcos Martial-Law, one could feel more freedom . Since then, by the years, things were going down the drain, and foreigner who come here have to consume the leftover of the Ole Good Days.
@davewright9313
@davewright9313 2 месяца назад
💯% correct I was there in the 80s it was so brilliant and so cheap. The girls don't care today they can find another guy in 10 minutes on the internet.
@natesquestyouknowthatsrigh8269
@natesquestyouknowthatsrigh8269 3 месяца назад
On line is BS. Get there, and meet girls in person from the get go. 👍🏼
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Good advice
@ignaciobalais5394
@ignaciobalais5394 3 месяца назад
Me if its winter in NY im in the Philippines from October - March then back here in NY for 6 months
@ianrichardson3228
@ianrichardson3228 Месяц назад
Never rely on anyone else. Just do what you need to satisfy yourself, don't plan on pleasing anyone else. 🏖️
@JohnSeltzer-l7p
@JohnSeltzer-l7p 24 дня назад
I'm so thankful I came back to the United States. The laws are so strict in the Philippines for non crimes in the United States. Visa are getting harder and can't trust anyone. You can think your in love and having a great life, until you find out this person is lawfully married without knowing. When everything is cheaper doesn't mean it's better.
@Carolina480
@Carolina480 3 месяца назад
Mark l like yuor honesty not everything it’s paradise
@StormTrooper-bf6xb
@StormTrooper-bf6xb Месяц назад
Done 4 month long trips in the Philippines,loved it there and considered retirement there. Reconsidered,the pit falls out weighs any advantages. As for Asian women just don’t. Had 3 just drain your resources and they take and take and give nothing back
@ScottDschaak
@ScottDschaak 2 месяца назад
I guess im one of the lucky ones. My girl is simply amazing. As far as living there, it's been tough, but unlike a lot of guys my age, im pretty flexible. That and i have a rather sizable retirement package. My fiance has told me on numerous occasions that she would go or move anywhere i want. My short-term plans are to buy a nice but modest home in Davao city, and a possible second home in Argentina, where it even cheaper to live and purchase a home. Not to mention they have edible beef there in abundance. But to your point of picking the right woman, its simple, stop choosing the same kind of girl and expecting someone different. Women are women no matter the geographical boundaries. Find a happy Filipina, one that appreciates and loves her simple life, one who is close to God. She's there, praying for a good man to give her all to.
@c.s.mcleod7383
@c.s.mcleod7383 2 месяца назад
Yes. Philipinne beef isn't tasty. I was fortunate to find imported U.S. and Canadian beef at a grocery store recently.
@vinnyterranova6871
@vinnyterranova6871 Месяц назад
Come on really? If a guy falls for all these traps or just travel to Ph because he met her online he is just plain inexperienced and probably never really had multiple women in his life.
@bradbradshaw-i4n
@bradbradshaw-i4n Месяц назад
if you think because you talk with someone on the computer that that person is your girlfriend you are living in la la land.
@grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114
@grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114 3 месяца назад
I am 77 years old Canadian living in Philippines. I have a gorgeous 47-year-old Filipina. I could have my pick of Canadian women my age but got depressed just thinking about them. No way could I get a woman like I have in Canada. I did not come here for the Philippines, only for my girlfriend because I saw the importance of keeping her near her large family. She comes from a middle-class family who never ask me for anything. I love Canada and would never leave if not for my Filipina. I enjoy the culture here as it reminds me of Canada 70 years ago. I raise roosters here as I did in Canada and have a Filipino Dog. I am very happy here but would tell any foreigner to stay in their home country unless they want to be with a woman like I have. Also, make sure your Filipina has excellent English and exceptional communication skills. Know exactly what you want and make it clear to her at the very beginning. Do not tolerate any control nonsense, tampo or jealousy. If she does not accept you fully on your terms, man up, dump her and find a better one.
@lancefogle1433
@lancefogle1433 3 месяца назад
EXACTLY 😊😊😊
@cammontreuil7509
@cammontreuil7509 2 месяца назад
Sure yah do ?
@sacmarcela1973
@sacmarcela1973 2 месяца назад
Wise advice 😊pinay here
@lkabong5529
@lkabong5529 2 месяца назад
I have a hard enough time trying to figure out what my American dog is saying, much less a Filipino dog.
@gemox3225
@gemox3225 2 месяца назад
It sounds like you made a good choice for yourself in terms of a lady. Many guys can't do this. Perhaps most guys are too desperate.
@JuaneDosesII-wj6dd
@JuaneDosesII-wj6dd 23 дня назад
Go live in a 3rd world country ?!? What could go wrong 😝?
@jamesdeckard3194
@jamesdeckard3194 3 месяца назад
You need family you can count on back home you need savings that you will only use to get back to your home country in a emergency situation and 1800 usd a month for a ok life / 3000 usd a month for a great life and of course common sense 😊
@rickcinway2312
@rickcinway2312 22 дня назад
…” it didn’t work out”…. But, things worked out beautifully for the Filipina. As, the expat watches flabbergastedly as the Filipina’s extremely grateful parents move in to the freshly built home that he paid for.
@spiffingbooks2903
@spiffingbooks2903 2 месяца назад
Pretty decent summary of many of the issues. I think the health issue is worth emphasising. My guesstimate is that realistically living in Phils reduces your life expectancy by 3 to 5 years. Main factors would be high rates of alcoholism and obesity among ex pats, poor medical facilities, motorbikes/traffic, murder. One has to set that against the fun of having way more choice in terms of relationships. For many the risks are worth taking, but I would recommend anyone coming here to be sure to start eating healthily and ideally do a little exercise.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 2 месяца назад
Good advice. Thank you for watching
@L4P-Monk
@L4P-Monk 3 месяца назад
Relationship issues... yeah who doesn't have that. However, what do you do when that happens to you? It depends. Get back on the horse? Up to you. My reason is adventure and exploration. I'm not dating anymore. Straight waste of my time and I don't have much time left. I walked away. Not starting relationship again. Much happier now. Please find your happiness. It doesn't have to be with someone else. All these people with relationships that work out... it is a dream. It won't happen for everyone. Do what makes you happy. There are many many places to explore. I haven't scratched the surface myself. I'm not leaving until every stone is unturned. I have a long way to go.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your experiences
@alansapilipinas
@alansapilipinas 3 месяца назад
Thailand 🇹🇭 is way better, in many ways. But I love both.
@JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y
@JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y 2 месяца назад
I’ve heard great things! If you are older man just realize that you are retiring into celibacy and they don’t have (as far as I know) anything like the SRRV smile visa like the Philippines
@jonirving5606
@jonirving5606 3 месяца назад
This is great information. To guys planning to come over here. No matter who the woman is that you choose, she is going to have very close ties to her family. She will likely want to spend time with them even if you two are married. Think about how you would respond to that. I am lucky that I really like my Filipina wife's family. ALL of them. And there are a lot of them. They are from the province, and live together to make ends meet. I think this is the biggest deal breaker (second to infidelity) in terms of what I hear from expats. And Mark is right. Most relationships do not work out back home, either. Keep that in perspective.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊
@garyzies3486
@garyzies3486 3 месяца назад
That's how it usually goes. Most new expats are not prepared to deal with the culture and the financial burden involved.
@MrBatteryChanger1
@MrBatteryChanger1 3 месяца назад
@@garyzies3486 if you can learn the language it is a huge plus and an advantage. Problem I had was many were shocked when they got told off in Visaya.
@rodjones4400
@rodjones4400 2 месяца назад
25 years ago I married a 25 year old Filipina nurse and took her to California for 10 years. I retired and we moved back 14 years ago. We are here to stay. Our children, and my wife are joint citizens, and this is our home. We are in South Negros, rural Bayawan. Power is out at least twice a day, as is internet. I am diabetic, and I have prostate cancer. Lupron is about 4k USD per year, over a 100 km in California. I have a cancer urologist at Silliman University medical, where my son is a student, and a good diabetes doctor in Bayawan. Diet and exercise. We have 3 cars and 2 motorcycles. The plastic shield during CV19 was insane. Killed a lot of people. I am dam near deaf, and have an attorney do my immigration crap. But I am a permanent resident, just renewed for 5 more years. Have 2 fishing boats, and they fish together for redundancy safety. My wife turns 50 this week, and there will be over a hundred people at the party. Family is everything in the Philippines. PS- I was a COP in California for 40 years, and a USMC 😊
@alikabok-es4sx
@alikabok-es4sx 2 месяца назад
You hit the jackpot. You married a woman who really loves you. But your case is the exception, not the norm. God bless!
@nesq4104
@nesq4104 2 месяца назад
What do you mean by plastic shield? Are you saying a lot of cops died?
@1307scooter
@1307scooter 3 месяца назад
Coming up on 1 month here with my 2 dogs and I'm all in on living the rest of my life here. I sold most of my things and have 10 balakbayan boxes coming. i just found a house in Bacong with backup generator that I will move into in August. I just bought a scooter and feel that I have made the best decision of my life. I don't have a Filipino, and not looking.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Let's meet. I live in Bacong markfthornton@yahoo.com
@jeffjeff4477
@jeffjeff4477 3 месяца назад
Finally , a nice positive comment!!lol I love the pi Province is nice and quiet, if you're 15 20 minutes from a coffee shop and market, perfect, a Giazanos or SM, Bonus. You need a solid support indeed. I've known my spouse , family for over 10 years, you need a plan and to find what You want. A Filipina partner is amazing and wonderful. Not a 5 minute internet relationship guys, or Instagram video... Live your life and enjoy yourselves! Planning on either 50/50 USA / PI Or eventually cashing out and full time PI. Need a plan and not just some RU-vid video to decide. Great channel and insight Always nice to see the honesty, positives and not just how much the pi sucks. Too many of those. Again Thanks for posting FL USA
@Marrea-q1m
@Marrea-q1m 2 месяца назад
America is imperfect but it's the best country you've got. Love your country like no other. Defend it; like we do. Find work that you love. Your work dignifies you.
@jamesrecknor6752
@jamesrecknor6752 Месяц назад
TRUE
@Daneiladams555
@Daneiladams555 Месяц назад
It’s not the best country anymore. That is a load of crap. Im American and I have no problem leaving for good…
@bardwheelo
@bardwheelo Месяц назад
@@Daneiladams555 I was an expat and had to return to America for a variety of reasons. It's got what I need now, but I was happier abroad. You're absolutely right. Those who think it's "the best" are provincials. Other countries have their strengths and weaknesses, but I think America was very good at one time. It was a time when we lead the world to Christ and a higher standard of living through work and innovation. All of that is implicitly Christian. We've lost that.
@Daneiladams555
@Daneiladams555 Месяц назад
@@bardwheelo it’s not about religion for me
@bardwheelo
@bardwheelo Месяц назад
@@Daneiladams555 What's it about?
@Joseph-k3f
@Joseph-k3f Месяц назад
It's August where I live. It's hot out, you have a beautiful home in the background. There are different platforms with different information. I take it to philippine a women, very jealous. American man don't wanna walk on egg shells.
@joantheresecruz9474
@joantheresecruz9474 5 дней назад
just stay single and stay rich brothers. even us filipino men here are having the same problems now ---social media and the feminist culture is destroying women
@stupadass6989
@stupadass6989 3 месяца назад
Put separated on your passport . Don't get married . Live common law . Find a employed partner . Build your own medical plan by saving if over 60 . Never lend money to anyone . Never buy used vehicle from a local as they are selling means it has many problems . Never send money until you see them in person . The Philippines will consider you married after three years of common law . That's why you put separated on your passport !
@TCKRDefense
@TCKRDefense 25 дней назад
A common-law relationship is a legal or informal marriage between two unmarried people who live together and present themselves as a couple. However, the requirements for a common-law relationship vary by state and country. Here are some common requirements for a common-law relationship: Cohabitation The couple must live together for a certain amount of time, usually one year. This cohabitation must be continuous, not intermittent. Public representation The couple must present themselves as a married couple to friends, family, and the community. Child custody The couple may have a child together, either biological or adopted. One partner may also have custody of the other's child. California does not recognize common-law marriages. This means that even if a couple lives together for many years, they will not have the same rights and privileges as a married couple unless they go through the formal marriage process.
@TCKRDefense
@TCKRDefense 25 дней назад
No, common law marriage is not recognized in the Philippines. This is because the Civil Code and the New Family Code of the Philippines do not recognize common law marriage. The legal system of the Philippines is a mix of customary usage, Roman civil law, Anglo-American common law, and Islamic law. This is due to the immigration of Muslim Malays in the 14th century and the colonization of the islands by Spain and the United States. The term "common-law marriage" is often used to describe cohabiting couples, regardless of any legal rights or religious implications. This can lead to confusion about the legal rights of unmarried partners.
@jdsguam
@jdsguam 17 дней назад
I retired from the Army back in '92. If I was single at the time, I most certainly would have retired in the Philippines. But, I have a family and so I chose Guam instead. Been here ever since. Now as I approach 70, I think Guam was my best choice, although the cost of living is becoming unbearable.
@kennethedwards1677
@kennethedwards1677 3 месяца назад
Look guys, do you really want to be her 'pay piggy'? Pay for her kids, her parents, her extended family? Pay for a high priced phone, she uses to ignore you with? I try not to use the word 'simp' (a weak man, desperate for female companionship), but too many of us older gents behave like super $!mps when we come to the Philippines, or like we have no sense of self-respect, and rationalize the reasons for it to ourselves. Our lady, whomever we choose, picks up an this, and her vampire teeth spring out as she drains us financially. A female here will almost always push the financial envelope if you allow it, then often leave you laying in a proverbial ditch afterward. Ask yourself: do you REALLY want to raise and SUPPORT more kids, be a welfare plan for her extended family, or do you feel you have to do this to keep her? Would you have done the same back in your home country? Did we even want to help the poor there? If you really do want to have more kids, few things will bring you closer to your partner/spouse than having your own. Some of my friends here, one of whom recently went bankrupt before he 'suspiciously' drowned in the ocean, told me he was too old to start over, yet agreed to support his lady's 4 kids! My partner was single, no kids, when I met her and moved here at 61, and we had our daughter when I was 62. Finally, if you're uncommitted or haven't already moved, consider that the Philippines is not the only game in town, or even SE Asia. A smaller, quieter (cheaper?) country might be a better fit for you. Don't commit to a woman you never met, nor a country you've never lived in, until you been with her/lived there awhile. This is one of the most important decisions of your life, or new life. Choose wisely!
@garyzies3486
@garyzies3486 3 месяца назад
Well said. Sounds like you have a lot of experience.
@PRESIDENTTrumpisright
@PRESIDENTTrumpisright 3 месяца назад
kenneth....U R right. Married my BICOL PINAY in 1979. She was 17.....I was 23. I chose her out of 110 applicants after placing a tiny ADV in the "BULLETIN TODAY" newspaper for one day. The mainstream PINAY was slender back then. Today.....she is a fat slob with a cell phone in her hands & tramp stamps on her skin. I am not talking about the exceptions. The exception proves the rule.
@samuelschick8813
@samuelschick8813 7 дней назад
A big part of the problem are the vloggers like Mindanao Bob who misrepresent the Philippines online. They tell men how great the country is, the women are loyal, low crime, it's clean, first world medical care and cheap to live in the Philippines. The people who have never have never been to the Philippines swallow it hook, line and sinker. Those vloggers never allow anyone to say anything about the negative aspects of living in the Philippines. They tell them foreigners can own land and a house, foreigners cannot own land or a house in the Philippines. One American vlogger had a video telling foreigners he build and own a house and the land. When I put up that the law where it said foreigners can be on the contract to buy the house, they cannot be listed on the deed of ownership, he deleted my comment.
@WarrenRCG
@WarrenRCG 3 месяца назад
You need patience and a small ego if you are a foreigner in the Philippines. Visiting there and gathering marriage requirements has taught me well. I still get impatient at times😅
@mrbbqlvr4274
@mrbbqlvr4274 3 месяца назад
Hit the nail on the head with that comment!
@PinoyHolyGrail
@PinoyHolyGrail 2 месяца назад
the small ego may ba a huge stumbling block for most guys iu have see here
@Mmouse1948
@Mmouse1948 10 дней назад
Its very important to know that there is no way to legally divorce in PH. It's also better to move to Thailand that has better infrastructure and medical care and many beautiful women. But other comments about not buying a house in wife's name apply equally in Thailand. I lost a 10 million baht house in Bangkok to my dishonest wife.
@robertkolleck1508
@robertkolleck1508 3 месяца назад
You may know this scene, a couple of days ago I came out of the beautiful mountains of Utah, and there was a Shakespeare festival in Cedar City, and it only took 90 minutes to go to Mesquite NV. 3 months here and 3 months in the Philippines work for me.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
You're so lucky I miss Utah
@yaimavol
@yaimavol Месяц назад
KIds today don't know who Shakeseare is. He's a dead white poet and therefore not worth studying anymore.
@JRINASIA
@JRINASIA 3 месяца назад
Mark, outstanding video. Great info.
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
So glad you liked it 😊
@rogerbryan3023
@rogerbryan3023 2 месяца назад
Rent is not expensive Why buy?
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 2 месяца назад
I Agree
20 дней назад
Check out Central America. For me only 2+ hours flight to Cleveland Clinic in Weston for best medical care in the USA using medicare and high deductible supplement. Been in Nicaragua 20 years but like Guatamala for cooler temps. Wife is almost 40 years younger, we have two highly successful children, two houses one at the best surf beach the other above Managua in coffee country, housekeepers at both, two cars, golf course, etc. Live on retirement and a bit of rental income. Pura vida on a budget!
@AussieCro1985
@AussieCro1985 3 месяца назад
This is super extreme on building a house for her without meeting her. Don’t trust online dating.
@charlesburke2379
@charlesburke2379 3 месяца назад
Why does everybody want to build houses? There's plenty of great stuff to rent. And everybody's going to get injured or sick eventually. And if the hospitals are as inadequate as everybody says they are then nobody is really here permanently. Not even the guys that build those great houses.
@JoeLakeview
@JoeLakeview 27 дней назад
It's a dump dirty polluted
@solarguy1702
@solarguy1702 3 месяца назад
I've been here 16 years. Don't like it at all but alternative destinations disappeared as I got older. I would call it slumming.
@gregwil694
@gregwil694 3 месяца назад
Haha
@expatlifestyle2000
@expatlifestyle2000 3 месяца назад
Blunt honesty. I like it, thanks.
@ScooterOnHisWay2024
@ScooterOnHisWay2024 3 месяца назад
Try Thailand.
@dennynisevic7848
@dennynisevic7848 3 месяца назад
Why you don't like it
@amadoparragua6989
@amadoparragua6989 3 месяца назад
There's Nigeria, way cheaper, there's, Pakistan, there's Lebanon, there's actually so many way way better places to try. We cannot waste our short lives in a place we're not happy about. Let's have a happy life, not miserable. We cannot say we don't like a place or something, but we hang on to it, or staying there for many years anyway.
@HankGallows
@HankGallows 17 дней назад
The Philippines is cheap, but very ghetto. I'm looking at Cambodia and Thailand mostly.
@josemedeiros007
@josemedeiros007 2 месяца назад
You brought up a great point, only Filipino citizens can only land in the Philippines, at least that is what I heard when I worked at Intel, their location in the Philippines is actually owned by a Filipino Citizen.
@MickeyMishra
@MickeyMishra Месяц назад
If you can Handle NYC? Seattle? California? You are good. Lived Elsewhere in your life or growing up? Easy. For older guys or military retired over 50? Great place if you are single and just want to lay back and enjoy the comforts and get some real rest and relaxation in the form of cheap healthcare, cheap massages and personal care. Don't forget to pop over to Thailand, Japan , Guam, malaysia, Vietnam, China, and other places around and backpack and travel. If your paying more than $100 bucks to live or keep your stuff there? You are doing it all wrong if living is what you want to do. Bucket Listers are going to like the place. (me for example) My personal advice is get some cheap home or apartment for rent way out in Rural Japan. Also, why Rural Japan? If you like to help out folks and stay busy? Japan is a fun place to be. They got these work vacation things where you work from 10-25 hours a week, and get free room, board, Internet etc. Its a CHEAP way to take a vacation. And great for people who don't often get around people or have trouble with that sort of thing and feel way more comfy working while being someplace. (Me)
@naldebol
@naldebol 3 месяца назад
Also, Mark, for your health -- you can take care of your blood pressure without any medication from the pharmacy that is made to treat blood pressure. 1) Avoid adding salt to your food 2) eliminate alcohol 3) exercise , walk or run , at a pace that is comfortably challenging 4) Eat plenty of vegetables, especially include green, leafy ones 5) Eat plenty of fruits 5) Do not consume processed foods nor junk or fast food, even worse for you is processed sugars 6) eliminate as much as possible meats, dairy, trans fats That is it. Easy prescription to healthy blood pressure Time tested and irrefutable 5)
@Regi869
@Regi869 3 месяца назад
Where did you get the info? Sounds good
@everymanhasastory
@everymanhasastory 3 месяца назад
Thank you for this excellent advice!
@pedrotinaco1
@pedrotinaco1 3 месяца назад
That's hard to do in Philippines. Most Filipinos not heeding that advice. We're persuaded to eat rice and meat, drink sodas, and drink alcohol
@naldebol
@naldebol 3 месяца назад
@@pedrotinaco1 I lived in the PH. I still go back there. What others do and what you do does not have to be the same. You don't need to have the same habits as other people Worldwide, the vast majority of people do a horrible job of taking care of their own health. You don't have to be ordinary. You can do different. I lived in PH and I was and I am still a vegan or plant base eater. I got rid of all my medications when I was living in PH. No more meds to deal with my blood pressure I don't even use a CPAP anymore to sleep to deal with snoring. I am good to go now.
@rgb711
@rgb711 3 месяца назад
Sea salt is okay to use and eat an animal based or a carnivore diet. All plant foods are toxic and don't eat carbohydrates. Do some dry fasting. This is only for those who want the best of health. You can survive by eating plant fillers and carbohydrates, but if you want to thrive eat a carnivore diet. Meats, organ meats, fish, seafood, butter, eggs, milk and cheese.
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