Rich men don't want to marry because they don't want to loose their freedom. Poor man can't marry because most of the women will prefer to stay unmarried rather than engaging with poor men.
What you said is true. Women want husbands with salary packages very High or matching them as evident in matrimonial sites. Well women are right in having that demand. So it is tough time for boys. I am single at 36 and not sure if I would be able to get married.
I'm a 30 years old female n i have seen my mom facing domestic abuse from Dad during childhood and this has made me realize that it's better off being alone than with the wrong person. Same goes to the males too
As a 25M, I feel the concept of marriage nowadays to be a kind of big business deal and nothing else. You study well, graduate from a good college, make a decent salary but the moment you hear about marriage people say you don't have a house, car, you have this much loan and what not. They are simply saying WHAT YOU HAVE IS NOT ENOUGH. Of course people can earn this over a period of time, but what's the point of marrying someone who doesn't want to be on your side when you are working hard, struggling but wants the fruitful results alone? It is better not to get married than ending up with a person who judges you for your materialistic possessions.
@Harsh Patel 😔😔,, yes bro beacuse of family pressure ,, better to find groom with the help of relatives and friends network and make the girl financially independent [ goverment jobs using reservations] this would be a good move
@Harsh Patel bro bpsc ka exam ,, ssc ,,, every state has their exam like bpsc and most imp exam THE GATE exam can be given by even bsc students ,,,, pcs exam ,, lower pcs exam and many more bro ,, meri bahen bhi pcs ki tayari kar rahi hai bro
*Advantages of Not Doing marriage* 1. SAVING EASILY 50 LAKH ON MARRIAGE 2. NO CONFLICTS 3. YOU CAN LIVE A GOOD LIFE WITH YOUR PARENTS 4. more savings, Means Better Lifestyle 5. NO DEPRESSION, MEANS NO HEART ATTACK, MEANS LONGER LIFE
I am 30 years old single man. All my life I got rejected by girls due look and status. Same groom family keep rejecting me due to look and status. I told my family I am happy to be the single. Today, I work for myself, earn for myself, spend on myself and love myself.
@@markratata Great bro, as a Doctor you can even have far better life then me, jealous. Hit the gym get great shape, wear cool cloth, eat well and enjoy the life. That's my target only currently struggling with money. So live a life.
😂 I tried getting hitched and 99% of the wamen 1st question how much do you earn, not what is your name. 2nd question more of a statement 😅 they all demanded 25k onwards for makeup and for parties with their bf with occasional hotel room rent to have fun with bf 😂 after listening to all that my parents no longer tell me to get married 😂
@@sharathSizZlemen can expect dowry, beautiful girl, educated one and who knows every household work why can't girl expect a financially settled guy. What do you expect l then? Men shaming girls who are fat is it fine? Who will pay the hospital bills, groceries and school fee for the kids? Moreover respect matters when men don't respect women this is what happens. Buying bride?
I was born in Haryana, but later moved to Jharkhand. The first thing which I noticed after coming to Jharkhand was that in my class the girl population seemed more, which was indeed true. In my school in Haryana, there were 23 boys and 7 girls, while the same in Jharkhand was 25 girls and 30 boys. I remember that I once heard my mom talking on the phone that there are no girls in Haryana. 😅
Let me give you an example of the same in my actual real life experience, i have a friend who works in IT he is almost 29, he is actively looking for a bride and so when he got a match with a girl, her father was a driver of some sort with monthly income of 10K , my friend said if the girl is good thats all that matters and he went to see the girl , but the father of the girl rejected him saying he doesn't earn much, the package of my friend is 15lac per annum 🤦♂️
Yes this happens quite a lot. Even non earning girls with bad family background financially wants upwards of 20 25 lpa. Thats why try having love marriage with colleague/same college. Both will earn equal.
@@abracadabra7550 i have 2 factories and 3 room for rent and big plots to give to bride and if they need gov job i will ready to prepare for it but after marriage this is my strategy 😂😂my age is now 25 years but I will need a bride somehow so that our marriage will be done happily and have a better kids in future
To be honest. For all males and females marriage has become a mystery. Some feel it as business. Some are afraid of toxicity. Some don't understand why to get married and loose freedom. Inshort everyone is confused in the aspect of marriage 😂
@@IPSITA1000 If one is able to activate the complimentary energy within themselves, then the dependency on other gender becomes less. It can be achieved using yoga, Healing process etc. Twin flame is all about the same, to realize we are complete with in our ourselves, realize and embracing it.
A lot of men need to understand, it is better to be unmarried than to be in the wrong marriage. A wrong woman can single handedly throw your entire family in jail with fake allegations and demand massive ransom as alimony. So you are relatively better off at this moment. Focus on stabilizing yourself. Women will come if you have enough money to provide them a decent lifestyle.
@@meenapatel1648 any parent imposing their experience onto thier child to the point they leave aside an aspect of life is programming trauma. A healthy parent informs and guides the child through the experience. Both the OP and you are so afraid of a "relationship with the wrong person" that you will never accept flaws in the other person.
Interesting. Bigoted people will say My Parents' Relation Was Perfect, bcs My Country Is Perfect ...... Interesting to read many different opinions on the topic nowadays.
I am 23 preparing for job i belong from middle class family Reason i dont want to be in relationship now is because i dont have enough money I can't go on a date to any restaurant and ,I don't own bike. I have limited amount of money which i spend only on my needs. And also I approached a girl few yrs back i shared my feelings to her and got rejected it was a great life lesson. 😂 From there on i spend lot of time with my family and its an amazing experience ♥️ ❤️.
badhia h, ladkia social media dekh ke apne swapno ke mahal me ji rahi h jo ki kabhi pura nehi hoga ....jab vo budhi ho jayegi aur koi attention nehi dega unhe tab bhuktegi like in America
@@InshruTripathi i know bike,car financial condition yeh sab toh reason nhi he rejection ke,she sees me as a friend not more than that and that's ok. ♥️
One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)
As an Introvert I will never marry. It's better to remain unmarried than having an incompatible spouse. I love my single life. I can feel peace and solitude. Majority of people marry not because they love the person genuinely, but because society forced them to marry. There is no genuineness.
I am 29 years old and have a govt job. Still I don't want to marry because of my medical condition. I have auto immune disorder which makes my life worse. I don't want any girl to regret after marriage 😞
Even my doctor also said something like that. But what does it mean. What is the issues we face because of it. Can you share a video describing about it. Thank you
One big reason is because of the gender biased laws against men in India. According to Indian law, a married man can be charged with adultery but the wife can't be charged (IPC 497). In addition, a man can't be a victim of domestic violence (IPC 498A) & can't be raped (IPC 376)
Adultery was declared unconstitutional by the SC. Sec 377 can be used to give justice to male victims of rape. Yes, sec 377 was used to wrongfully hold LGBT+ youth but now it had been read down. Now only non consensual (r@pe) are held illegal. But I agree that men cannot be victim of domestic violence in India as of now (for dense people this sentence is according to Indian laws and not my personal opinion SMH 🙄)
Reasons a guy scared to get married - 1. Unstable income 2. Unsecured future 3. Unemployed 4. Girls have high expectations from her life partner. 5. Extra marital affairs of girls 6. Harsh Alimony and maintenance 7. Unfavourable marram laws against men. 8. False matrimonial cases against men. 9. Loosing freedom, doubling responsibilities 10. Girls have social media partners, colleagues and ex-bf to support, but men haven’t.
Today, female donot want to get married.. it's true. I'm 27 year old female and i also don't want to get married.. bcoz in every marriage around me except for my parents, i have seen mental and emotional abuses, sometimes physical also.. crying girls with no option.. so, many people think that it's better to remain single and unmarried than abusive relationship and divorce. Ask any married couple around you, almost 99% will say that marriage is like a trap. Also in Indian society, parents donot want their children to do love marriage, and instead they try to find girl or boy by themselves in their caste.
Very good bro I appreciate but I am belong poor family and I have one sister if you don't choose poor girl for marriage so this is also not good I suggest you should decided marige with good girl and low income family that my opinion and also I agree many good looking girl rejected me and also I have one sister they want married but know one want poor family background
It seems to be a global issue. I've spent more than five years residing in Korea. I came to know that most of my Korean friends are not interested in getting married when we talk about marriage. Compared to India, Korea has a substantially larger percentage of single people. Even girls do not desire marriage. This is due to the high living standards, independent lifestyle, unstable financial situation, and many other factors. And unfortunately, it's become a common issue within several parts of India nowadays!
Sahi baat bhai, 2 rishte aae shadi k and its not that they are bad looking but they are too bland aka they got no hobbies or things they like and their whole personality is based on 'mai khana bna leti hu", which is not bad but khana banane k alawa aur bhi to kaam hai.
@@MsmithjonesravenBhai, yaha ulta bhi hai... Intelligent ladkiya who can hold up on their own, ladko ko achi nhi lagti.... Mummy bolti hai, jyada smart mai Jatana khudko... Ab hai toh kya karein.... I got rejected because the guy loved momos and I like fitness .... Tumhe apni side ka pata hai, ladkiyo se pucho ladko ke kya haal hai
I 32 right now and decided not to marry. I earn, cook, clean my house, take care of my parents and everything in my own hand don’t feel I need to get marriage ever. No need to spend 5-10 lakhs in wedding which may have no return. Divorce rate is rising, women file fake rape/domestic violence cases against men/husband. Individuality is important. Regarding kids, India is overpopulated; cost of education, property, and healthcare is rising alarmingly. Don’t want to bring a child in a country which have corrupted govt. poor infrastructure, lack of resources to lead a average life. Better travel, invest money in FD, MF, stocks and create wealth and adopt kids.
Eather u r living in joint family with brothers , or with ur friends as room mates , or u haven't reached the age of 37 at least ... It's very hard to live alone in ur own house , with all the luxuries with no one taking care.... What's ur punch ???
@@RajKumar-de9vp I am not talking about mothers and wives I am taking about the general perception created. We are made to believe that women are quintessential part of a man's success. They motivate and support us in achieving our goals but sadly it's a fallacy.
My uncle did an inter-cast marriage, initially his parents and family were skeptical but she turned out to be a really smart person, with good communication skills and she's really good with people, now everyone loves her. They were colleagues and then they did an love marriage.
I think sometimes love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Atleast in love marriage people care about each other and know enough about each other....
I think inter-cast marriage is a good thing. Somehow a lot of people are attracted and have more respect for other religions. Same thing happens abroad - people have respect for foreigners more than their own country people. They have successful marriages.
@@GurpreetKaur-hj9xgnot really....this is sure opposite attracts but attraction is not eternal. My sister had inter caste marriage and she complaint and advise my younger sister to marry in own culture and own community.
To all the young men out there. Work smartly and pursue your goals, get rich, be disciplined, go to gym for yourself not to show-off, be the best version of yourself in terms of personality, be honest to yourself and think 10000 times before marrying because if divorce happens your wife will take away your children, half property, money and permanent monthly alimony even if the divorce is initiated by her. Take care of your parents and be strong. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
You didn't mention one important factor!!!!! Girl with 5L package wants boys with 50L package. I have seen couple of cases near me that boys are so fed up of rejection due to their salary that they now gave up on marriage and don't wanna get married.
some get cheated so deeply they just get drowned and couldnt get rise. and life inside them dies eventually, with all desires gets dead. We shouldn't break trust, life becomes punishment after getting cheated for long time
Completely agree with you. Girls are having so much expectations as they have more options even if she is not earning much or looking good. But if you don't have good looks then your good salary also not gonna help
As somebody who continues to battle mental issues, I think that it would be incorrect to state that only men in Indian society don't get to talk about their mental health. In reality, nobody in Indian society gets to talk about mental health. It is still a taboo subject outside the urban upper middle class Indian society. Concepts of depression & stress are seen by an average Indian as fanciful terms used only by the elites of Lutyen's Delhi & South Bombay. Visiting a psychiatrist is considered equivalent to being certified insane in the larger society. This is mostly because of the fact that the school curriculum doesn't discusses about it unless one enters medical college & the resulting lack of interest for it in the public. All of this results in cases of schizophrenia, bipolar disorder & multiple personality disorder being tagged as ghostly/demonic possession, people silently suffering under family members with intermittent explosive disorder, children with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder being not cared properly, post-traumatic stress disorder being hushed up & a host of other societal problems.
Not only that mate, it is also very expensive and not affordable for a lot of Indians to visit a therapist or psychiatrist. Especially adult boys and men in our society since they have this responsibility to take care of their family and not appear weak despite going through all the motions .
It's impossible to approach your parents with such issues. I tried...It's not like they don't believe you it's just that they don't know how to handle it as they were always told to "suck it up" because "that's life"
@@shadymello9146 so on point mate. Also as a growing adult I feel like it's my responsibility to not burden them with my issues and instead help them get better. It's a slippery slope but we're all riding it.
there are two ways of looking at it, one is your way which is what i will refer to as the wester idea of visiting a psychiatrist, the other is the indian way, meditation. You see, historically, tension and stress have never been lower than today. while today we worry abt competition, back in those days ppl worried abt life and death. the factor that has changed is our ability to cope with that shit. ppl are getting mentally ill simply bcz their patience has decreased over the ages. thats the lowp oint of technology. instant gratifications, fast travel, consuming american cuisine while looking at our phones. in between our lifestyles, we have no breaks to simply think and observe. to contemplate abt the event of the day. to think where we could have compromised, to think where we could have won. all the time our mind has learned to be occupied so much that whenever there comes a time we are unable to occupy ourselves, all hell breaks lose, we start observing how deep we r already in the abyss. in a nation where we already have simple free solutions, even in them all we do is click photos and post to get likes. what else do you expect. our parents might not have gone through the immense competition but then they also didnt have all those mental issues so frequently. these days kids so randomly say they are depressed that it has lost all its meaning here. poor marks? depressed. lost a game?depressed. i mean wtf. not in a relationship? depressed. cmon ppl. all it takes is 15 mins in a day to sit straight close your eyes and focus on anything. no cameras no devices. just think. start there and slowly progress towards say your faith. all it takes is to not look at the phones during those bus rides and metro rides. all it takes is to have less oily food and more roti sabji. change your lifestyle, accept your reality. even a psychiatrist can only hear you. its not that effective when you really spend all that money.
Men who are even considering marriage should visit the divorce courts and see how men are being rammed by the women and judges; how unfair is the system; how tragic is it for men and their families.
I saw my friends crying because his wife cheated on him and lied on the court... And took his house, his kids and his wealth he worked hard to make and went and started living with the guy she cheated on. I even seen women cheating in my office, older women who have 2 or even 3 kids!!! And she was shameless in doing it.. The law is against men... Why should I bother getting married just to lose all my career and the wealth I built?
I also saw my friend who got beaten by her husband and in the bigging of the marriage he take so much dowry and gifts she was married at the age of 20 and she isn't that much educated and employable
Mangal, U missed a VERY IMPORTANT POINT!! Since your video revolves around unmarried Indian men, the main reason for this situation is the high bargaining power from the prospective bride and her parents. On any day, if U go through a 'Wanted Grooms' section of any Indian matrimonial website or regional newspapers, U will easily find those criteria, not commonly matched by major population of Indian single men. For example, IIT/IIM (Both) Graduate, 7-8 digit Salary, NRI, Government job, Height above 6ft, etc. Whereas, in 'Wanted Brides' section, Maximum criteria that U will find from the men's parents side 'Wanted homely, qualified, beautiful girl for....'. U see the difference of wants here?? This has come to a level where every Indian knows at least one person, Man or Woman, who remained unmarried, just because either their criteria from their prospective partners were NOT fulfilled (mostly Indian women), or their demographics could NOT match the criteria of their prospective partners (mostly Indian men).
Exactly.....It is difficult to digest that how could a women or girls parent bargain or argue....aren't they a cattle or something to get shift in truck from one place to another....n how dare she is educated or ugly or want to work,this is just not acceptable...she is a girl she have to be dependent and obey order.... I m a man this my patriarchal system....don't u dare girls expect something from me,it's me who is expecting your independence ,chuck of your dad's money to get married
Indians are crazy about government jobs, don't know why 🤷♂. I am working in IT sector and I am earning more than most government officers. And yet I was rejected by girl's family twice in arranged marriage setup. They say that private job is not secure. But if one has enough skills, he/she can find another job easily.
Recession, the constant struggle to upscale and staying relevant to the industry standards is not a headache for us. Meanwhile we government employees were chill even during covid. The child of even a peon is secured with top class education if one is employed in the central government.
@@anishashaji4133 Corporate sector does take care of the employees nowadays and I am not against any private job. But when in a government job one feels like, "my basic security needs have been satisfied, now I can find time for other stuff to do"
Marriage is becoming a deadly trap for Indian men these days due to absurdity of Indian laws. Imagine working hard, earning and saving your entire life then you get married and if you have divorce then everything you have worked for is taken away from you. You loose the house, you loose half of your salary, you loose the kids, plus getting heckled in the courts is common. Imagine paying money to your ex wife who will now use that money to fund her lifestyle with another man. Who'd want that life? Lol. Better to be in a live in relationship. Less issues like these. I mean, there's issue of fake rape cases nd all but if the girl is good it's fine mostly!
You can sign a Prenuptial agreement before marrying. That way you won't loose anything after divorce. (No legal value, but it has persuasive value. Means you can show it in court if it's a 100% original Prenup. Your chances of paying alimony might decrease 🤷♀️)
@@cherrylle PRENUPs not enforceable in courts of law. Any contract that supersede existing law is not enforceable. Matrimonial laws are biased, if gender neutral the implementation is biased resulting in Indian men suffering after false cases, unjust alimony and maintenance.
We need to talk about educating these depressed men about happy life without marriage. Marriage is not a key to happiness. There are many males and females choosing to stay unmarried and are living a very happy life.
After reading so many comments like this, I think I'll not get married by my choice in future and also the girl I'm looking for is kinda rare to find these days😅
I m glad in tribal communities girls r in good ratio with respect to men.....even more than men.....but to change the situation in country level it will take time and innocent men will suffer because of mistake made by our parents 😭
@@manthanpatel6295 because there condition is not good, once there condition will improve they will also start demanding dowry, and conducting very expansive marriages.
@@manthanpatel6295 we don't have dowry but things r changing now for bad.....i have few cases where girls after marriage is taunted for things she brought as gifts......and few families take Pride in expensive gifts they received. Ppl here r getting influenced by other communities in terms of dowry which is bad. We need to take care of this.
I don't think we should make fun of Salman Khan for not marrying anyone. It's his life his choice. Even though he is a celebrity, he is still human and we shouldn't comment on his personal life.
dude is living the life, he doesnt pay alimony and probably hooks up regularly. If any one tries to falsely accuse him or frame him in any manner, he will show them what happens at night, when she walks on a foothpath.
One of my friends relative made their daughter marry a guy of having government job with 20000 rupees but not her bf who was earning more than 5 lakhs from his business monthly 💀💀💀💀💀🤡🤡 Update- the 5 lakh guy bought a GTR just today and has a new gf already and they are getting married And 20000 has a splender only
@@mogleesh-22 yahh he already has and are marrying The incident i mentioned was 3 years ago, though during COVID his business suffered but he had enough money in his pocket already so his Business survived COVID and he is earning more now he also bought a freaking GTR 💀💀💀 where as my friends relatives daughter's family has just a splender on which he carries his whole family 💀💀
If divorce laws are like this and there is no laws for men what do you expect. Who want to marry when the wife is talking your kids and property and she is being rewarded with alimony for this.
Sir please make a video on boys mantel issues and solutions specialy for parents. To show them what they are facing. Many young generation facing this problem because of family pressure. I think this will be a turning point for every indian parents. Thanks 🙏
Tbh, it's a win. Peeps are choosing to not settle for less(both girls AND guys), which might be seen as acting selfish but y not fulfil ur own dreams before taking responsibility of fulfilling those of ur coming generation :) Edit: also Many people hv realised that there's much more to life than just furthering ur generation
@@jainsushree bramhacharya is for 2 kind of people Those who want to completely devote their life to God and want to take sanyas And other is Those who want to have family. Different rules of bramhacharya for different kind of people. It's not like brahmachari people can't marry.
Many of my married friends are either unhappy or struggling with mental health issues 😢 I'm 33 with good 7 figure Income and living great life, Single life is a great life.
Mohak, I was hoping you would give due attention to the *chilling effect* of misuse of Section 498a/dometic violence Law has had on an average Indian man NOT wanting to marry. As a *lawyer* having exposure to *matrimonial disputes* , I have following perspective to offer. *Cost Benefit Analysis* of a divorce initiated by a woman *irrespective of the reason* [This could be a reason as legitimate as domestic violence by husband or on the other end of the spectrum say - woman indulging in adultery yet *misusing* dowry law/domestic violence provisions to *force* a convenient settlement] *cost incurred by woman*- (1) Reduced chances of marriage post divorce. (2) mental scars throughout life, bitterness, reduced self esteem etc. *Incentives to initiate a divorce by woman* - (1) Financial Security - alimony, maintenance, interim relief etc all being born out by the estranged husband (whether or not he has the capacity to pay, even if he is on his death bed he has to pay) (2) custody of children with mother in most cases. (3) Higher chances of having a somewhat normal life in second marriage due to above two reasons. *Cost born by children* - Both mother and father have important role. In absence of father, children often have skewed perspective towards men when they grow up. Their own social life and belief systems are seriously damaged thereby increasing their likelihood of having a failed relationship since a lot of belief system is cemented in early childhood. *Cost incurred by man* - An unfortunate fact of society is that a value of a man is as good as his resources. 1. Dealing with legal cases drains his financial resources (Loss of job, alimony/interim relief, legal costs). Even with loss of job falsely accused husband is still required to maintain his estranged wife and children. 2. Destroys family life not only of the falsely accused husband but his parents, brother, sister. 3. falsely accused husband does not have custody of kids - so no future hope. 4. falsely accused husband faces social humiliation and boycott by society. 5. falsely accused husband due to above issues has lesser chances of a second marriage. 6. Due to above reasons more mental issues and hence increased suicide rates in falsely accused husband. All this where the man may very well be innocent. *Conclusion* : *While 85-90% of women are genuinely benefitted* by the laws which safeguard their rights. At the same time *we can not turn blind eye to 5-10% of women who have been misusing these laws* The above comparison shows that the law is clearly skewed in favour of woman and the misuse of law cannot be just ignored as collateral damage. We require sufficient legal safeguard to protect both men and women *Solutions* : 1. Those who are yet to marry should definitely go for Premarital Counselling 2. Be clear in terms of expectations and be accommodating with one another. 3. Historically, women have been treated unfairly. This does not mean that ire should now be born by some of the men who now face false cases. Govt institutions, society has become sensitive to women issues (rightfully so) yet domestic violence against men is often mocked. They become butt of jokes when they demand similar protection from the court. Let's not be hypocritical. 4. Both Men/masculine and women/feminine energy has its own role in the society. Lets not pit one against the other. Most successful marriage are where both husband and wife complement each other. Family is a building block of the society and such videos even though not entirely accurate will ensure a healthy discussion around such topics.
This channel may be informative but is biased towards Women. If u notice carefully his every videos. In other videos also just about movies he said, that Women are shown in this way and that way but had not uttered a single word about jokes on violence against Men. This is the thing which I feel about this channel.
reality is that in India, alimony payments can not be enforced. so your fears are wrong. society is harsh to divorced women, esp if not working. alimony payments not guaranteed.
@@somnathbanerjee_2922 yes bro you are right 👍 mene bhi notice kiya he ye ! Me is channel ko regular dekhta hun , kabhi kabhi ye esi harkat krta he ! Mtlb yaar Sahi Baat he ki Women Empowerment , Safely etc ki jarurat he lekin iska mtlb ye to nahi ki women ke liye law banate banate Ladko ke sath bhedbhav hone lag jaaye !
@@digitalduniya2041 Kuch kuch chizein iski itni immatured lagi. Ek video Telugu movie industry ke upar, usmein, Pushpa ka ek scene hai jahan Hero aur Heroine romance kar rhe the to uska ek scene ko bina samjhe aisa ek baat kaha ki sunke laga ki aise log itna immatured baat kar rhe hain ye baat hajam nhi hui.
@@somnathbanerjee_2922 this channel and every so-called 'big informative channel' of india are heavily biased against men...not to mention that speaking that indian wemen can even have bad thoughts is a big no-no in indian mainstream ryt now. Even when men are clearly the victim for no reason..they somehow have to be shown evil or at least wemen need to be shown bigger victims somehow
I genuinely believe that romantic love between two people is an illusion, the idea of love of two people cannot simply be at same page and as love is an emotion like anger it's actually not constant but momentary. And that's why remaining single for life makes sense to me.
@@maishayartonahi everyone's experiences vary na...but I've so many examples right in front of my eyes and hum bhi aaj ke zamaane se he hai .. it's probably just hasn't happened to you yet. I've changed from being the hook-up guy that I used to be to a loyal husband in the past 6 years. It happens when it's bound to happen. Peace ✌️
@@ssdftddrt1540 ok even if 100k guys set higher standard what about 95% other guys? It‘s about them they struggle. These girls won‘t find 100k+ guy but they still want it. And their want destroys common man.
To all the young men out there I want to tell you that focus on your aim and become something big in which you're really passionate about and think that as a kid when you used to take stress and all the responsibilities were upon you and no one was there to give you emotional support much but still you battled it and won so why not now remember guys we're self dependent people without relying on someone else we can live our lives fighting
@@lionheartJustin786 being an avg joe is way better than running around courts and paying alimony for life to a wife that just married to extract money frm u
Actually i think it is our educational problem With education we can solve 1) sex ratio problem 2) career problem 3) early age marriage 4) problem of lack of sex education 5) gender equality
Remember guys no one will make you happy in your life , if you think after marriage your life will be good then you are living in dreams , enjoy what you have , have gratitude in your life , see positive perspective of single life
@@Raoatharva happiness is not related to marriage , you can be happy without that also , you just have to accept yourself , no one is right for you apart from yourself , we have to look for partner who will be just part of your life not your life
@@gautamyadav10 no one want commitment brother whether you are guy or girl , in past time marriage was need for both men and women , women needs protection and men need it for obvious reason , now women are no longer require mens protection so they will also won't prefer marriage but it is not acceptable in our society so still it's happening but time is changing rapidly
In today's society, there is immense pressure to live up to certain expectations when it comes to financial stability and material possessions. While I may be able to provide for my own basic needs, I worry that I may not be able to meet the high standards that are often expected in a marriage.
Most guys of our generation are struggling with career. Even in 30s we don't know if we will be well settled or not. There is no point getting married.
@@debanikgoswami4834 actually. I'm a girl and I know ki ladki ni bhi kamati to usko still respect aur acceptance milega. Bahut ladke shaadi krne ko ready honge. But what about men? Unko to koi dekhega bhi ni. Society is very unfair for men and this is why I tell all my male frnds to just focus on your career and not run behind girls... Survival bhut mushkil hai ladko ke liye.
Guys, it was nothing but a prank, I just wanted to know how people would react. And i am somewhat sad to see that most of you are completely against the concept of marriage.😕 I don't know about you all but I just can't wait to get married and have kids of my own.✌️
Bhai i m 26 and I work in Amazon bangalore and I m experiencing similar freedom and have decided not to marry. Unmarried life is best and more importantly it's better to stay unmarried when we analyse biased marriage laws against men. 0 laws to safeguard men against false dowry, false domestic violence case and now new law is about to be passed i.e marital rape ,just on the basis of wife's claim the entire husband's clan can land up in jail without any evidence and it's on the husband to prove himself and his family as innocent.
Inter-caste marriages are very rare and sometimes parents stop and emotionally torture their children. But I think if someone is educated and good, it does not matter from which caste they belong and I think these things makes our society more mature.
I am a child of inter caste marriage and in inter caste marriage myself. Many relatives of mine are in inter caste marriage.I never had bad experience, rather only good because of government schemes to help children of inter caste marriages. Only excepton was when my parents were looking for an alliance, both castes (my father and mother's side) were not interested because I am a mixed caste.
@@ajsuraj No that's not correct.. I have seen people coming from progressive societies and educated too are more likely to accept inter caste marriages.
@@codetocompetectc1810 That's an exception not the norm. However such initiatives should be welcomed & celebrated. The families should be garlanded so that they promote it & break the social stigma.
Two can play this game. Even more so with girls. They want a handsome man who is above 5'9. Earns in lahks and also has a house or atleast his own apartment. They ask a man not to be superficial yet judge him on his appearance and bank balance. They want equal contribution in house work while not earning or earning not even half. They don't want kids and aren't able to maintain harmony with in-laws. They Want to have independence yet still want a man's money. Want freedom yet don't want to work. They want someone to be there emotionally yet themselves become unavailable when needed. I'm not generalizing 95% of women are very good like in my family and some of my friends yet these 5% of feminazis ruin the reputation of their fellow ladies and willingness of men and their respect.
@Kushagra Shut up. As if men don't judge women?? She should be skinny, waist should be this much, She should be well educated BUT ALSO a good housewife, She should have a good degree but we won't let her work, She should have fair skin, She should bear children as per he wish of husbands family etc etc Some even expect bride to play lakhs crores in dowry and the bride has to take the whole wedding expense. Both men and women are victims of toxic Societal standards, so don't blame only women
I m 28 years old female and dont want to get married because i feel very less amount of women get freedom in actual sense after marriage. I dont want to loose my freedom. Freedom what i want to do not what people expect me do for the sake of relationship. I have also confusion regarding my sexuality though i feel i am asexual but not sure so this is also one of the reason.
@PrinceVa-hj4xg haa, yeh aap unse poocho na jo, apni life already kharaab karwa chuke hai relationship ki wajah se 😂😂 Relation na ho gaya, bawaal ho gaya hai, har kisi ko bas ladki chahiye 😂😅
I am 27 Haryanvi. I am not marrying because i want to remain free. I do not want to live same life which crores of other north Indians are living. Hamri zindagi ka ek hi maqsad hai- Mukti/Moksh/Nirvana. Reading UPnishads and Geeta under guidance of Acharya Prashant has opened a nnew perspective towards life. No need to spend life with just one person. Humans are polyamourous , not monoamourous.
Bhai kya such hai kya tum leftist ho dhruv rathee sabhi bolte hai but me nhi mante 😍😍🥰😘 But agar aaise merko laga ki aap bhi dhruv tatti ki tarh leftist ho us din mera last day hoga. Unsubscribe krdunga. Please leftist mat banna always be Neutral 🙏🤔
Marriages are often a great burden for women, particularly in poorer families. Separated from her own family, she is treated like a domestic and sex slave, often bullied by the mother-in-law, made to churn out babies whether she wants to or not. Often prevented from working even if she is more capable than her husband. On top of that, her family is expected to pay a dowry for the privilege of "unburdening" the parents of their daughter. Personally I'm glad this is happening. Time for that stale and archaic mindset around marriages to change. If you have lived outside of India, you'll know that the Indian obsession with marriage and babies is borderline fanatical. If societal pressure is getting too much for you, go live overseas for a few years. You will regain your mental health. Interesting fact: Men who are married are healthier and live longer. Women who are UNmarried are healthier and live longer. Why do we think that is?
I am employed and belongs to a prosperous family, but i decided to remain lifelong single since class 9, as after the school, I found being in a relationship was no more fun but was a responsibility and I found it tough to be bound by that life long responsibility.
@@shekharkapoor9208 me 40 ka hu...have gf from NE, we don't need social approval for our relationship, we r happy to be together without any courts and government intervention
Bro sex ratio is improving but i don't know what will happen will our unemployement Sabke sab to Coding nahi karsakte na and Startup ke liye paisa chahiye well me to GYM join karliye kamse kam Physic aur health to achchi rahegi na
I am a content writer I earn around 35K My friend is a central government employees he earns around 38K Both of us will stay unmarried Peace is more important that sex
*Meanwhile how two of my friend’s family view marriage -* Friend 1’s family - You won’t bring any girl to home, we will! Friend 2’s family - You will find your bride, we won’t! Meanwhile me - I would prefer not getting married. 😅
@@jioboy2676 That's not my concern, but such girl should not be allowed to enter inside my house is my only concern...warna poore kul ke izzat jayege bhatte me
Real reason Money hai or har koi apni virginity loose kr raha hai Girl or boy dono . Yahi do reason hai marriage na krne ke or living relationship mei rehna kyonki marriage k liye har kisi ko chaste life partner chaiye😅😅 Or never ending money . Sabko shaddi se phle Jhuthi thali mei khana acha lagta hai or shaadi k time saaf thali chaiye dono gender ko 😢😅😅 Chalo agar money bhi koi issue nahi hai fir bhi thali wala reason bina chitta k hi jaleyga din raat sabko andar se bahar se nahi. Or agar is aag mei divorce diya toh thali kahi or jhooti ho ri hogi firsae or paise koi or dega thali ki dekh rekh k kiye😅😅
I agree with everything you mentioned, The only reason men hesitate to get married is that some women abuse Indian law. These types of women lack ambition for their careers as well. One of my friends studied engineering but decided to become a housewife because she told me that her bakra (she said those words for her husband) earns more than she expected, so she does not wish to work nor does she wishes to contribute at all, given that these properties are hers. She can obtain them through any means she chooses. After hearing her reasons, I stopped talking to her. Hence, I urge every single man and woman out there to stop thinking that just because you aren't getting married does not mean your life is over. The marriage system has become a wholesome trap to ruin either one of the partners mentally and emotionally and also, waste their hard-earned money. hence It's more important to maintain self-respect rather than get humiliated.
@@hunnybunny8179 I wish I could, but what if he still take his wife side, popat mera ho jaayega, and some men do not understand the consequences till they see themselves, so let it be😞
Financial security is one of major reason urban youth not getting married I know girls and guys who don't want to marry yet just because they are not self independent or not saved enough money or insecurity that they want to enjoy their life at best before getting married after marriage "ghar ki zimadariyio meh hi jeewan chale jayega"
Benefits of not getting married: 1) More Saving 2) High standard of living 3) Away from Depression(girls) and pressure 4) Enjoy with multiple women rather than getting bounded with single 5) You will have more freedom
@DAZE men bss ek chiz ke liye saadi krta h ....physical need.... aur women saadi krti h because want stability....money ..emotional and physical support .... Ab baat ye h ki mardo ko physical need ke liye saadi krne ki kya zrurat h....paise chhiye bss
@DAZE behen tu bhi apne big city se nikal kr bahar aaye ...India ke maximum area chote city ya rural area hai jahake ledkiya abhi bhi nehi kama rhe..aur abhi bhi maximum ledkiyo ke shadi 18 - 23 saal ke andar hi ho jata hai
Bhai nepal se hu sadi ke bad tu sirf bigboss start hota hai sadi ke bad ladki aapne asli roop me aati hai bhot ladai zadra hota hai ladki bhot danger hota hai
That's because we are alpha males ..we don't need anyone to look after us. We are on top of the food chain😎🦁🦁🤴👑 Ok guys now i have to go. Kapde dhone hai kal Monday office Jane ke liye 🥲🥲🥲
Am from bihar of age 23..... people here r dying for a govmnt job.. In seen many boys in my family. ...who wasted their entire 20s for study in a single room....man this is horrible .... the same happening to me...i don't want to waste. ...i just want to leave bihar ..that's it...hope one day
Mohak ladko se zyada to ladkiyon ko shame kiya jata hai. I'm a 27 yrs old unmarried women whose seen her mother treated like shit by non other than my father since childhood. All around me while growing up, all I've seen is men abusing their wives, whether its relatives or friends. We women when are married are treated nothing more than "Glorified kaam waali baiya" in the name of marriage who are demonized for no reason from time to time. Our pain and struggles are never even considered instead we are again shamed for it. Its not like there are no good men in the world but I just don't have the strength in me to risk it because I know, I will be the one who will ultimately suffer if anything goes wrong and still no one will even give a damn instead I will be demonised, humiliated, shamed. I rather choose be alone I'm better off by myself. I am enough.
Ok but no one can live alive in her full life agree 💯 ? I think 🤔 you should marry someone who is unemployed you earn ,tell him that he do all household works . By the way aap job karti ho ? What qualities you wanted to see in your future husband 😊
@@Discoveknowledge Yaha job ki baat kaha se aa gai. Maine toh aisa kuch ni likha hai. Aap kuch bhi matlab nikaal rahe ho.. Aur mai jo experience kar rahi hu wahi bol rahi hu and by the way ek unemployed bande se shaadi karna bhi hell se kum nahi hai. Mera cousin bhai unemployed hai aur meri bhabhi job karti hai. Dono bohot jhagadte hai aur suffer bhabi ko hi karna padhta hai. Das baate ushi ko sunni padhti hai. Aur lagta hai maine jo upper likha hai aapne pura padhaa hi nahi yaafir aapko samajh mai nahi aa ayaa acche se.
@@thequeryqueen Ok you are right but according to me marriage is very necessary for our life without marriage we can't live alive in this world . Aap kab tak apne parents par financial dependent rahungi . Waise aap job karti ho ki preparation kar rahi ho . Presently I'm preparing for upsc cse .
@@Discoveknowledge Kaun ladka ghar jamai banna chahta hain........And marriage is a sacred thing where both partners should support each other. Business deal thodi na hain ki ye kam karegi yo kam karega
