What Indian women want? 

Plot twist : Mohak is looking for a girl himself and expressed his insecurities in the video 👌👌😂😂 Edit : My bad guys, I didn't knew he is already married.

Please make a second part on the SOLUTIONS and MODERN THINKING of present generation.

@@PrinceSaangwan He's married, bruh.

If you go to any country it will be like that.🤧 Does any Bollywood actress marry roadside kid. 🤣 Tata birla look for teir range.🤭

@@PrinceSaangwan He's already married...

@@Shusspace well men's money can keep women's beauty atleast till 50 then :)

@@justanothernpc763 but what about consent? Most people would never agree to plastic surgeries to enhance and maintain their looks till 50.

@@the1stmetalhead true, having money doesn't allow you to stuff plastic in your wife's body

@@justanothernpc763 they'll lose the drive after 40s too, bad deal.

@@the1stmetalhead bro I was referring to other skin procedures like facials, peels etc not plastic surgeries 🥲

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

@@snehashispanda1651 You know, your ancestral generation can be found out from your blood. Brahmin(from what they say) come from better blood line than other caste. And how their blood is better? because of the occupation they did for centuries and how they lived. That is also stored in our blood. Genetic structuring , enhancement, evolution whatever, is feeded in their blood. So its all about enhancing your tree. Apple tree can give apple, orange will give orange. But if you have both seeds mixed, you dont know what you're getting. It may be even better, but nobodies know. The best case here to follow, is to keep them separate, so that they can get better and better as they age. I dont know if they make sense. I'm Brahmin that too upper caste brahmin. My parents dont have anything with intercaste(yeah but not SC) or even inter religion. But from what ive seen around me, I'm convinced, that blood line is not something made up thing. It actually exists. PEACE

@@snehashispanda1651 true

@@snehashispanda1651 main bhi brahmin hu or mere wife muslim hai because i love her unconditionally

It's better to choose a practical way of living. We know that with just one person's salary it is not possible to take care of a household. So let's prepare girls and boys keeping that in mind. Ghar ka kaam should be shared just like expenses and bills. Respect each other and acknowledge their contributions rather than measuring them.with Mom and Dad's.

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

@@snehashispanda1651 so does Rajput|thakur

@snehashispanda1651 breathe Dear

​@@snehashispanda1651 ur spaming now stop crying

Watch 1:47 a successful men never chose a independent woman If you want to stay single and live your life on your own Then financially independence is must

@@Zim-B00B-C I hope still some men are existing who wants their life partner will be financially independent then they can help each other.

@@Prajna.Pradhan not some many men!,but financially independent women don't consider those men as successful man because of their hypergamous nature and don't want to marry them ,and the men whom they consider as successfull man and attracted toward them,those men want to marry younger woman not financially independent women

@@Zim-B00B-C so what you are saying exactly.. ?? Everyone is staying single?

@@Prajna.Pradhan No, I am saying that no one gets the person of their choice in 99% cases, either stay single or work with what you get.because age passes with each day . Thats why the concept of arrange marriage was introduced by our ancestors Where our elders used to take every decision, and the divorce rate is more in love marriage than in arranged marriage because they know

Nice.

Financially independent women does more drama Tbh. Their are more chances of them cheating also. They are just bunch of frustrated ugly feminist s

@@Shusspace bruh ur pfp

@@chirag0516 you mirin brah?

@@Shusspace no man u could be

सत्य

Here's a fun fact- 80% of Indian married couples stop having sex after having 2 kids . This creates frustration and unhappiness for both the partners especially men . And about the love part, it was never there in the first place.

What i have learned that Indian man don't want their wife to be more educated,employed they want wife who can do household work and then if wife search for better income husband for their security may be she would be thinking of future their children their family then they will consider her goldigger even they (men)themselves demand for lakh and lakh as dowry that also not from girl from girl's family( besharmi to dekho )atleast girl expect good income just from husband but men will she girl's father is rich or not in actually men should be consider traditional goldigger who demands money as dowry and even can kill women easily for it Means Indian men never fails to give trauma to women,ridiculous🤦‍♀.

@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw 😂😂😂😂 and it's not even showing anything relevant. Just a popular search lmao.

Isn't it very bad to have kids to take care of you in old age, sort of treating them like a retirement investment. Then they have to do the same thing with their kids and the cycle of suffering continues. Can't we be brave enough to not have kids and work out an alternative plan for old age like investing in an old age home or something?

Tell your and your wife caste.

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@@behappy-mg7rt we don't belong to caste bro....

@@KTruth137 ओहहह । आप मतलब North-east के होगें।।। nice ... बहुत अच्छा की आपके पास caste नही है।

Im watching fifa.... Im supporting Argentina🇦🇷 😄😇

Your friend knew what she wanted at that age. Its nice to hear such stories. But if a woman says that honestly, she would be judged hard by everyone around her. Most people don't even bother to ask her the reason and intention behind it. They just assume that she is greedy.

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

@@snehashispanda4808 Dear, it is applies to all castes, why to single out brahmins.

​@@snehashispanda4808why are you only targeting Brahmins... I'm not saying it's false but majority people do that too.... Majority people want to get married in their caste/ religion... And the thing that Brahmins resisting to merge with surrounding that's not true.... My neighbours are Brahmins and they merge with others so well.... Kind ,humble people ...don't generalize everything

So good to hear , she must be very happy now . May Bholanath bless her

@@youtubeuser9938your opinion is not wrong but also you r not my father . I can earn easily right now but that can affect my future plans. Being independent asap is a good thing but achieving ur dream is different which requires patience and sacrifice which my parents fully understand. They hv full faith in me and i will not let them down. If u get it good if not that’s ok too.

@@akanksha6958 well.. thats the thing with indian women, all they want to is imitate the europeans and americans in lifestyle, but when it comes it to their real way of life, you women dont practice it in life. Have some shame, preaching gender equality, women empowerment and stuff and shamelessly dependent on parents especially fathers hard earned money for your and your own selfish needs and wants. Better prove your worthiness by doing your life goals on your own. Any fool can lead a happy, carefree life being financially dependent on any one, like parents or husband, But it take a strong women to do and achieve great things on your own. You women just preach women empowerment, women boldness and freedom and bs. And in reality you people dont even have the guts to do it all alone. Keep preaching feminism and bs all over social media while eating up parents retirement money.. 🤣 wah men ! 🤣🤣🤣

@@youtubeuser9938 typical mentality, what if she was he, do you still throw him out of your house

Which competitive exam!?

@@youtubeuser9938 I would have replied, if you wanted to live your life with privacy why did you have me in the first place?

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Thank God I took birth in Karnataka 🤣

@@nknkannadiga9742 why? In many areas south is worse

Hopefully in some time all sarkari Naukri will be privitized so their makkari can end

@@Kushagra.j nah we men don't get pressurized to get govt jobs. They force us to get IT jobs🤧

Have faith in God dear...u will get what you deserve 🤞

False, if your female there is a always a dude desperate enough to date you, if you choose him or not it's your choice. I'm done with being lonely, for a guy it's not even a choice so I wouldn't even care if my future gf is abusive or toxic as long as I get loved

Never know. Life is full of surprises

focus on being financially independent! after that try finding a guy ok with you doing your job, coz your husband's money is your husband's money!! if you end up in a toxic marriage and you are having a baby, separate, as soon as possible coz it will be a hell for the child as well

I'm sure you can find a house-husband while you can work to earn money. Your liberal family shouldn't have a problem I guess? Or like the average woman, you are trying to climb up the social ladder through marriage? Then you'll have to pay.

Single life is best don't get marry hookup culture is best for me

5 and 10 point are top-notch and true.

@@Nishantic coward

@@Nishantic 😁 chill maar bhai.

@@Nishantic kya bhai koi majak kar rhe ya seriously bol rhe, kisi ko maarna dowry k liye yrr 😑

True that's sad

@@Nishantic relax bro Teri bhi gf ban jayegi itna frustrated Kyu hai chumtye

Bongs ROCK bro

west bengal e eisab ektu kom hy up bihar e ritimoto competition chole dowry nie

@@sumandas6308 west bengal a dowry bolte gele hoyena , khub e rare .... ar WB a intercaste marriage o common (not the majority) but still very common in cities and even in rural areas nowadays from what I have heard.

Ekdom ...i thank god so many times for dropping me in kolkata to my lovely parents.

We Bengalis have always been more liberal and understanding. Maybe it came from our rich literature and education. Proud to be a Bengali. 😃

After 60 you will face problems male/female both

only one word which will describe him Lonely !!! as he gets in his late 30's he will start having the urge to settle down. as he needs a companion by his side. same goes to females in their late 30's, everyone get Lonely when you are 38-39

@@The-Hungry-Glut U can get lonely even in ur prime. So it's quite wrong if u need someone to stand by ur side.

@@The-Hungry-Glut you are acting like marriage people feel connected to their partners all their life.

@@DhruvPatel-zg1zs tmhe kya pta. .. apne maa baap se pooch lo iske baare me

Religion > Caste > Financial stability > Physical Appearance. This are the things, i hv observed in my society.

@@ricksanchez4045 nothing wrong with that. It is also from the women's side too.

Yeah just have a look at the west then you will realise the beauty of Indian marriages.

Question: define modern Indian people ? Answer : When Feudalism comes in modern western warping 😂 called a modern Indian.

Wow.. How beautifully you explained arrange marriage can't agree more. True.. Marriages are for physical relationship n bache that's it.. It's business not marriage..

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

I can understand your apathy

@@snehashispanda1651 and Rajput only gives his beti to Mughal ☪️atua🤣🤣🤣

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@@snehashispanda1651 Brahmins speak their tongue without control, because they think they're superior to other castes.

@THE ZOLDICS did you read her comment. She said emotionally manipulated. It was not her will.

@THE ZOLDICS so only women should not be forced to do household chores!! Plus what you said, try applying to men as well. And tell me HOW MANY MEN ARE PROUD OF DOING HOUSEHOLD CHORES WITH THEIR JOB AND THEY DONT FORCE OR MANIPULATE THEIR WIVES TO DO BOTH OR CHOOSE HOUSEHOLD CHORES OVER JOB.

@THE ZOLDICS it was not her will

@THE ZOLDICS there is a midway that household chores should be done together by husband and wife

@@read1343 what if she want to pursue career in any field. What if she want to be something.. in her life. How a girl being in relationship ( wife) Can't decide about her life, her goals, just because her husband earn decent amt of money. Money is not the only factor to do job. Managing family & children is not the job of only woman, both the partner have to manage

Nah I think she a was a hindu.

you're somewhat correct, but a marriage without love and just on the base of money is doomed to end with cuckold.

@@nknkannadiga9742 calm down, Kannadiga. Not everybody thinks in a communalist way like y'all do.

@@nknkannadiga9742 syed is a hindu surname for you? 🤨.. Take some help, you need i guess.

Uhhh....your GF is just a loser mate. Both of sound like you were both working adults so she could've made the brave move to ditch her parents and move in with you into a small apartment. The right one will do it for you. ❤️❤️

they are worried because time/age is the biggest enemy to a woman's marriage. This is not a judgement or an attempt to harass you. This is the truth. Men prefer younger women. And if you're wondering it's our beloved India only, then you're wrong. It's about everywhere. Also, the higher you go in education, you're going to want a man even higher than that. Just see in the video only, how that woman speaks with disgust that she will have to marry a lesser educated man than her. Please note: This is not an attempt to make your accomplishments futile, i have no interest, no personal conflict in diminishing someon'es life like that. Maybe a few people who hurt me in the past, but def not a stranger.

@@chaitanyagupta6668 time/age is the biggest enemy to a woman's marriage? Yes, women have finite number of eggs and quality decline after 35.

. aap SHADI kar lo job to bad m bhi mil jaygi but fir 29 30 k bad koi LADKA nhi milega

​@@sonujain2348waah kya soch h tumharii If she is toiling hard for her dreams why she should leave everything and marry first Then obviously she'll be stuck in accomplishing her in laws expectations.. like bacha n all This is the prime time for her career and she should only look upto that! Period.

​@@sonujain2348who said she wants to get married? Ladka nahi bhi milega toh ladkiya hain use apnane ke liye. Thank you uncle for your unsolicited advice

It happens more in rich families because they have expensive BETA so they deserve more.

Yeah. My friend from Bihar has zamindar background. His brother is doctor and he demanded 80 lakhs from her wife as dowry

@@cryptoboi9584 isn't 80 lakh too much for dowry 😨😱

@@cryptoboi9584 ask your friend to buy a s3x doll made of gold with 80 lakhs he will be satisfied and can have higher resale value when tired😂😂

What i have learned that Indian man don't want their wife to be more educated,employed they want wife who can do household work and then if wife search for better income husband for their security may be she would be thinking of future their children their family then they will consider her goldigger even they (men)themselves demand for lakh and lakh as dowry that also not from girl from girl's family( besharmi to dekho )atleast girl expect good income just from husband but men will she girl's father is rich or not actually men should be consider traditional goldigger who demands money as dowry and even can kill women easily for it Means Indian men never fails to give trauma to women,ridiculous🤦‍♀

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

@@snehashispanda1651 I'm not Brahmin.

@@snehashispanda1651 nobody cares 😆😆

@@snehashispanda1651 my father belongs to keshtrya community and my mom from Brahmin cast. Nobody cares about cast anymore. I guess u r from odisha🙄

@@snehashispanda1651 Naa🙂 this is how educated people choose their partners.

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

@@snehashispanda1651 you did not understand what I meant. It's not about caste it's about life.

I want love marriage . I simply can't marry someone if she is not attracted to me .

a woman's career is worth pennies to a man. Men and women have different preferences.

Pucha kese ne kitne paise kharch kiye study pr vo bhi bta do?

@@Anonomus007 Haa poochte hai toh bta deti hun

​​@@sasswithdivyanshi ek baat batao tumhari caste ke ladke hamesha dursi caste ki ladkiyon se shadi karte hai Lekin tumhari caste ki ladkiyon ko allow nai Karte Aisa kyu (Generally puch Raha hu)

Life is incomplete without a woman, when you will be above 35 and no women would want you, you will sad and alone but it will be too late to do something

Don't believe above comment, older men are more desirable to women, Because they are successful, wise and have a stable life. Focus on career, gain your freedom from family, and enjoy single life. As you grow older you can have more clear view about your life, and can have a chance to change your mind, Because my brother once you get married there's no coming back. As another 25 yr old man this is my pov.

@@Sk-lq2bp "Older men are desirable to women", true, only if you earn six figures, it's a hard truth of life. And only 5% of the men make that.

Same but i am a woman though.😂😂

Same here ❤️

Nice joke

Very proud of you Saksham! Wish you all the best!

On the other hand false dowry claim allegations,legal threat blackmailing if not the demands are fulfilled and not to forget marital rape allegation threat are also skyrocketing against which no legal measures are available in the case of innocence of the husband,also in divorce,the laws are unfaakingbelievably discriminated against man where the woman will get the divorce and of course the monthly allowance just by complaining in court whereas even if the women cheated with other guy and the husband provided the court with video proof of that the husband still have to give the monthly allowance!! I mean in this present time marrying a woman in India is much more self destructive in comparison to self bombing yourself,atleast you die instantly with bomb without much idea of pain but in marriage you will die slowly and painfully in a long course of your life.

When I was young I also thought why I should take money from someone else when I did not even take money from my own parents. Then the reality of arranged marriage hit me where as a guy, you are reduced down to your salary and property. Girls looking for someone with 2-5x the salary, huge property etc. Then I changed my views on dowry, that when I'm bringing so much financial value to the relationship, what does the girl bring? My parents are contributing so much property to our relationship, what do the girls parents contribute?

Working women should start accepting unemployed men also... The strong independent employed career women need not be worried that the rich well employed men are refusing to marry her,,, Because there are many poor unemployed homeless handsome young men who are ready to marry an employed woman and become her househusband... So, There is a very easy solution to this problem faced by strong independent career women.. All employed career Women who want to work after marriage, stay in her father's house after marriage, and look after her parents, do not want to take leave from her job to look after her kids etc can marry a poor, unemployed homeless, handsome, young man... He will be happy to live in his career wife's house because he is homeless. So, the wife can always look after her parents . He will never stop his career wife from working after her marriage because he is unemployed . Because he is unemployed and always sitting inside his wife Father's house, he will look after her small kids. So, she need not take leave from work to look after her kids. She can continue her career and present life style in her Father's house... But, a rich well employed man who owns his own house, is not going to come and live in his father in law's house. Most rich well employed men don't want to marry employed women. Rich well employed men already have enough money, and so he does not need the salary of his wife. So, most rich well employed men want to have an unemployed housewife and have a Peaceful married life. There are many unemployed girls who don't like to work, who are poor, living in rented house, because her parents are poor and don't have money to buy to their own house etc. These poor unemployed girls are waiting for some man to come and marry her and take her to the husband's house and give her free food and shelter for the rest of her life. So, the rich well employed men like to marry such unemployed women and lead a happy life in his own house . While the career girls who do not want to go to her husband's house, want to work after marriage etc can marry a poor, unemployed, homeless, handsome young man and take her husband to her father's house or to her rented house and lead a happy life ... So, everyone is happy.. But, what happens is that when independent employed career women are given 2 choices.. 1.. marry a poor unemployed homeless handsome young man who actually wants to marry an employed woman, so that she can continue to work after marriage till her retirement from job at 60 years.. OR.. 2.. Marry a rich well employed man with big house, who does not want to marry an employed woman and he actually wants to marry an unemployed woman... Now the independent employed career women always select the second choice and she will tell the rich well employed man that she will stop working after marriage and shall become a housewife, because she wants to stay in the rich well employed man's bigger house. The employed woman refuses to marry a poor unemployed handsome homeless man who wants his wife to work after marriage and he is also ready to stay in her father's house.. And then she tries to blame society for not allowing her to work after marriage, look after her parents etc when it is clear that she herself had the choice to work after marriage, if she had married the poor unemployed homeless handsome young man.... That is the hypocrisy of women... Why cannot employed women marry a poor unemployed homeless handsome young man who actually wants his wife to work after marriage.... Instead of trying to marry a rich well employed man who actually wants to marry an unemployed woman... A

Bhaiya rationalistic ka matalab kya hota hai ?

@@deepaksingh0777 Rational thinking ki baat kar raha hai

@@deepaksingh0777 matlab तर्कवाद. Kisi bhi situation ho, bina kisi dharm k aadhar par ya vichar ya phir kisi emotional feeling se decision NAHI lena, aur sahi thark se sochna hota hai... Science , facts aur logic k aadhar par sochna. Example k liye, science k isaab se saare insaan same hain, logo ne jaati dharam kia hai, dusra example koi ye kehta hai ki "ye hua tha, vo hua tha, aisa tha, waisa tha", bina facts aur data k argue karne wale vyakti se kya hi baat karoge??? Teesra example, logic k isaab se dekhoge tho Purush aur Mahila dono ko zindagi jeene ka haq hain, phir bhi q itna bedbhav.....??? Sab ko ek samaan dekna... Aur bhi bohot examples diya jaa sakta hain....

What i have learned that Indian man don't want their wife to be more educated,employed they want wife who can do household work and then if wife search for better income husband for their security may be she would be thinking of future their children their family then they will consider her goldigger even they (men)themselves demand for lakh and lakh as dowry that also not from girl from girl's family( besharmi to dekho )atleast girl expect good income just from husband but men will she girl's father is rich or not actually men should be consider traditional goldigger who demands money as dowry and even can kill women easily for it Means Indian men never fails to give trauma to women,ridiculous🤦‍♀

@@artz3817 I am assuming u have watched complete video. So according to video, in India whatever u say, the exact opposite is also true.... Whatever U said is ABSOLUTELY TRUE, at the same time, there are men(though very very less) who really respect women and their partner , with no ego, no inferiority complexity, no misogynistic mindset.....

This sounds romantic to me. Wish your relationship lasts forever 😉❤✌🏾

@@Shawty79 yes and Then comes some boys Who are single at 30🙂🙂

@@satviasm3328 I am talking about his life and I don't care about those single boys

@@Shawty79 😂😂

@@satviasm3328 Theek hai? 😂

Just marry a girl who accepts you,not expects from you.

@@galaxray8700 lol live in your parallel universe

@@readbooksinsteadofmyname7369 what's lol about that sentence 🤨 ? He is telling the logical and righteous fact which works for both sides men and women.More than majority of Indians are living in a parallel universe which is opposite to rational and nuanced understanding of reality and justified solutions to problems.

@@CockySuSMounted that's often easier said then done , people like that are rare and coming across someone like that is often pure luck.

And same here as a girl 😑

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

@@snehashispanda1651 Why you write the same shit in every comment box?? I'm also a brahmin and not agree with you, idk from which state or city you're but what you write is not correct cause my cousin sister had an intercaste love marriage because she and her partner both are doctors, so it's not mandatory to only marry in caste...once both become financially independent then it doesn't matter !!

@@snehashispanda1651 spammer trying to tarnish brahmin image

It's only true in metro cities and large cities like Bangalore, where it's unliveable without employment.

@@karanbajaj2698 Report these spammers

@Harsh Patel*men can't live without sex*🤓

@Harsh Patel you shouldve been born in 15th century bro youre in wrong century

@Harsh Patel You are not getting the point. Women see Men only as a source of income. Isn't that also objectification. Don't women reduce men as ATM cards. If women will not have kids, the countries population will get skewed which is dangerous.

@harsh Patel "but women can" 🤓 Have you ever met a irl women ?

@Shruti wimmin☕☕

did you meet your spouse via matrimonial site/apps?

Bless both of you!

Happy Married life to you

@@gurjeetdhaliwal3878 everyone have preferences, some want a tall guy/girl, some want a rich partner while others want a handsome/beautiful person, everything is okay as long as you don't ridicule them for not meeting your criteria.

ok, feminist. You had given enough sermons for today. Calling husbands of homemakers “anti-national” shows how bigoted you are. Shame on you and those who nurtured you.

also have a realistic sense of what you deserve.

Yeah

Actually unmarried men have lower life expectancy, worse health and and they can't have many financial privileges as married men

@@after_the_chaos2246 living Happy 50 years is better than 100 year's of suffering

It's not gender specific shit ...it's for any one boy or girl

For women as well don't marry a man if he is marrying you only bcoz of DOWRY..

Not just marry but date according to that. Too many young women and men are way too stupid to just date based on shallow things like looks and body of a woman or status, money and popularity of a guy. You see it in high schools and colleges all the time people go for people who have high SMV. But when it comes to marriage they completely change their criteria in a partner. We need sexual awareness not sex education. Awareness around what sort of toxic men and women to ignore so that people don't carry their years of baggage in form of trauma and hurt into their marriage.

Its diff to assess skill of your would be partners becoz they may lie mostly for the sake of their future security

@@AmitKumar-br9tl it's not that difficult. For example, if you want to test the cooking skills, ask that person to cook your favourite dish. Then you will know it obviously. You can't get true nature of the person by asking questions directly because there's a chance of lying unless other person is straight forward and direct

but the truth is, this is still a distant dream for most of the population, that is, for the vastly located small towns and cities

@@flamingaish agreed

LOL

@@sampatkalyan3103 sahi keh rahi hu Agar tum aadmi ho to tum aadmi ki nazar se soch rahe ho ki Aisa kuch nahi hai aurat ki nazar se sochkar dekhne ki koshish to kar hi sakte ho Tumhe PTA chalega ki dusri taraf kitni problems hain.

@@yaminivishwakarma9928 even from women's perspective big LMAO.

True, many marriages are held because parents dont want thier children to grow up in broken families.

At least they are continuing unlike here in Sweden where divorce rates are on peak.

Sahi baat hai.. Agr psnd nhi to alag ho jaao..

@Neil Bajwa those kids Who lived fighting parents led to child trauma,depression better to get divorce rather than staying for the sake of kid

@@Daily_1percent I've seen these rarely happening, most of the arranged marriages end well here.

Love is not real. There's no scientific proof of it's existence, it's our imagination.

I am also in love with muslim vot and he is very good.. I want to marry i dont know how my parents react and how will society react.. Let s hope best.

I liked your comment so much.... Gonna take a screenshot of it ❤️

Exactly india has complex problems with complex solutions 👍 finding solutions are much greater almost close to be called as IITian 🙂

Agree we have Jharkhand where muslim burnt hindu girl and laughed

What i have learned that Indian man don't want their wife to be more educated,employed they want wife who can do household work and then if wife search for better income husband for their security may be she would be thinking of future their children their family then they will consider her goldigger even they (men)themselves demand for lakh and lakh as dowry that also not from girl from girl's family( besharmi to dekho )atleast girl expect good income just from husband but men will she girl's father is rich or not men should be considered traditional goldigger in my view Means Indian men never fails to give trauma to women,ridiculous🤦‍♀

@@Myanmartiger921 yes hope bjp comes here soon 🙏🙏

Something similar happened with my friend. She married a Muslim guy who was our college batchmate (against her family wishes offcourse), even changed her identity / converted under pressure as she was heads over heels in love with the chap. Later on she couldn’t adjust to the different culture and interference of her in-laws to the point of restricting her day to day freedom of clothes to wear and whom to talk with and when to come home etc etc. she finally had enough and later on divorced the guy after 1.5 years of struggle to make it work. Now she is well settled in Bangalore with a guy from south itself. Nobody in our group could’ve imagined her first marriage would turn out to be so disastrous owing to religious differences and family interference.

@@devshreebhardwaj3096 I feel pity for that south Indian guy🤐

@@ravishankarkumar1174 why

@@ravishankarkumar1174 pity on yourself

@@NB-xu8bl it's better if you feel urself that way. That innocence south Indian guy would have easily managed a civilized and cultured s. Indian bride but he got trapped by these kinds of women. She should move back to that jihadi one's and caught up dead by the following days😆

Bhai agr main bhut apise kmaunga to aise ladki say shaadi krunga jo ghr sambhaal sake or agr km kmaunga to aise ladki say shaadi krunga jo jyaada kma sake..

well u know...India saying men are bad ,women are angel all times is cool thing to do

This is on the part of the woman. Would like to know why man doesn't want a working women. Cause the reason given below doesn't restrict or control right of choice and financial independence of a man. Because many girls are not financially independent. In arrange marriages men and women mostly stick to stereotypical roles. Hence man is the bread winner and women are house wives. Women leave their house after marriage, will seek a comfortable life. Also most men get very insecure if their wife earns more than them. Women are conditioned in the same way.

@Eren yeager you have never been to reddit then

@@DraGon1229 ohh fellow dank/dark member

Traumatic for the child

This problem is not only in India, it's also widely prevalent in western countries of Europe, North America and South America.... The basic solution is giving girls and boys equal opportunities since childhood especially in education and let a girls do whatever they want to do in under-grad courses like boys do because these two things mostly shape a quality of life in future. These social problems have a simple solution... it is just many of us especially men and older women who have been a part of such society don't want to change and recognise it and thus make it 'complex' in a counter defencive mode.☺️

@@abhishekuttam8051 also make them understand that not only son are responsible for financial responsibilities but their daughter should also carry on her shoulder equally and same goes for household responsibilities where boys should also told to share equally just like girls. So that they can do it for their husband and wife .

@@Roaming_India true brother, I agree with you but we need to understand the situation and social pressure on girls outside big cities(Tier 1 and some Tier 2 cities) of India are different and more... I'm telling by my experiences as the pressure on boys in general to earn more comes after the age of 20 whereas on girls it starts as early as 12 years old and this type of population include

@@abhishekuttam8051 Actually u don't understand. Even if there is no social pressure. Still girls don't want to take financial responsibilities like boys do. Girls even if they can earn, still chooses boys who has higher salaries. Most of the girls do job just to show they are independent but actually they are alway dependent.

Why do you guys have the unrealistic expectations at the first place?

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources..

Yeah idk why but sometimes I feel these things are way targeted to the boy

@@shivanshgarewal2833 targeted to the boy? Seriously are you being sarcastic

True!

What do you think about prenups

@@dingding4898 it's not workable in India dude...

No, it doesn't work in India. Also with the kind of laws being introduced for infidelity and alimony , no sane man should get married in India.

@@dingding4898 illegal as given under the indian contract act

Just search for Uraon tribe, you will get amazed.

@@webtutorialIndia what is it ❓ currently I can't watch any video because I currently don't have 🎧 near me

Ek do example dekh kr uchlo mt. 😑

@@invalidaccount6147 na bro mene bahut dekhe h isliye keh raha hu , Arrange marriage mein log padhi likhi ladki dekh rahe h,same ladke mein bhi . Mein yeah nhi keh raha hu koi le nhi Raha h mein keh raha hu ki there is change in society jo ho rhi h

rare cases

1. according to me it depends on the situation and the partner both are good whether it is love or arranged. however i had love marriage [inter religion].i am brahmin and my wife is muslim 2. dowry is bad [no matter what the case is because it is illegal] 3. choosing wrong life partner , lying before marriage ,looked at money and looks more than person , insecurities, force marriage etc

Correct arrange marriage is deal 🤝

I have seen many couples are fighting deadly , after having love - marriages. Then what is the benefit of love marriages also?

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

But statistics says ..... arrange marriage has least divorce rate & less merital conflicts 😝😝

@@devprosad1664 whether our marriage will last for long term...it depends on so many other factors...here we are talking about the beginning of this journey...I'm just trying to say that...we must go for it only for the right reason.. i.e. love... boy's salary, girls' beauty...social status..caste...these should not be the criteria...but unfortunately inspite of knowing everything ....we are not able to take the right decision at the very right moment.

True people often forget that marriage is a two way road and requires the active contribution of both members.

Not in India, but all over the world. If you only try to get what you want to have without trying to give what other person wants then the cooperation is bound to fail.

@@rakada huh not completely. you are not wrong but now inworld people want someone who understand them, someone they can truly spend time not some employnment opportunity. ofcourse, it is not that marriage is not like deal or contract in other world as well. it hundred percent as a way of security but it is also more than that.

Sounds like you need a colleague and not a wife/husband.

@@sm24572 Team work and helping/building each other is not exclusively a "colleague" thing

Man bride side treat men as arm and a physical satisfaction tool.

Absolutely

OK generalisation all over again to boost ego and feel superior,yes there are still many households who only wants submissive women who only does house work and to carry forward the bloodline through kids but there are many more households who have reformed or were logical from beginning who support and allow the women to carry on with her career and family life so you do the right and logical thinking and action and encourage others for the same instead of ego pleasing thinking and action just because you can because of the pseudo feminist trend.We need to understand and criticize each case individually rather than labelling it to make the blame game easier to build a constructively logical and righteous understanding society.

@@CockySuSMountedPoint still stands about arrange marriage just being a pitiful business, both sides looking forward to get the maximum resources from the other and making decisions based on that. The compatibility of both partners, their thoughts and feelings about each other are not even an afterthought in many cases. Saying this as a guy who has seen such mindset in my family and relatives. Thankfully atleast they aren't hellbent on making the females quit their job.

@@numbconsumer1392 outstanding point does not justify generalised labeling no matter what,where,who.

Same to you bro!

Everyone say this in 20s, but people see reality only when they touch marriage age

agreed but still, once you get older, an no kids then the pressurizing begins.

You are so blessed .

@@max-cs9ko am 26

Most probably this thing in upper cast community ... Not in lower cast .

Same for bengalis also. I have never seen or heard of any bengali friend or relative of mine demanding or giving dowry in marriages. I think its not very prevalent in eastern India.

@@dipakmurmu5163 Oh idk then, it hasn't happened in my family or any of my friends or relatives family, so never heard of any bengali demanding dowry, atleast here in the metro cities, idk whats the condition in rural w bengal.

As an Assamese yeah... We don't even go much into these stuffs

Actually saying very easy that fell in love but nowadays boys are not so loyal that they fell in love with you and marry you 😀 they love someone else and marry someone else today's scenario as such

Marriage specially arranged marriage was never about love to start with. For ages it has been like this

@@kheshaghikumar697 Which lead to domestic violence, dowry, marital rape, and if not the above things, depression and stress (Only In Forced Arranged Marriages)

Maybe this could get better ,if per capita income and the standard of living rises. Also,if there is less polarity in the society.

@@ankitpani6656 this also happens in love marriages(the situation may be worse because their was no insurance in the form of dowry) Depends on the people and the family.

@@galaxray8700 You're right, flaws are everywhere. That's the reason maybe nowadays Discussion about Wedding make me feel uncomfortable and uneasy. Ulti si aati hai pata nahi kyun

Brahmins marry within the Brahmin community rejecting those from others as unsuitable for marriage or other close personal relationships. Brahmins separate themselves from the rest of society by themselves. Brahmins establish their own services, and maintain their own traditions and customs. By remaining in a reserve and in isolation, Brahmins preserve their cultures intact as long and protect them. Brahmins consider others as intellectually and socially equal. Brahmins resist integrating and completely merging with surrounding populations and stay homogeneous as distinct community within societies that have other practices and beliefs. Brahmins encourages community affiliation and bonding and encourages solidarity and ensures greater control over community resources.

thats actually very true and sad.

Long story short - Girls are more superficial than men when it comes to majority of aspects

true. I believe the narrative in this video was again very misandrist. Not directly but no one in video or comments mentions the women's preferences as a possible problem. I swear, women will see God before they are able to see the errors in their ways. Khud ko chahiye ladka who is better than her, aur agar hamko chahiye ladki jo ki hamare niche ho, then it's a problem. When both have the same exact effect. Stupidity can know no bounds.

Har kisi ko teenage me yahi lagta hai bhai

I feel same. But then i think who will take care of u when u get ill. Like u know, u get bedridden for few days. Also who will take care when we cross our 50s. Also if suddenly we got heart attack or got into an accident in our house only (like fell unconscious), who will look after if we r alone. I dont like idea of marriage for myself, but i think it is a compulsion.

@@sureshtripathi7 Not every Gen-Zer is a teenager

I'm a gen-zer too but I have exact opposite view on this. Relationships should be long-term. If not then stay single forever (which isn't as bad too if you're an introvert who practically is happy by themselves)

@@knight_23 Make some arrangements for it then. There's an old man here in my neighborhood who practically lives all alone. He has appointed a maid to look after himself. I've heard Banks also have this retirement scheme where you practically save up for yourself to have some money in your oldage.

You never be together if you at her or below her level you always have to be 1or 2 level up to be together with her.

the moment she gets higher position than you and you are not yet married, you better stop dreaming of marrying her then because her family wont accept you. there is no such thing as unconditional love, its just you haven't face the extreme condition to test your love yet.

Ignore these 2 losers above me! I wish you and your girlfriend a long and happy life!! May you guys be together till the end of it all

@@venusbliss9788 reality is often Dissapointing buddy. Calling them losers won't change the reality.

@@anshumansingh6645 i dont blame him most people like to live in their bubble until its too late.

😅😂😂

Giel I am also 5'6 whats wrong in that?

have eye sight? What does it mean?

@@crayon7369 5'6 is considered short by many people that's why I think

Hamare yaha to 1.5 saal ho gye hain aisa hue.... Ladki ki sagai ho chuki thi,vo ladki bhaag gyi,police ki help se 7-8 ghanto ke andar ladki to vapas aa gyi par jis ladke ke saath uski sagai hui thi vo ladke ne us ladki se shadi karne se mana kar diya...

Concept of dating and love marriages should be normal at this point We are in 21st century

@@bhaveshtontiya7152 ladke ne ekdam sahi Kia ...donno ka life barbad ho jata ladke ne sahi decision lia donno k lie👍

@@rdxx4073 ab ladki se koi shadi nahi karega....aur milega bhi to koi overage ya handicapped....

@@rudra20048 Yes , It should be a normal thing in the culture, but it's never going to be accepted by majority. Sad but true. Dating in rural areas is certainly not a thing where half of the population resides. And dating in Urban areas is only common in high class societies which constitutes a very low % of urban population. We might be technological advanced but are very backward in dating, love and marriage area. 95 % of marriages happen as arranged which are based on traditional customs i.e. thousands of years old Hindu culture. So basically implementing dating and Relationship norms is against the Hindu community and culture. So it's impossible

What was the Dowry rate ❓ Just asking.

The same case with girl's beauty, if she wasn't fair and pretty, men would not marry her

@@t33554 Yup! Most men wouldn't. Class differences don't matter much to men but looks do. And the converse is true of most girls.

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Congratulations 🥳

@@moon-star-galexy thanks siso ❤ you are invited for the Wedding ceremony on 23-oct-2022

Congrats bro👏🎉🥳. You are an inspiration to me ☺️. I will also do the same after 6 years 😅😊

@@PuneMicroVlogs location batana Bhai😂

Sahi to kiya

Don't comments without knowing full story. There's always another perspective.

@@Nishantic lagta hai aapki mummy ke saath bhi yahi hota tha 🤔

@@Nishantic empowering women with education and business skills isn't done why? But nonsense like dowry is done 🤮

@@human6729 isn't done? Arre bhai kon rok raha ladkiyo ko padhne se

Great story , really appreciable courage and intelligence 👏🤍 of yours

@@prajjwal1010 thanks 🙏 but no use they all are still enjoying..courage costed me alot 🤪

@@100myasharma5 I just want to know that why many Indian parents don't accept inter caste marriage ?

@@Rohit-bo5uh because sb apna privilege leke baithe h na...privilege of colour, privilege of caste, privilege of govt job, privilege of no. fasting u do every month 🤣 if they are not rich how they will show their grandeur? Then they will do by how much prayers n fasting or hygiene u maintain..if they are rich then they don't want to limit the empire they are kings n queens then 🤣 if they r not uppercast then they atleast have privileges to get govt job so then they won't give fuck to upper caste...if they are uppercast atleast they have privelge to be a storyteller how they brutalised other caste n how they were given this such a great treatment to be one existed if not God 🤣 And other point is also village and shehar ka difference...in cities u talk about how great your Village is ,still all sanskari and when u visit ur Village u become this hightown person who is well educated n throw tantrums so the villagers are also confused shehar ki hawa lg gyi h ab bigad jyengy shadi dkhna bhag k hogi 🤣 but then one fine day they will marry in their own caste beshak crying inside 🤧 but atleast they will get this crown he is well known of his parampara anushasan..!! It will remain till the world will care about what is others opinion about you...n better to teach kids how relatives are overrated and your happiness is everything..!! We all r hypocrite in ourselves..!

U tried ur best ,hope she'll be fine

Hahaha because you don't deserve a girl of your choice as a girlfriend but as a wife 😉

@@sonalichaurasiya3262 Getting married at 22 doesn't seem like a wis choice 🙂

@@sankalpmehadia9252 Do age really matter?? Even when you are getting married with your dream girl?

@@sonalichaurasiya3262 yes, age matters especially when age is less than 18 years 😅😅 , otherwise doesn't matter

@@Evaisgalaxy Nope... You must not belong to engineering background. The boys to girls ratio in my college was 13:1. Even in my workplace the ratio is 5:1. Which field do you belong to?

Not wanting to be treated like a doormat doesn't mean we are demanding.