Being "Intelligent" or well spoken or "beautiful"has little to do with being compatible for a relationship with the opposite sex. "Intelligent" doesn't mean you're compassionate, caring, nurturing, considerate, have proper morals or honest...qualities that are essential to having a functional relationship.
Because I like my freedom and not going to be a damn slave for no man. Independence and peace of mind is very important to me. Domestic Violence is so prevalent these days & me no want no one kill me off before time.....Periodt!!!!🤙
I agree with Simone, I felt the last sentence too. While intelligent women are in good relationships they are more likely to be single because compromising is to rubbish is hard. Women who not independent tend to stay for the financial security. Independent and smart women who are in messy situations stay because of status and sometimes the fear of what other people think.
They rather be single than to be controlled . A man cannot protect what he can't control. And when I say controlled I mean equal service and selfless nees.
Greetings I agree with what he said to a degree I have arrived at the place he described, not due to intelligence however but rather through experience I'm at peace with myself and loving it...Took time and nuff bad experiences to get here but bwoy o bwoy I'm loving it🎉 As the adage goes "its not with age but through experience that wisdom comes " So let us replace the word "intelligent" for "wisdom" Asante sana
One have to be INTELLIGENT first before he or she becomes EDUCATED, therefore been well spoken don't have anything to do with intelligent. Have you ever heard that common sense "intelligence" beat Education? but in real life both of them are MARRIED.
What is intelligence really? How do you define it. The dictionary definition is "the ability to learn or understand or to deal with new or trying situations". However what does that really mean because I tell you this I am a man I have 2 degrees my wife she just completed her PhD and I recently got a scholarship to do mine. That being said, I think I speak from an unbiased perspective when I say that if my assumptions are correct and he is defining intelligence as having some form of post secondary education then I will say that is rubbish because I know for a fact there are people with two and three degrees that make some the dumbest decisions, myself included 😂. Post secondary education is not a true measure of intelligence. I have met people who sell in the market that I can have a lively discussion with about world events, politics religion, even science and technology and people with degrees who can't do the same. So I say all that to say that when he says an intelligent woman I don't think I understand fully what he means. Unless someone is brain dead or in some vegetative state we all possess some form of intelligence. From the woman who sells on the street and mops the floor to the ones who are CEO of global corporations, all are capable of finding, MARRYING, and spending a very long time together with a man. I think the man's statements can come across as disrespectful. "Intelligence" is vague and it is just a word tossed about by some of us who are educated and privileged to make ourselves feel better and belittle others at times.
He didn't say a career- oriented what he said was that an intelligent woman there is a big difference and i know that is like him reading my mind and just not willing to put up with foolishness, i know me, i know what am bringing to any relationship
Most times tgat is why they get used because the ones that really care dont get the chance but the one that captures her isn't the one that really cares but finds it easier to have their way with her.
A simple man who a juggle a d have a woman that he cares about will work hard and help her get educated and when she get her degree, she no longer wants him, she now wants a man with a degree also. She nuh try reciprocate.
i agree with what he said aboout single women but sometimes they are intelligent and dumb at the same time with bad taste and attracts some of the worst type of guy hoping they could change them or they just bad at decisions relationnship wise. But also they need to learn to lower their expectations and give a good ambitious man a chance which finances isnt the best yet but getting there.
Simone, your take is spot on about Love and the reason why they ended up in these relationships. I know one such relationship that ended up in divorce after over 30 years of toxicity with 3 George outs young men but yet this person was miserable from day one. And at the end of the day she ended up in a messy settlement relationship. Really bad decision she agreed she made but her boys are their for her.
Only a woman would agree with what this man is saying ….intelligent or not….love will make you make some stupid relationships choices….man want peace how much you make or how smart you are doesn’t make a difference…
@@tripleb1960 that’s first sentence doesn’t make any sense ..intelligent or not will not determine if you make smart choices when it comes to relationships…emotions (love) will cloud your judgement.
I'm not intimidated... But the real question is, where are the Smart Beautiful Women? Tell me where i can find em.... I'm serious... I'm only meeting "Barbies n Bad Bitches" 🤦🏾🚶🏿
MATTHEW 4;17 REPENT REPENT the Kingdom of heaven is arise, single heart with JESUS CHRIST of Nazareth, marriage is a covenant to join together to bring the KINGDOM OF HOLY GOD ON 🌎 EARTH
Women make relationships difficult, a man always knows what he wants I. From his women, a woman demands too much and sometimes puts the man in a difficult position, lady’s a little advice’ relax’
