Why are we fighting?! Couples Therapy? | The Madlife Ep. 6 

Love seeing a couple argue in a healthy way

Kyler is correct you both need to take care of yourselves (being in nature, making time for your fitness, etc.) a couple time a week. 4-5 times. Her energy will pick up after your youngest is about 4 years old.

I loved what Kyler said about being whole as individuals and becoming one! It doesn't make sense when people say my other half! You are whole people in Christ!

love you guys, I’m really enjoying the podcasts ❤️❤️

When Kyler brought out the book 😂😂😂 i love you guys sm you always keep it real❤

Maddie I'm glad you started this podcast! I've loved you guys since your family vlog and now on the podcast you guys are so real and relatable. You have quickly become my fav podcast to listen to!!

I love these podcasts so much!!!! I really look forward to them! ❤

loved this. could listen to you guys speak for hours!

Loved this one... so relatable, i guess every couple goes through the same issue.... and i have learnt that being completely emotionally dependent on someone is very unhealthy and toxic.. Because EVERYONE is one way or the other is alone in their life journey, we all are carrying our own burdens, and NO ONE can come and help us with that, and that's the point where God wants us to build connection with Him.

Love the podcast it makes my day better😂

You should bring your sister Makenzie and Marissa on your podcast!!!!!!

I think Kyler was totally right and I love how calm and composed he was the entire time. You can see how much he cares.

i like this topic!!! MORE REAL STUFF like this please. all couples fight. this is so real

madison needs a solid routine! write out EVERYTHING. wake up at a certain time, get dressed, go through your day and make it make sense. rather than feeling blah and like life is out of wack. you have all the control to make it what you need it to be. i am a young mom and just got back from a 12 day mission trip and i cant even explain how amazing it was to get a full reset. really separating mom life and just ME. praying that you find a fix to all of these feelings & definitely get your levels checked! LOVE YOU 🩷

Loving the podcasts 😊

Fishfam don’t stop please ❤

Thank you🤍🤍 I swearrr me and Madison have the same brain. And sounds like we’ve gone through v similar times where our mental health and confidence is poor. And I love that Kyler is similar to my husband of 9yrs. I’ve never seen another podcast so real and relatable🥰🥰 please never stop🤍

Check your HR with posture, if it's 30 bpm higher standing than laying down, might have POTS. I have POTs and hypermobile Ehler's Danlos syndrome, so I tend to see it in everyone (usually postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome happens with EDS)

This is such a good subject!

Love the book Anne of Green Gables I read it many times.

Evvvvery single podcast you post on here I relate to

Too much like you 😅 haha and my husband is always saying to write things down more to not get so overwhelmed like kyler suggests. Hard to change habits and stick to it though

Life changing book.. The Empowered Wife💛 have you had your dopamine levels checked Madison? Or ever tried a stimulant medication..

Love you 💕

Terapia di coppia per voi ? 5 figli splendidi e siete genitori giovani Americani! Vi abbraccio forte forte

a book i read that changed my life was called 'Many Lives, Many Masters' by Dr Brian Weiss. He also wrote 'Only love is Real' which is about two of his therapy patients who are soulmates but he cant tell them and has to let fate decide if they should meet. It changed my look on love and life. It's a real story by the way. Also, Great episode Madison.

Love watching your podcasts, your amazing Madison 🥰❤️💜

You guys are so funny

Read Captivating by John and Staci Eldridge. Wild at Heart was one of my favorite books

I didn't think Kyler was so deep...I am going to read that book he mentioned. Mad, you need to eat more and take supplements. You can also get a cook and he can prepare you great nutritious meals.

I love you guys!! Madison, it seems like you have a legitimate health issue. If you haven’t already, try to get several medical tests done, like a sleep study, get several different blood tests which mat indicate you are low in Vitamin D and other vitamins and minerals. The intestinal track also can have a lot to do with lack of energy. Please see as many medical professionals as you can. Chronic anxiety is very hard on the body so therapy might help. And yes, marriage therapy can be awesome. God wants to bless you and your family!

He should read Captivating, thats the woman book like Wild at heart is for men. So good, both should read both.

Get to a doctor and get some major labs done. Thyroid panel, iron panel, vitamin D, cortisol levels, vitamins/minerals, A1C, CBC/diff to see if anything is going on with your health. Fatigue can be caused by many things but it’s for sure not normal.

Is this podcast on spotify?

Maddie. Maybe it would help to plan your day the night before. Then you will get up knowing exaxtly what you will be doing

I really hope that you respond, who is the Author of the book "Return to love"? 9:02 Ps i really enjoy listening to your podcast

You might also like the book "Captivating". Same author as "Wild at Heart"

Having kids can wear you out. I hope you are getting the help you need and taking time for yourself. I'm sure Kyler's book is great for him, but not every man is a hunter, or fisher. I've been married for 28 yrs my husband doesn't step foot outside 🤣🤣

Y’all had too many kids❤❤❤

What book are you reading? Forgot the title

Guys i dont agree with the needing that "get away time" to come back and be okay Its basically trying to fill yourself with superficial things and things of this world. Doing those things is not wrong, but to think that if i do this then my stress will go away and i will and i will feel better is not the way a Child of God should think. Madisson needs to fill her spirit and strenghen her spirit! Matthew 6 25-34 tells us that the answer to how to deal with stress is to seek the kingdom of God above all else and live righteously. Tha answer to stress and anxiety is Seeking God Not seeking outside things that will only make you look good but your inside " your spirit" is decrepit. Your worst enemy is Ignorance thats why you need to KNOW God Actually know his word, his character, his attribute. Everything! Trust me it will change your life and in that moment you will actually say wow jesus changed my life! Being born christian doesnt mean youre saved not until you actually start living like him and being like him and talking like him! And im not saying that youre not saved but im speaking for myself cause being born christian i never felt the peace of God until i started seeking and getting out of ignorance Much love ❤

I so get the tiredness

You being tired could be caused by having low iron. Definitely get this checked out

Yeah, I don't eat much either, I don't care for food be honest, but I know I need it, if you haven't got your bloodwork done in over a year, you need to get it done, your thyroid, d level,, I went about 6 months ago, found out my d level is very low, so now I take d vitamin, one a week, they are strong vitamin d, that's how low I was, never had that happen to me and my whole life, my blood level my whole life has been perfect, thank you Jesus❤be safe✌️

Madison you’re not fixed ?❤

I don’t understand them. There whole family claim to be believers and love Jesus but they NEVER talk about Him all this is in flesh and they can’t speak the truth. They do handle things well and I’m share they might rely on God but it’s be nice if they shared the Word with there HUGE audience but I know why they won’t.

Madison you should get your thyroid looked at- it could be playing a role into why you’re so tired

Kyler is right you need to take care of yourselves. BUT please let go on the stereotypical “what a man needs” vs “what a woman needs” mindset. Maybe for Kyler to feel happy he needs to be out in the wilderness away from children but not every single man needs that. Same way that maybe Madison needs to get her nails done, etc. to be happy but not every woman is like that. Everyone is completely different. I’m bringing up this because I know you guys have 5 kids and I just think pushing stereotypical gender roles onto them can be harmful, especially if one of them doesn’t fit those “roles”. With that being said, I think each of you taking a day a week to care take yourselves individually is a wonderful idea. Also wanted to bring up because I know Madison has mentioned this in the past - but chronic tiredness is often the first sign of depression/anxiety. I have mental illness myself, so I know first hand how much it impacts day to day life. I would suggest therapy honestly, I started this year and it’s been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

Yall had so much publicity now it’s so messed up

Truth be told … not your best podcast today

I have a book called, "The 5 Love Languages" The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman. Highly recommend it! It basically helps couples discover each others love language whether it be Words of Affirmation. What makes one person feel loved emotionally is not always the thing that makes the other person feel loved in that same way. Is it Quality Time? Receiving Gifts? Acts of service or Physical Touch? Discovering each other's Love Language will help you achieve the other person's needs. Please check it out!