@@ourworldseenthroughmylens7775 @CHanksII Sir, what I stated was facts... you deflecting from it and getting in your feelings over the 👌🏾 emoji doesn't negate from them.👌🏾😂 You're clearly immature and lack emotional intelligence as well as logic... Maybe you're just a child.🤷🏾♀️ 1. THIS WOMAN GOT ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND SAID SHE DIDN'T NEED A MAN TO BE HAPPY OR LIVE A HAPPY LIFE...That's it.👌🏾 2. HER AND "THAT MAN" are clearly NOT enemies SO SHE CALLED HER EX BECAUSE SOMEONE WAS BREAKING INTO THEIR HOUSE... She wasn't even home and HIS CHILD lives in that house.👌🏾 Hopefully your maturity level will improve for you to be able to handle grown adult conversations in the future. Stay blessed ✌🏾
@@lefty206 She was genuinely insufferable. Even Jane Fonda warned her not to put out that weird “movie” because it would be a bad look & she didn’t listen. I think the most egregious thing she did to Ben was she put together a book using all the love letters he wrote her over the years. He BEGGED her to keep those private. But she put it in studio for everyone to read & use as “inspiration” 🤦🏾♀️ He was sooo pissed when he found out, and rightfully so
@@IslandVibez_VirgoShe didn't even need to do that documentary. It made her look like she always just wants to have things her way even if it hurts her partner...
she dates successful men and its not working. Chances are...she is Alpha hence why its not working. Alpha woman need a docile man. Cant date men have have their own gravitational pull and wonder why they aren't submissive to every word
I mean Most black female talking heads are Always single, always blaming men, always crying about the few double standards they don't benefit from, always thinking everyone is cheating
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J. Lo is definitely the problem. She’s been married like 3x and hella long relationships that’s she’s in and out of and she gets into relationships fast too. It’s not always the men’s fault. She has a track record of behavior from her 20s not to her 50s
I mean, when a long-term relationship ends most people take time to themselves and casually date before jumping into the next relationship. She's giving herself time to be single and not be so desperate for a relationship that she bounces from one to another.
@@brittanyjohnson375 a presumed BW having the nerve, audacity, and unmitigated gall to accuse ANYONE of having a "victim mentality" is what the kids like to call "nastyyyyy work" 🧐🤔🥴🤫😉😒
Why can’t it be she knows her worth? She picks the wrong men. Diddy cheated had a baby while he was with his main, Ben cheated with Jennifer then married her. They said Marc cheated with Jada idk could be a rumor though
Loren Larosa was right, when TMZ broke the story of the Divorce, everyone started judging, saying she's collecting rings like Thanos And Sonic The Hedgehog
You're not supposed to get divorced, and if a woman has gone through that multiple times then she is the issue, especially considering all the dudes she's been with
Agreed! But the same should apply for both men and women. As a woman, I've never liked a man who lacked discipline. A man who can't control his 🍆 is a man who lacks discipline and loyalty. Disciplined and loyal women look for the same in a man. A man who lacks discipline and sleeps around doesn't care about his health, his money, and his future.
@@idontarguewithpeasants This video was about women but I will say that men should also be more responsible with their organs. With that being said, do you disagree with anything in my original comment?
7:55 we start our children on this journey of dating with out a purpose then we expect marriage to work with all these different people they have been together with
FOH! Women should date multiple men to keep from settling for the weak, immature, lack of value, momma’s boys and marrying the alpha males that create families not just babies.
Ok here is my 2 cents on this. Jennifer left her first husband when she got famous wearing ‘that’ dress showing that body at the Oscars and blew up after that. She then got with Puffy which raised her stock because he was huge at that time too. After the whole club shooting incident with Puffy she rightfully left him and married Chris Judd her backup dancer very shortly after breaking up with Puffy. She then left a good guy Chris Judd who loved her and she loved him too but Ben Aflec played her for the first time. Jlo and Ben worked together on a movie (Gigli) while newly married to Chris Judd and they obviously had some kind of connection because Ben went after her and she leaves Chris Judd her husband for Ben Aflec (which was her downfall hurting that man really bad which he’s said on a reality show the hurt and pain he felt her leaving him so publicly and brutally) Ben wined dined and spent a lot of money on Jlo and her family then practically left her at the alter breaking up with her days before the wedding, the second time he used and played her. Jlo then married Mark Anthony practically a month after her breakup with Ben (imagine that) She stayed married to Mark for about 6 or so years they divorce she dates the backup dancer Casper for a couple years (they seemed happy too until he was caught trying to hook up with someone else on social media) Jlo then gets with ARod which to me was her best fit having a lot in common. She lives with ARod have a really lovely blended family even with Mark (her children’s father) part of that blended family as well. Ben starts to contact her via email and she falls for him again, third time being used and played by him. Arod DM’s a couple reality tv girls flirting and probably for hookups too ( but no physical hookups happened as per both women) Jlo uses that indiscretion by Arod to breakup their relationship and blended family unit instead of going into therapy and working on the relationship. She was seen on a rendezvous with Ben Aflec 2 weeks after calling it quits with Arod. Arod begs her to think about it because both their children were sad and hurt about the breakup and loosing that closeness. She takes her children away from their father in Miami moves back to LA to be with and marry Ben Aflec after 20 years. She sold her BEAUTIFUL Hollywood house that she’s had for a long time to buy a monstrosity of a house for 60 million for her Ben and her children (which is reported she paid for herself because Ben wasn’t stupid to buy a huge ridiculous house like that with all those expenses for upkeep and taxes) apparently he hated that house. I think Ben played her like a fiddle and she loved that beige man so much not even what was best for her children mattered. She thinks Ben is ‘the one’ and nothing else mattered while Ben’s children is and was always what mattered to him first and his number one priority. Are we supposed to feel sorry for Jlo? Please! she wants what she wants and this is the repercussions of her choices. She got played so many times by Ben Aflec and still went for more. That beige man meant more to her than her children. I’m not sorry for her. I know she’ll bounce back just fine. She’s a hard worker, takes good care of herself and hopefully will give herself at least a full year before another relationship but I am not sorry for her. How many times do you let someone fool you.
And that's the problem that the next generation is trying to change... because this is stupid and unproductive.👌🏾This is the societal validation that's got everyone depressed and miserable.👌🏾
Then Ben is equally the problem with not picking properly.👌🏾And we don't know if she's an alpha...we can't assume because she's the bigger name that she's an Alpha.👌🏾
@@brittanyjohnson375 We're not equal in terms of our responsibilities to each other. And in this case, J lo is at fault because it's on her to keep the man that she chose
@@hueyfreeman5509 It was never equal because it was created that way...by men for men to only benefit men... Women were burden with slave like responsibilities.👌🏾Those "responsibilities" are very outdated and more people (women and men) are moving away from this as BOTH need to benefit as an equal partnership in the relationship.👌🏾It's not J lo job to "keep the man" he has to want to be kept as HE is a grown adult...Ben is equally at fault.👌🏾
@@brittanyjohnson375 Your mentality is exactly why society is degrading. You don't understand men at all, and the fact that you even try to make a woman's responsibilities to a man "slave like" shows how asinine and immature your mindset is. There's no such thing as "outdated" responsibilities, it's called human nature, and the more you deviate from human nature the worse your outcome will be. That's why so many of yall are ran thru, single, and on anti-depressants because you want to move away from your natural responsibilities. Cut it out
@@brittanyjohnson375 There's no such thing as "outdated" responsibilities, it's called human nature, and the more you deviate from human nature the worse your outcome will be. That's why so many of y'all are ran thru, single, and on some pill because you want to move away from your natural responsibilities. Cut it out
If you have 4 divorces you’re the problem. She doesn’t know how to fight through hard times in a relationship. Same example if you’re a baby father or baby mother of 4. You’re the problem.
Having 4 divorces has nothing to do with fighting through hard times... Cheating is not a "hard time" to fight through.👌🏾No one has time to experience struggle love in hopes that their partner will change 10 years down the line...that's just stupid.👌🏾
I dig Lauren so much. I really wanted the powers that be to choose her as their 3rd. She just has such a wider frame of reference and her experience shows. She adds so much to discussions and knows how to keep Uncle Charla on his toes. I like their banter. Maybe y’all should add a fourth seat… JMO IJS I LOVE LAUREN. 😍😍😍😍
Because if you visit certain parts of the internet, there are women with profiles of themselves that date several men at a cost. So if I met a woman who dates several men at a time she is labeled a 304. She also might have a profile listing that advertises her. If it looks like a duck then it is a duck.
Lauren is the type of woman that likes the idea of marriage and a husband. She will walk away the moment she doesn’t get her way and call it a successful marriage because she accomplished what she really wanted. Just to be in the conversation of saying I was chosen to be married instead of a hookup. Stay away from women like that, if you’re a wise guy. There’s no focus on being a family unit in their head. Just a baby mom with a story. The democrats recipe to gain your vote which leads to disaster. PSA money doesn’t equal happiness. Our brother Tyrese exposed that, along with many others. So don’t let women or men who aren’t family focus trick you out of the family you’re creating or want to create. I just dropped my kid off at school. PreK. Happiness is what I see in his eyes from me being there. Everything under the sun gets old. The only thing that makes it worth living is new life. Which ties back into family unit. You can’t have a family if you dismiss the father or mother. Both are needed and both are needed in home for optimal childcare.
What is wrong with a woman dating multiple men that she's not sleeping with if she's seeking marriage? Is a woman supposed to see the first man she meets as her husband? I think men's expectation of women is beginning to be self-serving and unrealistic. Women and men should not be made to stay in a relationship where goals aren't aligned.
You're supposed to vet every man thoroughly and make sure you get commitment before you give it up. The problem is yall don't realize that until later when a bunch of dudes had it already
@hueyfreeman5509 Who is y'all?! Please change your tone. A woman and a man will have to date many people in order to vet and weed out. It's a process. This notion that a woman shouldn't date multiple men is unrealistic. A woman trying to stay in or force a relationship with the wrong man, especially after she sleeps with him, is a deadend. Women should date multiple men. She should be certain to keep her legs closed with the multiple dates,including you, until exclusivity is agreed upon.
@@ebonyeyes7023 Y'all meaning women in general nowadays. And yes, a woman shouldn't date multiple men because dating is synonymous with smashing. Very few women look at dating as courting, so whoever a woman says she "dated" she usually smashed. And if she smashed, it's on her to keep that guy since she gave her value to him. So it'd be best for women to wait until marriage or at least a serious commitment to do so, but that takes discipline and accountability, both of which are foreign concepts
@@hueyfreeman5509 It takes a small brain to assume she's smashing. That's what you do. You lack discipline and maturity and assume everyone is like you. Which is wrong. Most likely the individuals around you are just like you. Birds of a feather flock together. Dating is not synonymous with smashing. That's an immature thought pattern. Dating is getting to know someone and not all dates lead to intimate encounters you descrube as smashing. No man or woman should have intimate encounters with everyone they date. That's nasty!
J Lo is exactly what Lo ryhmes with period... Get mad all y'all want its called VIRTUE for a Woman in which most in this Country just don't maintain or have anymore💯🙏🏿
Because of people like Lauren. “She can’t keep a man.” It’s about finding the most aligned one and yes knowing your own worth. And some people grow apart. Also if you’re smart and want to evolve, you learn something from each relationship.
Side bar: I already love Jess, and I also love Lauren on the show, let's expand the show like we should do the Supreme Court and pop things off even more with another female perspective.
If a toothbrush has been in more than one mouth it's disgusting and unhealthy. If a toothbrush has been in the same mouth it's healthy. Men is the toothbrush. Women are the mouths.👌🏾
This unmarried young chick does not need to have this conversation. No one knows what ANY of those people are dealing with to have a serious conversation. Stay outta these people business. Go to therapy and figure yourself out!
I think JLo needs to spend some time by herself to reflect before she starts another relationship.....I remember an interview several years ago. JLo stated that she doesn't like to be alone (who does?)and that she has to be in a relationship. Relationships are wonderful when they are healthy ones and when one is in it because it feels right. Not because you don't want to be alone.
Also is it not traditional for the man to get down on one knee? How would it look bad on him if he decided not to marry the 10 women??? What is going on here?
There's no guarantee that every relationship will end with a happily ever after! Society is so f'cd up with their way of thinking. This is why I choose peace everytime ❤
Jamie Fox said it best J’H*E 😂 listen twice married I can absolutely understand that, but 8 different marriages come on now!! You better start looking at yourself 😮
The reason she gets the flak is bc shes the one that constantly pushing her relationships on blast. SHE made a documentary about her relationship, SHE made an album about her relationship, she made a video about her relationship (twice) so it's definitely her. She doesn't know hot to stay out of.the spotlight and be normal. This is no surprise I called it.
When a woman decides to settle down looking for a man no man could take her serious no man want to be with a woman who been around the block a few times plus the 😺 not so valuable after half the city ran through it 😂😂
I honestly don’t think someone should legally be allowed to get married to more than 3 people. At that point I don’t think you’re even taking marriage seriously…
Sexual ignorance keeps women in no power. The power we have is fertility and sexuality. That is why sexuality in women is shamed. Fertility should not be given without marriage. But I don't blame her for getting dating experience.
It’s always the man it’s never the woman. Once you been with a certain amount of dudes you should know what to expect from a guy that’s not good for you
All the men can't be doing the same thing to Jlo, if you leaving ALL your relationships..... because you literally left ALL, you have to self reflect, take your time, and know what you are getting into before you say yes
Did it ever occur to people that powerful, beautiful women with assets have higher standards for their partners, and society is used to men getting complacent in relationships, taking their women for granted and most women are expected to put up with a certain amount of bullshit "for the betterment of the family/marriage"...then drop their wife when they can't lose the baby weight. Give me a break yall are so brainwashed. She probably leaves because she can💁♀️
