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I got married 14month nikamucemanio ndeitire I ask my self I this life I will stay until death I rem very well Dec ilifika nikasema naenda sikuu until today Niko sikuuu it's been 14 year's thiguku ndiri yathira
I can only describe this lady as very intelligent,full of wisdom and understanding.I believe she is going far.I have liked her very much and I wish her all the best in her future life.
So so glad to see that the younger generation of Kenyan women won't tolerate mistreatment. It is so refreshing to see women develop a backbone and stand for themselves. It is such a stance that will reduce the number of domestic violence cases and 'wife deaths' in the country.
This is the definition of a woman who knows her worth, one who understands that no one should make you loose your purpose and vision..... I envy the courage
Well done again girl , you didn't stop going to work so that you depend on him you were enlightened.Ladies truly speaking ,many of you can agree with me that 10 shillings on your hands is worth than a million in his pockets. Atakushow uwache job but whatever will follow , you will regret forever.
I gave up on marriage when my son was 1week old and marriage was 2years old and now am doing perfectly fine and my son is 4years old and am a single mother feeling good while chasing my dreams...
The husband was the victim here. He was manipulated by a covert narcissist. They appear good to the outside world but to their spouses/children, they are serpents!!!!
Monica it is important to have some tissues in place when interviewing as most testimonies are and can be very emotional especially when it triggers the past.
I was married to a freaking narc. Very insecure man. There's nothing a woman can do to make that marriage work. Taking the next exit is the best thing.
I get excited when I see more and more understanding narcissism. Many have been suffering in narcissistic abuse and the society been unknowingly supporting the abuser.
I love the grace and maturity you have,,,I have learned from you something but I went through that I know it's painful!!! For sure have been single for 4yrs after i leave my marriage and am still pray God...only the strength
That's a very toxic man. He was insecure and there was nothing you could have done to change that. Very sorry for that, I understand you Cristal clear. I have been there and I know how one feels, anyway you don't have to blame yourself for his behaviour. This is the best decision you took.. leaving him with his toxicity
The lady said it very well. The husband was the victim here. He was manipulated by a covert narcissist. They appear good to the outside world but to their spouses/children, they are serpents!!!!
My mum walked away from millions after my dad died so I understand Maggie vizuri my mum said she has no time to keep fighting relatives and concubines Kama ukiwa na uwezo just walk away it helps in healing and by the way my mum is so blessed in wisdom and wealth. Society will always talk.kirindi ni kia rimire musa.
Am in love with this strong,wise, courageous, beautiful babygal.I like the wisdom and strength in her.You are one in a million Margaret.I have learnt a lot from this show.May God bless you Kagoni for bringing this show
So refreshing to see a young woman hold on to her sense of power despite the odds. It comes with a price but its well worth it in the end. God bless you and grant you a man that will pour into your cup!
Learning to be independent from a young age gals is very important .Live the best life unapologetically. Let Husband be a back up. Best decision this lady made after seeing the red flags👍
Margaret I love you for living your life with confidence and realizing that it's important to love yourself under all circumstances. Don't allow people to shape your life allow God to do it because He's faithful. Don't condemn yourself for whatever reason instead love God ,yourself and then others. Seek wisdom from God not from people and don't listen to stupid ideas from anyone because when God is for you that's all that matters. I pray for God's blessings for you and for a loving lifetime partner. Monica God bless you as always. Lots of love, hugs and kisses for both of you from Tx. USA
I swear I love my single life thz nonsense ya mtu gutida akuhingiire na gugutiiria na naniguo ororire nikiii makoragwo me insecure. Great 👍 decision gal n life goes on
wise and strong woman she is.I love how she does not give a damn about the society madness.Again loved the way she refused to compromise her job in the name of marriage.Aki marriage is enslavement especially when one is married to eg insecured man,man who always pulls you down he is not happy with your achievements name it.But it is also a blessing when one is married to a secured man and a man that supports his wife"s achievements and goals.
The first lady kusikia akiwa in love na even when in love anatumia kichwa na akili sawa sawa. The moment someone throws yu out at night or such cruelty yur head should alert yu of some danger regardless of how much yu feel in love .
Wow wow gal you are strong, beautiful and what you are destined for is way greater. I have always admired your strong personality, keep moving and see God do even amazing things in your life. Blessings
Me am single coz nilifanyiwa ile kitu when I was 2 months pregnant. My son is now 12 years na hatujawai ona huyo mwanaume. I don't even know if he's dead or alive. But me and my son are doing 👌💯✔️
Same here mrembo 7yrs down the line sijui ako hai ama alikufa en we are doing well with my 2 dotas💪 now first born 13 en 10 respectively we thank God 🙏
@@junemarie2393 @Susan Ruo and may God always refill your cups that they may never run dry and you may always be able to give your kids the best in life.
Benjamin Zulu has been advising ladies not to get married before 25yrs because below that we are doing things from an emotional perspective 😭am soo sorry for what you went through🙏I loathe abusive men 💔
True. Very few stay together happily. Some who stay together including some of our parents, it's always because one of the partners sacrifices their ambition or freedom.
i was married n ex husband was staying in sweden .. while i was with my kid kwa mother inlaw Life was very hard... tulishi tu Kama maskini!! i hate that Life up to date Life was drama after drama
I applaud young women who say NO to abuse and take a step to run their own affairs. I especially love a hard working lady and one who shares her experience to help others. May you be blessed Wariko. Glad you did not fight for your property because God gives and God takes away. Materialism is one of the reasons many women stay in abusive marriages. Happy you acknowledge the positive side of your ex as being a good father. That's really wonderful and strange at the same time being that the child is partly you. May God bless Monica and her wonderful service.
Present Monica nko ndani ici ihiko niikurema am a victim but God is our strength Ngai wa atumia ario giti ini that's why I hate pple who judge single mothers coz mundu nigwikora ekoraga kwa hiuha kiura ruga.nikuri Ngai waihinda ringi we nitwahanana mzee aliuza shamba sikufuatilia n ata hasaidii watoto ata kuwaona some men God is watching 13 yrs and loading thanks for sharing kweli watu wanaumia
@@monienjeri3042 we nitwahanana ndaamuire kurere twana twakwa tutikagererio ruo kama their dad dnt see or love them what's about another man my kids my everything mundu anarumwo ni nyoka onaga kamukwa akora kila wiki nlikua napigwa 2x ilikua doz nlikaa 4/5yrs nkasema basi maria ndorite nimo maingi n akanitishia nkahamia bali sana maasai mara
@@mimsbaibe6mimsgul737 nii kwanja haro ya mwiri na ya heho nicio cianguritie gukira miaka yakwa...nagutiri kindu kiuru guikara na mundurume stingy na korwo e narcissists hau hatiri maisha.....na agakorwo ndarenda mundu agathukume ati niekumbwo....pole gal tulee watoi hawaja wekelewa mawe.
I don't support divorce but i think you are a very smart and brave girl because you saw the red flags and acted very early. Very few of us ladies act early enough we wait until we are heavily bruised. I want to be like you when i grow you Margaret
I have never teared the way I have done. Fellow men, someone who puts her life kando for you and thinks positively about future life. Damn.....strong woman able woman n daring dreamer....continue soring high girl.
I agree with you Margaret & kagoni thanks for sharing. Let the parent who can give the best be with the kid/kids . Forgiveness is key in this journey ,self love as u highlighted ...it's a process with stages similar to grief, denial,bitterness ,acceptance ,healing etc....been there 10yrs then Divorced .Nothing lasts forever
@sarah kiragu This is so good, healing takes time and I wish people resected that process... I am glad you are in a better space... may you continue to encourage others in different ways as well.
I stopped my job to give an insecure man peace he gave me hell in return. Insecurities about your place of work Mara neighbors it's sad. I'm glad Margaret was strong enough to walk out of that abusive marriage. I'm happy now and I thank God in the midst of pain and regrets He gave me a new dawn
I have seen such a man and that is my dad. He even don't want my mum to talk to his siblings. He is also a narcissist and he made our childhood life to be nothing to remember. But to know he has never changed. Maggie you are a strong lady. Keep up
Waah🤔l hv seen my hrtmate.u hv almost my characters.even almost same wth my story.one day l will also tetify.u r strong woman we shall go far.👏👏👏👏God will NVR do away with us.he has a good plan for us
thanks for the show. psychologically when we don't go through the psycho social stages of life and skip the most important stage between 13 to 19 years of learning how to socialize, we develop isolation and are unable to form stable consistent friendships. abuse is a no no in relationships.
Aki i learned the hard way to take all what mum says n listen, my mum question me about my ex husband bt i said mum u don't know him, i told my mum to know him first, bt i passed through the say, i couldnt talk to my neighbor n if anybody look at me, he will say to majuana, I'm single now with 1kid at my 30s, n I'm okey
Hugs mum marriages ain't for everyone if its not working just leave there's still a good future ahead of you ....peace of mind is important. God above all
I was also married by the man with the same characters ,I ran away when I was 1mth pregnant and before I ran away he closed the gate with new pand lock and went to the job with the keys so I had to jump via the fence ..... right now my kid is 7mnths old and he has never ever called me he only view my status and he says nothing , right now am single and my kid is fne
Being chased away is the worse experience,it happened to me and since then i have never gone back..lol..Most of my friends and some church members judged me harshly.God has been faithful to me.
Strong, wise and independent woman ready to live interdependently. Pray that you will get your compatible husband. If you do, I believe you will make a. good wife. May God give you a great marriage one day.
Many women are suffering silently in their marriages all because they fear what people will say about them. I know one who lost her life from continuous beatings because she didn't want leave her marriage.
Gai nîaiguaga wahoya...Ameen🙏🙌 💞 she's wise confident and beautiful Maggie God knows what's better for you and thanks for encouraging other wamen out there
@wamsu wamsu It has taken time to get here and I am still learning everyday... I am glad I was able to encourage those going the same and are not able to speak up or do not even know where to start from.
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Diari ki hau akiuga Ki nieguthii makiuga ki dikamane ngiuria mwana ki nowega atware mwana ki kwao ngiuga ki ndiri ready gutiga wira make sure mwana e ki e sawa such a beautiful woman
Margaret , you are a wonderful girl. Because you did your best, God will bless you with the right partner. Keep up your maturity and focus. I like your parting shot 'if you know you have done ya best, now love yourself enough to take the best decision for you. Lovely'
This Margaret is very very decent woman..unfortunately the devil goes after the best..devil can be described as your mistake, error, sin and human weakness. This man needed to realize what a blessing God had bestowed upon his life. This woman is a good wife material.
