Why Are You Still Single? (And Other Questions To Keep To Yourself) 

The worst for me is "no one is deserving of you" as a compliment

Why is Donald Trump pretty and I am not? But why does he only have a wife but I have TWO HANDSOME GIRLFRIENDS who I show off in my masterpiece YT videos? Do you know the answer, dear dan

Most of the time its men saying it to attractive women they just met. Its not "wow youre an amazing person" its "wow youre hot"

To me it sounds like "Why haven't you lowered you standards yet?"

@@LauraSomeNumber to me it sounds like your hot...but what other flaws do you have that keep you single.

What if the one who asked isn't married?

@@funnyvideoguy3216 than ... why are you still in a relationship?

What would be an appropriate defense to "well because im still in love unlike you"

@@ozzyk558 well, so they know why then

But that answer is really easy. Because we're loyal, work together, communicate and are each others everything...totally different to being single as in you are alone and the connotation is you are defective in some way

Exactly, best thing to do if you're curious is to wait for them to bring it up while you "there there" them, biting your tongue. If you can wait for them to "get ready," you can wait for them to open up.

But beware of people who bring it up just....whenever.

I never pry.

As a philosophy

Yeah, and you could always say something like " if you ever need to talk about it, I'm here for you"

It's better that way. No expectations

Your not a lost cause, you clearly acknowledge that a life long commitment is not a race, instead you and your life are worth the time and effort to do well. Celebrate your resolve and self worth, it's fabulous!

It's hard to be single but once you try to embrace it and enjoy yourself, people take notice... Do things alone that you might feel too self conscious to do with others, it can be liberating 🤗 from one lonely soul to another...

This is assuming your single and lonely but still good advice 😁

Relatable

has anyone ever called u to a beach? no...... no one has :(

They call me a WItch.....

deach the beach

shes single now because her last chad gave her herpes

not saying "X should be normalized" should be normalized.

@@americanhero8606 silence

@@americanhero8606 Careful He's an American Hero

All my relationships are based on trauma bonding tho... Damn

@@ushagadgil1963 Hope you spend some good time with yourself and realise your patterns/mistakes. All the best!

Definitely!!!

Ya, or the very simple how are you feeling?

Also, "Would you like to change the subject?"

this! because it acknowledges the thing that happened and just that and an offer to talk about it can help the person heal.

Yes. With the pregnancy one, I would feel very insensitive to just change te subject, unless the vibe would really be that that would be what she wanted. I would want to acknowledge and then check how much the person would want to share about it, or change the subject.

Sooooo...don't be around people that love drama. Trust me if they will talk to you about it then they will talk to others about you and you become the 'drama'

@@seankeenan2583 a valid point indeed. Gotta be mindful on who we confide to.

I deal with this too, you're not alone. Best of luck :)

If anything, people became better at socializing because of the isolation.

@@nickfierro3873 elaborate if you will please cause I've yet to see that...or perhaps I'm missing something

I find, if the situation is really uncertain and they brought it up first, asking them if they want to talk about it works pretty well. That way, you give the other person control of the conversation and make them feel like you're accounting for their feelings.

@@sosanmia3 same for me. Letting them know you're keen to talking about it if they want shows you're interested and you care, and letting them decide what they want to do shows you respect them.

Yeah, "do you want to talk about that? No pressure".

Especially when everyone treats it like it’s so important, since it’s considered a big part of your country’s culture

Yup… get this all the time. Yes, let me rehash my generations of alcoholic family history with you! Ugh.

Yuuuuuuup!

I'm allergic and highly prone to liver disease due to genetics yay!

I just don't like drinking, but it seems to be the worst one because you don't have an "excuse" and they think they can keep pushing

...Don’t let her brainwash you

@@Americansikkunt why

@@ajithv5540 because racial discrimination, race-based wealth redistribution, and loss of Individual Rights is a bad thing.

@@Americansikkunt she has raised voice against all these problems

YES. If you talk about what you and other people make, it lets everyone know what's fair

yesss! (and unionize while you're at it!!)

no, people are assholes no matter what the number is

Can cause anxiety due to comparisons as some people don't have the best intentions but yup it needs to be normalised than what it is right now

Yess!!

That's awkward, but we'll done for reflecting and taking a lesson from the experience.

How long ago did this happen? Do you care to make amends?

Yes, unless you're her OBGYN, this is the best policy.

It’s okay. The other day on the bus this guy said to this other guy for this girl “let her sit , she’s pregnant” she said “I’m not pregnant”. These things happen, she had a little bump ish

How about you stop congratulating women on becoming pregnant as if that’s sort of accomplishment. All she did was spread her damn legs

Same

...twin...?

Yo same

You have to move on from your past to make your future.

The spontaneous oversharing also isn't helping :P j/k

But it looks like the first one got hidden or taken down.

its gone /)_(\

@@sammym.6263 ):

That sad to hear .

same and the type that does like me isn't my type

😂😂😂😂😂 Omgosh this is good

I'm going to start using this one.😅

100%. This.

Mind blown.

cyberpunk 2077 cures my loneliness

You have to move on from your past to make your future.

Although it seems that first one isn’t available anymore.

same!! the eyebrow arch!

I can see that!

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Yup, it’s private

@@siliaflo3645 WHYY IT WAS ON MY WATCH LATER😭

Her manager did smth wrong with uploading schedule

Good thing I've already watched the other one

Agreed. Also, stop asking people if they're vaccinated. That's the same personal thing, that's no ones business.

@@factcheckingyourmum what

@@factcheckingyourmum No I think this matters bc some ppl don't wanna hang out irl with peeps who aren't.

@@jclyntoledo ah yes, the brain dead one's.

@@DahianaG if you csnt make the connection, I can't help you

Sometimes I think it depends

@@rainbow9987 elaborate

@@EricGraham94 The love ain+t hugs and kisses and sex, as this world presents. /be not deceived nor naive. What is unknown life fact? - parenthood is GOD given and love is not LUST. John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. About being single: 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

@@EricGraham94 no. Stop making black or white judgments on things. Not everything is one or the other. Conversations are nuanced. In the past people have asked me why I’m still single, and I took it as a compliment and wasn’t offended at all. Not only does it mean they think I’m desirable, it means they think other people should think I’m desirable too. And their intention was curiosity about how a person who is clearly desirable to many people would not have found anyone yet, because all logic says they would have found someone. Stop the polarized thinking and realize that not everything is cut and dry. People are complex and could have a multitude of different intentions behind the things they say.

She was talking to me, not you.

nasty :) i just cut relations with such people, oh well my friends tend to be less crazy and more relaxed xD

Why bad day

Hope your day gets in better

What happened to the first one tho?

It got taken down. Happened a few days ago as well

At least you can use the "why are you still married" line

Good question ...

The same reason people ask passive aggressive questions,.., insecurity.

A "bombardment" consumerist temporary/disposable lifestyle turns us into material addicts. If somethings not attacking our 5 senses or wallet, it feels out of the ordinary

Just to clarify: You're wondering why Anna is single, or why you are?

@@themore-you-know me

Haha whaaat?

Same here! Thank you for saying this.

Do you not understand why they ask you this? If they have just figured this out and are concerned for your well being do you just expect them to read your mind and know you will be upset if they ask?