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There's a facilitator who charges more than $1100 an hour in AZ (upper crust town). Looks very accomplished education and previous job wise. In any case, that is ridiculous.
It is to some extend because it is a tug of war with them they can make you feel bad about yourself but then the next minutes she would argue with anyone or fight with them if they say anything negatively about her kid(s). It is a way to train your children so that they would not get hurt by other people. People here in America is afraid of the truth, they get hurt or get offended at anything you cannot say anything without violating something. 4/5 people (a little exaggerating) need to see therapists but they don't even tell the truth to the therapists or the therapists said something that incorrect they afraid of hurting the therapists' feeling so it is a useless cycle for real in many instances, I speak on this base on experiences
Being Asian, ik how it feels. I've been an introvert since KG, and at class 7, i regained my true form 😏. The lil' boy who called me poop, is now crying and asking for forgiveness. The girl who scarred me in the heart is now scared of me. But im the friend of everyone. The world. I talk with anyone i want. Whenever i want. If u r an introvert, just know that nothing is going to happen to u. Atleast to tried. Atleast u were brave. Just do it ❤️. 𝐖𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐠𝐮𝐲𝐬 :))))
Hahahahahaha "His own race" as if there is more then one race on this planet. Humans is the race. He belongs to a Nation. The more correct way to what your trying to say is he is making fun of his own family.
@@businessproyects2615 Sir. Race means People of Common Decent. Human: is of man. Man is male and female. Men walk this earth and they are humans a.k.a humanoid males and females. They are the descendents of a common mother. Who spread out around the world creating homes and nations a.k.a families.
This is literally my Asian Mom, except for the money aspect. She went (or tried) to get into therapy when my sister passed away and tried at least five therapists from what I heard. As in my country public health insurance covers psychotherapy you have five trial sessions each with therapists to see if you can work with each other, every attempt failed (either they refused her or she them) and she declared the therapists as incompetent because they wouldn't "agree" with her. So this is incredibly funny and really really sad.
They probably needed an Asian therapist who is older than her. One thing I noticed is that Asian boomers only really listen to older adults or high degree professionals like doctors who have a serious demeanor
@@alexman8800 What no...some people in today's age treat black people better because "racism" and whites in many places are being treated more and more poorly
Note: That part about creating more problems because of the cost of therapy. I actually told my psychotherapist about how I was worried about my family's financial stability and that it made me really anxious. But when my mother received the invoice, my psychotherapist had actually charged us 10 pounds less than the normal rate she usually charges for each session. She really is the sweetest old lady :)
Same thing with my African parent she said, “Therapy doesn't help and they don't give you solutions or help they just take your money.” tried therapy and my aunt was the one paying, but you know you're messed up when the therapist says they don't know how they can help you. 😑
@@edselgreaves6503 THIS. People fail to understand this about therapy. Once you've been through one, you don't stop there. It's like going through doctors. Do you simply stop going to see a doctor just because you thought they couldn't help you with your problem? No, you still have to even if they're not all that adept in their knowledge. Same thing with therapists. They're not really there to give you all the advice, the answers you need, bit of course, you have choice to make the decision to make the necessary changes. It's like when you tell them your problems, they write you a prescription but not quite like a medication but rather, a guide that you yourself may need to consider before writing it off otherwise, you're acting as if you know better than them. That's why I stand by it because as hard as it is to deal with mental illness, the most regrettable thing you could do is to not seek help from someone who's got the proper tools, maybe not all the tools but just enough to do the job, so that you can still continue on your journey through life. Therapists may suggest medication as well to go hand in hand with therapy.
well sometimes I feel sad when I watch his videos because they are relatable. Like I can't cry now even when I am sad because my parents didn't allow me to when I was a kid and now idk how to cry anymore...
This is really sad,.. It's the same with me mate,. All they ever care is your academic scores and nothing else. I've had been bullied when i was in 7th grade, but when i told them about it,. They just said that it's common. I've already lost hope in telling my problems to them a long time ago. And recently they got so furious over me and kept nagging me just Bec i wasn't able to place first position this year. They'd say all kind of words that really hurts so much. I legit cried for two days straight and even lost my appetite after that. It's so sad that his videos are funny but at the same time so relatable!! Hope you're doing fine too.
My mom was he same.,I kept on getting bad marks in school. My dad dint care and just steered clear of the crazy woman. I'm not dumb just different. I created two new technologies one for a new type of steel and another for food processing. School ain't all that. Oh and get a motorcycle.it helps.
I heard it can help to cry if you watch a really heartbreaking or emotional video on youtube where other people cry as well. So basically if you're sad and wanna cry, but you can't, videos like those can help you do it.
When someone ask a therapist how they are useful the answer is simple, they listen without judging, when others do. They take time to help people with problems that they may think is too big for them. It may not be solved in one session, but a little by little the problem can be fixed. Rome wasn't built in a day. Therapists remind their patients that they don't have to go through their problems alone.
Not every therapy is talk therapy, I absolutely hate this assumption. There’s solid research backing treatment plans for respective illnesses and there should be a goal-oriented focus between patient and therapist. Of course the therapist needs to get to know the patient beforehand to find out the problem in order to ascertain the solution… most people don’t realize this and quit prematurely. Stick with therapy guys, and if the type of therapy you’ve tried isn’t working for you, there’re a million other approaches that are all drastically different
@@julioflorescertifiedtherap1425 Also: tell me your inner most secrets. Describe your sexual fantasies in gory detail. Just a moment, this thing is not recording. Ok, continue!
Not an Asian,but that Is exactly how I felt after the therapy, absolutely useless. It got so bad, I ran out of things to say, and we just sat there... 🤣🤣🤣 Love Asian moms. ❤❤❤
now that I think about it, therapists can't help themselves to solve their own problems and they most likely get depressed thinking "why am I a therapist if I can't even help myself?" kinda sad when you think about that
Growing up my mom ruined me, sheltered the crap out of me. So bad I was not allowed to have friends, a job or get to move away for college. Built zero social skills, knew nothing about credits, paying bills, and etc.. All because she just wanted me “close”… I wanted to move away for a reason. To get away from her.. My mom is emotionally and mentally unavailable. Also the way she manipulated me and guilt tripped me into passing up a college admission, I got accepted into one of my favorite colleges. She didn’t like it would mean I was moving. Still moved away at 18 when I realized what she was doing. Eleven years later I don’t talk to her. She has a grandson she barely knows too. Oh wells.. I held grudges and would never forget, tried to go to therapy only to realized how much I really hate her. I’ve found peace, learned to let the past go, still won’t reconnect with her.. She’s still dismissive and mentally/emotionally unavailable.. Only after I moved away, forcing my way out that I got my own place, job and now I have a beautiful family of my own.❤ Life is more beautiful. No one to gaslight me, manipulate me to do things that’s only beneficial for them.. To be fair her mom, raised her the same way. Guess that’s all she knows. She’s living off her brother now.
I mean this is exactly how I felt everytime I went to a therapist. They didn't sit there and be useless like they should and they always made me feel worse. Wish I could be like this
Although I believe that therapy can be a good thing, I also think that it's become a bit trendy right now and not exactly necessary for a lot of people.
*_When you realize that the real therapy comes from talking to people who were once like you, especially when speaking to some experts (Depends, be careful)._* *_And as a funny meme I received said: "IF I CAN'T TALK TO STRANGERS, HOW THE HECK CAN I MAKE FRIENDS?"_*
From a different Asian person’s point of view family don’t let u see a therapist bc the family is afraid what u might tell the therapist. Family cares more about their reputation than they do about u. They don’t want ppl to hear about their dirty laundry.
Only Asian Mom can send the therapist to therapy 😂 also she is slowly developing into a villain character.. would love to see her taking-over-the-world arc 🤣
It is important to remember that your health is not as important to the coach as you are to yourself. If you get a permanent injury then that just leaves space for someone else to use the coach's services. While you only have one body. Good coaches are not supposed to be this way, but there are too many bad ones in multiple ways. As you often hear from news sources.
@@Call-me-Al i love all of my coaches and they're all amazing, mine just try their best to remind us that we can still overcome physical challenges and perform well even when we don't feel our best. they definitely do stress the importance of mental/physical health!!
Along with enjoying KC's humor, I enjoy the truths that get delivered. Great comedy makes you think about things from different perspectives and realize how foolish some of our beliefs are.
I just need my own space!! These things hurt. I've been called "good for nothing, stupid, useless, parasite, ugly, that I look terrible, that something is wrong with me, that I look sick, etc." Whats the point of living if my family never has anything nice to say even when I do something good, something is wrong.
You definitely need your own space. You are none of the things they say to you. don't take that on. it dosn't matter what you do they will remain the same. love yourself, and enjoy being yourself. Your point of living has nothing to do with your family, they are vessels through which you came through. you are here alive and you should live and enjoy life, discover yourself and the world. live and thrive ! please don't take their words and make them yours. don't be perfect be you!
Get out as soon as you can pull some money together and go "no contact" with your family. The only exception is if you still need them to pay for college. Just make sure you pick a college far, far away and don't go home for the holidays.
The only other time i've seen this level of sadism and honesty is when Cartman fed Scott Tenorman his parents. "MMMMmmmmm... your tears are sooo yuuuummmyyy!!!"
"Charging nine hundrad darrar is rude b*tch" "How do u fweel" "Aww you cryin why u cry who told u to cryy yes yes the tears of uselessness mmm so tasty" "Da haro is dis the therapist I'd like to make an appointment tomorrow. Yes. Yes that would be great." These killed me
