@@sharontolan2781 I couldn’t imagine growing up not knowing my REAL daddy was my mother’s boss. Could you please? He knew about Rhonda and he knew that was his damn seed. Shame on them both.
@@ReasonablySpeaking9808 I agree with you 100%. Please tune in to ashleysaysso on Diana Ross. Ashley is pretty legit and does her research on many motown singers among others.
Thank you for Motown Records Mr. Berry Gordy ❤. My late parents had all of the Motown records from every artist on your label. Thank you for the WONDERFUL Artist and the MUSIC. A Wonderful Legend!!
He was never in love with her. You need to understand black male pathology. She risked ruining her career having his child out of wedlock. He refused to marry her when he could have done so. He was 17 years older than she. Gordy was her manipulator. It was just a power & ego trip. He loved controlling her. Many of you are gullible & weak.
He never loved her. Let's hear Hazel's side of the story. Let's also hear from Berry's other wives. Notice how he drops Michael & Diana' s names because they were the biggest stars and he wants to link his name to them. If a man loves you he will claim you and give your child his name. He will claim you & his child and provide for both.
Fact is immediately having the child Diana knew she wasn’t a mixed child and unless she had been sleeping with many black men which I doubt than she new immediately the child was Berry Gordy it’s just that Berry was married so she kept his secret until he got divorced. Which is part of the reason he loves Diana so much. She didn’t demand anything of Berry but that he made her a star which he did. Diana’s husband was a white man so they new immediately Rhonda was not a mixed race child. Like I said they just kept his secret.
@tori byrd: He was not married at the time; Ross and Gordy dated from 1965 - 1970, it was thought that the couple would marry. It was said, upon the discovery of her pregnancy, she went to tell him. However, he had begun a relationship with someone else. Angry, she rebounded with the handsome schoolteacher, Robert Ellis Silberstein. She'd known him only a few months. They don't tell us everything; I think he knew about the baby very early on. She simply had MOVED ON, knowing marriage to Gordy was out of the question.
Yes the sun rise and sets on her and she was strictly for herself.!! Always was and you would think she stared the girl group but she didn’t she was the last one to come in the group .!! Mrs.Flo Ballard got this group together and help make everyone reach stardom with the help of Mr Barry Gordy Oh by the way Mary found Diana Ross and brought her in.!!
It's despicable how childish and selfish she was. They had other females singers at Motown that she felt threatened by because she was not a good singer. She would complain to Gordy to have them removed. Gladys Knight stated that she and the Pips were on tour with supremes and was out shinning Diana. Diana calls Berry Gody and has them taken off the tour. In another incident, Diana ross wears another artist's dress so that they can't perform. The artist complains to Berry Gordy and he says to leave Diana alone. The other performers were told to not outperform Diana. Diana was not the lead singer of the supremes until she started an affair with Gordy and a songwriter at Motown. She performed in three movies for Gordy, Mahogany, lady sings the blues and the wiz due to an affair with Gordy. Gordy and ross even had a child together. She has as much talent as Marilyn Monroe, But both slept their way to fame. No Respect!
She was made the lead by Berry because she had a commercial voice. He wanted a light sound not a churchy one. If you listen to her in Lady Sings The Blues you actually hear that she really can sings.
@@tonyamontgomery2733 You can't tell me that sleeping with the boss did not enhance her career. They had more talented female singers at motown than Diana Ross. Diana Ross wasn't even the best singer in the supremes. But you're right, commercially she was better suited than the others.
Berry was always there he was in her life She had entrusted him practically with her entire life. Berry will never turn his back on her, Berry was Devoted to her
Thank you Mr Gordy for your Accomplishments to our Race and bring out the talent of these wonderful Artists , a Giving of a beautiful Legend Ms Diva and exciting Diana Ross
"Word Salad". His main attraction to Diana was business. He was mostly in love with her drive and work ethic. He didn't marry her because he didn't want to. He married a no name, no career having Eurasion with no problem. The successful black man's ideal woman is not usually black like him.🤷🏾♀
Not true...He was selling the company he already new that...when it was announced that Ross would leave Motown there was a bidding war...the resulting contract is the basis of her wealth...her money was badly mismanaged at Motown so she left...also knowing that Barry wasn't going to remain...
To this day he's still crazy about his Diana. When he talks about her his face lights up. That's an unbreakable love that no one or nothing can come between. It's sometimes hard to understand but very real!!! ❤❤❤
@@orane3549 it's difficult to measure sadness, sorrows, grief and etc. Because everyone doesn't process information the same due to other factors such as what type of relationship between the deceased and the ones who's grieving. In this case these people was Performers/Entertainers. We admired them and listen to their music. We don't know them personally.
@@orane3549 What happened to Florence Ballard's life and career ending the way it did was really tragic. She did initiate the group & came up with the name, The Supremes. She was 💔 because of the way she was treated after they became famous, that's why she started drinking so much. I can totally understand her why... She was trying to numb her pain but it wasn't the way she should have done it, at the time she just probably didn't know what else to do 😭
Toxic BW your attitude has died out. You have no understanding of human relationships and can't relate to people. Diana Ross made a LOT of $$$ for Barry Gordy and Smokey Robinson. They owned the songs, the publishing and take all the royalties. The music industry pimps artists. Its a pimp/prostitute relationship. Smart artists stay drug free, they learn the business, seek to own their assets, they tour a lot, marry well and invest well.
He’s so manipulative of the English language He knows what to say and how to say Diana Ross couldn’t get married because they were already married.That’s the truth
*_They could not get Married even though Berry was Single, because Diana was already Married_*_ to her 1st Husband._ When he & Diana were together 1965-1970 Berry was a Divorced man _(2nd wife)._ *Another reason why she did not marry him* was probably because when he was married to his 2nd wife Berry had 2 mistresses and a child by both of them so *_he had 6kids._* He probably would've done the same to her.
He is lying,I don't believe for one second he didn't know she was pregnant with his child,they hid it like things were done back in that era.he knew Rhonda wasn't that white man's child that Diana married..go figure..
@@1goldbaby That's why Diana Ross married Tracie Ellis Ross daddy so fast. The two men were friends. Barry Gordy wanted the people to think Rhonda was not his. How could they hide that. Rhonda was not his. Rhonda said that she knew she was different from her other two sisters with the complexion and hair. Notice, how Tracy Ellis Ross act like she the boss when they family is on shows together.
@@lindataylor5704 yep!!! Tracy is ALWAYS trying to be out front when it comes to Diana!!! I would love to hear from Rhonda how she felt growing up with her and Chudney.I don't think Chudney wants to be black nor does that oldest boy she had by that billionaire.Anyhoo,it is so sad that they have identity issues..I hope they UNDERSTAND that if it wasn't for their mother,THEY WOULDN'T BE NOTHING!!!
What you are saying can't be true because Barbara Walters would have confronted him in the interview about it and he knows that and he wouldn't have even done the interview with her.
He was divorced from Raynoma Gordy Singleton in 64. He did have a mistress named Margaret who had become a baby mama. So to his credit he was a cheater but not married when he courted Diana.
We realized..lol lol Diana knew whose baby it was. You were probably the only black rich executive that she knew at the time. .. so of course as Maury would say “YOU are the FATHER”.
this is all BULL> Diana and bery knew that she was knocked up and that this arrangement with the whiteman was just that. an arrangement. all parties knew the deal, just as with the kartrashians who front for gay athletes on the downlow. this was all paid and arranged for. even mary and Cindy knew the score
Diana & her 1st husband, Traci & Chudney's father KNEW that she was already pregnant by Berry b4 they married. It was never a surprise nor secret to Diane from the moment she found out she was pregnant to the time Rhonda was that 13 year old girl they finally told that "Uncle B.B." was in fact her father. Plus, Rhonda looks MOST LIKE Berry than any of his children. Finally, Diane has publicly stated that her ex-husband, Arne Naess (the father of her 2 sons), was the 1 TRUE LOVE OF HER LIFE, THE 1 SHE WANTED TO GROW OLD WITH. Interestingly enuff, for all the ugly they did to so many, they both ended up growing old & alone & both egomaniacs never saw saw it coming, but it's exactly what they both DESERVED, 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾good ole karma!!!!!
It's fascinating that this could still be of any interest to people 50 years later. But, as pointed out, he was married part of the time and she was his "star." A "star" who was sleeping with the boss in 1971 (and then subsequently becoming pregnant with his child) would not have been looked on favorably. Not even if it was Diana Ross (or any other woman, for that matter, but especially Black women). Those were the morals of that time. And they were pretty puritanical.
Yes unlike now where everybody sleeps with anyone and everyone for no reason other than lust . No integrity.. wreaking havoc and heartache…I would rather be a prude any day
Older men seduce young girls & women all the time. When they make a man rich he manipulates the relationship for gain. You are stupid. He was going with a teenager. He was manipulating her.
@Mamadou Aziza: Miss Ross DID want to marry Mr. Gordy. He didn't want to marry her. And rumor has it that he had embarked on an affair when she went to notify him of her pregnancy.
@@michellekirkendall818 Not true. She said in a recent interview she never loved him the way she loved her husbands and she was not interested in marrying him.. Her words. Yes also told Barbra Walters this too.
@@mamadouaziza2536 If you read her memoirs, "Secrets Of A Sparrow" (1993) she explains how she became confused by his actions, it seemed he loved her, then he became controlling....he said himself that she asked him about getting married. He said by doing that, "he would have to kiss her ass" in a kidding manner. I do think she loved him MORE than he loved her.
Because it was all about business, not love. Diana admitted on PBS, that she wasn't in love with Berry Gordy, but she had long nails though..., LOL !!!
@@Michelle-jz8vl She wanted Berry He was only interested in the money. Read Raynoma Gordy Singleton's Book. She was crazy for Berry. He turned her down. Silberstein was a pawn to cover up the live child. Arne Naes divorced her and had a baby. They were too different people. Without the Supremes and Berry Gordy there would be no Diana. That's it that's all!
@@pamelasmart4968 no way could that white man cover up Rhonda !! She may have thought Rhonda was a pawn for her success . Not sure but she knew it wasn’t a bad idea to have a baby with a rich man. All of her children’s fathers are well off or were successful men regardless of color ..
He didn't marry Diana because he was already married. Eddie K was the great love of Diana's life and she was really broken when he married someone else.
@@naturalkinkycurlymarie7496 Florence was very bitter about how Diane was able to manipulate Berry and get her way. Florence didn't know how to play the game. Then she let the bottle get the best of her.
She was not interested in Marrying him. He was twice Divorced with 6kids. Two of those kids he had with 2 women that he cheated on his 2nd wife with. His Track Record wasn't too impressive. She gained Fame, Money, and a Legacy even before leaving Motown for a lucrative *RCA Records $20Million Dollar* 7yr recording contract deal. *_How did she get fooled?_* You think she wanted to marry him. Berry Gordy was a Single man when Diana found out she was 2mos pregnant and married her 1st Husband instead of Berry Gordy. *_So how did she get fooled again?_*
@@naturalkinkycurlymarie7496 she still wanted to marry him, I'll believe it till I die! My privallge , you can believe anything you want, this is America.
She didn't want him and in fact she actually hated him during the Mahogany era.. She has publicly stated she never loved him like she loved her husbands..
MISS ROSS IS TRULY THE EPITOME OF LONGEVITY ,& CLASS,IN MORE WAYS THAN ONE. !!!! DIANA ROSS ; SURE LEAVES THESE SO CALL SINGER STARS OF TODAY FOR DEAD PERIOD ! NO LIP SINKING TO HER SONGS , ALL SONGS SUNG LIVE !!!💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Berry and Diana Should just get married...just for genuine mutual, affection and companionship. Damn all the un-realistic; willy-nelly, expectations (LOVE) in the minds of the young...just two people who (RESPECTFUL) know each other inside and out. Neither Diana nor Berry need anyone's approval about "NOTHING"! I would love to know they both were one another safe place..." TOGETHER ". "The only (TRUE) relationship's either had in their entire lives...we're with one another"!
@@sandraatkins2539 The story is old enough at this time to have traction. I was a "Detroit Sound" fan since the age of nine in 1963. It is not opinion. Berry Gordy, Jr came from a family of business owners, record producers (sisters Gwen and Anna). The early Motown was made up of Berry's family, 8 siblings! Gordy himself wrote a book called "To Be Loved" (1996) also, the money amount is mentioned in "Berry, Me and Motown" (1990) by Raynoma Gordy Singleton, who Berry married in the late fifties. Any one alive during the early days, knows about the $800.00 from family members....they had the money to give! This is not opinion, it is fact....people who weren't alive at the time are spreading misinformation.
Dag Babs!! Why didn’t you marry Edward Brooke? Of course at time of this interview, it wasn’t known that you were creeping with Edward Brooke which you revealed later in a book you wrote.
I believe Barry loved Diana but sometimes the timing is just off. I like hearing him declare his love for Diana because they have a daughter and she needs to know she was conceived in love. Times were different back then and Diana wanted her child to be born in a legitimate marriage!! Good for both of them.
How can her child be born in a legitimate marriage when her biological father and mother wasn't married? She married another man, while pregnant for Berry. That would make her a bastard child. How was the child "conceived in love" when the relationship was pretty much an affair/fling? If the child was "conceived in love" then why didn't Berry marry Diana to show his "true love" how much he actually loves her? He even referred to his own daughter as "it". If my child was "conceived in love", I wouldn't wait 13 years to tell my child that I am her biological father. Diana's and Berry's daughter was told that Berry was her uncle growing up. Yeah, some love that was.🙄
Barry didn't love Diana he just used her as his cash cow. Grow up. You're very gullible you could easily be used in your relationship. You are prime doormat material. You are a bad judge of character too trusting and therefore easily manipulated.
MR GORDY AND MISS ROSS ROCK MY MUSIC WORLD. YOU BET AFTER THEIR MUSICAL INFLUENTIAL IMPACT UPON MY LIFE.. I AM FULL CIRCLE. I HOLD MY OWN QUITE WELL MUSICALLY..THANKS BERRY & DIANA.
People still haven’t figured out why he favored Diana over everyone else. It wasn’t just her voice. She was a hustler. A ride or die chick with a reputation in Detroit. She told Berry, “If you think it, I’ll do it.” And it paid off for him, whether it be singing, acting, sex, or anything else.
I 💕 her so much her and her family Diana Ross is and will always be my favorite her voice has always been Angelic to me from the time I was a little girl and now Iam 61 and her voice is still number one in my book I'm going to go see one of her show's one of these days I know it will be Heavenly
Berry just wanted a super star that he created! It was just all ego for him. Even Diana said in her book that she realized that berry just used her! And that he tried to brake up Diana to and her Fiancé , and it wasn’t because he loved her and wanted her for himself. But because he wanted that control so that he could still be able to dog work her like he always had , with out any other man getting in the way !! She did not say it like this but in other words. I was so surprised that she had even admitted this! However Diana has said in some interview , can’t recall which, but said that she really tried to be as honest as she possibly could about how she felt and how she later on saw things through her perspective. And I commend her for that it’s not easy for her , being that she’s always been so private.
@@dddddadadad1796 She wanted him. He was a business man, had been married twice. He didn't want to marry her. It wouldn't not have been good for either. It's hard on a marriage. Then when it disolves it's about the money. He was smart not to marry her. He has no regrets. She was his star. That's how he saw her.
@@swetztalk5416 When he was married to Raynoma. Liles, he had an affair with Margaret Norton. Norton gave birth to a son, Kennedt, in 1963. Diana Ross was not involved with Gordy at that time, Please read Raynoma's book, "Berry, Motown and Me" written in 1990. Raynoma was nit a gangster. She was an integral part in the formation of Jobete Publishing and the early Motown Sound.
@@michellekirkendall818 § 🔴 . Calm down I was totally agreeing with you. I even corrected my comment! No need to get upset. This is for entertainment purposes only! for me anyway... period. Anyone can read the books. . Furthermore it's public information and it's no secret because there's people that really lived and are still living during that time and can tell the story! Peace and blessings enjoy your day!
Diana had to be a favorite of Berry's for who knows how many reasons! Berry probably doesn't even know himself! Diana did have talent, stage presence, and that star quality! She did have some things! But she also had Berry too! In more ways than one, as everybody eventually found out! And everyone at Motown, especially in the label's early years. They must of knew what was happening! I think he could have invested in other Motown artists too! Like he did Diana, with movies and everything. I wonder what would have happened if he had of invested in the others at Motown!
BS She wanted to marry him. He was a business man he isn't want to marry her. Had she not been preg-a-nant she prolly would not have married Sielbersten. They didn't stay together that long. Just to cover up a scandal of a LOVE CHILD.
@@thanddi Read Raynoma Gordy Singleton's Book. She gave Berry an ultimatum he refused, she the turned to Silberstein to cover up the live child. She don't stay with Silberstein long. He was her manager. Just a pawn. She was very clever and manipulative. In her own book she says his she seduced Arne Naes. Well she is she a superstar with money and no husband.
@@pamelasmart4968 And she said her money💰was hers. Her kids said that's what she told them, & they would have to make their own money after they got grown cause she made her money for herself. Everybody would have to get a job 🤑
Carolyn Bratton- They were each others stepping stones, helping each other get where they were going: To The 🔝 💰 💵 They thought being married to each other would interfere with that, with their friendship bond 💕😍
Barry Gordy was already married that's why Diana Ross didn't marry him she was a home breaker. DPitts. Diana has a great personality. That's charming. DP
Berry Gordy was a married man. He is Hazel Gordy father..the lady who married Jermaine Jackson. He wasn't leaving his wife. Diane had him fire Florence take Gladys off the tour and give her the Wiz role..that was Stephanie Mills role..she did it on Broadway. Ross is low down and dirty..most project kids are like that..survial skills cut throat. That Billionaire who is the Father of Evan and Ross booted her mean butt out.
Thank you Curtis for that l was getting ready to say that too. She is one beautiful 77 year old woman.. A woman looking like that is doing right. Something right. Thanks Curtiss for talking me through that l was in an earthquake the signs were coming down saying remove to dismiss. Everything was closing down. She can not help it because she is young and beautiful at 77 years old and that voice is still there Thank you curtis for saying that.
She took care of her self by changing her ways. growing up, She was a child. l never seen her act like that l saw 2 jealous women Got up because she went higher and went to Hollywood and made it. But she Is living right God is with her. To sing like that.
They said they did not want to get deeper involved and they knew they were both married and she kept her baby a secret to protect Gordy they were truly in love and made ther decision not to offend there love ones. Gordy was her manager and she and she wanted to please him. They wanted to break up to keep everyone happy. Motown took the world when it came to singing and other things. Yes they might be able to married one day.
Even with his flows, if Berry Gordy was white with the portfolio and empire he's built from scratch, the music industry would refer to him a "the coming of christ"!!!
Yeah, Diana and Berry thought they could hide that personal story forever, but Mary Wilson spilled the beans in her first book about that daughter. Diana said it hurt her badly and probably never forgave Mary until her death.
@@Gianni117 Maybe your comment is meant for someone who didn't read the book, but I did, from cover to cover. Or you might be dealing with semantics. Either way, it was Mary who said in her book, people can't help saying how much Diane's first daughter looks like Berry. (Mary and Flo always referred to Diana as Diane, her given name) Then shortly thereafter, Diana gave an interview disparaging Mary and in Diana's book she said Mary hurt her badly, but was not specific. This wasn't rocket science. Go refresh your memory from both books, then come back and comment.
Mary had no obligation to keep up Diana’s fake facade. It takes courage to expose a Narcissist. Mary had to endure a lot of smear campaigns & career damage from Diana.
That’s seems so many keep forgetting, I can only imagine what his poor wife went through knowing he was with Diana plus had a kid with her. The wife is always forgotten.. only the famous mistress remembered
You all need to let go of this narrative. A quick search can tell you that he was NOT married during this period. Even his ex-wife confirmed this on national television.
Berry Gordy wasn't married in 1965 when he started messing with Diana Ross... Barry Gordy had three wives... One name was Ray Singleton and he married her in 1960 and divorced in 1964 he started messing with Diana Ross in 1965 now she might have been married but he wasn't legally married..ijs
DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT AWARDS SHOW AND WHAT DATE SAID WAS/IS WHERE DIANA ROSS IS SENDING LOVE AND WISHES TO MARY WILSON PLEASE🙏🙏🙏?!! WAS SAID AROUND MARY'S AUTO ACCIDENT WHEN HER SON PASSES?!! RIP TO BOTH MARY AND HER SON,,, AMEN🙏🙏🙏!!!
I've seen Eddie Kendrick story on Unsung. His wife at the time had caught him and Diana together in bed; she chased her out. His wife did not want to talk about it.
This kind of stuff makes me sick and for everyone to make a big deal about it and out of it makes me more sick. It feels like dirt news straight out of Hollywood. They both hit the sack with no conscious and that's why they don't blow my skirt tail up. What impresses me is people with respect. Not bed partner stories.
Black people like to drag black women down through the sewage, mud & garbage. They didn't get to do that with Diana Ross because, she's lived her lived well, making good choices. Still, more than 50 years after the fact, haters are trying to drag Diana Ross down. This is why smart black women reject Blackistan altogether. The haters are raging mad that Diana Ross escaped Blackistan, flying higher & shining brighter than their favorites. They say that "success is the best revenge" I suppose that is true. Many black people & Diana Ross haters wanted Diana to live in shame, poverty & disgrace. But clearly, that ain't happening! Blackistan & Diana Ross haters are extremely toxic, racist and life threatening. They hate to see a black woman stand up for herself and thrive they see it as uppity and black women are undeserving of the best in life. These haters are basically racist wanting only the worst for black women.
I don't know why Mr. Berry Gordy didn't marry Ms. Diana Ross but I know I'm a fan of both of these talented people. I love Ms. Diana Ross. I love the group "The Supremes " and I love Ms. Diana Ross as a solo artist too. I'm a fan of Mr. Berry Gordy for discovering Motown Records. I love all of the Motown artist❤. I was in my late parents record collection.
Wasn't he married during their affair and he was well above her in age? First, The Supremes was a Financial investment to him. Then she used in him to het advantage and he did the same. May be love?
I think she would have done better with Brian Holland (if he would have divorced his volatile wife, Sharon). In his book, "Come And Get These Memories" he is the only person who speaks highly of her, her work ethic, and how they loved each other.
@@michellekirkendall818 Gordy was divor an entire yr b4 they dated and ALL of diana's exs have always spoken well of her. Men are always crazy about her..
@@pairrynwatson4229 Truth is always there-- just have to KNOW IT.. Diana an Barry will never tell the truth.. it is too wrong but they were young and hungry for $$$$$$ --fame and at the cost of much..and they did not THINK or BELIEVE they would have to answer for their choosings... lol--- KARMA is real and GOD see s IT ALL... (( that goes for us all)).....
Why does this lie continue to have legs? he was not married and that can easily be confirmed. Yet for 100 yrs their relationship has been looked at as scandalous for some reason.
@@taylorsara1237 Diana was the one who wanted to marry Berry but Berry did not want to marry her because he was focused on making Motown successful and was married to his business...
She's entitled to her privacy. She doesn't owe the public her personal business. Most celebrities keep their private lives as private as possible. What does the father of her children have to do with whether you buy records or attend concerts? Smh.
Why are we romanticizing what amounts to the old “casting couch?” Diana wanted to be a star. Berry had the power to make her a star. Diana seduces Berry. She becomes a star. It ain’t rocket science!
I wonder how Baba Wawa would feel if Berry Gordy was crowbarring his way into her personal business about that black married man she was sleeping with?
"Diane" asked Smokey Robinson to give her new group an audition. Also, Smokey was her neighbor. According to Mary Wilson's "Dreamgirl: My Life As A Supreme" she mentions "Diane" dating Smokey; which supposedly Claudette put an end to. Then there was songwriter Brian Holland, although married as well, who admits in his book that he was in love with her. There have been many men at Motown who liked (or LOVED) Miss Ross.