Bless these rookies on the panel. I’m 20 in happily married and hubby and I find it so hard to listen to newly married couples. It takes work. You have high points and low points. Anyone who thinks marriage is perfect will fail at marriage. You have two people coming together trying to make things works together. Self control is a must in marriage. You can’t be selfish and married at the same time. I’m still learning in mine and will be continuing to learn but what works for hubby and I is that we want to learn together, and grow together. Good luck to all newly married couples. 😊🙏🏽
I agree they make it way to easy now days to divorce that's one of the biggest parts of the problem. People should be made to honor those vows. Women are marrying for a come up and want the easy way out to take half without having to work for it. If you wanna break your vows you leave with what you came with. That should be law.
More platforms like this are SOOO needed. Unfortunately many of us (me included) women are taught and shown how to be good mothers but due to life circumstances, we didn't have examples of how to be a good wife. I am not saying I am a bad wife but I have so much to learn. Thank you for this. I am taking notes!!
You make an excellent point. But it goes for us men as well. A key reason why so many men are not good husbands or don't want to be married is the fact that most men haven't been in an environment where husbands were around. Therefore men don't know the first thing about being a provider, a protector or a leader.
I agree with 90% of what u all said. I just disagree with the Ciara and Russ situation cause I believe that Russ knew what he was getting himself into and knew that Ciara was an entertainer and couldn’t change that about her. I think Russ loves that she can be sexy and not present herself as a h$e, cause that’s something we all know she’s not. Ciara is a very successful and desired black woman, and every man on this planet i don’t care if they have negative opinions about how she dress, will still jump at the opportunity to date her if they knew they had a chance! It’s the same with the woman who married Bolo the entertainer, no one is really getting on the wife for marrying an entertainer like how they do Russ. If they do it’s going to be “ she knew who she married and u cant stop that man from being an entertainer “ but when the woman is the entertainer, we always have to stop the show. That’s not right.
The reason why people get on Russell Wilson because he’s the star not Ciara. He makes way more money than her and is worth more than her. Most men don’t see her as a prize. Most men sees Ciara as a washed up rap industry pass around who is a baby mama. A lot of men feel he could have done much better than Ciara.
Honesty with self is paramount and resolves most of the future struggles. Most people aren’t honest with themselves so how can you expect to be honest with someone else. You can’t. Societal norms cause people to make poor decisions in many instances. You have to be ready….not do something because it’s the “next step”.
@@sg5720 I deal with both sistas and other races of women. I'm not compatible with sistas..but I'm attracted to them physically I have a bias to darker skin.. It turns me on. I lust for sistas..
@@genovasquez8361or your just a typical average BM. NVM. You just here in the world taking up space. You ain’t on a level of awareness like other quality BM. Carry on. 🤷🏽♀️✌🏽
@@sg5720 put it this way.... I'm in the Midwest Go to any skating rink The pool during the summer Any college campus The loop on a Saturday The riverfront or the downtown strip Or go to any fair in summer at the park There are some pretty, gorgeous and Beautiful women there.. Facially she is not even on my gal level. One of my girls is 50, no make up, bald head. An looks like 5 pts higher than her. Sorry her face is not all that. Average is nicety. If I saw her working at McDonald's or a job where she has to wear a uniform..she would not stand out with most of those sistas, latinas or Asian chicks she work with. She is averaging. She is No Nicole Murphy nor does she look as good as 30 year old Brittany Renner. She is not even in Jada Pickett Smith level of beauty She is average..not a Stacey dash..
Athletes are targeted by women out to use them also it's not always the men. It's about 50% of women that go in for a come up and just wait for the chance. Let's be real here
It’s obvious these two women have the minds of genuinely decent wives. And it’s obvious that these two men have the minds of genuinely decent husbands. It’s nice to see. 🙏🏽
If this is an educational show why are you worried about altheletes since they are such a small number of the US population and are unique. Same for musicians and entertainers.
Said the same thing. 🤷🏽♀️bless them. Hubby and I still have not met a couple around our age married 20plus years like us and HAPPY. It is like they don’t exist. 🤷🏽♀️😌
@@sg5720 I know it’s sad 😞 but I have been married 37 years and it’s a commitment and everyday is not going to be happy day 😁but you can make with God 🙏🏾
It is NOT masculine. It is the environment that a lot of BW are put in they can’t afford to act like a cute princess. BM don’t provide that environment like other races of men do for the most part. Now I have an amazing BM and been told I am spoiled. Had to take a good look, and step back and realize that the way my hubby is, is the reason other women and men see me as spoiled. He creates a space for me so I can enjoy being a woman and don’t have to be “tough” and worry so much about things. I don’t have to step up, cause he got it. Keep that in mind the next time you want to call BW masculine - I’m sure you single Blk mother was viewed as “masculine” too- I wonder why? 🤔🤨🤦🏽😌
@@sg5720enough of that bs our grandmothers ge wearying went thru thru Jim Crow and they were way more feminine black women in the Usa just dint choose too
99 X'z out of 100 NO, most likely NOT ahaha frfr facts. MOST American women in general, but NAMELY "MODERN" BW can't even boil an EGG, or RICE, or even WATER on God ahah no kap/kizzy lol!!
Im sorry to say ths, but a lot of this was nonsense. Ya'll need to have Princella on, cuz these men are playing in ya'lls faces. Leasure? really while the woman is doing the job of 5 ppl lol, talk to a MAN like you talk to a baby? This is not grown woman tv, the is lost little girls being taken advantage of productions. complete nonsense.
Thank you Sir smgdh. & the SIMP CAPITULATORS are just FEEDING these Blk fe-FAILS EGO'S & JUSTIFYING THEIR DELUSIONS as to the WHAT'S & WHY's they are the MOST UNMARRIED & DESIRED WOMEN ON PLANET EARTH! And as you can see, ALL THEY CARE ABOUT ARE FAMOUS, CELEBRITY TYPE BLACK MEN. They want to know WHY a .0000005% of Black Men, ie "ATHLETES" LEAVE THEM & don't stay. Meanwhile the other 99.000005% of "middle class" Black Men are IGNORED bkz they DON"T MAKE MILLIONS. All these Blk_heathens want IS FREE LEVELED UP>>>>>SOCIAL STATUS! They want the best of the very BEST OF ALL MEN when they are the WORST OF ALL THE MOST WORST WOMEN on the Planet which title belongs to American Black women facts on God smh.
Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled but God will judge Whoremongers and Adulterers Hebrew 13:4 Be not deceive don't you know that Fornicaters and Adulterers and men loving men will not inherent the kingdom God 1Corinthians 6:9
