25 not married no kids. I’ve always wanted to be with a man that values having a homemaker and I want to homeschool my future children. Keeping the faith❤️
As a married man I feel I should share this.. marriage is more about duty than the chasing butterflies and puppies through a field of flowers type of love that everyone dreams about, that love is there but not as much as you think it should be..
At the end of the day, men want to come home to a home filled with peace. Big attitude? That means I'll have to constantly fight you, argue with you, battle with you. That sounds like war, not peace. I'd rather be alone than have a wife who's constantly angry.
God bless you for your video you shared in 2021 about wearing your natural and God-given hair... That's very true. Black women don't need fake hair to be beautiful. Keep doing the good works God has anointed you to do. Remain blessed.
Ladies, let me be clear. In this video I'm addressing the good kind of women out there who respect themselves and others. The kind of women who are looking for love, but not sure what to do. Those who are looking to be in a good relationship, and want to create a family. NOW, I've also noticed a few of you who are not even interested in this kind of lifestyle are coming on here to be disrespectful in the comment box, and I can assure you that your comments will not be approved. If this not the right platform for you and you're not interested in hearing the truth. Please feel free to find another platform. Honestly, I am more interested in having to shine the light than keeping high amount of subscribers.
hi, this video just popped up on my post I think black women need to expand their options so the majority of black men can compete it is rare for a black woman to find a decent black man that isn't a womanizer and this is due to media programming and enslavement of black ppl which has really impacted the men this is a deep complicated issue that can't be solved overnight there arent' that many good black men; we must touch and agree on that point but i'm glad you found a good black man consider yourself blessed and favored
I totally understand where you're coming from, but let me reiterate. This does not have to be the narrative of Black women if they can change their belief system. Let's go deeper and deal with what's in their subconscious minds. Why do they focus so much on the cheaters and the abusers and the womanizer? Why not focus on the good, loving, trustworthy, hard-working men? Whatever you put your focus on is what you will receive, period. So if black women really want to get married with good men, all I am saying is they should start speaking positively until this positivity reaches down their souls and they start believing in it much more than the believing in the bad. Read Proverbs 23:7 Regardless, if a black woman chooses to date a different race, she will most likely face the same issues. Different Name different race, but same spirit Kind of guy. At the end of the day, the question remains: Who's the common denominator? This issue can be solved only if these women can be honest with themselves. 🙏🙌💕
You are doing good work, sister. Keep up the good work.
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Proverbs 25:24 Says it's better to live in a corner of the roof than to share a house with a contentious woman, and compares it to living with a nagging spouse or a brawling woman
Amen ! This is good WOG. I’m the repairer of the breach . I’m not going to say I’m gonna be with a good man because I been with a cheater or seen it in my family . I am going to be a with a faithful man of God with a beautiful children one day . I believe it ! ❤
There are powerful beautiful sexy strong courageous smart intelligent black women; having said that I’m a black man who has not cheated on the wife God gave him 😇✝️
What so crazy is, the folks that should be loving us and lifting us up makes us conscious of the wide forehead and kinky hair. Even with microlocs I wear my hair forward from a complex the derived from when I was younger from moms, aunts and cousins.
“Blessed is thee who findeth a wife”. Ladies…GOD himself is telling you to prioritize being a wife (not your career). Men are simple, we like women who are feminine, fit and cooperative.
I think what has become an issue is they say they want love deserved to be loved it sounds one sided I know she said to give love but I don't think they realize how to show it other than sex and the other things that can show a man you love and care they don't want to do
If statistics are to be believed sadly many African american / caribbean british are single and unmarried for one reason, their attitude. As the funk band the Barkays said , Attitude, your attitude describes you.
The reason why black women aren't getting married boils down to one or two things. The number #1 reason....she really doesnt want to be married. Women who really want to be a wife dont wait 30 years to finally be ready.
I understand this and that she is trying to help but the reason why black women are the most unmarried is because of their attitudes and them being raised improperly. Older black women failed these women severely and pushed them towards feminism. Men can see it a mile away and will not commit to a life with a feminist in most cases. This contributes to women’s innate hypergamy.
I'm surprised you did not mention all the bad attitudes and very bad behaviours, disrespect, entitlement, verbal and physical abuse perpertrated by these women plus all the cheating!!! Maybe that's why some of them can't find good men. GOD CREATED relationships and marriage. You think GOD will give a good man to a bad woman? And vice versa? Even if they meet, eventually, it will not work because one is punishment for the other person!
Well, I did not want to mention the obvious. I'm also addressing this video to the good kind of women out there who respect themselves and others, those who are looking for love, and want to create a loving family. Now I've also noticed a few women that are not even interested in this kind of lifestyle are coming on here to be disrespectful, I can assure them their comments will not be approved.