Why Black Women Are So Loud And Angry. 😡 Are They Really That Loud? 

i agree they .. WE .. are loud .. it’s cringy and sad depending on the setting .. other settings it’s fine .. i personally speak with a higher octave.. angry.. i don’t think we are angry but we definitely talk to mf much .. need to learn to listen

Never excuse bad behaviour.

I’m Hispanic and every time I have an interaction with a black woman i feel I have to be extra polite so they don’t get triggered, if I just talk to them like I do with any other person they immediately give me an attitude. They easily blow up on other women that are not black. That’s my experience.

I am a Black woman and I wonder myself why black women always on edge and want to fight all time. I witness the attitudes in my neighborhood, stores, and outing. I have had encounter with other black women being loud, offensive, and so quick to want to fight.

At every job I’ve had I’ve had black women have issues and drama with people less than half their age. They have beef with everybody, doesn’t matter who.

I also think that some black women have been raised by mothers who were angry and yelling at them as a child so they literary don’t know what or how to love others since from childhood, all they ever got was yelling, hate and cursed at.

I'm black and it annoys the f*** out of me when Africans are loud with other people around.

Respect comes from taking responsibility for your actions, not making excuses.

It is embarrassing as a black person myself, but yes allot ALLOT of black people are absurdly loud. I have a problem in every American apartment/home & hotel I’ve ever been in I have had problems with black people being too loud, and inconsiderate. We are given more and more chances as the decades go by, but I’m just not seeing that much progress from us, It’s disheartening.

My neighbor is a black woman. She is consistently loud and rude, which has caused me a great deal of stress. Despite attempts by the apartment manager to address the issue, she has neither apologized nor stopped disturbing the peace. Her behavior continues to disrupt the quiet hours of the night. Feeling helpless, I have ultimately decided to move out. She should learn manners.

I have been dealing with black women since the fourth grade, And they have put me through so much shit that I’ve gotten to the point where I just don’t want to deal with them anymore. I was talking to this one black girl and I said to myself, I’m gonna give them one last chance. Once she discovered that I don’t listen to rap music she treated me like shit...Just like all of the black women I’ve dated before her.

I am latina and lived on the border my life and was not raised with racist beliefs so when I moved to Houston, I thought of everyone as equal. I will say that white people are racist but non threatening whereas my experience with black, especially women, is borderline abusive. I remember having to leave to a different dentist bc the black ladies there didn't know how to do their job and were rude and gossipy. I learned only about the angry black woman stereotype LATER and I think stereotypes are based in truth

Being loud has no excuse. If you are loud and angry, then you need to stop....period. If you dont and continue then you are ignorant and will be called names. This is what the black woman wants.

As a black man I ask the same damn thing! They also listen to their single black lonely girlfriends over their own husband if their married.

If you want to receive respect, you have to give respect....

As a black man in my sixties, I’m always amazed as to how many angry black women I come across. I work in hospice care facility, and I can tell you all other races of people even under the conditions for them being their are always cordial and in a good place. But when it comes to some of our women they most often time give out the most negative vibe without even speaking. Never a smile or kind word. It’s almost like they hate me as a black man. But yet again others are always for the most art hospitable and welcoming.

I could bring up Black Women who buy expensive weaves when they struggle to buy food and keep the lights on, but that's a whole other topic...

I'm a 39 yo black man and I learned in my early twenties to leave BW the **** alone. I've been married to my Chinese wife now for 8 years.

My peers have called me out of my name of how I carry myself. I have been bombarded incessantly by other black folks with why I speak the way I do. All because I refuse to perpetuate the stereotype of a "black woman".

I am Puerto Rican and have taught race relations in my 20’s in the Army. I am more familiar with “black culture” than most Americans. I am concerned that you are “politely” making excuses for what most of us know is bad behavior.

It's really embarrassing, I stopped talking to them, don't even look their way!

I was getting a pedicure once & there were two black women getting them as well. They were talking loud & laughing. I can’t speak for everyone but I like to go to the salon to get away from my kids & to relax. When asked to lower their voices, the response was, “ MY MONEY IS GREEN TOO AND IT SPENDS LIKE EVERYONE ELSES.” I don’t think the workers were being disrespectful, but trying to accommodate everyone in the place. I think their response was childish. It’s a matter of respect for everyone around you. I suffer from severe anxiety so I take my relax time very seriously lol. Also, the salon is upper and charged big bucks. That’s all I mean, just be considerate to everyone around you.

I searched for this because I have noticed something,I'm a black girl myself (18),but I'm Caribbean not African American, today a guy told me he likes they way I talk, and most black women are loud, I felt kind of insulted as a black person myself but I realized it's true I work at a fastfood restaurant most disrespectful and loud person are my fellow black sisters, once you find one that is polite eventho there's a problem with their foods it's like gold,like unusual But I have noticed it's mostly African American, us Africans and Caribbeans have been raised completely differently,but let's not judge them Here in the US, the society is responsible for this,its like they always have to be defensive u know ,but anyways those words are just my opinions and how perceive the society here

“Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit.” -Desiderata

God I'm so sick and tired of the black woman is a queen crap, for god's sake give me a break !!!!. How about a black woman is a woman , now did that hurt ? And as far as the black woman being the most disrespected , I find I get that whine whenever you don't do what they say , or let them have there way. Not to mention when you don't entertain there head movement, and hands on the hips talking foolishness trying to scare you .

I sit here at an upscale fitness center in the pool and hot tub area. Everyone else save for children are speaking quietly or saying nothing. Who else but two 300lb black women have to be holding a conversation loud enough to be heard by all. From past experience, I'm assuming they are trying to get my attention, as they left one hot tub to come to the one I'm in. I give them zero attention. Headphones on meditation to drown out the chatter about "he don't" and "dey better". Interestingly, I know they ride from the gym will be silent. Nothing to say. They are also playing loud music on their phone with the speaker instead of headphones like everybody else. Even I as a black man I dare not say anything. Certainly screams of "discrimination" would be sure to follow. The cowardly club workers, most 20 something white kids, wanting to avoid "any problems" would take their side. I leave it to you to determine if they are loud or not. I know the answer.

Racism is applied to all races. The Victimhood mentality is the reason for their behavior not oppression. Insecurities also

I don’t understand why they are always saying they are disrespected, but think it’s ok to disrespect others to elevate themselves with no consequence? You don’t even have to disrespect them to set them off? I’ve never experienced anything like it by any other race? This is only some, not all. I feel bad for all of the good hearted, sweet black woman. I wish there were more black woman that were like Queen Latifa, Keke Palmer, and Ashanti. These are the real queens 🎎.

My teacher in middle school told me not to hang around those type because I was quiet and those types always had their clicks and never included me any way

I'm a black woman. But mixed. I live with a black woman who is dark. We are roommates living in a house. When she talks, she's loud. And sometimes she yells. I'm a very quiet person. It bothers me. I'm a broken INFJ and I hate confrontation and conflict, because of my past bad experiences. I did tell her that one time to be quiet. And oh boy, she exploded. See, that's why I don't like confrontation. It got worse. So I told the landlord about her. He said that he can't throw her out. Have to wait till two or three months to evict someone. So I have to wait till June or July. Lol. I can't move out because I don't have enough money to do that. I also found out recently the reasons why people talk so loud is because they were once silenced and abused and never had a voice before or they have control issues and can be very bossy. Another reason why is because they need to feel superior. That's a sign of narcissism. Some people do it. Black women do it more. It depends on how everyone was raised.

God forbid you hold BW accountable for anything. Just post a video of "splaining".

Look I'm a Hispanic male and i literally googled, why are black women so angry? lol. Sad, but a bunch of stuff popped up, so I'm like damn i guess it's not a stereotype, it's true. I'm sure these women who the shoe fits will go off on me, it's cool, i expect it. But really, i just wanted to literally know why? I don't know if i agree with everything you say, but its still interesting. I'd like to hear from a black women who agrees with this stereotype and then gives her opinion on why she thinks it is, and not make excuses for it. I have seen it, many times in public, i live in Houston. It's almost like they have a bad day everyday and they don't want anyone to even look in their direction. Things that another person would think nothing of, triggeres their attitude. I hear a lot of men say "i would never date a Black woman" for that reason. Sad, cause i don't think they will ever change.

I don't like speaking to black women. I can get yelled at for just doing nothing.

I am a 44 yr old black woman. My father was retired Air Force. He was patient, descipline, articulate, intelligent, and spent the time on family and community. My point is, my personal experience tells me, regardless of what's "out there" your environment in growth and development years will be the most influential on the molding of your character and how you carry yourself. Sadly, people I run into in life always seem surprised by my character or nature. They are expecting something they do not receive (good or bad connotation). I have never quite felt accepted. I have my core people, and kindness rules my day. There is something happening though.. as I am feeling a more gentle camaradery amongst my female brethren. Feeling good and recognizing our beauty, and worth ❤️

Love black women, but my experiences with them is the majority are mean. If you are kind it means nothing or makes you a instant target to them. Not all but most

I work with lot of africans. They’re so rude, I honestly hate my work just because of them. And they’re very loud i think I’ll go deaf every time. I find it very funny how they speak rudely and expect others to be nice to them. As an Indian I’m calm and avoid arguments. But they get on my nerves all the time. Can’t wait to get outta this job.

Just be nice, it will gain you respect, love and admiration from all race of people.. by the way I am not White, I am a minority. I just wish Black women knew that we love them but they have very tough personalities and make it hard for people to enjoy their presence. Whenever I see a Black women who is polite or nice I am so happy, it makes me realize there are good women after all. So please always be nice because people are watching your every behavior and it does make a difference believe it or not.

I totally agree with everything said here!

Biology dictates Black woman and Asian men as being the least sought after by the opposite sex in the sexual marketplace. Therefore, this has nothing to do with racism at all as it is no different than a woman’s preference for a tall strong looking man over a short stocky bald one. Or a man’s preference for a slender woman with her curves in all the right places as opposed to plus sized. However, the one major difference between these two genders is that the Asian man will put in the work necessary in order to get what he wants. Whereas Black women on the other hand refuse to change and are likely to advocate for affirmative action instead.

One thing that bothers me about dealing with SOME black women is the sense of not being able to address things to them without feeling like there will be or knowing there will be a confrontation. Whether you come to them nicely, and get an attitude or you have to come to them to check them just as you would with someone who is behaving in a way that needs to be addressed, it seems to always have this undertone of a possible escalated argument or what have you. This applies to the specific type of black woman that is like this and no this is not only black woman that I have had this issue with but it seems to happen most often with the black women that fit into this criteria. I’m not a confrontational person truly if anything I have been the one people try to test cuz I’m too nice or I don’t speak loudly or whatever the case is so it’s upsetting how I have had to come out of character when dealing with these type of women cuz they don’t know or refuse to resolve things without an attitude or dang near always being ready to fight. “It be ya own people”

The shit I witnessed in elementary and middle school, really impacted me. I got the impression that these women are loud, aggressive, violent, rude, abusive. Not all of them of course, but it's hard to ignore it when it's the norm.

Great message. That’s a sharp looking brother.

No accountability for black woman.? They need to change, some self awareness and therapy .

When I meet someone that I connect to, I can be animated but I know how to behave and do not give an attitude if I am politely told to be quiet in theatre, store etc. Sadly this can happen with loud black women. Not all but quite a few.

Good talk. I enjoyed, and you are very much on point. I’m not loud, angry, or bitter. I am kind, compassionate, loving. I am worthy.

Thanks my brother for such a great, well spoken and presented video! You make a lot of valid points and I will take your wisdom to heart next time I see loud black women.

The first step is to recognize the issues. The next step is to find the true reasons. The third step is to provide solutions that can actually help. You've identified the first step. But society refuses to contemplate the second step, because it hurts too much to think about it. That is why society refuses to help black women, or black people, in general. And so, this charade continues.

i’ve dated several black girls and they made my life a living nightmare. Had to walk on eggshells the whole relationship and was constantly yelled at for small shit like a restaurant being booked or I didn’t laugh at her joke or got her the wrong colored shirt for Christmas. They both were so rude, loud and physically and verbally abusive that I had to leave. Currently dating a puerto rica and she is amazing. She is calm and respectful and very family oriented

Listen...Brother, if you really want them to know. Let them know It"s The Pressures That Be.

That is no excuse for been arrogant

I mean no disrespect but whenever I’m out in public running errands I will HEAR a black lady from across the store talking on her phone on speaker spilling all her business out there! Every single time! Why! Every single time I don’t get it. It’s funny I just don’t think they’re aware? I’m Asian & idk it’s just not like that in my culture we’re more reserved & quiet in public.

That's what me and my daughter is wondering. I don't dare go near!

Well said 💕

Headline Correction: “Why are SOME Black Women Loud and Angry “. There are many of us who are just the opposite. THANK YOU!!! Great Insight!!❤️❤️❤️

How about just a lack of home training.

As a Latino man I've had my fair share of interactions with both peaceful and angry black women. I've lived up north and in the South. I so enjoy the love and warmth you feel from a black woman at peace in her heart, her insight and kindness is incredible. We need much more of that. However, it's all the same for the angry black women, they yell, curse and get in your face in an extremely aggressive manner and will fight you just to get you to back down it seems even if they're wrong. There's very little humility or grace on their part and even worse if they have their children with them those children are watching and learning that same disrespectful behavior and so the cycle is reborn in a new generation. In my opinion regardless of skin color human behavior is mainly learned from the environments we are in and we are hard wired from our childhood experiences. We can and should redefine ourselves to improve but that is a huge conscious choice and one that requires a lot of self reflection. I love and admire the black culture, like any other culture here in the USA or around the world there's areas where we can improve. For me the biggest is ending financial inequality everywhere. That type of oppression always breeds poverty and seems to go hand in hand with low education rates of all peoples in every country as Charles Booker says' "From the hood to the hollar!" Redistribution of wealth and open hearts and minds can fix everything. Peace and love.

Spot on Sir! We men must be a good example and not allow ourselves to be fuel for the fire of hate! Gender wars only weakness as people...One Love!!!

Sir, I wasn't sure how this video was going to actually go based on the title, but you articulated this very well. I sincerely appreciate your commentary. I had a situation recently which I got angry because of the double standard and not being the "dainty white women" around me. I'm not treated the same as they are when they are loud, angry and cursing around open areas of business. If I do the very same thing as my white counterparts I'm treated totally different (this goes for gender as well not just race).

It easily to express loud & angry (all negative emotional) like a child, it hard to express righteousness (be kind, submission, humble). Thats why.

I love this explanation 💜💜💜

In my opinion as an African, black women are fiery by nature. I have heard black American women make reference to African women as being too submissive or subservient to their men, but that has something to do with culture. Culture is a very important aspect of human society, cultural values exist for a reason, some of which can be good, some of which can bad. One example of good culture is the grooming of an African woman, which in my opinion makes a great distinction between African women and Black American women. African women who display loud and angry traits are considered to be "ungroomed" in most African societies.

You sir nailed it. “Theatrical” is the perfect word. Not all, but most i have been around are like this with every emotion. I always thought it was a cultural thing & for attention. They seem to want their emotion for any circumstance to be taken acknowledged important. I suppose to your point of being marginalized as “black women” for having an attitude this is the result. We know the reason for this. When our government made the “black family unit” ( all for that matter later) a target of destruction ie with abortion & welfare, divorce court. They (black women) have been for the most part left to fend for themselves. It’s shameful. But i think focusing more on the correction for that root cause, & solving that issue amongst Americans in general is what we in our communities should be working on. Getting everyone off the government teat, restoring the family nucleus dynamic, by encouraging growth in faith based values that we live by. Principles our for fathers for generations lived & raised healthy families, functional children that became productive, rational adults with. Restoration of a 2 parent house hold, mom & dad, under Gods rule, (not government or anything else) is in my opinion & scientific study proven, the only way that seems to work. This has been a problem for all of every ethnicity. I would say though “black community” have suffered the most & longest of this problem. However, focusing on whos more the “victim” is keeping anyone from working of the answer. & more government, emotion justification & retaliation (social justice) is worsening the situation! May I suggest we all personally focus on solutions that are fruitful? Character, integrity, personal responsibility, & faith based principles we ourselves live by, not just claim to have. God bless every body.

Well Spoken King 👑 Thanks for highlighting the struggles black woman Face. Which is why they are so Angry we have to do everything in the black community to keep it going with very little respect or appreciation.

As a white older man from the island of Bermuda, raised with 93% island black people, I've found it very difficult in most every way to deal with an American black lady. And I disagree blacks by nature would violate another's space with obnoxious actions. It's mostly American black women. My mixed daughter says she can't tell other black women that she's half black. Let's be honest, if they were so downed by society, wouldn't society yell at them and make laws to shut them up. Let's stop this chitty race card, it never ever ends. Opera didn't have any issues. But you've got an excuse for that... Stop saying, utterances of race stuff. I could go on listing the other side of that coin all day. Black president, black vice president, bla bla bla. You just keep spreading the hate narrative. And YES!!; If you go on an interview you act and show your best. That goes for everyone. Stop this jailed black thing now. So stop having 5 kids out from marriage as a single black women. Just stop. You changed from the title to the race card. Bla

ALWAYS LOUD, always rude….I work in grocery, the only people that NEVER say excuse me and thank you are black women….if someone yells at me “where this at”, not excuse me or could you help me….just yell at me “where this at”….I don’t work for the stores, I will always try to help ANY polite customers.

Black women. The "Karen's",before there were Karen's . None of them will have mates when they get older.

I like this guy's voice...he can talk all day im all ears...

Nahh that ain't it! I'm black, and in my opinion its a few things. Some of it is ignorance, up bringing, a lack of culture, disrespectful, the idea of no one can correct me...

You said it here, Kevin Samuels radicalized the message.

True story: I was in San Francisco for a bachelorette party. Us ladies were staying in a very nice hotel. I get off the elevator and here a group of people loud or women talking. It sound like a group of females about to fight but I could not tell. I hit the corner and saw no one. I continued walking down the hall to reach my room and I can still hear the loud heyenas, I mean females talking loudly. I kept looking around to see if I saw anyone. I finally walked past a room next to our, and realized the chicks are in their own room talking extremely loud. They were so loud I heard these heffas from the elevator. I told my cousin about how loud the folks next to us were and she told me those were her brides maid in the other room. She was embarrassed of how loud they were and told me that's how they are. I was shocked because their voices echoed down the hall ways.

I try my best to limit interactions or keep it short and quick. The sweet ones are a treasure 😊

This is interesting to listen to and I can agree with you and you are such a handsome guy.

I suspect black women think they are not being heard enough , that is why they are loud when talking .

(Black male here )I had a black women make me drive all the way to pick her up at 2am just to bail (and mind you there’s like no black people in our state ) then proceeded to blame me and blocked my number like wtf why so rude

Thanks man for explaining this

Its only the young black women the older black women are always so friendly

U lost me with that bw not protected they literally cause drama and chaos where ever they go

If what you say is true I don't understand why to black women the challenge to represent themselves is considered a burden

Nobody suffered more than the black man but he still able to strive in society.

I’d really be interested in seeing a poll from the comment section of cities these encounters happen. The data might help show patterns of counties. It’s baffling how many people are claiming to have these experiences. I too have witnessed things that’s aren’t very favorable. But I have so many questions.

It's how a person is brought up. If your not taught from a young age, how to use your inside voice, then it's harder to know how to act in public.

I've noticed that black women are not very feminine. This is a reason why a lot of black men migrate to other races. They see asian girls and white girls, for example, who look more feminine and they are attracted to that. I think just based on gender norms American black women are the most masculine females out of any race. However, you mentioned societal pressures which are a burden on American black women. So it's this cycle where they're treated very poorly and they get angry and there has always been the angry stereotype so the ball keeps rolling. I'm not sure what the fix is. Maybe black women here can take pointers from their African sisters. African women are very pretty and they make it a priority to dress up nicely. Perhaps if black women wore more jewelry and grew their hair out, they would be perceived as being more feminine. Again, this is subjective and I am 100% against stereotypes. This is just what I've seen.

Actions speaks louder than words.

As a black man there is absolutely no excuse for an agree person period especially if your a so called grown. You should be able to carry yourself in a certain way. I'm sorry but I'm just feed up with the excuses. And trust they could careless about a black man in jail they don't know.

I have seen black women with good manners , etiquette & well maintained . They have a soft personality . This made me think we all have bad qualities but if we try , we can be anything. "Emotional maturity" is very important in any adult and not to get triggered. Manners is something everyone should cultivate. There's no excuse for bad manners. After you've become an adult , you don't blame instead take responsibilities. Victimhood can't help anyone , acceptance and working on oneself to be even better helps. Thats the reality of life.

I actively avoid any and all interaction if possible. It's easier. The entitlement demands are bizarre, as is the paranoia. When you start to act like a creep, people treat you like one.

Thank you for this

It has to do with socioeconomic factors more than anything. As income and education increases as important values in Black America, aspects of poverty culture diminish.

Sir , you looking real dapper

Also they working 2 jobs and many of them living below the poverty line. And are stuck raising kids alone and being underpaid at their jobs. That level of stress can make any woman go crazy. Not to mention having no car adds to it Riding the bus is not easy with kids or to go to a job daily it takes long hours. My favorite Tupac song why do we hate our women.

There's no excuse because black women know how to be respectful when dealing with their white bosses. I have witnessed it firsthand. When it concerns their money they sure as hell know how to come correct. They should treat everyone the way they treat their bosses.

I’ve had quite a few negative interactions with loud BW but just when I find myself accepting this stereotype I run into some who are the nicest women I’ve ever met.

🛑 very very well said.

I almost got shot and killed over an episode that I got accused of that I I did not do fooling with these type of women sometimes people make something out of nothing or try to believe in her head that it's going to work they try so hard and they don't want to sit down and look himself in the mirror and say hey look this is not going to work I need to leave this alone who cares what got the situation of that person's mind frame but you need to leave because you can't solve this or correct this I don't care why somebody comes in situation like that why they're angry so what it's time to leave it alone the people in the grave and in prison over this

I have to move out, I’m in hospital accommodation and my god it’s torture.

I love honest people, Thanks!

King Prime I appreciated your mature response to this question as a whole. I sometimes hate to say this from my heart cause I had to grow to love myself but sometimes I hate being a black woman in this society cause we’re view in a very negative way especially from black Men. I wonder about this that I will like you to speak on…..why do black women draw a lot of attention in jealousy towards one another? and very angry? Does it have anything to do with a Man at the end….

Bru you can't even speak to a black woman without them thinking you trying to holla that instantly get mad ain't no excuse for it 😂😂😂😂😂

I feel very embarrassed by other black women with the loudness as well as the assumption they are being racially discriminated against. I was in the thrift store & this black woman was putting her hands on folks (especially white women). She was begging for money & accused them of racism. We all wanted them gone

I despise young black women. I love old black women, because they are great storytellers.