Something about girl group dances (particularly light, cute, innocent, etc) too is that while they usually don't look the most difficult, they are usually *technicallly* more advanced than most boy group choreos. A dance doesn't have to look difficult to be difficult and I think this is something a lot of boy group stans don't understand. Fast and aggressive dancing =/= difficult. This is often true of the cuter dances for boy groups too, which is interesting to think about why cuter concepts tend to have easier looking but technically advanced choreos.
IKR they hate girlgroups with cute concepts but a boygroups can try any concept they like and whey they say girlgroups are girly wtf girls can’t be girly??? then girlgroup stans can complain about boygroups being boyish
Also love how when a certain girl group stan does the whole..."maybe if they stanned [insert girl group], [insert a still sensitive tragedy] wouldn't have happened",then a bunch of boy group stans just attack that whole fandom the girl group stan is from. YALL KNOW WHAT TWEET I'M TALKING ABOUT I HOPE ABOUT A CERTAIN SET OF TWINS ON RU-vid.
boy groups stans who disrespect girl group stans are missing out. stan loona edit: can you guys just let people love loona in peace and not generalise every orbit as some toxic twitter stan. anyways stream ptt for clear skin and a successful life ✨
holy shit that reminds me of the person who said ‘im sorry your dad left but maybe if you stanned loona’ or shit my man quackity but im not saying that ur like the person, i meant that because of the mention of loona
Well, uh, where I'm from there's just some tension between pretty girls and average girls just because the pretty ones make little groups and look down on anyone that isn't in the group with them. So that's fun... I guess. Also makes other people like me anxious and scared half the time.
This was a VERY real video. I've been a BTS stan for three years, and they've honestly introduced me into the whole K-Pop industry, so they're always going to be my favorite group. I agree with you on how just boy group stans can be crazy at times. After I stanned BTS, I learned of girl groups and started stanning them too, and it's been great seeibg such diverse themes and concepts made by differenr groups!
Girly concepts aren’t generally my cup of tea but I do like some concepts and I do like some music associated with girly concepts just in general it isn’t my cup of tea but like don’t @ me It’s not like I do tomfoolery like bash girl groups for it. The lack of brain cells I think that people have to do that is just incredible.
I have a friend that’s starting to become one of these toxic boy group stans, and I’m kinda worried. I just don’t get it, y’know? I love both boy groups and girl groups. I mean, like you said, you can ofc only Stan boy groups or only stan girl groups, but it doesn’t mean you have to be so rude all the time. Then again, I feel like there’s these type of people on both sides?? At least a while back. Idk. Just... don’t be ignorant or rude ig?? Have your opinion, mind ya business like everyone else who isn’t a “supremacist” stan, and move on with ya life.
These misogynistic women are seeking male attention and validation constantly and it’s extremely stupid. Why can’t we just all be fucking human I’m tired. Thank you for talking about this you’re amazing❤️
I'm a straight girl and a girl group stan,whenever I see a pretty Kpop girl I think "she's pretty! I want to know her personality" it confuses that some women are jealous like they're pretty what do you want them to do?
I found you yesterday and love your videos bc I agree with you on so many levels, I can't even- I instantly subscribed you bc you're amazing (I found you through one of you're Harry Potter videos, I don't remember which one, but that one was nice like the others I watched after that xD)
Im a bisexual stan and idek what kind of stan I am All I know is that I tend to know everything about my three ults (Skz, NCT, Day6 - completely coincidently all boy groups) and just casually appreciate everyone else, female, male, solo, group. Park Jimin is my queen tho too. Great video, btw! For real. I aspire to be able to express my opinions as efficiently as you do. But nope cause I get too emotionally heated during debates. yeet
can we also talk abt how people constantly want their faves to like stay single and "wait for them" listen up. LET THE BOYS LIVE THEIR LIVES im not even a boy band stan but like these people are humans too???
Periodt. Let them date. I think they’ll be a lot happier. It’s stupid how fans think that idols are going to date and marry them. Idols are humans too, so let them do normal human things like dating.
10:10 the noise i made oh my god also big agree (even as an orbit lmao). honestly multis have the most braincells in the western fandoms, whenever i see twitter bios like "for x group only" i go full 👀💦 mode
This problem isn't limited to Kpop. There's a band out there called Babymetal, and random men will just rip into them because the vocals, who are sung by women, aren't "metal enough." Sure, it isn't conventional metal, but that doesn't give them the right to hate on them as much as they do.
okay, but like, one thing that's super terrible about boy group stans is.... they're one of the big reasons there's 'no dating' policies. the reason boys can't date or be in love is because the girls feel like they're betrayed and they hate the women they date, and just feel this absolute ownership over their love lives. the girls' reasons are often more like... 'sexuality is bad and you're impure', but people don't flip out if a girl in a group has a crush.
I love how when I was a little frog some of my "friends" that are boy group stans said that if I don't stan boy groups I'm a lesbian and I was trying to like boy groups but some of them are so problematic so I ended up saying I don't like kpop anymore :) that was pathetic
That’s so stupid. Stanning girl groups doesn’t make you lesbian. Besides what’s wrong with being lesbian? It makes me wonder if they actually Stan groups for their talents and music and not just for their looks. Anyways have a good day.
Lol Honestly Boygroup stans get on my nerves I was also a Boygroup Stan I still am but I never really focused on girl groups that much..I didn't hate them but i just didn't notice them at that time but then I thought I'm not being fair towards girl groups who work as hard as boygroups and their choreographies are just wow..So I slowly slowly started to stan female idols and now I can proudly say that I'm also a Girlgroup stan now who loves not only hip-hop but cute concepts aswell and the thing that ticks me off even more is that nowadays boy groups use autotunes and everyone is like oh my god! they sound amazin and when girl groups do it people are like why are they using autotune they suck!yeah that annoys me.. Anyways sorry for my long talk I really love your videos💛💚💛💓 and I'm always late to the party god! Please continue making more videos like this your very hilarious ~ From A Fellow Kpop fan and a Hufflepuff!💛💕✌🐇
I said this on a previous video. My crazy BTS staning friend would hit me (actually really hard, that shit hurt) if I didnt let her play BTS music on my speakers, didnt listen to them with her, say I didnt like the song, couldnt sing the song in Korean or pronounced a name incorrectly. We were friends for a long time, I didnt see it as a toxic friendship until I got into 6th grade.
No lies I love u. HAHHAH. I'm a boy group stan (mostly) and girl group stan. i agree with u. It's toxic as fuck. Kpop fans, in general, can be toxic too, netizens are so mean to idols and it hurts me. Idols are human too. Just subscribed ❤ boy groups do cute concepts too, these people are hypocrites.
I’m a straight girl, and BOI do I agree with you. The girls (and boys. Or people and general.) that do that type of pure and utter BULLSHIT should really reconsider it. If you don’t like something, keep it to your FUCKING self if you know it will hurt other people, or the ones that actually like that. If you intend to hurt people with your comment, I would please ask you to reconsider it for a sec, and ask yourself how the FUCK you would react if somebody said that about the things you love? How much bullshit you would take until you snap? If you know that you would not like that, than stop doing it to others.
I'm sad to say that both of you are wrong and that it's spelled Gryffindor. I am a Gryffindor but at least I have enough brain cells to know how to spell all of the Hogwarts houses 😂
I got into kpop like 5 years ago and I was a boy group only stan at first. I had the misconception that girly/feminine concepts were all cute. Then I discovered 2ne1 and saw how talented they are and finally started branching into the other girl groups out there and I’m at the point now where I love girl groups just as much as boy groups. I’m still not super fond of cute concepts and am definitely biased toward girl crush concepts, and I admit that I don’t stan girl groups that do primarily cute concepts. But what I’ve realized is that I’m the same way about boy groups. I don’t like cute concepts for any group, it’s not my style. So even when a boy group I stan super hard does a cute concept from time to time, I just don’t listen to it and wait for their next comeback. Members of boy and girl groups trained hard to get where they are and they all work so hard, we should respect them all, even if we prefer some concepts over others.
hey this video was posted a year ago, but god damn it’s still so relevant. today there was a tweet that said “are we just gonna ignore how some girl group members r ugly asf”. sigh
I mostly only stan GGs,I find female sounding vocals to be a lot nicer to listen too and that's just my preference. I'm a lesbian but I'm also demisexual so the only stanning because they're attractive doesn't apply to me. I don't hate Boygroups tho. I just don't like the way male vocals sound.
Non-open style* girl group dances are actually just as hard as boy group dances, I hate it when non-dancers say they're not; they are seriously hard to do well because girl group "idol dancing" is a style created within the kpop industry and therefore can only be taught by people in the kpop industry, the technique for it is really different from open style stuff and afaik contemporary stuff as well. *An umbrella term for styles previously refered to as "urban," including for example hip-hop, popping, krumping and many more.
Im bisexual and stan both girl and boy groups(also a huge multi-stan so ig i can't choose anything lmao) but lean a little more towards boy groups, i absolutely hate when people are like this and it makes all boy group stans look bad since not everyone is like this.
CUTE CONCEPTS MAKE ME HAPPY OKAY THEY MAKE LIFE NOT SEEM SO UGLY AND DARK I LIKE WATCHING PRETTY GIRLS DANCE AND TWIRL AROUND IT MAKES ME UWU. I KNOW OTHER GG CONCEPTS EXIST AND I LIKE THOSE TOO BUT CUTE CONCEPTS ARE ALWAYS WELCOME IN MY HOUSE 💕🌸✨🎀💓🌸💗✨🎀💗💓💓💗🌸💗✨🎀💗🌸💗✨💗🌸✨🎀💗🌸💓🌸🎀🎀💗💓✨✨
thumbnail = instaclick I thank ggs and female solo artists in kpop every single day, just yesterday I went on an f(x) nostalgia binge and my emotional state improved tenfold within mere hours, praise to the ladies ♡
Us Multis be out there winning And most of my friends are bg Stans whOoHoO. Also the amount of times bg Stans have told me I’m not a fan of X group because I’m a multi like fuck off just because I Stan multiple groups doesn’t mean I’m less of a fan make its make seNse (I’m straight and I Stan both lmfao)
I feel like stanning also comes from having fanbase names, like when you call yourself a MonBeBe (Monsta X), you like dedicate and have to know things, and do stuff for the fandom and whatever. Like, this is why ARMYs are a problem and Ed Sheeran fans aren't, because you're associating as a group and it gets so toxic in the fandoms. Like, Directioners and Beliebers and ARMYs. But I don't here nothing from the Jonas Brothers fans and Beyoncé (except vines)
First Of all, You are soo right!! And second of all I LOVE BLACKPINK. But that is literally the only kpop group I have listened to in my entire life so I can’t say anything about other groups
Yes im mainly a boy group stan but i like a few girl groups. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH GIRL GROUPS but I just dont stan girl groups. I like a few i just dont like girl voices as much with all music. But i love the women so much and they are so talented. I just don't stan as many.
I've always just had more of a liking to girl group songs then boy group songs but I still do like both. Like if you enjoy only girl group songs because that's just the sound you prefer that's fine. Same thing goes for boy group stans. But if you take it too far and start hating just because a group is a of a specific gender then that's when you need to stop. Also co-ed bands are great.
actually for a trained dancer alot of gg dancer are harder. Once you are basically trained all those fast popping dances get easy after a bit of practise.
I think i use to be like this when i was younger and just got into kpop but i found aoa and my life changed for the better girl groups are the shit boy groups are the shit
Okay I tought I will be extremely offenced by this video(since I really dislike cute concepts/many other girl group concepts) but I wasn't. You explained everything perfectly. Instead of being offended, I was inspired to start exploring girl groups more. Even tho i didn't ever hate girl groups/saying to people that they suck, I just really want to support them now. Hopefully more people will stop hating and start supporting. Thank you for this video
It’s fine to like BGs better than GGs or vice versa as long as you don’t go throwing hate to other groups, BG or GG. I like both, but I Stan more BGs than GGs. It’s ok to dislike a concept as long as you’re respectful about it.
on the matter of dances for ggs being easy, the thing is, bg dances LOOK super hard and take a lot of stamina to learn, no questions asked, they're usually easier to learn than gg ones bc for gg if you make ONE wrong move you can't get into the song again bc everything works into each other. bg dances look super impressive but they are usually easier to learn bc if you forget a move or get out of it you can get into the rhythm of the dance and into the dance steps again which isn't as easy to say of gg dances bc the movements often build up on the previous movement which makes it look graceful and super pretty and ggs learn long to perfect those moves (not saying bgs don't perfect the moves). gg dances are focused on fluidity and gracefulness which is really hard to achieve and bg dances are focused on jumps and stuff like that
i'm a bisexual girl and i'm an gg stan, not because i don't like boys or because i'm attracted to them but because I personally prefer female voices over male voices and I'm like that in a lot of music genres (for example i almost only listen to female rappers)
I don't know much about how the whole attractiveness thing directly has an impact on music taste... I mean I used to be into boy bands as a kid but honestly I never considered looks to be a factor for me to listen to a certain band it was always about the music. Nowadays I am more into metal and I know that the band members are fat middle-aged people with long hair but I am there to hear the eargasm of a breakdown, a mind-blowing guitar solo, kick ass drums and brutal vocals... Physical appearance doesn't matter I don't even know the band members of my favourite band😂
I have no idea what you’re talking about because I’m not into Kpop at all but I watched anyway. When fans of something get really crazy and intense that puts me off from the thing even if it may be good.
bro- firstly, I agree with u on everything in this video. Secondly, you are genuinely so pretty to me. Idk I just really like your face. (Was that weird? 👁️👄👁️ I'm sorry)
Those obsessed boy group supremacists not only are problematic but can also be straight up dangerous. I remember when exo went to that jyp talk show jyp directly asked the audience, all consisting of straight females, if the would want exo to have girlfriends and the audience immediatly whined and shouted "nooooo!!!". That was just really cringe and you could see the dissappointement in the members faces behind the smiles they were putting on. And remember the whole Baekhyun and Taeyeon fiasco? The pieces of shit that were responsible for attacking a cute and normal couple were mostly bg stans who were jealous at Taeyeon and made her depression worse than it already was.
i’ve never been into kpop but they look cool black pink is cool btd is cool idk i just stay away because it’s a lot and also i like listening to music that is just a little more chill