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Proof 2: Why would Khawla suggest a 6 year old mother for 6 year old children? When Khadijah (ra) who was the Prophet’s ﷺ first wife, passed away, a woman named Khawlah came to the Prophet ﷺ and suggested that he should get married. At the time the Prophet ﷺ had young daughters around the age of 6-9 years. Now Khawlah suggested that the Prophet should get a second wife in order that his second wife would take care of his young daughters. When he asked her who he had in mind. She suggested Sauda and Aisha. Now does it make any sense to get a 6 year old child bride to “take care of children”? One would have to be very simple-minded to think that Khawla would ask the Prophet ﷺ to marry a 6 year old child to take care of other 6-9 year olds.
Proof 3: Was Aisha (ra) was unborn when she was engaged to Jubayr bin Mut’am ? Aisha (ra)’s father Sayyidina Abu Bakr (ra) thought of migrating to Abyssinia eight-nine years before the migration to Medina took place in 622 CE. In a report he goes to Mu’tam bin Adi’s house. At that time Aisha (ra) is engaged to Mut’am’s son Jubayr bin Mut’am to talk about the future of this engagement. Remember this is 8-9 years before Hijrah to Medina. So if we take the hadith of Aisha being 9 years of age in Medina when she moved in with the Prophet ﷺ , then she wasnt even born when she was engaged to Jubayr bin Muta’am. Thats hilarious.
Proof 4: Aisha (ra) had already come of age when her parents became Muslim. Narrated `Aisha: (the wife of the Prophet) I had seen my parents following Islam since I attained the age of puberty. Not a day passed but the Prophet (ﷺ) visited us, both in the mornings and evenings. My father Abu Bakr thought of building a mosque in the courtyard of his house and he did so. He used to pray and recite the Qur'an in it. The pagan women and their children used to stand by him and look at him with surprise. Abu Bakr was a Softhearted person and could not help weeping while reciting the Qur'an. The chiefs of the Quraish pagans became afraid of that (i.e. that their children and women might be affected by the recitation of Qur'an). This hadith is around the time of the first migration to Abyssinia. And Aisha (ra) clearly states that she had reached puberty when her parents had become Muslim. Her parents became Muslim very early, around the time the Prophet proclaimed his prophethood. So she was born before the start of revelation. And she was atleast 12 when Sayyidina Abu Bakr (ra) thought of migrating to Abyssinia. That makes her 19-20 when she consummated her marriage with the Prophet ﷺ in Medina. I TOLD YOU OLD FOOL I AM NOT GOING TO LEAVE YOU ALONE AND LET YOU LIE TO PEOPLE I WILL EDUCATE YOU AT THE SAME TIME!
In Islam, there are three major rules for marriage: Mental maturity Physical maturity Consent of the bride It is important to understand that no one can force a woman to marry against her will. Prophet Muhammad engaged Aisha at age 6 and consummated the marriage when she was 9. 1400 years ago, the harsh environment of Arabia meant the average lifespan for women was 30-40 years. If a woman married at 25-35 like in modern times, her children would likely be motherless in 10-15 years at that time. Scientifically, in societies with shorter life expectancies, people matured faster. A 9-year-old then was not like a child today but was considered mature like an adult. Even 200 years ago, the legal marriage age in the USA was 7. In Muhammad's time, early marriages were common in many societies, including Christian ones. Aisha was happy with Muhammad, and even his biggest enemies did not criticize him for this marriage. Criticism of this marriage is a modern development; 100 years ago, it wasn't an issue. Comparing a 9-year-old today with one from 1400 years ago is illogical and shows a lack of understanding of historical context.
@@muhammedjohan it still doesn't matter. Look up the definition of paedophilia. It's not normal to be sexually attracted to prebusent children even if that child is mentally mature. This is literally the worst defense I have ever heard. Even during those times children that young were not married off.
@@XXTHE12THMANXX 1st:did you even read what i said ....a women at 1400 yr ago arabia used to leave only upto 30-40 .not 70+like today. 2nd:if muhammed was paedophilia ,then why would he be waiting 3 yr to consumate marrige after the engagement. 3rd :then what do you want to say about the christian societys at the time of muhammed who practices the same early marrige . 4th:explain that why in usa 200 yr ago age of marrige was only 7 for women. 5th :how would you juslify your biblical prophet whom inpregnated his own daughters and did adultry with others wife.
@@XXTHE12THMANXX 1st In 7th-century Arabia, life expectancy was indeed lower. Women typically lived up to 30-40 years, not 70+ as today. 2nd:Regarding accusations about Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), historical records show he waited several years after engagement before consummating marriages, reflecting cultural norms of that time. 3rd: Early marriage wasn't exclusive to one culture; even Christian societies practiced it during Muhammad's era.how would you justify this? 4th: In the USA, historical records indicate young ages of marriage in the past, like 7 years old, which differs from modern norms..how would you justify this? 5th: Every religious figure's actions should be examined in context. For instance, biblical figures like Lot impregnated his own daughters, and King David faced moral challenges such as adultery with another man's wife..how would you justify this? Understanding historical and cultural contexts is crucial to interpreting these issues.
In Islam, there are three major rules for marriage: Mental maturity Physical maturity Consent of the bride It is important to understand that no one can force a woman to marry against her will. Prophet Muhammad engaged Aisha at age 6 and consummated the marriage when she was 9. 1400 years ago, the harsh environment of Arabia meant the average lifespan for women was 30-40 years. If a woman married at 25-35 like in modern times, her children would likely be motherless in 10-15 years at that time. Scientifically, in societies with shorter life expectancies, people matured faster. A 9-year-old then was not like a child today but was considered mature like an adult. Even 200 years ago, the legal marriage age in the USA was 7. In Muhammad's time, early marriages were common in many societies, including Christian ones. Aisha was happy with Muhammad, and even his biggest enemies did not criticize him for this marriage. Criticism of this marriage is a modern development; 100 years ago, it wasn't an issue. Comparing a 9-year-old today with one from 1400 years ago is illogical and shows a lack of understanding of historical context.
