Why Do Loved Ones Fight With Each Other?

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When boundaries overlap and people start stepping on your toes, even family can become enemies. Sadhguru explains why this happens to us.
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@jimmymech96 4 года назад

I stopped watching series on Netflix since last 2 months now I daily watch sadhguru's wise full of wisdom talk.

@flgnsngh 4 года назад

Combine it with some meditation and you will not anything externally to make you happy.

@sudhansusekharbhuyan4988 4 года назад

It is so natural to listen to that it tranforms and transmutes catapult ing your consciousness to a high pedestal a shower of rain amid dreary desert of corona times as if New Buddha has descended upon this earth is

@sudhansusekharbhuyan4988 4 года назад

Where is life it is lost in living where is knowledge it is lost in information where is wisdom it's lost in knowledge let us know the essence of life by listening to the wisdom talk of Sadhguru

@raghuverma2477 4 года назад

It's addictive..

@weejinlim763 4 года назад

It's truly blessed to be able to listen to Sadhguru talk than any other entertainment platform. Even News is in the past and we can't do anything much.... Only can prepare us of what's next.

@applesewer2684 4 года назад

"It's easy to love when there is distance" - nailed it!

@manasvimannu3944 3 года назад

But its easy to break also...unexpectedly!

@narasimhamurthymurthy9264 3 года назад

@@manasvimannu3944 Lo

@noellebazzi5618 3 года назад

That is not love

@shardhapurohit4094 2 года назад

@@narasimhamurthymurthy9264 त

@ninaangelamckissockauthor2345 2 года назад

SOOOOOO true.

@raymondtendau2749 4 года назад

You say you love someone. But if they dont give you what you want, you dont love them. We dont call this love. We call this mutual benefit. -Sadhguru

@sheetalverma8940 3 года назад

Nobody will accept domestic violence or cheating bro. What he is is applicable for healthy people not narcs.

@raymondtendau2749 3 года назад

@@sheetalverma8940 Nobody mentioned them either.

@Guddilove801 3 года назад

We are all flawed in some way or another. Until we achieve enlightenment it will always be 'mutual benefits' and I'm happy with benefits otherwise how else one is supposed to have any level of relationship.

@ninaangelamckissockauthor2345 2 года назад

@@Guddilove801 Oh stop with the "we are flawed..." .

@Guddilove801 2 года назад

@@ninaangelamckissockauthor2345 I understand your idealistic stance but unless one has admitted to working on themselves it's all a talkshow. Anyway what's wrong with being flawed. I love myself as I am.. flawed or not .. that's life and Rocking with it.

@kanikagupta9617 4 года назад

What my take away is: Accept people for who they are, and dont try to fit them in the framework you have designed for them. Let them be the way they are, and you will be happy otherwise you won't be able to stand with them.

@dnyaneshwarpadole6783 4 года назад

Very nice

@ketoauntie7301 4 года назад

Well-worded 🙏🙏🙏👍🏻🌷

@mamungdanyi958 3 года назад

But its hard to live together and not have a least expectation from each other.

@N12048 3 года назад

They always try hurt me wt to do?

@suryakanttripathi1406 3 года назад

Such a short,straight point👏👏👍💯

@bi1528 4 года назад

I wonder if this guy knows how many lives he saved so far.. Such a beautiful human being

@umeshchittefitness1990 4 года назад

He saved my life ♥️

@ishasinghnegi 4 года назад

He saved mine 🙏

@Amanda-im3hp 3 года назад

...and mine too ✨🌷🙏🌷✨

@pranavdsheth7617 3 года назад

🙂👍

@thelayman6189 3 года назад

And how.... I ask of all you guyz

@chittofrye6841 4 года назад

10:06 "all of a sudden they become worship worthy when their dead but not when alive" that hit my heart so hard because it's true

@VenusBlessings888... 4 года назад

It's true .

@orasaboo 4 года назад

Me too and i am Changing doing all the nice things to my love ones 😊

@henrikljungstrand2036 3 года назад

I reacted to that years ago. I think it is more important for us to love the living than loving the dead. The dead have each other most of the time.

@caribbeanqueen4535 3 года назад

@@henrikljungstrand2036 this is why I told my family I don’t want a funeral when I am dead because if you didn’t do or give or say nice things to me when I was alive. It is of no use to me when I am dead.

@sterntaler64 Год назад

Yes, it's true 🙂

@frostythecat5040 3 года назад

"Create a little distance between you and your own personality, you will see you will even enjoy yourself" - Sadhguru

@Fattt88 Год назад

I heard ti's point..... But to do it? Haha

@whoadityanawandar Год назад

This was the most important line of the speech. But the question is, how?! How do you create that distance?

@mikeferry3391 Год назад

@@whoadityanawandar Be present. Be only aware of this moment. Once you remove the past and future you will experience the end of suffering. Thoughts are only a result of memory. Once you are free of memory you are free.

@mikeferry3391 Год назад

@@Fattt88 Be present. Be only aware of this moment. Once you remove the past and future you will experience the end of suffering. Thoughts are only a result of memory. Once you are free of memory you are free.

@DjedduAmun Год назад

@@whoadityanawandar meditate is how. You have been trained since birth to believe your persona is all there is to you but there is more. Your personality or ego is just a part not the whole…

@sanniemolebogengmanale5610 3 года назад

I just discovered him, and Netflix is irrelevant to me. My relationship with my spouse is improving on daily basis - Eye opening and inspirational😇

@randomidentity4279 3 года назад

Download his free app.. full of videos/ talks nicely streamlined

@kiranb814 3 года назад

Actually, learn his meditation program. It’s life transforming. It’s called Inner Engineering. Takes only 21 minutes a day

@gskameswari8655 2 года назад

@@kiranb814 90 minutes every session

@archanab.k8040 2 года назад

😎

@drmujeebsial3488 2 года назад

@@kiranb814 can you please add a link to it

@sajjanmehta6869 4 года назад

"The moment they're dead, they just suddenly become worship-worthy"

@manerivasanthkumar606 3 года назад

"Distance is a wonderful thing.Death is a fantastic thing "-sadhguru

@ruthvickvicky8636 4 года назад

No matter how sad or low I feel, the moment I listen to his voice, I just feel blissful. Sadhguru, I surrender 💓💓💓

@deepaviswanathan9306 4 года назад

Well said!

@ruthvickvicky8636 4 года назад

@Veno Singh 🙏🏻💓🌺

@chinthalarashma2468 3 года назад

Mesmerizing voice

@ruthvickvicky8636 3 года назад

@@chinthalarashma2468 ❤❤yess

@andnowmovement3624 3 года назад

If you watch some of his other videos, he will say surrender to what? Who are you to surrender like you you had control in the first place lol, i felt and said the same as you then 10 mins later i watched a video of him telling me off for thinking i even could surrender.

@TashaNyam 3 года назад

I was laughing out so loud when I saw his reaction of rolling back his eyes and that he jokingly asked if the person who asked this question is a human and not a bird!! You gotta love this man, not only he is wise, but he cracked really wise jokes too!

@gracegarza3299 2 года назад

He cracks me up Cannot be Heckled 😆👌🏽✨

@hinasharma1619 2 года назад

True. He is brilliant.

@Thundralight 3 года назад

From my experience, most people fight due to their own expectations of the other person. When that person does not live up to it then they get angry, get hurt feelings, feel betrayed, etc.

@ukpabigenevieve4478 3 года назад

My thought exactly 👌🏽

@sinoj609 3 года назад

In relationship however expectation will come. Thats human being nature. There need mutual understanding and sharing

@linda8485 2 года назад

Well I expect people to try at least to keep there word. How can you trust the people in your life if they cannot keep their word. I said wedding vows, he broke them, now I feel betrayed. And somehow it's my fault that I'm hurt?

@healthup2373 2 года назад

Yes it is. Expectation is the main reason. But can't stop expecting yaar. I'm changing this habit But not at all easy.

@main2333 2 года назад

Keep your high standards Linda. Don’t change for anything less!

@sivaji6917 4 года назад

Distance is a wonderful thing 🙂....Far is always a right thing Nice to hear

@rutwagner7219 3 года назад

"People are a difficult species. Including you!" I would surely add: "...And including me!"

@ukpabigenevieve4478 3 года назад

We are dynamic ☺️

@peaceisrael8158 2 года назад

Stimmt so🤔

@rajujannawar6147 2 года назад

Yea...I agree.

@tusharsohale6584 4 года назад

This is very important principle: To know when to detach & when to come close.

@Shirleycrofts 3 года назад

This is much more interesting then Netflix

@amandeepsinghsudan7803 3 года назад

Really I agree

@KyokushinkanVinayakShetty 2 года назад

I think when he says start loving yourself and create some distance within, it also means to not get carried away by your own identity and ego 👍

@WatchingPup 2 года назад

I understand: Once I distance my true self from my personality, I can appreciate myself and others.

@dontscrewwithgodschosen6692 Год назад

10:41 It means you don't know what you missed until it gone or you get more wise & loving.

@ChuckMcC 3 года назад

One must love thy self before loving another....

@thelayman6189 3 года назад

It's 4 am. Now

@peteturner3267 4 года назад

His voice is so captivating and so easy listening .. love his wisdom.

@MesmerizingSadhguru 4 года назад

Yeah...he is my hero, he is friend, he is my buddy.☺️🙏

@peteturner3267 4 года назад

👍

@lathas1554 3 года назад

YES

@darshanmujumdar 2 года назад

“Human beings are difficult species… and that includes you!“ lol.. Sadhguru’s wisdom and humour together is so powerful! 🙏🏼

@dharitrinath3115 4 года назад

Thank you Sadhguru. At a very desperate time of my life when I had no hope, you saved me. Your preachings helped me get myself back and I learned to live with full acceptance of ownself. I am happy from within now.

@dharitrinath3115 4 года назад

@Celia And Favour Ya at times, you are just too weak to hold the torch for yourself. Sadhguru did the light holding for me.

@SHIVAMSHARMA-ri1hj 3 года назад

Congratulations

@powerofyou1111 Год назад

True.. the same happened for me...

@ummesalmasamia9447 Год назад

💖 shine on

@massiematinfar9662 4 года назад

You changed my habits, my life , I listen to you, and I do your meditation-My dream is to go to Himalayas with you

@akhilreddybanda7764 3 года назад

We all are privileged that we are living in the era of sadhguru.

@silencenhikes6692 4 года назад

Just go in nature you will find all the peace you crave for.

@madhuri4591 Год назад

There is a proverb in Odia language-" Dura pahada bahut Sundar", means A hill looks very beautiful from far distance. This perfectly fits what Sadguru is trying to say here

@shcbiddu 4 года назад

It's so easy to Love Sadhguru 🙏 Doesn't matter whether I am sitting infront of him Or I am watching him over the internet thousand miles away

@UnofficialSadhguruChannel 4 года назад

You are absolutely right👏👏

@theperfectcelibate8669 4 года назад

When you have to share a room with him you must be freaking crazy. It's easy to say on Internet.

@Zoitality 4 года назад

Then it looks like you entirely missed his point unfortunately

@kshitishdey4664 4 года назад

@@theperfectcelibate8669 whenever somebody is eligible(done enough sadhana in his/her life) to share a room with him, that person will not freak out. Aum namaho shivay.

@MesmerizingSadhguru 4 года назад

Exactly...I totally agreed with you. If you come to my channel you can see how much correct you are.☺️🙏

@dimplekaman5258 4 года назад

The scarf that Sadhguru is carrying is beautiful. I think it is from Northeast India. People in Northeast has this design in most of their traditional dresses.❣️ Love from Assam🙏

@manishnahar 4 года назад

Sadhguru says, if i am sitting and i have to speak to keep you glued, then you are totally missing me. Hope you get my point.

@Suvisumi 3 года назад

Love from Assam

@bimpihazarika3081 3 года назад

Love from Assam. Yes you are right

@anup2490 4 года назад

Hearing sadhgurus words early in the morning is a pleasant 🕉️🙏🕉️🙏🕉️💐

@erwan6078 4 года назад

Late in the night for some others 😌

@siadawn 3 года назад

@@erwan6078 Yep. I'm a night owl for sure, lol. It's 12 am here even as we speak. I've always been a night watcher instead of a morning watcher... I've never been able to "hack" mornings! Lol

@kiransays 4 года назад

We are capable of deep compassion and understanding to all creatures--including fellow humans, if we allow ourselves to be. Don't take your loved ones for granted during the time you have with them 💛

@kiransays 4 года назад

@KingSlayer The only thing you can control is yourself. Loving others unconditionally is one of the hardest things to do but allows you the freedom of not expecting the same back and letting go of attachment.

@winnersneverquits2570 4 года назад

@@kiransays right

@henrikljungstrand2036 3 года назад

@KingSlayer If they take you for granted, you first talk to them about it honestly, and if they don't listen then you distance yourself from them. Some people you can only love from afar because you love yourself and need to protect yourself from them hurting you.

@chittofrye6841 4 года назад

This man word of wisdom"you were waiting on them, not a good thing"

@sizambele8240 2 года назад

I recently discovered Sadhguru and im in total awe of this man. the way he answers questions that wou;d be reasonably tough for any man he simply tackles them in a way that ive never seen. WoW

@suzesalmon4061 4 года назад

I find such comfort in hearing him speak and the Beauty within his soul.

@nicoledion5898 4 года назад

I have sooooo much admiration and respect for you, the whole word needs more like you Sadhguru 💖💖💖

@hematarundailydose6392 3 года назад

Well said

@deeparm4690 2 года назад

One is enough if everyone listens

@CHRISTALMOUNTAIN Год назад

He said - appreciate my aliveness. Human evolution is human’s choice. Most of people degrading by chosing wrong over growth, vitality, we need to wake up for Loving❤ español- lengua del amor

@sudip9824 4 года назад

I have never seen as wise as Sadhguru in my life.

@craigspencer2927 4 года назад

Always putting things in the proper perspective, Love it!!!

@marielouise8317 4 года назад

I am happy that i found this wise you tube channel!! It started when i was checking about spirituality!! I am blessed to watch you. I am your fan,follower and you disciple from Rwanda!!

@rugamba100 2 года назад

Very powerful insightful which is very easy to understand the world really need people like sadhguru is worth listening to every moment

@marquesloving620 2 года назад

To live above with those we love, there is the glory. But to live below, with those we know, that is another story!

@prasenjitsahoo588 4 года назад

Distance and Death......oh what a great word....thank you Sadhguru

@arlenegage9873 2 года назад

Listening to this humble man's wisdom has made my inner being richer!! 💕

@sorryiabarnard6160 2 года назад

“Keep a little distance between yourself and your personality “ 👍🏽

@blessingginika8661 4 года назад

Distance is a wonderful thing 🙏🙏🙏 thank u ... Watching from Dubai any Dubai in the house , pls thumb up

@salam5333 2 года назад

He is so cute, wise, and amusing 😍🙏🏻

@hilflo 3 года назад

The moment you love yourself as a perfect human being with both darkness and light within you without the need of judgement, you will be able to love everyone and everything. That is unconditional love. 🙏❤

@rameshwernathrai 3 года назад

Clarity of thought is his forte. He has already lived and come through all the puzzles that you might put on him. His inner resonance is at peace with his surroundings. Hail Sadhguru.

@Ravenmad2000 Год назад

Distance makes the heart grow fonder.

@parvathikothandaraman8121 2 года назад

So true distance makes the heart grow fonder….thank you Sadhguru

@Haq675 3 года назад

Guru ji is a wonderful human being who knows nothing about malice hatred or enmity

@prashanthsingh6171 4 года назад

From many years, I fall asleep only after listening to Sadhguru

@tenzintsokyi934 Год назад

Same

@n.m6249 Год назад

His voice is so calming, I love his English accent, he doesn't sound like a typical Indian. He makes look forward to growing and aging

@gopipritam1143 4 года назад

Can't resist loving and adoring our Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏

@lilyrose4174 3 года назад

Love ❤️ yourself first, then you can accept and love anyone or anything in this universe. Well said Sathguru 🙏🏻

@ebmoore9192 2 года назад

SADHGRUR, you are incredible. I’m so caught up in your wisdom - so simply put - that anyone can understand. Thank you so much for bringing peace to my insides today. So needed you. Will certainly be a loyal friend from now on. And will share with my family and friends. I think most of this scary crazy world needs a friend like you. ❤

@StayTanuj25 4 года назад

Sadhguru I'm so blessed after listing to you and I felt so calm and peaceful mind .😇😇😇

@sudhanshuranjan4020 3 года назад

The very last line made me feel the depth of his words.

@bijuphilip9433 2 года назад

Yes it's true. Very thoughtful messages as always. 🙏🙏

@downtoearth5108 3 года назад

Awesome comments straight from the gut the discernment and much appreciated. I always felt that we need the interaction with people to ascertain our personal growth. We are not individuals but part of a whole. Society has placed enormous pressure on us to be individuals. I'm thankful I come from a culture that values family, extended family. There is much work to do to repair those group structures. Noho ora mai (be very well) Sadhguru.

@vittobahr1099 3 года назад

Sadguru's wisdom speech is like ruling kingdom piously with joy & ecstasy.

@seemaparekh5147 4 года назад

World need's people like you who propagate peace & love ,nailed it sir such a strong view ,the way of injecting the subject is marvelous ,always putting thing's in a proper perspective !!!!!..... Love U Sadhguruji ... 🦋💞🦋 🙏🇳🇪🙏

@walterhbez 3 года назад

I so much love that there is someone that I can listen to that gives live advice and recommendations so clear and uncomplicated.

@Third-Eye123 3 года назад

The main thing is that... "Beauty related with distance "❤😁🤟

@charisma3479 3 года назад

It is easy to love when there is distance 👍

@niyatibhatt1916 2 года назад

We need such videos to stay together in family really nice 🙏🏻

@user-be4lz9mz9z 2 года назад

Thank you for the talk!

@manjulaselvan3052 4 года назад

Thank 'God' I am leading a lonely life. And I am happy.

@richardboaz-mashagospel2346 3 года назад

It's so hurting, my wife was a problem to me before....today I have learned something. From Tanzania

@sandywallace5567 2 года назад

Oh I just love your spirit & insight! You're such a beautiful soul!!!!! It's really sad our earth isnt populated with more souls just like you!

@DivyaSharma-sk2hv 9 месяцев назад

Excellent... Fountain of wisdom

@3ggkgrammarandgolpo248 Год назад

One of the best videos I've ever seen. Awesome, wonderful. It really solved my problems dealing with people around me. Lets set some boundaries within ourselves and with others.

@geniusme273 4 года назад

Dear Sadhguru.. Please make a video on the sadhnas required to raise ones consciousness. Whenever you talk about Consciousness, you tell there is a scientific way of approaching to raising it in an individual. So please make it available to all of us.

@rizwan4590 4 года назад

There are sadhanas available but they cannot be given in uncommited place they need to be taught in commited atmosphere with willing people.

@trendincouple 4 года назад

Do inner engineering. Its a sadhna

@srikrishnamondal5850 4 года назад

It is already available there, You can start with Isha Kriya. This is simple but very powerful Kriya.

@ecstaticboy9716 4 года назад

intense longing and using observation with contextual selection => raises consciousness

@kunalpradhan9225 4 года назад

I would say Chitta Shakti meditation is good for beginning.

@ankursingh730 2 года назад

I really like the way he explains things with such simplicity!

@leenagera6529 3 года назад

Such a wonderful speech. Touchable speech and absolutely right.

@soleus17 3 года назад

All wonderful points. 💜🙏🏾

@mangalanandansukumaran2475 4 года назад

Aum nama shivaya🙏. Distancing from our own personality and loving is beautiful message. Loving shiva rama krishna is so good, brings joy in us. 🙏

@silentbliss7666 4 года назад

Create a little distance between yourself and your own personality ... you will enjoy yourself and you will see everybody as wonderful. Thank you Sadhguru

@mariaap8502 Год назад

Soooo true!!! Always to the point !

@nisharaj1518 4 года назад

You opened my eyes SadhGuru. Now i need to practise it. 🙏

@skinnydee1886 4 года назад

Difference of opinion makes people fight with each other.

@savitakrishnan5094 3 года назад

So well said! Just what I needed to hear ❤️

@sirenorebello817 3 года назад

He spoke so well thank you Shadguru 🙏

@skylarpeterson734 2 года назад

Sadguru you changed my life 4 years ago when I started listening to you something just made me surface I have you in my mind all the time

@kareenvoltaire9657 2 года назад

Wow, I am amazed by your teachings Sadhguru! Thank you for the uplifting lessons! Namaste

@sujeewaathukorala 4 года назад

Thank you very much for enlightening our thoughts and showing the right path to the wisdom 🙏🏻

@minakshibhattacharya6067 3 года назад

So wonderfully explained 🙏🌺

@hariramachandran4508 4 года назад

Wonderful Explanation

@evemarksfulfillmentcoach633 4 года назад

That was beautiful, I love it ❤

@Raining76 3 года назад

Watching this video at right time... such a relief 🙏

@avneet19kaur91 2 года назад

This helps.Thank you.

@sabrinamohommed3277 Год назад

I’m so addicted to his speeches…

@anukriti4914 Год назад

On of his best discourse on Relationships!🙏

@poleensilaha3546 3 года назад

Just landed on his channel yesterday...he's super fascinating

@vandanaadivishnu3686 4 года назад

Someone who has the main purpose towards 'Us'the humanity , Answers to every question on earth, without escapism, fearless yet politely answers all odd questions as well . We must learn truthfulness , righteousness n deeper understanding of everything in life.Casually explains with full of joy n jokes as well.

@ReshmiVinayan 4 года назад

Sadhguru, much love 🙏 So true this duality you spoke of.

@vijayganapathy5540 4 года назад

Its rare getting into it keeping distance inside themselves unable to control sadhguru laughs how people will think and changed the topic to enjoy themselves but reveled the secret to separate inside themselves but there is no scientific evidence to prove, so everyone have to experience it by themselves so he kept quite and changed the topic but its a great gift to separate and feel and ride the life.He tells common stories which has in-depth yogic meaning in it.