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Why Do People Lack Class Today? 

Anna Bey
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Why does our society lack class? Today I’ll explain why society has become tackier compared to in the 1900s. For more unfiltered conversations & guidance in your level up journey, join my Patreon: / annabey **Don't miss my FREE workshop: fabulousfutureformula.com/ **
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@AnnaBeyOfficial
@AnnaBeyOfficial 7 месяцев назад
Do you agree with me? Let me know what you think in the comments below! For more spicy (and spicier) content like this, sign up to my Patreon: annabeypatreon.com/
@radioactive.rabbit
@radioactive.rabbit 7 месяцев назад
Only the behavior part. We're more accepting different expressions in dressing today and that should've been the damn standard for the last hundreds of years. Modest and sexy.
@ourjamasianfamily4370
@ourjamasianfamily4370 7 месяцев назад
Yes, everything you say is right And I totally agree with you!
@TheLeslieMichelle
@TheLeslieMichelle 7 месяцев назад
I agree with you completely. It's not just behavior and manners solely, it's how you present yourself too. What you present to people, is how people will treat you. So, if you come off as classless on all levels, people will treat you in ways where they don't have to respect you.
@Dr_Palamarchuk
@Dr_Palamarchuk 7 месяцев назад
Yes, Anna, agreed. Great content!
@carolinaruiz208
@carolinaruiz208 7 месяцев назад
Totally agree. People are very rude now.
@shortlife4life900
@shortlife4life900 7 месяцев назад
As someone who’s gen z, I really think it’s sad what’s happening to society. Having class and basic respect for others shouldn’t be considered “old fashioned”, it should be the norm.
@guerralg63
@guerralg63 7 месяцев назад
❤😊
@dawnfalvey6766
@dawnfalvey6766 7 месяцев назад
IMO (as a Gen x) I love Gen Z ! Most, if not all the Gen Zs I’ve met are like a breath of fresh air, think outside the box , and are just amazing. Every Gen has their ‘bad apples’. I believe you can be original and have your individual personality , style etc, and still have class.
@user-om8mz3ey6k
@user-om8mz3ey6k 7 месяцев назад
Some of the most uncouth and ignorant people I ever met were my own generation - the baby boomers 😔
@guerralg63
@guerralg63 7 месяцев назад
@user-om8mz3ey6k , I don't doubt it, but it doesn't excuse your generation. I really dont like making it about which generation does what. Everyone of every generation can stand to learn good manners, propriety, kindness, compassion, consideration, ethics, self-control, and hospitality. I speak for myself when I begin to feel self-important and entitled I remember some of the videos of bad behavior, and I think, "Do I want to be like that?" Unfortunately, your generation is the most visible because of the internet and social media, but yes! Everyone is guilty of bad manners.
@seagreen917
@seagreen917 7 месяцев назад
I completely agree with you, and I'm really disappointed. People act surprised nowadays when you speak in a mannerly way as if it wasn't a regular thing to do. People should treat others and be treated with respect, and people should respect each other's boundaries. People today think that its old fashion or conservative, when in reality, it's something everyone can do.
@joanreynolds955
@joanreynolds955 7 месяцев назад
The most ladylike woman I have ever known was a high school English teacher who was married to a pig farmer. She was intelligent, well-dressed, well-spoken, and well-read. She did all she could to help every single one of her students. These days, decent behavior is seen as weakness. You a billion-percent correct, Anna.
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive 7 месяцев назад
A pig farmer? She lost.
@ohjinmyoung7350
@ohjinmyoung7350 7 месяцев назад
Pig farming is a totally respectable job unless you are a Muslim
@newmercies1
@newmercies1 7 месяцев назад
Maybe the pig farmer had more manners and love to give than the "suits" she was meeting on her work environment or elsewhere. It is not about what you do for a living but who you are in life. Do not judge a book by its cover.@@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive 7 месяцев назад
@@newmercies1 Respect? Respect is shown by how much money he gives her. Given that she worked a teacher for brats, which is a very unrewarding career financially, he clearly didn't give her enough.
@comradeleppi2000
@comradeleppi2000 7 месяцев назад
​@@DiamondsRexpensivel🙄
@ew759
@ew759 7 месяцев назад
I feel class does not have anything to do with money. Having manners, respect and morals is class.
@jessjenkins5474
@jessjenkins5474 7 месяцев назад
🙌🙌
@ryanscottlogan8459
@ryanscottlogan8459 7 месяцев назад
Correct.
@annalytic
@annalytic 7 месяцев назад
Unfortunately in today's world, that's just seen as being a loser. Money and stuff rules.
@heaven8639
@heaven8639 7 месяцев назад
Absolutely correct!!💐🕊🙏🙂💕
@esmeramsay8179
@esmeramsay8179 7 месяцев назад
🎯🎯🎯🎯
@l.l.r.1743
@l.l.r.1743 7 месяцев назад
I was a teacher. My first year I tried to teach politeness in class and discipline rude behaviour only to be met with abusive rude parents who sometimes swore at me in front of the class. I have left that career. This is a real social problem that has been going on since before social media. I do agree that social media is making it worse.
@dsmith9796
@dsmith9796 7 месяцев назад
So sorry you have left the profession of teaching. Society is in desperate need of good teachers.
@Jasmine01Nicole
@Jasmine01Nicole 7 месяцев назад
I’m so sorry teaching politeness had that outcome with your class. I can see how that would likely be the response from parents today. I’m very thankful that my daughter’s kindergarten teacher taught respect to the class, granted we had a very good class of students and intentional parents so it was easy, but she taught these little 5-6 year olds to say “I respectfully disagree” when they had a disagreement with a classmate 🥲 so thankful my daughter got to experience her as a teacher and I learned a little along the way too!
@kaitlynjones3424
@kaitlynjones3424 7 месяцев назад
What do you now? I don’t want to teach anymore.
@mrich9654
@mrich9654 7 месяцев назад
its a sinking ship. thank you for trying
@catherinevandor9988
@catherinevandor9988 6 месяцев назад
I had a teenage male student spit on me.
@fuyunatsu6805
@fuyunatsu6805 7 месяцев назад
Social Media. The big decline in our society is Social media.
@chrystianaw8256
@chrystianaw8256 7 месяцев назад
It started even before that
@trekstarsam2494
@trekstarsam2494 7 месяцев назад
Social media, like the tv, is a tool like any other. Anna also uses it. Who are these people we are uplifting on it? It's the PEOPLE that make social media what it is/isn't. It reflects on us as a society how we follow and praise classless behavior and don't follow classy creators and help them go viral.
@fuyunatsu6805
@fuyunatsu6805 7 месяцев назад
@@chrystianaw8256 It started really with television and such, but I mean society's decline was exacerbated by the introduction of Social Media. Social Media is Cataclysmic.
@aprilgrant1957
@aprilgrant1957 7 месяцев назад
One cannot blame Social Media on lack of home training. That's the foundation.
@user-xd4pn9jz1i
@user-xd4pn9jz1i 7 месяцев назад
It’s bad parenting.
@AliPittaway
@AliPittaway 7 месяцев назад
My grandmother was poor as a church mouse but she had more class than anyone. She scrubbed her doorstep everyday until it shone because she was proud and she would not leave the house unless she was dressed in her best clothes - even though those best clothes were hand-me-downs. She didn’t have much but what she did have she took pride in. At Christmas, our presents would always be homemade but she was so talented at knitting, sewing and cooking that whatever she gave us was always unique, beautiful or delicious. These days few people seem to care. Thanks for the channel BTW, wonderful.
@BIBLE-a-s-m-r
@BIBLE-a-s-m-r 7 месяцев назад
That sounds so deep and delicious
@t.8936
@t.8936 5 месяцев назад
I love that so much. She tended to her own affairs the best she possibly could. Nowadays it seems we are so preoccupied with what is going on outside of our homes, we forget that changing the world starts small in out own home.
@laurab9867
@laurab9867 4 месяца назад
YES!! My grandmother was like yours but had even less. She cleaned, repaired and pressed the same clothes over and over but always looked put together. Nobody knew her struggles. 🥲
@abarbaradorsey3713
@abarbaradorsey3713 4 месяца назад
Awesome
@ladymajica4268
@ladymajica4268 4 месяца назад
Your grandmother sounds wonderful. It made me smile reading your comment 😊
@cristingibson8192
@cristingibson8192 7 месяцев назад
At 24, I feel isolated from my own generation. I am considered “strange” or a “try hard” and “unapproachable” for wanting to look decent when I leave my home. Making friends is very difficult when my age bracket does not dress the same as me and is immersed in topics trending only on social media. To make it worse, it makes me ashamed at times to say I am an American because nowadays when people think of my country they think about the kinds of people shown in the side clips at the beginning of this video. It also doesn’t help that creators go viral for displaying this kind of behavior on the internet.
@user-xu6go2pu5r
@user-xu6go2pu5r 7 месяцев назад
Piss off back to Europe then.
@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64
@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64 7 месяцев назад
Keep being yourself! You will be way ahead as an adult in life and in the job market.
@blondie9422
@blondie9422 7 месяцев назад
Don’t change!!! I know it’s hard now but you will be winning
@donnafromnyc
@donnafromnyc 7 месяцев назад
Do not change and read your history, watch old movies, and talk to as many of us oldies as you can!!!
@CD0789
@CD0789 7 месяцев назад
I agree, don’t change for anyone. Be yourself, that’s the best thing you can do. Having class, respect for others , and self respect , and self worth is the best thing.
@Renegade_Minds
@Renegade_Minds 7 месяцев назад
My boy is 10. I have been raising him with lessons of etiquette and manners, much to the chagrin of his tacky paternal family. I have told them, “He will know how to behave in any environment and be invited back.” He’s doing quite well with his skills. I’m a proud mama.
@perthfanny3017
@perthfanny3017 7 месяцев назад
I'm a French living in Spain and let's put it this way: here the emphasis on good manners is not very strong 😞 my daughter is 4 and already knows how to say thank you (I usually have to remind it to her when someone gives her something in a store). I try my best to make sure she says goodbye. I am pretty sure almost none of her classmates do that. Even older children like yours barely know how to say thank you. It's honestly appalling 😮
@kaitlynjones3424
@kaitlynjones3424 7 месяцев назад
@perthfanny3017 I loved being in France and seeing a culture of politeness still in place. Thank your bus driver, say hello and goodbye to shop clerks and drivers, etc. It was uncomfortable for me at first, because of my French ability, but after a year I was fine and was really shocked when I returned to America that we really don’t do that. I could see why you might be having a hard time in another country. Class and politeness is much more expected in France than anywhere else I’ve been.
@jackieclingman9707
@jackieclingman9707 7 месяцев назад
I adore France. Even in Paris where things are very fast paced, manners are still VERY much a prevalent part of the everyday. To the OP of this comment, I applaud your teaching your son manners and etiquette. He will be less uncomfortable in most all situations because he knows how to handle himself. Manners and etiquette not only make a wonderful impression, they also help to make others more comfortable in your presence-hence being invited back as others will find joy in being with you. Thank you 😊
@becky2235
@becky2235 6 месяцев назад
Im all for manners,but here's a question. Have you taught him not to look down on others?
@perthfanny3017
@perthfanny3017 6 месяцев назад
@@kaitlynjones3424 wow thank you! Merci hahaha
@FancyForestPerson
@FancyForestPerson 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for saying it. Trashy behavior is skyrocketing. The problem is no consequences - we need to reject people who behave with no manners and tact. Each of us, in our personal lives, draw boundaries and stop tolerating it.
@cecee3480
@cecee3480 7 месяцев назад
It’s not about consequences. Why should anyone care if you like them? In the US especially we are taught that it’s up to you to make it on your own. Only rely on yourself. It’s capitalism and you need to figure it all out. With that mentality no one needs anyone to like them. It’s just creating a society where no cares about others or their opinions. People are just trying to survive and if your opinion isn’t contributing to that you don’t matter. That’s the reality of how things are today.
@juliannehunter495
@juliannehunter495 7 месяцев назад
This is harsh but true. While some people are internally motivated to make good choices, others need external motivation. That's where consequences come into play. I've drawn boundaries and won't associate with people who routinely exhibit crass behavior.
@MissDuke2012
@MissDuke2012 7 месяцев назад
Agree!! BE the change you want to see in the world. I do this everyday. Politeness and respect and class matter to me. I project and treat others how I want to be treated. Women in my office oftentimes take better care of themselves once they work in my team.
@helpanimals-
@helpanimals- 7 месяцев назад
@@cecee3480 partially true. It's also about bad parenting,and teaching kids to have basics manners. Look at Japan if want a decent society. They don't have this problem. You're also making excuses for not having consequences, they are a must!
@dawnfalvey6766
@dawnfalvey6766 7 месяцев назад
I agree. The problem is people with power and influence are the worst and unfortunately people look up to them and want emulate them. It started with reality Tv, Jerry Springer type talk shows, and now social media. Even ‘reputable ‘ journalists, newspapers, news in general have hit the new low, and have ‘normalized’ uncouth, unclassy, rude, behavior. These are some crazy times .
@catmerchant8699
@catmerchant8699 7 месяцев назад
As a gen z. I feel like everyone is forced to have the same personality. Quirkiness and up to date with tiktok is a must. It’s like you can’t make friends unless you’re into that stuff. It’s so childish considering most of gen z is in their 20’s now.
@MissDuke2012
@MissDuke2012 7 месяцев назад
Excellent point. You’re right. I am a millennial and the pressure is the same on me. This is something else than the usual inter generational strife. It’s like a herd of everyone wants you to act and think the same way. So much for diversity! They don’t actually want diversity - they want mindless drones
@nickidaisydandelion4044
@nickidaisydandelion4044 7 месяцев назад
Then it's about time that people dare to step out of that peer pressure and act according to their actual health needs. I would rather be sitting at home alone than hang out with wrong people.
@Soleil5291
@Soleil5291 7 месяцев назад
So ridiculously childish. I am a millennial and feel like gen z is so delayed for their age.
@Anonymous-xl2ew
@Anonymous-xl2ew 7 месяцев назад
My friends thought I am weird for not having tiktok..
@tulip811
@tulip811 7 месяцев назад
I'm Gen Z, and the other kids looked down on me because I liked video games and TV in the 00s. Now they pay for netflix and have tik tok, and I don't 😂 it doesn't make sense to me
@daisyli9633
@daisyli9633 7 месяцев назад
Agreed 1000%. Our society is becoming more and more disrespectful and inconsiderate. People seem to get a kick out of being rude.
@ilovemesumjas
@ilovemesumjas 6 месяцев назад
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@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 6 месяцев назад
@@ilovemesumjasyou could learn something from this channel. Starting with your language
@sharkbros.9278
@sharkbros.9278 7 месяцев назад
Elegance is NOT controversial. Anna, your videos are AWESOME. Keep it up!
@TraciLMiller
@TraciLMiller 7 месяцев назад
It's a breakdown of leadership as well. We have glorified being rude as a sign of strength when in reality true power is silent.
@yaeltuttebel
@yaeltuttebel 7 месяцев назад
Yeah, I am about to promote at work, I will have a leadership position. My boss keeps saying I have to be more assertive and even rude. I believe in kindness, quiet confidence and earning respect through being polite and well mannered. But my boss is not like and he keeps trying to change me haha
@softsophisticate
@softsophisticate 6 месяцев назад
@@yaeltuttebel I used to be a Supervisor. Most people will do as you ask, as long as it is in their job description. They understand they can't say "No" to doing the job they agreed to do when hired. The issue is with people I call "Boundary Pushers" who would rather do anything than their job eg stand around chatting for hours. They are the minority, say 5-10%, but you need to spot them and learn how to deal with them. You need to have a chat with them, be firm and have clear boundaries. They won't like it, you may get called all sorts of names, I was and replied "I am just doing my job" - should have added, "You need to do yours" They may go away and reflect on it, and improve, but usually they don't and will leave. They often like to see themselves as chilled, laid back and free spirits or rebels. That is great, and there is a place for peole like that in the world, but in a business, stuff needs to get done and it is unfair to expect the other team mates to pick up their slack which leads to resentment.
@lalaithan
@lalaithan 6 месяцев назад
@@yaeltuttebel Never change yourself to please others, it always ends badly.
@ClaraWeirdoMiss
@ClaraWeirdoMiss 6 месяцев назад
I think true power is not rude nor silent. True power is asserting expectations while still being kind. It's a vibe. You can put your foot down in a kind way.
@mrich9654
@mrich9654 7 месяцев назад
you are absolutely right. classless, gross and vulgar. we've lost the plot as a society.
@carrie-joylloyd5785
@carrie-joylloyd5785 7 месяцев назад
This is the result of parents not being able to discipline their children. They grow up with no boundaries.
@LazyDaisyDay88
@LazyDaisyDay88 3 месяца назад
My grandmother used to say that class was nothing more than having standards for yourself.
@historiqueafricaine1225
@historiqueafricaine1225 Месяц назад
Your grandmama was right💯
@Loveladylove
@Loveladylove 7 месяцев назад
I work at an expensive fine dining steakhouse downtown in a large Texas city. It astounds me to know end the lack of etiquette, decorum, common respect, and table manners people don’t have. These are people with money.😭
@softsophisticate
@softsophisticate 7 месяцев назад
Yes, but they may have started off with no money, and come from a poor back ground. Now, through work or investing, they have some money. Maybe look for a job in a more expensive restaurant? Although that still doesn't guarantee a better class of behaviour from customers.
@kass6442
@kass6442 7 месяцев назад
I remember when I was 19 I used to work at this very posh and expensive restaurant and bar, where wealthy and very wealthy people would dine. I remember being so shocked, to see how all these people behaved and carried on, and they were what we classify as new money. It was the old money that were just a pleasure to deal with, because they were so lovely, kind and spoke to myself (waitress) with respect, and I could spot them a mile away from the way they dressed and carried themselves. They were truly inspirational.
@arianbyw3819
@arianbyw3819 6 месяцев назад
Because people with lots of money think that is all that speaks for them, they need to nothing else.
@ruhhshelle
@ruhhshelle 3 месяца назад
*no end. Class includes good grammar.
@annoldham3018
@annoldham3018 7 месяцев назад
Selfishness. Materialism. Finding everything offensive. Reality TV. Lack of community. Bad manners. I want to live in a mud hut in the woods to be honest. 🙄
@miraggg
@miraggg 7 месяцев назад
not to mention social media & the CONSTANT need for attention and validation 🤮
@marykali3603
@marykali3603 7 месяцев назад
I got cable out of my home and my behavior improved.
@YourGrace_06
@YourGrace_06 7 месяцев назад
Not a mud hut 😂😂 at least a tipi with furs on the floor, damn 😂😂
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive 7 месяцев назад
Sounds like a crappy nightmarish life... But you do you.
@mehitabel6564
@mehitabel6564 7 месяцев назад
@@DiamondsRexpensive Sounds like you're a bitter troll....but you do you. Happily, we're free to ignore you.
@Karen-tr8jo
@Karen-tr8jo 7 месяцев назад
They need to start teaching basic manners and etiquette in public schools now . Otherwise the parents who don’t have manners either are just teaching their children to be rude and thankless to others.
@dsmith9796
@dsmith9796 7 месяцев назад
Sadly, public school teachers are just trying to get through their day being able to teach subject matter, they don't have time to make up for what parents can't or won't do at home.
@J0j0l0lPl4i
@J0j0l0lPl4i 7 месяцев назад
I agree, Kids just copy the behavior of their parents and do what their parents taught them. Sadly, in public school, teachers are already exhausted by the kids that weren't taught manners by their parents plus they already have so much to do they can't do the job of parents. But I don't know if you realize this, but parents nowdays only get kids to please their parents or for the kids to take care of them when they will be old. 🤦‍♀️
@stellaanka100
@stellaanka100 7 месяцев назад
My sister and I had so much fun teaching self-esteem&elegance in our studio for teenager girls. We were in our early twenties and parents loved us because the girls were so receptive to someone young. These days, for young teens it seems like “too old fashioned” and they don’t want to be different… they want to fit in.
@ryanscottlogan8459
@ryanscottlogan8459 7 месяцев назад
Indeed!
@timriehl1500
@timriehl1500 7 месяцев назад
I would love to see an "Etiquette 101" elective in high schools. I have always thought that if I won the lottery, I'd donate a large amount to high schools that wanted to develop an etiquette curriculum to offer an elective class for juniors and seniors.
@cherieday624
@cherieday624 7 месяцев назад
"Love your neighbor as yourself." The classiest rule ever written down and found in some form in every culture. Ignored too often.
@creomentis
@creomentis 6 месяцев назад
It goes to show how people do not love themselves. They've sold their self-worth, their dignity and self-respect for views and likes and money. How can they respect others when they don't respect themselves?
@jesusyourkingdomecome3434
@jesusyourkingdomecome3434 5 месяцев назад
It's even written in the Bibel to love your neighbours, but i have to admid that that is tough cookie to crack, because 2 neighbours of mine are narcisstics and 1 is evil. The rest is ok 😂.
@Missnoemit
@Missnoemit 3 месяца назад
​@@jesusyourkingdomecome3434 yes, it comes from the bible😊
@scottfamily865
@scottfamily865 4 месяца назад
My grandma taught me that being poor didn’t equal being filthy, she was very particular about cleanliness, good manners, and hospitality.
@captainnathan3690
@captainnathan3690 7 месяцев назад
I’m a baby boomer/senior citizen. We grew up very poor and didn’t have the best of everything nor a robust pantry. But my parents, neither of whom went beyond 8th grade, could read and write well and were always kind and polite, as were our relatives and most people in our poor neighborhood. So, we had “class” with very little. Yet today, many of the rich and famous are crude and lewd. Anna, you did a great service with this video. You’ve captured the issue that too many are afraid to tackle for fear of being told they’re just “shaming” people. No, we’re not! You’re speaking out about something very, very important and if you get more people thinking about their own behavior then you’ve been a great success. God Bless and keep on going, girl!!!!!
@dsmith9796
@dsmith9796 7 месяцев назад
Well said.
@donnafromnyc
@donnafromnyc 7 месяцев назад
Well said and comprehensive. Thank you.
@LS-ek1fd
@LS-ek1fd 7 месяцев назад
People have become soulless. They have no rules, no wisdom, no faith, no fear.
@Williamshakespeareswig
@Williamshakespeareswig 7 месяцев назад
Perfectly accurate statement
@timriehl1500
@timriehl1500 7 месяцев назад
You are only seeing a certain population. There are plenty of people who obey the law and behave in a cultured manner. As for faith and fear, I don't want to live in fear or have someone's faith forced on me. I have a cousin who is a social worker, and all she sees all day is a certain segment of the population, and that's how she thinks "everyone" is. I am always trying to get her to see goodness and beauty in things outside of what she sees every day. I was once a police officer and fell into the same trap. I only saw the worst of the worst every day and would have to remind myself every now and then that I was seeing a small percentage of society because that's all I was exposed to.
@CD0789
@CD0789 7 месяцев назад
They also have no idea how the world actually works or operates. Their point of view is so narrow minded and one tracked, it almost impossible to have a conversation or debate with someone with that mindset.
@kerryhorwitz4093
@kerryhorwitz4093 7 месяцев назад
I agree absolutely. My comment up here is a long one, but it might interest you if you have a few extra minutes to spare.
@kerryhorwitz4093
@kerryhorwitz4093 7 месяцев назад
​@@timriehl1500I think she meant "fear of the consequences of your actions" rather than a permanent anxiety state which is not healthy. Those of us with faith are not about to spring out of the bushes and drag you to our church! A huge part of the problem is the damage done to the idea of Christianity and its primary role in the development of the most successful civilisation that has ever been. I agree with your comment about us projecting from our limited vantage point. I once took a wallet I found to the nearest police station. It had quite a lot of money in it by the look of things. The dear police woman on the desk actually had tears well up. She apologised, but said all day she saw nothing but bad things and my taking the wallet I found to the police station had restored her faith in humanity!
@anttoronto3202
@anttoronto3202 7 месяцев назад
They lack class, dignity and self respect. All that is happening is linked to a starvation for attention. We have a generation of adults in a stunted adolescence. Society is circling the drain. Your channel focuses on the way society dresses so well. It also comes through in their mannerisms, actions, and their voice. Great video!
@dsmith9796
@dsmith9796 7 месяцев назад
I think you have nailed it!
@t.8936
@t.8936 5 месяцев назад
It began with youth culture. Sadly it's been going on since the 1960's.
@dlady4
@dlady4 7 месяцев назад
I agree with most of the things explained here. However, I'd like to add that for some of us, isolation is not necessarily due to social media but due to the lack of quality people available in our surroundings. I have personally chosen to walk away from several friends and acquaintances because I have changed. Therefore, my values and what I expect from life and others no longer align with who they are. I find that as people elevate their intrinsic value, the pool of qualified individuals to have in one's social circle shrinks considerably.
@margaritab.2665
@margaritab.2665 7 месяцев назад
Very true, I have also experienced distancing myself from people who have a completely different mindset to mine. But that's good; quality over quantity, always.
@mtngrl5859
@mtngrl5859 7 месяцев назад
True, that's why one has to learn how to upgrade their social sphere. It's a bit like when one cures themselves of some kind of addiction, one can never associate with those that have the same addiction. What most people see as their friends aren't , they are people you've had common experiences with. Once you change, often the friendships will change as well.
@margodphd
@margodphd 7 месяцев назад
Yep. People who share my values and personality type are usually very busy and at stage in their lives when their family and business/ career take so much of their time that I really cannot blame them for wanting to have the free time to just be on their own. I'm not one to demand anything of anyone,but I miss having more social contact, long conversations about different topics, learning things from people that are passionate about them but I get my "social fix" from work. I perhaps should seek out people more, but I'm afraid of rejection or sounding pushy and crass.
@user-uo1xn7kv4r
@user-uo1xn7kv4r 4 месяца назад
This is why I have always been alone.
@FancyForestPerson
@FancyForestPerson 7 месяцев назад
Something to remember; younger generations are scoring higher in traits of narcissism, and when you challenge their self-perception it’s interpreted as an attack and they experience narcissistic injury.
@yomiseno
@yomiseno 7 месяцев назад
I think generations earlier like Millennials are more prone to narcicism. Boomers do not even know what narcicism is, they lack awareness. They developed it -- normalized it -- imprinted in their genetics -- and the strain went on, raising narcicists as well. Narcicism is from trauma, neglect, etc.. a lot of bad thinzzzzzzz. Sad to say, A LOT OF MILLENNIALS ARE NARCS AND PROJECTING THEMSELVES BEC OF BOOBOOMERZ. I think Gen Zs are the first ones who are going to cut off the strain. We are surrounded by awareness, tools, etc.. next are Alphas.
@yomiseno
@yomiseno 7 месяцев назад
There's no internet when Jesus was alive, boomers are narcicists. They ruined the economy.
@VBoo459
@VBoo459 7 месяцев назад
They’re not to blame. Their parents are, because the upbringing makes a person- their parents are millennials or Gen X. It’s their fault.
@tulip811
@tulip811 7 месяцев назад
​@@VBoo459Gen X are the worst🙃
@friktermind
@friktermind 7 месяцев назад
@@snsh7207 +1
@LilyOlea777
@LilyOlea777 7 месяцев назад
What you’re saying is important and true. Manners matter more than clothing, but it’s amazing how often people behave better when they take care with their appearance. Our clothing is communication.
@jasg771
@jasg771 7 месяцев назад
In judgemental society, especially certain countries, they tend to treat people with more respect only if they are well dressed. Clothes speak for them.
@mtngrl5859
@mtngrl5859 7 месяцев назад
@@jasg771 It's the first thing people see. When I travel, I'm always careful on how I look at the airport, typically I go through customs very quickly.
@Bella-tj4ti
@Bella-tj4ti 7 месяцев назад
Elegance and class is never out of style or controversial.
@thehuntress8850
@thehuntress8850 7 месяцев назад
Being considerate of other peoples feelings, is 90% of the battle. I've met poor people who had a lot of class. One of my very best friends is dying of A.L.S. They never had a lot of money, but her family had the most magical holidays. Her children grew up with education, art and a lot of kindness and charity towards others. She had to go into the hospital, and then a rehabilitation center for a little while. All of the staff was sad to see her go, because she has such a light in her eyes, and a love for other human beings.
@robynwells8249
@robynwells8249 7 месяцев назад
This is such a wonderful message. Having manners, being polite and kind goes such a long way. My daughter was once hired for a job because the employer was so impressed by her manners.
@daisyphinney1038
@daisyphinney1038 7 месяцев назад
I used to work around some elderly women and men. Always got complements on my manners. A lot of them liked me to the point they went out of their way to complement me or just say hi.
@donnafromnyc
@donnafromnyc 7 месяцев назад
Bravo!! Well spoken and raised.
@enigmaticallis3110
@enigmaticallis3110 7 месяцев назад
Gotta love how gen z thinks that literally everything is "problematic" 🙄🙄
@mtngrl5859
@mtngrl5859 7 месяцев назад
@@slavicmelodies9614 Basically it's an over emotional generation, they need their "safe spaces", can't handle conflict at work. I could go on and on.
@Radhuya
@Radhuya 7 месяцев назад
​@@mtngrl5859I am gen Z, and I hate gen Zs.
@enigmaticallis3110
@enigmaticallis3110 7 месяцев назад
@@slavicmelodies9614 Gen Z needs to stop calling everything "problematic" because not only is life in general full of unpleasant bullshitt and it always will be because it's the world and life, believe it or not, is not meant to be comfortable lol but it also takes attention and legitimately away from the things that are genuinly problematic .. Also the overuse of buzzwords are very annoying and actively erode the meaning and significance of the words themselves.
@melissaherrera940
@melissaherrera940 7 месяцев назад
As someone who is Gen Z, I think Gen Z is problematic. A lot of Gen Zs don’t acknowledge that and that’s why things will just get worse, unfortunately.
@Lifeoftheparty8290
@Lifeoftheparty8290 7 месяцев назад
@@melissaherrera940they will when it’s too late Gen z are young right now so they think they know everything and that the world is theirs wait till they turn 30
@jacquelinesmith2242
@jacquelinesmith2242 7 месяцев назад
At my mother's funeral, ( my father died the year before) , someone said that they always thought my mother was a true lady and my father a true gentleman ❤. I can't imagine a better compliment 😊
@Jojo-xt7ks
@Jojo-xt7ks 7 месяцев назад
Yes, society is definitely declining. To the few people who have class, morale, integrity, self awareness and common sense, congratulations, you're rare.
@patriciadavies5241
@patriciadavies5241 7 месяцев назад
i’m gen z i’m 22 and i am so nostalgic for the old world, i’m nostalgic for a time when social media was not a huge deal that everyone had. i’m honestly nostalgic for a time that because of my age and how fast the world is evolving i never really got to experience much. honestly i think with the y2k trends that it’s easy to see that many young people feel the same but their addictions and dependence on social media and technology won’t let them realise this and maybe even reject these things. just my take.
@getthekool1758
@getthekool1758 7 месяцев назад
Since we are aware of how it became detrimental to society we are the generation that must start searching for solutions. People just need to receive new imputs and they will come back to the good way.
@beegood14
@beegood14 7 месяцев назад
Please stop using social media like instagram, tik tok, etc. and start reading more books on civilization, culture, geography, history, etc. Read great novels that will expand your knowledge of literature, rich vocabulary. Changes in society can begin with one person. Anna has been teaching and demonstrating good etiquette and culture. We can all do the same. If people criticize us, accept the criticism, don’t respond, go on living your beautiful life. Also, Jesus said “ do onto others as you would like them to do onto you.” We should have a Kindness Month where everyone exercises kindness, compassion and letting others be first in traffic, at airports, at hubs of transportation, at stores, etc.
@andreasteinmann8888
@andreasteinmann8888 7 месяцев назад
Such an important topic! It’s shocking and terribly disturbing how many people lack basic manners, kindness and respect these days. If these essential life skills are no longer being taught at home, perhaps they could be taught at school.
@xristinarose2409
@xristinarose2409 7 месяцев назад
School? What a joke. It gets worse every year where kids barely can read at 9yo. This is because both men and women work and dont have time for family and kids get raised by society and woke teachers to see their parents divorce because both are overstressed and overworked and don't even have time to put efford into their family
@glai5752
@glai5752 7 месяцев назад
Absolutely! That was the question I had when I came to this country 43 years ago.
@guerralg63
@guerralg63 7 месяцев назад
I call them 2nd Timothy people
@foxiefair123
@foxiefair123 7 месяцев назад
Yeah, like when you go somewhere with someone where they know everyone and they just talk to people but don’t introduce you to anyone. I find that extremely rude and usually take it personally, but maybe they just haven’t been taught that.
@marykali3603
@marykali3603 7 месяцев назад
And their offspring.
@danndeelion
@danndeelion 7 месяцев назад
People are clamoring for attention and they think by doing some stupid dance on tiktok, dye their hair pink, act like a kardashian that they will get that. You want to know what ACTUALLY draws peoples attention? Not acting like everyone else, not doing what everyone else is doing. Act classy and people WILL look at you, maybe at first like an alien because your behavior is so foreign to them, but they will be drawn to you light a moth to the flame. Being classy IS being different now, embrace it.
@babyvanderwoodsen
@babyvanderwoodsen 7 месяцев назад
You are onto something. I am from Generation Z (23y) and every single time I go outside, without fail, I dress like it’s my Sunday best. I did it originally for me, because when I look good I feel good, but I’ve noticed that I get a looot more looks in public now. People are so friendly, willing to help with menial tasks even if I didn’t ask, and a few more cool perks that come with, you guessed it, being a decent human being for once! It’s crazy how nice people become when you actually treat them with respect and also treat yourself with respect
@amynau3904
@amynau3904 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for addressing this. Not only have people lost their class-they have lost their dignity. I really found what you said about lack of empathy thought provoking. Everyone wants to be richer, thinner, more beautiful. Imagine what would happen if people focused on improving their manners, poise, kindness, and patience.
@dsmith9796
@dsmith9796 7 месяцев назад
Well said.
@rebeccawhite7448
@rebeccawhite7448 7 месяцев назад
People don’t care about politeness , it doesn’t get clicks on social media. They have made everything disposable including us.
@MissDuke2012
@MissDuke2012 7 месяцев назад
I care. Many people I know care. Be the change you want to see.
@ethiopiazoldyk4667
@ethiopiazoldyk4667 7 месяцев назад
​@@MissDuke2012true. It starts with us ❤
@SwetlanasCozyplace
@SwetlanasCozyplace 7 месяцев назад
It is sad though. What does it mean people value? Attention? Money? In the past those things were highly depended on your family and connections. Hence why manners were important. Now with so much freedom it seems like humans don't know how to be a part of a community anymore.
@ethiopiazoldyk4667
@ethiopiazoldyk4667 7 месяцев назад
@@SwetlanasCozyplace I agree
@Oraclestwin
@Oraclestwin 7 месяцев назад
As society, we need to stop rewarding drama, aggression and poor behavior. The algorithms also need to be revamped to help reward behavior benefitting society instead of monetization.
@Ellsped10
@Ellsped10 7 месяцев назад
Having grown up in a European culture, I’ve always changed clothes before going out or wear decent clothes at home so I don’t have to change! But I’ve heard people referring to me as bougie (wrong spelling) which I don’t know the meaning of! I’m not going to change because I also get special treatment especially when I’m traveling or even ordering coffee etc!! 😊❤
@Goddess_erika
@Goddess_erika 7 месяцев назад
Don’t change. You don’t want to bring yourself down to “the norm” (=trash)
@sarahannsmith3129
@sarahannsmith3129 7 месяцев назад
Good for you.....don't change!
@Ellsped10
@Ellsped10 7 месяцев назад
@@Goddess_erika thanks 😊
@audreya4762
@audreya4762 7 месяцев назад
I think it's an intentional mispronunciation of "bourgeois."
@tulip811
@tulip811 7 месяцев назад
​​@@audreya4762it's like an adjective for it. That's why it's short.
@lenoraantonina
@lenoraantonina 7 месяцев назад
As a gen z, I value the way I act, my manners and etiquette. I wasn’t rich, but having respect for others and myself should be considered as a norm
@RockyMoth
@RockyMoth 4 месяца назад
“Your appearance matters. Not out of vanity, but out of respect. Respect for yourself and respect for others. When I look around society today and see people wearing pajamas and all other goofy stuff in public, while I understand all the ‘free to be me’ stuff, I also start to understand that maybe just maybe appearance really does matter. Humans are extremely judgemental and will judge you by your attire and appearance, (probably because humans are also very visual). This brings me to why I believe there is a lack of respect even more today. We see old photos of society and fashion pretty much ruled all. It was like a uniform. It commanded respect. We should get back to that. Maybe it will reshape how we treat each other.” -Scott Thaler
@stayfocused1041
@stayfocused1041 10 дней назад
Totally agree! The basis must be respect, morals and dignity. Add class and elegance if possible. Also, something that Europeans are more keen on, is the difference between public and private persona. Americans tend to blur the difference. Dress anyway you want inside the privacy of your home, but when in public, behave with good boundaries and dress with respect and dignity, for self and others.
@annie-sc
@annie-sc 7 месяцев назад
What's worse is that tacky behavior is somewhat even glorified nowadays. Some people equate this behavior as being "real." Unfortunately, the people in my country voted for some old man who liked to cuss in TV as president. 🤮 They praised him for being "genuine" as this uncouth personality wasn't normally observed from other politicians.
@vinnienanda
@vinnienanda 7 месяцев назад
Which country are you from ?
@rhondaharris398
@rhondaharris398 7 месяцев назад
And before that some who proudfully admitted to drug use and sex with young females in the oval office...and the list goes on and on...but sure...worry about some bad words on TV...which you can choose any channel and find any bad words you wish...
@StarGazer918
@StarGazer918 7 месяцев назад
BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD. Period.
@annie-sc
@annie-sc 7 месяцев назад
​@@rhondaharris398that's not the point. 😊
@corinal5055
@corinal5055 7 месяцев назад
@@rhondaharris398 and wasn't that a major, MAJOR world-wide scandal? Because everyone was shocked? That't the point, nowadays you can do every crass thing and a lot of people won't bat an eye.
@liaazaz1872
@liaazaz1872 7 месяцев назад
I am gen z but i love everything elegant and i think its horrible that you cant do anything nowadays without it being called out !
@donnabrown744
@donnabrown744 7 месяцев назад
Manners and class never go out of style, that's why I enjoy your channel.
@Malene1992
@Malene1992 7 месяцев назад
My mom raised me to be very lady like and always treat people respectfully. We never cuss in public, which some people find weird.
@user-xd4pn9jz1i
@user-xd4pn9jz1i 7 месяцев назад
Bad parenting 100% ….parents don’t discipline anymore. So when kids don’t learn to respect their parents why would they respect anyone else in society. Lack of fathers also mentally impact children so much.
@SearchIndex
@SearchIndex 7 месяцев назад
If it were bad parenting 100% it wouldn’t always happen when there was a perfect storm of landownership law, family law, employment law, hospital/asylum law, drug/medication law
@beegood14
@beegood14 7 месяцев назад
Their parents are also behaving rude and vulgar.
@carrie-joylloyd5785
@carrie-joylloyd5785 7 месяцев назад
Unfortunately it's against the law to discipline children in UK hence the unruly ignorant youngsters roaming the streets. I wonder what it will be like in 10yrs time.
@kerryhorwitz4093
@kerryhorwitz4093 7 месяцев назад
Bit difficult to discipline your children when the WOKE alt-left have renamed discipline as child abu^e. Try to introduce chores and you might find yourself reported to child protective services. It is also worth saying that young people spend time influenced by more than their parents. The (horrifying) education system, entertainment industry that is vulgarity set to music. A comprehensive cross-generational study discovered that a person's personality is developed more by the generation they come from than the family who raised them. Parents do play a role. I once got to know many Sikh people who had children that were a delight. I remember being told how shocked they were by American movies where the teenager goes off to her bedroom alone. In most Sikh families everyone spends the evening together in the sitting room. A family. This was once us, but is no more.
@welshlady212000
@welshlady212000 3 месяца назад
It’s alarming your first thought is to punish a child, if they don’t know something, it’s because they weren’t taught. If people TAUGHT their children something in the first place, then DISCIPLINE wouldn’t be needed as much.
@reginasemenenko148
@reginasemenenko148 7 месяцев назад
Sometimes I just don't know how to act because people think you are RUDE, STUCK UP. They think you are acting as if you are better than they are. It's so hard to be nice to folks these days. I remember having a required etiquette class in high school, but it was a private school and the class was basic. The idea was that school is about educating the whole person and academics was one part of it, but not the only one. My husband is from Europe and he still can't believe the things he sees and hears.
@abarbaradorsey3713
@abarbaradorsey3713 7 месяцев назад
I raised my three sons with formality early so as toddlers they could introduce themselves and address adults with easy Sir and Ma’am. Holding doors, rising when an elder comes in the room, everything. Oh, people rode us about our approach but after the were 9 years old I never had to worry about how they would behave socially. It gives them confidence and yes, distinguishes them. Not hard, just do it, and be an example yourself.
@PoneThePerfumer
@PoneThePerfumer 7 месяцев назад
You are absolutely correct about the lack of class in our society; I feel like wrong is right and right is wrong. There is just such a break down of morals today; how did we get to this place?!
@Ang_Nicole
@Ang_Nicole 7 месяцев назад
I still remember the days when my parents would teach me to refrain from speaking about politics, religion, and drama in public. What a time (I’m only 25 btw lol).
@kevinbutler1968
@kevinbutler1968 7 месяцев назад
Lack of class can be down to any of the following, having no respect, lack of personal responsibility, no tolerance of others, too much liberalism, laziness, too much me me me, lack of kindness, pride in yourself etc. And sadly, I don't think it will get better anytime soon.
@heathermanning5368
@heathermanning5368 7 месяцев назад
🎯🎯🎯Agree!!! 💯
@StrawberryPropertyManagement
@StrawberryPropertyManagement 7 месяцев назад
“Liberalism” is NOT the problem. “Conservatives” act even more atrocious than most liberals do. Perfect example: trumpism encourages the absolute lowest class and worst possible behavior while simultaneously degrading “liberals” for trying to be tolerant of others. Pro tip: tolerance is classy!!!!
@ClaraWeirdoMiss
@ClaraWeirdoMiss 6 месяцев назад
What do you mean by: to many libéralisme? Is it: oh if im free to do everything i can Hurt others and not be mindful of people? Because a fondation, to me, of libéralisme is that everyone has à place to be themselves. Which also means: your freedom stops where the freedom of another starts. This garantees equality and safety
@ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800
@ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800 7 месяцев назад
Speaking of class and shoes, what astounded me were the expensive sneakers that looked used. I was flabbergasted that these were popular. I think they were called Golden Goose or something like that? I was kind of angry that seemingly well dressed women were buying them, promoting the fashion of intentionally grubby looking clothes. I felt the same way when I saw that many “ladies who lunch” were wearing shredded, holey jeans. AND those awful suits that looked like the lady stole her obese great uncle’s suit and then put a belt on it… Whaaa…?
@marie.s9995
@marie.s9995 4 месяца назад
I am so glad you are coaching elegance, decency, humility and traditional values.
@scarlettohara843
@scarlettohara843 7 месяцев назад
Excellent. Excellent message. And yes, social media is the downfall of our society and good behavior.
@sharannda7883
@sharannda7883 7 месяцев назад
Thank you, Anna. This is a great post and much needed by everyone. I grew up in the 50s and have pleasant memories of a much classier time.
@debbiemize2269
@debbiemize2269 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video! I am of the Baby Boomer generation, and was brought up that I should always strive to look and act my best. I still do that! I have noticed such a decline in nog only looking your best, but acting your best! You have done so much for me, and I thank you ♥️
@EA-tf5jq
@EA-tf5jq 7 месяцев назад
How to stay classy and elegant in university without appearing boring or snobbish? What kind of clothes to wear in university to look elevated but not too much? Please make a video about this!
@Aimzify
@Aimzify 6 месяцев назад
Be classy but add some twist/ pop of color
@user-uo1xn7kv4r
@user-uo1xn7kv4r 4 месяца назад
Why are you afraid of looking snobbish? Are you paralised by the fear of being judged by stupid people?
@mcspankie2010
@mcspankie2010 7 месяцев назад
Truth! A lot of people are rude and crude. Women cursing and spitting, sitting with legs apart....I could on and on thank you for this video.
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 7 месяцев назад
Men,piercing their noses and ears,coloring their hair, wearing women's clothing,having purses , I mean you do know that ,it's not class when men also do those things you mentioned right?
@jasg771
@jasg771 7 месяцев назад
What about men cursing?
@pinkaddiction13
@pinkaddiction13 7 месяцев назад
It's been bothering me to see so many online sites having models pose with their legs spread eagle. I mean EVEN IN BIKINIS and underwear.its disgusting ans I can't believe nobody sees anything wrong with it. You would think it was for a men's magazine or something. How is that ad effective for the bikini or panties? Ew
@mcspankie2010
@mcspankie2010 7 месяцев назад
@@pinkaddiction13 No doubt, I saw an elderly fitness lady on YT posing with legs spread. It was so undignified and surprising to see that.
@amaroariseo4142
@amaroariseo4142 7 месяцев назад
Pardon? Even men to be honest, mostly men, because from the start, the "crude" and "crass" actions were only copied from men🤷🏻‍♀️ or "boys" in this case.
@thelibrarian948
@thelibrarian948 7 месяцев назад
I think it has a lot to do with the fact that self expression and individualism are so over-glorified, especially in America, and having class is all about controlling your expressions to contribute to civility.
@clariashmusic
@clariashmusic 7 месяцев назад
I absolutely agree, Anna, thank you! As a new mother, I find even more that I am craving human connection and a sense of community. It’s so sad that these things are on the decline. I’m all for joining the quest for change!
@thehuntress8850
@thehuntress8850 7 месяцев назад
It is so hard, to get out and socilize when you are a new mother. Me and a thousand other mothers, her on You Tube, have felt your pain and we are cheering for you!!!!!!!
@clariashmusic
@clariashmusic 7 месяцев назад
@@thehuntress8850thank you so much, fellow mumma bear! 💪❤️
@diane2062
@diane2062 7 месяцев назад
Thank goodness someone out there believes like she does. I don’t see much class in my workplace. Thank you Anna for encouraging me today.
@brittanyg6796
@brittanyg6796 7 месяцев назад
There has always been vulgar behavior. What's considered vulgar has changed (women wearing pants was vulgar not so long ago in Western culture). Social media just allows us to broadcast it now, and it gets more attention than appropriate behavior.
@jasg771
@jasg771 7 месяцев назад
What about men wearing dresses?
@TinaB.-fr1hl
@TinaB.-fr1hl 7 месяцев назад
Very true that we see more misbehaviour because everything can be recorded. What's considered vulgar does evolve but there's a difference between someone doing something that only affects them and acting out towards other people with a lack of empathy. We definitely see alot more of that today and not just because it can be recorded but because a don't give a f**k attitude is more celebrated now than it used to be.
@VBoo459
@VBoo459 7 месяцев назад
Also vulgur
@BeauQuillen
@BeauQuillen 7 месяцев назад
@@jasg771 DEEP DOWN WE ARE ALL QUEER
@mtngrl5859
@mtngrl5859 7 месяцев назад
@@jasg771 That's part of the socially engineering that is going down. Breaking down gender roles, frankly making women less attractive. I live in Silicon Valley & the attention I get when I wear a dress is amazing, there is a hunger for a feminine woman and I'm not a super girly girl type.
@mcspankie2010
@mcspankie2010 7 месяцев назад
Also since COVID some people have forgotten how to act around others they have become feral thanks again for addressing all of this
@americafirst9144
@americafirst9144 7 месяцев назад
🤣🤣🤣
@newenglandgirl9523
@newenglandgirl9523 7 месяцев назад
Have become feral..that is the best word for what is happening now😊
@mallorygraf8574
@mallorygraf8574 7 месяцев назад
😂😂😂 Pefect description!
@SheCodes2024
@SheCodes2024 3 месяца назад
Lmao feral is spot on
@LittleRedIrishRover
@LittleRedIrishRover 7 месяцев назад
Amen! Anna, I really appreciate you speaking up about these things, and you in turn have inspired me to be brave and take a stand on matters from class and behaviour to dress codes. I was born in 2000, so sadly I am Gen Z. I agree with everything said here. I've been saying for awhile that human decency is becoming a thing of the past and it's horrific seeing such atrocious behaviour being normalised and even glorified these days. Look at politicians, look at celebrities, look at social media. Look at people in public! I used to complain about how awful the 2010s were, and now I want those years back. I used to be horrified by swearing in public, especially f bombs. Now, it's all too normal to me. I'm not a saint, but when in public, I try really hard to be polite, say my pleases and thank yous and not use bad language. I know younger generations like to say that older generations were rude to people who worked in public but honestly, I see more rude young people than older people and this is coming from someone who has worked in customer service for over 5 years and has dealt with rudeness from people of all ages. I also agree that social media has a huge influence on this, especially on younger people who are more impressionable. I also totally agree that the current generation gets bent out shape way too easily, to put it nicely. One comedian group I love did this really funny skit where they pretended to be Gen Z people who were confused by old devices. And the comments were full of people complaining about how they didn't like Gen Z being made fun of (but boomer jokes were OK). Mind you, these comedians were not in any way being cruel or degrading towards people of that generation. I once had a conversation with someone around my age where I brought up how much it bothered me that people are so rude, aggressive and horrible to each other. And their response was basically, "well, being nice and polite makes the problem worse because they'll just pretend to be sincere so people have a right to be angry nowadays." I strongly disagree. You can acknowledge your feelings and defend something you believe in passionately without being rude or violent about it. Someone once told me that I can't change the world. But I can be the good change in the world. And that's what I try to be. It's not easy in world that views kindness as weak and class as selfish. All I hope is that I can continue to improve, and I hope I can inspire other people, especially younger ones, to do the same.
@nataliemoldofsky4028
@nataliemoldofsky4028 7 месяцев назад
“The definition of a gentleman or a lady (being classy) is someone who always tries to make sure the people around him or her are as comfortable as possible.” Blast from the Past 😊 our society is unfortunately the opposite. We have bred narcissism.
@user-uo1xn7kv4r
@user-uo1xn7kv4r 4 месяца назад
That's not the definition at all.
@nataliemoldofsky4028
@nataliemoldofsky4028 4 месяца назад
@@user-uo1xn7kv4r I guess you didn’t notice that I was quoting a comedy movie and was being facetious 🙄 Obviously it’s not the Webster definition….next time I’ll add more context specifically for you 😉
@user-uo1xn7kv4r
@user-uo1xn7kv4r 4 месяца назад
@@nataliemoldofsky4028 Comedy or not, that's not what being classy is about. In fact, physical and psychological comfort has nothing to do with class at all. Sloppiness and insouciance are about comfort.
@nataliemoldofsky4028
@nataliemoldofsky4028 4 месяца назад
@@user-uo1xn7kv4r lol yea that’s the point…ummm. It was clearly NOT a definition lol 😂 I was quoting “BLAST FROM THE PAST” which you’ve clearly never seen lmao 🤣
@nataliemoldofsky4028
@nataliemoldofsky4028 4 месяца назад
@@user-uo1xn7kv4r also, I’m sorry you have no sense of humor. That must really suck
@trekstarsam2494
@trekstarsam2494 7 месяцев назад
This is just the message society needs to hear today. But since I can only control my own behavior, I will definitely make sure today to carry myself with more class and grace.
@user-xv5oy3hs9c
@user-xv5oy3hs9c 7 месяцев назад
Yes you are hundred percent correct,all over the world is happening but it is mostly in US the sloppiness in dressing in the states is especially evident.
@annalytic
@annalytic 7 месяцев назад
And the poor behaviour in public places.
@abicharlton1393
@abicharlton1393 7 месяцев назад
As a high schooler in England, I honestly think that my fellow students should be more respectful and pleasant to be around.... I'm not sure why so many people in my generation are horrible to each other
@Bvillo
@Bvillo 7 месяцев назад
Last year we went to Italy with my husband. As we arrived to the Budapest airport (we were dressed pretty, not sloppy, and we just overall behaved nicely, calm and happy as we use to do) a hungarian woman who worked on the ground floor as an assistant just came to us and immediatelly adressed us in english (I have heard her earlier figuring out who might be foreign and who might be hungarian, so she addressed them accordingly). We of course responded in english and she helped us with our luggage, with our check in, showing the place around quickly and told us to let her know if we will need any more help. What a treatment! I have never had this treatment before, when I dressed like a plain jane. Putting an effort in your appearance doesn't cost you too much money. What we were wearing costed less than 50 euro in total but still made a well put together impression. Your behavior can be developed from zero money, just a bit of awareness and emphaty is needed. And this is not about people pleasing at all, just like Anna said. In our case for example it is just very pleasant for other people to be around us, but we also have strong boundaries what makes the wrong type of people to stay away from us. And you don't have to be rude. We got some people in our community who were quite disrespectfull to us. We just didn't go out with them anymore and didn't try to call them etc. You don't allways have to be agreasive or defensive. Just be honest, and choose the right tool for each situation. If you are honest with yourself, you will admit that most of the upsetting situations require no agreasive response to solve. Most of the time ignorance, steping away, assertive communication, education and consistency in your behavior is the key to solve the conflict. Don't be a fool who stucks in a silly argument or fight just to have the last word. Simply saying "we will never agree on this one, I am closing the discussion right now from my side" and leave is my ultimate make people to stop the drama etc technique. It always works, amd they will just stay there with tgeir jaws drop, you will walk away calmly like a king or queen.
@vivianfolsom9341
@vivianfolsom9341 7 месяцев назад
I loved this video! As my mother said, it costs nothing to have class and good manners. Bad manners will get you thrown out of everywhere but good manners and respect and kindness are always in style! ❤❤
@urbanfox5867
@urbanfox5867 7 месяцев назад
The definition of 'class' hasn't changed. It's just been eliminated. Look at our Congress, even. Declassee is hateful, unintelligent and rude. It seems to be becoming the norm.
@urszulapiwowarczyk5962
@urszulapiwowarczyk5962 7 месяцев назад
Idiocracy is coming…
@lana-jg4ho
@lana-jg4ho 7 месяцев назад
On both sides too lol the real problem is that the mask of civility has slipped off and the common folk are seeing their masters in their true form.
@kathleenking47
@kathleenking47 7 месяцев назад
It could be the GENERATION BABY BOOMERS didn't pass certain things down
@susangray45
@susangray45 7 месяцев назад
Anna, I really enjoyed this entire video. I always practice class, being polished in both communication and dress. While my co-workers dress casually and speak with slang, high-end clients at my workplace always search ME out for assistance. It really is a lost art unfortunately.
@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64
@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64 7 месяцев назад
I have also experienced a bunch of grown ignoramuses on my last job cursing as if they had no scruples whatsoever. These were so-called educated people in a professional environment. I remember one time the big boss got wind of several employees standing near the entryway of the office engrossed in a epithet-filled conversation. During a meeting, she addressed the problem. Immediately afterward, those same ignoramuses went right back out and began their curse-laden conversation again. I felt sickened by their behavior; they were told to stop but chose to continue despite being warned about it. This happened at a hospice company if you can believe that. Hospice is supposed to provide people with compassionate, dignified care during their last days of life. But this is what went on behind the scenes.
@Lyric_King_MUSIC
@Lyric_King_MUSIC 7 месяцев назад
This is so true. I feel out of place when I have manners now
@guerralg63
@guerralg63 7 месяцев назад
Out of place and over dressed. This is how people who make an effort feel around today's society.
@KazieD
@KazieD 7 месяцев назад
Classy people are deemed as a threat by the average Joe's, projecting and deflecting is all they know. Class is timeless and will never go out of style, and I intend to be true to myself regardless how people perceive me. ❤
@Lukas_Schanderl
@Lukas_Schanderl 7 месяцев назад
That's one of the things I highly appreciate about living in Asia
@mariampm1769
@mariampm1769 7 месяцев назад
I am glad I have followed Anna for many years. I am still in my 20's and thanks to her I am having a better life ( in terms of quality, elegance and intelligence). Also, you attract what you project. Now my circle and everything around me have improved. I am becoming the woman I want to be. Thank you Anna! ♡
@marytalbott9251
@marytalbott9251 7 месяцев назад
Class - It’s having good manners, respect for oneself and others!
@Ijlallittleworld1752
@Ijlallittleworld1752 7 месяцев назад
Speaking of GEN Z, am i the only gen z watching anna ? Born in 2002 here . I actually enjoy all of your content, i look up to you and every other elegant lady and i am working on myself to be one 💗. Much love 💗.
@lore5080
@lore5080 7 месяцев назад
Also 2002 here! I love Anna ❤
@aditi6813
@aditi6813 7 месяцев назад
You're not the only one...Gen z here too
@EkviraRmaos
@EkviraRmaos 7 месяцев назад
No right here an always ❤ hi
@teri2855
@teri2855 7 месяцев назад
2003 here!
@-why6039
@-why6039 7 месяцев назад
2002 here also 🎉🎉
@lauramb946
@lauramb946 5 месяцев назад
Totally agree, Anna. Thank you for covering so many points. I used to work at luxury hospitality and I was so impressed how some of the wealthiest guests looked so down to earth and were so polite and humble , so "low key" people. They were the most respectful and giving people, and some others came around yelling and demanding with no please and thank you... So snob and rude to waiters or clerks. That´s when I learned that you cannot buy manners, education, or class with money. Times change, but values stay forever.
@uscitizen898
@uscitizen898 3 месяца назад
I definitely agree with you! There is an old saying "Money can't buy class". I didn't come from a wealthy family nor am I wealthy today but I'm often told I'm classy.
@lindamacgregor8039
@lindamacgregor8039 7 месяцев назад
Anna, post WW11, TV became a major influence with advertising growing more and more powerful. The objective was to develop generations of consumers and in order to accomplish this aim, the 'throw-away' culture was an absolute necessity.
@whfh178
@whfh178 7 месяцев назад
I agree with most of what you say. However, I do believe that it is possible to stay at home forever, and still have class. I am focused on myself, I've never been a fan of socialization, and the pandemic for me was the best thing since I get to stay home everyday. I may not be happy to see people, but that doesn't mean I don't have manners. It baffles me how people can just live like nothing else matters just because they get to stay home. We can be hermits and still have class ❤
@samsamsi9550
@samsamsi9550 6 месяцев назад
This is one of your best speaches to the heart ❤ It's a manifest for humanity. Respectful people are automatically classy. Close to the heart, means being beautiful and elegant, and so sparkle like a diamond from the inside.
@deannadime4486
@deannadime4486 7 месяцев назад
I agree with you on that. Good moral values and concern to others is deteriorating. And good values will never ever be old fashioned.
@rezkerry8809
@rezkerry8809 7 месяцев назад
I think if more of us aspire to be classy, we may in turn inspire others to be more classy. I know I was inspired by my grandmothers and by a family friend to emulate their class and grace.
@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx 7 месяцев назад
I wish more ppl talk about this and maybe we can make it a trend bc omg society it’s trash now
@SMR218
@SMR218 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video Ana! When I was a teen my parents signed me up for a class with a lady who taught girls how to carry themselves as ladies, how to seat, walk, dress. This was in the 80s in a small country in South America. I learned so much with her, and followed her advice. These days there are a lot more resources available for everyone to learn different things for free, like your channel. How we carry ourselves is a form of communication and people forget, or maybe on purpose, that they can be offensive. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and passion.
@user-yl9ze4yk8o
@user-yl9ze4yk8o 7 месяцев назад
I have noticed the change in how people behave now. Rude, bad manners and so on.
@lauraelizabethbrown
@lauraelizabethbrown 7 месяцев назад
I don't know if society will ever fully return to the way it was. However, I think we're already experiencing some change. I do think the sudden trend around old money might have a little to do with it, but also people are becoming more and more frustrated with the direction of our society. Class is beyond table manners and customs (although these things are great). You can see the most true class in those that are respectful to those around them--and thankfully it's hard to not see through this.
@Anna-fw7lm
@Anna-fw7lm 7 месяцев назад
It's also problematic the fact that more and more people, due to social medias, preach 'diversity' like crazy without realizing they're still locked in their echo chamber trenches. There's no diversity of thoughts, diversity of cultures or experiences. People are disconnected because they don't know how to reach for different things, other than what they already know. It's a narcissistic lazyness epidemic.
@funnygaming2672
@funnygaming2672 7 месяцев назад
so want an echo chamber but plain with no diversity OK seem freedom and tolerance is not your cup of tea.Just do you and live the rest alone. your mentality is why the government cannot resist to had more useless laws.
@mtngrl5859
@mtngrl5859 7 месяцев назад
It's not about diversity, it's about trying to artificially downgrade one culture and prop up another.
@Anna-fw7lm
@Anna-fw7lm 7 месяцев назад
@@mtngrl5859 Are you american? Because I've noticed that when americans use 'culture' they mean something different; they use 'culture' to indicate how they're currently living, the habits and customs they have in the present and the traditions they choose to keep. Otherwise when europeans, for example, use 'culture' they're focusing on the past and its effetc on the present, it's something we cannot choose because it's handed by history to us and, if we mantain traditions or not, when we talk about culture we still don't mean what we're currently doing (or not doing anymore) but what characterized our ancestors. So, from my point of view, I have to respond with a sarcastic: which 'culture' is being propped up? There's no 'culture' in trends, new habits, new language, the 'western' way of living, tecnologies that changes rapidly, etc. That's not what 'culture' is. So from my perspective they're abandoning something in exchange for nothing, for a mockery, for consummerism and emptiness... and maybe, it happens because they don't know what really having a culture means. It feels precious, it's not yours to change because it came from the past, it's already there, it's stable and not negotiable, it cannot be robbed, cannot be altered 'cause you don't have a time machine, cannot be compromised, you're just being a bridge for future generations, or you're just out of it. It only can be abandoned and forgotten... but when will resurface, the 'culture' it's gonna be there in its original form for people to study it and maybe adopted again. Every new phase of a culture is build on the previous phase, for example: italian culture is what happened in ancient times, then we had romans, medieval period, renaissance, etc. In every era they too from other cultures, abandoned something, but keep building of what they had before naming it differently but keep it consistent. We literally build over ruins, americans instead they whipe out before rebuilding... this way they will never have a 'culture' as we mean it. Imagine modern egyptians dismantle pyramids and temples because they want to build something new (they will not, it's a crime against humanity) it' would be absurd, isn't it?
@mtngrl5859
@mtngrl5859 7 месяцев назад
@@Anna-fw7lm Anna, Not to be too ethnocentric but You Tube is an American Platform with English as the default language. While it does have many international members, it is owned by Google, an American company, so the term culture may mean different things to different people. Typically in a work environment there is a certain culture that exists that one either adapts to or one should look for other employment. In Sociology and Psychology there is constant reference to culture and subcultures that exist in society. This is not just an American concept, this is also referenced in academic texts in the UK and other European countries. Here is a quick internet search on culture: What are the different types of culture? • There are different types of culture such as dominant culture, sub culture, global culture and popular culture. • Whereas, identity can be individual identity or group identity. • The relationship between the two stem from culture being the foundation on which identity is created. While the Italian culture may be interwoven with its tradition, culture can change even if tradition remains constant. The first time I went to Italy was in the late 1970's, shortly after the kidnapping and murder of the American Ambassador to Italy by German terrorists. At that time, police with Uzi's were on every corner in Rome. So, the existing culture of society at that time was quite fractured, but the tradition of the country remained in tact. Back then Italian society was known to be highly inefficient-- it took nearly 60 days to get a phone installed, the mail service functioned poorly, I was in Italy for 60 days and the post cards I sent home, arrived several weeks after my return home. Also, if one wanted to conduct business one would need to go to a business in the morning, since there was a good chance after the afternoon meal, the business may or may not be opened. From recent trips, I see this is no longer the case. In fact, much of what I have found to be "charming" about Italy is no longer there. People seem far more rushed in their daily lives, the overuse of cell phones in restaurants to my mind is alarming. Recently Italy has become "conservative" about allowing new residents (migrants and other nationalities) gain residency into their country. This is a departure from it's traditions, but the current culture is pretty strong no immigrants unless they are bringing in substantial wealth into the country. I could go on and on regarding conflicts with the EU regarding certain woke issues like Miss Italy not allowing non-biological women the right to participate like the Netherlands. So, while there is a European tradition there is a difference between different cultures within the European Union. In the Anglosphere (UK,US,CAN,AU,NZ), there is often an understanding or context in what certain terms mean. When one uses the word "cultured" with reference to human beings, it means that there is a refinement or that one is genteel. Typically but not exclusively it means that one has a familiarity and an appreciation for manners, the arts, the ability to converse well and appropriately.
@BSmeansBlueSalad
@BSmeansBlueSalad 7 месяцев назад
Yes! This happens when we all consume similar materials and messages similar to propaganda and how we all think being “diverse” is needing to fit in one of the few “diversity” boxes 🤨
@theclassyconsultant.
@theclassyconsultant. 5 месяцев назад
As a 17 year old trying to level up before graduation, it's crazy to see how many people judge me for dressing better than I used to and not letting myself be walked all over.
@everuiz6196
@everuiz6196 7 месяцев назад
100% AGREE WITH YOU, YOU GIVE US HOPE AND KNOWLEDGE IN THIS CRAZY WORLD. NEVER GIVE UP!!!!
@ShaAurora
@ShaAurora 7 месяцев назад
Nowadays people think it’s a form of weakness if you are polite, kind and respectful. They think being rude and acting disrespectful is something that shows you more powerful. Especially in business world… you are not cool if you are polite. That is the image that they promote with some TV series, „role models“ like some celebrities and so on..
@lonelyplanet2021
@lonelyplanet2021 7 месяцев назад
Class means discretion and privacy which is the opposite of social media contents of the majority of people
@nelsonvazquez8104
@nelsonvazquez8104 7 месяцев назад
I definitely agree I think having social graces, chivalry or even bed side manner is very important because it fosters trust with people around you, you feel more comfortable around people who behave appropriately, and it promotes a well respected society
@cindyriehm7411
@cindyriehm7411 7 месяцев назад
Yes we are lacking in caring
@ewam.3808
@ewam.3808 7 месяцев назад
Anna, thank you for this content. I think in media things are even worse. Now, people who are classy and in shape are labeled negatively.
@charmmaeonineza1501
@charmmaeonineza1501 7 месяцев назад
Definitely can relate to this. I have a working student in my business, and having spent some time talking with her I learned that she used to have friends who do a lot of toxic and crazy things. Her mother actually advised her to stay away from them, and she herself learned the hard way after getting backstabbed and used for her friends' personal "reputation gain", so now she focuses instead on her education and career growth (since they're not really well-to-do). Today, compared to her friends she has a more stable job, is on her way to completing school, and has a more stable relationship with other people, while her friends (and friends of her former friends) still occasionally message her talking about their toxic relationship woes.
@EstherRezvani
@EstherRezvani 6 месяцев назад
Anna, I watched you when you first started . I was just looking to be a better version of me for me. I love this. Keep going. No matter what anyone says.
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